Learning to Love Yourself

PlanBri Uncut Ep.124 with Brianna "Chickenfry" LaPaglia and Grace O’Malley
00:00 - Intro
01:21 - Root of Body Issues
22:57 - Acne & Boobs
43:09 - Male Validation
01:11:22 - Voicemails & Emails
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[@hattiehoerr7815]

Personally, I am loving more Gia content on this as well! Gia flows so well with them & you wouldn't be able to tell she didn't grow up as a forever friend with the two.

[@elizabethtorres9624]

she has the best personality!

[@analiseanderson8628]

love gia so much

[@graceallisonn]

😊😅😊😊😊😊😊

[@Jackieee2000]

This has become one of my favorite podcasts to listen to. It’s so comforting I literally feel like y’all are my friends

[@maddiemeyers6281]

Ugh you guys get me through. Also I love Gias takes and attitude. She’s so awesome

[@haileywojcik19]

this podcast should be broadcasted to the world broooo, i think every woman has felt every section and conversation of this episode!!! it’s so sad to think how unhappy we were at such a young age over shit that wasn’t even a problem. thank you guys for being the realest, forever wanna be friends with you all 🥹🫶🏼

[@Kayleenicholson0701]

GRACE!!! You’re beautiful, that’s it. You and bri have NATURAL beauty, and I love that you both don’t change yourselves for social media. You give me hope in this world for my daughter 🤍

[@Victoria_flss]

welllllll bri got a boob job and a nose job but sure

[@giamarotta3345]

I absolutely live for Gracie girl, she’s legit the best thing ever and I relate to her so much it’s insane we should probably jus hang out now

[@AliciaVaughn]

You all talking like this is actually besties for life!! Me and my bestie have known eachother for 22 years now and this is us all day everyday!! Love all you ladies! ❤️

[@Niicoledesousa]

Omg the makeup thing can’t be more true! It’s sad because when family members tell you not to wear makeup bc you’re too young but when you’re older they tell you you should start wearing makeup…

[@kaleyanderson8352]

1 gias mom is my mom. 2 I’m a server and there was a family sitting at a table. The daughter was around 19. The mom said to her “you look like you’ve lost weight”! And the daughter just completely ignored her and looked away from her. The mom then said “it’s a compliment I don’t know what’s wrong with what I said” the daughter responded “my body is not your business”. I wanted to give her a hug. I wish I had the balls to say that to my mom.

[@emilygallagher5554]

I’m doing a research study for my final project of my senior year of college on the effects social media has on anxiety and body image with our generation and I love that you guys are bringing up real and interesting topics!! Great to hear your input I’ll definitely be using it for my presentation! ❤️

[@marissavingara]

I just wanna hug Grace, i love her

[@KC-wz8sb]

Grace the mick O'malley is a superior human being. love you grace

[@8yogirl]

I love you 3. This dynamic is everything

[@samirae3899]

I love Gias laugh it makes me smile every time lol

[@bethmaguire414]

One of the many times I was dress coded was on the first day of school senior year. I wore a sun dress that my aunt got me that summer, I felt beautiful and looked nice. I was crushed all day wearing a stinky t shirt that hadn’t been washed all summer. I was a shy kid and it really embarrassed the shit out of me. I developed faster than others and the adults at school punished me for it, and the adults in my life stopped treating me like a kid, “oh you’re so mature!” Bitch I’m 12 I just grew into my 5’9 height and women body all too quick! I still have the dress and when I wear it I still question what the teacher was thinking, it still hurts me to this day.

[@toripurvis8399]

BRI i’m so glad u are here!!!! Pls never forgot we love u so much!!!!

[@melodybocanegra0509]

Loved the dynamic between you three in this episode so much. Great topic to talk about and needs to be talked about more. You all are so beautiful inside and out.💗

[@bethmaguire414]

My boyfriend and I just went shopping and he was the same exact size pants in every store. Where I’m a 10, 9, 8, 7, or 6 depending on the brand. Or I’m a S, M or L. Brands that run so small make it worse for body dysmorphia, I think if women had across the board sizing it would help.

[@katiegrigat5688]

Loved everything about this episode

[@addyson5159]

OHMYGODDDDDD the way I was having a convo with myself about this shit today! This couldn’t have come out at a better time

[@addieschwartz7095]

Love you guys. You make me feel like you're my close friends with this podcast 💛

[@sarahouellette6022]

I really loved this episode

[@moconnor1189]

I will literally stick up for them till I die. I'm 32 and I wiiiiish you guys were around 10 years ago. Keep doing you.

[@christinwilson4058]

Honestly, I am so glad you guys shed light on this topic. I am considered "plus size" and you guys did a great job of representing both females and those of us who "don't fit the image." The thing that gets me the most is clothing. Look at a mens sm md large vs a womens sm md large. The difference in sm md large in womes is near non-existent in most cases.

[@sofiastavaris1934]

My sister works in the beauty industry and to the point that Gia made about male makeup… gender neutral makeup is on the rise and beauty companies are making a push to create tinted moisturizers for men and stuff (not a man sympathizer but interesting point about male beauty)

[@andreastevens1331]

One of my favorite episodes!! 🧡🧡🧡

[@madisoncohen8222]

i loved this so much i want to listen again

[@marissakr]

Loved this episode! Probably my favourite yet. I also love Gia giving her take on everything. She seems so sweet and down to earth like the two of you. Thanks for this ladies! ☺️

[@nicemmmm]

LMFAOO PLZ EXPENSE THE TRUE MIRROR 😭😭 that would be pretty awesome honestly!! I’m finally finishing this pod & i just wanna say this was so good & so important & hope u guys continue to talk ab things like this in the future ALSO ALL 3 OF U ARE SO BEAUTIFUL ALWAYS REMEMBER!

[@italian_god2231]

I’m a gay dude and I’m embracing my Dark eye bags. I choose to be who I am!! And embrace my eye bags hhaha

[@yittyess]

I love you both grace and bri. I agree with everything u say and I wish people would agree too and change the themselves to the better. I watch all your videos btw. I'm a big fan.

[@nicemmmm]

LOL THE TRIGGER WARNING IN THE BEGINNING🤣❤️ love u guys so much & glad u guys are talking ab this

[@ellahuertas2626]

This helped me so much

[@rileighhardy3564]

I love you guys, i literally just turn these on when i’m doing my makeup or pregaming, like you guys are my friends and i don’t care if you disagree

[@IM-cl8ob]

best episode by far.

[@sydneywingate1928]

I loved this episode

[@alexadawson9254]

Totally can relate to this . I have always been athletic since i was in 1st grade . I had a fast metabolism . Until after highschool i gained a little weight in college . My parents are gym rats , they constantly pushed that on me and then i would view the gym as a negative space versus a positive one because i was being told to go for not the right purpose . Also my grandma everytime i see her , there is a comment on me losing or gaining weight . Its a never ending battle . And it fucks with my mental health for sure when your family wants to view you a certain way . Even though i am healthy and happy . For some reason my body image to them is more important . And i hate that .

[@jenileighb]

“I wish I had a motorcycle boyfriend…with a coke habit” same grace…. Same

[@melusalas]

i love the accidental color combination of bri and grace

[@KC-wz8sb]

bri plz spill the beans on where u get ur sweaters

[@sarahgloria9671]

It’s hard comparing ur self when ur in hs bc u have girls like grace who matured quickly and then u also have girls who get their first period at 18. I look back too and I was never big I was just friends with girls who did dance and weighed 80 pounds

[@courtneydineen4704]

Can we stop telling people their faces are red when they’re embarrassed!! Thank you, I can feel my skin burning I know it’s red 🙄

[@kiersynknight4923]

Why is this what I searched to watch to calm me down after having an anxiety attack after the dentist… hahaha love this podcast

[@quinnseslowsky4947]

You guys feel like my sister ❤

[@teensavenue]

grace looks absolutely phenomenal

[@Dookieemannn]

Love you guys

[@kaitlinbounds6936]

This episode was everything, and more! Everyone should listen. You 3 are such great people, I love listening to you all 🤍

[@kiahmurfin9159]

Grace looks so beautiful

[@zdotspade]

Hi bri new fan cuz of theo, just wanna show my love to you and how real you keep it and authentic you are. Not to mention you’re top ten most beautiful people in the world without an ounce of the effort that all the other girls put into it. I heard what you said about being happy with where you are working w barstool but they are holding you back. (Didn’t even tell you you were the top creator etc) they aren’t paying you enough, they are probably effing you tbh. If you leave them and go independent… or start your own businesses, you’ll blow up and make 10x the bread. You are beautiful enough and dope enough and down to earth enough to take the male podcast audience by the short hairs and have one of the biggest podcasts ever. You and theo was the bestt. You were amazing on TPW. You and theo could do a podcast together or you could just start doing your own solo podcast where you have guests like theo and other comedians and even athletes entertainers etc. love ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ you and theo would be the cutest couple ever btw. He would be good to you 🥰🥺🥹🥲

[@haileyriggins6726]

I got made fun of for pimples on my chest too. Made me self conscious af for YEARS.

[@addieschwartz7095]

My ex literally told me if I was skinnier he wouldn't date me and it made me feel awful 😕

[@SmileGorgeous13]

I’ve been struggling with my body image since I was about 7 (I’m 27 now). I didnt realize I was bigger or “hairy” until my peers and family pointed it out to me. It was so bad that i would put skinny and blonde or the popular girls name on the “what do you want to be when your older/ I wish..” activities. My elementary school made me see the guidance counselor until 5th grade. She was nice but coloring It didn’t help.

[@KC-wz8sb]

next weeks topic : gym teachers and janitor stories PLEASE

[@jennagracefranco312]

I was 13 when Mean Girls came out and me and the other members of my “squad” 💀 literally re-enacted the mirror scene playing pretend at the rec center. Core fuckin memory. Y’all are queens. 😘

[@jennagracefranco312]

Also Cady said her flaw was she had really bad breath in the morning. I could never forget my line.

[@themorg]

Bri need to know where u got that hoodie babe

[@carolinerrowe1]

I LOVE YOU HUYS SO MUCH

[@evaxcarlaa]

Hiii girls i think you should à episode where you talk about love (issues and success)…

[@katlynmorley2936]

Wowwww I just related to the acne stories bri just told and woww the trauma I have from it

[@ameliasage3924]

I never wore makeup like that only on certain occasions, and so when I do wear makeup it’s like “ omg ur wearing makeup” or “ omg you look pretty” so it works Both ways we can’t win really 🤣🤣🤣

[@savannahvasquez600]

I love when they don’t have guest 😂 most of the time I just wanna hear them speak

[@laurenmoss3653]

The chokehold tumblr had in middle school me 😂 I was in my car lisntening to this smiling bc how comforting it was to hear my Lana del Rey old men fetish- anoerxia- self harm era wasn’t just me, also- the fact that I’m 22 now and still slip into that shit to this day bc it was my coping mechanism growing up- so it’s not an app the time thing just when I’m going absolutely mental in the brain but yeah the middle school phase of getting a bag of chips for lunch…… wild and shaped me as a person lmao

[@mackenziedechick9811]

Can we talk about the fact that I got in school suspension multiple times in middle school just for wearing leggings to school , and to then come home and get grounded for weeks for getting ISS 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[@Clairesworld4]

I'm a high school teacher and we don't have a dress code, which I think is awesome. (:

[@SammySprinks]

Reserved was the word I think Gia was lookin for

[@jessicachantal]

Ugh the tampon thing! I went almost 6 months with not putting them in right. So uncomfortable but i was in 7th grade Nd super insecure and embarresed.

[@eatmyoctopus]

Don’t give your money to any company that discriminates against women based on appearance

[@ameliasage3924]

Tell me about the mum thing, always asking about boys but it’s so frustrating coz like I’m the bigger one in my group and they will NEVER look at me like that

[@madysongleich5589]

First 🥰🥰 Love you Bri & Grace

[@leah2391]

"it's not the media, it's the men" yuuuup

[@julieholland3745]

I’ve been a size 00 and size 10 .. it doesn’t change who you are one bit. Best way to be is..Zero F’s mentality…Started that in highschool.. and still live by that today.. best way to live and be. We have one life to live and no one is perfect and no one has it figured out.. just live your life ..who cares what anyone thinks. Fuck society and their BS ways.

[@haleyh4579]

i remember my 5th grade school pool party and there was a girl (skinny) in a bikini version of my tankini (chubby) and i almost jumped in the deep end to end it all

[@keykyra3]

NOO NOT LAUREN TIBY I LOVE HER & HER TIKTOKS

[@aubrey6555]

GRACEEEEEEE. You look fuckkkkking fabulous

[@SmileGorgeous13]

Not to mention, most “plus size” models aren’t even a good depiction of a regular plus size women. The models always still have an hour glass shape, flat stomach and small arms. It’s so rare to see a plus size model have broad shoulders, an apple shape body or large rolls.

[@leah2391]

I LITERALLY SAID 12 TOO.. so sad

[@claudiawrenn6507]

omg i love lauren tiby!! those dms were so wack

[@LaurenSummer]

Grace you look stuuuunnninggggg today

[@moconnor1189]

My first time to Miami me (5'9 in the best shape of my life unlike now as my fam reminds me), my two best friends 5'1 blondes, we all got bracelets to get into LIV and Mansion. We decided to start at Mansion first there were two beautiful African America ladies in front of us and were so excited it was there first time to Miami too. The gross ass doorman signaled me and my friends from behind them to come in. I presumed we were all going in together. His troll ass had the audacity to stop them and try to usher us in. First of all, No. Second of all, we ain't items.Third of all, we all walked in together after I cut throat said troll and manager.

[@ADRE444]

Everything is about SALES, body image issues have created millions of jobs and products. Same thing with HOLIDAYS, all about the SALES. from presents to bbqs to candy and costumes. Meanwhile the island of trash in the ocean is like 👍 huge af

[@lonzolopez7761]

Gias laugh is amazing it’s hot asf

[@cakedfacecutie2765]

So lucky I have a mom who doesn’t comment on my body

[@nicolethomasino2100]

Let’s be real who wasn’t making out with everyone on the Xfinity lawn

[@alsinclair99]

bRaIINN 🧠 & hEArttt 🫶🏻 & eYEsssss 👀

[@oscarrey1522]

I’m a man and I respect women more if they’re funny