Leaving a Lover

The plaintiff met the defendant through Snapchat, they began dating, and she loaned him some money for his car insurance. The plaintiff claims the defendant still owes her money, so she’s suing. The defendant insists money went back and forth between them during their relationship. The defendant thinks the plaintiff is just bitter about their breakup.
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[@kristiansmith3207]

As soon as judge said, “I’m gonna talk to you like you’re my daughter..” her entire demeanor changed . There is something bigger going on. She’s so sweet and pretty, I hope she is doing better now.

[@Black0bsidian]

Yes indeed.

[@JillSmith-q8t]

Fish tiiddies

[@shelocsher2396]

Indeed!

[@racheldeborde8237]

Agreed. Poor baby truly needed that 'mama' talk. This is why I love Judge Millian.

[@jennalud4748]

She needs to take time for herself! Self love is very important!🙏🏾

[@PeaceIsAlwaysBeautiful92]

She’s vulnerable and has or had low self esteem. Pray she sets some boundaries and love her self from here on out ❤️😩😩😩

[@jah_blunt]

She not the victim

[@PeaceIsAlwaysBeautiful92]

@@jah_blunt never said she was 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@tonyaharper2468]

Once they ask for money they are blocked and deleted immediately

[@nikkinicole5435]

Right ?! Tf I look like😅

[@barbaracarley3601]

Exactly.

[@P3rmissionD3ni3d]

I had some dude from Instagram that kept messaging me romantic stuff. I wasn’t feeling it but after a few weeks he had built this relationship between us. One I wasn’t apart of. Then he asked for 500$. I was like bro really? If I’m giving away money it won’t be to some Insta stranger.

[@tatanisharoby8531]

Damn right.. even when they "dry beg"!!!

[@wackybrattyx]

@@nikkinicole5435lol, yep, can’t believe men have the audacity. WE should be compensated for gracing them with our presence in the first place. I would never support a man…

[@xoxolaineyoxox]

I’m happy the judge didn’t read out the texts. This girl has already been demeaned enough.

[@Micknkeithable]

She demeans herself

[@tracygomaz1331]

Don't even feel sorry for her. She's needs some sense

[@Joyislove1221]

I said the same thing

[@billyjobobb]

I can’t imagine going to court like this. I’d take the loss and save my dignity

[@barbaracarley3601]

I was thinking the same thing.

[@SWDC1970]

Whew you and me both SMH

[@barbaracarley3601]

@@SWDC1970 I still can’t get over getting a tattoo. 🤔😂

[@shannaholmes833]

Right lol

[@kesybaby5382]

😂😂😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@satansbby]

I felt like the Judge was giving me advice when she said "Oh baby you have your whole life ahead of you, if only I knew what I know now." I just turned the same age as this young woman.

[@mickm6309]

It is good advice for all young people. That girl was very pretty, but she is insecure, there are many guys out there who will love her a lot more than what Richard ever did. And I hope you, if you haven't already, found the man of your dreams.

[@deja14]

Judge didn’t lie. I’m 33 and my sister just turned 23 July 8 and I tell her all the time. Learn from me and my mistakes. If only I knew what I know now lol my life would be sooo different! The fact you’re watching and listening is a good start because some younger women don’t want to listen yet ❤

[@16MedicRN]

Take your time with men ❤

[@georgenicholson6080]

Can I borrow $532?

[@KennuhWayne]

Take heed!

[@missy67]

I'm so glad the judge gave her some advice. To say she still has feelings for him, yet he hasn't paid her back is just sad. He's a user and she's insecure - not a match made in heaven. Hopefully she's learned some valuable lessons on what not to look for in a partner.

[@kayp9318]

People aren’t giving her enough credit. Saying she’s insecure. That maybe true but she’s also bat sh*t crazy! Between the tats, the $$ she gave, stalking him with other numbers after he blocked her and going through his phone, he needs to give her back that money and possibly get a restraining order.

[@jaynehogue2459]

She used him by trying to buy him

[@monas5164]

I'm going to play devil's advocate and say that I don't even believe the guy was a user. I believe that she genuinely scared the crap out of him and he fled. Going through his phone, and getting his name tattooed and also admitting to having other names on her. This is a pattern for her she moves too quickly. He needs to pay her the money back, no excusing that.

[@deemcgriff4196]

Excellent perspective...she was throwing red flags left and right

[@gggreens]

Sex and cell phones are great combination 😊

[@MulerX6885]

I agree with you I feel like she did some weird shit to him

[@yung1717]

Nah I think he’s a user. You don’t have to accept gifts or loans that have strings attached. He clearly used her

[@vixxter3099]

Exactly! That is some bat shit crazy stuff right there. I would run, not walk away from her

[@shelocsher2396]

Poor girl. The way her demeanor shifted when the Judge said she was going to speak her like her daughter, makes me think she’s without her parents or that parental love. Wishing her the best.

[@mrcoolguy819]

Very few people can pull off green hair but the plaintiff is ROCKING IT.

[@sloancp3739]

I don’t say this lightly or sarcasticly-this woman genuinely needs to get serious psychiatric help. She’s on a very slippery slope of destruction if she can be so nonchalant about getting a man’s name tattooed on her that she wasn’t even dating for long and the relationship wasn’t even going well. Good lord, I am incredibly worried for her.

[@brittneyb3083]

I agree and she has other names tattooed as well. So heartbreaking. I felt so embarrassed for her

[@vixxter3099]

I honestly feel like she has no respect or self-worth for herself and that is just so sad

[@pfizer69]

I wanna hug her and tell her she doesn't need someone to be someone!

[@maryannegunter115]

I wish someone would have hugged me and told me I didn't need a man to be complete

[@sammoroz-ug1ce]

Bullshit u need a man just like I NEED a woman

[@madeinthemid55]

THIS‼️‼️‼️

[@JB-yt9im]

That poor girl needs some sense of self-worth. Bless her heart.

[@sweethibiscus2514]

Did anyone catch at 9:25 he saved her number as “Don’t Answer” 😭😭😭 Awww baby girl leave this Trini man alone 🇹🇹 🇹🇹🇹🇹

[@alexandria9229]

I was thinking that the whole time 😭😂

[@dance4life1208]

Poor girl smh, she shouldn’t have responded to a random Snapchat.

[@KeyvonGreen]

Poor girl lol poor him

[@zoimasters4331]

She's truly lonely, but that tat scares me too

[@ygpwnxd_xd752]

@@zoimasters4331👈 Pity this girl she’s craving for manly love , and Richard too is very young and good looking resembles Denzil Washington the great and famous Hollywood actor . God bless them both

[@TRILLTALKTV]

she requested him on snapchat

[@StupidYoutubeHandleTM]

@@TRILLTALKTVyou clearly don’t listen

[@swin3492]

I love Judge Millan. She really cares and gave her some solid advice.

[@KatBlaque]

I needed someone to yell this at me when I was in my early 20s!!!

[@sybilwhite1259]

It's so sad that the young woman was so smitten by this young man I don't think he ever intended to repay her 😔

[@TRILLTALKTV]

i dont believe it was him, she seems like she would do that for any man

[@ravenjacobs5517]

I believe she was about to say that he caught something and gave it to her which is why she was snooping. That’s why the judge cut her off.

[@jussme6670]

Awwe poor baby ❤ … She is so beautiful with a beautiful voice!!! I hope she will realize her self worth and find true love ❤❤❤❤

[@tatattaylor]

I felt that speech at the end. I didn't go to her level but when I was in my early 20s, I had a hard time dating. Depression, low self esteem and no confidence destroyed every relationship I was in. What the judge said was spot on.

[@nishamack586]

I understand. I told my son's ex girlfriend this. She had emotional problems from her past family experiences. She took it out on my son. I told her No boy, or man is worth you putting yourself last. ❤

[@MeliMel86]

I loved how the judge handled this case and this young lady.

[@16MedicRN]

This is a girl, I can almost guarantee, didn't have her father in her life like she needed. I hope she is surrounded by loving friends that don't validate delusions and insecurities, but lift her up ❤

[@MoInTheCity03]

Funny, I saw it the other way that this is a girl that does not have a nurturing mother in her life you can tell she’s lacking the love of a self-aware mother

[@Shellygrrl2573]

​@@MoInTheCity03 right! Where's her mom at? Why is everything the dad's fault? My dad wasn't there and I don't do ANY of the dumb crap she did. Because my MOM taught me from her own lessons she learned to NOT be a fool.🤷🏽‍♀️

[@cynthia1974]

😢

[@16MedicRN]

@@Shellygrrl2573 I say this, respectfully, because I see MANY fathers wanting to protect their daughter from atrocious men. Maybe mom was too busy doing whatever she gotta do and expecting daddy to show his daughter how she's supposed to be treated. It seems here, and I'd be shocked if she had two parents, that no other parent picking up the slack cuz that's what we do in 2-parent homes. My opinion. I respect what everyone's said.

[@16MedicRN]

@@MoInTheCity03 I believe that young girls and ladies need a solid relationship with a man (their father) before they engage with a man.

[@kayangvue30]

I worry for this girl's love life. She's very insecure and gullible. Don't be so desperate for men and learn how to love yourself first.

[@allegroaffettuoso9012]

You just want to hug the plaintiff. She seems lonely and bit insecure, and is clearly putting her time into someone who used her, misled her, dragged her alone, and devalued her. The Defendant is nothing but a user who goes after women who will give him what he want: he admitted to just adding random women and conversing. He was clearly on the prowl for whoever would have him. I’m glad she got her money back and hopefully she judges more intelligently in the future. She can do so much better than him.

[@Shellygrrl2573]

He broke up with her and she got a tattoo of his name behind his back. That's not sympathy worthy that's completely insane. Fatal attraction insane.

[@shannenlucky7900]

He is a kid, way too be young to be taken seriously 😅😅😅

[@foxwithtubesox1075]

@allegroaffettuoso9012 Tell us you hate men without telling us you hate men. 🤣

[@marilynwillett804]

No I don't want to hug her, she will go right on throwing herself at guys.

[@StevenDoh]

I dunno if he used her, she went full on stalker. Started calling friends, tattooed his name...stalked his job. I would have ran too

[@paige4128]

THANK YOU, HARVEY, FOR SCHOOLING THE 15 YEAR OLD! Good lesson!

[@lindaalvarez8855]

There's something really wrong with the Plaintiff. To tattoo a name of a guy you're not serious with & spying on the Defendant, was insecure on her part. Judge Milian gave her great advice on life. The Plaintiff is still young.

[@arlenecoggins-john3795]

Judge Millian you did an outstanding job mentoring the plaintiff.

[@ariamarshall5161]

She needed to hear that! I truly hope she received it.

[@tyisha2105]

Lawwwdddd sis why? She’s doing wayyyyy too much! A tattoo? Be for real!!!!!

[@marilynwillett804]

If you fiance is in love let him get the tat NOT THE WOMAN.

[@Mitch-Alex]

I love when judge gives hard but inspiring advice

[@charmetaclemons1522]

This young lady fell in love with him and you can see the hurt in her eyes. I've been there too baby girl. The judge told her right and I hope she took her advice.

[@royaltylordprinceshamiyah1229]

YOUNG BROTHAS WHEN YOU BARROW MONEY FROM YOUR WOMAN PAY HER BACK.

[@Ghostaredead]

No yours brothas should put themselves in position to Never borrow money from their woman!

[@royaltylordprinceshamiyah1229]

@@GhostaredeadLIFE DOESN’T WORK LIKE THAT FOR MOST BLACK MEN, YOU NEED TO RELAX.

[@Bebe-og3bc]

Give her some time ,she'll be so embarrassed that she even dated him!

[@chuck9380]

This woman hears the questions the judge is asking her but she trying to tip toe around the answer because she knows it sounds ridiculous out loud

[@Black0bsidian]

Poor girl. She needs a mentor. She will get her self esteem up as she gets older but this was humiliating for her. I hope she listens to the judge.

[@quitaquita79]

She is very insecure and falls in love fast. That's dangerous

[@horsewhale9]

''Alright, listen, I'm gonna talk to you like you're my daughter." Compassion and a caring nature defines who Judge Marilyn Milian really is.

[@datgurlky1]

Awww😢. Glad the judge spoke to her.

[@leyahruizdeloreto6420]

What a lovely young woman, the défendant is a decent young man too. The judge was pure love today❤

[@rongold7719]

He came across as an honest young man. She’s also very nice and very needy. She needs to look inwards

[@kaykepop4084]

The plaintiff is so beautiful and seems to have a genuinely beautiful soul too. I pray she heals from this and finds in life what she deserves, love and greatness. And I need to add that I love her hair color!💕

[@honeybriii]

I love the way judge milian gave her motherly and friendly advice 💕

[@barbarapaton4005]

Lesson: don’t get into a relationship on Snapchat.

[@barbaracarley3601]

My heart breaks for this Beautiful young Lady. Please LOVE your self first before you can Love someone else. She deserves so much better. Great advice Judge. 🙏🏽💙

[@danaspetrini8338]

If you have to check your partner's phone, you're insecure and there is no trust. Move on. "Wine and women" Yes!!!

[@lee4094]

This was absolutely heartbreaking to see a women her age with lack of guidance she desperately needed growing up. This is what it looks like. She looks broken and then what happens po okie comes around and because she doesn’t feel like she has ANY value she sleeps with him. These are red flags to look out for in men. The men that “barrow money” and then don’t pay it back but then a women with no confidence is told she’s pretty and gives him money. Parents please for the love of god stay in your children’s lives, talk to them, encourage them, guide them through there young years because she’s 23 and doesn’t see the red flag that bad ! Good luck honey, please find some healing in therapy.🙏🏼 it’s interesting how men “barrow money” from women and women let the guy know she just wants his money upfront🤔

[@marilynwillett804]

Oh for pete's sakes at 23 I was married with 3 babies [we could afford them] and a home owner. I'm not suggesting to get married at 19 like me but it keeps you clean being with one man and respectable. She's not a child.

[@marilynwillett804]

Later in life I lived in Europe and traveled a lot my life wasn't just kids and home.

[@kayp9318]

@@marilynwillett804 you clearly didn’t read this. You so badly want to flex on another woman because you think you’re better. Read, comprehend then react. Jesus! 🙄

[@lee4094]

@@marilynwillett804 um so, my comment is in reference to at her age how she clearly lacked guidance as a child and now that she’s an adult this is the outcome of that. She is a walking red flag because she doesn’t have the basic fundamentals of simple decision making, hence that’s why I also stated she needs to seek therapy before she continue on with someone else. So you say you were 23 with 3 babies already good for you married good for you and traveled which I have no idea where that came from 🥴. So obviously with all the experiences you have yet you lack in reading comprehension. Everything you stated has nothing at all to do with what I stated. Oh since you want to “flex” I was 19 when I met my husband almost 20 years in with him, homeownership at 24 and have 2 kids by the same father, SO what is your point.

[@LivingforJesusaGodisGood74]

​@@marilynwillett804Why are you always on KZbin flexing on other women?. It's getting old at this point.

[@PandaPolite]

I’m so glad the judge gave her advice on life & men.

[@yvonnecampbell4663]

She scared the poor guy running 🏃‍♀️. Lady have some self respect, good advice judge.

[@emilydutes8272]

My heart breaks for the plaintiff 😢 as a broken woman who is older, I can feel her pain.

[@pinkbuttercup2023]

I love this judge ❤❤❤ and the advice she gave ! The judge is so sincere and has a big heart ❤️

[@TMwamadi]

Poor thing. I love how the judge was so motherly.

[@nitkinotnikki8422]

I love how the Judge uplifted and poured into this young lady. ❤

[@scottnichols3685]

She’s a lovely young woman. JM’s advice was spot on.

[@annmagati8681]

I feel for her . Judge gave some uplifting advice . Young love can make you feel like you want to die . They come and go if we only knew that back then

[@Tranquility32]

My heart goes out to this young lady. She is extremely insecure. To feel the need to check his phone is bad enough; it’s a red flag for trust issues. Then to loan him money that he admits he owes, but somehow says he doesn’t feel like he should have to pay back? Bad combination. Yes, the young man seems mild-mannered and truthful. Yet it seems he wasn’t taught how to be an honorable person. I wish her well and all good things. Him, too. It’s not too late for either of them.

[@_LaurenVC_]

I feel for the plaintiff and would give her a hug if I could! I'm 24, and dating definitely is not easy. To be disappointed by someone you really like hurts. But you just have to keep reminding yourself, that better is out there and will come to you! You have to truly believe it and that starts from within 💜🌺

[@1967davethewave]

Man, this young woman needs to believe in herself and stop needing the acceptance of a man. Love is one thing but she has an obsession that is unhealthy. She is really pretty and seems sweet but she's not using enough logic in her life. There has to be some balance.

[@heatherferguson8131]

I wish someone had said this to me when I was in my 20s. I wouldn't have made as many mistakes and had to learn so many hard lessons

[@1967davethewave]

@@heatherferguson8131 I hear you. So many of us wasted our youth because we didn't know how wonderful we really were. I hope she listened to the judge and is doing great today.

[@shannenlucky7900]

It takes a couple of lessons to finally get it!

[@treyparker3775]

She definitely lacks self-esteem. She's got to grow up and get a backbone.

[@Elayna.J.Savage]

This is so sad this guy took advantage of her shes so genuine & good hearted 😢 i hope shes finds the love she deserves

[@zuritribe4844]

HIS POSTURE ALONE SEEMS UNINTERESTED I HOPE SE LOOKS IN THE MIRROR AND DECIDES HER SELF IS THE BEST CHOICE FOR NOW AT THIS LOVELY AGE

[@shirleywiese5230]

I’m not sure I would call take advantage of her As much as she drove him away. Yes he should of pad her, then blocked her. I don’t think when he borrowed money he planned on breaking up. Just my two cents.

[@msawmusic]

@@shirleywiese5230I agree. She was definitely was doing too much and drove him away. She only sued because he broke up with her. Judge Judy would’ve dismissed this immediately lol

[@Ghostaredead]

How he take advantage of her? Wth

[@zuritribe4844]

@@Ghostaredead HE BLOCKED HER AFTER TAKING MONEY SEEING THAT THEIR ARE STRINGS ATTACTHED HE MAY JUST NOT HAVE MORALS

[@Mocharocks9966]

This girl needed JM. She had to love herself before loving anyone else ❤

[@marilynwillett804]

NO she needs J.C. the Lord.

[@Mocharocks9966]

@@marilynwillett804 well that’s a given

[@EmoNinjaKat89]

Who's JM?

[@yahira6928]

Who raised this kid🙄🙄

[@pscoolguy]

The green hair says volumes. Poor decision making skills.

[@WonderingHead]

​@@pscoolguyher hair is subtle. Stfu!

[@inthemouthofmadness5910]

I felt sympathy for the plaintiff but I also think she is incredibly foolish. Why would you loan some guy you met on Snapchat $500 and then get his name tattooed on your body???? Utterly ridiculous.

[@jesssteelo9166]

I don’t feel sorry for her. Play stupid games win stupid prizes

[@kesybaby5382]

My thought precisely...!!!!

[@tracygomaz1331]

​@@jesssteelo9166 Exactly.. And she admitted she stills likes him 😅 bbg

[@gggreens]

Utterly sweet she'll always have that memory 😊

[@Black0bsidian]

I know ppl can be foolish at any age but 23 year olds are typically VERY foolish. no need to shame her more than she’s shamed herself.

[@neededtobesaid4275]

Loaning money to someone so soon after starting to date is a big NO NO HELL NO. Being too broke to pay your bills is a big red flag. If anything tell them to borrow from their family. If they can't borrow from family that's another big red flag! I feel so sorry for her. She seems damaged. I guarantee you that if she doesn't have other men's names tattooed on her she has their initials. Her confidence is shot. Her mumbling is a sure sign that she not confident enough to proudly speak her truth. Hopefully, she'll learn from this experience & from the judge.

[@annereidy7981]

Poor girl, it's like she's recording her mistakes, literally, on her body.

[@wilmamalone1256]

Bravo judge, there's nothing wrong with being Single,you've got to be great at being alone,before you team up😊

[@dldl3966]

Richard sneaky asf and a lowkey dog . i love it ! I need him 😂😂

[@gwyanm]

😂

[@yazzy03]

girl what?

[@tamekadavis6641]

Never tattoo someone's name or initials on your body. Smh lesson people should learn.💯

[@missa1goins]

Every person I know with a name tattooed on them are not together or hate each other guts

[@EmoNinjaKat89]

My best friend and I have each other's names tattooed on each other, I figure even if our 20 year old friendship goes bad we still have the good memories...... Also we have the same name lol

[@WheresHerb]

Sometimes there's low self esteem BUT sometimes there's foolishness and stupidity.

[@joankersting2358]

If only she will listen!!!

[@Divagirl444]

Pretty, humble calm young lady. Prayers for self esteem and better choices for her future

[@ChasRiaStJohn]

So crazy how the most beautiful ones don’t even know how worthy they are. They don’t see it bc they don’t feel it. I’ve been there so I know. self-love is a JoUrNeY.

[@KPbouj]

This is one of the only times Harvey made sense outside.

[@deewah1698]

A broken clock twice a day.

[@KPbouj]

@@deewah1698😂 true.

[@BREEZYM6015]

You ask me to borrow more than $5 and there's going to be a problem. 😂

[@tinellemitchell2517]

Great advice !! But honey child won't listen , I've been there , for some of us women is only till we get into our 30's or 40's and have a kid is when we realize what mommy used to preach . My mom used to say where horse reach donkey would reach one day too lol

[@Alesana907]

Wow JM gave her some great advice that she needed for sure. She's gonna look back and regret that tattoo. This guy isn't worth renting space in her head much less space on her body.

[@JayJay-me8zk]

I literally began crying for this young lady when she said she tattooed the defendant's name on her chest. I sincerely pray she is in a better head-space now. It proves that beauty is skin deep. The litigants walked in, and i said aloud, "she is so pretty. " Even if the defendant was prince charming, she should not give her heart (and body) like that to someone she barely knows. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@briblo]

How naive can 1 individual be...sheesh

[@jb3702]

Girl, he broke up with you🤦🏽‍♀️ Girl is crazy for real. I wish judge would have read the text. She really needs to invest in therapy.

[@Shellygrrl2573]

I agree..she did the utmost..that's not lonely...that's throw a rabbit in the kettle, Glen Close in Fatal Attraction crazy. Getting some strange dudes name tattooed on u that's not EVEN your boyfriend And even if someone IS your boyfriend, it's still crazy to get their name. He left her and she wouldn't take no for an answer. I can't feel sorry for someone that delulu- lemon😬

[@MM-sz6ku]

Why embarrass her more than she already was? That would be cruel

[@jb3702]

@MM-sz6ku I mean sure But the girl was still making excuses...talking about she still like him and that "it's just a name" regarding the tattoo; she still hadn't learned.

[@scribe712]

I've been married almost 30 yrs and would NEVER consider tattooing my husband's name on my body. Can't imagine doing it after only knowing a guy for a few months. She definitely has low self-esteem. Bet he wouldn't have gotten a tattoo of her name on his body.

[@lancetruong3075]

She seems sweet. Prob lacks the motherly love and guidance growing up. Hope she does better going forward.

[@wakeup-y3t]

she's low key krazy and trying to play that shy/innocent roll

[@meicolar1724]

If you can't lose it don't loan it....😊

[@paige4128]

Bless her heart... She's gorgeous. Judge Milian is right. I look back at my past relationships and how I made a FOOL of myself and think back and ask myself, WHYYY???? You learn with age and experience. These men need to stop playing with women. I've known and heard of many men who have lost their lives over playing with the WRONG woman's emotions.

[@pscoolguy]

She got his name tattooed after only dating for 2 months? Maybe she can find another guy named, “Richard,” who is not a “Dick.”

[@msawmusic]

If a women tatted my name after 2 months I’d run for the hills to. He dodged a bullet fr

[@msawmusic]

She also has other men tatted on her lol I doubt it was him.

[@domineik5122]

She called the person because he was talking about having an std.. that’s a valid reason.

[@elaine462]

"I met him on Snapchat and lent him money." Lord, help me.😂

[@shelfraawoods1785]

Why are there so many women that come on here that have given men money? It just breaks my heart!!

[@Rosie-3777]

The way Douglas laughed when the judge said, "that's off" 😂

[@camarojai6832]

Someone please find this young woman. She needs a real ear to listen to her heart….something is troubling her for real. 23 yrs old Chile enjoy your 20s…travel, study, live a beautiful life…the right one may come and may not. Learn to be one with self first

[@JohanneBarthelemy625]

This girl need some guidance. Poor thing.

[@corporateraider77]

Ughhh. I can’t stand low self esteem people! Stop giving men your money!

[@nikkinicole5435]

💯

[@lisasmith9371]

The cognitive delay between these two...

[@ivelissevalerio4957]

Why do people tattoo another person name on them... that's so permanent...I would never...

[@rihannasc7941]

That guy seems nice she chased him away with her craziness smh

[@Lanie-sl9ne]

The judge asked her a few questions and the girl is so shy to answer but she was trying to let the judge know that she saw the messages when they popped up you know you get partial message so she see the whole message but enough to know they're mentioning information that includes her and the defendants sex life. I hate that when the judge asked questions and then won't wait and allow the answer to come out!

[@missa1goins]

Right, I wanted to speak for her on that part and I hate when judge won't let people finish what they're saying.

[@projectionv.accountability1010]

She needs to gain some self-respect. I'd like to know where her father is...

[@sv5304]

she's a very pretty and classy looking girl, but needs a LOT of self esteem & self worth. She needs to quit falling head over heels people that won't appreciate her/as much, and most of all, stop tattooing their names on herself and doing other crazy things over them. She needs to put that energy & effort into loving & respecting herself, and having the right people do the same for her.

[@joecastle9993]

When the judge calls you " Sweety" you're either really young or she thinks you're really dumb!!

[@Hipps93]

I hope the young lady heals and never does this again

[@artistswheat2621]

Whew I needed this advice as well!

[@LLStark]

OMG poor girl 😢 And she's cute too smh. I hope she takes jms advice.