Dating Advice, Rebound & Transfer Relationship ?! ❤️‍🔥💔 | GET REAL S4 EP13

[@starryknight-sc9xe]

Not BM making a wholea** fanfiction about Ashley's dating life😭🤣🤣

[@annabeth5497]

Totally. That's so cute lmao

[@scarletth.101]

He’s so passionate 😭❤️

[@YemiymahYisrael]

That was exactly my reaction 😂

[@hima478]

BM getting extra emotional for relationship themes is why these episodes are always my fav

[@mymytime]

@@hima478 trueeee

[@HuongNguyen-yz3vq]

“I thought it, it counts”😂😂😂 “I said it loudly in my brain😂” I am laughing so hard😂😂

[@Aye--.--]

BM's smirking smiling face whenever he hears "acts of service" or "action" is so telling lol.

[@curiositykilledthekat]

and when he says he likes to get what he gives... 🤭🤭

[@yon_jo]

My man BM is always so on point when it comes to topic about relationship 🤣

[@Aye--.--]

Ashley is perfect for Get Real because she just can't help but get real. She's quick to answer questions, and even when she doesn't wanna say smth, it shows on her face.

[@Aye--.--]

Ashley is so quick with her remarks lol. "Why would you do that? That's rude." True. True.

[@theworstliz]

2:30 "F***boy sunbae" Peniel PLS 😭😂

[@malaika6114]

BM “das me” i cannot

[@Cinnabunro]

Only two mins in 🤣🤣🤣

[@hameedaubaidullah4573]

His ‘Nampun namja vibes’ should be a meme 😂😂

[@Grace_Kennedy0205]

"Physical touch, physical touch, physical touch" "Quality time through physical touch"😂😂😂

[@marielizperez2604]

40:12 omg Peniel had me fcking crying with the physical touch😂

[@Calida]

"Serial daters? Like Serial killers OHHH" and "Let the robot load!" 😂

[@Aye--.--]

33:23 I love this moment. Ashley quickly reassuring Junny not to regret it. They have a very sibling-like relationship.

[@thebradelonge5758]

12:47 Ashley: ~~aouuhhh you like the ✨nOonaZz✨ aouhhh~~ I see you Junny 👀🤣

[@geekdiggy]

Much as he tries to deny it, peniel's robotic persona is a shield he puts up to protect himself from failure and heartache. Seen it a hundred times, and have been it myself.

[@Aye--.--]

BM really getting into making up the scenario and Junny's Woahh to "He kisses you" was hilarious lol. I had the same reaction.

[@Rjbunnie_]

Didn't that remind you of Love alarm though, you know the drama😊

[@HazellynNJ]

Ashely be like “ i like it, i send a link” 😂😂😂 shes so perfect on this show super honest

[@pnlsprkls]

Peniel made a comeback with song MIoBI (Make It or Break It). hope y'all support him too! 🫶🏼

[@Exhibition_LookClosely]

💙💙💙💙

[@danshinss]

46:07 matthews instant reaction was hilarious

[@7sakuraflower]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 he was angry

[@Aye--.--]

25:15 Paniel backing up Junny for the first time ever loll

[@mndblwnn]

do they normally fight on a lot?

[@Aye--.--]

@@mndblwnn They don't fight or anything like that. It's just Paniel always likes to tease Junny whenver he talks about his sensitive sides. It's all fun.

[@lialia-qf4qh]

Rightttt.. im shockeddd

[@swaggymcjaggy]

this episode is hilarious😭 i feel like BM was so hyper hahaha i died when he started swearing at the gf that cheated with his enemy and then when he read the next scenario and got even more mad “YOU TURNED MY BEST FRIEND INTO MY OPPS?!”😂😭😭

[@curiositykilledthekat]

IT WAS HILARIOUS LMAO

[@stephanie0044]

BM was so into in his scenario he made up for Ashley and he was hella triggered at the end

[@erinmclearn6824]

Sometimes feeling valued again after a relationship ending can be helpful in the healing process, but its also opening yourself up to even worse heartbreak if the rebound ends too. Taking that time to heal and move past the feelings you had is so important. You only hurt yourself more in the long run without taking that time.

[@Fantastic418]

When Paniel was explaining about cheaters I just wanted to try dating a man like Paniel 😊 he's easygoing and simple, like he makes difficult things turn easy

[@BUTTERCUPJones]

BM should write a fanfic because I was sooooo invested in his make up story about Ashley.

[@graceandgracealone5140]

22:54 ahhh Junnyyyy literal music to your ears 🥹😍 21:22 “Snowy Winter Day” with all the feels closed eyes and all hahaha and Ashley almost choking hahaha i cannot

[@joodi8888]

bro the part where they kept saying mathew’s love language is physical touch i died i love all 4 of u so much🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@JonasBrotherLuver122]

"wHY DID YOU LEAVE ME" "NOPE" "She's a computer" "I think they're just too into themselves" This episode is everything I've needed and more, I'm laughing so much 😂😂😂

[@Aye--.--]

Everyone studying Paniel during the 2nd balance game quiz is funny, but good job Junny on catching that he was still loading. I also want to hear Panie's perspective more when it comes to dating and other things, too.

[@minsung28_28]

This episode feels like it was just recorded for me- when I needed advice the most. Thank you guys

[@me9981]

23:08 he was waiting patiently but he was so excited to say his song was Winner Color ring LMAO BM I died, that's literally debut Winner, I watched debut stage now and omg that was 10 years ago!!!!

[@salfred8252]

Dang that's already a decade old? I vividly remember waiting up to see their debut...where did the time go? 😅

[@me9981]

@@salfred8252 started to listen to kpop just around that time...summer 2014 or summer 2015,not really sure but as i see winner debuted in summer 2014,so a decade 🫣 time flies

[@salfred8252]

@@me9981 I feel old 🤣. I was 16 at the time

[@scyt33]

wait omg it has been 10 years this is insaneeee

[@JonasBrotherLuver122]

Ok but "dopamine", "Make It or Break It/Come Home", "Element", and Radio 'O Clock/Ashley's vlogs are all 15/10 ❤🔥🤘🏾

[@yoongy1]

That's facts on facts

[@sunset_girl5400]

44:11 i had to replay it few times to see every guy's reaction hahahahaha

[@thebradelonge5758]

They were ready to fighteu. Peniel's ready to splash his water 😂. The more you replay the more it sounds like chickens in the barn 🤣🤣🤣

[@sunset_girl5400]

@@thebradelonge5758 hahahahaha right

[@하진-h2h]

THEY ARE SO LOUD HAHA

[@mymytime]

BM absolutely spoiling their script in the beginning 😂

[@HiddenPGZ]

BM felt the "cheat with your enemy" question so personal 😂😂, I empathize with his reaction tho, I went through that at it does feel infuriating because it can be perceived as if the partner did it on purpose to make us feel even worse. But from the two options it is indeed the better one: at least you know yout enemy doesn't like you, but your best friend doing that to you?? That's two bullets in one gunshot...

[@하진-h2h]

junny and bm are so adorable, like they are soft emotionally haha especially junny, he's just genuine and precious with a gullible heart.

[@solitudesunflower3977]

BM really was having so much fun on this episode, lol. I love himmm!!

[@koul3709]

Guys, physical touch is not sexual 😂That's my primary and I just platonically touch people all the time--like on the shoulder, slap them while laughing, sit close to people that I trust like best friends or family members, and give a lot of hugs. I can even give "physical touch" to a 90yo grandma 😂 Not sexual AT ALL.

[@curiositykilledthekat]

they know but it wouldn't be as funny lol

[@Logan-zl7xi]

Same!! ❤

[@hello_kizzy]

Hey Dive Studios team! Just a quick suggestion-since a lot of us listeners aren't South Korean, it would be super helpful if you could add a bit of context or translations on the screen when the Dive Squad talks about Korean topics like 4:49. It would really help us foreigners understand and connect more with the conversation. Thanks so much!

[@ourovermelho23]

This episode hits deep guys also Junny your new EP is FIRE MAN congrats

[@gimmeasalad]

47:55 When BM said, "We're all celebrities, so.." I realized that I literally forgot that they're celebrities and not just adorable hilarious friends.

[@JonasBrotherLuver122]

Can't wait for this one ❤ Rooting for y'all from Michigan!! If you ever do a Get Real live podcast tour date, I'll be there so fast 😂🎉

[@janicebolosan119]

In my early 20's, I went from one relationship to the next. Both turned out bad, thank got we don't keep in touch. The guys never wanted to break up, I had to do it for myself and move on!! Happily married now🤗!

[@btobmyloves]

Hi Get Real fans! Peniel just released his 2 new songs - Make it or Break it and Come Home. These 2 songs are bop! And Peniel is serving vocals for these 2 songs! Please listen to it and love it a lot! Thank youuu

[@pnlsprkls]

💙💙💙

[@wt5574]

Lol I have zero dating experience but i love listening to advice from these dating experts 😂😂😂

[@ckbrowne9243]

I want to see them have this conversation 20 years later. I'm so positive some of their thought processes would change.

[@HazellynNJ]

Turned 44 while watching ❤ my kids just suddenly came and sing happy bday 😂 then i heard “Ashley you are in a relationship with a toxic man” 😂😂😂

[@naenae615]

Happy birthday 🎉

[@yoongy1]

Happy birthday

[@dorimillansotelo]

The freaken eye roll at 8:04 was hilarious hahaha

[@dorimillansotelo]

Ashley's facial expressions were so funny this episode!

[@beautifuliceme]

You dont know how happy i am when Rush Junny ft Bobby come out. Made my day. Tysm for the masterpiece dude

[@ascene76]

42:55 100% Like Peniel’s answer a lot. Go wherever you want, with whoever you want. But if you cheat - get out. Love finished here 👌

[@Coffee_Gal]

Note to the Universe: Can I get a Junny please? ❤😢 gotta love this boy, he's just such a sweetheart even when he's trying to be a "nappeun namja" 😂

[@ambiguousradish2423]

28:57 “I was on AIM.. flavor flav was on tv in the background..” Damn talk about a throwback😂🕐

[@BerryisthebetterBahng]

It's a nearly one hour episode but felt so short! I had a lot of fun this time, the hosts have too I guess. And Gosh I related Peniel throughout the game so much!

[@scyt33]

thank you BM for mentioning Winner Color Ring 😢 it has been a long time since i listen to the song and i just came back after listening. the song totally gets u in the feels 😭

[@stassia-xx2me]

39:14 Yesss me too Ashley. I think small surprises are good like “oh my girlfriend really likes this cake or loves apples, I’ll pick some up”. That’s a good way of surprising but not big celebration too risky.

[@Dayanara.30]

I like how Peniel thinks 👏🏼🫰🏻 I laughed so hard when he said ‘F***boy sunbae’ 😂😂😂😂😂

[@antonellafernandezcastella9184]

I love them all but Peniel caught my eye this episode, I love him so much

[@C-Locke]

BM just made up a whole k-drama for Ashley! 🤣 Meanwhile, Peniel calling her out just slipped by without comment; "You always ask for our advice but you never take it."

[@camikay3730]

I was a serial dater for the majority of my teens and 20's. After my most recent relationship ended, I went through therapy and I've been single a year and a half lol can't tell if I'm all fixed or if I'm just broken in a new way 😅

[@yeoboseyonoona]

BM has all potential to be a wattpad writer 😂😂😂 may be he is one... you never know😂

[@learoynotjenkins5514]

They say after a break up you should be single for half the time you were in a relationship. So if the relationship lasted 4 years you should be single 2 before getting into a new relationship. Don’t know who “they” are who say this. Thank you all for coming back. Love watching your interactions and seeing your friendships.

[@bryahnafelix4918]

Junny is such a lover boyyyyy I love it😭

[@LotsOfLove4Music]

19:20--- bm was so especially funny this episode LOL 46:02---- all the bleeps lmfaooooo

[@Kummmavooooooo]

Man BM had the best time here 😂

[@Viridiana-sh9pw]

24:53 I do this too and when it happens my friends tell me I’m talking out of context because what I said doesn’t make sense 😂

[@DesAndSun_]

“Quality time…through physical touch” hahahaha! 😂

[@lonelytokki.-_-.]

BM reminds me of myself when I’m with cool girls and I get excited about a topic but then I remember I’m supposed to be chill 😂

[@ygdrgnstan6525]

It's so hard to wait 2 weeks for Get Real... 😅 ❤

[@howtobechi8260]

BM in his kdrama producer arc 😅😅😂😂😂😂

[@sheenamea]

24:51 this is so meee, you're not alone junny 😅

[@yokshiichicago7712]

So napun namja made a comeback And the discussting😅 I mean this episode was very funny with that physical touch had me crying laughing and bm reading what the staff wrote only for them to read it 😭😭

[@ronan5708]

@yokshiichicago7712 So you like them bad boys I dooo You like them napun namja Cue Ashley's wind shield laugh 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ashleyme270]

I prefer to give gifts and receive it just on the whim. Hate how holidays are supposedly expected to give a gift. I love when someone just brings me a smoothie or whatever just because they thought of me while they were out. It’s sweet.

[@missunderstood0609]

I really LOVED this episode. I had a lot of fun, Peniel's comments are always the best, he makes me laugh a lot. I think this topic is quite interesting and it's perfect for BM, you can tell he likes to talk about relationships. It was really nice to hear about their experiences. Get real is free therapy. Love u guys.

[@chenydolce]

“You turned my best friend into the ops?!” Hahaha BM felt that, but also valid reaction lol.

[@Aye--.--]

Rush is really good! I'm loving Junny's songs more and more these days.

[@rajput_18]

Junny is such pure guy ❤

[@swaggymcjaggy]

the album is fireeee junny🔥🔥 i especially love figure8🫶🏼

[@howtobechi8260]

BM's "heart too strong" @23:34 had me 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@aewenien4774]

This ep was so fun to watch😂 and a little relatable on some parts😅 my ex was a "serial dater", and a "rebound dater"🙄 I started to date him about 3 monts after he broke up with his ex (he had about 9 exes already before dating me, and we were only 18yo). We were together a little over 3 years, and after we broke up, two weeks later he got a new gf. And two months in their relationship, they got engaged, and few months after that, the gf is pregnant. So now year and a half later, he's engaged and has a child. Don't know much about how his life is going and don't really care. I took my time and enjoy the freedom and single life😎 till this day😅 Ps. I love the Get Real fam. They really make my day and give a lot of good advices❤

[@Cinnabunro]

Yasssss!!!! I’ve been waiting for this!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤ Also, happened to hear a song, loved it, listened to the artist, loved his music, just to discover it was Junny🤣🤣 The joy that filled my soul when it all clicked ✨✨🥰✨✨

[@naygm7]

OMG this episode was so revealing!! I love to meet more about Junny each episode!

[@yoongy1]

My day brightens up with this episodes. Sending so much love to the whole staff and the lovely hosts of course .

[@loestay3310]

11:20 giving one very recent dating scandal vibe

[@woonhaklover]

riiight, that’s what i remembered right away

[@zainy7607]

There’s proof they literally broke up way before the media got to know about it. Hyeri should have moved onnn. Not like there was anything special about him

[@nannybannany]

I did a light version of your transfer relationship? I was in a long distance relationship and I met a new person. As soon as I realized I wanted this new person to be more than a friend, I broke up with my long distance boyfriend so I could explore dating this new person. There was no kissing or even a date before the breakup. When new person asked me if I wanted to hang out, and i knew I wanted it to be a date, that's when I broke up. (Also lucky for me the 'new person' is now my husband).

[@Pynk92]

44:10 This part is so funny to me. They all were perplexed with Ashley about the person getting on their knees to say “I like you” Y’all leave Ashley alone; I got your back 😊Love this episode just imagine if Harry was there too😉

[@Aye--.--]

Pfft it's so funny and cute how excited BM gets on topics related to dating. Same tho. I love it when they discuss about dating related stuff.

[@justme.11]

Men rebound immediately because processing involves feelings, which so many people (not just men) don't know how to face. I think men move on immediately to 1) avoid being alone, 2) avoid accountability for their part in the breakup, 3) to continue having a sex partner and 4) to hurt their ex. In other words, distracting themselves with a new partner keeps them from facing why the other relationship didn't work. The ones that marry the next partner after a big break up, in my opinion, isn't because the new partner is "the one". I think it's because marriage makes it harder for that partner to leave.

[@kaahfee]

With this topic i always think of how han so hee (the actress not the ex- trainee) was treated like shit by most korean and international netizens because the ex of her new boyfriend whom he was officialy openly broken up months back (there literaly were articles about their breakup) was "triggered" and posted how she felt about it on instagram. Everyone was on the side of the ex girlfriend, even when they were broken up , people made hsh seem like a transfer girl. i dont know if it was because she is seen as very beautiful and people in their heads thought oh that mf boyfriend left the ex for her because of her beauty or people valued the feeling of the ex gf more. shows that people have really strong feeling about this topic.

[@NativeGirl49]

39:23 I’m like Ashley, nowadays I’m usually trying to be straight up on what I want 😂♥️ What didn’t help is say I do want a new necklace, but instead of saying the more pricey one that I want or whatever one I really like, I’ll say “oh you don’t have to spend that much on a necklace, you can get a different one” but then I’d be sad that I didn’t get the one I wanted. The only reason I kept telling the exes that they didn’t have to get me expensive gifts or the two I was engaged to, an expensive ring, was that I felt bad that they were spending money on me. I also didn’t want to seem like the type of girl who will only accept gifts & who only wants expensive gifts. If I am given a gift from a guy I’m dating, I’m super grateful & my day/night is instantly made.

[@thattwitterdude]

i already that this will be one hell of a rollercoaster ride

[@moeshabrown6349]

I'm starting to think BM writes fanfictions because he is coming up with stuff straight out of a Wattpad novel😂

[@tamS0613]

istg Harry in this episode would've slaaaayeed, I loved this episode so much, BM was the funniest XD XD five stars only guys!

[@thebestl4174]

You need time to reflect on yourself especially after a toxic relationship, cause that's when you're the most vulnerable you could be. You need some time alone to regain your confidence and heal your wounds, before jumping in a new relationship.

[@Marlene167]

You guys are my favorite podcast! I had so much fun, laughed out loud and could relate to many things you said❤

[@superlyobsessed]

21:48 omg Junny wanting to go deep into the sad feels is literally me 🙈 it's an XNFP (ENFP/INFP) thing I guess 🥲

[@bltotrs92]

My favorite podcast since ever❤ thank you ashley, peniel, bm and junny 💕🫰

[@AnonyGeex]

Junny's album is so good! I'm addicted to Rush. Freaking good vibes!

[@yoitsie]

BM really thought about Junny's friend who broke up after dating for 10 years and got married a month later throughout the episode bro hahahahahaa 😂😂😂

[@FaC_26]

40:23 They did BM dirty 😂😂😂😭

[@EL-jl8zg]

This episode was so good! S4 is the best season, for me. And the games are very entertaining.

[@pronouncedmy]

Love this episode! So funny 😂 BM’s anger at the betrayal and Peniel’s comment on not wanting marry yet so he’ll choose the date 20 ppl in a year instead lol I had such a good laugh and kept repeating 😂