Les Carter at WilshireTalks

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WilshireBaptist

WilshireBaptist

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@ponytail911
@ponytail911 3 жыл бұрын
This man is amazing. So thankful for his wisdom. He saved my life living with a lifetime of dysfunction.
@martilyn1925
@martilyn1925 5 жыл бұрын
I have seen a lot of your videos now but this one is, in many ways, the best because it shows us the wonderful man that you are and shows me why you have such compassion and love for us all. Thank you Dr Carter.
@_Silvermoonalpha
@_Silvermoonalpha 5 жыл бұрын
Dr. Les Cartes is a treasure. I'm fascinated with his wisdom & humility also his cool sense of humor. God bless!
@davidelias13
@davidelias13 5 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@claredodd1258
@claredodd1258 4 жыл бұрын
A humble, smart, intelligent guy who has worked out what's important in life. Xx
@tchili1
@tchili1 4 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful story Dr. Carter. You are still helping so many of us far beyond what you can ever imagine. You are a wonderful representative of who a genuine Christian is. Thank you for sharing this video with us.
@tru3766
@tru3766 3 жыл бұрын
You are a great communicator,Dr C. I love your stories, your humour and authenticity. 😎Your humility and warmth shine through 🙏 Uplifting 🌻 What awesome stories- churches need waaaaaay more of this sort of simple wisdom😊 Blessings to you and yours🙏🙏🌷
@heatherwhittaker6169
@heatherwhittaker6169 5 жыл бұрын
You Dr. Carter , are a wonderful teacher and humanitarian, a good man... and loving soul.Blessings
@dianavaleriaandres4631
@dianavaleriaandres4631 4 жыл бұрын
I bumped into this video after seeing many videos of you. I knew that you were a man of God because your teachings based on Scrpture, because your approach was godly, and because after seeing the videos I was not left with the feeling of wanting to kill the narcissist in my life! Instead of bitter, I felt loving. It has been quite a journey this quarantine in which God started to talk to me and finally ended my suffering. Thank you! Blessings from Argentina!
@shari247peace
@shari247peace 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this video. Dr.Carter has made a big difference in my life through his KZbin channels. And I know it was God directing me to those channels as I had been praying for tools, information, to get through the memories of some very difficult times. What Albert said “Is God anything like you” will resonate in me I hope forever. Powerful lesson here Dr C! Thank you from the bottom of my grateful heart.
@ursalaoutrageous9249
@ursalaoutrageous9249 6 жыл бұрын
I knew you were a Christian from the moment I started watching your videos. It shows. Certainly wish there were more like you. My family really needed someone like you back in the day. A godless counselor can leave devastating wreckage in a family, believe me.
@SurvivingNarcissism
@SurvivingNarcissism 6 жыл бұрын
I guess we could say, it takes one to know one. Dr. C
@lindacasadei3818
@lindacasadei3818 6 жыл бұрын
Awesome video!! You are the best!!!
@mitchellrose3620
@mitchellrose3620 5 жыл бұрын
People like Les represent God well. I have learned that the Christian label has very little to claim in such cases, based on the general christian population. Like the early Christian Ebionites, Les shows an advanced knowledge with experience in practice. An authentic representative of God. The term Christianity seems to stain that a bit as though a man must first join a Christian club in order to then learn to behave godly.
@DevorahTafus
@DevorahTafus 5 жыл бұрын
I knew it too! At least, I had a strong hunch. When you said you don't judge narcissists, that's when I knew because that's very hard to not do.
@catnc1
@catnc1 5 жыл бұрын
Nancy Clay, yes, I've been hooked watching Dr. Carter's channels on KZbin. I suspected that it was Christian wisdom that I was hearing from him as well.
@scotttinervideoeditor5200
@scotttinervideoeditor5200 6 жыл бұрын
This is the best "sermon" in the form of a simple true story I've heard.
@heathermorrisdvm8230
@heathermorrisdvm8230 4 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love this one!! So sweet . This man is genuine
@keegsmum
@keegsmum 5 жыл бұрын
Dr. Carter is such an amazing storyteller and counselor. You are so fortunate to have been able to hear him speak. Check out his other videos- they will not disappoint!
@jiffiemail1595
@jiffiemail1595 6 жыл бұрын
You are an exceptional teacher, Dr. Carter. I am thankful I found your videos on KZbin. Thank you for so freely giving to us! May God richly bless you a hundredfold for the blessing you are to so many, in Jesus' mighty name. Merry Christmas!!
@Cyd1057
@Cyd1057 5 жыл бұрын
Powerful and thought-provoking. Thank you Dr. Carter; you truly are a Godsend.
@mdee860
@mdee860 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! So glad I listened. That was incredible & incredibly wise, kind & full of the BEST of what enlightened humanity can be. I can't even write anymore because I am overwhelmed with thought & emotions.
@sage9836
@sage9836 5 жыл бұрын
"Is God anything like you?" What an amazing thought. A person could reflect on that for a lifetime.
@christinehaigh9807
@christinehaigh9807 5 жыл бұрын
I loved your story about Albert and you: A very touching story indeed. Thank you so much for sharing it with us viewers!
@matilda4406
@matilda4406 5 жыл бұрын
So cute, moving and inspiring! Thanks for sharing. Being a safe spot for a young person is the kindest, most noble thing anyone can do. It's unforgettable and lasts a lifetime.
@justChrisjones
@justChrisjones 6 жыл бұрын
You are truly blessed with kindness, thank you for this lovely teaching story.
@patvass4260
@patvass4260 4 жыл бұрын
I watch many of your excellent videos Dr. Let, and I'm thrilled to learn from this one that you are a Christ follower! Blessings to you.
@kirabarsmith9353
@kirabarsmith9353 3 жыл бұрын
Leave it to a child to ask such a profound question, what a special moment, thank you for sharing.
@amykeever8527
@amykeever8527 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your precious heart - you have changed my life by your influence in the most beneficial way 🌸
@sandyg3772
@sandyg3772 5 жыл бұрын
This is amazing! I knew there was a reason behind why I love you so much. I love anyone who loves, and is kind to, dogs and children. BTW - I am a bus monitor for children with special needs and absolutely love those kids, especially the ones no one else wants. They are my favorite people in the world. I had a similar experience with a little boy last year, and even though he has a different monitor this year, I still send him messages to let him know that I have not forgotten him (he was afraid I would). I ran into him a few weeks ago, and it was a sweet reunion. As someone who came from a family like the one you mentioned, I KNOW the fear of being forgotten about, and I want to be sure that my little friend knows that he will always be remembered by someone. I used to be very impatient about finishing my degree so I could "get out there and help kids" but your message just reminded me that I already am. I may not have all the information and knowledge "to save the world" yet, but God has been showing me what gifts He has already given me, and how to use them to serve in His stead on my little bus. Thank you for the reminder.
@dorcaseatch4078
@dorcaseatch4078 6 жыл бұрын
I’m not religious but you are a very kind man, what a lovely video and funny
@dorcaseatch4078
@dorcaseatch4078 6 жыл бұрын
It’s funny when I taught photography workshops I got lots of hugs and the last few days people have talked to me and been tactile, it’s the little steps that make me feel human again
@tchili1
@tchili1 4 жыл бұрын
@@dorcaseatch4078 That is wonderful Dorcas. You know you don't have to be a religious person to be a Christian. By that I mean that when you accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior and invite His Holy Spirit into your life, that is not being religious, but it is the beginning of sharing a very close relationship with God our Creator. Dr. Carter shares with us the kindness, love and genuineness of our Lord and is one of the best examples of a true Christian that I've ever seen. Hope that some day, you might want to also open your heart to God so you too can begin to have the unconditional love that Jesus offers to all those who come to Him. God bless you.
@COACHCLCHEER
@COACHCLCHEER 6 жыл бұрын
This was such a blessing to hear today as I sit in calmness.. Thank you!
@sallyooko1464
@sallyooko1464 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Dr.C I want God to be seen in me and for Him to have the glory in my interactions with those around me.
@kaylamcalister1047
@kaylamcalister1047 5 жыл бұрын
Tears of Gratitude,you are an inspiration,thank you for being here and making a difference in many lives❤
@alaskanactressp30
@alaskanactressp30 5 жыл бұрын
Dr Les Carter is a God send man. God’s gift 🎁 to us . Kudos from Alaska 🌹
@teresadexter9965
@teresadexter9965 6 жыл бұрын
beautiful message Dr Carter......in its simplicity.......thank you !
@pamela5050
@pamela5050 5 жыл бұрын
Yes, dear Dr. C. God is very much like you. You are His tangible arm extended to innumerable folk, as you journey in the paths of His leading. For, every good, perfect gift is from above. May you walk always in His favor.
@sarahstrong7174
@sarahstrong7174 5 жыл бұрын
I really liked that story. Thankyou for sharing.
@candybradford6468
@candybradford6468 5 жыл бұрын
Wow. That was beautiful, insightful and challenging. Thank you. May God continue to bless you personally and professionally.
@helenseymour1041
@helenseymour1041 5 жыл бұрын
Your videos have been such a help to me. I am a Christian but obviously could probably be a better one. This is an awesome soul searching message. I will keep this question in mind and hope that I can make sure that people can see God in me. Thank you and God bless you for what you do.
@spiritwoodlive5597
@spiritwoodlive5597 5 жыл бұрын
Spectacular!! “Let”. So inspirational AND unforgettable!!! Sharing now!!
@davidelias13
@davidelias13 5 жыл бұрын
Dr Les is a fantastic person. He has a great essence. It speaks between the lines as I watch his videos, and he helps me through this difficult time.
@Sunny-iq6hm
@Sunny-iq6hm 5 жыл бұрын
Wow! So thankful I came upon this video. Wouldn't I love to be able to answer yes to that question.
@barbaradenman8043
@barbaradenman8043 5 жыл бұрын
My faith in Christianity has been dented these past couple of years but everything you said, so full of understanding, humanity, wisdom and love, reminded me of Christianity as it really ought to be. Thank you so much. Your videos on NPD has also helped me through some difficult times. Your care and kindness, or ‘essence’ as you mentioned, really does shine through. P.S. Hope Albert is doing well.
@MsHopeify
@MsHopeify 5 жыл бұрын
Amazingly wonderful talk. Thank you, Dr. Carter. God bless.
@susanmunoz7688
@susanmunoz7688 Жыл бұрын
Dr Carter, I have respected and honored you for some time now but I like you even more now. You have a beautiful heart.
@butterflymagicwithhottea9291
@butterflymagicwithhottea9291 6 жыл бұрын
This is a sweet approach to living using life stories to teach it. Thank you
@bettyhazel6282
@bettyhazel6282 5 жыл бұрын
If I could just not be so wounded in my heart by the person in my life who has narc tendencies, I feel that I could really help this person and improve our relationship. He was raised by a narc mom (l have known her for 35 years). I am going to pray for resiliency and patience, so as not to repeatedly respond in anger. I feel I can do this, not on my own, but with God’s help. You, Doctor, are really helping me. Thank you.
@jdaze1
@jdaze1 3 жыл бұрын
Awesome story. We are indeed witnesses to God WORD which is alive and active and formed within us. This is the father reflected in us to the world.
@rbizzle18
@rbizzle18 3 жыл бұрын
Les, one day I hope to meet you so that I can shake your hand and thank you from the bottom of my heart. You have been such an encouraging figure in my life, and all that brilliant knowledge you got from your schooling doesn’t go unnoticed, either. I have been following your channels for some time now and recently found Christ. I work hard to allow God to work through me as it is clear that you do too. Thank you and glory to God!
@janicebond373
@janicebond373 6 жыл бұрын
Excellent Dr. Carter.............
@butterflylove2642
@butterflylove2642 4 жыл бұрын
Dr. Carter Thank you for this, and thanking God for making YOU. 😭😭😭👏👏👏🕊✝️ 🙏
@karenboromeo5752
@karenboromeo5752 3 жыл бұрын
Loved this video Led. l found you last year..and l thanked God..as l knew He help me find you on utube. I was a pushover..and you've helped me with bullies...l also liked how u made things SIMPLE. and then I mentioned that here. Albert Estein " If you can't say something simple..then you don't know enough of what your fryby to sau".😊 Love you Led. Carrie from Australia.xoxo
@stefaandecroo6774
@stefaandecroo6774 5 жыл бұрын
Thank You Sir. Love and Gratitude.
@karenstoddard9345
@karenstoddard9345 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Your life is your testimony.
@swissrootful
@swissrootful 5 жыл бұрын
yes, beautiful, another analogy comes to me at times when i contemplate my two wonderful and loving dogs, looking up to me as we look up to our God, in unconditional love! we need analogies to understand God and his kindness.
@elainehoward9577
@elainehoward9577 3 жыл бұрын
You have helped me so much, Thankyou, blessings to you 🙏🐒
@pearlluber5849
@pearlluber5849 5 жыл бұрын
Dear Dr Les, G-d created man in His image and we are to do good to others. Just as visits the ill, feeds, clothes, and shelter the needy, we are to do that. Just as G-d listens to us so we are to listen to others. That a child ask if G-d is anything like you. I know heaven is proud of you. May G-d bless you and yours.
@tullysoulliere8103
@tullysoulliere8103 6 жыл бұрын
Awe! Your words are always inspiring.....Thanks LET (O:
@butchdetrey5911
@butchdetrey5911 3 жыл бұрын
A compassionate and intelligent man.
@kimmoorepresents1095
@kimmoorepresents1095 5 жыл бұрын
I knew it! Everything you teach is consistent with God's word. I was hoping you were a Christian. Loved your stories. You have helped me so much.
@yellowdayz1800
@yellowdayz1800 5 жыл бұрын
Wow, that was VERY GOOD. So happy to see that "Let" is a believer in Christ!!!
@gwendolynwehage6336
@gwendolynwehage6336 5 жыл бұрын
I love it!!! Thank you for sharing this!
@sabrinashaw9939
@sabrinashaw9939 5 жыл бұрын
I'm not surprised you're a Christian...I've been listening to you for a few months, and just found out now from this video. I appreciate what you said so much.❤ I am a Christian, from a Christian home, but have struggled with anxiety and depression for many years. I realized last autumn that my parents have strong narcissistic traits, and so have been trying to figure that out. "Why I don't judge the Narcissist" was especially helpful.
@KarlaReeves
@KarlaReeves 5 жыл бұрын
wow so powerful! God bless you !
@danielcase1046
@danielcase1046 5 жыл бұрын
This story reminds me of a biblical verse stating, "How can you say you love God, whom you have not seen, and yet be hating your neighbor whom you have seen?"
@monibecker3886
@monibecker3886 5 жыл бұрын
That made my sunday! Thank You very much x❤
@debrapullin4321
@debrapullin4321 4 жыл бұрын
God Bless you Dr. Carter, you have been a blessing to me as I was lead to watch your videos. I knew you had to be a Christian because I saw Jesus in you as you spoke. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for all these videos. They are always right on time word ! Thank You for your special ministry for it has brought me peace . Look I look forward to leach video.
@feelingfeni4798
@feelingfeni4798 6 жыл бұрын
Wow, excellent story! I'd like to think so..
@nilgiridreaming
@nilgiridreaming 5 жыл бұрын
I love the story of Dr Carter and Albert. I am a non-survivor of narcissism / sociopathy having been dealt the full deck of deceit and gaslighting many years ago. I have been unable to regain my full degree of 'self'. However, I am determined to be positive, approachable and affable. What is important is that I reflect the goodness in humans - and that is the 'godness' we can all share with others. I once said I was happy to be good for goodness sake and for no other reason. I have been laughed at for this attitude. How strange.
@judycampbell7821
@judycampbell7821 3 жыл бұрын
That was awesome. Thank you!. So what ever happened to Albert? I most surely will apply this in my life. This is what I needed to hear and learn. Thank you.
@noprivacy5918
@noprivacy5918 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video; it is a message I needed to receive!
@mitchellrose3620
@mitchellrose3620 5 жыл бұрын
Yes, God is like you.
@sandyg3772
@sandyg3772 5 жыл бұрын
VERY much so.
@DevorahTafus
@DevorahTafus 5 жыл бұрын
That was excellent, Dr. Carter!
@pamcarter6595
@pamcarter6595 6 жыл бұрын
That was an awesome speech..thank you for sharing. I was wondering you still stay in contact with Albert? I have also learned a lot on all your videos of narcissist thank you and may God bless you always.
@SurvivingNarcissism
@SurvivingNarcissism 6 жыл бұрын
Albert has a brother named Lino, and he and I have seen each other as adults, the last time about 7-8 years ago. He told me where Albert was, but when I checked, I learned he'd moved to some unknown place in east Texas. I want to see him again at some point. Thanks for asking.
@illbeback126
@illbeback126 5 жыл бұрын
That is so challenging and convicting. Thank you for that message. I found you through the anger trap book. I had a strong inkling that you might be a Christian when I read it❣️ I wonder what happened to Albert. He'll be in his 50s now.
@constancebarrett1398
@constancebarrett1398 4 жыл бұрын
Oh dr les what a sweet sweet loving conversation
@loricalass4068
@loricalass4068 5 жыл бұрын
I wonder whatever happened to little Albert.
@carolynwright3026
@carolynwright3026 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Les!
@NOMTpodcast
@NOMTpodcast 5 жыл бұрын
Well said. “Is god anything like you”? I am god god is in me he works through me. Christians are not the only ones who believe. I believe in representation of god, loving unconditionally no judgement kindness to others. I do not fell the need to always be right. I have come a long way. Thank you Dr. Les for this enlightening speech. Love to you sir. My beat to Gus. ❤️
@marthajulian7064
@marthajulian7064 5 жыл бұрын
OMGoooodness there's a case of some serious feels going on here. Dog-gone onions! And THIS is the reason I zeroed in on Dr. 'Leth' (ah, so sweet, sniff). With other folks, Life Coaches, therapists, etc., you can always detect a little arrogance or sarcasm when they share their advice and insights. Listen very carefully and you'll never hear any of that in Dr. Carter's videos. This is what sets him apart from the rest--his faith. So very thankful I found him and his vids.
@donnawoodham868
@donnawoodham868 5 жыл бұрын
There are good men in this world . My twin's med. Name is Albert ... Mine is Alberta (lol) . I love the story . Your wife and family are blessed to have you . God's blessings to you and your . ✝️
@constancebarrett1398
@constancebarrett1398 4 жыл бұрын
You absolutely are showing jesus love
@victoriapierscinski4529
@victoriapierscinski4529 6 жыл бұрын
ahhhh, Let, what a representative you are!
@chinookvalley
@chinookvalley 5 жыл бұрын
8-} Yet! He is!
@leilaezawa6475
@leilaezawa6475 4 жыл бұрын
Dr. Carter I enjoy your videos very much, thank you. I am one of Jehovah's witnesses and our name is taken from Isaiah 43:10. Ephesians 5:1 also tell us to become imitators of God. :)
@stellaercolani3810
@stellaercolani3810 3 жыл бұрын
Wonderful human being
@MaryWilhelm52
@MaryWilhelm52 5 жыл бұрын
And I feel my gut hurt, and get tired. I had anemia, and was so tired, not knowing I had it, guess I was vulnerable more. I know Jesus well, now am thinking go back to or move on to those who want help
@wanderingfree149
@wanderingfree149 5 жыл бұрын
They know we are Christians by our love. That scripture came to mind while listening to this.
@FrancesShear
@FrancesShear 5 жыл бұрын
I sure enjoyed your talk. Most of all because here in the city of Edmonton Alberta Canada called the gateway to the north my mother in the late 1960's to the late 1970's was a school bus driver too for many years during which time she kept her assigned 66 passenger bus with an old fashioned now manual transmission on it in our back yard in the city whenever she wasn't driving it sometimes through terrible cold winter weather which by the way up here isn't often regarded always worse enough to close grade schools Part of her day while driving that bus was driving developmentally delayed children of all ages who were going to what only amounted to a one room school house and the rest of her day was driving high school students. She found there would always be a few of the high school students on occasion who were way rowdier than any of the developmentally delayed students could ever be.
@Imnotyourdoormat
@Imnotyourdoormat 4 жыл бұрын
now i know for certain Who put us together and for a specific reason. magnificent and majestic heart rendering testimony. put me head down honest and humbled quickly by a real life brothers keeper. A Time to Every Purpose under the Heaven assures me this cannot be a coincidence, that cannot exist in the Earth under Firmament. may the Almighty shine his face toward you, and the Trinity continue to bless you, and you remain a good and faithful servant for the duration, to Fight the Good Fight, before we walk down transparent gold streets together with our Creator under his Glory and Love and Mercy which is the Heart of the Lord. in time may we be as good as friends as Jonathan and David and as loyal as the Roman Centurion. it is good that two soldiers meet in the struggle of life...and death. it shall be Life.
@LadyGoza
@LadyGoza 4 жыл бұрын
My daughter has been trying to get an appointment with Dr. Carter. How can she contact him? The link from his KZbin series about narcissists going to a general counseling page.
@catherinehowell3296
@catherinehowell3296 4 жыл бұрын
Wonderful man
@MaryWilhelm52
@MaryWilhelm52 5 жыл бұрын
Heartwarming
@jamied.9284
@jamied.9284 5 жыл бұрын
Absolutely beautiful
@salettamyers1882
@salettamyers1882 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you😪🤗
@DrNancyLivingCoCreatively
@DrNancyLivingCoCreatively 3 жыл бұрын
Interesting to hear your background. My hero Bill Moyer I feel a true Baptist. May this be so here. We all have our relationship with God. Yes Let. Allow. I hesitate. I am not a religionist and I deeply respect those who do not oppress. Christianity has recently been damned. May you bring it back to it's true nature and intention. I believe we are moving in to a new time of sacred community. Diverse. Btw insight timer meditation app has a huge Christian group. It may be focused around Jesus.
@yvetteoglesby8797
@yvetteoglesby8797 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you....
@emilybaird3112
@emilybaird3112 3 жыл бұрын
Wow!
@michelecraig9658
@michelecraig9658 5 жыл бұрын
❤❤
@MaryWilhelm52
@MaryWilhelm52 5 жыл бұрын
I can identify. No wonder we are targets of people who don’t care about fellow man. I will concentrate on those who are not troubling. They are exhausting.
@todhowe7745
@todhowe7745 5 жыл бұрын
What happened to him? How did he end?
@beryllaing6992
@beryllaing6992 3 жыл бұрын
I KNEW you had to be a Christian!
@DM-bo7et
@DM-bo7et 5 жыл бұрын
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@breesgirl2087
@breesgirl2087 5 жыл бұрын
❤️
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