Lesbian vs Baby Gay: Lesbian Dating Advice (Ft. @MissFenderr)

Alayna was nice enough to collaborate with me on her series so go check out part one of this (I promise it makes part 2 better!) We cover scissoring and whether or not it’s real, how to avoid being one of lesbians that falls for a straight girl, and our matching cats. / whgs
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[@AlaynaJoyOfficial]

Alternative title: Alayna Joy laughing at Ashley Gavin for 23 minutes straight 23 minutes gay

[@danidani000]

"minutes gay" needs to be a thing

[@TacticalPecans]

Just when I thought things couldn’t get any gayer, 20:04 happens. Haha

[@lunaginebra]

I was thinking about that same joke omg love it, let's make it a thing we gays

[@carolineschmidt2911]

The seasoned lesbian showing the baby gay how to put her black cat around her neck is the educational content I am signing up for.

[@AlaynaJoyOfficial]

ALSO OMG WHY DID I LOOK SO UNIMPRESSED WHEN YOU SAID YOU HAD 10K SUBSCRIBERS?? You must have frozen or something?? 10k subs is amazing??

[@ashgavs]

I 100% made an editing choice you were so nice.

[@AlaynaJoyOfficial]

@@ashgavs Ashley this is RUDE

[@ireallyreallyhategoogle]

Alayna, you know Stevie and yet you have never heard of tribbing? How is that even possible? Did you not watch her videos? Did you not talk with her about sex?

[@emilyscloset2648]

@@ireallyreallyhategoogle I know, crazy right xD

[@alycigelnik3231]

i thought it was because she said followers and its subscribers on youtube lol

[@cooki3monstrrr]

"Peepee bad, brain good" "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, I am gay!" Hilarious! So many gems 😂😂😂🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@randomthoughts2820]

I can't believe I'm just now discovering you Ashley, how was I missing out on this amazing CONTENT *zoom*

[@beckiiwarren1104]

Me too! 🤯 I’m instantly in love! 🤩

[@xyz2529]

YEAH SAME I FEEL LIKE I MISSED OUT

[@mjp2palmtree]

Same!

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[@katherinejoga9581]

Omg same. Just subscribed. 😊

[@CrumBerry]

When I tell you I LOST IT when you guys showed up with the cats behind your necks

[@jazzhart1327]

What is it about the black cats mine also drapes himself around my neck like a luxurious lil scarf

[@leonardmccain668]

I love how Alayna has always been moderately circumspect about the tiktok lesbian situation on her channel and Ashley just blows the lid off with gusto.

[@larissafalavigna]

Yes. YES. Loved it

[@irradiated_woman8016]

I want Ashley yelling "POON" to be my phone's text tone.

[@ashgavs]

whats your email?

[@irradiated_woman8016]

@@ashgavs omg

[@ashgavs]

@@irradiated_woman8016 do you want me to yell poon into my phone and then send it to you or not?

[@irradiated_woman8016]

@@ashgavs YES PLEASE

[@ashgavs]

@@irradiated_woman8016 Then DM me on IG or email me or something and I will make this happy for you.

[@_carrot__cake_]

Fool me once, shame on you... Fool me twice, I AM GAY 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ByCourtenie]

Ashley is the perfect juxtaposition of try hard & cool gay aunt that I aspire to be 💜

[@abicookson5713]

Alayna's joy over her cat on her shoulders was something I didn't know I needed. Also the cat just flopped there like not bothered 😂

[@asher9394]

I'm dying this is the best collab 😭😭😭hi Ashley!! Joy baby here😭I love you wtf😭

[@peggingmothman]

You can tell this is a lesbian video because of the Cat Intermission! 😂

[@Miss_Lexisaurus]

Literally sent my best friend a screenshot saying that exact thing!

[@AleLP8]

The outro: Ash: "What's your sign?" Al: "Aries." Ash: "I'm sweating." Al: "Well, this outro, it did-- it take a lot." Ash: "...**👉** Buhbye." wow

[@ashgavs]

honestly i think thats the funniest thing ive ever done.

[@greensteve9307]

Fun fact: Some plants do have single-gendered individuals. Plants as a kingdom have a huge range of sexual strategies!

[@Somersbysnoreband]

Make this top comment

[@inge45]

That plant is called "Woman's tongue" in Dutch. 🤣

[@MsRainingDays]

This is the information we needed

[@Tandarok]

OMG the cats killed me

[@acc45460]

Kora! Hallo ^^ random.

[@JaelynAsamoahX]

im crying at Alayna saying something kind of deep and then Ashley just says "lil paprika"

[@jimbrittain402]

"Peepee bad, brain good" is maybe the most reassuring thing I've ever heard about us cis/het guys from anybody. Whew! Sweet vindication!

[@hellooitssarah]

as a bi person, i'm always struggling to determine if i really like him... FARTING METRICS COULD BE THE ANSWER.

[@acc45460]

I read the description, saw the "how to avoid falling for a straight girl" part and laughed. Oh, yeah, that. Would've been nice if I could've avoided that. (Actually no because I wouldn't be who I am without that experience but I mean IT HURTS.)

[@tjlove2106]

I need a shirt tht says, " Season with paprika!"

[@bikizuzu2]

Joybaby here (but now I'm subbed to you too)! Ashley, that story about Michael's farts had me DEAD. 'Fool me once...' 😂 I kid you not, that is the absolute 100% reason that I, a former pansexual, now am a confirmed lesbian: The absolute last EVER man that I was in a relationship with literally TERRORISED me with his constant farting. It was so gross and so disrespectful that it finally just nailed it for me that I could stop trying to date men. I noped myself outta there and never looked back. 😁👍 PS -- LOVE your energy, especially with Alayna!! I'm subbed to your podcast as well! xx

[@sami-yc3xj]

Holy shit I haven’t laughed so hard in a long time, my tummy hurts. You are fuckin hilarious. Also the twin chill black cats blew my mind lol. Going to binge your podcast now... ✌️

[@cwojo7777]

This was fucking hilarious and amazing 😂 subbed for the absolute gay chaos

[@Liba_Elena]

New joybaby subscriber here! I haven't laughed so hard on a video in a long time! 😂😂

[@alexanderschiano2441]

i have to say im a straight cis white guy, and i recently discovered both of you and you guys are awesome!! your podcast might be the best thing ive ever heard

[@teigan7283]

omg the cats part had me laughing so much

[@realdirtbagOG]

Oh my god! I want to cry rewatching these old videos of Ashley and Alayna!! This is how I first discovered who Ashley is through these collabs :')

[@wildside.nikki.]

"plants are inherently gay" Me: *Is a herbalist and looks around entire house full of plants....* Also me: ... Oh.

[@NathBerg21]

Wow I watch a LOT of youtube and I don't think I've ever laughed so much as I have in this video. I would LOVE it if you guys regularly made videos together!!

[@KA-bv1wc]

SAME 😂

[@samferny2767]

As a gardener I'm dying of laughter at the plant part 🤣

[@exoticteacup]

Now I need to try to wear my cat like that. He's obsessed with me and happily lets me scoop him up in the weirdest ways, and now I finally know what the next level is. 😆

[@NE8675309]

1:40 "You get energy from the Sun? That's fucking gay!" I agree, plants are inherently gay, and it's because of photosynthesis. 3:29 "No consistency. All chaos." I want this on a t-shirt. 7:42 11:23 As a JoyBaby, I subscribed literally one minute into this video after watching part 1. Ashley is hilarious and gives really solid advice.

[@KUYITOLOKONUMERO1]

Biology for plants on point, also love THE ENTHUSIASM

[@SoulFullOfMusic81]

You said "gay" so many times, that I heard ga(y)te instead of date...and first thing that crossed my mind after "thumbs up" was "clits up"! 😂

[@sheildagent6684]

this gay chaos genuinely made my day

[@graceylucy4179]

Came from Alayna's channel, stayed for the info and some laughs, subscribed b.c of the cats

[@sandruhhh___3828]

SAME! 😭

[@elifmiss]

Ashley asking Alyna if she needs a moment is probably why dating women is just *chefs kiss

[@rossanapalma5904]

As a seasoned subscriber, I'm loving this collabs! Honestly underrated awesome content :)

[@ellasolinger4039]

The cats have me dying 😂

[@readyforthemoshpit]

The kitties part was so wholesome 😭❤️

[@lezlezzin]

omg dying at the cat moment. of everything in this video, that's the gayest thing i've ever seen

[@RuthieLove7]

This was so amazing 😻 I love it when y’all get together to make content!! Please do a video with Jade Fox !!! She’s bomb too.

[@Alex-ic4xe]

The two of them hanging out with the cats was the most wholesome incredible thing I have ever seen

[@stephanieschouten8757]

Fuck me sideways, or whatever way it was that Ashley was demonstrating. This was funny af content! Shan’t be missing out any longer on these immaculate Ashley zooms. Will be back for more!

[@sternchenEtoile]

omg that freaking cat moment!!

[@irradiated_woman8016]

YES THIS IS THE MOST DYNAMIC DUO OF D!KES!! I love you both and have been wanting more of yall together since the lovely podcast episode. HUGS♡♡♡

[@jaccrossan810]

Omg I love the cat segment

[@KUYITOLOKONUMERO1]

Following you right now even tho I'm really ofended of you having a girlfriend that is not me.

[@alejandrach8196]

so did alayna and the tiktoklesbian actually had something something :O

[@goob6764]

I’ve been consistently listening to you (and gara!) SINCE this collab coming from Alayna’s channel (though somehow I missed watching this video and went straight to the pod!) and you make me laugh constantly. Hard. To my core. I’ve choked on countless foods/ beverages; listener’s beware lol. Definitely collab with her more if you can in the future, you two have a great dynamic 😂 Thanks for all your hard work! 🙌

[@irenerichards9533]

I’m a new subscriber of Alayna’s that immediately came here after watching her video and subscribed and watched this. Watching the first one and I was so excited to subscribe here because it was the most I’ve laughed in a long time

[@ellarenee5711]

The cat moment was truly magical

[@astridmyst]

Oh my gosh you are so hilarious that I instantly subscribed the second I finished Alayna's part of this collab. XP

[@amylouise7289]

THE CATS I CANNOT

[@raeechil]

I was putting toast in my air fryer as you cursed out my unsubscribed nature- consider me subscribed

[@lucypeters9476]

I love how you're really funny but also have genuine advice! Such a great video!

[@blundrpluss]

I admit...I found Ashley's channel through Alayna's, and I'm so glad I did!!

[@moonbeam2366]

Just how many bonnets DOES Alayna own??????????????

[@gk37013]

Yes, that was my favorite line!!! Alayna most certainly would have lost it had she heard the question, but I don't believe she heard it, unfortunately.

[@chelseyhill7774]

Lol Ashley thank u for always making me laugh 😹

[@thelocalchaoticgood6146]

idk how i’ve been missing out on this channel but im so glad alayna showed me the seasoned gay, i needed some paprika in my life 😂

[@shamtactics4712]

Thank you for affirming my gender because I love you Ashley 🥰 i’ve happy cried over a few of your videos

[@sarahhokanson5391]

OMG😆 The cat gymnastics going on 🤣

[@Beautyandthebeadz]

I was genuinely smiling and laughing the whole time. also HOW WAS THIS VIDEO MONETIZED

[@3Oh3metrostation]

thank u for the PSA ma'am ! much obliged

[@hmmcms1]

Alaynas face at 14:16 = 😳😳😳 😂😂😂

[@leopardshadow333]

THE CATS ❤

[@41amandah]

Alayna always calling Ashley out her antics! Love it.

[@sunshineissexy]

Awe I lost it with the cat scarf 😂🤣 so cute!

[@BahamutEx]

not even 5mins in and my hurts from smiling and laughing x) I love your energy

[@BahamutEx]

subbed for the clitical content x3

[@dianeaishamonday9125]

"No toast for you" "your toast is hexed" but I'm paleo hahahaha

[@naomi5495]

This is the best thing ever. 😁

[@rebekahhurst7935]

im literally obsessed with your podcast. it is the only one I listen to

[@user-dt9kk6sg8z]

I prefer this because no music but both episodes are wonderful

[@virginialee5065]

Q: Do you have any tips for not falling in a love with straight women? a seasoned gay: Ppppgh, NOPE *laughing* LMAO

[@terii4116]

I'm loving this! Both of these videos of you talking about gay things are absolutely amazing! That's what I've been looking for! It's just not long enough

[@sarahzwieg3629]

OMG I laughed so hard at this whole thing. Def need you two to collab again.

[@NicoleJoana39]

Loved it! Ash, I just love when you let your personality show..please do it more😊laughed so hard in the cat part🤣ai,ai..keep the awesome work! 😘🇵🇹

[@aadrienne33]

“former bisexual” is going to be my bio on every social media soon XD

[@sarahhokanson5391]

"Your avocado toast will burn" 🤣

[@scienceOwl]

oh my turns out I'm a baby gay!! finally starting on the dating path after ~4 years...

[@alisonenoshima5884]

Why haven't i found this content earlier??

[@nightjetts]

The gayest thing in this video is you guys getting excited over your cats 🌈 🐱 🌈

[@MarvinTheMusicMan]

*Anyone else notice that when describing their types, they both more or less described each other?? Just saying...!!*

[@carotorres254]

The cats part is a whole new reason to rewatch this video

[@alena_ann]

I love you Ashley, you're energy gives me liiiiife

[@gk37013]

Omg, where to start?!! This was HiLaRiOuS!!! Please do more collabs together.❤️😍🐱🤣🤪

[@lunaginebra]

I could honestly listen to you too for hours so be free to do that without cutting next time lol♡

[@seashell6876]

Ashley I can’t explain HOW MUCH I love you!!!!!Hilarious smart I could listen to you ALL DAY SON 👇🏼

[@hunterzeep4989]

The best colab. So funny and surprisingly helpful!

[@kendrachapin8538]

Me who has watched both videos twice and listened to the podcast...

[@naofg]

I cannot stop laughing at the part with the cats

[@SonataOfPeace]

I'm sorry but "My Last Big Straight Big Breakup" sounds like a bad romcom hahaha

[@lukepolster7300]

I am seasoned with sesame seeds

[@wadnold123]

I could listen to you both for hours.

[@SyndieSimon]

Liked and subscribed because I’m not risking my avo toast xx Loved the video you are hilarious!!!

[@Princess_0f_Trees]

Local botanist here to say that only bi-sexual flowers of a plant have both pollen and ovaries. In field guides, they call those flowers “perfect” flowers. So in botany, bi-sexual flowers are perfect. (And some plants flowers only have one or the other).

[@BayAreaBerk]

Ashley!, almost 500K subscribers!...

[@anabluu]

Ashley, your smile spreads joy. I kid you not, you are one of the most attractive women I have ever seen. And I am very well seasoned ;)