Let Go of Your Attachment to Them: How to Practice Non-Attachment in Your Relationships 🦋

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[@LeeorAlexandra]

I missed you and hope this helps ❤

[@awakeningsouls9545]

WE MISSED U ANGEL!!!!! 🥰🥰🥰 especially ur vlogs 😇

[@lumina7513]

girl you have no idea how happy i was when i saw the notification, i was thinking of you earlier today!

[@nataliatothemoon]

It really does ❤️ I’m going to come back to this later today too to sit with it even more deeply

[@ishabhattacharya2887]

I missed you, it helped so much 🎀

[@kellyfortes5949]

I was so happy when I got your notication. Your teachings bring so much light and comfort. Thank you Leeor ❤

[@MarkTiarra]

"I can just be happy for no reason at all." VERY powerful words.

[@mariamimi8497]

Affirmation: ❤️I do not want anyone who does not want me. ❤I’m only doing what I’m supposed to be doing. I’m only being the person I’m supposed to be. And if they don’t like me then they’re not a member of my soul family.

[@giavanna9394]

I love this

[@lydialei1799]

This is good 👍

[@Rastasoul1]

Yes love this ♥️

[@alaina2716]

I’m trying to let go of a long time friend and my husband said I keep making excuses and justifying their actions when it comes down to the very simple idea that she doesn’t want to see me or value me outside of her own needs. It seemed so brutal to hear that my closest friend just didn’t want me- but i kept ignoring it. It’s time to let go and find acceptance in this situation. To accept we are on different paths and I need to put my efforts in the areas that compliment my life.

[@OzmaOfOzz]

I'd replace the first affirmation with: I want someone who wants me❤ Because it's a positive and sparks joy rather than a negative one that could possibly spark sadness. Just my opinion ❤

[@cinthyaalarcon9561]

What I learned the most about this video is to accept that person as they are. I feel like I’ve trying to “manipulate” them into the person I WANT them to be. What I HOPE they could be. But in reality is that I’m always disappointed, because what I truly expect never happens. So, working on accepting them as they are, without expecting anything from them is what I must do from now on. Thank you so much for your words 🤍

[@afrinalim1827]

Thanks for wording it so nicely. I needed it.

[@Amely2014]

Do u have any tips to accept it?

[@debielynclamosa6093]

♡♡♡

[@victorias7324]

1. Attachement or happiness? Make that decision now 2. Aware of the pattern it cam from or the story you're telling yourself that makes you hold to it 3. Perspective - the happiness comes from within you (it doesn't come from this person or attachment) 4. Happiness for the fact you're 5. Practice total acceptance & full love of everyone and everything that is like it is - fully accept people rather than expect them to be different. Don't have expectations of other people - as these are exactly what keeps you unhappy. We're also manipulating them. RADICALLY ACCEPT & LOVE. 6. Be yourself wihtout the expectation to receive something from others. Don't act in certain way in order to receive or get the access to yourself.

[@sweetnight106]

Cheer up 💜

[@junelove777]

thank you for sharing! i like this and it makes sense, though i have a question. do you think we should never have any expectations of others? what about setting boundaries or committed relationships?

[@bunnyearchic]

@@junelove777 I think it’s important to have standards, boundaries, and expectations for people in general, but i also feel that not everyone will act the way you want them to. It’s apart of life and it’s something i’m learning as well. When people don’t match up to my standards or are treating me bad, i have to walk away for myself.

[@momnaer1956]

😮

[@ChristopherGipson-ds6uc]

Few things that I took away from this video: 1. Choose happiness 2.Don't expect things from anyone 3. Millions of people are living happy lives without knowing your ex and so should you. 4. You was happy before your ex and you'll be happy after. Great video and content. Thank you for sharing.

[@mclaren911]

Oh my goodness #3 ! Ahh so glad I read this today

[@jlady1595]

Yes, #3 spoke to me

[@pabl1to33]

Yes, she broke up with me. Still believe that she’s a great person, and other peoples lives would be happier knowing her. She’s just a good human, which I had the honour to spend my time with.

[@Kagumi-]

wait this is about relationships attachment thangk god I saw this comment I'm not in a relationship and I just wanna fix my attachment issues 😭

[@Juan-x1r]

:(

[@hc2159]

A man verbally assaulted me in the street. He really upset me and I couldn't let it go for days. I am letting it go today. I choose happiness

[@baileywood3750]

What's difficult for me when it comes to detaching is loneliness. When someone is such a huge part of everyday of your life for years, what do you do when they're gone? Especially as someone with social anxiety who's not good at making new friends and doesn't really have any.. thank you for this video. ❤ you have a lot of wisdom and this really helped me with perspective.

[@zara7276]

I can relate 😔 There’s this overwhelming hole that they left behind and I don’t even know where to begin filling it

[@baileywood3750]

@zara7276 maybe just having faith that in time that hole will fill naturally ❤ keep your head up

[@Sam-du7cm]

​@@zara7276 i've been there. that's when you fill that hole with hobbies, passions, family, friends and things that should naturally be there. That way you not only don't depend on one person anymore, but you're attaching to who you are/are supposed to be. If one friend goes, it hurts, but it's okay because you have a life outside that one particular friend. That's also what i got from the video is nobody likes the pressure of being completely relied on by someone, to be responsible for their mental well-being. But start with the question "what can i do now that i couldn't, didn't, or forgot to do during my previous relationship/attachment" whether it be meditating, taking baths again, watching tv, hockey, journaling, etc.

[@earth-air-water-fire-aether]

Just go out and talk to people (not through comforts of social media) and actually experience life, that's the only way (make mistakes and a lot of smart mistakes as quick as possible the more you'll learn, seriously. Perspective matters you know. Learn dancing, it's good and people will naturally gravitate to you and speak and even dance with you, dance anywhere and everywhere but vibe, don't dance just to attract people, it can't be faked, similar to confidence can't be faked. Anxiety is cured is by understanding and experience, yep that's right, actually for me it worked, I don't have anxiety, well I think but that's about it. Goodluck mate.

[@neonme4781]

In buddhism we say we're all connected (same energy) so you can never lose someone. It is believed if you deeply connect with yourself and the universe you'll feel it ❤️

[@shireen_cc]

Also!!!! I’m literally so shocked because just yesterday after meditation I got the same message that “we get overly (unhealthily) attached in connections with family, relationships, friends because that’s an external projection of our internal desire/ need to experience a connection/ deeper connection with God, who is unconditional love.”

[@kamiennykamien9578]

Have you won?

[@andrealynetta3733]

This video has really reinforced steps i need to make in detachment within my relationship. I had an epiphany right in the middle of me apologising for some harmful self critical behaviour that had been going on for a while and I cried a lil as I felt immense guilt, to be met with not much response from my bf...this made me cry more as I just wanted some reassurance. I was expecting him to soothe me but he decided to not enable me. It was at that moment, i stopped crying and thought I’m expecting way too much from him in changing how I feel about me. I’m the only person that can validate myself and realised I’ve been looking to him to do it. Nope today it stops, no looking to others to make myself happy. I was this before him and can continue to be that way with or without him

[@gloriabyas8088]

Powerful!

[@motha_earth1386]

Amazing epiphany!!! I feel the same

[@mayo8723]

"NOthing outside makes you feel happy or unhappy, you are the one who decide" just a note to myself, thank you ❤️

[@sunnytriller1291]

Summary for the impatient people: 1. Do you choose attachment or your own happiness? 2. Where did that attachment come from? 3. Get a perspective of the situation. You‘re fine as you are. 4. You‘re the only one responsible for your own happiness, not the person/thing you‘re attached to.

[@tanjalikatheblacksheep708]

Thank you, thank you thank you you are a lifesaver. I’m a very impatient person, I wanted to skip the extra talking thank you again.

[@LivingInCeremony]

Accept yourself as you are. Accept everyone as they are. Release expectations of others and replace it with full acceptance not wanting to change anyone or anything. Choose your happiness and know that it comes from within, not external. Remember who you were before you knew them. Know where this attachment roots from. Be authentically you with 0 expectations and let them too. Don’t expect things from others for something in return. It releases disappointment. (Mine is from childhood - my mother / feeling not good enough, unseen, people pleasing)

[@emiigarzon]

I was just talking to somebody about how we are experiencing this collective wave of detachment. Specifically for those on a twin flame journey. It’s like everybody is settling into that “What will be, will be.” Finally after two years of focusing on this journey and devotion to our twin/our higher self. ❤️ love you leeor

[@norma5219]

Yes! I feel this 100%

[@brendatrancoso6675]

Yes! Been Feeling This! There Is Just So Much Toxicity Out Here In The KZbin Community About How The Twinflame Journey Needs Too Be When That Shouldn’t Be The Case.

[@navigatinglifewithkaz3572]

After two damn long years😭 but we are finally getting here. I left it to God,,,, and said God did bother to me God will get me through it

[@veronicagl]

SO TRUE!!!

[@ambersealy1820]

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[@destineedavidson5747]

I’ve literally been dealing with this for a week and JUST talked to my therapist about this 3 hours ago! Like wow. The universe loves me so much and I’m very appreciative for this

[@izapurins.]

i might get a therapist tbh, bc its difficult for me to continue dealing with this on my own

[@angellenamay]

God loves you, not the universe

[@heehee483]

@@angellenamayamen

[@saritas8231]

I have been very upset over the past few weeks over someone who I felt wasn't putting enough effort into our relationship. This video showed up at the perfect time in my life to let go of my attachments and work on being happy for myself and by myself.

[@CeniaVL]

Steps: 1- Bring to mind someone who you have been feeling attached or anxious about Do you want to remain attached or be happy? Let go of that attachment 2- Where this attachment came from? Expectations? Find the lie from this attachment came from "without this person you will never be happy/married" 3- Perspective: before this person you were fine, and after you will be ok too before this person you didn´t care about them 4- Nothing outside of you can make you happy or unhappy 5- Practice full acceptance 6- Be yourself without pretending to accomplish another´s expectations Don´t act certain ways in order to get things from other people

[@munmunprasad6589]

❤️

[@Heyitsphoenixrae]

Love this. Non-attachment has always been difficult for me. But I’ve found that when it comes to people, I get attached because of the potential I see in myself that they’ve actualized, if that makes sense.

[@sHopec37]

It’s a hard process but an achievable one - something to remind myself that helps is that we see God in everyone, if I’m trying to change someone I’m trying to change that same aspect of me too so why not take a step back and see the Divinity in everyone and actively and radically choose to accept, to love without expectations… my well is reaching eternal depths ❤

[@matiastesi5997]

I just broke up with him two days ago and he was the best relationship I've ever had in my life. It hurts me a lot because everything was perfect until the last moment and knowing that the reason for our breakup is because he didn't heal his ex-partner hurts me even more because I know I can't heal him. Thanks for this video Leeor. ♥

[@naomiealexandre9026]

You are so BRAVE for that, dude!

[@Lightgeneration6446]

Lmao this is exactly what we mean you break up with a really good guy to be with a hood guy from that streets that treat you like shit Then you have girls in the back ground Yeahhh girl you’re soooo brave Like bruh I’m sick n tired of this…. Most women break up relationships then complain where the good guys are at The western society is a big joke!

[@yasminleonora]

@@Lightgeneration6446 Did you not read the part where she mentioned his ex and healing? Stop selecting the information you want man.

[@Lightgeneration6446]

@@yasminleonora you’re a part of the problem too

[@yasminleonora]

@@Lightgeneration6446 and you are the entire problem.

[@LuisG113]

This whole message hit, especially the expectation part. Wish at least a billion people could watch this. So powerful, thank you !

[@emilytreu2312]

Not everyone deserves full lov. But I do agree that acceptance is necessary. Once you accept the way people are, you can then judge properly whether you want them in your life

[@Alyssalunaaaa]

This came at the most perfect time. What really hit for me was when you said how in order to align with love, you must accept the situation for what it truly is. Thank you so much for this! 🙏

[@ayselgarip3067]

oh MY goodness! its like an angel was speaking to me! so glad to see your videos again!!! needed to hear, it this was so calming and loving!♥

[@miamisol3053]

This was so great. I have to learn to let go and not have any expectations. I’m always giving so much of myself to others. It’s time to focus on me. I choose to be happy 😄.

[@LeonaZiyan]

You are completely right. I made this mistake in my relationship so badly. I realised I used this in all aspects of my life, never saw people "as they are". Profound shifts are happening. I no longer want to be this way. This is such a peaceful, blissful message. Thank you Leeor

[@hollybly1386]

YES leeor that is what. I learned when I went into my current relationship. When I started dating them I knew I wanted to let them be who they were and love them for it. This shined so much light on my own self, desires, triggers and more. It was so powerful and I still work with this 2 years into the relationship because we are always changing ❤

[@lisamarieesquivias7772]

Perfect timing for me to watch this. I just had a life moment where something reminds me of a moment with my ex and I said out loud man I miss him because I miss those little life moments. Then I told myself you can’t still be in this it’s been a year exactly how long it too long if I could cut the tie physically literally I would but it’s not that simple and or sucks to know I still am healing over this guy. Don’t get me wrong I am improving on myself I see the difference and my heart is not aching anymore and I’m not crying from the trauma(manipulation) anymore but I still feel like I’m not over it. Looking for the moment when I am unattached. This video was a reinforcement to give myself all the time I need and looking forward to the future and practicing being not attached to things accept myself

[@S1r3nc0r33]

The timing of this is truly divine

[@yaslorenzo]

This helped me extremely with everything in my life. I’m in this period where I really wanna heal from everything, since I was a kid ‘til now and this brought sooo much perspective. It’s like the missing piece! Thank you so much, Leoor! You are an angel and I love you!!! ❤

[@jewelllll1111]

I really needed to come back watching this. I just noticed my ex got into a new relationship which completely broke me down… but I saw it coming, I know I can accept it after time to time. Thanks Leeor love you sweetheart❤

[@jewelllll1111]

Hi Leeor I just wanted you to know, that I’ve just met a wonderful soulmate I could’ve ever imagined after a month I commented above. We started noticing each other in Dec, and now we’re in a beautiful relationship supporting each other, loving each other as we are, just trying to become a better person each day and spread light. I’m so thankful for you being such an inspiration and constant support throughout your videos, and I sincerely hope all of your people who’s trying to keep their vibrations way way way up, would meet incredible divine plans. Love you so much angel .xxx

[@awakeningsouls9545]

Would love to hear more about your perspective on conscious relationships and your experiences. It's so refreshing💚

[@JanEkbom]

This is so great to hear because I've been struggling with attachment to someone, even though the relationship ended 6 years ago.

[@chaseyrae3505]

My attachment is to alcohol. And I am on a journey back to myself and to sobriety. Thankyou for this video. I'm breaking up with alcohol 💕

[@heehee483]

You got this 💪

[@danielejaclyn]

Wow! I normally stay away from these type of videos but I could feel your authenticity. Thank you so much

[@abbeyjames4232]

You look so radiant in this video ❤ I needed this message. I’ve been getting back into dating recently and I get attached to people and outcomes too quickly

[@jaimesalgadoakajaime_the_d7537]

wow i decided to treat my ups and downs with dealing with my partners with awesome energy coming from angels like you thank you

[@oghenetekevweefekemo2861]

Unconditionally love.. I let go of unhealthy attachments and expectations. I am responsible for my happiness

[@masonworkswellness]

“Funny” timing ❤ thanks for these words of love and wisdom and this practice 🙏🏻

[@jaidabbs6702]

Crying before even watching. The timing is uncanny❤ thank you 😭

[@coachejiro]

Wowwww this changed my mindset immediately. I’ve been battling with relationship anxiety and emotional issues and overthinking. I listen to this everyday and it has totally changed everything for me❤❤❤ Thank you Alexander❤❤❤❤

[@ananichi]

If you’re a twin flame though- be careful and make sure your detaching from your mind- not your soul 🦋🦋🦋 this was amazingly timed and I needed it. I feel the same way but only bc what’s happening my ego wants to “let go” mostly my own insecurities, I want to work through my insecurities thus- I am practicing detaching from the mind but keeping my heart open. It’s so hard but so worth it

[@dannnyr.s6872]

♥️

[@gamecop2191]

I could really use some advice on this . I am going through the twin flame seperation thing . I was the chaser. It’s been 7 months no contact and I’m so miserable and tired of it . READY and WILLING to completely move on. Not bothering her or stalking online , totally accepted and cut off . But I cannot Go a fucking hour without her popping into my head and feeling intense loss . It’s miserable and exhausting . To the point of turning to god which I’ve never done , just to pray that he would take her out of my mind for good .

[@nicolehiggs]

your wisdom reaches the deepest valleys of my soul and dusts them off. yes. thank u.

[@emerging.energy]

definitely missed your wisdom! the timing of this message is absolutely divine ✨ thank you for your commitment to self and all 🫶🏽

[@shireen_cc]

Leeor!! I’m so glad you’re feeling inspired after returning to mediation, connecting with God and accepting and letting go 💛🌙 I’m so grateful and happy you’re back to guide us by being a living embodiment of love, gratitude and hope! We’ve all missed you🥰

[@maxineyu7666]

As always, I learned so much from this video. I didn't realize I was so attached to my fiance but more so trying to change his way of doing things . Learning to accept people as they are without expectations❤️ Thank you for this video💕

[@marcelacasas2187]

You talk about having no expectations of changing them but, what if your BF has anger issues related to post traumatic stress /Vietnam result? I want him to get counseling or get help somehow. I've suffered three years with his stubbornness and refusal to get help. I finally had to detach myself from him for my peace and happiness. There are cases where they need to change to make it work or detach.

[@lizettepena6343]

This is exactly what I needed rn ❤️

[@anamarierae]

Love you Leeore, you're like that friend that i haven't seen for so long but when we get together nothing has changed, the bond is still there.

[@christiana3771]

Perfect video in perfect timing. I'm letting go of a job that I've been attached to for 9 years. It was my first job and because I became so attached to the people and the place I continued to stick around even though I knew 5 years ago this job wasn't for me. Its so funny the things we to not "disappoint" others and also the lie we tell ourselves continuously. Watching this video made me realise that I felt like I fit in and accepted at my job so it made me really attached to it. I never felt connected nor ever fit in at home so I went to the one place that needed me (very empath of me). I always knew that my passion and hobbies was in performing arts and creation but being in my current job was well respected and once again lied to myself. I also realise that I have a belief that it's shameful to do jobs out of the ordinary as that's what I was taught. I'm letting go of my attachment to this job, my beliefs, thoughts, behaviours and patterns. I let go and let God. Thank you Leeor so blessed to have you in my life I always learn something new about myself.

[@LeeManaka]

Timing, impeccable! Struggling with this however learning that I'm such a gem to have in any place in people's lives that if they choose not to have me it's their loss. Thanks Leeor 🌻

[@tiffanymilagros7088]

Just what I needed 😭💕

[@PKspiritual]

Same 😫💖

[@themissingink444]

I appreciate this so much. My ex has had me on a string for years now. NO MORE. I lived MANY MANY years HAPPY before him and will HAPPY WITHOUT him. I am LETTING GO AND LETTING WHAT HAPPENS HAPPEN.

[@_staceyreid]

This was such a great reminder🙏🏻

[@nested9301]

you are a nice person you have your own charme, and you need to love your self more than everything else

[@carolazzam477]

I resonated with this in so many ways. I have been going through something that has felt so personal and specific that I thought no one would ever understand. But this video reminded me that no experience has not been experienced before and I am never alone. Leeor you are a true teacher you got me writing notes, pausing and rewinding so I don’t miss anything. Thank you for sharing your wisdom

[@VareeVongvaravipatr-sd1lt]

i watched this a year ago. Still I'm watching you now, somehow with the sun shining on you and how you describe and made me feel related perfectly. Thank you so much Leeor, you made my day :)

[@coffeejazzlol]

Was attached to someone pretty positive and I swear I didn't know how I was going to detach but this video makes me feel confident

[@Rosysbeautybar7]

I needed this just now ❤😢

[@krystalklearvision]

3/4ths into the video i was feeling what you suggested and i felt happiness inside get intense when i envisioned detachment from this idea of the kind of relationship i wanted from my SP. He quit literary rolled over and laid on me DURING THE VIDEO ! Real time manifestation in full effect!! It works!

[@emilycollinsworth7321]

This was beautiful. Exactly what I needed to hear thank you so much 💗

[@ashreyayerica]

"My love" this was so good. keeping my vibrations up!

[@kelseyclark9733]

Something I’m struggling with is, if you choose to expect nothing from people, choose to radically accept and love them, what do you do when they disrespect or betray you ? I’m struggling understand radical acceptance aligning with boundary setting. If you are in a relationship with someone who you have chosen to radically accept, and then they do wrong by you, you have to leave them?

[@bliep85]

Exactly, i want to know this too..

[@manipuralove]

It really hit for me when you said that the attachments stem from the lie we tell ourselves abt a certain person like if this person doesnt love me no one will. You brought me so much clarity thankyou for uplifting the cpmmmumity

[@arielleira735]

I release all that no longer serves me and welcome in all that is aligned with my spirit. 🙏 So mote it be.

[@Ayeitscort_]

As soon I click on this video and began to watch it I almost immediately looked to see if you had a podcast also ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️!!! Thank You❤

[@NadiaVenice]

That product placement was very smooth and creative 😂👌🏾

[@AikiraBeats]

I needed to hear this. From childhood, to adulthood I've had this negative attachment styles. I want to change this mindset of mine, so that I'm not allowing other people's lives control mine through my mind.

[@davidozuna4954]

Loving how this video came out at the same time I’m currently reading “ the power of letting go “ ❤️

[@tiffanymartin1692]

This is CRAZY!!! I literally just finished crying because I can’t seem to let someone go. This was the first video that popped up when I opened KZbin. Wow 🤯🤯🤯

[@santayanamegan4693]

This is a perfect video. You have no idea how much this video has helped me sleep. Thank you

[@bpassion4fashion581]

First of all, I love that you are wise beyond your years! Thank you for this video. I searched for “ how to let go” in a moment of pain and self evaluation, wanting to find the tools to let go of my old identity as a mother. This attachment is hard to let go, as not in my wildest dreams did I think my role as a mother would ever had to transform and change so drastically. You see, I birthed twins at the age of 19. I stopped my life, my dreams , my freedom and took on motherhood like a warrior. I raised them to be good men, but now that they are 27 I feel discarded and it’s triggering my abandonment issues. I had imagined this stage to be so different. There is definitely a lot of grieving to do ! Accepting him as he shows up ( I am referring to one of them in specific ) is so difficult but it is definitely my goal, as I always want him in my life. I think I had this belief that my sacrifice and investment would be reciprocated. That I didn’t abandoned them and that they wouldn’t leave me. It’s not how it working out … With that said, I am committed to being happy and free of emotional pain, so I’ll do what I need to do to get there.

[@The_Magical_Frequency]

Just stumbled on your channel - super loving your vibe and want a channel like this to be my next manifestation but I gotta quit the corporate gig first. I’ve put it in motion - here’s to letting go of the attachment of that career on to the next chapter of my life!!! ❤❤❤ Much Love.

[@gloriabyas8088]

Best wishes to you!!❤

[@carissanicole4619]

Leeor! I love you so much, it's crazy how you said I'd feel a shift immediately, and I did! I feel the peace, love, and total acceptance as a result of becoming unattached, I'm so thankful for your video, my favorite part was when you mentioned your friend secretly wanted/needed a relationship with God, and that masculine energy was truly what she desired, the pressure she put on her partner as a result wasn't healthy, I'm taking notes, love this input!

[@cassandragrayes6149]

I love this! Really helpful video of detaching. The only caveat that I have is that it is okay to have healthy and reasonable expectations of people. Having unrealistic expectations from people and yourself is where is gets wonky.

[@TheBuffBLKBarbie]

First video and I had to subscribe. Your voice is calming and loving.

[@olyavmusic]

I feel that I am in between finally doing this whole heartedly and still wanting to hold onto my former life. I do know that it is the right way to go, though and will bring the most peace. I will keep practicing.

[@supernez3685]

People that don’t know this person are happy. That was gold !

[@arnettamayo9824]

Ngl I’m taking notes right now, and I truly believe I was meant to see this video ❤ thank you

[@serina_makeup_mama4094]

Idk how I fell on to this video but I needed this sooo much

[@toeeggs]

A video that actually has examples!! Thank you so much.

[@RubyDuran]

I'm not even kidding, this made me cry. I'm crying. Thank you 🙏

[@tracynesom3524]

❤️🙏 Im learning that I was attached to wanting to control people … if they acted like I wanted then I was happy if they didn’t I blame them for not being happy….

[@jillbowden9103]

this was beautiful..especially the energy that radiated out from you as you spoke about your path of Letting Go..surrender to the Divine..to the path of Love .I would love to see you lead a meditation of opening the heart to more and more love in each circumstance ❤

[@albertarias-cd7us]

U nailed it, everything u said is truthful. What your talking about is what im going through. Thanks for the advice. ❤❤❤❤❤❤😢

[@tamzinsturgeon5053]

the timing of this is just perfect. ive been struggling with attachment in regards to how new people in my life, and the person im seeing romantically, perceive me. this attachment to being seen/unseen is my ego taking control. i dont need to overthink these interactions or present myself in a certain light, so long as i am loving and accepting, not wanting things to change - instead letting the universe guide these things naturally and peacefully removing what doesn’t serve my highest self - is all i need🫶🏻

[@cymairah8102]

This video was insanely helpful for my anxiety and helped me to ground myself while having a clear analysis of my situation. I love the message of accepting people for how they are and showing nothing but love to them, instead of facing constant disappointment of all the failed attempts of manipulating and trying to change them. Something that really stuck with me was how u said that love and happiness should come from within instead of externally. This is really true because we as humans are damaged a lot of the times and search for the love and validation we're missing from important parental figures and ourselves in others which causes us even more damage . What will be, will be.

[@XCVi_MAC]

My anxiety was terrible. They ran through my mind 24-7… fear of them moving on with someone else. I’ve been broken up for two months now and I’m barely detaching.

[@diegopc1357]

Beautiful woman and not just physically. She understand and you can tell.

[@Peacockfeather918]

Best timing ever

[@ChristinaDiBiase]

Going back to the reason we created an attachment in the first place and examining that is so helpful! I’ve been feeling this idea of ownership and what i feel i own, person, place, or thing is so attached to my sense of security. It’s incredibly unsustainable and being in the middle of grief right now, Im forced to let go over and over again. To surrender. I so appreciate this reminder exactly when I need it ❤

[@miah6147]

EVERYTHING hit! My partner and I recently broke up due to me pressuring him to basically love himself and do better for himself. He got therapy, yet his habits have not changed. I wanted him to be someone he was not, and detaching has opened my eyes. He had terrible depression and even though we are at different points in our journeys, I am able to let go off the resentment I had toward him and accept that he is the way he is and I can never change him, only he can do that.

[@geenamay9126]

I really needed this Today I’m tryna create a new me and my attachments are bring me back to my old self and this really relieved those attachments

[@jamiewilliams8107]

Daily meditation has helped to avoid strong attqchments and accept when something or someone isnt for me.

[@HeatherSaenz]

Wow!!! This video was everything! I can't wait to watch it again tonight. Like fire! Thank you so much. You spoke right to me today. 🦋🦋🦋

[@flowbossandre]

You have such a gentle and kind energy

[@amaana1414]

Halfway through the video and I already feel a huge change ❤

[@Shawntheguy333]

Thank you for the video. I did not understand detachment in the correct way. I understand this better now.

[@honeybun777]

ur energy just feels so good ily

[@soulitis]

I love your approach. And the way you deliver the message. Actually love isn’t used correctly I enjoy and admire. And that brings me to this word love. I believe we use love so loosely and we think we love someone and that’s why we are attached but love in my understanding if we say for example god or the universe, whatever you call your higher power. If you say they are unconditional love well love is simply acceptance. Keeping our feelings to ourselves and understanding what the body is communicating to the mind. Not transmuting them into a reaction and then using love as the reason for the attachment when it’s the lack of love you have not the the lack of love they have. Because you cannot accept someone’s actions or lack of action as truth because your feelings are painting red flags, green. Until you wave the white flag and surrender. 🙏🏽👁️ that’s my experience with love and releasing. Something I had to embrace this last year to a whole different level that I was prepared for. But grateful non the less.. 😊

[@slowlyfindingmeaning]

Love this! Thanks for sharing! ❤

[@ernieschol964]

Expectation, Wanting & Jealousy are the 3 love enders in a relationship... Namaste 🙏

[@vanessakleinart]

ah leeor! not necessarily the message i wanted but when i saw this video i knew i needed it