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[@ThislifeofmineOG]

Hey Guys! I’m at work. Just wanted to stop in to let y’all know - The GoFundMe is linked in my description. Please, check out this video’s description && the description located on my playlist. The pieces will all come together for you. 🤎🤎

[@mrschandler]

You are one smart & calculated young lady. Very wise beyond your years. I would love to contribute to a lawyer. Can't wait to see you reunited with your children. YOU WILL WIN🙌🏽

[@ThislifeofmineOG]

Thank you so very much. I wish I could describe to y’all how I feel through these videos or responding to comments, but it’s just not the same. I really appreciate every one of y’all. 🤎

[@Mzbl0ndi3]

Check with your local county courthouse for resources to speak with an attorney for free. It’s only going to be a few minutes of their time but it is worth it. Praying for you!

[@K_B_H_]

YES, check with them for a listing of attorneys that can work with you for free or sliding scale. It's important you keep records or a chronological list of events that have been going and will so in the future. Record everything on paper, have people follow up restating things in emails if they promise or agree to something, and/or on paper. If he doesn't comply with a parenting agreement, that's contempt, and an attorney when informed of it will schedule a court hearing. Remember at all times, keep it classy, take the high road, and let your attorney run their mouth for you. Always keep in mind the court wants what is best for the children, and that's to know both parents (we don't get to chose if they're nice parents or not). Been there, done that. Just focus on always being the best version of you, improving yourself, and creating a lovely home and life for the children to thrive and grow. They need this to be able to focus on their own personal development and education, which is EVERYTHING. Good Luck.

[@ThislifeofmineOG]

Thank you to both of you for the tips!!!! I really appreciate the insight and the help. I’m going to do everything I can to bring them home. 🤎

[@janetsides901]

Do they have legal aid lawyers. You might qualify to use them.

[@citychicdoc1596]

See if your town has a Legal Services Volunteer Program. The lawyers work to help clients after their work hours for free. Clients meet with the lawyers to work on their legal case each week. Best wishes!

[@ThislifeofmineOG]

I did continuously check when I lived in Tulsa but now that I’m here, I’ll be trying to find other resources here.

[@lorrainesimmons2645]

My favorite quote:God is in control of everything. You will get your three, beautiful children back. I remember watching you from the beginning. I have always enjoyed all your content, and seeing your children. ❤❤❤

[@ThislifeofmineOG]

He is! I’m trying so hard to get better about just giving the situation to him and not dwelling on it. Just continuing to do the next right thing.

[@sherribaldwin2239]

I don’t understand how he is not in contempt if he isn’t following the parenting guidelines! This will catch up with him once you go to court. He will not look good in the eyes of the judge! He thinks he has leverage because he feels you don’t have the money! But you are getting yourself in order and will prove him wrong and the kids will know how hard mom fought for them ❤He’s only hurting the children and they will know one day! I’m so sorry you are dealing with this! If they aren’t making your life better let them go! That means even if it’s family ❤

[@neshiaw.6991]

That's exactly what I was thinking. If he isn't following the rules in regards to the visitation, he is out of compliance. I couldn't believe she was told not to contact him even in regards to checking on her kids or she'll be in trouble. That's insane. If she has visitation rights, just like him, how could she get in trouble for reaching out to check on them. A year? That's crazy. I hope she is soon reunited with her babies because this is so crazy.

[@ThislifeofmineOG]

So Technically, yes, he is in contempt. I’m not sure why things are going the way they are, but they are. I have filed several police reports on the matter, even filed harassment charges on him after he continued to bring his girlfriend to my place. BUT, how the police came to my door, or met me in court, they didn’t do that when I told them about him &&& had proof! As far as the Judge, we haven’t actually been to court over the kids. We went to court over a No-Contact Order & during that we signed a Parenting Plan. The No-Contact Order was lifted & the parenting plan was set in place. He followed that for a while & then he just stopped out of nowhere. It started off with “I can’t drop the kids off at the p/I location” to him not responding or texting back at all. I haven’t been summoned to court. I go to court for other reasons and he knows all my court dates so it would be easy to serve me if needed. But, he hasn’t. I’ve reached out to several organizations but I got a lot of No’s and when I finally got a Yes, he denied showing up. Which was to start the process of finalizing our divorce and figuring out a set-in-stone plan for the kids. He denied it & he’s living his best life with his girlfriend and their New Baby. While Our kids don’t even have the pleasure of seeing their own mother. I’ve tried to do all I could do but the honest truth is, I don’t have the money. I have a good job now, but this hasn’t always been the case. I just started working here and I just moved into a place. I had to ask for help. I had to share my story. It’s alot of things I can’t discuss, because it could be used against me in court, but I promise, I’m telling y’all all that I can & the honest truth.

[@neshiaw.6991]

@ThislifeofmineOG that is so sad, Van! That's okay. Show and tell what you can and want to. It's okay. We are here for you, like many others have said. I started watching your channel years ago and noticed that I hadn't seen you in a while. Of course, we didn't know what all was going on. I hate this for you so much. You were always at home with your babies, and like you said in your video, going from being with them every day to not seeing them in over a year, that's affecting them as well. Those kids aren't used to you not being there. God has the last say, and prayerfully, it'll all work out in you and your kids' favor. You have done nothing to harm your children, so I don't understand how he isn't in trouble for keeping them from you. God does not like ugly, and He is going to work it out for you. Stay prayed up, and don't let him know your next move. I wish your family was a little more supportive, but that's okay too. You have your KZbin community, and we've got your back. I am a social worker, so I see stuff like this all of the time.

[@blessedlady2490]

Don't be afraid don't let the devil have that much power. Your ex can't stop your voice and who you are.... we love you and glad your back keep on pushing 🫸 and let GOD guide you 🙏 🙌

[@ThislifeofmineOG]

Well said ! I really do appreciate all the love and support! I’m not trying to let anyone outside of my or my children win this time.

[@blessedlady2490]

@ThislifeofmineOG exactly and you don't have to... greater is he thats within us then he that is in the world... don't feel ashamed we have all been and done things forgiveness starts with us ... God hasn't given up on us yet 🙏 🙌

[@kimberlygreen2343]

You are doing a great job. Continue to do what you are doing and know that God will take care of the rest. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@janetsides901]

Don’t ever give up. No matter what life throws at you,don’t give up. Things will work in your favor. Also be very selective of who you let in your life. Not everyone is a good person. Users find givers,you’re a giver. They take advantage and if you don’t do what they want they lie about you or threaten. I’m praying for you and your children.

[@yvonneagostinho8919]

Continue fighting and never given up It may take time put your self in god hands 🙌 and prayers will be answered. Remember every one how hurts others will be the day of judgment in front of are lord Jesus Christ. ❤❤

[@jessicanicole824]

I’m claiming it with you…To God be the Glory! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@roniecesmith2800]

She put the go fund me in the description box y’all

[@aboutsonia]

You are doing an amazing Job! Keep focusing, praying and everything is going to work out in your Life!!

[@tontonmestandingtall9289]

Hey 👋🏾 I’m so sorry this all happened to you. I wonder why I haven’t seen you on KZbin. I’m glad you are back. You are loved and appreciated I be praying for you and your children. You need a new Amazon wishlist or add to remaining one please. Keep enduring keep your prayers strong & going 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@ThislifeofmineOG]

Hey! I’m glad you’re back . Thanks for your support! I saw your other comments too. 🤎 I’m going to work && taking a break so I’m trying to respond while I can. . . I didn’t know anything else had been purchased 😭👀 I will try to update it tonight. I’m honestly not sure what else to put on there. So, I’ll start putting things for the kids bedrooms.🤎🤎🤎

[@beautyindecor7416]

Yes please

[@tontonmestandingtall9289]

@@ThislifeofmineOG Great 👍🏾

[@annointedcece]

My heart breaks for you. I am one of your older subscribers and I enjoyed watching your videos. You are a great mother. Stay strong and trust God to see you through. I am praying for you. ❤🙏🏼

[@lilniknak]

❤❤❤ keep your head up! God got you!

[@stephaniem.5924]

You got this Vantanzia, my heart truly goes out to you! I can only imagine and know that everything will fall into place 🙏🏻!! So incredibly heartbreaking to hear about everything you have gone through. I can't believe your ex was able to do something like that and not be held accountable that is shocking to me! Just remember Our Heavenly Father is always there for us no matter the hour, the minute or the second. Pray, pray and pray Vantanzia! You throw all your burden onto Him and He will take care of you and your kids ❤

[@shelleydavies1639]

We are here for you. We understand why you went off-line...best at the time. BUT, stay here. We can help your mental state. Keep in your Bible...keep that part in your life. Everything you have learned 'the hard way', is from God

[@shawnaharris9813]

I’m praying for you to get your kids back soon! You have been through the storms and now I think you should have some sunshine in your life! Just keep fighting to get your kids back because karma will take care of your ex and God is on your side!❤🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️

[@claudeenlth0y0washington33]

Speak your truth. U r not alone. Loads of other women who have had to deal with this lost. One day ur kids will see this commentary and time will heal u all… is my prayer. Stay up

[@misshamm728]

Hey Sis... Just contributed. If everyone who viewed or liked this video contributes just $10 each, you'd exceed your goal. I'm rooting and praying for you. God is still on the throne, and He knows and sees ALL. Prayer changes things!! Stay vigilant and believe you will be victorious!!

[@UniqueDunn-pe8lu]

Hey girl!, first I wanna say im so incredibly proud of you. It takes so much courage and strength to speak about the situations that you’re experiencing and being transparent and open on a platform. we haven’t talked in a while but when we did have conversations you were one of the most helpful, insightful, and caring people I have ever met. I am praying for you, not only for you to have your babies back at home with you but for your new journey as well.. In life I pray God gives you the absolute best support system, you will find a lawyer that will assist you in this family law case, and God will bless you in front of every single person that wronged you or intended for things to be anything but that.. you are amazing .. you are strong.. you are kind.. and you are an amazing mother. I hope you are able to find peace, favor, and so much success! you got this!

[@lynnskitchen8631]

I’ve been following you during your marriage when you here in your small house, you have a good heart for others, you are stronger than you think, you take a hit but you don’t stay down, and that’s the key to growing, you are not going through the things for nothing , God will get the glory you will have victory keep trusting God, keep your faith, keep focused! The mountains will be moved, for every tear, lie told on you, glade friends and yes family to, watch God move in your life, I’m telling you what I know, not what I think. Love your in my heart and prayers!🙋🏻‍♀️❤️👍🏾

[@GuiltFreeMomma]

If I know anything about you, I know how much you love your children. Praying for you 🙏🏾.

[@ThislifeofmineOG]

Kerima, I appreciate you && I genuinely just want to say Thank You. 🤎🤎🤎🤎

[@mrs.sickhumortv3113]

Girl, everything will be ok because god see what you’re trying to do and you will get your kids back. You got this and we are going to support you until you get them back. Have a wonderful week and weekend 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

[@montricemadlock7676]

Vantaza I pray for and your beautiful kids. I was one of first viewers on your KZbin channel. I remember when Jacquen and your whole family where good and I remember when it was you and kids and he left yall to be with someone else. I pray for clarity and double determination for you and the beautiful babies🫶🏾❤️❤️❤️🫶🏾

[@lea_learn403]

I am so sorry you’re going through this. I hope that your children are back with you soon and remember Sophia is in a home with people that are going to take care of her. Don’t be so hard on yourself. You made a good decision now let’s get those babies back.❤

[@user-ou1zr1wh7g]

Hi sweetheart. I praying for you and your babies. Yes claim it trust God timing !! Stay in prayer God answer prayers. Is there anyway you could get Sophia back. They are good therapy for us. I love dogs. It would be wonderful if the two of you could reunite. God is going to bless you with your children!!❤❤

[@user-mu3xk7ie2t]

God is faithful.

[@carolynwilliams2828]

🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@BrendaBrown62]

Pray and believe that God will direct your path!

[@lalahairston9305]

I been watching you from the beginning I’m glad you are trying to get out your comfort zone I’m sorry to hear you don’t have your children. God will bring them home and god is making you be stronger not just for you but for your children also. I know it’s hard right now but only the strong survive and you are doing it don’t give up that’s what the devil was trying to do see if you were weak.you had the strength to get on here and tell your story that takes guts we saw the struggles and hardship now it’s your turn to shine keep your head up and bring those precious babies home.🙏💪❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@TheMcFams]

Just finished watching one of your cleaning vids and i had the same problem with my tub. Guess what worked? A regular plunger. I saw it on youtube. Used that plunger and never had that problem again. As far as this video goes, great transparent video. Keep grinding you will get your kids ❤

[@stephaniem.5924]

1 Peter 5: 6 Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God, so that he may exalt you in due time, 7 while you throw all your anxiety on him, because he cares for you. 8 Keep your senses, be watchful! Your adversary, the Devil, walks about like a roaring lion, seeking to devour someone. 9 But take your stand against him, firm in the faith." ❤

[@berthathomas48]

So sorry that you had to go threw so much mess with people that you thought you could trust, sending you lots of prayers 🙏🏾 ❤️ and I hope everything work out for you your children 🙏🏾

[@trinastrong3076]

You will be fine don’t beat yourself up for you being who you are people like you and I get walked over because we keep going even in pain but don’t change you change the people you surround yourself with if you see things that make you feel less then or uncomfortable walk away

[@donzellcooper]

Hey there I’m glad you’re feeling better now and sorry that all that happened to you. Praying that everything goes well and your kids be with you forever.

[@beautyindecor7416]

Love your dear. Sending my donation next week❤ made me cry

[@justineruth_]

You will make it through. You are making it through. You are moving forward. Keep going. Do not be afraid ❤. The universe wants you to win. Your babies are coming home. I pray the legal system sees through the lies & disservice done to you. I am sorry friends have hurt you as well. I also want to say that this was a clearly stated video; which to me means you are being genuine. Please continue to strive toward your goals & do not beat yourself up for past mistakes. You are amazing❤

[@KC-wr3xk]

By law your ex husband shouldn’t be able to keep your children from you. If you had a parent plan he would be in contempt. Legally that should be enforced. I’m sorry but something just doesn’t add up with the story. Also, sometimes you have to remove people from your life even if that is family. Sometimes family are the worst of them all. Good luck to you!

[@ThislifeofmineOG]

As far as the story goes, this isn’t the first time I’ve shared what has happened. I’ve done several lives with my true supporters & they know the full story + what you watched today. I just have to be mindful of what can and can not be used against me in court. Thanks for watching. Truly appreciate the supportive view and the good luck. 🤎

[@elsacruz6124]

Look for a lawyer that will do a pro bono. You might be able to find one.

[@ThislifeofmineOG]

Keeping this in mind!

[@latric61]

Praying for you, but is this a situation where DFCS can get involved?

[@latrisamorris1433]

💞💞💞💞💞💞🙏🙏

[@Crystal4Christ4Eva]

Hey do you have a go fund me page to help get you a lawyer. I would like to donate

[@tiffanylynn5540]

In her description

[@susiesandifer9623]

Why want your family help you get your children

[@ThislifeofmineOG]

I shared in the video. It’s a lot of people who say they love and care for me, but they see I don’t have my children and they’re taking from me && just putting me through it. That’s the only answer I can give for this question.

[@RaesJourney7208]

Send me your number Sis. I'll be glad to call and text u. Just to check and make sure u ok. I gt your back❤❤❤❤. We all got your back.