Let Them Choose You... Or Lose You

[@mikanova.]

This timing is CRAZY yo 😭 The dude I have a crush on sent me a message this morning, saying that he wants to go strictly platonic moving forward and that it's "not you, it's me"... turns out he still misses his ex and he flirted with me as a distraction from her... Shit's tough man, y'all stay safe out there

[@Hathy-San]

😢😢

[@kopprivva]

I've been through something similar, he literally said the same thing "it's not you, it's me" he just made an excuse that "he couldn't fall in love". But bro was leading me on for months doing everything he could to convince me he LOVES me, so I said I liked him and he rejected me. Basically, just used me for validation and he liked the attention I was giving him. I gave up on love

[@Ramboshadow33]

Don’t worry, that’s his ex for a reason. You being a genuine and authentic person will one day bring you someone down and genuine about you

[@KeianaMonique]

Crazy !! You deserve better ❤

[@deklanda]

Dude this is EXACTLY MY SITUATION TF???

[@Berry1704]

The more i get hurt by people the more im learning those things and those type of vids help me actually understand it even more thank u

[@Yuddder]

Will, my gf broke up w me about 2 weeks ago, today I went down to bring her clothes and shit she left at my place. She was so cold and not herself. When you see someone who has no respect/desire to be in your life, it makes it much much easier to let go. Still will take time but certainly helps.

[@CurSwag]

Bro same exact thing happened to me 2 years ago almost to this day with my ex of 5.5 years after I moved out. And funny cause a week ago she reached back out and confessed she regrets a lot of what happened and how she acted and told me the door is always open for us if we’re ever meant to be again but I say all this to say that I know what youre going through and it really is so hard and tough and lonely but I promise you, if you do it right by focusing on yourself and your future, and god, they will come back. They always do. Trust me, this pain shall pass.

[@Yuddder]

@@CurSwag Thank you brodie I appreciate it! They always come back when you focus on yourself. I have been grinding in the gym and at work so we shall see. Have a date with a girl on Thursday so we'll see how that goes. I lowkey let her get away with a lot in terms of my boundaries (like family values, view of the world and stuff, not cheating lmao) but I want to find someone who aligns more with those. This might just be a great thing to happen to get me back on track tbh. I appreciate the words tho bro and wish you the best, do not get back w her!

[@CurSwag]

@ bro you have the perfect mentality. And same as you though I’m pretty sure she did cheat which is exactly why we never getting back man. So much easier as time goes on so stay strong bro, good stuff.

[@PunkForAReason]

​​@@Yuddder she broke up a month ago and you're already seeing another girl??? No wonder she is cold, she knew what she was dealing with, you will replace her in no time, that is sad. On the other handd, u should take the time to heal before using someone else as a copout

[@Ramboshadow33]

Always choose yourself more or the same way you try to choose others.

[@adejumo8]

True that sometimes you have leave people where you left them

[@bri3566]

I soooooo needed this! I messed up with a guy, got insecure and told him I felt I’m wasting my time in a drunk text. While I felt that way, I just should’ve found a better way to say it and not tell him I’m going to leave him alone. Now he won’t even talk to me even after I apologized. I realized it’s my fault and it’s been a week of no talking. I honestly have better things to worry about like finding a better paying job and getting a new car. If we ever talk again, cool. If we don’t, so be it. But for now I’m done dating and focusing on building a better life for myself.

[@brianmitchell8552]

I always been used for entertainment. Always get “you’re a great guy but….”.

[@crystalnewman6965]

Perfect timing-I'm currently going through a tough situation. I recently opened up to a friend about my past experiences with people who only valued me for what I could offer. When they asked for financial help, it triggered those old feelings, so I asked about their financial situation. Unfortunately, they think I’m comparing them to the people from my past, but in reality, I just wanted to explain how deeply those experiences hurt me. I’m not someone who expresses emotions often, and on the surface, it might seem like I have everything together-but inside, I feel lost, misunderstood and alone. There comes a point where you just get tired of constantly trying to prove your worth to others.

[@ryandirenzo6098]

This video came at the perfect time for me. I am currently trying to learn balance and self-respect. Not investing in people who don't want me, and taking their lack of interest personally. Choosing to put my energy and time towards people who do want me in their lives.

[@DivineAwareness88]

My fave part of the video is when you said not to force people to be in your life just because of prolonged alone time. Thats my battle! I enjoy being around others but im not being chosen rather I'm forcibly inserting myself in peoples' spaces. Thank you for helping me notice my self-destructive patterns 🙌🏾.

[@kimaaxo2824]

I chose her but she didn't choose me, so i have to let go. thank you for your words brother, all love.

[@Kishereforfood]

This is good timing, low-key think I got ghosted again 💀

[@WillKeepItReal]

😭😭 sorry to hear that

[@michaeltorres676]

3 and a half years, we have a son together. I appreciate these videos… they’re helping me a lot.

[@SoulfulVibeswithKMan]

Im 16, im tired of feeling used for entertainment or anything below. If i gotta stick to be solo whether its friendships or relationships it just has to be done. Got a long life ahead of me ill find the right people eventually.

[@101msgirltalk]

You’re still very young! I’m glad you’re realizing this now.

[@ILiveUpToMyName]

I received this message. Thank you my brother!!! 🙏🏾

[@Yinyust]

The timing is CRAZYYY

[@Goodwillwinoverevil1984]

People "choose' you only if you provide some type of benefit for them, otherwise they will forget you unfortunately.

[@LoisRich]

There is so much wisdom in your words. This came in a time I needed it...I wish my younger self could have heard this as well. Thank you. Thank you. And God bless you. ♥

[@ChristinaKosma-q9w]

Will thank you so much! 🙏 I was always trying to be someone else so that i will gain their love, attention, acceptance, value. And since I started to heal myself, my partner show me disrespect 😭 and i'm so heartbroken and i'm trying so hard to love me again.I am so devastated. Thank you so much, cause now through you i see my worth.

[@esme3726]

Bro your words always hit man.. and you're so right we do so much to change ourselves to recieve that satisfaction and we go as far as to do anything to gain that attention. We do have to be okay with loosing/gaining people and it is so painful but it all pays off at the end. Self-control is one of the toughest things but it's never impossible. Keep making videos bro, God constantly gives you wisdom.

[@dominator325]

Thank you for your channel. You’ve helped tremendously and can’t thank you enough man.

[@Uzma-x6b]

What’s this timing 😭 just what I needed

[@eriknayan]

Hey Will just wanted to say thank you for your content, your videos are precisely on point with what I've been through lately! People like you make the difference, keep going man!

[@majoraxx2427]

It’s exhausting.

[@lovetoyou527]

Real , Love the vids bro making me think about things in an different perspective

[@yosanmesmer]

When I tell you I binge watched almost all your videos 😭

[@CemAlFatih]

Yes indeed

[@RaymaneTheTruthful]

thanks man my fiancé just broke up with me 3 hours ago before watching this

[@AnA2o13]

The timing though , and of course after I just texted him like 10minutes ago 😮‍💨

[@RandyAbeyta-f2jfree]

yes, brother its true

[@helenakayoko2730]

This is a real therapy session 😭❤️

[@luaraos6131]

youre literally helping me so so much:) thank you for everything literally

[@Yuddder]

perfect timing lmao

[@sparklestar8233]

I like your videos a lot because you put the things i think about into words so beautifully.Thank you

[@bnapfit]

glad I found this thanks brotha

[@justinfouche3599]

My situation is tough.. Ive been with my girl for 3 years, 4 years in May. We have a daughter together. Im from New Zealand, and came to South Africa just before covid. I got stuck here in South Africa in covid and ended up staying, got a job and continued till i could go back, then i met her. We were always planning to go to NZ together but now my reason for not wanting to lose her is because if we end up not being together i will lose my little family i built and never be able to go back home to NZ because i could never leave my baby daughter here. If our relationship ends, I'm never getting back home.

[@OhLarko]

Thanks

[@j4wj2w]

Going through a 4 year break up where she left me and I find it very difficult. I just feel like my worth came a lot from her and it’s hard thinking of how fast she moved on after.

[@nathantraverso2713]

I fw this bro thank you

[@adriz.w0rld]

i appreciate this video sm

[@Ms_KC]

True❤

[@ItsSpazzz]

How do I make people ignore me when I’m a popular kid who everyone wants to talk to? And everyone expects me to be so happy and if not they bug me because “why am I not happy?”

[@DreadHouseTV]

Just be the popular loner try not to post to stay under the radar.

[@Maya-kz4bt]

Thank you

[@Clutch-sk1if]

Facts

[@-Lalothepalo]

W timing. Omniscient

[@elisagatti9818]

ily man

[@melissanarcisse3901]

thanks u :)

[@dominator325]

Also, if you have your site running, I’d be more than happy to buy your merch man, no SM so can’t do it that route

[@WillKeepItReal]

ordering hoodies this week

[@RandyAbeyta-f2jfree]

I LOST MY FRIENDS in high school

[@mai5245]

I’m so fucking lost rn, im on and off, this is the first boy that’s liked me and the first boy I’ve liked. We were talking and eveything was going so good like so good beyond my imagination and I was there for him and eveything, infact he liked me first. But now we don’t even make eye contact, he goes out of his way to avoid me. Wtf. I was worried about him he seemed like he was struggling so I asked if I could help or if he was okay but he just pushed me away. We grew distant but we still have to be in communication professionally and act normal. There’s so much more but I miss myself. I have so many emotions in my heart and I don’t know what to do with any of them. Especially hate, I don’t want to carry this feeling. I hate the fact that this is who we are now.

[@modernman1240]

8:52 Not everyone will choose you.

[@samb2solid668]

This man my psychiatrist

[@user-do8nw5br7m]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@Antee21]

Girl in my friend group chose me, showed me so much love and made my expectations so high and I really started to like her, but she out of nowhere said she doesnt know what she wants.... it just kills me to being just friends with her and seing her everytime our group hangs out. Im fine with being around her but its the fact when I see her it reminds me of all my thoughts back then so I get sad. I have to let her go but cant leave the friend group....

[@makayla.luvsyouu]

🙏👏👏

[@thehealtrix]

“Not feeling like somebody’s # 1” Wow I feel so seen!🥹 Amazing video at the right time too👏🏽