LGBTQ+ Creator Calls Me Out and Embarrasses Herself

[@Gold--1234]

I like how she says "badly cut bangs" as if she does not fall into that category lol

[@SupraMan38]

i will not speak

[@SarastistheSerpent]

Lmfaoo that’s exactly what I thought

[@amiddend]

I thought her haircut looked the same as the persons in the video (besides the orange color) lol 😂🤣

[@christinedanyael]

fr she looks like she hasn’t brushed that mange in years. probably bc of that empty head.

[@BabyKay11]

As she is literally the poster child for fucky bangs

[@MissyMari]

Hating people with bpd is so normalized what?? It’s so insane to me that people just casually victimize a trauma disorder 💀💀💀 no normal person does that. “I don’t like you. You have bpd and you are a bad person” LIKE WHATTTTTT

[@SupraMan38]

SO WEIRD

[@Dianasaurthemelonlord7777]

Ableism is all it is. They see BPD misportrayed as being violently psychotic or being a sociopsthic serial killer, not a victim of trauma that has issues with emotional regulation due to how trauma measurably alters brain structure and chemistry.

[@havocsTeacher]

I know, right? I have it, but it's not like i experience this stuff for fun. It's not my choice it's a result of trauma.

[@adalunar1550]

I've never heard of bpd being used like that,at the very least I've never heard it being an insult in my country,though people here do use autism and the Down syndrome as insults,both meaning that a person's dumb as a rock which is weird cos autism doesn't have anything to do with the level of intelligence of a person, idk much about the Down syndrome though but it's bad that any of the disorders are used as insults at all.

[@HansMuneEnBy]

That's what people assume about me... people thought I just had to experience serious life changing traumas from the boys in school... for the Lols.

[@Andrew_is_cool]

Arielle when conservatives don’t agree with her “life style”: 😊😁☺️🤗😜 Arielle when lgbt people criticize her: 😨😢😭🤬☹️

[@hana-a-cha]

Pointing out how harming her content is? Bullying Saying she's gonna burn in hell? Disagreement Yeah, that's fair

[@mikejett2733]

Shes a snowflake & it shows

[@Ontgo-dt9fc]

@@hana-a-chaI’m sure she’d rather be told by those few conservatives that she’s going to burn in hell than be executed by a religion that people like you seek to endorse and uplift.

[@Commie-dely]

It’s because she’s aware that other lgbt people don’t have any power over her. She doesn’t need to be scared of them. But she’s terrified of conservatives because they have power over her. They can ruin her life.

[@Grogeous_Maximus]

People on the left ditched her, when she become conservative? I have a feeling her friends found her toxic and bailed on her, and THEN she became conservative. "Lol I swear I was the one who broke up with them" sure, honey. Sure.

[@ddjsoyenby]

every time arielle opens her mouth i hear "pick me' pick me' i'm the good one pick meeeee!"

[@SupraMan38]

i hear stupid stupid stupid stupid

[@yakuzaman5074]

It's her Pokémon battle cry "stupid stupid stupid!" and "pick me pick me pick me!!"

[@timmy841212]

Always

[@LightningStrikes2345]

a lot of what she says carries merit. at least her face isn't stuck in first gear like this guy. he looks so bored all the time....

[@Grogeous_Maximus]

Honestly, just the fact that she's recording from her kitchen is a low key desperate dog whistle

[@JamesCarter1998]

“The only bullying I have ever experienced is from the far-left” That statement alone(assuming that it’s even true) proves that she is just INCREDIBLY privileged as an LGBT person 🙄 so many people in the community would KILL to have gotten off that easily in life 🤷🏼‍♂️

[@BearMas]

She probably has such a weird warped definition of "bullying" as well. Her videos? Not bullying. Conservative saying heinous shit? Free speech. People that she called out clapping back? 👶 They are 🍼 bullying me 🥺👿 What a fcking joke. Someone needs to ask her for a definition and some examples of each and watch the floundering to make sense.

[@Nakia11798]

I've gotten bullied by both far left and far right. Extremists be extreming. I'm ace, btw, so yeah, they all think I'm not real, or that I'm one of those fakers who just have a low sex-drive😂. I'm very real and very not attracted to anyone ever.

[@jonathana.1802]

Can’t wait for her « The leopard ate my face » moment. I’m mean she’s gonna realize how homophobic the right is eventually they all do.

[@comicconcarne]

@@Nakia11798 Difference is when someone on the radical left says asexuals aren't real, they're being inconsistent - supposedly against constructed sexual norms and appeals to nature but drawing the line at asexsuality - and failing to uphold their stated beliefs. When someone on the right says it, they're consistently upholding the nuclear family as the social reproductive unit of our economic system, and disdaining any deviation from it. Anyone on the right who accepts gay, trans, or ace people (like Arielle here) will qualify they mean "the good ones" that don't rock the boat. That's all to say: you can call out a "leftist" acephobe for being a bad leftist, and any left-wing organizations shouldn't be allowing acephobia.

[@thylacoleonkennedy7]

Even if that was true, is she really basing your political beliefs on who's nicest to her? That's a terrible way to decide.

[@foodforthought247]

She's diagnosing people on the _internet,_ where people notoriously do NOT represent themselves 100% accurately. Not only that, but the first thing she attacks about them is their appearances?? Sounds like an Ad Hominem if I've ever heard one.

[@nes420]

I diagnose her with having those fuckass eyebrows that everyone drew in back in 2014

[@FoxGameCZ]

"But I am not a doctor" then proceeds to diagnose people from 30 seconds video

[@Joe90h]

@@FoxGameCZ "I am not a brain surgeon but I've washed my hands, sharpened my pizza cutter and I'm going in, wish me luck!"

[@OscarLangleySoryu]

The idea that being “normal” keeps you from bullying based on lgbtq status is insane. I’ve been the most average looking person around and been screamed at on the street and the bus for being trans. It’s being trans not whether I dare to wear bright colors or not.

[@lifeisadrag7705]

I've wore grays and blacks the majority of my highschool life and that's never stopped my mother from calling me a degenerate because I'm trans and pansexual.

[@JamesCarter1998]

Her entire argument is literally just “people who disagree with me politically are all just crazy and weird! Eww! 🤢😷”

[@elegantdisarray]

That's literally her entire KZbin career

[@sylverscale]

The right in a nutshell

[@just_a_fae]

Literally!

[@catpoke9557]

A jarringly and concerningly common belief on all parts of the political spectrum, sadly.

[@R.T.Logan.80]

He makes videos criticizing/bullying others but cries when they criticize/"bully" him. He's definitely a conservative.

[@teresaelizondo373]

Not her insulting the woman's hair when, minus the color, they pretty much have the same hairstyle.

[@raed3240]

if she had self awareness she wouldn't be in this big of a mess lol

[@hana-a-cha]

Yeah like Mate you have the same bangs what-

[@sleepy-emerald]

"Badly cut bangs" (slow zoom-in on her forehead)

[@ericb9252]

Arielle has gotta learn how to shut up.

[@SupraMan38]

this made me laugh hard idk why

[@rhymerlegend2717]

That’s sexist. Is it because she is a woman?

[@amiddend]

That’ll never happen lol She loves to hear herself talk 😂🤣

[@genericname108]

Budget JK Rowling

[@ShinyAvalon]

@@genericname108 - Yard sale JK Rowling.

[@isaacccc112]

I don’t get how people just think they have the right to disrespect people…

[@SupraMan38]

me neither

[@adrienstarfaer]

Technically speaking, they do have that right. They do not, however, have a right to do it without social repercussions.

[@Dianasaurthemelonlord7777]

You can say whatever the hell you want, but if you are an asshole crying about the repercussions of being a dick just makes you a pussy. Ariel is

[@Svalinn-s1j]

People do have that right though.

[@gayforgiyuuforreal]

But we also have the right to call them an asshole for it God bless America 🫡

[@3L3CTR4H34RT]

Not the blatant ableism from Arielle...

[@SupraMan38]

luv it

[@mariaantoniajosephajohanna]

I mean considering she makes fun of mostly neurodivergent teenagers....

[@Dianasaurthemelonlord7777]

@@mariaantoniajosephajohannalaugh, llaugh at the children

[@SonicfanFhWcCt]

She also said that autism is a mental illness that makes you think you’re lgbt and basically infantilizing autistic people.

[@onceuponamelody]

* shocked pikachu face *

[@queenemmers]

So she considers the far left calling out her harmful behavior to be bullying. Would she also consider her calling out the "concerning" behavior of neurodivergent queer teenagers to be bullying as well?

[@averyt23]

10:51 Arielle, I don’t know if you know this, but when a mental disorder is the main topic of a KZbin video, chances are that people who have that disorder will be viewing that video since it is about them. Shocking, I know!

[@anothercub6958]

And chances are, if what is said in the video is inaccurate, wrong, or just plain hurtful to both the people with the condition and the way it is broadly viewed by society, then yeah, people would want to CORECT HER ON HER BS

[@j.j.ennder3243]

bold of you to assume she's intelligent enough to ever make that connnection

[@luckycharmzzzz]

THATS EXACTLY WHAT I SAID!!! LIKE YOU CANT MAKE A VIDEO TALKING ABT BPD THEN BE SURPRISED WHEN PEOPLE WITH BPD COMMENT, YOU TALKED ABOUT IT TO START WITH.

[@bashful_mango]

It's the way she looks and sounds like she thinks she does something every time she's on camera makes me so angry 😭

[@SupraMan38]

im dead

[@coolchameleon21]

she does love to sniff her own farts

[@LightningStrikes2345]

what and this guy is any better? he sounds like a car engine that won't start.

[@mihaelabiolan819]

FACT

[@Gamemar.]

​@@LightningStrikes2345okay 👍🏻 Arielle alt account 💀💀💀💀

[@ScarletFox039]

"The point of these videos is not to shame people with these disorders" as she's shaming people with these disorders.

[@OscarLangleySoryu]

People with BPD who get a diagnosis are often the ones who want to improve themselves and their relationships. That’s how they got a fucking diagnosis.

[@riveramnell143]

It takes alot of courage and work to do it too. Hats off to anyone with BPD or anything else really who put themselves through therapy to make their lives better. It’s not easy.

[@billybay7248]

Or like me, you put yourself in a 72hr hold and a couple days in they just hand you a piece of paper with your bpd diagnosis and no other information 😂I didn't even know what it was.

[@MikoMiio]

@@billybay7248 yoooo wtf that's exactly how it went for me 😭 diagnosed bpd in the clinic and then they just didn't tell me what it was or does. Like 2 years later I start looking into symptoms and suddenly going "oh everything makes sense now"

[@TupacAmaru444]

It hurts how she talks about people with bpd like were horrible people, because of people like her i was HORRIFIED AND SCARED when my therapist gave me my diagnosis.

[@AlyssaGraciano-Veliz]

Yup! That's how I got mine. I had my first crushing breakup and my ex, who I loved and who broke up with me very amicably (she even painted me a fucking picture of a watercolor background with a bunch of affirmations like "you are beautiful" "you are not your traumas" "you are one of the most intelligent people I know" etc. as a break up gift!!!), cited things I would come to learn as symptoms of BPD as the reasons for leaving. I thought at the time that if I got help and got better she'd come back to me but as I saw this psychologist my goal transitioned to healthier relationships in general. I wanted and still want to be happier, healthier, better, etc.

[@starparodier91]

Years ago an online friend reached out to me and told me she’d just been diagnosed with BPD and she was so scared to tell anyone and that they’d judge her. That was like 8 years ago. So refreshing to see the internet hasn’t changed much 🙃

[@jermathy]

It is really sad to see, I’ve experienced bullying and shunning when people found out I had bpd. Still, even though there’s still PLENTY of ableist idiots like arielle around, please have heart that things are slowly but surely getting better. Merely 4 years ago bpd was hardly talked about and NEVER supported properly, but recently I’ve found that it is much easier to find supportive spaces. Of course, this has really just been online sadly and the mainstream/general public aren’t quite there yet but it isn’t as painful and isolating as before. To anyone else with bpd afraid at this, please know there are kind people out there and loving communities that will support you. Never feel ashamed

[@riveramnell143]

I feel for your friend, and for everyone who has BPD. I have bipolar myself and I get it about the stigma.

[@starparodier91]

@@jermathy Oh I know it’s been getting better, but I’m somehow always surprised…

[@starparodier91]

@@riveramnell143 I felt very honored that she opened up to me. All these years later and we’re still friends and are even starting a collab project. I’ve met so many people who are bipolar or have BPD and you’d never know, which is why I hate people that randomly decide to diagnose people online. I’m 33 and was diagnosed at 10, and I still get the “wow you don’t look autistic!” 🫠

[@hey_somebody]

@@jermathyWhat supportive spaces have you found? Asking for a friend.

[@cleodello]

“Corporate needs you to find the difference between these bangs and these bangs.” “They’re the same bangs.”

[@i_want_to_be_sunshine]

How can someone be so annoying tho? I'm usually calm, but she makes my blood boil for some reason. ALSO if you're not a doctor or don't have the specific condition, just don't talk about it. It's not so hard and you won't get embarrassed

[@SupraMan38]

what about that sam collins guy

[@Dianasaurthemelonlord7777]

@@SupraMan38he seems pretty chill, but damn that Arielle person.

[@Ms_Nightshade]

The only thing that rivals Arielle’s ignorance is her cruelty. She hasn’t a kind bone in her body and it makes her incredibly dangerous.

[@turn-itUPTO12]

she sounds like shes talking with cotton in her mouth and her nose pinched

[@JamesCarter1998]

You just know she’s gonna HATE being described as an LGBTQ+ creator 😭🤣

[@genericname108]

Absolutely

[@Punkrockpenguin2]

Yeah. She's just an L creator. That's the only thing she's ok with basically lol.

[@Ragnar_Aevarsson]

@@Punkrockpenguin2should have said LGBTQQIP2SAA then

[@hoykfnvnnesnxnnensncjforkx1616]

Nah she hates most Ls too because she doesnt understand lesbian history, lesbian theory, etc or she wouldnt even be saying 99% of what she does. She probably only likes 2 lesbians other than her. Which is why shes constantly single. ​@jaymes3554

[@vampiraz_]

Saw her in the thumbnail and let out the biggest sigh. the orange woman needs to leave

[@SupraMan38]

LMFAOOOOO Sry

[@Nakia11798]

Her fofoundation 😢

[@beardpandaa]

She was not always this orange! Did the conservatism make her orange? Do you just get sent orange spray tan when you announce you "leave the left"? So many questions...

[@coolchameleon21]

i know who she votes for

[@Laceration_Gravityyy]

She’s morphing into him

[@zombieunkornprince4817]

I'm so glad that I, someone who doesn't have any symptoms of bpd, have finally been diagnosed with bpd by someone who doesn't know anything about the disorder and has no medical training or knowledge

[@riveramnell143]

My therapist will be surprised to hear that I’ve been diagnosed as well.

[@kkimsey5866]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Me too!

[@dahli8043]

same !! 😍

[@NoName-sg8cl]

Yeah because every person who gets mad has borderline personality disorder.

[@jamiehatesyou9175]

BPD is the worst disorder to armchair-diagnose because even with professionals, BPD is a very difficult disorder to accurately diagnose. My psychiatrist took over a month to diagnose me with BPD in order to avoid misdiagnosis

[@SarastistheSerpent]

For me, it took nearly 2 years, and by the time I was officially diagnosed, I was in the hospital after a failed “self-unaliving”

[@truthseeker9249]

@@SarastistheSerpent I'm so sorry. I hope you're feeling better now. I'm sure attitudes of people like Arielle have certainly never been helpful for you. I have Autism so I certainly get that.

[@hailey8941]

Smart of your psych to wait. I got diagnosed with it right when I turned 18 by someone who had known me for an hour or two. For years, I couldn’t find care with that diagnosis attached to me. Turns out, I didn’t even have BPD, I had CPTSD combined with undiagnosed autism. I wonder how many other people are in my situation where they are just traumatized and neurodivergent. BPD feels like a modern day hysteria diagnosis at this point, like it’s what they diagnose “difficult” patients with when providers are too lazy to dig deeper.

[@Nakia11798]

Took a girl I know 7 years. She started showing signs in middle school, but didn't get diagnosed until adulthood. She'd attempted 4 times by that point. Only has twice in the past 9 years, a great reduction, and both of those were during a big family issue.

[@silvercoronet]

I keep hearing that to be correctly diagnosed with BPD it takes years and that people (particularly women) with things like low assistance needs autism and ADHD, they get misdiagnosed as having BPD for years

[@SupraMan38]

i didnt realize it but the beginning prob jumpscared you sorry lmao

[@isaacccc112]

jumpscare moment?

[@Pepper_flakes1524]

I screamed out of jumpscare

[@soifinallyhaveanaccountnow]

Funny that you say that, because I actually jumped when she popped up on my screen😭😭

[@monsterprincez]

It startled me a bit, but I knew what I was signing up for clicking on this video (especially as someone with diagnosed BPD) lol

[@ConejitoPequenito]

I thought I misclicked lmao

[@teag6240]

"I'm not like the other gays, I'm normal! Please like me, Sharon!"

[@sammyvictors2603]

Scarcella is such a classic Pick-me Gay. I pity her.

[@genericname108]

Ikr… it’s so pathetic

[@ClarkyWarky]

"I'm a they/them trans lesbian with multiple personalities and was self diagnosed from tik tok! Please like me, ze/zim/zir"

[@ChocolatexCherries3]

​@ClarkyWarky u need a damn life

[@artifalse]

@@ClarkyWarkyme fr (schizophrenia)

[@MTYHVH]

sam collins is the person who first showed me that trans ppl are just people and im trans now thank u sam

[@SupraMan38]

ur welcome for transing

[@MTYHVH]

@@SupraMan38 thank

[@Lokear]

Can't believe Sam Collins is the first trans man ever, truly remarkable 😢 Thank you for transing us all :)

[@rhymerlegend2717]

Brainwashing

[@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos]

As a trans woman, I assume trans men are a psy-op _Obviously,_ everyone would rather be a woman /j

[@Th3Whit3Rabbits]

People with BPD are more likely to comment on a video about BPD...the fact that she thinks that that proves her point is idiotic... That's like me saying that every one that wears leather is gay, going into a gay bar to ask all the leather dudes if they're gay and then being all happy that I'm super smart for being so correct.

[@Nakia11798]

It's like going to a "How to ADHD" video and saying "OMG, all the Asians here have ADHD!"

[@FoxGameCZ]

Yeah, I have bdp so if I stumble upon what is about bpd I might share my experiences with others.

[@n0etic_f0x]

Like girl... if you are not making the diagnosis, like... don't. You can say as a layman you find them to have BPD symptoms. You will be given less credit but like... that is the point.

[@SupraMan38]

LMFAOOOOOOO YA

[@JeremyCanned]

The woman who raised me (my grandma) had BPD. I can tolerate a lot of things, but demonizing and mischaracterizing disorders that are already deeply stigmatized is UNACCEPTABLE. Thanks, Sam, for calling it out. This stuff has real-world consequences. My grandma never got the treatment she needed because of discrimination and lack of knowledge about patients with BPD. This happens all the time, even more so back then. I'm sorry but fuck Arriele Scarcelli (I hope I spelled her name wrong) Edit: Implying that opposing genocide is "hopping onto a social justice trend with no research whatsoever" is disgusting and mind-boggling

[@truthseeker9249]

I'm sorry about your Grandma but she sounds like she was well-loved. My grandma meant the world to me and I'd give...ALMOST anything just to have one more day with her. Because I wouldn't trade my fiance who is the love of my life for anything, not even for her. And I think she'd be proud of me for that.

[@JeremyCanned]

@@truthseeker9249 Thank you. Happy for you and your fiance!

[@SpecialBlanket]

She's a Karen. She's a full Karen.

[@tocafuri]

The hair and pasty orange skin is the first symptom fr

[@ScarletFox039]

She really doesn't know what borderline personality disorder is or what it actually looks like in person. I have BPD. My best friend has BPD. We were both diagnosed by our drs and therapists. It actually makes me angry that she is spewing more stigmatization about an already stigmatized group. Changing the color of your hair is NOT a symptom of BPD. Being a liberal is NOT a symptom of BPD. Being transgender is NOT a symptom of BPD.

[@SpecialBlanket]

None of those are criteria obviously, but it's well known that people with BPD are more likely to modify their appearance more frequently and drastically. I think it's sometimes related to taking control over yr body after trauma, and also a kind of stress relief. And trans ppl are more likely to be abused and this develop trauma disorders.

[@ScarletFox039]

@@SpecialBlanket Well known? How about not known at all. Neither my friend nor I nor anyone else I met who were diagnosed with BPD had drastically modified their appearance on a regular basis. Also, queer people are more likely to get abused, and therefore do indeed develop trauma disorders. BPD though isn't inherently a trauma disorder. There are people who have BPD and have never gone through trauma. Scientists are still figuring out what causes mental disorders. And because queer people receive more abuse, they're more likely to see a therapist where all kinds of disorders are discovered. If it was more normalized to see a therapist and everyone had a therapist like they have a family doctor, then BPD and many other mental disorders would be seen on a much larger scale. The problem is a lot of people don't seek out treatment because of videos like Arielle's that stigmatize it.

[@tsumugishirogane7625]

I am suspected to have bpd and i’m lgbt+ and i change my hair and my look and do things to “drastically” change my appearance but it has NOTHING to do with me having bpd or being lgbt it has everything to do with me loving alternative styles and liking to express myself saying it’s because im queer and have bpd is stupid

[@SarastistheSerpent]

⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@SpecialBlanketI’m sure that’s true, but as you say, changing your appearance isn’t a symptom of BPD. And when people with BPD do change their appearance, it has little to do with trauma, and much more to do with distorted self image and lack of identity. Borderline sufferers have _extremely_ skewed self perception due to radical black and white thinking, and while this can manifest in people changing their appearance often, it is by no means a universal, and not a trait of the illness. I have BPD (and sadly have been hospitalized numerous times because of it), and I have looked basically exactly the same since I was a teenager (I’m currently 27).

[@Sinc3r3ly]

Shes just using it as an insult

[@ems3376]

I genuinely wonder if Arielle is happy in her day to day life. She’s so hostile. I don’t have the time or energy to hate people like that.

[@coolchameleon21]

she’s not. you can’t carry that much resentment and anger and be a content individual

[@riveramnell143]

I can’t imagine carrying all that inside me. I’d get physically sick from it. I was an angry teen and I had to learn to let it go. Now I’m the calmest person. She’s got to be miserable.

[@coolchameleon21]

@@riveramnell143she gives off the vibe of someone who is very insecure, resentful, and miserable, and wants to make everyone feel the same way she does instead of improving her own situation.

[@Punkrockpenguin2]

@@coolchameleon21it's the same with blaire white. They're both insecure so they seek validation from people who would normally be against them

[@LightningStrikes2345]

i'd rather be with spastic Arielle than indifferent Sam. he is so bored and carless. i don't see any human emotion he has this awful "whatever" attitude. "well whatever" "is that suppose to be funny" "hmmmhmm" "whatever"

[@insainbassist]

lmao she definitely thought bpd stood for bi-polar disorder, definitely knows what she's talking about though

[@NotCocoaDrop]

I'm sorry... she does realize the primary treatment for BPD is... therapy... which most of us HAD to be in long-term to get access to any relevant healthcare, right?

[@forgemakesstuff2734]

i'm not a doctor or a therapist 🤓👆 but i'm noticing a pattern where if a (usually a pick me) person is generally disliked on the internet they will start "diagnosing" their critics with disorders

[@TheCompulsiveCreative]

Her whole drive now comes off as bitterness that she lost popularity because of her uninformed and prejudiced negative opinions. She was riding that popularity high, then got dumped and is too stubborn to learn and grow from it.

[@tangimeme]

She has the same energy as dudes on Grindr that are like, "I'm NOT part of gay culture or the qUeEr cOmMuNiTy". It takes aaaages and so many assessments to get a diagnosis for personality disorders and rule out things like ADHD which have many similar symptoms to BPD. It only takes a few seconds to diagnose this woman as a chronically online 'pick me queer' though 👀

[@PossiblyKayla]

Everytime Arielle makes colored hair a point, I died a little inside

[@riverrile]

- I don't think I've ever seen this level of horrible armchair psychology. Way to go, Scarcella. - "Hundreds of Sam's fans commented that they have BPD! Thanks for proving my point!" Something tells me no one feels safe discussing their mental health with Scarcella, and that's just sad.

[@Punkrockpenguin2]

Also just bc people said they have it doesn't mean that's the majority lmao. Just means they felt the right to weigh in

[@cherryjello777]

"Other people's opinions of me are none of my business" is a great motto. I'm going to start my own YT channel one day, and I will have to turn it into a mantra at that point.

[@Stankyl0saurus]

“One of the friends that I lost” this lady was friends with a teenage boy and some reason she feels like she was betrayed or something. She’s weird.

[@Billiphonese]

She looked at someone having emotions and called it bpd

[@genericname108]

Insanity

[@linussextips1]

literally 😭

[@RennK85]

Gotta love how she said she’s been keeping her eye on” these people” which is usually homophobia or sexism or racism. 🤢

[@genericname108]

Exactly!! She’s just the very definition of a bigot

[@TuxedoMasc]

Arielle's whole head is "badly cut bangs" all way round. Girl, be serious for a single second.

[@SebastianEverett-x2q]

I'm trans and autistic, let her make a video about that. There is actually a higher correlation between these two, as the theory is that autistics don't have the same constrictions when it comes to understanding societal enforcement of gender and gender norms.

[@thevoidbender]

she's way ahead of you and already made this. ngl it is just as bad as you think. it was 90 percent blatant infantilization of autistic people and 10 percent just straight up transphobia.

[@tessamiller9770]

​@@thevoidbenderthat's awful. I'm autistic and trans as well (I mean nonbinary) but I don't think its because "I don't know any better!!!" "Oh autistic people can't comprehend the difference between a man and a woman!!!" This lady sucks, and I'm tired of the babying with autism. My brother is also autistic but he was diagnosed way earlier than me so he was treated like a toddler until he turned 16. Autism doesn't mean brain dead !!!

[@truthseeker9249]

@@tessamiller9770 (high five) I too am Autistic and Non-Binary. I'm also bisexual, plus I have tattoos. Everything about me is offensive to SOMEONE. Autism doesn't mean brain dead or babyish. But there are some people like my mother who push too hard in the opposite direction. She forced help on me to fix me even though she never used that word. The fact that I struggled in school, was sad all the time and didn't really want to open up to anyone....like most Autistic people in general and also like most young children and teenagers, all of that meant I really needed help and I got it no matter what I said. Therapy, trips to the neurologist and worst of all medication. All of this to help me. Growing up I realize now what that really meant is my mom couldn't handle me. I was too different and too difficult for her so she wanted to fix me and make me as normal as possible so that my struggles would stop causing her any inconvenience. Many times I wished I was never born because since that's the way things were between obviously I'm not the child she wanted and obviously I ruined her life by being born. I still believe that deep down but don't cry about it anymore...much. So while I agree that we shouldn't be treated as babies, we shouldn't be forced to be normal or be forced to grow up too fast either. Just let us all be ourselves.

[@SebastianEverett-x2q]

@@tessamiller9770 it's not that we don't "get" it and more that we don't see the reason for these arbitrary social constructs. When most people find out I'm autistic, it's either we can tell bc you're weird/similar to us or they treat me different. Like come the fuck on, I'm still the same person.

[@SarastistheSerpent]

I’m honestly shocked she hasn’t yet said that having autism is “woke”

[@toni-ql7oe]

omggg this lore goes way back

[@SupraMan38]

TOO FAR

[@beauxbatten]

shit like this is the reason I was in denial about being trans for so long. because I was already diagnosed with bipolar, borderline, and cptsd, I kept telling myself that I was confused or I would change my mind and all of the other things I knew people would say to me. I could've saved myself years.

[@Caribbeanaemond]

@1:36 they have the same hair cut wtf is Arielle talking about, it's the same style of wolf cut (I think that's what it's called) lmao

[@lusnoct4298]

Is Arielle still an LGBTQ+ content creator, then? I just assumed her swap to conservatism would be shortly followed by her pretending to be straight to try and fit in with her new "friends."

[@SupraMan38]

good point, she does cover lgbtq topics but they just suck

[@sylverscale]

Didn't you know, she's one of the "good gays"? 😂

[@Ghost_Boyo]

3:20 i heard bob and linda at first and for some reason immediately thought of bobs burgers and was like “they would never!” and then i realized it was bill and linda and it was just two random names 💀

[@OmicronTheta666]

I have no idea who this person is but her doing a “psychological deep dive” in under 15 minutes with no medical credentials whatsoever is basically what’s wrong with people these days.

[@truthseeker9249]

Be grateful you've never seen her before. Those of us that have known her for years have a bone to pick with her and we all die a little more inside with every new video that comes out about the newest scandal with her.

[@xafilmbyx]

“Why do people stop associating with me once I publicize my morals” wow I don’t fucking know how could these things be related whaaat

[@Punkrockpenguin2]

Great question... maybe because they suck lmao

[@BabyKay11]

“Us brown haired gays, we made it!!” “You blue haired liberals on the other hand🤬”

[@thatweirdodaniel]

everything i have learned about arielle has been against my will

[@Punkrockpenguin2]

Ikr i can't stand seeing her face in my recommended anymore

[@borealernadelwald]

Someone tell her that a "psychological deep dive" should consist of more than reading out a list of symptoms found online and show unrelated video clips of random people.. and should be done by someone who actually knows what they are talking about. (i.e. has studied in that field)

[@Scatscar1985]

Arielle is no position to accuse anyone of whining.

[@beardpandaa]

She really likes to pretend like she's the victim of bullying when she's been a bully for a long time. She's so annoying. My straight cís sister in law was just diagnosed with BPD. She's been severely traumatized in her life and she's still one of the most thoughtful & caring people I know. She's an incredible person. Unlike Arielle...

[@Ariel-ck9he]

The psychological deep dives are baffling. She’s not a psychologist.

[@ThatFont]

Her followers seek out confirmation bias 🤷 I couldn’t care less if she has to resort to name-calling and mass diagnosing of strangers, that speaks to her integrity.

[@OscarLangleySoryu]

Rapidly changing their emotions when being bullied on purpose on camera by dishonest people 😮 that’s …totally expected and normal; it’s the reason why the presenter treats the person this way 🙄 “DiD wE tRiGgEr U?!” Helllooo??? _knocks on Ariel’s head_

[@hartthorn]

It's utterly absurd that her TWO examples were... Queer people who support Palestine being a case of "impulsivity" ENTIRELY on the basis that she thinks it's "wrong" and therefore none of them could have possibly thought about their stance. And then for instability she gave a clip from a jackass "reporter" doing one of those surprise interviews in the middle of a conflict. Like, I don't have the FULL context of what was happening, but whatever that was it was not some random outburst from the person in an otherwise chill environment, it was an aggressive, high tension situation the OTHER PERSONS created. Like, if that's the best she's gonna come with... she probably should have taken a couple extra rounds of drafting. And hey, you know who DOES show a bunch of signs of impulsivity and instability? A guy who regularly goes off script and has an insatiable need to attack those he views as opposing him? Fucks stuff up all the time because he's ruled by second to second emotions and hates thinking things through even a little bit? Now, I don't ACTUALLY think Trump has BPD, partially because that would mean he is less culpable for his actions. I think he's just an entitled fuckin brat. But was just a handy example of ACTUAL behaviors that match closer to the diagnostic criteria.

[@haylene7521]

I think oompah loompah is literally right on the edge of dementia/alzheimers plus a major dose of narcissism

[@CJ-ni9yb]

Lol, in the last bit I thought you meant Arielle. With her apparently not researching the difference between bpd and bipolar before making the video, her rants against people she's never met... Not that those are bpd symptoms though. They're Karen symptoms.

[@altf1279]

I’m gay, and a trans dude, but I’ve been on testosterone for well over two years so at this point I really don’t get people questioning my gender in public anymore. I dress and act pretty stereotypically straight, so nobody immediately can tell I’m queer in my day to day life. One day, while I was at work, a woman noticed I had nail polish on and asked with disgust why I was wearing it. When I said I just liked how it looked, she told me that I was gay and that she didn’t want me touching her items because I was gay. She then told me to go to hell once I gave her the receipt. I was wearing nothing else that would’ve indicated my “gayness”. Granted, this woman was clearly mentally disabled, but somebody who understands the consequences of saying things like that taught her and modeled for her that that was okay to do to some 17 year old cashier. But yeah, Arielle! Being “one of the good ones” will totally earn you points with these people. They definitely don’t hate you just as much as they do people who are visibly queer!

[@rorybaker1597]

Omg arielles the “gays for trump”… hmm “chickens for kfc” 😒 off topic love you sam

[@jesthered7966]

ahh the respectability politics gays...right. Those people have been a problem for decades

[@LightningStrikes2345]

we are not the problem. we are trying to come to a solution. and we are the minority in the minority. we are a study group you are the army.

[@CoolCjstar]

@@LightningStrikes2345 you are the reason why we can't have liberation.

[@LightningStrikes2345]

@@CoolCjstar hardly. you are not versing us. you are versing the opposition and the rest of the world. if we were the reason you didn't have acceptance there would be more of us than them.

[@stephfromearth]

"unlike Miley Cyrus" lmaoooo man I needed this energy today, it's good to see ya Sam 😄

[@SupraMan38]

BANGERZZZZZ ahahah thank u

[@mikeyahl7363]

Weird how she's become the anti-feminist, "Enlightened Centrist" edgelord type that tried to derail her career 10 years ago.

[@lizard3755]

I cannot believe she called people "politically homeless" for not identifying with a particular party/group. Every time she opens her mouth she says something crazy.

[@Unfortunatedisgust]

Aww she thinks my disorder is an epidemic 🥺, flattered truly

[@lizard3755]

I don't have BPD but I do have bipolar disorder and recently had a doctor act impressed that I was able to hold down a job because of it 🥴

[@Beatricechekal]

The person she insulting for they're bangs but she has the exact same bangs???????

[@lloroshastar6347]

It's true what they say about hate ageing a person. Arielle looks like she's pushing 50

[@maggie5456]

Why is she diagnosing you? It gives fan

[@SupraMan38]

when u get mad for an hour and are happy the next: BPD CONFIRMED

[@chibbothy]

she a fan, she a fan, she a fan

[@Eterrox3]

She did something similar like this about autistic people, reducing them to babies who can’t think for themselves or discover their own identities. Honestly it just goes to show how damn ableist she is.

[@Lioish]

The easiest grift nowadays is to label anything “far left”. Tiresome.

[@evafelker14]

Why does it ALWAYS looks like she attempted to use nair on her upperlip to remove her mustache, but she used it over the recommendated limit she got 1st degree burns from it

[@SpecialBlanket]

Maybe that is what happened. Either way I don't think we need to go there with ha ha woman mustache.

[@sylverscale]

​@@SpecialBlanketWell, she makes fun of other people's appearance and I'm done being the bigger person. She is weird and she looks weird.

[@natyc19]

I like sam saying dont come for my followers, we are a protected space

[@zyyx.O0y]

Why does she act like she's always right, like that tone of voice pisses me off😞

[@kaitsnotfunny]

Arielle just mad she's had the same haircut since 1993 🙄

[@bradthemusicduck4895]

It really cracks me up when influencers (particularly the right-leaning kind) say things like "I'm not a medical professional or a therapist..." and then proceed to give a blanket diagnosis for an entire group of people as if they were. It's almost like they're saying "read the fine print" before you listen to my opinion, so I can defend myself later when you question my knowledge or expertise on this subject." Got news for you my dudes: saying you're not a professional and then conveying information to your audience as if you are a professional really don't go hand in hand...

[@soapssie]

I used to think she was so cool and insightful when it came to not having the best sex ed class as a teenager. Really sucks seeing how she's acting now.

[@BooklikesBFDI]

People try not to hate on disorder someone can't control go!!!!

[@havocsTeacher]

especially cluster b disorders, too. it sucks

[@BooklikesBFDI]

@@havocsTeacherMhm. I don't have a cluster b disorder(at least not to my knowledge) but I have a villainized disorder and it's so annoying ://

[@bkppppppp]

Accusing people of having BPD to discredit them is becoming a trend. Johnny Depp did to Amber privately and then publicly in court

[@yolandaponkers1581]

Arielle is the reason I call conservatives “regressives,” because they aren’t trying to conserve anything. She’s shown me they are trying to throw us in reverse.

[@Marinus_Calamari]

Conservatives try to conserve their own (perceived) privileged position in society.

[@EnbyCatboyGF]

Fun fact, some people with Autism will end up being diagnosed with BPD instead. These people then have to fight tooth and nail to prove it all the while being threatened with being sent to psyche ward. I've read a few accounts of this on my tumblr feed. So her breaking down what is BPD with other from the content they put out, which most content creators don't put their full selves into content but that's another discussion, is less accurate than doctors that are already inaccurate with their professional diagnosis.

[@mjouwbuis]

Also, a slight correlation between autism and gender dysphoria is sometimes suggested (yet to be proven, but from my own observations it could be true) - in which case the chance of her misdiagnosing transgender people might be even higher.

[@GarciaLCc]

The thing that blows my mind is that she starts to talk about a specific group of people, and then she is surprised that some of those people that fall into that category make a comment on your video...... And then subsequently tries to use said comments as proof that she's right??? Like bruh.

[@dustinnickolas1583]

Lol Arielle is such a joke. She was never even on the left, she was liberal lol how does she still not realize this??

[@mistameir]

i like how she was making fun of that person's haircut when they have the exact same haircut

[@thylacoleonkennedy7]

10:21 This is literally just sampling bias. It's like going to a video about woodworking and being surprised that the commenters are mostly carpenters.

[@magicowlbear2908]

Dude Sam in general, and especially at 8:00 gives big brother energy in a big way, and thats teally cool

[@Sinc3r3ly]

As someone with bpd i will unashamedly watch your content always. Id rather watch someone who will defend me against ableism rather than imply Im somehow inherently evil cause of something I didn’t ever ask for

[@TwoMonkeysInATrenchcoat]

Funny how I fit all of those “patterns” but don’t have BPD or Bipolar. Almost like generalization isn’t a good diagnosis tactic. And just in case Arielle is lurking, I have PTSD, but before they knew this, when I went in talking about what I was feeling, they threw everything at the wall to see if anything stuck. It became clear after a long evaluation process, that it was PTSD and not BPD. So no I’m not just undiagnosed and don’t know.

[@QuartzIsAnOxide]

Saying you're not a doctor doesn't absolve you of responsibility when making bold affirmative claims about a person's mental state. That's like me saying "I'm not a lawyer, but it's actually completely legal to pirate movies."

[@comicconcarne]

Or the "not financial advice, do your due diligence, but..." posts during the cryptocurrency bubble and stock short squeeze in 2021

[@Romansxempire]

Girl needs to sit tf down

[@SupraMan38]

why is she standing in the kitchen

[@loralei0510]

Correlation does not equal causation Arielle….

[@ThatFont]

9:46 Walter Masterson? 😂❤ S-tier comedian, of course she’s offended.

[@conga781]

its also harmful to tell people they have bpd since a lot of the symptoms are also signs of multiple other disorders and illnesses. it will make the person think "oh i must have bpd" when they might have something else, and will stop them from getting the treatment they need for the disorder they actually have.

[@Adamisgoated24]

Why is she on the internet if she doesn’t like criticism?

[@Sinny.y6]

0:40 i thought you were abouut to say "lets do drugs!"

[@CoMorbiditty]

This woman hates everyone...lets face it