Life Changing Lessons From 100 Of The World’s Greatest Minds | E104

This weeks episode entitled 'Life Changing Lessons From 100 Of The World’s Greatest Minds' topics:
0:00 Intro
0:54 How to find consistency and reach your full potential - Jamil Qureshi
08:30 Importance of failure - Elizabeth day
19:27 How to build confidence and self-esteem - Matthew Syed
26:48 How to deal with uncertainty - Anna Hemmings
32:00 How to get over heartbreak - Steve Peteres
43:28 How to be happy - Mo Gawdat
Episode 61: Jamil Qureshi - g2ul0.app.link/9Uurwa5tKkb
Episode 77: Elizabeth Day - g2ul0.app.link/X3bK9KguKkb
Episode 84: Matthew Syed - g2ul0.app.link/TsTmXvouKkb
Episode 65: Anna Hemmings - g2ul0.app.link/v3hqRoEuKkb
Episode 96: Prof. Steve Peters - g2ul0.app.link/BDeUaN5uKkb
Episode 101: Mo Gawdat - g2ul0.app.link/JuYBFRsvKkb
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[@damonbervoets1435]

Great work sir, keep up the good work!

[@stephenyoung8429]

I love this stuff, they should teach it at schools and our wonderful children would walk into life much more prepared 👍

[@acajudi100]

My elders taught me.

[@michaelbrady3721]

Schools are not for preparing youth for adulthood anymore. They are for indoctrination, with a bit of education mixed in. They would never teach this stuff.

[@michcail1976]

School groom slaves not thinker's

[@samuelugh5729]

Yup. So true!

[@andrewmcnally4733]

I agree they should teach this in schools. Until that happens nothing wrong with sitting down and showing your children this video.

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I CANNOT STRESS ENOUGH how much this podcast/channel has changed the way I think and my outlook on life.

[@justinccross]

Time for an updated version based on recent guests! This is gold

[@Gloryguidance]

1.Consistency of mind will come from knowing how we make decisions. (Understanding how we think, feel, behave, how we apply logic in thinking, why we do things and why we don't) 2. Accepting failure gives freedom to be fearless. We can have pain but we don't have to continually relive in that pain. (Don't be a victim)We have to get over and do better next time. 3. People protect Self-esteem by not trying to do something new. Stuck in comfort zone. Resilience is important. 4. Visualisation is mind blowing. 5. There's always a future, things do change and feelings do move. 6. Basically happiness is calm and peacefulness you feel okay with tge life the way it is. When life meets your expectations.

[@FuadArtist]

Out of all of these speakers, I resonated the most with Mo Gawdat's straight forward message of simplifying our emotions and then taking the action needed if it is something that is in our control. Thank you for sharing this!

[@oliverrees9397]

Amazing video Steve, I can't believe I only found your channel about 3 months ago. For me by far Mo Gawdat was a truly inspiring guy, that whole episode is stunning. Keep up the great work all the love have a blessed day.

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

Thanks oliver 🙏🏽

[@christinesmith544]

I am a frequent listener, and very much enjoy most of your interviews, and have already learned a great deal from you and the experts you invite. Thank you !

[@JaneDeuberInter]

Your list of favorite guests very much mirrors my own. Thanks for curating such a phenomenal lineup of talent. At 61, I am embarking on the launch of my eighth business, this time with my 24-year-old son. The wisdom shared by you and your guests has helped me further refine my perspective of business and life. Thanks for all that you do!. :-)

[@dswain1981]

"We are not our worst thoughts" - I try to tell myself this everyday and I know the compound effect is making me happier in the long game. Your podcast is a sage reminder of what we can become with the right mindset. 🙏🏻

[@ASMaah]

You aren’t any of your thoughts.

[@jessejames4967]

​@@ASMaahAre we are actions then?

[@512Squared]

Great collage of 'valuable and life-changing bits' of the podcasts Steve. So many valuable insights. I like how Elizabeth Day qualifies man of the thing she says, like differentiating different kinds of failure and what is required to process that, or understanding that people have different resources available that affect access to other resources like therapy. I was struck when she said that she isn't reliving the pain of the past once she has processed it, that this addresses the problem of ongoing sadness. I wondered about this and how I've experienced it in my own life and see other people struggling to overcome sometimes dreadful traumas and battling the constant remembering. Mindset is huge. If the remembering only tells one kind of story, one of failure and brokenness and not one of how we drew valuable meaning from that failure or were able to heal, then clearly the remembering, which is taking us back to that moment over and over, is only reinforcing the pain. Pain is stubborn, it constantly seeks resolution and understanding. I think it's very difficult for me to let go of pain unless I fully understand what I'm letting go of. But, what I've noticed is that when I tell the stories of my past and the various failures or painful episodes, a lot of people assume I'm therefore still reliving the pain, and they don't hear it as a story of healing, even if I'm clear in my own mind that that is what I'm seeing and feeling. The other thing is that even when I'm clear about what I've let go of, the memory of that pain is still alive in me and so I still feel that pain, it's just not with _all_ of myself, as if I was stuck there. And I'm not attached to it, so I can visit it and then just as easily move away from it. So in that sense, I would hope to differentiate between being aware of your past and the fact that it mostly certainly still lives in us and that isn't itself something to exorcise, so that we would just avoid going back there, insisting that the only way is forward, but rather, living comfortably with pain and seeing the bigger picture allows us/me to stay in touch with those important lessons, because I can remind myself of what I have learned, and can be in touch with those experiences that have taught me. Of course, denial almost certainly brings return. These aren't things to control. Self-awareness is like a fluid, it wants to fill every nook and cranny.

[@cennybkillinum]

The crazy thing is that for the last 6 weeks I've been doing positive affirmations. Every day on the way to my job I've played the same video, 7 ish minutes long and said them out loud. At the start it feels strange, a little awkward, as if the negative voice inside is trying to put you off from doing it. But the amount of change it brings is crazy. Now I'm not saying its just the words that hold the power, but it opens you up to the world, it allows you and drives you to take the opportunities that present themselves to you. When one of the guests mentioned visualizing I now know it's my next step to learn. Thank you Steven and the team for bringing this content out and sharing it with the world ❤

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[@adriansmart-morraes380]

Totally agreed

[@ew6587]

I am so grateful to you and your team Steve for putting this together and presenting us with us such a gift. There is so much wisdom and benevolence amongst your guests that one can't help but get mesmerized and feel uplifted after hearing the snaps of their interviews. Bravo!

[@jaylord2157]

thank you Steven for all your interviews, i really enjoy them and learn loads....and I'm 60...still learning, still changing...

[@dancole2994]

Happiness is only a choice if we're consciously aware that it is a choice, so I think that's why people struggle to believe it. You can't stop the inner chimp from getting triggered, but we can practise parenting it by talking ourselves through it, as pointed out. Takes time but I'm getting better. Thanks for these videos and inspiring so many, amazing work!

[@TheAceInfinity]

I've been living my life as Mo has described, starting with business, and adopting the Stoic philosophies before hearing any of his ideas. I can say with certainty that it has allowed me to excel in the realm of success on all fronts.

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This is one of the most important videos in my life - so well condensed from all the individual interviews. I am determined to see each and every individual chat now! Thank you, you are extremely talented in the art of interviewing. We are lucky to have you!

[@SuccessWithSam]

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[@felicisimomalinao1981]

All these life lessons will impact my present and future. Much thanks, Steve.

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[@hiiiroobee]

Thank you ❤ I look forward to the next one of these best compilation

[@nathanglover00]

Loved the idea of you reflecting and taking the best lessons from episode 1 up until this one and combining them all into one. Steve peters resonated with me with the most, recently went through a similar situation myself and everything he said just made perfect sense when I looked inward at myself.

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Love the podcasts when I listen to them need to listen more to change my thinking & mindset. Thank you 😊

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Precious, deep, practical insights. Thank you for sharing.

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This is amazing, EVERY one of these guests had something that I found I needed to know. Already today, I think and feel just a little bit differently and abit more positive ❤️

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I've only discovered your work in the last month or so. From Secret teacher, Dragons den, and of course the podcasts and book (which i bought!) Clever thinking giving these snippets of your podcasts. Doing this give us, the audience, food for thought (and action!) and wanting the full podcasts. I love Your own drive, self discipline, possitivity, openness, and your maturity to self analysis to improve your relationship with Mel. Wishing you and your team all the best. Wish i'd have seen your live shows. Keep unique in all you do. 😊

[@loraineginns551]

Steve Peteres - Great gems in this chat. Thanks for the introduction Steve.

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Brilliant, Brilliant, Brilliant ❤

[@FifePropertiesTV]

Fantastic insights. Particularly loved the part about accepting the things we can't change and learning from it.

[@Born2EditHD]

Morning Steve, thanks for giving me so much wisdom for the most important years of my life.

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

🙌🏽

[@jordanisjordankifle6592]

Phenomenal episode. Listening again to all your guests hit deeper. Thank you 🙏🏾

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

thank you jordanis x

[@LethoHali]

So very grateful for this! Looking forward to this year’s list!

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Incredible! Thank you

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[@Azaza841]

Such a good compilation. It’s amazing

[@LayonieJae]

I do believe that happiness is a choice too! I really needed to hear this podcast, Netflix has taken over recently but it is podcasts like this that I need to listen to more often again to allow me to be persistently happy. Thank you for sharing! xx

[@hayleybrowse271]

I think this condensed video is amazing … I’ve shared with friends and in groups to give them a snippet of the kind of chats Steven shares with his audience. Forever grateful to have found The Diary if a CEO when it first started years back I’ve been hooked ever since x

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You broke the first rule of the diary of a CEO..to keep it to yourself. Lol

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​@@dextermafu5312LOL That is his secret sauce. He knows everybody has ODD.

[@aristotlemaniago8801]

Thank you so much 🥰

[@Appleloucious]

Many thanks for this looking forward to watching later : D First video of your channel I saw was the episode with Mo Gawdat. Many thanks for your work! One Love! Always foward, never ever backward!!

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Amazing & life changing for me

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Outstanding - definitely inspired me to watch the episodes I wouldn't usually pick to watch

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Hi Steve I am 40 years old and have been serious about my career for 20 years and some of the content in your pod casts have really resonated with me, and "learned the hard way" over time. I have become a huge fan of your dedication to promote the thinking and learnings of your incredible guests. I only wish I had seen this podcast back when I was 20! 😁 These learnings should be part of the school curriculum! People are so lost these days and they need help! Imagine if we could make them more equipt to deal with life and champion their strengths. Please keep doing what you are, it is more helpful than you imagined! ✌❤👊

[@isaactaban678]

Thanks very much,this is incredible episode.

[@myhairdays9783]

I love the idea of praising children/people for their progress above their talent

[@barbaradelilah1098]

I found myself sitting nodding in agreement with Mo Gawdat xx fabulous guest

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it's amazing

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Great episode, thank you 🙏

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Amazing talk really nice man very challenging but he has a beautiful way of doing it 💞

[@sosnikolaou]

Great idea to make a recap of some of the lessons!

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¡Gracias!

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Winner. Freakin' fantastic.

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I loved that! Thank you

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This is something special

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I really enjoyed this!!

[@FuadArtist]

The transitions from speaker to speaker are soooo cleann, great work on the editing

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Brilliant👍

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[@dmnla]

I agree entirely that we spend most of our lives educating ourselves yet we get no education on how our mind works... Ive learned more about the mind through this podcast than i have my entire 40yrs of existence. If i was armed with all this information i would have saved myself frim so much heartache.

[@agash8201]

There’s a saying when student is ready u will find ur Guru …. So much I can relate all the podcast from urs… so much to learn especially about life

[@GidiBoxOffice]

Thanks for these compilation nuggets 👍🏿

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

pleasure! Thank you for watching them

[@LidiaMullaev-sl6ql]

Luv your intro

[@MichaelWilliams-lo3ix]

Awesome

[@VincentLemage]

Love this channel Steve, 1 year ago I unknowingly made a leap forward in my consistency…. Don’t laugh but I decided to take cold showers every day. Not at all to influence my consistency but hoping to increase my immunity. And this practice is such a mental hack it delivered more resilience, consistency and more. I hope this can help you keep heading to the gym this year. Let me know if it did ;-)

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Amazing 💫

[@AcesizOfficial]

Gems 💎

[@EloiseButler]

Great way to start a Monday morning

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

🙏🏽 great to hear Eloise

[@navroopkaur2113]

Wow, the last part was unbelievable 😮

[@sbIvanov]

Notes and quotes from this podcast: Part 1 - Clarity: "Consistency of mind will come with knowing how we make decisions." "The 1-degree change might be small, but over time and many iterations, it results in something big." "Play to your strengths and don't try to strengthen your weakness, otherwise you will weaken your strengths." Part 2 - Failure: "It doesn't matter how much we try to avoid it, it will happen. So, once you accept it as a fact and stop trying to avoid it, you can go in and take the risk." "Not all failures are the same, some of them would be easy to assimilate, but some would require some time of mourning for the loss." "We are not our worst taught, but you can train your brain to replace negative taught with positive ones" Part 3 - Mindset difference: "A fixed mindset stops at a point, but a growth mindset continues growing with time" "Self-esteem is overrated, and it is fragile, but resilience is more important." "Building resilience is done through the effort and through the journey through the process. Praise for effort and the process, rather than for talent" Part 4 - Optimism: "When you can visualise the new Thing and bring it to life, you can then visualise it as a vivid picture and see the rest will follow" "If you see it from all angles and imagine the way it could happen, the subconscious will present creative ideas for how to solve any problems." Part 5 - The mind: "Your mind needs to grief. It is normal for you to feel hurt when something hard happens. The emotional chimp inside you needs to process it and so it is an important thing is to let it grief and recover" "There is always a future and things do change" Part 6 - Happiness: "Happiness is a choice" "Don't wait to get old to be happy and spend time with your family." "If you have been following a topic for the last two months, and you can't influence it, you are not focused on the correct topic"

[@dswain1981]

Great work Simeon for sharing these. 👏🏻

[@sbIvanov]

It is always my pleasure to share

[@cannonball9478]

Cheers Stephen 💪

[@kenssawolffs2274]

WOW ... Stephen the brain child!!! I'm fairly new at discovering this podcast and I am loving it! whoop, whoop.

[@garybelton1499]

Superb video

[@Katytha007]

If you want to dive deeper into shutting off that inner voice, you have to read The Untethered Soul by Michel a Singer.

[@DannyPerks]

Morning from Bali!