Life Coaching Structure To Elevate Your Coaching Sessions | Christine Hassler

How does a life coaching session actually look like? We're breaking down a coaching session by master life coach Christine Hassler to identify the structure and techniques she uses to create transformation.
KEY HIGHLIGHTS:
00:00 How To Deliver Great Coaching Sessions
01:03 Life Coaching Structure Stage #1
06:07 Life Coaching Structure Stage #2
11:44 Life Coaching Structure Stage #3
12:14 Life Coaching Structure Stage #4
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[@austinthaijam7009]

1) creating the space: introduction, make client feel comfortable "how can i help?" empathy first 2) go deep like therapy 3) identify and break patterns - use I statements - it's okay to challenge the client 4) followup, keep client accountable

[@mindvalleycoach]

Great summary, Austin! Thanks for sharing :)

[@daytonasayswhat9333]

Rip-off.

[@tammywilkins9549]

This was a Digestible breakdown with absolute clarity and reinforced examples. Starting at 3:21 it was incredible to watch how curious questions were able to dig deep and open the door in a focused way. It allowed the client to be seen, be vulnerable, and feel safe. She was being seen and cared for at the same time. Absolutely INCREDIBLE. Thank you!

[@hillsongfanatic2002]

I wish I could see the entire coaching session Uninterrupted

[@mindvalleycoach]

Perfect timing, Jennifer! We are sharing Christine's full talk with the live coaching session very soon. Make sure you're subscribed to our channel so you can get the notification as soon as it's out ;)

[@hillsongfanatic2002]

This make me so happy! I love cheistine

[@KimberlyMontoya1973]

Me too!

[@rustyferrel]

Same.

[@blesd4success]

Same

[@brendabrownceo]

I love how she leads her through to her own awareness 😍

[@mindvalleycoach]

❤❤❤

[@edykem23]

It is great see how a gifted coaching professional like Christine is able to handle the emotional needs of the coached and, take her into childhood bullying moments and then brings her back to presence and show her how to work those emotions in order not to let then affect her any more in her coaching activities or any other activities. Added value points in the way Ajij explains all parts and what's happening in the entire coaching session.

[@LivingBestLife]

I am a new life coach who started doing one on one coaching session since some months only! So happy to find these videos. I also like the commentary in between the session by Ajit breaking down stuff and reminding the main message. So happy to discover Evercoach by Mindvalley.

[@mindvalleycoach]

We're so happy this video was helpful and thank you for joining the coaching community ❤

[@TaxedintoPoverty]

Plz help me

[@jjstanton11]

So much gold in just a short video. Thank you!

[@mindvalleycoach]

Yey! We're so happy to read that, Julie-Jo :) Thanks for sharing

[@rachelharris7075]

Yes she did it with ease. I love those moments. That lightbulb out of the darkness.

[@mindvalleycoach]

Thank you for sharing, Rachel! :)

[@Hendricana]

I like that, moving from the wound and the need, to giving that gift of being seen to someone else.

[@mindvalleycoach]

Yes, that was an amazing insight! Thanks for sharing :)

[@tarajanay212]

Yes yes yes being an empath who can read people ..understand people .. and know their soul intention and having a solution I need to be doing this

[@mindvalleycoach]

Might coaching be your calling, Tara? Find out everything you need to know in our channel ❤

[@beatricestackhouse8165]

Ok sooo I have been following Mindvalley for about a a year and a half ago. I used to listen to you as I worked out. I took a break from KZbin for a while. I never knew you guys have teaching for coaches right her on KZbin. I mean I know you have conferences, so this is so awesome. I took a course in May of this year I am a life coach, I just haven't started yet. So these teaching have stirred up something in me. Thanks a million

[@mindvalleycoach]

We're so glad you found us, Beatrice! We hope our channel can support your journey as a life coach ❤

[@MagneticUnicornVlogs]

Yes, I love how she picked up on the emotions she was feeling to get to the core of the issues!

[@mindvalleycoach]

Right?! Reading body language is a game-changer. Thanks for sharing ❤

[@Prolifictae]

I loved it!!! Catered to my hopeful style of coaching as far as her leading the client into effective action based on her own analysis of the situation.

[@mindvalleycoach]

This is great! We're so happy you enjoyed it :) Thanks for sharing!

[@selflovingsensitive]

This is a great video. Very helpful. Thank you!

[@JanelleMercedes]

Yes! Wow, this was beautiful and powerful! Great demonstration and video! Thank you so much for this! 👏🏾

[@mindvalleycoach]

You are so welcome, Janelle! We're so glad you found it valuable :) Thanks for sharing.

[@annekekleinhans5548]

Love this. Learn a lot from watching real life practical coaching. Exploring patterns truely powerfully

[@mindvalleycoach]

So glad you found it valuable, Anneke! Thank you for sharing :)

[@fengcaneric]

This video answered all my questions from my conversation in only 14 mins, thanks a lot!

[@mindvalleycoach]

That's amazing! Glad it was valuable. Thanks for sharing :)

[@b-genius52]

I agree to break the client's pattern in the conversation. They will be grateful to the coach for doing that.

[@mindvalleycoach]

:)

[@lazarindelchev1046]

Thank you, i have miracle transformation watching the wright video who are reflection on my pattern i try to figured out, and now become obssest, getting deeper every single day

[@mindvalleycoach]

Thanks for sharing, Lazarin! ❤

[@hazaeleduardorojas9177]

So thankful for this video. I am taking my course now and was looking for a good breakdown of how to dig deep for clients to figure themselves out. Thank you.

[@mindvalleycoach]

You're so welcome, Hazael! Glad it was useful. Thanks for sharing ❤

[@mthandeniderrickmanqele2633]

I am so much thankful for these lesson. May I receive more

[@mindvalleycoach]

So glad you enjoyed it, Mthandeni! You can watch more coaching demonstrations here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/n53YZ2R_ithjf6M

[@maryscupoftea]

this was so helpful! Thank you! literally rewatching this just to take notes

[@mindvalleycoach]

You are SO welcome :) We're glad you found it so valuable, thanks for sharing!

[@21Virtues]

This is great to see how she works as a coach and how the session takes shape. However, and this is just a perception. It seems to me that it would be better to see this Raw, with someone who is not a coach themselves or training to be a coach. Then we can see how the session takes shape and how the coaching is done. Someone who is training to be a coach or is a coach will have familiarity, but someone who is not will be raw and it will take some deep work and intuiting to work with that person. I think that is a beneficial example to break down. Again this is only my perception, but great video lesson.

[@mindvalleycoach]

Thanks for the insight! This live coaching sessions was done at our Evercoach Summit event, specifically designed for coaches. We also have other videos breaking down coaching sessions with non-coach guests if you want to check them out :) We appreciate your suggestions.

[@bradleylatham8184]

Wow, digging into the the wound for answers is focussing on damage already done. WHOAH.

[@Nana-br8qg]

I couldn't help my tears 😭 what a powerful moment

[@mindvalleycoach]

❤❤❤

[@terecruz8229]

I love coaching sessions videos!! I learn a lot from them!! I'd like to see more.

[@mindvalleycoach]

So glad you are finding these valuable, Tere! We'll keep 'em coming ;)

[@MartinDurak]

Thank you for this amazing video Ajit and all the tips! It will definitely help me in my coaching practice! I resonated with - what the client says, in the beginning, is not the problem.

[@mindvalleycoach]

Great highlight, Martin! It's our role as coaches to dig deep and find what is really the problem they wish to solve. Thanks for sharing ❤

[@staciburton982]

what a fabulous video! thank you so Much Christine and Ajit

[@mindvalleycoach]

We're so happy you enjoyed it, Staci! Thanks for sharing ❤

[@theultimateyou4204]

Thanks for an informative session. Christine Hassler is a great life coach. I will surely invest more time to follow her work.

[@mindvalleycoach]

So glad you found it valuable! We are releasing this talk with the full coaching session next week, so stay tuned to learn more wisdom nuggets from Christine ;)

[@laviniaafrica8987]

I really loved this, so insightful. Thank you for sharing.

[@mindvalleycoach]

Thank you, Lavinia! ❤

[@JamesB822]

Very insightful teaching. More tools to change one person at a time!! Thanks for sharing!!

[@mindvalleycoach]

So happy you found it valuable, James! Thanks for sharing :)

[@Aneebanana1]

Very enlightening

[@PaulaSnell]

How she dives deep in the begging is brilliant - i have battled with this in my sessions!!!

[@mindvalleycoach]

Glad you resonated with this, Paula! Thanks for sharing :)

[@bonnyandclydee]

Thank you so much, I'm just starting out and this was so helpful.

[@mindvalleycoach]

So glad this was valuable, Bonny! Thanks for sharing ❤

[@chantalbrowne7886]

Thanks you for uploading these videos for us and spreading the knowledgeto help us be of service to others. #heartfelt thank you❤️

[@mindvalleycoach]

We're so grateful you enjoy our videos, Chantal! Thank you for your kind words ❤

[@alkemyfitchef8870]

Thank you for this valuable insight of a practical evolution of a session. 🙏

[@mindvalleycoach]

You are SO welcome! We're glad it was valuable ❤

[@msfinebrown561]

I really enjoyed this and learned so much. I'll definitely save this to watch a few more times

[@mindvalleycoach]

Yey! Thank you for sharing ❤️❤️

[@Videostack_]

your video was so helpful, Thank you for giving me a great understanding on what I'm getting myself into.

[@mindvalleycoach]

You are so welcome, Franklin! Glad you found it valuable :)

[@johncoakleyjr]

Great video! Super helpful! Thank you!

[@mindvalleycoach]

We're so glad it was! Thanks for sharing :)

[@seasonedwithgrace-5557]

Really appreciate your input very useful information. The coaching session it self was not my cup of tea but it’s good to see other people coach and take away what is useful to you as a coach in your session.

[@mindvalleycoach]

That's exactly the best approach to learning, Grace! Great insight ❤

[@harrisonkago7585]

I am training to be a coach and i have learnt quite a bit from this video. Thank you.

[@mindvalleycoach]

We're so glad it was useful, Harrison! Thanks for sharing :)

[@nirmalaautheymalam1835]

This video is a start for me as I am training to become a coach. Hope to come up like this.

[@mindvalleycoach]

This is fantastic, Nirmala! We hope you enjoy our channel, you'll find everything you need to know to get started ❤

[@ErnestineSantiago]

Omgoodness thank you how real

[@mindvalleycoach]

So glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for sharing ❤

[@sophielevieux4740]

Thank you Christine

[@mindvalleycoach]

Glad you resonated with this! Thanks for sharing :)

[@karenkelly1451]

Oh yeah. This is coaching. Really great demonstration.

[@mindvalleycoach]

Thank you for sharing, Karen! We're happy you enjoyed it :)

[@palindakaituu6024]

Luv this demonstration!!!

[@mindvalleycoach]

Yey! Thanks for sharing, Palinda :)

[@neidablazquez1780]

It was great thank you. Very Helpful.

[@mindvalleycoach]

We're glad you enjoyed this, Neida! Thanks for sharing

[@TheLetter536]

Amazing video. Thank you

[@mindvalleycoach]

Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for sharing :)

[@RonOliver2014]

Great example of a coaching session

[@mindvalleycoach]

Glad you enjoyed it, Ron! Thanks for sharing :)

[@KingShawn10]

that was such a helpful video! thanks for the great content.

[@mindvalleycoach]

We're so happy it was! Thanks so much for sharing ❤

[@Totallysamsays]

Awesome video! Thank you for sharing. 😎👍🏾

[@mindvalleycoach]

Glad you enjoyed it, Totallysam! :)

[@selllikeawoman]

Thanks for the great video, its very informative...

[@mindvalleycoach]

You're most welcome! Glad you enjoyed it :)

[@cnbri30]

This is absolutely amazing!

[@mindvalleycoach]

Thank you, Tisha! So glad you enjoyed it :)

[@leslietovar9627]

Very powerful coaching!! Wow your really amazing!

[@mindvalleycoach]

So glad you enjoyed it, Leslie! Thanks for sharing :)

[@jenniferbarillas0977]

Always delivering gold content, thank you and my best regards!

[@mindvalleycoach]

Thank you so much, Jennifer! ❤

[@mkratnam9417]

Really enjoyed this lesson! Thank you!

[@mindvalleycoach]

You're most welcome! Glad it was valuable for you :)

[@megprentice8412]

Would love more of these kinds of videos where you break down the coaching process.

[@mindvalleycoach]

We're so glad you found this video valuable! We have more coaching demonstrations and breakdowns in this curated playlist: kzbin.info/aero/PLLz6vjpxFbXjbUJ9ZgZXpmjgWmqXzWNEJ. Enjoy! :)

[@kyenpiabest267]

I'm excited seeing this video, glad I clicked and already subscribed 💃💃👍🎉 This has been my calling I believe and I'm already doing this through a mentoring program that I started for young people in my country, Nigeria. However, I believe through this coaching program(videos) I'll be able to do more👌👌 I'm definitely following and learning the process of becoming a good Coach. I'll use this coaching to inspire, heal and restore my community I

[@mindvalleycoach]

We're so glad to be part of your journey, Kyenpia! Keep up the good work! Thanks for sharing :)

[@tavken3i]

YES! Dig deep

[@mindvalleycoach]

;)

[@thegentleempress2559]

New subscriber... Brother, this was so powerful and enlightening! THANK YOU!!

[@mindvalleycoach]

Welcome!! We're so glad you enjoyed this video ❤️ Thanks for sharing!

[@FelixTih]

This is good stuff. Thanks for sharing!

[@mindvalleycoach]

So glad you enjoyed it, Felix :)

[@marcgosselin945]

Great video. Thank you

[@mindvalleycoach]

Glad you enjoyed it, Marc! Thanks for sharing :)

[@hannaryerson3304]

🧡💚💙 Grateful, thank you 🧡💚💙

[@mindvalleycoach]

You are so welcome, Hanna! Thanks for sharing the love :)

[@dr4g0n76]

Yes I've spotted this. I go for a deep emotional connection with the client anyway. Because that's what I'm teaching.

[@mindvalleycoach]

That's amazing, Holger! Thanks for sharing ❤

[@lizdewsbury5556]

yes this was really transformational I liked the challenge as this was very important

[@mindvalleycoach]

So glad you enjoyed this, Liz! Thanks so much for sharing ❤

[@ericahong4577]

thank you so much!!!

[@mindvalleycoach]

You are most welcome, Eri! ❤

[@successunite3982]

Great video - loved it

[@mindvalleycoach]

Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for sharing ❤

[@ForeverWealthy2011]

Awesome content! Tangible takeaways

[@mindvalleycoach]

Yey! We love reading that. Thanks for sharing :)

[@bridgetnye541]

Very helpful, I especially appreciated the commentary by Ajit.

[@mindvalleycoach]

So glad you found it valuable, Bridget! Thanks for sharing ❤

[@Fionaharrold]

Thanks for the very helpful video...

[@mindvalleycoach]

You're most welcome, Fiona! We're happy it was valuable for you :)

[@aishushainush4654]

Thanks eye opener

[@mindvalleycoach]

Thanks for sharing, Aisha! ❤

[@selma1208]

this is amazing!

[@mindvalleycoach]

So glad you enjoyed it, Sel! :)

[@DavidWiseCoaching]

Great video, thanks

[@mindvalleycoach]

Glad you found it valuable, David! Thanks for sharing :)

[@susanconway4970]

yes - Socratic questioning.

[@unblocklife7060]

Ajit is full of love and awesomeness with no fluff! :)

[@mindvalleycoach]

❤❤❤

[@carlorubinstein7620]

Huge value in these videos.🙏💙

[@mindvalleycoach]

We're so glad they are! Thanks for sharing 💜

[@MichelleGold]

This is excellent. Thanks!

[@mindvalleycoach]

We're so happy you enjoyed this, Michelle! Thanks for sharing ❤

[@hayaspringcoaching]

That was great, great work of you thanks for sharing this with us:)

[@mindvalleycoach]

So glad you enjoyed this, Haya! Thanks for sharing :)

[@67bnb]

Great learning for me!

[@mindvalleycoach]

So glad it was valuable, Nayankumar! Thanks for sharing :)

[@victoriousministry3329]

Well done! Great video!

[@mindvalleycoach]

Thank you, Bernice! So glad you found it valuable :)

[@anitrahooper5031]

Thank you for this breakdown of such a powerful coaching session! I love the use of unfinished sentences using their words to take the session deeper. It is a great way to unlock what is below the surface. I love using action steps in my practice so they can embody the new patterns & mindsets!

[@mindvalleycoach]

Yes, great techniques, Anitra! The simplest ones are sometimes the most powerful. Thanks for sharing :)

[@anitrahooper5031]

@@mindvalleycoach I agree. Simple does not equate to ineffective. Simple actually taps into the ways we learned as kids. How we built patterns initially so we can get back to that place & restructure them in more positive ways. I believe that everyone has some form of a hurt child (micro & macro trauma). Patterns of survival that functioned for the child do not serve the adult. By healing our hurt child, we heal our adult self.

[@mindvalleycoach]

Well said, Anitra! ;)

[@anitrahooper5031]

@@mindvalleycoach thank you! Have a glorious day!

[@mindvalleycoach]

You too!

[@kendrapoole3270]

Yes!

[@twalhaabdulkadir9754]

I love this! More please :)

[@mindvalleycoach]

Your wish is our command, Twalha! You can find all our coaching demonstrations in this playlist: kzbin.info/aero/PLLz6vjpxFbXjbUJ9ZgZXpmjgWmqXzWNEJ. Thanks for sharing ❤

[@lifecoachingwithzainab.a]

Much needeed🎉🎉🎉

[@mindvalleycoach]

Thanks for sharing 😉

[@wafaaabdallah6309]

helpful and useful coaching tips

[@mindvalleycoach]

Glad you found it valuable, Wafaa! Thanks for sharing :)

[@ErnestineSantiago]

Yes I’m answering myself and crying as well

[@mindvalleycoach]

You have to embrace and acknowledge your emotions before letting go of what doesn't serve you anymore.❤❤❤

[@manjudeo945]

great demo!

[@mindvalleycoach]

Thank you, Manju! Glad you resonated :)

[@sethcollins893]

This is powerful stuff

[@mindvalleycoach]

Thanks for sharing, Seth 💙

[@barbarabekesi1378]

Beautiful...

[@mindvalleycoach]

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[@psychepeteschannel5500]

What I find the most "masterful" in this instance (edit: around 3:30), is not really the follow-up of questions - which is great, but... that is so great... that its basic. Coaching 101 to ask questions to dig deeper. :) What I find so masterful is the fact, that RIGHT before this moment, there was the "let go" moment. "Dont hold back. Is it ok not to hold back right now?" etc, This, to me at least, facilitated the ease and speed of the responses and their absolute authenticity. The questions were great, but if they were not set up like this and the context was different, instead of a speedy honest deep response, she could get a rised eyebrow, or "let me think about that for 20 minutes"... But the setup made the subsequent volley of questions just cut directly through the constructs and right to the core... Impressive :)

[@mindvalleycoach]

What a fantastic observation! The power of building rapport and creating a safe space for the client. Thanks for sharing ❤❤

[@psychepeteschannel5500]

@@mindvalleycoach And thank you for the great video! :)

[@vwekamp]

Extraordinary

[@mindvalleycoach]

Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for sharing :)

[@AprilSouthard]

love!!!

[@mindvalleycoach]

Glad you resonated, April! Thanks for sharing :)

[@smilywds12]

Yes yes yes! ✨

[@mindvalleycoach]

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[@kyledammann4284]

Beautiful

[@mindvalleycoach]

Thanks for sharing, Kyle! ❤

[@nadineleongobet]

Thank you 🙏

[@mindvalleycoach]

Glad you enjoyed this! Thanks for sharing 💜

[@adriannegrun5734]

YES

[@1111teo]

Great video

[@mindvalleycoach]

Glad you enjoyed it, Elmeri! :)

[@colleenjones9693]

Yes

[@manpreet0784]

I just discovered my calling that I want to become a life coach. I am 37 and work as a content writer. However, I have always felt that I am good at listening and understanding people and then providing them with solutions that are specific to them (no one size fits all approach). I am really looking forward to becoming a life coach who is excellent at helping her clients. I am going to take this huge risk because that's what I am passionate about. Thanks so much for this really useful video.

[@mindvalleycoach]

We're so grateful this video could contribute to your new journey, Manpreet! We hope our channel can provide all the tools and insight you need in this new career. We're rooting for you ❤

[@manpreet0784]

@@mindvalleycoach Thanks so much for the warm wishes.🥰. I will keep watching your videos. Thanks once again.

[@mindvalleycoach]

@@manpreet0784 ❤❤❤

[@marinatodisco1468]

yes!

[@marinatodisco1468]

@Callum Vincent Hi Vincent! I already have a Life Coach thanks and I am a Life Coach myself :) thanks for the offer though.