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[@vivianreginalds]

@6:56 got me tearing up 😢 I have 2 kids, it’s tough a lot; most of my peers all have their PhD degrees & I’m slowly juggling through motherhood and life, it’s tough I’d say but it’s joyful too. I don’t recall sleeping for 4-5 hours straight since I had my first child in 2021. Some days I feel like my brain is suffering and pray for God to help my brain not get so stressed out that something happens. However, I am always hopeful over the joy that comes in the morning 😊 Dear Gloria, This is not about me but I feel your challenges and concerns & All I’d say is you’re Acing it Mama, You’re simply amazing, No one will care for your little boys like you; I thank God for your life on their behalf; I thank God for your family at large. It’s okay to cry sometimes but afterwards, you always stand tall and brave and that’s what is adorable. Thank you for sharing a part of your life with us. I pray it gets easy with time dear. God bless you always ❤

[@MZBENNE]

And I was thinking of doing my masters after having my first child?? I will go back to school hopefully next year to start my masters degree. STAY STRONG DEAR WOMEN ARE THE STRONGEST BEINGS EVER!!!

[@animals5662]

I was crying the whole day today and saw this video. Never felt so alone and depressed. 6 months now without a proper sleep, motherhood has changed me...I feel like my life will never come around. Some days I don't even remember what day it is. 7th year into my phd and the last one while my friends have all got their doctorate.

[@vivianreginalds]

@@animals5662 it’s well my dear. Take it one day at a time okay 🤗

[@kelechiokeke2980]

​@animals5662 it will get better. Sorry dear.. you are doing a great job as it is. ❤

[@olumiluarebecca2413]

I love love your comment. Thank you so much for your kind words. it's so elevating.

[@tishinaa]

Motherhood is the hardest thing I've ever done. It's a blessing but it's so hard women don't get enough credit for what they endure

[@margareta.836]

😢 It is…the part where you carry the baby for months and when about to be due, you need to work your ass off with exercise to go into labor and give birth with screams. It doesn’t end there when baby comes, the baby will be sucking your breast and even when all the nipples are sore, you still have to endure till the milk starts flowing. Babies will determine when you should wake up and when to rest. O let’s not talk about the crawling and toddler stage of scattering, breaking, mess, etc. Mothers say “Stop it!” 20000x a day. God, please be our strength😢😭.

[@btafe]

So is fatherhood...at least we get some credit, fathers don't get any

[@sose9601]

​@@btafe okay. But this message is for MOTHERS. Thank you❤

[@margareta.836]

@@btafe Adulthood na scam o. Fathers too have their own share of stress in parenting. Shout outs to all ‘present’ fathers

[@Debisiniran]

Absolutely right. Our reward is in the Lord and the lives we bring forth to do exploits.

[@Papeeyah]

“Prunes me to let go of me and hold on to God” THAT PART. 🥺❤️‍🩹

[@rimdandorkong7205]

This has got to be the most premium content on the net right now. Thanks for sharing your vulnerable moments and attaching such clear and comforting scriptural references. I pray divine strength and joy for you.

[@elizabetholuwatobiloba6447]

I’m not a mom.. I’m a Nigerian uni student and my mental health has been all over the place due to the economy. Things have been really hard and business is not going as it used to, I want to appreciate you for your content and the first few minutes you referred to as theology😂😂 was something I needed to hear, God sure has his own way of reassuring us in diverse ways. I pray God fills you with so much joy and strength to get through this phase.

[@marygenevieve238]

A powerful Amen

[@YOURCAMERAGIRL]

We're all here sis . But we can't be anxious. EBENEZER is still our God😇😇

[@winifredonyembi5536]

I pray God grants you the strength that you need to pull through. Because strength and comfort will go a long way right now. I pray it gets better❤

[@oluwaseunololade5120]

Amen Thank you for typing my heart .... and maraji thank you for sharing I love you and I'm rooting for you and keep holding onto God he's and will forever be our anchor and comfort ❤❤

[@yanasuehendricks6721]

Ugghhh All My Love. I can’t even imagine how tough this is. Prayers for you❤️

[@bukksbukks7415]

I am a new mom too and I am so glad you made this video. The heavens will give us strength when we are too weak to carry on because honestly, motherhood is hard.

[@MarajisWorld]

Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@nicoleattah]

Amen 🙏🏼

[@saleslorsamglobalenterpris5262]

​@@MarajisWorld stop scaring me we tap tap blessing 😂now at 27week and afraid already even though it my second 😢

[@trycoachinglv]

This video brought me to tears. My son is 9 years old. I suffered with sleep deprivation for the first 6 years of his life due to him having health/breathing issues. Sleep deprivation is life altering and can make you feel like a CRAZY person. You WILL get through this... God's strength will carry you ... TRUST ME! Continue being honest and authentic about the reality of motherhood. Yes its BEAUTIFUL and REWARDING while at the same time tiresome and hard. You are BEAUTIFUL! Be patient with yourself!

[@janewoodproperties]

My sister Is same with me

[@annabelenu1964]

"Unlike what most popular pastors preach, where you bind, and rebuke and reject all forms of suffering, the Bible on the other hand is very vocal and clear that we must definitely suffer..." Love this!!!!!!! What's lots of Christians especially Africans need to hear!

[@brendadickson9583]

Truly we are brainwashed that we must not say we are in pain or need help, because if we do we are either possessed or lack faith😢

[@chism1712]

Your words resonate deeply with me, as we share similar views on faith and life. Being a mother of two in the U.S. (with hubby not living here), one with special needs, while pursuing a PhD, I relate so well with you. Oh, the many days I cry., it is really hard, but thank you for your vulnerability. It's a reminder that joy and sadness can indeed exist together. I pray God to send you help in any form and see you through this demanding yet beautiful journey. Know that I am wholeheartedly cheering for you.

[@carolineampiaw4946]

I'm cheering for you too! The Lord is your ever-present help!

[@ocnmind]

Kudos to you. Hugs to you ❤❤❤❤❤❤ Good luck 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿

[@VickkyBee1674]

In this same season as you, just different countries. May God send you help too, we will pass through in joy

[@mariamhashiru3887]

Joy and sadness can indeed exist together 🥺🥺🥺 that really struck me . I pray to God to ease your struggles and bless you abundantly ❤

[@reginapius2584]

The first theology part was exactly what I needed 😭 .As a Nigerian student ,the daily spike in the price of things is not funny,I cried when I learnt of the new price of gas this morning and then I found this video .your content just keeps getting better and better every time 👍 I pray for more strength 😊

[@hussenamarshallmusa]

Amen

[@ihuomaomele2652]

I just stumbled on this video and I can definitely relate to what your going through, I’m a first time mum of a 7month old in a foreign land with no help, most times I get overwhelmed with this motherhood journey, my life took a different turn that nobody told me about, living in a foreign land made it even harder, I just knew that for me to still be normal, I need God’s help and he has just being coming through for me, most times I turn to him and cry it all out, and afterwards I get a renewed strength to continue, and I pray the same for you Gloria that the Lord will renew your strength always in your motherhood journey and come through for you at all times in Jesus Christ name!

[@Msolay30]

Postpartum depression might also be what you’re going through. Sending hugs your way!❤ I remember crying for no reason, not wanting people around me. Motherhood is a very difficult thing. I can’t even say hang in there it gets better soon. It’s a one day at a time situation. I finally started finding myself when my youngest child was 5 years old. 5! I lived a total of 8 years of my life in zombie mode.

[@lovethnnenna5098]

Honestly it almost took me too,God I felt like giving up but then I feared my baby will b maltreated just d way I was maltreated so I had to fight off depression...

[@aishatabdulkareem]

5:05 did you guys see her baby boy smile when she laughed 😍. May God continue to make this easy for you. May you enjoy the fruits of your labor 🤍🤍

[@toluabijo4481]

I saw that beautiful smile ❤ and I hope she also does when she's going over the video.

[@fyneboneeunice483]

I did and it made me smile.

[@thinkbeforeyouact8242]

This is the story of my life right now, I’m 28 years old with no family member around me because I live in another country, no friends and no help. I have 4 children under the age of 5, my oldest is only 4 years old. Apart from struggling let’s also talk the guilt you feel, thinking you’re not doing enough, feeling that your kids deserves better. The days when you just want to isolated and breathe but you can’t. I’m with them 24/7 as I’m a stay at home mom, I don’t regret my choices but it is very harddddd. My only advice is to take it a day at a time, it’s a daily battle. Listen to other moms who are in your situation podcast or video and keep holding on to God. Sometimes I just call my mom and cry and she cries with me because she can’t be with me. 😭😭 remember 4 months from now it will get a little easier the battle will change just hold on. God loves you ❤

[@folasadefamurewa77]

I am a mum of a 1yr 8months old son, and when people tell me" this boy needs a sister " i turn to tell them to give their children one more and leave me alone. The struggle with one super active son is so much coupled with being a career lady. I really praise and pity young ladies with 2 under 2 especially, it is not easy my love, and dont let anyone tell you otherwise, you are entitled to cry and scream if that will help reduce the bottled up emotions. You are not alone girl and you'v got this strength in you.

[@amarachinwaeze1370]

I cried watching this....May God give Strength to all the women around the World....Thanks to all the Caring Husband's too supporting their women during this time...God Bless Us all

[@lalalaal.]

Maraji thank you so much for being so honest. What you said about others wanting to be in your position is not untrue, as I’m a 25-year-old single lady working on my masters. Never have I glorified or overglamorised marriage, but this video has put it even more into perspective. A true raw account of certain seasons . I genuinely pray that God gives you peace in this time and joy too. Note I didn’t say happiness because that can change but our deep, deep joy in Christ doesn’t. The sound of Jaden laughing is an absolute melody btw. This too shall pass and you’re doing amazing. ❤️❤️❤️

[@joycechukwu2651]

Dear Gloria, you’re loved … I have learnt a lot from you from PCOS to being told I may not be able to have children because I’m 43!!! Loool I recently relocated to the states and got a second opinion and ban! The same thing but I take solace in all the Bible passage you quoted and I admire you , your vulnerability and acceptance that you’re human! I wish you a smooth sailing in motherhood and better days are indeed ahead. ❤❤❤

[@victoriaife5115]

😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@victoriaife5115]

😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@doofenshmitz8174]

@Allah_Loves_Forgives_and_Saves yes, and she’s discussed it in a video or two

[@sose9601]

This isn't an affirmative write up. But from one O&G who resides in America,a woman. I watched her short,she said NEVER tell a woman she can't have babies. Like never, because the one who created the womb can do as HE so pleases and put multiples in it. They have given their prognosis, You are a Christian and also allowed to tell you Father,that which you want. Wish you all the best and May the Universe Align in your favor❤

[@joycechukwu2651]

@@sose9601 whilst I agree with you, remember that Doctors will say it as it is not that it’s intentional. As for me, when I’m ready, those babies will come .

[@amanahsaais2577]

What I genuinely love about this video is the vulnerability shared. I came across something when reading a book today and it spoke about how we ought to share our weaknesses and not try to cover them up and appear strong because even then God can't help us but when we're honest about our weaknesses and we reveal them and also 'glory' in them, we give God room to make His strength perfect in our weaknesses and also give opportunity for others to find healing and hope in our shared pain. I've yet to be a mother but health wise I understand to an extent the pain and struggle childbirth can put women through and I wish you divine strength and pray that God carries you through this phase and brings you out stronger and a beacon of hope to others who are going through the same. Thank you for your candor and vulnerability shared, it couldn't have been easy.

[@Ronneyabey]

Dear Gloria, I see you. I feel you. I support you. Your feelings are valid. I'm here and God is too. You’ll get through this❤ Love Sharon

[@j.moonial2909]

I feel you, I'm a new mother as well. I thought it was tough when she was an infant, but a toddler is a whole other story. I'm tired, exhausted, frustrated, and trying to stay sane so I can be the best mother I can be. I love how you said two things that are opposite can be true at the same time. Motherhood is only spoken about in a positive light, but yes it is true that you can love your baby and it is also true that at times you wonder what the hell did you do lol Thanks for sharing this, it touched me. And I love the aesthetic of your home and how you put this video together -- gave me a movie feel. Best of luck to you... we'll be okay. Mothers are Strong and so amazing.

[@janniesworld173]

Jesus strengthens you ❤

[@AbisolaAdekinle]

I’m a 25 year old new mum with a 10 months old baby and I think it’s safe to say that I’m just getting myself back after 10 months! The whole of 2023 was an emotional roller coaster for me! Lost myself completely all cos of motherhood! But whenever I look at my baby, I get this consolation that I’m doing a great job! So you’re right about your perspective of an achievement. You’re a super super super strong MUM and you’re doing amazingly well Maraji! Always rooting for you!

[@charis5259]

This is the most relatable thing I have seen on the internet in a very very long time. Thank you for sharing this. This whole toxic positivity is honestly doing more harm than good. It ends up leaving me feeling so alone like all other mothers out there are ok and for some reason I’m the only one feeling this way. So thank you really for this piece.

[@chiommy_choco]

Heres something i say to myself whenever the going gets tough..." this too shall pass"... everything in life is in stages and time. GLORIA YOUVE GOT THIS! on your previous video i called you a superwoman. GLORIA YOU'RE A SUPERWOMAN, YOUVE GOT SUPER POWERS. YOU'RE STRONG BABE, YOU GAT THIS...i feel your struggles 100%... you're loved

[@simplymariama]

I am a Muslim and I haven’t experienced motherhood yet but this video has made me appreciate my mother even more and to be more patient and loving with her as she approaches her old age. Sending you loads of love Gloria and I pray Allah SWT showers your home with blessings and grants you ease. Love and respect to all the amazing mothers out there ❤️

[@fortuneemenyi]

Amen, Jesus has her tho❤️

[@Asia.Persuasia]

​@@fortuneemenyi What do you even mean? Abrahamic religions worship the same God. God, Jehovah, and Allah are the same being. Jesus is God's son. Allah and Jesus can "have" her at the same time, stop being ignorant.

[@daisiesandpandas1218]

​@@Asia.Persuasiawe do not worship the same God. Muslim God has Jesus as just a prophet. Whilst in Christianity he is the way to salvation and eternal life, the sacrifice that only needs to be made once and for all and God himself. If one thing changes, that's not the same God anymore, they only seem to be the same.

[@modemie4462]

Can you not turn this into a religious brouhaha 🙄😒? The one who has got her has got her

[@fortuneemenyi]

@@daisiesandpandas1218 thank you❤️

[@consumerbehaviorexpert5664]

I cried so much watching this….I felt the exact way when I had my baby…as a first time mum, it was very hard I cried and was always cranky but I was so I love with my newborn that I wanted her to myself alone…but sleep deprivation sent me to postpartum depression…my mum stood firmly by me…she made sure that I was mentally and emotionally fit. My baby is a year now, but I’m still struggling with navigating motherhood. Sounds contradictory but I love love every bit of motherhood…my baby girl has my heart. She is my reason ❤ Now I understand that there is no manual to navigating motherhood, I cry when I’m weak and celebrate when I’m strong…it doesn’t reduce how strongly I am in love with my baby. I’m sending you lots of hugssss and love 🫂❤️

[@favourikharo2744]

I am not a 😊😊😊l0

[@Loisemarvel]

I agree sis. When people see you cry they tend to make you feel like you’re ungrateful or when you maybe seem frustrated,they want to lecture you on how to love your child 🤣 but like you said there’s no manual and being down today and up tomorrow doesn’t change the deep love we have for our kids. We will still go through the process over again. Mothers are geniuses

[@cleocly3418]

I cried so much reading this as this was exactly what I went through when I had my baby who is now a year old.my mum also stood by me and helped me so not to run mental.motherhood is the most difficult thing I’ve ever had to do.but there’s just something about it…you feel so happy at the same time you cry a lot sometimes

[@consumerbehaviorexpert5664]

@@cleocly3418 I wish I could hug you right now 🫂❤️… one thing we must remember is that our mothers gave birth to us and took care of us…by God’s Grace we will take good care of our own children too. We’ve got this ❤️😘

[@christy_Gabs]

You'll pull through this, it is never easy or smooth all the way in this motherhood journey. It's okay to feel terrible that you're feeling frustrated or weak. You'll get over it and be glad you did. Sending you loads of love from Lagos Nigeria. I went through mine too during my second pregnancy and it was through CS, but today I don’t remember thr pains I anymore, my baby boy is almost 11 months now. Well done sis.❤❤❤

[@manuelam9828]

I'm a single mom to a 2 year old toddler. I'm watching this at 11pm with my 18kgs son on my back trying to get him to sleep. Which I know will only last 2 hours at most before we start the process of falling back asleep again. And this has been going on for 2 years. It's tough, terribly tough. I'm constantly tired and apart from work I barely get myself to do anything. Yet society expects me to have it all together while judging me for being a Christian, divorced single mother... I'm just happy African women are beginning to talk about how we're having it rough in this motherhood journey

[@twistedscientist3288]

We don't talk about how hard motherhood is. Hard on our body, hard on our mind, hard on our careers... You're right, motherhood is sacrificial in ways I never expected to sacrifice. 2 years post partum and I'm still recovering but it's getting better. For one, my tears inducing sleep deprivation is not as bad now. I hope you are able to get all the support and comfort you need to get through this stage and I pray it continues to get better for you and your family as you adapt.

[@kelechiokeke2980]

This video, is so vulnerable in ways i wish all mothers could be. My first child was 9 months when i got pregnant for my 2nd, so when you told us of your pregnancy i really felt the words you weren't saying. And now, i feel everything you said because that's exactly how i felt. And not with many bible verses😂, so I'm excited about your perspective. You are already on a better track, when you see your suffering as something God told us will surely happen and has promised to help us through. Well done Mummy, 2 star General as they call parents with 2 kids 😂. I am proud of you and I feel your pain. This sleep deprivation almost got me depressed.. but i pray that your sleep is restored in Jesus name, for God gives His beloved sleep. You are in my prayers, and i thank God for you❤❤❤. Love to the men them.

[@Olamide298]

This is so raw and beautiful. May God continue to comfort you in this season x

[@leahcoicou5085]

GURL! SAME! I needed this, my husband just took a one way flight across the country to go tend to his mom in the hospital. And im here with a 2 year old and 9 month old STRUGGLIN! So it was nice to just resonate with someone else on that feeling. One think i did want to say tho is uf you have not you shoukd talk to a lactation consultant about your son refusing tge bottle. My 1st sin had a bottle strike and someone recommended a lactation consultant which i never would have thought of. I assumed they only dealt with the boob. But she had tons of strategies for bottles and it worked!

[@alozieoluomachi3985]

Chai dear sis I feel your pain😢😢... Am 27 with 2 babies under 2, a 1yr old and a 1 month old baby... I am going through my pain at the moment... I literally had to pulse everything my school, my work, my business, and content creation as well so I Don't loose my sanity. It's crazy at the moment but it's worth it!!! Just know that you are loved and there's no one like you mama... Take it easy on yourself and get as much help as you can possibly get, please for sanity sake... ❤ and 🕯️

[@jacquelineaghadiuno9225]

Wow, thank you so much for the candid sharing… things like this have helped me start to rise out of depression again. In my case my husband wasn’t even around due to work, he supported as he could on phone; but when he met his child at 2 yrs old for the first time and all the in laws had their magnifying eyes and opinions I learned hard and quick how alone one can be in motherhood no matter who ‘may’ be around…number 2 baby came and it was a slightly better, we found ourselves in another distant scenario and I was alone in a foreign country 33 weeks pregnant with a toddler alone again… but my toddler gave me hell while I was still nursing. Then daddy met his second baby at 3months…then I became FAT for the first time ever from depression, I didn’t even know when it was happening, I couldn’t see myself anymore. In all this I realized motherhood is kind of like a bonus God gave women to make it into the Kingdom… the sacrifice is one’s self for the sake of others is it not?… hence I have decided we must do it well for His glory so he will be pleased with us; those scriptures were perfect! May the Most High bless and strengthen you in His joy maraji. ❤

[@jo-annessi8606]

Dont know you but sending you hearts❤❤ Us women go through a lot.

[@daisiesandpandas1218]

Salvation is by believing in Jesus alone and a grace, motherhood isn't something that will get you into heaven (sorry if you didn't mean it that way, that part just jumped out at me theology-wise) God bless you and be your strength during these times. May he equip you and provide for you to raise your kids well and help them become who God purposed them to be.

[@omowunmiadekoya4408]

Sending you hearts. Hmmm. It’s well

[@doyinadegoke2014]

Hi Maraji, I can relate with your content, I dealt with serious PPD after my baby was born, she’s 8 months now and it’s gotten easier. I can say that the sleepless nights were the hardest, sleeplessness was hard and is hard, I willingly booked an appointment to see my gp for depression. When someone asked me how is it? My first response would be “ I regret having a baby and I’d burst into tears”. I don’t want to make this about me but I started taking one day at a time, it got easier and is much much easier now. there are still hard days but whenever I feel myself falling back into unhappiness, I ensure to reach out for professional help. Sometimes you need to speak to a professional and not just bible scriptures and family and friends. Sending you love and light and I hope it gets better for you sincerely ❤❤, hang in there strong woman.

[@drfavoureze2112]

I can totally understand this... You are amazing and you are doing a good job at motherhood. Your feelings are valid. Stay strong .

[@nuelcan]

Just remember you got 555,000 PEOPLE who stan you and above all LOVE you.its because of you that we are here. We continue to love you ❤❤❤❤❤. I love you. God loves you more From tour favorite Man fan

[@PrincessNjoku]

I am not a Mother, yet. But this video resonated so well with me.. with how I currently feel. It's good to see somebody admit to how they truly feel. It's good to see somebody relate to how I currently feel. Thank you so much💕

[@reniDeiS]

This is the most powerful thing I have watched all year. Maraji, Your God who sees you, sees you. And He is wiping every tear from your eyes, there shall be no more pain, nor sorrow, nor crying; for the former order of things have passed away, behold all things have been made new. Rev:21

[@KemiKnowsTravel]

Sending so much love. I've heard that motherhood is so not easy. Dash toxic positivity jor, "thats not toxic positivity", thats gaslighting as you said

[@CoCoCovie]

This IS the BEST and most REALISTIC heartwarming video I have seen.i I ABSOLUTELY feel you and understand every emotion.(since im a mum too) Thank you sooo much for sharing

[@deborahwatiti6499]

Sigh!!! EVERYTHING you have said in this video resonates with me. I am a mother of 2 under 2 and phewww…. Most days are hard!!! Thank you validating my feelings.

[@dorcastiwaaboadi6637]

This video is literally my whole life in the last 3 months and watching it uninterrupted brought me to tears again but I’m grateful to God for how far I’ve come with my baby. My son from day one refused to take bottle even with breast milk but only to feed on my breast. I haven’t been able to go anywhere in the past 3 months only to the hospital for postnatal care and vice versa. The worst part with breastfeeding is when you haven’t had any sleep and you’re stressed, it refuses to reproduce so you can imagine the trauma you go through when there isn’t enough milk for your baby to feed on yet he is refusing to take bottle. I knew motherhood wasn’t easy but experiencing it is far more depressing, however, the love i feel in my heart when I stare at my baby is heavenly❤️

[@askdrginika1083]

Same things my Mum kept saying till I sank into postnatal depression. She is an amazing woman but she didn’t know some of these struggles as I had a very rough surgery, my hormones were messed up plus pain plus exhaustion plus sleep deprivation….😢😢😢😢 It was the clinic that had to school everyone so I could get some help. Well done for speaking up Gloria. I just joined The Intentional Parenting Academy by Wendy Ologe. The daily details they raise there is helping me with myself and navigating better with the kids too. I am there for me and it is my safe space.

[@TheSandFLife]

Girl I am crying with you . I am sending you so much love and hugs 🥰. Motherhood is not easy and you got this ❤

[@veyveye.2985]

Sleep deprivation wreaks so much havoc physically and mentally! Oh how I wish I could fast forward you past this stage. Thank God you are able to process your thoughts and take each day as it comes. Take those "power naps" whenever you can, honestly. You are so blessed, may the grace of God almighty be with you.

[@IfeoluwaOlaoye]

This entire video is so relatable. Being a first time mom did something to me I’d never experienced before. Sleep deprivation is a very big deal and I don’t think people can understand it fully except experienced and I did, for months, it felt like I was just existing without living. Many days were rough and I cried a lot. I really struggled and yes, women should talk more about these hard moments even though hearing it won’t prepare you for what is to come, at least you have an idea. Sending warm and fuzzy hugs your way because I can relate so much, it makes me so emotional.

[@mzznai]

Soo relatable. I started crying from the beginning. I've been feeling very conflicted, guilty, and confused as a wife & mother of now 3. Thank you for sharing this. May God bless and strengthen us.

[@LifeInAsherV]

Wooow I have a new level of respect for you. It is not easy, and knowing how to voice your emotions is a step. I pray for strength for you. I also pray love ones will have more empathy because having 2 under 2 is not easy. You got this 💪🏾

[@adeayobulus]

Sis, I get you! As a mother it’s not easy. Thank you for the encouraging scripture reminders. God strengthen you on this journey. May He provide the resources you need to make this smooth. Well done mama 🎉

[@iyanuloluwaakinsanya9874]

It does get better , praying for you. Take all the time you need. When I had my first son , I had this experience and the best prayer I could utter was sometimes a forced “help me Lord” . But He heard. I think mine was a case of sleep deprivation and rapid hormonal change . My son didn’t latch till he was 3 months and I also felt pressured to breastfeed (wish I switched formula to be honest 😂). I was extremely sleep deprived and he had neonatal sepsis , I had to have a surgery due to an mastitis… so much happened that period sigh. It does get better. He listens and will help you. Thanks for being vulnerable. Praying for you 😊

[@ireneedokpayi2890]

Hi Maraji Well done !!! Motherhood is just supernatural and I don’t think there’s any definition for it . I had my first baby in December in the Uk, and I totally understand what you’re going through , I was literally crying everyday and couldn’t eat nor look after myself. At least in Africa, you’d always have family support but it was just I and my husband here with a new baby. So, thank you for sharing this video , for being vulnerable, for making other moms feel they’re not alone . You’ll soon start to feel better as your baby grows and all the hormonal tears will go away . Xoxo.

[@adekoyaolubukola64]

For the feeding, try syringe, try other bottles, some kids just have issues with a particular brand of bottles. Stay strong Mama, praying for you. It gets better too😊

[@pelumiraheen4936]

I stopped 1 minute 28 seconds into this video. GLORIA I THANK GOD FOR THE GRACE, GLORY AND BLESSINGS over your life thank you tremendously for your openness to be vulnerable and HONEST is such a breath of fresh air Gloria you are so empowering and incredibly beautiful for doing so I have so much admiration and respect for you thank you. You are a beacon of LIGHT GOD IS USING YOU FOR HIS GLORY. There is so much stregth

[@InChristAlone13]

Hugs from here Gloria! You are not alone! I literally felt like just reaching out through the screen to just hug you! and perhaps strap one of those babies to my back for a few hours so that you can rest for some hours. The video moved me to tears as I am also a mum to a two year old in America with none of my family members with me. It was extremely hard in the beginning. I will pray for you for strength!!!

[@naturallydee7762]

I’m crying watching this bc I felt her emotion and truly we women are angels on earth, I love you Gloria and pray God strengthen you more than before bc only him truly understands the extent of feelings and emotions.

[@titilolafelix]

This was so real, so raw, so vulnerable. I pray for God's strength upon you. God wraps you in his loving arms and sends you the help that you need. Sending you e-hugs 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@aderonkeajibade3842]

Thank you for articulating this so well. I am glad you have found solace in the word and the lord will guide you and deliver you from all troubles. We are in this together 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@kryssiewoo51]

Seeing this just hits home because I too am going through the same. My toddler just turned 3 and my newborn is less than 2 months now and between staying up some night s until I cab see the sunlight appear at my window to still juggling work from home, I feel stretched thin, overwhelmed, unable to take care of myself and give my toddler that tme she is use to getting. My husband has to take her most times but now I feel like she resents me for spending time with baby, who by the way is also only exclusively breastfed from the boob. Your words touched me today because I see its only the Lord who must rely on for support and the word. MOTHERHOOD isn't easy at all but if we keep going we all know it's worth it. Praying for eachother! ❤

[@WendyPaulaAtim-cf1gy]

Same case here...almost always catching myself emotional eating because of depression as I spend the whole night awake😢...

[@jojokels]

Yea I'm going through the same thing.. My 1yr old starts sticking to his dad and gets upset when i cant hold him as I'm feeding my newborn and it makes me so emotional as he's used to getting attention whenever he needed it and now he aint 😢

[@AskJaeSix]

This is like listening to my own story. There seems to be no one who gets it. It's like the other is either to uncomfortable to hear you and hold space for you or they cannot imagine what you are going through because they have forgotten or never experienced it. Sometime the question 'why did I choose to have kids' feels wrong. But now I know that this is quite normal yet no one wants to say it out loud. And if one does there needs to be a whole story about that we love our kids.... The struggle is real and you have every right to feel the way that you do. You need no permission or to apologize for it. It is part of motherhood.

[@victoriatabifor4863]

Thank you for this true message!! I am right where you are and I am encouraged. God bless you!

[@fredaokosodo]

This is so raw, real and honest. God will give you the grace and the strength to do what He has called you to do. May the tougher days ALWAYS be behind you ❤️

[@ocnmind]

It's okay not to be okay. Thanks for being this vulnerable. ❤

[@Africandiva128]

Thanks for your honestly! As a first time mum, this really resonated with me! My prayer is for strength and peace of mind, because without that I don’t know how I’d manage it all

[@Blessing_fobi]

Well done Gloria You’re doing good It’s clearly not easy but you’re doing your best and that’s absolutely beautiful

[@bertilleobi8235]

See ehhh @Maraji ... I literally teared up listening to/watching this, because it's my reality. Motherhood is the most beautiful thing ever, but it can be really HARDDDDD! Like, I don't even know how you gathered the strength ro do this video. And the toxic positivity thingy, ahhh! God knows how I rant to him when I get that. I'm like "Daddy, You know I'm grateful right, bit this matter is exhausting 🥺. Please Your strength is greatly needed here." I mean having ro nurture two under twos and also work (as in another job... cus motherhood +/_wifehood is a full time job) is tough... in fact, big ups to you woman/sisters who are DOING THEIR BEST, with or without help. And yeah! Grace to supporti e husbands from far or near🙌🏽. *Drops🖊*

[@4everoptie417]

Thank you for sharing this vulnerable aspect. Your feelings are valid and I'm sure some of us can relate to this in certain life aspects. it's nice you shed light on toxic positivity too, feels like a norm we've preconsciously adopted. When experiencing a struggle it is important to identify the positive and negative, embrace them both as in them do you find strength. I think part of it is a lot of us have been conditioned to believe anything "negative" including negative emotions or feelings are bad. Not knowing in retrospect, they exist to teach us how to process them. Due to inability to process them, it becomes overwhelming, we begin to suppress them by adopting toxic positivity. I really appreciate this video and can't imagine the tears that may have flowed even in the process of editing. It takes a "struggling" warrior, to share this side of life, that is our reality sometimes. Thanks once again, may God grant you even more grace and enable you tap into your inner strength. You're loved!

[@phoebe_toria4337]

Well done Gloria! You are doing really well and you make us happy. I resonate with these lines of thought. I pray that you find all the strength you need on the days you feel so week. ❤

[@MercyEA]

Gloria, thank you for being your authentic self always !

[@aimaohi2667]

I love this video! It’s so aesthetically pleasing and so encouraging! Not just to new mums but anyone going through anything tough. Thank you ❤

[@agapeugochi1249]

Watching this makes me feel good, and also brings tears and pain, because the gaslighting for me was horrible and it was done by people close to me. It made me feel like i was the only one feeling this way and something was wrong with me. We will get through this❤❤. Thank you for sharing

[@aineeve2722]

As a Mom of 2 under 2 I can relate, totally! I have never been so confused in my life like right now. Thanks for sharing these vulnerable moments, this will help Moms out there. Blessings !

[@music4ursenses185]

Thanks for sharing this really personal and vulnerable part of your journey. I wish more women would also speak up on these struggles to help the younger generation prepare mentally for motherhood and all it’s challenges rather than romanticize it only. I’m here rooting for you sis. Take it one day at a time. Sending you hugs.🥰🥰

[@AkinloluDamilola-rp7so]

Thanks for being this vulnerable. The lord will strengthen you. Many hugs 🤗

[@kemiesther2971]

I'm not a mother but I can definitely empathise and relate with those feelings and experiencing toxic positivity from others when you're trying to seek comfort. Thank you for being vulnerable with us Gloria ❤

[@thefavourama3351]

Phew. I’m not a mom. But I’ve struggled this week. I’ve been very exhausted this past month. Those scriptures helped. Thank you❤️. And Gloria, I’m rooting for you❤️❤️❤️. You’re doing great so far, it might not seem like it but you are. And you are strengthened in the name of Jesus. Love you loads.

[@ogochukwuokereke4569]

I can relate 💯...As a mum too of 3. Its very much okay to say it as it is HARD. However, this toxic positivity has made it so difficult for people to know how hard it is through our lenses as mothers (especially of babies and toddlers). God is truly all we've got, to see how vulnerable we are and to understand us, just how we want to be understood. Thankyou for this, it just bares it all as it is and even more. May God continue to strengthen you; this too shall pass because He will teach you how to get a hang of it as each day progresses. YOU ARE DOING JUST FABULOUS MAMA❤

[@igrowingrace5548]

This too will pass Sweetie! It’s very hard in the first six weeks - don’t mind any one who says otherwise. You will get through it. I was like you ignore the language that doesn’t relate ! Sending 🎉

[@kuohmarcelline]

Beautifully expressed. Thanks for sharing your experience of motherhood without painting it as solely rosy and sunny.

[@ashleyroberts6249]

I feel this all too hard, I’m 6wks postpartum and I “struggled” but thank you for this !❤

[@faizajafar5075]

I completely understand. I have a one year old and motherhood has to be the hardest yet most gratifying yet most hollowing thing I've experienced. It's not given enough credit. Now I have to go back to work and I'm so scared and guilty and nervous and feel like I've already failed as a mum.

[@lorrainelou4449]

You have not failed mama. The fact that u are even in this kind of a post, is testament of ur greatness as a mum. One day at a time ❤

[@faizajafar5075]

@@lorrainelou4449 thank you so much. Really uplifted my spirits.

[@OmolaiyeUloma]

I love this video. It resonates with me so well. I have three kids, and the question i get most of the time is, "How do you cope?" This is because I don't have a nanny and have never had one. My solace is in God, and I love the fact that you rely on God's word. There's nowhere written in scripture that promises us a life of ease. ❤❤❤

[@Gloriously5508]

Thank you

[@temidelekareem9378]

God will see you through, Gloria. Keep trying, you’ve got this. This film was very well done btw. Gold standard! You’re so good at everything you do, especially motherhood!❤❤

[@PRISCYU]

I am struggling...just lost my mum. These scriptures helped

[@_glorious.blessing]

You are strengthened Gloria, this video blessed me, would be praying for you and I am very proud of how you carry motherhood, your authenticity, sincerity and intentionality! The glory ahead is sure greater!!! Hold on tightly!! Proud mum, I love youuuu🥹❤️

[@Omalichasa1]

You will get through this, God's got your back, love and light ❤️❤️❤️

[@MaroTheLordsBeloved]

Watched this video and saw STRENGTH - the type that only comes from God! I totally get you! Thanks for this… You’re loved and You’re held by the lover of your soul and the perfecter of your faith! And gosh! are your babies gorgeous! 😍 And you’re doing amazing…hang in there!!!

[@shadowlita]

Oooo I love that you took the time to edit and post this! Man, it was so moving, real and raw yet done so well cinematographically. So well done! Its been 10 yrs since I've had my first and only child but those rough moments came flooding back- even as you winced in pain during that breastfeeding scene- I know and remember exactly those postpartum cramps it brought on! I don't understand how we are biblically considered the 'weaker vessel' because all that we bear physically, emotionally and just overall is SO MUCH. I wish instead of tearing each other down that woman were better advocates for each other because no one else can understand us but us!

[@lelon5782]

I have no words, this video is what I needed to see today. As a Mom and a Christian. A good reminder for sure. I have a 5 year old, 1 year old and newborn, sleeping 2hour stretches. I can totally relate, it is hard. Thank you for sharing this with us❤️🙏🏾

[@Tomifaith]

God has got you Gloria ❤ We love you!!

[@deboraholanema]

Sending you hugs Gloria🤗🤗🤗 Strength is made available for you IJN

[@rubydanielledan-abia1651]

She’s so raw ❤I love this

[@_mzloburke]

I relate soo much with you. I cried alot during the first 4 months. The lack of sleep, my breastmilk reduction to not coming at all, the baby needing me close, forgetting to eat or bath, forgetting what day, or time it was, and then the slow and painful healing of my CS as a first time mum, and finally depression. I literally disconnected from alot of people because I didn't have the energy. A year later, my sleep is getting better and I won't trade anything for my daughter. But at the end of the day, being a mum is a struggle. But we remain strong and push through, because our tiny bears need us. The criticism from people when you talk about the struggle doesn't help.

[@koy3y3y_]

Sending lots of love and hugs, I'm 26 years old currently pregnant with my second child due in April. I have a 2 year old daughter I live away from my family and my husband is a way a lot for work (military). When I tell u I'm struggling...sometimes I lock myself in the bathroom and cry. I understand sis, keep holding on, our children will grow and we can be booujiee 24/7... Much love from UK 🇬🇧

[@rachelssoliloquy2215]

Motherhood is a beautiful challenge. Thank you for sharing Maraji x

[@lifewithnikmuna]

motherhood is hard,2 under 2 momma here and feel youuuuuuu. i struggled till i hired a nanny. i couldnt do it alone

[@Lammyuk7853]

This is one of the most relatable content I have seen in a while! Thank you for your vulnerability ❤. It’s not easy to put ones’ self out like this.

[@ef9374]

You are so right, Maraji. It’s the sleep deprivation and your hormones turning back over that is causing you to feel like you are overwhelmed beyond measure. This is because your body IS overwhelmed. This is normal. Try as much as you can to take time for yourself. Try to take a bath and have someone to even wash and brush your hair for you to help you relax. Put on your favorite dress for no reason even if you are going to get milk on it. Take a walk sometimes. Try to find family/friends/elderly neighbors/church sisters to help hold the baby and keep you company some time during the day. Make sure to keep up with your vitamins and meals even if you have to schedule a reminder/alarm on your phone to remind you. Anemia is common after giving birth and can make you feel extremely tired like you cannot even budge to get up out of bed and have to keep sitting to rest throughout the day. So, try to keep up with your post-partum visits and have them do bloodwork to check your nutrient levels. Caring for a new born is taxing. It is OK to cry. You are doing a great job. You are not weird or abnormal. You are a woman, wife and mother. That is a lot on your plate. However, remember that you are also the daughter of the Most High God who promised that what he has given you will never be more than what you can bear. You got this Maraji, even if you feel weak sometimes, you still got this. Love you sis ❤.

[@askdrodiri]

My words exactly, dear Gloria. Tight warm hugs from me to you ❤

[@uvaworld8241]

Thanks for your kind words, so many women need these words

[@user-mp9ov8tb5n]

Thank you Jesus❤. Thank you fro Gloria's life and how much you're helping her. You'll give her grace and strength to forge on. Thank you Jesus❤

[@samileeable]

Multiple things can be true at the same time. You can be immensely grateful to be a mother and acknowledge that it’s a struggle. You are doing b great Maraji, i pray that each day is easier and you have help so you can rest. Sending hugs!

[@olayeereku4800]

Sending big hugs Gloria. Thank you for putting this out