Life in a Tiny House called Fy Nyth - How Does a Tiny House Affect Relationships?

[@sherrillsmith8380]

Thank you!! Ariel, this has been one of the kindest, most accepting, and logical statements on individual values and choices that I have heard in decades (being in my seventh) and I deeply appreciate it. I am also an introvert and need quiet time to recharge from very enjoyable times of sharing visits with others whom I love very much. My personality is very similar, yet different to yours. It is a great freedom to be able to make the choice to live in the place, way, and manner that works for each of us as individuals. Unfortunately, this is not the possibility for most people in the world, which demonstrates how precious this gift to those of us who can do it. BTW, my favorite car of all time is a 2003 Honda Element that I cannot imaging ever replacing, so I definitely understand your ties to your trusty van. Cheers!

[@jamesparlane9289]

Two tiny house people could get their houses together side by side and then hold hands through the windows.

[@gg-sb8mn]

James Parlane Cute! 💖

[@deborahmcginnis8307]

Not a bad idea. I've actually heard of a married couple living in separate houses across the street from one another. They had a wonderful, strong and loving marriage I heard. They were just two very different people. I can just hear a lot of women saying to themselves...YES! LET HIM LIVE LIKE A CAVEMAN IN HIS OWN HOUSE!

[@cheryl5601]

👍🤗

[@ivanobar1]

Or in inclement weather a corridor of a couple of feet to hold hands or rub feet. Can even eat meals together from the comfort of your respective homes…can you pass the whatever, please. The possibilities make the mind gently reel.

[@susiemac4418]

You’re such a nice lady… I don’t know how anybody could watch this video and not like you more than they already do

[@shawncurrey3167]

Couldnt agree more Susie!

[@FyNyth]

Aww, thanks guys!

[@night-heron954]

I think people see how amazing you are and what a great girlfriend, wife, mother you would be. And its not our business.

[@Dinoson1]

Your candor and honesty are perhaps two of your best character traits. Thanks for your willingness to share in front of a camera.

[@donaldteuber8588]

As in older guy...66... I learned long ago ... if someone is overly concerned (obsessed) with their stuff , that stuff is their priority not the people in their life... not always, but usually. They equate quantity with quality. It is possible to live well without a lot of mostly unnecessary junk. The wisdom of simplicity and The luxury of efficiency.

[@nathanpalepale8604]

Donald Teuber luxury of efficiency can you please explain

[@sh4610]

True

[@greywolfwalking6359]

Donald Teuber indeed! The " gatherers", as I call ' em, want prestige points n not that special one person to be with, yup ! Stick with your tiny house n if they get it.. Then party on Garth! Lol! Sorry lil 80's flash back.. ATB from sunny Wintergarden,Florida👍🌴😎🌴👍!

[@ekaos5099]

You are one of the very few people in the world who are truly blessed. I paraphrase, 'I may be alone but, I am not lonely'. We that feel that in our bones are all kindred spirits.

[@versed57]

It's the quality of the relationship no matter what environment you live in.

[@genkatqltr8517]

Like my aunt said one time, "I'm glad to see company come and I'm glad to see them go." I've always understood that. Sooner or later you want to get back to your own routine and the privacy of your own thoughts.

[@QCDoggies]

Your honest, thoughtful, and respectful comments were revolutionary! Thank you, late to the game

[@thomaswattley6461]

You talked for allmost 15 minutes and I listened. You are wise and happy. I am an interior designer and once worked on a 30 million dollar ocean front mansion. The wife did not want to move into it. She liked her nice townhouse down the street and dreaded the whole thing. - Your talk was spot on. T.W.

[@cherylotinyhousecellist]

Ariel, I think this is one of the most honest videos ever, I really appreciate your openness. Thank you for sharing your inner as well as your outer self!

[@deborahmcginnis8307]

You are so right.

[@sherryellesson9665]

Ariel, You did a good job of emphasizing that it's not the dwelling, it's a person's values that enables the formation and maintenance of relationships. If it were the house, the celebrities who live in 15,000 square foot places would be deliriously happy (yeah, we see that in the news all the time, right?) and indigenous peoples everywhere, whose shelters are modest by modern standards, would have long ago died out. Good job, as always!

[@FyNyth]

Thanks! Yeah, that's a good point about celebrities and happiness.

[@naps3386]

I think it was Frontier House tv program on PBS a number of years ago where one of the families competing was from California and happened to be having a HUGE, GORGEOUS mansion overlooking the Pacific Ocean being built while they were in the frontier filming the competition. After spending the summer living the frontier life, chopping wood, milking cows, and living in a very small wood shack, the mom and the teenage girls reflected that they had much closer relationships with each other, and it all changed once the frontier life ended and they moved into their McMansion on the ocean. They said the place was so big they didn't see some members of their family for days. That has stayed with me for years.

[@dougmc666]

A tiny house is a pretty high level of independence, security and control of the space. Maybe the tiny house reflects a person who makes those a priority, could you be dependent, share everything and risk yourself. An intimate relationship is a huge gamble and a tiny house is a safe bet. I love your videos!

[@mtpocketswoodenickle2637]

Home life matters not where it's spent, but what's valuable two you.

[@laurelsmith2922]

I like everything about your tiny house I like how survive I love the peace and quiet too and close to nature.

[@simonrichards7663]

Thank you for a honest and private talk of some would say personal things, I have been in relationships were I have been more lonely than being alone and still get some people saying you have to have a girl friend they find it hard to think you can be happy on your own. I’ve have had a couple of large houses and and never been truly happy now got a small coach house with a large garage workshop underneath and love it. Some people are so materialistic and have to have the new up to date gadgets and cars me I’m happy with my 45 year old Land Rover and 18 year old motorcycle. I have a small group of friends we have all been there for each other through thick and thin for over 30 years can be weeks before we contact each other (the odd time a year or more) but it never changes with us all and we’re there for each other all it takes is a phone call, and that’s what you call good friends. Carry on with your wonderful life and enjoy every day of it Ariel 😁

[@FyNyth]

Truly good friends are a pretty amazing gift in life!

[@shannonrollins5503]

Great video you no I wouldn't trade my 225 square ft tiny house for anything bigger. It's just the love for tiny housing

[@willymags123]

I live in a bus I love it. sometimes we get hurricanes and have to evacuate and in an emergency I just turn the key and go along with all my belongings. great video❤

[@FyNyth]

That would be a pretty cool advantage in a hurricane prone area!

[@TheSkuttt]

You seem like such a genuinely nice person. Your friends and family are lucky to have you in their lives!

[@dennislatyshev5855]

I like that your video's teach about more than just tiny houses! The first video I watched because you had a delightful tiny house, and now I'm still watching because you're a delightful person, regardless of if your videos are about tiny houses or not. I can relate to your description of your car. I drive an 22 year old Suzuki. It's a faded beige color, it's got more than 200K miles and every panel and corner of the car is dinged. People ask me why it's so ugly, but I don't think it's ugly, I see its underlying form, not it's exterior appearance. It can take me camping, and go over mud and rocks, or deep snow, it's got a small engine so it's slow but really efficient on gas, I know how to work on it and repair it, so It grants me the kind of self sufficiency that I would not have even with a brand new car. People don't see that when they look at it but at the end of the day it is what is valuable to me, and if they don't get it then I have no reason to take their criticism personally.

[@FyNyth]

Well... I guess that might be because I don't think the "tiny house" itself is the point of having a tiny house. :) It's everything else in life that it can help make possible. And maybe this perspective can help balance out the version of tiny house life often portrayed on TV.

[@Cindy-bee]

Thank you Ariel for this discussion. I agree that we all need to figure out our priorities and they sure change as we get older. I am just retired and am downsizing. Would love to live in a tiny house but land laws play a part in my hesitation. I will tell you I have never been more lonely than when I was married. I have been on my own for more than 20 years and prefer it that way. Have lots of friends and I always say all a girl needs is a faithful companion dog by her side and life is good.

[@yurinator7274]

Extremely well said!! Everyone experiences lonelyness at some point in their life.

[@edmondsonoffgridhomestead8932]

Wow Ariel. U r deep! So awesome and focused. Ur a wonderful person for sharing and reaching out to ppl. The world needs more of u.

[@mcfloater1171]

You go girl! It all comes down to values and the integrity that values give us in our lives .

[@3.6pentastardude81]

You are comfortable being alone. I'm like u. You are normal. Celebrate your life. You are happy and blest. I think u need a hug.

[@In_time]

This episode was a bit of a “heart poke” 👉🏻❤️😌 in some places (at least for me) ...I always wondered about your background and if you might share but tried to remember my manners and thought it best not to ask. Thank you for sharing a bit of the personal with the practical. ♥️💪🏻Your vids are always a treat to watch!☺️

[@roaringmgtow9036]

Hi! I know I'm arriving late to this one, but I just wanted to make a couple of comments. Living in a 21' RV trailer full time (I'm building my own 'sort of tiny house' (500 sqft) this summer so this helps save money for that. But in the course of living like this, I have discovered that in talking with people, a lot of the ladies I meet think it's very cool, and instantly link it too the tiny house movement. It may be because the circles I move in are younger folks in the mid 20's to upper 30's. It doesn't seem to be posing an issue in relationships. It encourages me to see the number of ladies that are responding here, as well. I think you've hit the nail on the head. It seems to be an outward expression of personal values, for most folks. The folks with that get the new truck or caddy every 2 or 3 years have different values and priorities than you do (or I do - my truck is 18 years old and pushing 210,000 miles!). I do need a bit more than the 180 sq ft I have right now, but I think the place I am going to build will be enough... and if not, I have some acreage to wander about in!.

[@philbates7975]

I do not think I could like and respect you any more than I do, Ariel. Thank you for all your words, thoughts, advice, lessons 😄❤️☯️🙏

[@Kat-iy8ng]

Ariel your an awesome person. Your communication skills on this topic was perfect. You don't get in a hurry which for me creates a relaxing feel while watching. Enjoy .

[@cliffp.8396]

Spoken like a natural introvert, coming from a natural introvert. I also need substance over volume, quality over quantity and authentic relationships over casual. Lonely is an unfortunate side effect (so I tell me). You have found an enviable solution to meet your needs, nature-wildlife, hiking, gardening, minimalism, your puppy, photography and thank goodness for youtube that gives you a creative outlet to share your many skills with us. Thanks for sharing darlin.

[@jennhill8708]

I've been thinking about a tiny house or small house if I should ever be widowed. Not a fun subject. We have 3 rowdy dogs, but, I think it could work. I so enjoy yr perspective & kind heartedness. Wishing you all the best.

[@FrugalFarmerChannel]

I love my alone time. Thanks for sharing!

[@kathleenzimmerman8227]

I couldn't even agree more!! You are very good at articulating and getting the point across. I am much the same way, in that sensory overload can throw me into a tailspin. I need peace & quiet and to be left alone to do whatever it is I feel like doing. You are a brave & confident young woman. WELL DONE, Ariel!!! :-D

[@stnegritude]

Wonderfully stated. Ditto, ditto, ditto. I too have lived alone in the comfort of the woods, and (agreed, not that it's anyone's business) continue to prefer to do so. Particularly in these days of teeming erosions of peace, you're an inspiration of personal serenity. Keep keeping on!

[@fireweedak]

Thank you Ariel for sharing!

[@JohnDoe-ur8vt]

Wow, you are so mature. Your parents must be awesome. They allowed you to find the "blessing" of life. Einstein said "be careful in love" Ariel, I hope you find someone that appreciates your dear heart. Guard your heart.

[@cherylotinyhousecellist]

A guarded heart is a closed heart.

[@kmwrites7456]

I have similar thoughts/feelings about entertaining too, Ariel. Love my friends but also love my time sitting with my dog and reading.

[@tjnlsn255]

Arial, not sure of the spelling but thank you for this video! It is one of your best personal videos. I think it is so true that two people that want to live together need common goals and values. Keep up the great work and play. Todd

[@Sean-ll5cm]

I'm extrovert/introvert depending on my mood. I can go for weeks without doing anything social, while other times I have a flurry of socializing where I actually feel like seeing other humans. When it comes to actually living, however, I need my own space, even if in a relationship, therefore I'd want a tiny home with two seperate areas... I used to think it was sad when I spent my whole day alone, but these days I love periods of solitude. There's something very tranquil about it.

[@Omni11B]

You are truly an inspiration and an incredible human being. I wish there were more men and women who thought like you. So glad to have found your channel.

[@michaelpalosaari9460]

Wow. What a breath of fresh air Ariel! And as others have replied to your video, I am right with ya all. Value systems always create our choices and the folks that we all choose to spend our time with. Interesting thing is that as I've gotten older (52), I've become more and more of an introvert as in my younger years, I was all about being out and about in all the action. Over the last 8 years, I have moved further and further away from city life and I'm beyond grateful to have found a lovely partner who loves this quieter pace and where we do spend time alone, we're never lonely. (3 dogs and 4 horses might play a role here ;-) ) I heard today actually watching another KZbin channel a wise statement that you echo..." there aren't lonely places, just lonely people" which is neither good or bad, I just happen to agree with it. I'm so happy to have found you. My partner Deb and I are inspired by you and your journey.

[@FyNyth]

Thanks for your very kind words!

[@catyear75]

Hi Ariel! It's very cool of you to open up like this. I agree, our lifestyle choices are usually indicative of our interests and goals. This is usually a way of good way of assessing compatibility. For what it's worth, I think you're wonderful!

[@kerryeaston5754]

We have a very large house about two hours away. My son and his family live there now. We live on our property in a Large RV that is not really large. We have two big dogs and one small one. My wife has MS and I had my foot cut off in a work related accident. The stairs in the large house killed both of us. It is so much nicer where things are close for us to live in. We kept our house in case we need to be closer to medical care in the future. It is 12 miles to a very small town and 50 miles to a small town. We are very happy living away from things. We have our kids and there families visit often and it is really crowded when they are here. They all have a tiny house or RV of there own so there is plenty of sleeping room. I told all my kids that they need to figure out there core values before they get married so they know what is important in there lives and what they can negotiate with out making them unhappy.

[@ronyfarquerabao3344]

Kerry Easton very much agree on that sir

[@jeanetteschulthe1andOnly]

very good advice

[@bobhale8325]

It is interesting to hear more of your life and perspective on life. It is good to get to know you better through this hard glass screen. I agree, it is not the house, it is comparability, as you said. My wife and I have been married 51 years (yes, we still like each other and love one another) and we have owned a home, lived on a 12x12 office in a warehouse, lived in a motorhome and a studio apartment. Common values and interests are what make any relationship work. You nailed this one for sure.

[@FyNyth]

Congrats on the work and commitment that it takes to maintain a good relationship like that for many years!

[@pacco9532]

I think it’s a great asset! Everyone should be judged on their attitude to life not materialistic things, and yours is amazing!

[@addienarms]

I have so much love and appreciation for your perspective and lifestyle choices. I'm building a tiny house with my Dad (slowly but surely: we're on year #4!), and your videos are helping me get through my current sense of stagnancy and dissatisfaction with my current situation. Thank you so much, and please continue sharing your rare and wonderful character with others. :)

[@FyNyth]

You're welcome! I'm glad it's encouraging. Best wishes as you work on your own build!

[@addienarms]

Thank you!

[@woodyrun1]

Loved the video Ariel. Years and years ago I live in a small place. I had everything I needed close at hand. Which was nice and then again at times it was to small. Like you I had to dogs who kept me company. Many friends came and went. I was still connected to the services from town. You have done well with what you have accomplished. I applaud you Arial. Your are a remarkable individual. Hugs to You. Stay safe and warm. Bear take care of your best friend.. :)

[@Thg1034]

Beautiful Ariel, Awesome as always, I agree it's not the house its the mentality,

[@dfhepner]

Ariel, very thoughtfully done on all aspects of relationships. The home like a church is not the building but a feeling where one is safe and/or happy. It would be nice to see a video on your van. Before my current van that I have slept in for 10 months last year while building my cabin, I had a Vanagon diesel that had about 300,000 miles. The only reason to get the new van was that I was not able to get parts for the vanagon. What people don't realize with a $300,000 car is that it can be totaled by a $50 car.

[@gg-sb8mn]

dfhepner there is a great fairly recent video tour of Ariels' van made by another couple. .... I think it's under "Exploring Alternatives ", Ariel will correct me if I'm wrong, and I think Ariel calls it her" tiny, tiny house", it's very well done and as always Ariel takes us for a great tour , the van configuration is well thought out especially for the climate she inhabits.

[@FyNyth]

Thanks! Gretchen is right, though I hope to do a more detailed tour of my own, Tiny House Expeditions did film a pretty good video of my van when they were visiting with their tiny house last year. kzbin.info/www/bejne/gpaZY4qheNpoeK8

[@lightningdriver81]

Late to this presentation. I agree with you totally. And, too, as Shakespeare often observed, friends are the thieves of time, so there is that as well.

[@locksbog4270]

I agree with you that all types of people can be friends or at least friendly to one another, but in the end I think the old saying birds of a feather flock together stands true. 👍👍👍😃

[@voyager4328]

You are indeed a special person, great video and topic.

[@whitegeranium6796]

Excellent. Thank you, it is good to hear from someone who has similar views to myself. I love my alone time.

[@margaretstewart3255]

That was such a great personal statement from you and more special to me because I have similar preferences, perspectives and and points of view: values I live by, no need for hubbub and excitement. Your gift of being able to speak with ease and fluidity, always careful to own your POV without becoming defensive is just a beautiful and refreshing experience. And, I will henceforth think of this 15 minutes share as a "Fy Nyth -Talk" I feel more relaxed and at ease in my small apartment and part of a communal - shared values - across many miles from reading all the responses that preceded mine.

[@43lk]

Awesome video, thanks a lot. Exactly know what you mean, got same attitude; love people, meetings with friends, travels together, but there is nothing better for me that being alone for most of the time and study Universe that we live in

[@RebelRebelRose]

I feel the same way when I have to interact with people (especially now with all the craziness in the world). I had to go to a good friends baby shower and was absolutely dreading it. But once I got there i was happy and enjoyed my time. It's just the lead up to having company or visiting someone

[@jenniferadderley8219]

Hi Ariel.. I think you just handled that tricky question well 👍 To me, it really does boil down to people who have similar interests n goals n the home, be it tiny or big isn't the issue! My husband n I before married, 32 years ago, lived in a 25ft caravan with a livable annexe for 3 1/2 years to save money for a small home n almost paid cash for it... it was a goal we both shared strongly n we went without plenty of different things in order to save for a small home... Years have gone by now n we have our second home n lived here many many years n now want to downsize as we are getting older... priorities do change... for me, its not your material wealth that actually makes the person be rich or poor, as everyone has their personal journey n that is to me the interesting part! Not their possessions! I think too your personal relationships is really your own business n even if people are curious of your situation, you shouldnt have to explain, but you did it well Ariel!! You're such a lovely young lady! Looking forward to your next video.. hi Grizzly 🐕🌹🌏xx

[@FyNyth]

Congrats on the work and dedication required to maintain a good relationship through that many years!

[@mitzimantooth3472]

Very wise rhoughts, Ariel!

[@1stanleygirl]

That explanation was great - thanks Ariel!

[@katokhaelan4881]

Good lord Ariel. So much TRUTH in this video. Thank you.

[@maryminnesota7845]

Thank you for another great video. I enjoyed hearing your thoughts and perspectives. I admire your choices and lifestyle. Bravo for your Independence and heart. I think those trumpeter swans were giving you the okay for a life lived with integrity, humor and love.

[@seanruiz6499]

Thanks for your speech on relationships. I love your lifestyle and your very pretty.

[@kenkaye7314]

Agree, I like the concept of a small house, but travel to much, cool being a free soul, Ty for sharing, sending love and light to nasmaste,

[@mikewoods897]

Great perspective on goals, interests and relationships. I am very happy that you have found what fulfills your life and have not felt like you have to fit into societies' "box". It is inspirational to see someone that is being themselves...I see your happiness.

[@davidbergquist4397]

Yes i think as people we jump before we open the package N sometimes the dragon jumps out then what we feel trapped So i really like your videos Have a great day

[@greywolfwalking6359]

Be you and enjoy! If someone is to be with you, they will .. Tiny house or yert or tent!? If they want a relationship with you.. Then they will accomodate all of your choices by like actions and you will be as one , no matter the " place of residence". Thanks for sharing! ATB👍😎👍!

[@rcchar]

Ariel: I agree with you. If your interest are so right to left its hard to have an honest relationship. Know I'm not saying it can't work but it make it easier to get along. If someone can't under stand why you live in a tiny house they probably want to much. I for one always won't big house and things. Know that I'm older and I think back of all the wasted money spent on things. They say if you could go back and do it all over again what would you change? How would you set your goals to get were you want to be today. Thanks for sharing your life.

[@AdelleRamcharan]

Love your attitude AND your channel! :)

[@mags102755]

Well said and thought out, accompanied by trumpeter swans. :-)

[@kdwashington8584]

I feel the same about visiting people. I get it.

[@jadestar1580]

Thank you for being so open. I admire that. Thanks for the video.

[@danielafurlan322]

Agree, my truck is 20 years old take me from A to B is most important. ....You are great...Thanks

[@kobrapelle]

I am also introvert and i am very comfortable in small aparments/houses (live since many yers in a tiny house). I could of course afford a bigger space but I am not comfortable in big spaces. I am , like you not feeling lonly, I call my status solo, not single, single implements that you are missing something, in my head. I need the solo time to be happy and healthy. I love to meet new people and I have no problems getting friends. Its just that I like to be solo a lot of time.

[@shopdave7489]

Excellent video! Probably the best one you have ever made. It's good to hear that you have identified your goals,standards and values and are comfortable with them. A definite sign of maturity that is refreshing to see. And I admire your ability to verbalize them.

[@FyNyth]

Thank you for your kind words!

[@richardgrainger1251]

I think anyone could use this advise no matter where they live, its down to earth and makes so much sense even for a BMW owner LOL

[@nicolewilson6548]

Thank you for your openness and honesty 8:20 That was an intrusive question to ask someone but you handled it wonderfully. Long time subscriber, keep it up!!!

[@huntshackwildernessexperie6820]

Hi Ariel I agree that a home is a place to live that supplies you with shelter, warmth etc. So that leaves the word stuff. It seems that many people are unable to define needs from wants. Everyone should have nice things that make them happy , just find a limit. Certainly children would have an impact on just how small a space would work. Your place is great and allows you to live your life by your own standards rather than be controlled by bills . I enjoy all your videos and look forward to many more.

[@mogulsmoke2428]

I too am in my 7th decade and looking forward to more. Again, God gave you much wisdom and I pretty much agree with all you said, based on my past errors in judgment. What you also have to beware of are those out to get your tiny home, as it is thought to be easier than working for one. Please believe me, they are out there.

[@littlewhitedory1]

To each their own! Seems like a great way to have and accomplish the things that are important to you. Although many miles away I support your lifestyle choice and secretly envy your life in the tiny house. My house isn't a tiny house but at 1000 sq/ft isn't huge either. Several Years ago I built a 25x28 detached garage at my home and fondly refer to it as my Garagemahal, I lived in it for a year while renovating my house and found that I was very content in the 600 sq/ft cottage in my backyard. I often think I would love to live full time in it and let the house generate a cash flow for me. Cool beans!

[@FyNyth]

While I don't think a tiny house is the perfect thing for everyone, I do hope everyone does what you have and thinks about what is a right sized house for their own needs and priorities!

[@bradpayn8058]

Ariel, Thanks for the well thought out points of your topic. I agree with everything you have to say about relationships but, as from my own perspective and experiences through several of them over several decades, in large and small houses, and grown children (you remind me so much of my daughter, in appearance, age, hair style, and personality) I could add a few of my personal ideas for you to consider. To me, no matter how close the relationship, whether it be through a drive, a garage or shop, or just another room, or a hike, I need my alone time. It absolutely does not mean that I don't love my loved ones, or don't enjoy the time that I spend with them, I just think maybe somehow I enjoy my time with them more because of the 'me' time, if that makes sense. Especially in the winter in a tiny house that was basically one room, I think that I would get claustrophobic, not from the closeness of the walls, but by the lack of 'me' space if I had a guest for too long or someone else living in it with me. I at least think I'd need separate rooms to occasionally refind or recharge myself from time to time, not most of the time, or half of the time, just sometimes. Sitting on a little toilet in basically a closet wouldn't be enough. I didn't know about, or at least recognize this about myself for many years, until I began living in a life where 'me' time almost went away, and it was so refreshing to find a little from time to time. I don't think this is just me, I may be wrong, but I believe we all need it, to varying degrees of course. I won't be building my upcoming build as a tiny, largely for this reason, it will still be really small, about the size of a two car garage, and built to ground, but it will still be big enough to have separate rooms and private spaces, where I can be with me and someone else can be with themselves at times. Even though I live alone now, and like it fine, I also have prospects and may not always live alone. I don't know anything for sure, but I think, or can imagine, a lack of space ( not square feet) making a relationship harder. Maybe sometimes two 20 square foot rooms might be bigger than one 100 foot one. Does that make sense? Also, I'm about 20 minutes from a town about the size of Jackson and know many people there very well. I'm a member of a few clubs there and get my fill of the local gossip once or twice a week, and also enjoy driving out of town to my 'me' spot about as much as I enjoy driving into my social areas. Company shows up often out here too. I also teach a few short extra curricular classes at a community college in town too on such things as hunter safety, historical interpretation (I was a blue wool clad cavalry soldier/mountain man/49er prospector for years, but that's another story), and a few other topics. I also have been in the past a Boy Scout leader and an assistant rodeo team coach. So I see plenty of people AND have my 'me' time as well. I'm sure you didn't do it on purpose, or probably didn't even realize that you did it, but I saw you light up twice when those geese flew over. It was so obvious and adorable and reminded me of my daughter even more. I edited this post and added this last paragraph to add, after my original post, I had to go to town, and a few minutes after you made me smile, I was outside warming up my old pickup and scraping the windshield, and trumpeter swans flew over and it made me smile again, for swans, for memories, and for the look that I had just seen on your face just a few minutes before. kzbin.info/www/bejne/a4bXZXprrbqlsJo

[@FyNyth]

While I don't think a tiny house is the perfect thing for everyone, I do hope everyone does what you have and thinks about what is a right sized house for their own needs and priorities!

[@frugalprepper]

Good Video. I have often wondered about these type of things. I am blessed that my wife and it have very similar values and goals in life.

[@FyNyth]

I'm happy for you guys!

[@timperley69]

I live in a small apartment and i am single and i am fine with it, i could totally live in a tiny house like yours with someone else no problem but i can see how it would be an issue with other people, it's your life so you have to live it the way that makes you happy.

[@STEVENRAY18]

If a person wants you or doesn't want you or likes you or just likes you or wants to be with you or does not want to be with you simply because of where you live then that relationship will never work no matter how hard you try

[@jimsteele7108]

You are super practical, that's what I like about you.

[@rowenaphilbeck1919]

Awesome...I am like you. I love my friends but need my space as well. I really clutter and junk everywhere as well. Thanks and I'm sure you have helped alot of people.

[@carolynthomas5586]

You are very wise, Ariel. Thanks for sharing.

[@mactagg8814]

3 issues that I see: 1. two people who luv to cook couldnt really share the moment in such a tiny kitchen. 2. When there is a need for each person to have "me" time, not really possible in a tiny home. 3. When he finds himself in the 'dog house' theres no other room to go to until the dust settles. Although, #1 can be reolved by taking turns cooking. #3 can be resolved by having a small workshop, with heat. The workshop can be utilized also for resolving #2. Hmm, seems there would be no issues then - with 2 people who are comatible. Compatibility. Ya dont Really know someone until you have lived with them. In such close quarters that would be an ultimate test i think. Stubborness is ok as long as there is mutual understanding and the occassional compromise. Lol i too have that quality and to this day it frustrates my parents. They ask, "why do you have to be so stubborn?!" My reply, "remember, i came from You." 😁 In all relationships it comes down to one thing, both being who you are and respecting the other's 'person' - tiny house or not. Um, maybe thats 2 things lol. Good vid. Thanks Ariel for sharing your thoughts on the topic. 👍

[@rimonagale1625]

Previously you had touched on the gardening subject, etc; so what you said wasn't surprising to me. However, many more details here. Your plans make sense & are very practical. And you enjoy being where you are (I can see it), so continue to prosper. 💜

[@bitethebullet8213]

love your authenticity!

[@drklynoon]

I absolutely understand the desire to be by yourself. I too am similarly inclined. Love to be with people in a small group but I could be just as happy by myself and there is a small amount of anxiety involved in first engaging with that small group.

[@twbw1171]

I would love to live in Wyoming.....such a beautiful state.

[@jamflu]

You know Ariel, I think you are awesome but I would go crazy in a tiny house even though I live in an 800 sq ft house in Minnesota.. You are attractive, smart, resourceful and who ever ends up with you will be one very lucky guy..

[@bumper1730]

Excellent video subject and presentation.

[@SpiritForest]

Very good points!!

[@johnsparkman1126]

Wonderful video Ariel!, 46 years here. I so agree was once married although here in my remote Colorado small cabin (550 sq ft.) I find the term "At one-ment" appreciable, not often ever alone really. I'm both introvert and rather social. If a good values fit happened then nice, love my space so it would certainly be a challenge to add a woman. :-)

[@bbsbacktobasics7695]

I agree totally...thanks for your time & input...and it makes scence that your in your own space for just that, your space :) good video. I pretty much feel the same way. I'm in a small appartment above my Mom's house & I enjoy having it alone at this point in my life..would like to downsize in a tiny house away like you. But at this point my mom needs me & it's more affordable here also.big differance from being alone & being lonely. I too have a big family & many friends. And it's nice to have friends over then is nice to once again have my space :) great video..thanks Ariel ~♡~

[@KMalcolmful]

I admire your independence.

[@Suz_408]

I'm fairly new to your channel and I am very much enjoying your videos. Very candid and honest. Thank you for giving us glimpses of your life in your beautiful tiny house.