Life takes Courage, channel update, sobriety, new van...

Life takes Courage, I'm healing or doing my very best to anyway ~ In this video, a channel update, talking about sobriety, starting a new journal, painting, new van search... I am also sharing starting a new journal and how to set it up. This one is specifically for my writings. I've never talked about my sobriety before on here and in this video I'm sharing my journey living alcohol free. A very interesting process indeed and not always easy for sure! There are also some channel updates in this one as I felt I had some things specific about my upload schedule to talk to you about and then... we are also going van shopping! So, do come keep me company and let's tour some vans! One is a self build and another two are custom factory fitted. I wonder which you like best? Suffice to also say, that boy does life take courage at the moment (!) and I know I'm not the only one going through it here. There are a few other things that I didn't mention in the video as they are too personal but aside from my back and the obvious other stuff, there are also some behind the scenes happenings which are not the easiest either... Navigating my way through though, just doing my best as we all are...
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[@tradingpostfarms]

I'm a person in long term recovery from heroin addiction. At 2 years clean I revisted my love for art and drawing...in time I discovered color. Specifically watercolor. I'm not sure I would have continued to succeed in my recovery without having found paint, watercolor, gouache, acrylic markers, pastels, oil, neocolor 2, watercolor pencils, and so many other magical supplies and surfaces, and the youtube art videos such as your videos that ground me daily. So thank you. You play a role in saving at least one life, but I'm sure many more.

[@karehhartig7287]

YAAAY ! YOU KEEP GOING !!!! 🥉🧭🌔😁🎇

[@debbiedrawsfunny]

Wow, this is amazing and so beautiful, keep going!🤍Art is so healing and I’m so glad you’ve found the magic of expressing yourself. The hardest thing to do is sit and stay in the feelings, but you’re doing it and art is so helpful with expressing what words cannot. Stay well and be proud of all you’ve accomplished 💪🤍

[@Wildflowerafternoons]

Keep going! You can do it! It’s so much better on the other side. ❤

[@amymilliken5689]

So proud of you...keep on painting and keeping your mind and hands busy..i wish you nothing but the best!

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Soo heartwarming and amazing! What a story, thanks so much for sharing here with us!!! Your story will inspire and save a few I'm sure!!! Congratulations indeed!!!!

[@cindyurban150]

Hi Wendy, Thank you for telling us your story. I also enjoyed red wine every day, it helped me sleep ( I worked a night shift at a hospital,very stressful) trying to sleep during the day was so hard. I gave up wine 3 years ago,I developed a stomach ulcer. I can't lie....I still miss it's warm,cozy feeling. I also struggle with anxiety,and depression. Thank you for keeping me company, I appreciate your Art,but it's your lovely personality, and encouragement with life's ups and downs that I love. I hope your feeling better every day ! I wish you and James happiness, and health always. Cindy

[@LSChestersMom]

This is wonderful. I have 24 years in recovery, a day at a time. This resonates so much and so happy for you and your journey :) Art is a great balm :)

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

owowowowow!!! that's amazing! congratulations! what a journey... xx I tried before but fell off during lockdown days... art is a balm you are soo right there xx big loves

[@danab3591]

Congrats! I'm coming up on 22 years myself 😊

[@carmengiles456]

Hi Wendy & all. Lovely to sit and watch your video. You speak my language Wendy 💖. I have been clean and sober since 1992 and writing has played a huge part in my recovery. I write every day and feel odd if for any reason I'm unable to get something on the page. I read 'The Right To Write', by Julia Cameron (The Artist Way) many years ago and still go back to it from time to time. Morning pages have held me through grief, depression & the menopause, as well as all the happy times. Thank you for building this great channel. Your videos are always a tonic.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

honoured to be an alcohol free tonic! and wonderful to hear parts of your story too, thanks so much for sharing xxx

[@carolinemccready9513]

As a recovering alcoholic I understand where you’re coming from. My last drink of alcohol was June 1985. It’s been one heck of a journey since. It wasn’t enough that I stopped drinking, I had to go back to my taking that first drink - my journey back to me, painful and enlightening. I realised, I didn’t know me at all, it was, and still is, a journey of discovery. With getting to know myself I find I am constantly changing, it’s hard to keep up some times. Whilst I have no desire to take alcohol today, one thing I am forever grateful for, I find that I have an addictive nature. Anything that makes me feel good, I am in danger of becoming addicted to. Routines that make me feel good; the box of chocolates I deserve at the end of a busy day, shopping for beautiful things I like to look at - I’m obsessed with beautiful bedding at present. I’m all or nothing. I find an interest and become obsessed about it, I buy ever book on the topic and get bored with it before I get a chance to read any of them. I could go on and on, but I won’t lol 😂 I’ll continue to be a work in progress. Thanks so much for your

[@hartlinerealm2015]

That is so fun. Yeah, sobriety is my super-power! I had three years in 2021, July. I got a huge resentment toward global governments and drank wine for 1.5 years, but I did not like how I felt at all! So now I have 94 days, or 3 months and feel like a million bucks! So good to have a beautiful, creative, adventurous sober sister! YAY!

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

sober sister yay! super power, yay! i love that !! congratulations on 94 days xxx million bucks!!! love it! x

[@jennywhite5701]

Global governments are destroying us. I fully understand

[@KittehNow]

Keep it up sweet peeps. I'm proud of you!!!❤🧡💛

[@vikkigrenier2978]

Wow ..wendy after reading the comments, you really hit a nerve... so many of us have been in the same position ... with enjoying a few glasses of wine for our many reasons..I too have been sober for a few years now, but must be aware of falling back into that pit... its not good to depend on a substance to make you feel a certain way... back to our journals and our arts to satisfy our souls!... bless all... peace!...thank you for sharing!.. 🤎🤍🤎🤍💙

[@1zelcat]

Sobriety is the best possible way to live--I don't have words to express my gratitude for 35 years of being a miracle.

[@graciehart1001]

Just moved into my little van and head of in two weeks around australia working with art in mental health. Love your channel 💗

[@morganniciomhair8284]

Sounds Wonderful!!!Gracie!I'm just starting art therapy the theme is grief and loss after experiencing brain injury.Wish I could do it in a van driving coastal here in Ireland! Wishing you every happiness 💚

[@malachite-moon]

I'm alcohol-free since 2003! To everyone trying to give up, keep going! You can do it! 💚🍄

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Love that! And it rhymmes too!!!!!

[@malachite-moon]

@@theunexpectedgypsy 😹😹never thought of that!

[@darinthesecularspiritualist]

i became alchohol free year and a half ago (im 55) and am very grateful

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Xxxxx yeay!!! I really am too! xxxxx

[@krc5210]

I could so relate to these thoughts and actions. I gave up drinking alcohol 5 years ago. I knew it was a crutch for social situations when I felt anxious and that rang a little bell in my head that I should stop. Now I'm on a medication and cannot drink alcohol anyway so it is not a problem. I am very addicted to sugar. One problem there is that baking for me was always relaxing. I learned to bake with my grandmother on Saturday mornings so that feeling of calm and joy always returned during my bakes....but of course I was getting more sugar too. I have stopped baking as much but sugar remains a problem that I work at every day. TY for sharing your process and thoughts.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

oh well done, 5 years is awesome! xx yes, a crutch... and any alarm bells are worth noting for sure. I feel you with the sugar!! much loves xxx

[@melanieklarofficial]

Baking was a thing for me too.

[@JF-kv1gm]

I've recently gone "cold turkey" for sugar, milk and milk products, meat, some carbs and cutting down fruit. Ugh. It's hopefully going to contribute to reducing inflammation in my body. I admit it feels like punishment at the moment though.

[@ForrestAnna]

It amazes me to see you growing so wonderfully, and all the difficulties we share with you, and we see ways of how you deal with these difficulties, through painting and writing in your journals, helps us all to recognize that we too will get through the challenges we face. I love your van ideas, because I too am going through a transition of health issues , and moving out of a big old house full of furniture and memories, into ... somewhere, some place, maybe my sister's ...but regardless I'm also on my way. We are such light spirits, like the fairies ourselves, coming to visit the people who are facing challenges all over the world, saying it's alright to be who you are and feel the things you do, and we can survive, and heal and love. Thank you two!!

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

awwww I love everything you say in this comment, thank you so much xxx best fortunes with your new lighter ventures!!! xxxx big loves x

[@user-uc3ep6qc5o]

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[@tassie2348]

Wow! Things fall into your pathway just when you need them. 7 days so far!!! 🥂🍷🍸

[@dianepaulin5324]

Alot of people are shifting/struggling/re-emerging. A couple of other you tubers have down shifted on releasing weekly videos also. It's truly understandable that you need time. You are appreciated and I am thankful of any time you feel healed/balanced/rested enough, to film, edit and release a video 💝💝

[@christinesheppard5759]

I can’t wait to hear your ideas for a new van! I imagine you taking off into the woods with your art supplies for days and days and just sitting in the silence painting and writing. Maybe a travelling studio? I hope it’s related to something you do for yourself. Any time you post is good for me, I love watching your progress and your faltering, all are important. Thank you for sharing your ups and downs, we have all been there and people rarely talk so openly about it❤

[@SharonVandegrift]

I love your honesty Wendy! I have been sober since December 3, 1980 one day at a time. I could so relate to the fuzzy edges, but meditation helps me a lot to turn off the stress. To thine own self be true.

[@sally-annllewellynartist9362]

Brilliant video, as always. About the alcohol bit, I'd love for you to do a video on that as I'd like to stop too. Like you, I got into a habit during lockdown, so I'd be interested to hear your take on it all and hopefully encourage me and others. Thanks, Wendy. You're a gift ❤

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Yes, I would love to talk about it all! Lots of dysfuntional drinkers out there and no shame at all with it as it is an addictive substance! I wanted to give up for a while too! I have no judgement at all though on anyone drinking it... it's all a process for sure... x Thanks for your comment too and honesty! xxx big loves

[@eleanorbrown2410]

UnexpecteUnexpect

[@eleanorbrown2410]

Windy thank you for your openness ! The struggle is real for me.I bought that book on kindle! Wow it is so helpful.I cannot tell you you eternally grateful I am!

[@jessicastrideart]

Thankyou for being so open about giving up drinking, it looks like lots of us here relate and it would be lovely if you could do a video on the subject. I hope you feel better soon Wendy!🥰x

[@aquaecoloratum]

I totally gave up alcohol and all drugs for 23 years now. Best thing I've done in my life. I 100% believe in sobriety.

[@jennis4018]

If you feel like a misfit, turn it around and become a miss fit. To go along with your words matter. Loving these inspirational videos ❤

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

love it ! the best!! xxxx

[@sagepremoe1565]

Ya; what a great idea BECOME the misfit (you feel you are).

[@Mharthcock79]

Oh this one got me! I’m sober now 12 years.. we do recover!! 💜 probably aside from my children, one of the best things I’ve ever done! Sending you good vibes and healing energy for your back. 💜🧚🏼‍♀️ ☀️

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

well done for 12 years! what a journey! xx thank you for healing vibes much appreciated!! big loves to you too xx

[@tavanetaylor98]

I think you are an absolute delight! Your authenticity and vulnerability in your videos, makes you so approachable, and I have no doubt that at least half of us here would love to be your best friend. I know I would. Thank you for taking us along on your life journey, as well as smaller, local journeys. Even things as “mundane“ as van shopping is fascinating. You’re a good role model for taking time out for yourself and your healing. Big, long, giggly hugs from America.💙

[@beaulieuc8910]

I have more of a sugar addiction myself and I don't drink much at all. I have been to a Club Soda event in London, there was a free event where there were several stalls selling alcohol free/low alcohol drinks, it was great. I am glad that we have more alcohol free choices now in supermarkets, pubs are often very slow to respond though

[@jacquelineclark2432]

💜🙏Thank You For Sharing Wendy. Fifteen years ago I when I started with the menopause I discovered the negative effects of alcohol and sugar on my body. Going without these helps control Hot Flushes and Anxiety. Sounds like you have made this same discovery. Thanks for the van tour. Sending You Healing Energy. 🌸x

[@katieking7638]

Always good to reflect on things,So glad you are looking after you and listening to your body. Love watching you and your art processes very relaxing to watch. Whenever you upload next we will be here and look forward to it. 🧚🏼‍♀️🧚🏼‍♀️xx

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

yes true, x and thank you soooo much xxx

[@carolshumbera2122]

I used to be a wine addict. I quit a few years ago full time, but over the last year or so, I will have a glass, thinking I'm fine, and end up over doing it. Needless to say, I always regret it, and go through a week or two of emotionally beating myself up. Mostly because I effect others who are around me. Whether it's my husband or sister or anyone, and end up despising myself in the most horrible way. I always end up telling myself to just stop, and never ever tell yourself it's ok to just have one drink, because it's never just one. That's why I need to hear other people talk about their journey. It helps me just to know that I'm not the only person dealing with demons.

[@ljshaw8516]

Lovely as always getting to know Wonderful Wendy better! Your videos are calming and such a gem in our crazy world. You can upload whenever you like, you are number 1 and we love you. x's lj

[@agnieszkahrynyk7697]

Dear Wendy, thank you for showing up again ❤️ Every time you bring me inspiration, light(ness) and pure joy. Love you & your videos to bits ❤️ warmest hugs from Poland ❤️

[@christine431]

A question, that popps up into my mind: what about some sort of Tiny house, that you could be carried from a van- type of vehicle on a trailer so you could change places but are mobile if you just have a little trip, but could settle down, if you want to. If you know, what i try to say....🤔

[@SheilaLandry]

Gentle ((HUGS)) sent your way, Wendy! Thank you for reminding us to take care of ourselves first. Without that, the rest is nearly impossible. Much admiration and love to you!

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

thank you xxxx self care hugs to you too!!! big loves xx

[@SheilaLandry]

@@theunexpectedgypsy Just a thought - I gave up alcohol that I was using to anesthasize myself from a horrible marriage. I gave it up 14 years ago! I have never been more productive. (I gave up the husband, too! ;) ) I have never been more productive and really rarely feel the urge to drink. I find a lovely cup of my favorite flavour of tea is just as comforting. Yes. I feel the 'lows' a bit more, but I also appreciate the 'highs' too. My partner and I met in hospital actually when we both kind of went over the deep end. We struck up a friendship and were warned by many because of both of our vulnerabilities. But that was 14 years ago and not only do we live together, but we work together for my and now 'our' business. We are with each other 24/7 and while we may have differences, there is no drama and we are in a good, stable place - both clean and sober. I found giving up that crutch helped me more than I can say. It is scary in the beginning, but well worth it. I just wanted you to know my experience. I don't share it often, as people look at us as 'successful' and I always wonder if there would be judgment if they knew my past. But there is no shame in trying your best, is there? We can't change the past, only how we deal with today and tomorrow. ((HUGS)) again.

[@karehhartig7287]

🦋 Well met !!!

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

thanks for sharing Sheila, you never know who needs to hear your story out there.... xxx No shame on being addicted to a very addictive substance! big loves xxx

[@jeanninef2110]

Ah yes….those lockdowns….we also increased our wine consumption at that time. The past year we have reduced to the occasional few glasses at supper. And you do put it right when you say it blurs the hard edges, but oh the havoc it has on our bodies! Love your journals….you are an inspiration. Btw, have you looked at tiny homes? Most are on wheels…..very interesting. Shine your light bright, Wendy, as I will too from across the pond in Canada! Hugs

[@stephaniewilson222]

Wendy, everyone needs a break from their job once in a while ,no matter how much they love it. When you work a conventional job you get vacation time ,but when you work for yourself it’s harder to take it. But you need it. I’m glad you’re taking time for yourself to figure out your options and decide what you want to do going forward. I will always be here waiting and I know a lot of people here are the same way . We just want you to be happy ,and we’re here when you post a video !!❤ I can’t wait to hear more about the van and it was so much fun seeing those fans! My husband and I want to buy a motorhome in a couple years. He’s planning to retire this year and I can’t wait !!

[@anniemoonchild4967]

Hi Wendy... the funniest thing has just happened... So yesterday after watching your video I posted a comment "sending hugs and love your way ❤️ " and then today I got a ❤️ from Indoor Cycling video... lol - I by accident sent them the comment... oops... anyway, so I will send it today... hope you are having a wonderful week so far and that you are healing your back... take special care and sending hugs and love your way 😘

[@kimberlyloughran1118]

Your art is beautiful. Thank you for all of your inspirations!

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

gosh thank you, I feel v rusty atm! xxx

[@evestree]

I love the van shopping!!! Sooo funn! so much yess! We have to move out in a few weeks and havent found anything yet. Im thinking of getting a big bell tent and putting everything in storage! haha Disappearing into the wilderness doesnt sound like a bad back up plan!! I say yes to Adventure!!

[@willemijnkamerling4011]

I love watching you paint! Glad you felt well enough to start a painting. 🥰

[@lifeelixrlounge7289]

A lovely, beautiful, warm and heart sharing video. Thank you for sharing your vulnerabilities. So grateful, and yes I would love to hear more about the journalling through the addiction (or the sobriety) plus look forward to hearing more about the van shopping and the future idea. 🙏❤

[@NinkComPoop]

Hey, Wendy! Beautiful video as always. Did you recently buy a new camera? Anyways, I love that you're empowering the necessity to slow down and take care of yourself. Life is heavy sometimes. I don't usually invade into somebody's comment section like this, but I'm a qualified video editor and would happily help lifting the load of your work a little by offering my services to you (with mates rates ofc hehe 😹😹) I go by the same name in all my social medias if you're interested. But more importantly, I am sending lots of love and hugs to you... Spring is coming, so that'll be lovely for your energy! 🌻

[@bernicerozeboom6423]

I wish you much gentleness for the process you are in now. Much love from me to you.

[@mountainsno]

Love & hugs from Australia. Just as long as you and yours are ok. The rest is fine. Really nice to see you and James out and about. I dont mind if I just see "gone fishin" or whatever... you just cross my mind often and I wish you much better health.

[@lindsaydrozek4999]

I have been alcohol free for over 3 years. It was definitely hard at first, but it was totally getting out of hand. I joined a group called Sober Sis and I'm still close to the women who were in my group. Hopef mefumore wo

[@lindsaydrozek4999]

Oops. Hopefully more women will examine their relationship with alcohol.

[@susankuhlman6514]

Re the van: Nice potty and very comfy bed is most important. I have great memories of traveling all around the US with my kids in the summer. This country is BIG, your country is CUTE. (I love the hedges.) I downloaded the book and thanks for the suggestion. I am sober for three months and am showing my dogs a good time lately. I am collecting books and pictures of fairies, both grim and beautiful. One book is how to attract fairies. Hm...do I want to?

[@ewood208]

Life definately takes courage. It is very hard not to crawl under the blankets and just stay right now as it is for many I'm sure. The light isn't there in the tunnel but I'm hoping it will show even ever so lightly and small at the end very soon. Love your videos and honesty. Much love Erika in southern USA.

[@magicwendy210]

as for the vans the first one seemed too old fashioned and would need a bit of revamping plus maintenance might be expensive, 2nd one was nice but didn't like the fireplace and the fact the bulk head between driving seats and the back was blocked, 3rd one again l would be worried about maintenance, check out camper vibe on youtube they have a great van that they converted, perhaps look into normal van builds, good luck with your search :)

[@KristineT4525]

Thank you so much for just sharing you being you! Your authenticity and vulnerabilities make it feel like we’re all friends here-and who doesn’t need that! ❤

[@debbiedrawsfunny]

I do hope you’ll be feeling better and rested soon, being out of alignment or having body aches can really be an awful way to be forced into rest. But sometimes the body just whacks over the head with that message of “you must rest NOW!” I recently went through months of chiropractic treatments for my neck and back. it was expensive, slow going, and frustrating at times. It was like I’d take 2 steps forward and feel okay for a day and then 3 steps back and feel worse than ever sort of thing. So I feel your….I don’t wanna say “pain” but that is the saying😂🙃isn’t it? Pardon me for sharing a personal story here, but I only share in hopes of someone may find the information helpful. Last week I had a really heavy emotional breakthrough of sorts after having one of the most stressful couple days dealing with a very difficult person who was very emotionally abusive to me all throughout my childhood. And I’m in perimenopause, too and I cry at the drop of a hat these days! The stress of having to spend time with them for 3 days straight was enough to push me over the edge and I cried myself to sleep and felt like I released a lot of past childhood trauma they inflicted on me. Shockingly, I woke up the next day feeling physically well for the first time in ages. I went to my chiro appointment 2 days later and I was completely in alignment. How? I don’t really know. But I have a strong suspicion that it had so much to do with me holding onto emotional pain I hadn’t properly processed for years, decades even. Of course this isn’t me saying this is what’s happening to you, Wendy! But for anyone who didn’t just throw out their back from physical exertion or gets a stabbing stomachache after a stressful day, or wakes up in the middle of night feeling like the walls are closing in, please know you are not alone. Sometimes are body is screaming at us to process past traumas, big and little. And I hope this may help someone who might read this. The body really does keep the score. Wishing healing to you Wendy and to anyone else who needs it❤

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

thankyou!!! yes, I'm getting there. xx Body messages are loud sometimes YES!!! I hope you have some extra softness for what you're dealing with. I definitely relate everything holistically and believe like you our bodies hold things... release is painful but sweet too! Well done for letting go of some past wounds... xxx Big loves Beautiful xx

[@daughteroftheking6107]

That’s good to read! Have something similar with my neck. Thank you for sharing! ❤ God bless!

[@morganniciomhair8284]

Just wanted to wish you well beloved!I can relate.Sadly had to cut out many people from my life.I feel the benefits. Stay strong and be extra kind to your self and your soul.💚

[@cuca1116]

Thank you for sharing! 🪴

[@grizeldaxxx4568]

thanks Debbie for this powerful sharing ...sounds like a really profound healing ... have been healing Childhood trauma myself ... much Love

[@pameladelancey5834]

I went through the same thing during Covid, started drinking around dinner time, just one or two, then that increased also! After maybe a year or two I realized I had to stop!! It was all too much!! I am also an all or nothing person, so I just stopped!! Not an easy thing to do but it cleared my head and I did feel so much bettet!! I would also love to get a small camper that would work for my husband and I!! I want to escape and see something else!! Not that I'm not grateful for what I have, in need of an adventure!! Sending lots of love to you both!! Hope your back feels better soon!!❤❤❤

[@soulofjo]

I have now watched your video for 13 minutes and it feels like you are talking to me. That alcohol talk was really really good and much needed for many, so thank you. Also that woman in your painting awakened a feeling in me... it's like a feeling of someone i have lost...in a way. Also i have to say, it is beyond my understanding how beautiful and talented a person can be... You. Much love to you, from me ✌️💚 p.s. my vote is for the self build van, definately😊

[@whosaidthat4299]

Watching you driving on the left does freak me out, 😆

[@CraftingVicky]

when you were showing up the vans it made me wonder if a tiny house would be something that you would consider? I have seen some that were fairy fantastic! They looked to be part of another world really And I can totally imagine you in one of those. 😍

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

we have considered yes! but found we needed a bit more space!! maybe a tiny house each hahahahha!!!!

[@CraftingVicky]

@@theunexpectedgypsy lol I did see that a couple had a set of tiny houses next to one another so that both had some personal space for their own creative endeavors! It was quite sweet actually.

[@sharb7320]

You are right where you are supposed to be! So common to crave sugar when giving up your "poison of choice." Took me many, many moons (read decades) to realize I am so much better without it. As always, thanks for your honesty and openess about your journey in so many ways.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

oh I just love your comment thank yoyu so much xx has taken me a few decades too! xxxx

[@sharb7320]

@@theunexpectedgypsy ❤️

[@christinefisher5716]

Sending prayers and love, Wendy! Cocoon as you need, and thanks for always shining your light bright!

[@artzcat]

Sobriety, good for you! It is a challenge, I had quit during the pandemic and then started up again after losing my husband last March. A friend invited me to a regular happy hour, just one drink at her house and I have been going. Just last month I quit, still go over sometimes with a cup of tea. Other people do not make it easy to stop! I am feeling ready to stick this time. As far as VANS go, out of those 3 I would pick #1. Looks very clean and I'm sure some decor would make it more cosy.

[@YvonneO]

Here in Michigan Wendy we have the same dilemmas😂house hunting is frustrating for 2 yrs! Looking at vans too, 😵‍💫 stressful, so kudos to you for keeping yourself together and loving that 🎨 painting..well ✅ done!

[@livinggood6876]

Managing our time when not on the traditional treadmill is not that easy. Having space to live outside the box is unique. You do both well.

[@wendyprice7731]

Hi Wendy! Another Wendy here :-) I'm a relatively new subscriber (about a year I think?!) Anyway, I love your videos - they are a 'cup of tea on a cold day' - I just curl up and enjoy the peacefulness that comes from from watching you! I resonate with so much of today's video - I'm also trying to find my way through the 'penomause' whilst working and all that stuff! I would love to get another van - the other half and I have had 2, but had to give them up due to expense (why do all garages suck their teeth and add a zero to the cost?!!' so I really enjoyed going van hunting with you - and I absolutely fell in love with the 2nd one - how gorgeous was that?! I'm in love! And addiction - for me it's definitely sugar - malteasers to be precise! We all struggle with something, don't we?! So glad we can share each other's ups and downs! Sending blessings whilst I cocoon in the cold! :-) xx

[@katatarot597]

Hello, are you a real Gypsy?

[@lisaharttmusic]

Wendy, I just celebrated 40 years of clean and sober on March 10 2023. However, my dearest sober soul mate of 36 years, Michael died on December 10 2023. He had been sober 44 years. I going to attempt to create a memory journal of our love. We played and wrote music together and he was a brilliant artist and teacher. I am hoping your pages can help me. Trust me, living life on life's terms is the best way. I am so grateful.

[@Indigogingerkat11]

Hello Fabulous Wendy and company here❤️i can really relate here:) i have so so much love for ArT in my HeArt❤️❤️❤️❤️i love to dabble-de-do into anything and everything... trying to get something started with all my fabric scraps ive collected and embroidery thread... denim and more denim pieces, patches, cut out denim pockets... embellishments... etc:):):) textiles of every kind makes me HAPPY! anyway i am in recovery... a little over 18 months now... hardest, yet also most rewarding challenge this far of my 53 years in this avatar❤️ so very grateful for finding your channel and maybe i can get over my intimidation with creating my first journal/sketch book ? they seem a little hard? might you have a Very Beginner's video that i can start with? i have so many treasures to make a beauty for sure.. im just not sure where to start? i over-complicate everything so any help would be a blessing! thanks for letting me share here and happy to be here!

[@tinyfemaleshooter8756]

How much for the Large Painting you are working on??? Reminds me of my sick daughter…I love it…❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@alicebeshay6124]

Lovely painting you’r making Wendy 😍.Somehow it looks a bit like your younger self. Am I right?😘🌹❤️

[@jeanettebarto2774]

Yes, Addiction to sugar. I try very hard and if I can stay off for a week I'm good. Right now I haven't been able to make it through 24 hours 😔 Thanks for sharing your journal. You inspire me to try new things and go out of my comfort zone. ❤️❤️❤️

[@lightbulbnirvana]

Wendy, thank you for your courage! I hope your hip and back mend up sooner than later. Have you tried turmeric, which is a wonderful anti-inflammatory. I enjoy learning the beginning steps to your next exciting journey. Of course I want you to post videos, so get to it as soon as you can, please! Also, Anais is pronounced Ah-nai-ISS. It is a Spanish name. My mentor had the opportunity to interview her! Look up Notebooks of the Mind, by Vera John-Steiner. You might like it. It uses a lot of academic language, which may be difficult to swim through, if you aren't use to it, but that book changed my life about understanding creativity. My regards to James as well for being such a steady presence. Feel better soon!

[@randysmith7189]

I love and appreciate your videos anytime you show up. TAKE CARE OF YOU!

[@katec9893]

Hi Wendy, I thought it was interesting hearing about your experience with alcohol. There's a writer called Charlotte Davis Kasl you might like, I think she wrote a book about women and 12 step groups plus other interesting books. Regarding your voice which I know you often say you feel worried about, I think you talk in a higher pitch than your natural pitch, which I found out I do too from a vocal coach. It's v common in women as we're socialised to speak higher pitched. So you could explore that if it resonates. Happy journaling, the van idea sounds exciting too.

[@laurak5196]

Bless your misfit soul, you have another sister over here 👋 I didn’t find art until my mid-40s and it’s only with other artists that I truly feel understood. Since Covid I don’t really get with ppl (and I’ve never been an extrovert anyway) but it’s so nice to listen to your videos and find a kindred soul. Thank you for sharing. We love and appreciate you 😀 I quit so many things for health reasons (anxiety and adrenal fatigue), getting off gluten, corn, dairy, sugar and alcohol have all helped me and I think I have the EMF sensitivity too. Congratulations to you on your journey. I also agree on the cold turkey - I can’t have just a little sugar for example. But I found xylitol from a birch (not corn) source works great and you can’t tell the difference between that and sugar so I’m not sure if that can help you. Again, thank you for everything. ❤

[@LeahSelman]

my dream van is a Mercedes, so out of my Budget I shouldn’t spell it correctly. But still, the shower/bathrooms are superb & the pop-out onnings make an Insta-patio. Perfect for a cat & a few changes of clothes. No more landlord!

[@newworldlove7031]

Don't drink, don't smoke, don't do drugs. Trying to give up coffee and sugar, so still an addict. My step father was an alcoholic and so was his father!! Runs in the family genentics so I'm told. Everything is a choice. Strong people don't have addictions is my motto.

[@KrazieKrafterAdventures]

Love the Rv's you looked at Thanks for sharing about your alcohol free journey...I love your videos ..Have a great day!!

[@jax993]

Still trying with being sober Id tried expensive rehab 2 years ago relapsed went clean again relapsed but nothing like I was drinking, got clean packed up my life at 55 drove over 2000k's with my dog to live in the tropics still alone but fine with it feel lonely at times & felt myself going back to alcohol ,so I've stopped yet again, but can sit inside my unit 4 days on end, watching KZbin as other social media I've drifted from 2, alcohol gave me confidence to do things yet in the end even now I've moved drifting back to being alone again unhappy, now I can be alone & happy basically most of the time,I used to be so good at art hope to get back into it, my dream was always to buy a camper van and take off round Australia when I was in my 50's yep the housing market here in Aus is ridiculous, just to take off be somewhere different every other day/week/month etc

[@skraaim561]

🌟Thank you for the beautiful inside of processing thoughts. It helps. 🧡🙏🏻

[@sammythehamster9093]

I never been drinker in fact I don't anything fun about getting drunk silly at weekend in Pubs and Clubs. I do drink alcohol at special occasions like Weddings or Special event. Hard to avoid sugar when people keep buying of gifting sweets snacks. Ever since I did more art journaling the gaming has been fun anymore. I use to lose myself in those cozy life farming sim playing weeks on end. Part of me keep saying wouldn't it better if I spent my time on real life creative projects. I find art journaling is only thing in my life I have control of but can be difficult if I don't get some sleep or being hassled as causes creativity paralysis. I mainly on A5 and Smaller TN style as they more quicker to fill even so I still making journals and love book binding. It's just even since I have been off antidepressants there's like rush of emotions, Dec -Jan it felt like relapse. I feel okayish but still have those moments where almost too much. Art is like a ray of hope for me. Unlikely I would give up on video games too much backlog to get through just no more new ones.

[@suzonlommel3737]

I've finally found you, my friend across the pond. Sometimes, you pop on a page and think, oh, there you are. I started writing when I stopped drinking 38 miraculously (as in no one thought I could do it, including me) years ago.

[@StephanieLackey]

Hi Wendy - Love all your videos so glad for the update and that your doing well. I'm a hobby artist and I want to start a channel myself one day with my art and techniques. I'm not a painter and I can't draw it's one of the only artistic things I can't do but I have just signed up to take my first water color class so we shall see - I'm an art journalist - mixed media artist. Will be glad when I can retire and do art full time. Anyway - I LOVE the 2nd van!!!! so cozy and hygge and cabinish 💜. I too dream of having a small van like that in a few years when I retire to travel the country

[@mariabanholzer5960]

Would Like to be able to Paint/dessine Just a little bit Like you Madame! Love from South of France 💐 to you and your Community all over the world

[@debmoncier1130]

Gosh I wish you were my neighbor! You are very inspiring indeed. I could easily listen and watch your videos hours on in. I'm beginning my art venture, sometimes I wonder why am I am even trying, my ex told me awhile ago, my art was Silly, and I gave up for years. If I didn't have my art, in my tiny rented room, I would just assume to be dead. My biggest problem is I have so many ideas, I have troubles starting, my only desk is my bed to work on, so so sucks.

[@ARTADOREAKALOAAROHA]

I have been rewatching your videos as I find you do inspire me to start creating again Alcohol has played a huge part in my dysfunctional family. I have been sober for over 1 and 1/2 years and distanced my self from others that drink alcohol I am currently thinking of writing a book to try and help others with coping skills without turning to a bottle to numb the trauma or pain that comes with life sometimes. Thankyou so much for your videos you are a constant inspiration 💗

[@sheilajoseph9953]

Hi Wendy I'm about to binge watch your videos as not seen any for a while. I love what you do, your journaling through art speaks volumes, so therapeutic ❤

[@kellyweber627]

I am so glad that I came across you her on KZbin😊 You are someone that I can totally relate to! You have very deep emotions like myself. There is nothing wrong with that. So far, I am really enjoying your videos! Thanks for sharing your life with us 🥰

[@pristinabread]

When I watch your videos, I wish I was your cat. LOL. I know I know. You are so interesting.

[@KS-wr4vv]

Addiction is real and it sounds like you are really self aware and caught yourself before anything really spiraled. But everyone has their own idea of what there limit is. Your right the edges of life are sharp but I’ve learned through sobriety that if you face those edges instead of escaping they do begin to dull down some each time. . When you numb yourself you numb all the parts of you even the best pieces. The motivation, the creativity, the genuine happiness and sometimes just the very will to live. My addiction led me to some dark dark places where I wished for just a few or even a lot of hard edges .Once you get in deep where the edges penetrate your soul it takes all you’ve got to mend the cuts. Here’s to being self aware and taking action before the edges cut deep. I needed to hear this today as sometimes I forget how far I’ve come .i love your channel i just turned 50 im an elementary art teacher and im super inspired by your van life. I don’t think I could ever do it full time bc i love my job. But the idea of doing it part time over school holidays , summers and breaks sounds so amazing.

[@witchycraftsbyKJ]

I have to admit, the first couple of times I saw you guys driving... I kind of did freak out a bit. I drive for a living so I was in a bit of a panic at first lol.

[@lynneeie5226]

Re the vans....I loved the look of van nr two, charming. BUT, one thing I did notice was that the walls were made of very chunky heavy wood. And so my concern is actually overall weight of the van and road safety? I would get it weighed, to see what the actual weight is and then check what is allowed on the vehicle statistics, if I were seriously considering that one. The camper vans were interesting, altho ooo those cracks were very bad. So I think number 1 was a serious contender.... but then parking it? All the vans were more of the visible sort and is it easy to park? Or do you have to stay in a campground? I love the vans and the idea of vanlife appeals, and I could see it being an answer to the housing crisis and you do have your studio.... is it possible to park there? We are hoping to build out our van this summer, but it is a small one and to be used for small weekend trips or overnights, or for longer day trips, a place to have a coffee or a nap while waiting for appointments, if we have arrived early. I wish you both the best of luck finding the solutions to the ticking of boxes!

[@Emilywilson10222]

I don’t drink very much (usually just a few with friends once every couple of months and that’s it), but I defo get the sugar thing!!! I find it really hard to not lean on when my depression gets bad

[@oliveappleby8672]

I don’t drink, haven’t done for years…..seen alcoholics in the family. Not good😱🥰

[@Dingle1234]

You do have to be careful with self-builds as regards weight. So many people add massive weight that the unit isn't designed or licensed to carry, or in the wrong spots. Not to mention wood stoves. I'd be thrilled to get one of this little factory-built units, so well done for floor plan, and windows. Haven't seen those in Canada.

[@blonniejenn433]

Carbs and sugars are my downfall. Comfort eater, here! Well wishes for your hip and back!

[@scottishbordersnomad]

I'm 14 years drug free and 12 years alcohol free although two years ago I had a couple of weeks slip up I got back on track . Lately through stress has been getting me craving alcohol so I'm joining a recovery group here soon for support I am a nomadic traveller and it was a life style for me to take drugs at rave party's in fields and drink etc and wake up in bushes converted busses in a field in middle of nowhere etc xx

[@steben3318]

Another moment of synchronicity, 'Words have power' you say, as I am writing a section on words of power in my Book of Shadows.

[@vulcanknights]

Good morning from CA, Wendy! Warmly, Sunshine Phoenix 🌞

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

morning!!! Happy Sunday x

[@Lightwing47]

Pretty fairy, you don't look at all as if you have been addicted. I dunno, it just does not stick to your image. You are airy and pretty and thoughtful and carried on the wind like petals. :)

[@junemaguire5053]

Having owned two vans, and still owning one, the secret is less is more regarding to the belongings one takes with them, when we were in our early 40’s we took everything except the kitchen sink so to speak, now in our 70’s we have learned to take very few things. Love the vans, although why are they always that teak, I wonder, I feel it makes them seem so old fashioned, in Australia we have to be careful about refitting a van, because if the weight varies from the original i.e. heavier cupboards extra paint added we could have trouble getting them through inspections, maybe thats not the same in the u.k. looking at the home made van you showed us.

[@lindsey8480]

I lost my pops (dad) 2 weeks ago and I have stopped everything I love arts and crafts anything creative really ..... if I go back to what I love I feel bad and guilty about it .....I need to get back on it but the sadness and regret is making me not do what I love

[@annainbudapest1261]

gave up alcohol about 18 years ago, don't miss it at all. I do however I have a sugar addiction that I keep in check at the moment. The motor home idea looks great, are there any bigger options so that you could have more storage.? Just a suggestion. Yes take care over 50 we gals need to give ourselves a break, rest, rejuvenate.

[@Yteg2]

Yeah, I had an abusive alcoholic husband and the smell of alcohol is abhorrent to me. I stopped drinking completely nearly thirty years ago, but I still feel like I am the alcoholic going to social events and not drinking. People at church probably assume that it was because I had a drink problem that I don't drink at all. When in reality it was his drinking, and other family members' that makes me dislike it. I do eat too much bread though.

[@tracyelliott8577]

Oh my goodness...I'm organising my van today(my home for two years now) so I thought I would listen to you whilst tidying and the first thing you said was about your hip....I also have been in agony with my hip and have to get it sorted!! I really hope yours gets sorted soon as it's nasty being in pain and discomfort 🥺 I'm resonating with you in more ways than one,even if it is being in pain, I sympathise and send healing kindness and gratitude for your creativity, more now than ever before! Hugs to you lovely🤗

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

hope your hips heals soon!! yes, maybe you need to have some treatment too! happy nesting in your van! big hugs xxxxxxxxxx

[@rianarene]

Dear Wendy, my wish for you is happiness and being pain free. You are doing wonderful things and helping others, that’s love in action. A wonderful book I’ve “happened” upon is by John Sarno, The Mind Body Prescription. Or the work of Laura and John Thornton at the Pain Cure Clinic. Holistic and totally self healing. At 76, and years of stressed related pains, sciatic for one, im finally making my life pain free. Mind over matter. No medical stuff or pills or surgery, just mind over stress. It works. You are more powerful than you know. Best wishes. Rae

[@sheilastyrebriere]

We relate on many different levels, and I love that so much🥰 Self care is paramount when beginning the path to recovery from being a drinker to becoming sober, which truly does require a supportive community!! I’ve been on this same journey since 1998. My family - although I love them dearly - weren’t as understanding as I though they would be. It didn’t stop me, and I continued moving myself forward, getting an education in a new city filled with strangers and like minded individuals that supported my growth was so incredibly amazing! I graduated at the top of my class and secured employment before I even completed!!! Such an exhilarating and beautiful time in my life, only to be brought down repeatedly by my partner. All over and done with now, except being with an abusive, controlling partner. I used to find journaling so therapeutic and grounding until my privacy was violated repeatedly and I finally just stopped all together. Im happy to say I’ve finally reached out for help so that I can begin the process of rebuilding my life, on my own terms. As scary as it is I find the creative community so supportive and helpful and my saving grace😊🙏🏼, so grateful for all that you share Wendy. A beautiful example of being human in a world that can be so crushing ❤ Much love, Sheila xoxoxo

[@hopejoyfaith7524]

so excited to hear what the van will be for! and thanks for sharing your alcohol free year journey; I too am feeling I need a change with my relationship with it especially now since I turned 50 and my emotions are all over the place recently. I do miss your weekly videos but I am glad you are taking the time you need.

[@carolinesimmill4962]

Thank you for your interesting video and wishing you improved health. I was wondering how you find the Bowen Therapy as it reminded me of the sessions I had a few years ago which were very helpful.