life talk: loneliness

[@philcofer55]

" the more we genuinely care about others the greater our own happiness & inner peace." - allan lokos

[@skinnyqueenproductions]

I needed this today 🥰

[@sweettasmine]

🙏🏾

[@nvyharrisonII]

Real talk.

[@syd5831]

Amen 🙏🏽😭❤️

[@newlife8066]

Man … I really appreciate your videos bro. I love seeing other bold men of God like yourself speaking out! This video really touch me when you were talking about the fear of man. I struggle with that. But to see you humble yourself and speak on it gives me peace and boldness. The Bible said we overcome by our testimony. So, by you keep speaking on it God is setting you free. I thank you man!

[@myajurnae]

to anyone feeling lonely: it's not in vain. after separation comes elevation. God has to pull you away to move you toward what He has in HIS will for your life. Thank you for posting this video and being such an inspiration, Phil 🤍!!

[@2mfours]

thank you 💕

[@myajurnae]

@@2mfours you're welcome!! ❤️

[@ServantManndale]

‼️💯

[@enigmaticladypisces3169]

This is confirmation! Thank you for sharing 💖

[@jbreezyx88]

Most definitely 🏁

[@kjw5593]

God wants us to be secure within ourselves during times of “loneliness” so that we always feel whole with or without friends, family or a lover. I am struggling with this.. I’m lonely 💔

[@philcofer55]

a fact, and keep leaning on God, i went through the lonely phase too, you not alone, once you fully lean on God and just talk to him from the heart, that loneliness get smaller and smaller

[@Lanareicat]

Its only a matter of time that you will feel the deepest feelings of loneliness, but remember once you get through the deepest loneliness you’ll feel free and happy alone. You’ll get there ❤️

[@elliestarrco]

Keep reaching out to God, I lost my friend of 13 years and I was lonely to no end and than one day I started talking to God more openly and frequently and my loneliness disappeared. God only gives you what he knows you can handle. You got this

[@ANGELSLVME]

I am a never married single mom, I am so lonely, I’ve prayed and prayed for a Spouse, but I keep getting hurt. Please Lord send me my Mate😢

[@the.regenesis]

Yes! This is what I have learned through my own isolation.

[@jaididubose6753]

“Why would I care what THEY think of me, when GOD created me” that’ll stick with me for life🙏🏿

[@syd5831]

I’m at point where it’s just me and God. It’s lonely but day by day I’m becoming one with myself and one with God.

[@tashia89]

Since my journey with not doing a lot of worldly things and being celibate my loneliness is at an all time high. I literally work ,school ,church and take care of my daughter. But this is the right path. Thank you Phil I pray our lord keep blessing you 🙏🏾❤️

[@jacquelineh4728]

Keep up the good work🙏🏼 I am so proud of you. I recently gave up by hopping in godless relationship and it brought me pain, despair, and fear. The Lord’s peace is truly the best feeling in the entire world!!! I look up to you sistern

[@justinlawrence4658]

Tried to be first to comment but oh well…once again Phil never disappoints. Feels like I’m in church when I watch these life talks. Very engaging and inspirational.

[@philcofer55]

appreciate it! 🤍🙏🏽💯

[@monicasaffold9405]

Matthew 6:33 But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness,and all these things will be added . to you. choose you this day whom ye will serve; … but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.” (Josh. 24:15.) Great video , truly inspiring 🙏🏽

[@philcofer55]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽, thank you!

[@chrispowell4251]

Loneliness and having a relationship both have there ups and downs. I can say, I felt closer to the Lord single more than being in a relationship. God bless you Phil and others 💖

[@philcofer55]

yup, thats very true

[@theempireofjesuschristworl6877]

Yep! That "loneliness" is called SACTIFICATION (that's the beginning process) ...it happens to us all; when I left the Entertainment Industry cold turkey as a singer/rap video dancer, etc., believe me I went into SHOCK!!! LOL!!! I was like, I can't do this!!! But I stayed with God and began to fast, read and study my Bible determined to be clean before God, then the metamorphosis took place (and continues), and I'm Blessed for it! Now, no one & nothing will steal my PEACE in CHRIST JESUS! Then I began removing Satanic items from my home, clothing, music, movies filled with profanity, horror TV shows...etc. Stay focused Phil, you're on the right track!PEACE!

[@dianamusa]

Amen!! That’s so good. So glad to see God working your life! I pray that the Lord may grant you favor!!

[@friedchicken892]

Not sure if you wear makeup or fake hair ,jewlery but Jesus stripped me from this

[@findingluvinyhwh]

@@friedchicken892 everyone has different convictions!

[@friedchicken892]

@@findingluvinyhwh The same holy ghost lives in all beleievers

[@TaiwanCole]

I went into my isolation season these past couple of months and it changed me forever. Allowed me to hear him more clearer. God bless my dawg 💯

[@myguymarz4368]

We need more brothers like Phil man I’m glad I came across this channel. Yesterday I went out and bought me a blender and some fruits and other things to make healthy smoothies. It’s time for a change thank you Phil for being a inspiration.

[@robhoopz]

I spend a lot of time alone, but I don’t feel lonely. Sometimes you can be around a load of people and feel lonely. You learn a lot about yourself when you’re by yourself, away from all the noise. Alone time can be so positive for growth. I guess like anything, it’s about balance. 🙏🏻

[@TwiztedGenius]

It Was In My Loneliness, That I Truly Realize I Was Not Alone. God

[@Cynariaa]

🥺 New Here and a Believer 💕 It’s so cool how God leads us for the better I truly needed to see this video. Thank you for sharing!

[@jcalderon224]

This hit me hard and i just want to say thank you Phil for letting yourself be used by God. God used you through your words to speak to me. Much love my brother. Thank you and God bless!!

[@philcofer55]

man thank y’all for letting me be me 💯🙏🏽, all love man! keep going

[@jeslovesjesus]

I was a “Christian” my whole life because I was raised in the church but I wasn’t born again until last year and I can never describe it when I’m trying to tell people the difference I feel. My heart looks at this world and all the sin and it grieves and all I want to do is serve and love people more. I can totally relate to this. 🙏🏽

[@InJesusName3783]

We have Jesus whenever we feel alone

[@jennifera777]

This message came right on time, I was thinking about lonliness because I'm in a cocooning phase and God is working on me. What you said about taking the focus off of self is what I needed to hear. Thank you for these talks and for keeping it a buck!

[@godlyonlycaiii]

Man I’m so tired with my life situations rn. It’s so sad and just really tough and depressing here. I’ve always been in the hands of God and always had a more privileged and fortunate chance to have a relationship with the Lord. Kinda lost the closeness but got close mid 2022. And you’re one of the reasons I’m able to get through the really really bad situations I’m going through rn. I want you to take this seriously w your heart too: God is using you in many ways for his follower of Christs to get close to him. You are a walking testimony

[@giselvazquez522]

You’re a role model to this generation and God is using you to inspire other men And woman to become better spiritually, mentally and physically 🔑

[@sariahponder]

this is so dope! love this, it’s not loneliness when you’re with God. God has us believers in isolation. Separate to elevate🙏🏽

[@stqtch]

"The most creative minds often feel lonely inside."

[@n1kaylaap]

The fact that you spoke on the worrying about family and taking care of them.. I feel that. The peace that comes with sitting with God and him providing that relief is breath taking, I’m currently not taking my loneliness for granted. It was uncomfortable at first but with God I can do anything 🫶🏾🥹😭

[@karismajolee1418]

I can 100% relate. 🔥Message. It's so important that we remain humble and in communion with God. It is truly a blessing to be used to bless others. Father God, I pray that Phil and everyone who watches continue to be led by the Holy Spirit, motivating and helping one another to grow stronger in Christ. May Phil's devotion continue to be a blessing to others worldwide, and his channel continues to grow and reach people in desperate need of encouragement and transformation. Lord strengthen him daily to endure any and all obstacles he may face and give him the wisdom needed to fulfill your purpose for his life. Father, he has chosen to be a vessel of honor, and your word says that no weapon formed against him shall prosper in Jesus' name. Thank you for this word today Father. Amen 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@philcofer55]

amen! man thank you for the fr 🤍💯🙏🏽! God rallying up all his people!

[@karismajolee1418]

@@philcofer55 For sure.🎯

[@sosow6519]

Amen!

[@xofloa8242]

AMEN!

[@KiaTaylor_]

You can just feel God moving through you when you speak. I heard this song that said "How you lonely in a room with God", and I truly believe once you nourish your relationship with God the loneliness ceases. I appreciate all the love you're spreading in your videos, its really needed in the time were in!! ❤

[@whogotgear]

I'm very spiritual and this hits home. I really feel this. I only feel lonely when I'm not connected to the most high. I appreciate hearing your journey...

[@thedejahdenise]

These are just always so timely. I lost my grandma and mom 4 months apart. The two I didn’t think I couldn’t live without and I worry so so much that my health will go the same way etc. it’s only been a year but I want to do the work now to do the best I can with what I have in life. If that’s the food I eat or the time I spend with God. These videos ate extremely impactful. You have no idea.

[@Mookayla._]

Sheesh! God is Amazing! There’s many parts of your testimony that I can resonate with. You don’t know your faith is real unless it’s tested. Being alone is one of the most opportune times that satan tries to throw us off our track and tempt us into feeling like God isn’t there. But the beauty of God is that He’s always there! You don’t know God is a comforter, until you need to be comforted. You don’t know God is peace until your life seems like hell. I’ve been blessed with people in my life who inspire me and I have a Godly community around me at church. God can use our friends and family to push us when we don’t even have the energy to keep going or when we start drifting away from God. Thank you for using your platform to spread God’s heart and Word 🤍🙏🏽

[@philcofer55]

man this so true! 🔥💯

[@britb2179]

This video came to me right on time. God has carried me through many battles so I know this moment of loneliness is temporary and necessary for me to elevate to the next part of my life.

[@shebyj]

I appreciate your authenticity and vulnerability! I am also in a season of loneliness. It felt strange at first but I do see the purpose of it. At first, it does feel uncomfortable to be "at peace" but then you realize your old habits/thoughts were unhealthy. Being at peace, especially with Him, is worthwhile. Everything with God is intentional. Per usual, thanks for uploading wholesome content. You touch a lot of lives.

[@Jamonte35]

My brother it’s crazy how much this message aligned with me & where I am in this moment of life right now. I feel at Peace because I’m sure God got me exactly where he needs me but I noticed it was a part of me that was so familiar with activities of the world & pleasure that it almost felt strange as if I was out the loop or missing out on something . As you mentioned bro God has changed & continually changing my heart so much. I get in modes where I’m so locked in on my relationship with God & growing myself that I gotta be sure to embrace & fellowship with others & not be so caught up on my own affairs. Real resonate with real, continue inspiring & living ya purpose King ✊🏾🤴🏾

[@Kimillions]

I'm definitely sharing this! 💪🏽 When people be asking me or saying, why u always happy, why do you be so happy in the morning, etc. Man, I tell them not only is it God but once you realize you here to SERVE others...you can't help but have peace and joy in your heart. And I be like don't even listen to me. Just open your heart and you'll see for yourself. 😊

[@murielleworldtraveler]

This was a good video. I have been praying for a few blessings lately and I told God, "If this will turn me away from You, please do not bless me with it."

[@syd5831]

Bro everything you said was spot on, that’s exactly how I feel.☹️☹️😭😭😭🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@Highlyfavoured_]

When you have a relationship with god, you can be all alone but you’ll never feel lonely. Blessings ✨

[@philcofer55]

!

[@FatTonyTheSkipper]

feel like i need this now

[@Highlyfavoured_]

@@FatTonyTheSkipper God will never leave you, nor forsake you. He is a friend that’s sticks closer than a brother.

[@FatTonyTheSkipper]

@@Highlyfavoured_ I use to pray a lot and I felt like god was always with me.. I went through some weird times of my life and I feel like god left me then.. I can't feel him with me anymore and I feel really depressed for the first time in many years.. Would you have any advice on how to reconnect with god? I used to have so many random good coincidences happen and knew it was him.. I felt it.. Recently I have had some good things happen but it's like I can't feel it anymore.. It's weird to explain.. But I hope the feeling is back soon cause I need it.. I'm in one of the roughest patches of my life at 28 right now..

[@BriW444]

@@FatTonyTheSkipper I feel the same way you’re not alone 💯 it’s hard but just know God is there whether we “feel” him or not

[@maritzahunter9665]

I’m sitting here in tears from watching this . It was def a TIMELY message. I first came across the “plant based day” video , and the simplicity of the video was so peaceful to me. This was the next suggested video nd I’m Not sure how I stumbled across this channel but I’m grateful that I did. So refreshing ! Keep doing you bro ! God is def moving through you ! 🙏🏾

[@MRSNVD]

Thanks Phil. It is not easy to keep your eyes on God. You have taught us it takes discipline and determination. A walk with Christ is intentional and one's heart must desire it. Thanks for being vulnerable enough to invite us into your struggles along the walk of faith. By doing so, you have been a light unto many of us. May God continue to Light your path.

[@leahrenee6134]

I feel like that’s so true, take your eyes off you and look at others. Love others as you love yourself. Or see people how God sees them that way you’ll learn the spirit of GOD by being kind, giving, and affirming. Lately I’ve started doing that and it changes your whole outlook on life but in specific anxiety, loneliness, self consciousness leaves because your not trying to look a certain way that puts pride in you, but you’re trying to uplift and be kind to others.

[@yayadavamp]

this video brought me to tears. thank you phil❤

[@JwnnFTW]

They’re really aren’t that many things that make me as happy as listening and watching your videos Phil, keep up god’s work.

[@Ch1b1_bunny]

OMG! Yes! We have to seek him and be transform by renewing of the mind. I'm excited. You're so genuine. I love the authenticity. My God! Keep sharing and being a blessing to all. All praise 🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@Omilloadams]

This is very true God has changed my heart so much I don’t get upset anymore i say “okay that’s fine” I’m so peaceful now I love it.

[@classy937]

Most of the time when we first start walking with God we go through some isolation. That is God purifying us. Your video is very transparent.

[@millybadze2117]

Beautiful comment!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️

[@jolandina]

Not gone lie, u gone change the world. Real shit. Much love yo.

[@mith5271]

Good morning I enjoy my peace I start my day with worship. I allows me to be happy by praising God. It helps me to Keep my peace. Glory to God !!! I love the Lord He is my everything. Be bless

[@a.s.b.194]

Proud of you for being obedient. Sending you encouragement. Thank you for encouraging us.

[@philcofer55]

thank you! 🤍💯🙏🏽

[@siaveiafeta3271]

One of my favorite things of walking with God is that PEACE❤️

[@HiBye-ui4ke]

Def my fave channel right now. So pleasing to finally see something positive and genuine on YT ❤

[@AyeJye]

Man that dream about your mom gave me chills ! May The Lord be with you always!!!

[@legacy776]

You are making a difference my boy , you are doing what god want you to do . Being Productive & successful spreading the gospel to his people & your generation ‼️🍀.

[@dejanaegoings4093]

This was good 😌, I literally going through this after I moved to Texas. Thank you for your transparency and sharing you story every time. Praying for you fam and your walk with God.

[@reallymikala]

Phil, i came across you videos at a time where i was feeling discouraged in my walk with God and your transparency about your walk has been so refreshing to me. It’s so important to keep your mind focused on the Most High even in times where you feel alone fr bc everything is in His plan. Keep being you, you’re a light in this world dude 🫶🏾

[@philcofer55]

focusing on him, let you know that all the worry and all the things we think about God i way bigger than, keep fighting 🤍🙏🏽💯

[@TanyaThalia]

Definitely on my journey to find peace! And it’s most definitely hard to be alone and learn to be still in all the chaos. 🙏🏽 I appreciate your videos

[@jamilamoran]

I love this! Keep spreading God’s light. 🙌🏽 😊

[@TajhonelleJones]

Hey Phil, I’ve been subscribed to you for a couple days and literally every video you drop since and the ones you have previously done SPEAK and PENETRATE in a different way. The videos are always RIGHT ON TIME for the season I’m experiencing in my life. THANK YOU for being a vessel and sharing the good news.

[@BabygirlCoutre1]

Thank you for your openness vulnerability and strength. Takes a strong spirit to be this transparent. Really enjoyed this talk~ Namaste 🙏🏽

[@dejashunte1415]

You spoke every way I always feel. Most people can’t relate but encountering someone who does is so refreshing and validating. Keep doing Gods work…it’s working ♥️

[@denisepalmer3732]

Amen you share that word of the Love and action of God in your life. You have stored up treasures in heaven where moth, corruption can't destroy it. Then Angela are rejoicing over you sharing the word of God with us. God Bless you son. You put me in the mind of Alan Crabb basketball player, my Pastor Frederick K. Price nephew.

[@lovingmenaturally3070]

This video moved me to tears, I’m sitting at my desk at work crying my eyes out! You truly are Godsent..thank you and may God continue to bless you🙏🏾❤️

[@CW_Photography]

He showed you that He dwells among you in your loneliness letting you know that you never alone with Him. His peace surpasses all our understanding. He sets His chosen one aside to prepare us for our journey with Him. I can relate!!!

[@kenadie-rayemckinney3882]

Praise God my brother keep doing what you doing, this video gave me the courage to start talking about God in my videos without feeling awkward because what others would think or say and it also gave me the confidence to just be myself infront of the camera. Peace be unto you and I love you my brother in Christ

[@trulyzaina]

Your channel is very inspiring, glad there are different and unique people still shining their light!! God bless you

[@soulfulrenia]

You have motivated me on so many levels! I started my channel because of you💕it’s amazing to see guys like you take care of themselves💕

[@a.3346]

Brother these are the best! Keep doing life talks! It’s needed! 💙

[@loisthomas5465]

Awesome. Regardless of what you're going through my brother, never forget God. You are an example to other men out there because alot of them don't believe there is a God. God Bless you. 💖❤

[@oliviamerzetti671]

Hey Phil , I recently found your channel and this video in particular stood out to me. I found myself feeling more connected and when you speak about 'God's way' and the 'worlds way', you put into words the way I've been seeing this experience on earth. This is all a journey and sometimes difficult to know what the right thing to do is, but understanding it's bigger than ourselves is key. Appreciate you and your videos. 😊

[@TyLegit]

Yes lord I started my journey today

[@airryssyah6984]

Such a beautiful message, sight to see. Thank God for your growth. It really heals others. You just don’t know how much.

[@TheMilliaC]

Thank you for sharing part of your walk with God. It really helped me to think about if I am actually being heartfelt when I pray to God. And it turns out alot of the times I am not. But thanks to you sharing those words, I will focus more with my whole heart.

[@despicableyt]

I’m about to enjoy this life talk so thanks for them Phil 🙌🏽

[@ShantoriaMarie]

Your courage to speak brought up a point that is near and dear to my heart. Your video is anointed and truly blessed me to listen. Thank you for reminding me to spend & seek true time with God.

[@zoebrienne.]

thank you phil for making these videos . honestly fr you’ve been helping me so much to just pick myself up and start doing better for myself . you motivate me to keep going and to do more to benefit me , and to also get closer with God . thank you so much !! wish you nothing but the best always .

[@kevinblount8725]

Man I admire how you submit to what is good and right and true. We are perfectly imperfect but running for the same race. At least we should be running the same race. Thank you for sharing. Many blessings to you on your journey.

[@Marie-et6fs]

Much love can relate to every word you spoke. Keep the messages coming, you just don’t know how much they help. Stay blessed and Stay Real.

[@millybadze2117]

This was such a touching and refreshing video!!! So refreshing to see a young man in this generation proclaiming their love for GOD🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Continue to be richly blessed!!!

[@christinac25]

I was meditating on Philippians 4:7 about the “Peace of God” today, and then watched this video. It surpasses all understanding, so much that it can initially scare us back into the world lol! Keep going, your life talks be spot on 🙏🏽

[@philcofer55]

crazy lol, the peace of God is tooo real

[@kdot96ix]

the authenticity in this video >

[@The_ONEAB]

The crazy thing is, as soon as I saw you on tik tok I immediately felt this exact vibe from you. Good head on your shoulders and understand a deeper aspect of life. Transformation is not easy and you absolutely have to walk a path alone for a while in order to transform your mind and then nod course your life follows. I love your content.

[@LipstickInMyCoffee]

So good. Your message blessed me. God is really using you Phil and it’s unfolding right before our eyes! Praying for you and your ministry as I know you’re going to touch and resonate with so many others. God bless! ✨🙏🏾

[@MichelleIsProsperous]

I was looking for meal prep ideas and one of your videos came up. Looked at your channel and something told me to click this video. I’ve been really struggling and I feel ashamed of going back to God with my problems because I haven’t really prayed much these past couple of months. This video really helped me. Thank you 😭

[@titi.s1592]

Thank you! May God bless you and continue to lead you towards the path He has for you.

[@philcofer55]

LOVE!, thank you for the donation! and may God continue to show you peace wherever you go!

[@blackdym8961]

This is a good word. Please keep it up. Thank you for sharing.

[@brianatreneilwe5387]

Phil please don't ever stop posting such videos.......🇿🇦🇿🇦much love all the way from South Africa!!!

[@foxxietrini]

Just came across your channel for the first time and it's really refreshing to see that as a young man you're choosing the faith walk and God is using you to relate to other young men like yourself and point them to Christ. God bless and keep you faithful. 🙏🏾

[@jya6544]

God bless you, you were born for this!

[@bRIOn909]

Phil, continue being a good hearted individual. You’re truly inspiring your viewers, and everyone around you. 👏🏾

[@KalDillard]

I agree with you 100%. Them notes help out tremendously.

[@philcofer55]

a fact!

[@tiffanylowery8065]

Much love Phil thankyou so much for washing our feet. We drink from our well JESUS and the overflow we receive, we wash each others feet ..it gets dirty and heavy in this walk of life. Thank you so much!!!

[@treasurewhatever]

Spirit speaks to us through our dreams. Hearing about your devotion and servitude to spirit is touching!!

[@sweettasmine]

Thank you Lord for Peace that Surpasses All Understanding. 🌱 Philippians 4:6: “Instead, in every situation with prayer and petition with thanksgiving, tell your requests to God. And the peace that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.” ❤️

[@keywill1728]

I only ever felt true loneliness was when I was living in America. As soon as I left the county for overseas I never felt loneliness again. I’m never coming back

[@paulamoreno6505]

I’m genuinely so blessed by this, the pureness of your heart really shows the love of Jesus. This video is honestly a blessing. May God continuously pour into you and may your light shine in this world for you are the salt of the earth. Appreciate you Phil!

[@Ghost-pe2tm]

The best notification to receive. God Bless Phil

[@reignydaez1052]

I’ve heard that we have to have the right posture!!! You basically said that though‼️

[@JluvChrist]

Glad the Lord is using you dawg we definitely need to stay in the prayer closet and in his word right now the world is getting crazy. Keep spreading the Love of Jesus Christ ✝️✝️

[@philcofer55]

facts man! getting crazyyy, we gotta get on his timing🙏🏽

[@beth4985]

Hello Phil, I'm a new subscriber. I love how you have a intimate relationship with God and can be so truthful and good expressing all your thoughts to the people. You are a true blessing and a wonderful man. You touched deep in my soul .Many blessings ,peace and luv to you friend.

[@NancyRamos]

Praise God🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 this was a good message. It’s never too late to start walking with God☀️

[@jazzmine1428]

Never came across your youtube until today but I love the vibes & agree with you 100% sir 🙏💛

[@prettyboydobbs]

Aye I’m in one of those times of feeling lonely after a bad breakup. Worst thoughts ever going through my head.But ur words and the way u explain spending time with god is gonna help me make it through. Thank u fr bro 🖤