life talk | stop worrying

[@philcofer55]

“don’t drop anchor when God is telling you to open up the sails”

[@lowkeytv2849]

Needed this bro thank you for sharing your story I lost my mom a while back and I worry sometimes too but faith in God can solve any worry

[@philcofer55]

@@lowkeytv2849 i know how it feel dawg fr fr, be a lot of up and downs but you going thank yourself for pushing through and believing God got better in the end 💯

[@144Mindz]

Thank you for your message!!

[@skwarlotentlife-172]

Yo g bless up your parents still here with you especially on a soul level if anything they made you think and act this way via forces of nature because everything is nature I see my grandma all the time there’s always this red cardinal I see when I go for walks around my neighborhood and I just know it’s here I’m spirit form or a piece of her was left here to guide me because my family thinks I’m crazy for thinking spiritually and meditating

[@ashantim.9678]

AMEN!!! 🙏🏽❤️

[@ItsNicckster]

“we suffer more in imagination than in reality.” *realized i was so much in my head that i wasn’t living in the present. thanks for this*

[@noneofyourbuizness]

We can unlearn this bad habit it take years to get rid of bad habits and trauma but its doable !

[@noneofyourbuizness]

@@thebrother672 well without therapy it make thing harder but you can start by learning more about traumas, like read books get as much knowledge as you can its the first step You gotta learn about journaling your fears or if you get in an anxious loop write your thought that are bothering you as soon as those comes up into your mind (writting in the morning is really really effective ) Writting your anxious though helps calming yourself. Mindfulness meditation or walk ( in forest, nature) and breathing exercice to reconnect with the present Consistency and patience Do not forget anxiety leads to depersonalisation !

[@lingud8002]

You are so right, how we suffer in our imagination, than reality. I ‘m alive but not living. I worry if I see my spouse look at another woman. I’m not the jealous type, I’m controlling. I would rather live alone than always thinking about him looking at a female. My control issues is for me not him, I’m not insecure, I just feel like it’s disrespectful. I don’t even know why I allowed something like this to live rent free in my mind.

[@ItsNicckster]

@@lingud8002 *i feel you on that. our own thoughts can be destructive but they aren’t who we are at all. i’m learning that living in the present is so much more powerful & healing cause your own worries in your head aren’t even happening in front of you. the more you focus on the moment and believe you can handle anything that comes up, the less stress you’ll have. takes time but all worth it*

[@thanagitlow939]

The thought of suffering is worst than the suffering itself

[@llamafr9432]

This video just made me realize how grateful should i be because I can't imagine my life without my parents

[@erikagaleana9340]

omg. same

[@tayadraper4780]

Knowing that there is men out there who are connected to source like this makes me feel safe and gives me the perspective that I will one day have someone who relates to me on a soul level.

[@Ohjustbrowsing]

This!

[@TysonMichael77]

Yes it will happen for you

[@laradara7175]

Honestly ❤️

[@thevillakhalifashow3109]

My father past away as well

[@Officialnurselexi]

Thisssss

[@yhwhal]

I am about 3 minutes in and already crying. This one hit home. I used to be so proud hearing " you are so mature for your age" or " wow, you're so independent", I don't see them as compliments anymore because I know what it took to built me like that. I spent my entire childhood and teenage years trying to fix and save the only parent that I had. My mom has been struggling with alcohol addiction and it took so, so many years from my life. Years of constaly worrying for her, for her safety, what if she dies, what if she hurts herself, then my safety. Constantly worried I'd be left alone in this world. It brought me so much pain. The hardest thing I had to do was to give it all to God. I realised no amount of begging, crying and pain could save someone who didn't want to be saved. I realised how little power I had. If I could let go of that I learnt to let go of anything else that I coulndn't control. God knows what he is doing. God knows what we need, when we need it and how we need it. He is such a good, good father...and he is NOT ressponsible nor is his will that people would hurt and disappoint us. When we learn this and the fact that He is GOOD and he is not the people around us, we learn to trust Him. And obedience/ surrendering and complete trust - are signs of maturity in faith. It takes time but He's got us. He will always be for us. Bless you and I appreciate you sharing this here,we relate.. you've got such a beautiful soul & I wish you all the best!

[@SpiritualSimon]

💯💯💯

[@tonawhitaker3416]

💗

[@zens8655]

Amen 🙏 yes❤

[@garcialove5930]

Amen🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@bRIOn909]

I used to hate the saying “Let go and let God” but it’s honestly the truest statement out there. All that worrying and fear only put me through a situation twice and once I realized that God was in FULL control, I tried to live my life with no fear or worry.

[@cutestuff59FR]

Agree

[@anonangel1938]

As someone non religious, I used to as well cuz I was like “oh boy here comes the preachers” but now I enjoy it and instead mentally switch “God” to energy/the universe/life/etc. it’s honestly a catchy and valid saying.

[@ellen2598]

Take it all, bad and good and give it to the Lord. Trust him to take care of it.

[@eboniecoty9978]

@@anonangel1938 I'm no longer religious either, I find it so odd how we hold on to something that not NAN one of us has actually seen ( God, Jesus, Budah, etc) But such is life, I don't even fully go with titles either energy/universe....... because at the end of the day words hold power; it could have a meaning that we blindly have no idea....I know that if I don't do- nothing will be... we holding on to religion so hard that it's kinda unreal but we been indoctrinated for at minimum 5 generations...

[@ohtedros9969]

I actually got chills n dropped a tear cuz this truly is what I'm going thru. I'll shine ✨️

Black man? Being Vulnerable? Nature? Self aware? A message? Believe in God? New Subscriber! 👍🏽❤️

[@GossipGyal1]

Yes!

[@chasethechosenone8478]

Being vulnerable with women is not a good idea and women have shown this through their actions

[@asacowherd4860]

Black man are always vulnerable in this nazi ass world.

[@spanigh9735]

@@chasethechosenone8478 if your in a relationship with a woman and can’t display a level of emotion you probably shouldn’t be fw her imo

[@chasethechosenone8478]

@@spanigh9735 I’m just saying that men aren’t suppose to be vulnerable with women

[@Gavi-144]

Currently in the worse 2+ years of my entire life. I've lost everything, literally. 36 years old, trying to find some kind of motivation to pick myself up and start again.

[@6inek829]

I believe in you

[@Gavi-144]

@@6inek829 thank you friend, I appreciate it

[@beastbossguy7]

you got this everyday is a new day with new opportunities

[@Gavi-144]

@@beastbossguy7 thanks brother I appreciate the words, you're 100% right👊🏾

[@soleaux]

keep your head up bro and you’ll find your way out, you got this❕

[@philcofer55]

alll love man, just from the comments, i see everybody tryna make a way, some way some how, we all in this mug tryna do the same thing, including me ! ain’t nobody different ! how i think is we mind as we’ll help each other all out, keep trusting God, and shake hands at the top ya digggg💯, God don’t forget his people no matter what it seem like.

[@TheKparker10]

& #Spoken like a #KING that’s been #Through it…. ❤️

[@djackson1812]

👏🏽🙏🏽

[@faebalina7786]

for real and struggle builds character so this is why many of the most reflective and humble people have a combination of reflectiveness and faith and have experienced struggle and hardship The Quran taught me to expect hardships but to keep faith in God and keep up with the worship when all you wanna do is succumb to the darkness and stop feeling. ‘And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the patient' Al Baqarah

[@jrstuz.]

Amen big motivation rite here 🙏💯

[@acct4600]

aint nobody different? idk man. this all sounds nice on paper, but some people just get dealt a better hand. what if you weren't 6'8" handsome & athletic enough to make the NBA? what if you were short, ugly, unintelligent, unmotivated, awkward, antisocial with a disability and/or bad genetics? 🤔like i said, some people just get dealt a better hand in life than others.

[@thisisit4666]

I’m Muslim and seeing Christians, or others who remain faithful and genuine during hardships warms my heart. I’ve been have a rough couple of weeks and this video made me less harsh on myself. Thank you 💗

[@AirKhan45]

I know we have a bunch of divisions, but im Muslim as well and I love my Christian brothers and relate to there experiences as well!

[@senseibowie1808]

❤❤❤❤

[@senseibowie1808]

MASHAALLAH

[@SF-op5ix]

Hope you’re doing better now! 💛

[@Thespellhasbeenbroken]

Maybe it's a sign from God it's time to switch over this side respectfully

[@cobiwood]

That’s real! 💯 “ Trust in the Lord with all your heart, do not depend on your own understanding; seek his will in all you do and he will direct your paths” proverbs 3:5-6

[@noellecannon1411]

Amen 🙏🏽

[@PrimeChosenOne]

❤️🙏🏾

[@Sunshine-lo6vd]

Amin

[@lesliehill555]

I can relate. My mom transitioned 12 years ago. My dad about 9 years prior. When mom transitioned, I was unsure of how I would live without her. I (temporarily) lost my certification, my job and my home. The biggest challenge was making sure my 4 sons were better than ok and they were. We went to church the following Sunday after Mom was gone and my sons wanted to be saved. They were baptized and I cried sooooooooooooooooooo hard. The Lord kept his promise when he said he would bless our household. I cannot live without God and I won’t. I pray we all make peace and find away to laugh about something EVERYDAY🙏🏾

[@milaj3958]

I can relate to this.. I lost both of my parents a year apart, my mom when I was 18 and then my dad when I was 19 from cancer. I got thrusted into adult hood and had to take care of myself.. I use to worry and have anxiety so much about how I will be able to function in this world without my parents.. I eventually learned to let go and trust God and he has always made a way for me

[@neverhungryagain2187]

Damnn

[@nicoprincaesar]

🙏🏽🙏🏽. That’s a lot praying for you to keep going strong sis God be with you always ☀️

[@destinedtosoar]

It’s crazy that I’m seeing this. Lost my mom to brain cancer last year. I’ve been anxious about losing my dad and wondering how I will survive without my dad. 🙏🏾

[@imsorryreacts]

It’s truly amazing that there’s other people out there who went through similar situations. Lost my mom 2019 to dementia. I was going through it, dropped out of college and started being mad stressed and depressed until God checked me in to the psych ward to get evaluated. Turns out I have the same symptoms my mom did, luckily I’ve caught it early at 26, instead of realizing it in my 60s. I now take medication, and I’m back on track. He works in mysterious ways. It’s a long road ahead but i can see the finish line. Easier said than done but i have faith that everything will fall in place. Thank you for sharing

[@grannysword]

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[@hannahchurch1553]

I literally was crying begging God on the way home to help me through the hard time I’m dealing with right now with loss, trust issues, anxiety, loneliness, etc. this video spoke to me on a different level. Thank you

[@kayjaythechildofgod7907]

Hey! I pray you’re doing well and things have gotten better by the grace of God!

[@smoothwill]

Hang in there I know it’s extremely hard and painful . I’m there now I lost my mom 3 years ago and my aunt this past July . You must keep mentally and emotionally forward or else the depression will become deeper and deeper . Much peace and love

[@strongwoman2668]

Your not alone🙏🙏

[@AfricanAmericanBeau]

I cry to god almost everyday about why I am constantly in pain. It’s hard…but I find joy in other parts of my life ❤❤. And I still thank god everyday for life

[@abrahammunoz3069]

ALL GLORY TO GOD 🙏🏽🙌

[@KeiaLB]

“I was failing so much because I was trying to do it my way” So true 🙏🏽 trusting God isn’t easy but I need to more. Thanks for letting God use you!

[@iamshaya]

I love seeing videos of black men opening up and expressing their vulnerable side and not show the tough side all the time. Your story will help many who don't know where to turn or how to deal with their trauma. Solute to you black king! Sending love and peace for you 💞

[@alyssal4617]

I am going through a lot mentally right now. Definitely a worrying thing. I forced myself to get out of bed today, go grab food, and sit at the lake. Then I opened KZbin just as a quick breather while I ate, and this popped up. Similar scenario. Needed this. Thank you!

[@rebeccal2888]

The same here, it’s been so rough mentally when you’re mind n body just feel so lost n hopeless.

[@manino7686]

I’m in the same situation right now, I’m glad I can relate to some people here

[@anag329]

Man. I love seeing young men that’s gone through difficult times but still have that self awareness and realization that growth is a process. Stay grounded. Blessings to you on your journey.

[@rebekahchooses]

“When you’re in the will of God, you’re not going to fail.” Not sure how this popped on my feed but definitely Needed this!!🙏🏼

[@betterman_me]

Very true. Just have to remember this when riding through the motions he puts us through. 🙏🏽

[@PrimeChosenOne]

Keep faith and always put God fisrt and hell lead you the right way path life. 💯💯💯💯

[@01naviii]

Bro The worrying kills me everyday feels like the chatter in my head jus gets louder n louder can’t just focus on what I want or what’s good I just get rushed with negative thoughts everyday start to feel so insecure n shit over nothing it’s a battle fr gotta remember I’m in control tho thank you for this brother🙏🫶🏽

[@eleashaeugenie]

So refreshing to know there’s males who also live and walk with God 🙏🏽

[@graciem6562]

Phil your remind me of my older brother. You talk just like him, use the same words, even twist your hair just like he does. I don't know where he is now. He had gone through so much in life and it took his toll on him. He had found Christ at some point in the past, but Satan just doesn't want him to have peace, and last I saw him it just seemed like he gave up on trying. We didn't have very much money and our parents were growing old, working jobs that made them work hard but earn so little. It stressed him out so much because he felt he had to provide for our family as the older brother that he turned to worldly things, hoping to find some success and comfort, when he should've just trust the Lord (easier said than done, believe me I know). But as you say, Jesus never promised that this life would be easy. So you are right, worrying is a waste of time. It doesn't bear good fruit. When I hear your words and how honest and humble you are about your faith and life experience, I think of him and imagine him having faith again. I wish he had a friend like you. I'm encouraged when I see youth like yourself pushing through and persevering with faith, especially when life is not easy. Especially when people around you don't understand why you do the things you do. This reminds me that I'm not alone. While you were talking, I was thinking of how you would make a great father and husband. I imagined your children sitting next to you. And then you mentioned that that was the desire of your heart. I pray that you will get these things you ask for, and more. That God would bless you, and that you would be there to support your family throughout their life and yours. God bless

[@Carla_theFLone]

I don't know why the algorithm put your video in my feed but it's so refreshing to see a young black man speak his truth and speak so positively and leading such a healthy and productive lifestyle. it is very much appreciated and I'm a new fan ✊🏾.

[@jennifera777]

"Doubt, fear, worry and anxiety are all the same." It's an illusion you have to let go, cast it on God because He cares for you."

[@sososeries763]

That’s crazy lost both my parents as well growing up as well. Dad was murdered & mother passed away from cancer .. so refreshing to be able to watch somebody who have similar background thanks my G💯

[@stephanogabanna]

Worrying really robs you of your moments now. I really felt that when you said I wish I didn't waste so much of my life worrying. This is the same reason why it's hard for me to recollect the past decade of my life. But I really had to almost lose my life to realize that ONLY GOD is in control. I'm really sorry you had to experience these things but it's all apart of the testimony and apart of how God was going to have you surrender.

[@the1andonly96]

This was great, its nice seeing young black men speak about faith, mental health and challenges they have faced throughout life. Love the content, im a new fan !

[@aakashailajan]

One simple way to face worry is to accept the worst that could happen and focus on what you can do to improve the situation. Let go of what you can’t control, and do what you can. And yes, praying everyday certainly helps. Prayer is a way to go inwards, God Is within you ❤️🙏🏼

[@briannachantae]

“Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he trusteth in thee.” - Isaiah‬ ‭26:3‬ ‭KJV‬‬ 🙏🏾🤍

[@philcofer55]

💯💯💯

[@AdamAlq]

Brother, this is crazy. I was literally constantly worried and anxious due to some issues relating to my small business. I just sat back in my chair with a sigh and opened KZbin and your video is the first one recommended! I really needed to hear everything you said - God clearly sent your video to me to comfort me and remind me to stop stressing over petty things! God truly loves us ♥️ 😢 May the lord shower you with his blessings! Amen 🙏🏾

[@Diamondjenee]

I was at my lowest today when I scrolled past your video…This really lifted my spirits. I so appreciate your message, thank you.

[@crystalbirch298]

Just found your channel an hour ago. My father passed away last weekend and my mind has been reeling. This soothed my spirit. I appreciate your testimony. Inspired to revise myself: body, mind, and soul. 🙂

[@gadson100]

God bless you and your family.

[@coughdrop650]

Much love❤

[@jackiewilliams4426]

That is the type of conversation I am tryna have with people. We need more people who are willing to be vulnerable and trusting with the Lord and others.

[@elisabeth5087]

Your story is really touching, move me to tears. I'm in the state of life where I feel lost and broken inside, but I still put my trust in God no matter what 🙏🏽

[@melaninmonroeeee]

Same , feeling the same . But that ls all we can do 🤎🙏🏾🙌🏾

[@madisonfabian5151]

the medicine must go deeper than the poison… a tragic event can sometimes help to show us things we have never seen before, physical or mental.

[@gssinc5333]

This vlog speaks to my spirit. I've been following this young man for a while. I can relate to being vegan and wanting a healthy lifestyle, following Christ and having fear surrounding a sick parent. For the last 6-7 years I've had fear around my mom's health. She was born sickly and was hospitalized several times a year. I was her caretaker and bestfriend. I dealt with a constant worry of whether or not my mom would wake up, the constant in & out of the hospital, constantly checking on her 100x a day. I couldn't enjoy being happy because I was fearful of her suffering because of her health. I believe I am suffering from PTSD after seeing my mom in the hospital, the monitors, the doctors, the nurses, the medication. She passed away last Monday and I have Phil's vlogs on repeat, provides comfort for me. Phil thanks for your content, it has comforted me to get through this dark time. I pray you continue to be a righteous man and an example to other black men.

[@winnumber101]

you can just sense the humility and transparency and I fr appreciate your story a lot man

[@melodiewooten5863]

Thank you for that testimony. God is still in control. BE encouraged. God saw me through a brain tumor. The trials we encounter, and the victory behind what we experience is to encourage others. Its hard, be encouraged. God is still will you we are VICTORIOUS!!!! I love you brother.

[@morganwilliamson13]

watching this w/ tears in my eyes. this is resonating so deeply. God is still good

[@jabulilemalise202]

I lost my parents in 2014 and still today I'm still trying to make sense out of everything and trying to stay strong for my baby sister, thank you for your channel. I came across this channel when I just decided to start over and heal.

[@CosmicSoul333]

As a psych major, I think it's great that you are using your platform to be vulnerable and to help uplift others. Mental health is crucial to our well being, and too often many avoid showing vulnerability or they repress "negative" emotions instead of addressing and working through them. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@jewellawrence4516]

Hey Phil, I wasn't sure at first but I believe I've seen you around in Fayetteville before when I was in high school, and always thought that this guy is so reserved and somewhat guarded. But you know as kids, you don't necessarily delve in too deep when it is not directly affecting you. However, listening to your testimony and seeing where God has brought you today is truly reaffirming to my walk with Him. We always think that we are the only ones going through hardships and tribulations, but the Bible states that as His children we are not exempt. Once we are motivated by fear, we will always fail because it is unsustainable. Always keep in mind that "The Word of God, like the character of it's divine Author, presents mysteries that can never be fully comprehended by finite beings. We have no reason to doubt God's Word because we cannot understand the mysteries of His providence." Our true purpose is to just worship Him and have our hearts available to be used for His glory. Thank you for story and God Bless.

[@thehealtrix]

Overcoming fear, doubt & worry has been a real struggle for me. So hearing your perspective is a great mindset shift for me…I’m definitely going to apply this wisdom✨I’m so glad God kept urging me to watch this vid I truly needed to hear this!!

[@AstoldbyCec]

The fact that this video came up on my timeline is no coincidence. Powerful. It's a God thing . God bless you 🙏

[@charlestonthomas7233]

Bro this is so weird....... I'm LITERALLY going through some shit and this randomly popped up. Blessings bro

[@philcofer55]

God don’t forget his folks 💯

[@KassieP-sf6nz]

This guy popped up on my KZbin feeds out of nowhere. I watch one video and fell in love 😍 He is the male version of me there's no way we have all these things in common.

[@gokalifestyle]

Damn this was good. Brutha I feel you. My mom died when I was 7 and my dad died when I was 20. My dad was a schizophrenic panhandler. I’m 27 now and looking at it all now it’s a fucking blessing, let’s go KING!!

[@divinelyraven7759]

Thank you sm.this week has been hard just thinking so much I dissociated for 3 days straight.this video helped

[@AminMuradTV]

Needed this today, definitely boosted my mood. This weekend got me in my feels and low mood

[@philcofer55]

keep dreaming big dawg, don’t get caught up with the now, things ALWAYSSSS change

[@musea7986]

You different my boy, respect for this. Ima get out and live.

[@Ashley-rp4ui]

This is so good. This randomly popped up for me. I resonate with everything you say. My parents died when I was young. My mom was sick with so many things when I was very young then my dad committed suicide 4 years after her death. It has been hard especially being a only child. When you said you went hard because you’ve already been through so much I feel the same. My butt got handed to me when I tried to do things on my own. When I let God things work out. This video gives me hope for a future husband. Thank you.

[@KingKong-nx7ti]

Inspiring Ashley, thanks for sharing this 🙏 you will meet an amazing guy 😃

[@pbufh]

Dude. Why would your dad kill himself knowing you'd have no parents and leave you an orphan Thsts messed up.

[@SAnderson54]

There's so much nonsense you could promote on this platform, but you choose to promote how good God has been to you. This video has blessed me, thank you. I hope you mentor youth because young men need people like you.

[@adordann]

thank you Lord for using phil and allowing him to be a comfort place for your people!! & thank you phil for letting God use you for His glory

[@mslove2913]

My son and I were watching this, God has a purpose and a plan for your life. Your mother was covering you to be in your right mind to help another when she/your dad left. You are such a Blessing in the times we are living in. You are doing right being healed by the power of your testimony and God will continue to draw souls through you and Bless you double fold. In Jesus Name🙏

[@Tiff_Tiff001]

praise the Lord for this beautiful testimony and words of encouragement this brought me to tears I want whoever may read this to know that the Lord has a “ BUT AFTER THIS” for your life weeping is for a season the sun will shine after this! This is very relatable I’m 21 and December 26, 2020 I lost my my father who meant the whole world to me but up to his death he was very very Sick many many health problems he was a diabetic i watched him suffer for yrs. as a child I would be so sad because My dad couldn’t be a father to me because he was very ill I was there through it all when he had both of his legs amputated when he lost his eyesight and several of his fingers removed he was broken to the core growing up I never seen him healthy. I’ve seen him hopeful and I’ve also seen hope taken from him waiting for a kidney for yrs until the day they told him that he has heart problems so the transplant was out of the question for him

[@frankiphoenix8699]

Healthy, emotionally aware Black men are an anomaly. Thank you for being so transparent 🙏🏾

[@omari484]

Thanks reminding me big Phil, I realizing that I was worrying about things I can’t control and asking myself why certain don’t go my way. I appreciate this video

[@philcofer55]

exactly dawg, waste of time, mind as well GO BIG AND THINK BIG, the worry just going keep you exactly where you at

[@mimi_x777]

Awww, the first phil cofer video I ever watched 🥰

[@TierraJaiAwakenings]

Feels like we're at the park with ya. It's so calming and grounding to hear your truth. Much Love❤️✊🏾✨and God Bless your Parents Souls🕊🕊

[@ramio1983]

I'm a Muslim Bro, lots of love and respect to you for being open and honest about your situation in life and trying to better people and bring them back to the spiritual as opposed to the material. Take Care Brother, keep inspiring.

[@newcreation9977]

@phil cofer, I do suffer with worry. I don't know how to stop. I do know deliverance is needed regularly as jesus's ministry was healing and deliverance. you are awesome. Keep up the good work

[@BeautifulCrazy2023]

I have been so worried about what could go wrong from pass trauma and failures. My anxiety kicks in and worry subdues me. Lord I thank you so very much for bringing me to this channel to help me along my journey. My days of worrying and doubting the Lord is over. Lord today I choose to let Go of things I cannot change and I place all my worries in your hands.

[@isabeleligino3923]

Just found your channel, and before I did, your encouragement was needed. I watched two of your videos briefly, and the way you carry yourself, the courage you have about sharing your faith is beautiful. Thank you.

[@moriahdunsing2913]

I can't wait to shake your hand in heaven man. God bless you & all you're doing for the Kingdom.

[@fourstepevangelist]

I love your heart brother and totally resonate with your experiences. God bless you and continue using your life as a testimony for him in these dark and difficult times. Stay blessed by the best!

[@QueenOfPrinciple]

If I could give this 1,000 I would!! I loved all of it. Everything you’ve endured, lived, and made it thru made you the man you are today. The man that makes me want to be a more light, calmer and peaceful person. Thank you.

[@knowingone1784]

Yes, worrying can cause sickness. Thank you for sharing and showing vulnerability and your human side. I'm glad you've gotten closer to Our Creator as a result of your early family life. Keep standing in truth & love! 💕

[@candaceellis8371]

It's when we're encouraging others that we end up encouraging ourselves. That's how God’s Word works.

[@KelisiaMorrison]

I’m proud of you for pushing through on your journey. This was a great message and much needed 💜. May God continue to bless you and bring peace upon you in every area of your life.

[@ninabeauxbina]

As someone who has recently lost both parents, this video was definitely for me! I've been going thru a lot of changes and just getting the reminder to stop worrying is exactly what I needed! Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing this video! God makes no mistakes ;)

[@aboundingpassions2430]

Your moms story is very similar to my moms. To where she had a mental breakdown and was in and out of hospitals and wandering through the neighborhood . She’s getting better now but keep us in prayer. I don’t hold on to my negative emotions but it’s a battle still

[@SaDominique]

This definitely speaks to me, I’ve experienced the same things growing up and I really do think it’s why I have constant anxiety and worry about my health and my parents health. It can really be debilitating, as I grow up I’ve realized that growing my relationship with God is the only thing that can honestly help. Thank you for this message !

[@leah_wash_]

Be encouraged!!! This is a divine purpose from God!!!

[@stasia9904]

You are a natural preacher, please continue spreading the Word 🙏

[@godsway8501]

💯💯 Change is hard man, Definitely pulling through, Healing and at the Ultimate factor truly is the best part just becoming a better version each day in and day out… Keep your head up Brother 💯✊🏾🤎✌🏾🏁

[@Russianbeau]

Phil. Honestly I appreciate how solid you are with God. The conversations, the reference to scripture, the honesty with your relationship with God.. solid. Grow deeper with him, he is our firm foundation and everything is orchestrated by him. He deserves all praise no cap, no pretense, no shame. Proud of you.

[@lexiitownsey3906]

Man I’m sitting here praying talking to god , asking him what is it that I need to know and Boom , I see your video pop up , so many people can relate to your growth with yourself and with god .. I’ve been on my journey aswell and Thankyou for this word from god like foreal . God blessed

[@shayacampbell4330]

Wow. Your story really resonated with me. When I was little, one of my younger brothers passed away from cancer after he fought it for nearly a year. My family and I were always in and out of hospitals to get him treated. Watching him suffer during that time created a lot of anxiety, worry, and fear that still torments me at times, but through much prayer and guidance from God, I've come to a much better place than I was before. I have learned to place all my worries and burdens on God, since He has total control over the future and not me, and I trust His judgment. Thank you so much for sharing your story. I know you don't know me, but please know that I'm proud of the strides you've made to overcome this mountain. I know that it is no easy task.

[@kayvonw]

Real talk bro, keep seeking God in all that you do 🙏🏽… this just inspired me fam 💯

[@dannya5076]

thanks for sharing phil, thank god I'm not the only one with a troubled past. I find it really therapeutic hearing you talk about family and mental health - its a privilege and a blessing.

[@anthonyterry7316]

Phil I respect your transparency and vulnerability bro the message was on point 💯

[@backtothebasics1598]

The fact that he said he's trying to break the cycle in his family. I totally agree brother. Ppl dnt understand the struggle, the pain, the loss that comes with walking with God. Just know God always been thr in your corner even when u thought he wasn't. I had to endure through a lot in my life and reading the bible and getting to know Jesus for myself and going through test and trials really built my character to know when the storm comes I'm protected because the God I serve and my life is in his hands. Doubt, fear, anxiety is not of God. So I focus on his goodness and everyday he allows me to wake up it will be a good day no matter the circumstances may look like. Blessings to u brother stay close to God he all we got.

[@Mookayla._]

thank you. i pray that God gives you the strength you need to get through today. take it one day at a time.

[@12aw]

Not only do you have to trust in god but you also have to trust your intuition ☯︎ Tap in and listen to your intuition guys

[@zhynoahmedy2190]

This made me feel safe. It felt like I was sitting across from you and talking to a friend. This was much needed..

[@shervonne_arts]

I love this so much. Thank you for sharing and helping not only young men but women also. Blessings to you ❤

[@FoWardTrip]

Thank you for trusting us with your information bro. We hear you and we may not all went through the same situation but we all are suffering in some way. God is real ! 🙏🏾

[@iamstaltari]

i was 17 when i lost my mother two years ago, my whole life stopped. the shock of losing someone so important to me broke me mentally. memories from before her passing are faint now, i still deal with the grief but i try to block it and not to think about it so much. my mother died from alcoholism, in the back of my mind i knew it would eventually take her life, and i tried to get her sober, i didnt realise that after so many years of drinking that dependency would actually form, which made it harder for her to get sober. what hurts the most is that ill never see her sober again, the thought of not seeing her get better hurts. (not to make this about me), i still deal with regret and the thought of all the things and action i didnt take; missing a phone call, not visiting her, cancelling a plan. id do anything to get those moments back. she was 51. thank you phil for making this video, everyone goes thru their own personal hell, you observe and learn from it and come out stronger and wiser than before.

[@1ofgodswarriors531]

Facts bro I wanna give my kids the childhood I never had or dreamt of growing up omm 🤲🏽 that really resonated with me

[@chynabarnescb]

Sometimes in life u can be trusting God and be worrying and not realize it. That’s my prayers now to stop and be better for my kids. Especially when u a single parent it comes out of no where.. Thanks 🙏 for sharing your story..

[@Michelle-oc6iw]

5 mins in and I already appreciate this video reaching me can’t wait to receive the message ❤️

[@josephfleming5000]

To God be the glory. This helped me. Faith is indeed the answer. Health and wellness includes not being overcome by worry, doubt, fear and anxiety plus negative thoughts.

[@Jacqueline967]

True

[@lizapiza1576]

Your content is so encouraging, and that includes the vlogs and fashion videos too. Just to see you living, chilling, enjoying and expressing yourself is a living testimony. It's beautiful when you can uplift so many ppl just by doing you, man. Thanks for the content & the reminder 👌💜

[@prestonmoore9996]

I knew as soon as the video popped up, my higher self sent me this for a reason. Then when the video start I could tell you had knowledge through your demeanor. Your appreciated brother.

[@vernelljohnsonjr.5363]

Thank you Phil, I didn’t know I needed to hear this but you really spoke something that resonates with me. 🙏🏾 the marathons continues and God has his hand on you fam

[@tcggggg]

“What if it go right” such a simple ass quote has answered so many questions for me

[@GSTim14]

Your mom story was exactly like my moms. She has schizophrenia. It is way worse now but I still be praying

[@usisiphoqamata]

I remember this video rundomly coming up on my feed 9 months ago. I was struck by the caption cause I needed to hear the words "stop worrying". Back then I was struggling with my health I was near living this earth, I would wake up each day wondering how I woke up and losing the will to live. But my God showed up through this video and gave me so much peace and strength. God always has a plan and no matter how much pain we going through he will never let us slip. Your words truly uplifted my spirit. Back when I was watching this video I had no strength to even type, but I am back here 9 months later to say Thank You for the hope you've restored to plenty who've watched this video and your channel. May God continue revealing himself through you 🙏🏽❤️

[@rahuldeepsingh5218]

Hey Phil this is the best advice I've ever received from someone, you are right that we sometimes started doing god's job like started predicting our future which ended up having worries and anxiety. I will try my best to be a better man. Thanks for the motivation though. God bless you b.

[@visualizetheunexpected2200]

Thank you for this creation Phil❤ Peace & Blessings brother🙏🏿

[@elijahcordell5208]

I appreciate u being open bout your struggles it helps a lot of people including me. Thanks for the message bro 👊🏼