Life Update: I Got Married

[@karenwelsh6094]

There is no denying the love you have for Maddy and we are so grateful for everything you did for her to help her fight the fight. She wanted you to find happiness, and Jessica was the answer. Wishing you both, and those sweet children, a lifetime of happiness. ❤

[@ChandlerDavidSmith]

Thank you so much, Karen! Love you!

[@yogi.myers.]

Love you guys Karen ❤️❤️

[@linak7155]

Jessica has known a devastation that not many of us will ever know. Good things come to those who have open hearts. The children have meshed so well together❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 +❤️❤️❤+❤️❤️=🤍

[@RABPWarrior]

I feel your joy 🥹 congratulations

[@sandrabowman8935]

God bless you and Congratulations. Prayers and love for you and your new bride❤❤🙏🏽

[@lizdocabo]

He met someone who also went thru a big loss. Who also had children and also deserved a second chance at love. We need to have more grace for both of them

[@star_baker]

@@nunyabusinessbro8527it’s not your life, how you feel doesn’t matter 😂

[@gamingtastic4516]

⁠​⁠​⁠@@star_bakerdid anyone say it mattered? But people can feel the way they want, stfu lol

[@vaughnaferrerpalmer4544]

@@beepbop416 oh one day someone you love will die then you may not be so judgmental then !

[@YourLocalRod3nt]

@@beepbop416 it’s not your job to tell someone how to grieve. People can move on quickly if I were to die, I would want my partner to experience that again, so they won’t die alone no matter how quickly they move on.

[@danielle5980]

​@@beepbop416 Totally agree with you.

[@ngashua]

I’d like to imagine that Maddy and Tyson met up in heaven at a coffee shop or something and conspired to put Chandler and Jessica together. ❤ Wishing your family well! Edit: Some of you people are miserable. If you don’t agree or aren’t religious/spiritual/ atheist that’s you. It is what it is. If you don’t agree, keep scrolling! it’s really that simple. Stop spreading negativity especially on a video as personal as this one.

[@alexandria65]

Ummmm WHAT LMAOOOOOO

[@ngashua]

@@alexandria65 Just feel the vibes lol

[@ChaoticEagle0301]

Came here to literally say the same!

[@NOONE-ut3pl]

Who’s tyson

[@icebeargamingrobloxd981]

@NOONE-ut3pl Tyson was Jessica’s husband that also passed away.. his name is mentioned in the video

[@KimWatson-e1m]

I lost my older sister when she was 29. She had 2 young children. Her husband remarried 7 months after her death. At first I was hurt by the short time span. I came to realize that while I was grieving, I still had a spouse. I still had that person and that support. My brother in law went home to an empty house. He went home to raise 2 little people that needed a mom. Life is short and we need to allow people to move forward however that looks. I have come to realize that the best compliment to me would be that my husband would have loved our marriage so much that he would want to do it again if I were gone. My hope is that if I go first, he would remarry soon and that he would have an amazing second chapter. That's really what it is, a second chapter to a beautiful life. It doesn't take away anything from the first chapter. It is just a continuation . Best of luck and live your 2nd chapter well.

[@KimWatson-e1m]

I'm so sorry for you loss and experience. I think women do things differently. It takes us longer to process it all. The other thing is that a loss after a prolonged illness is different than one that is sudden. You have the time to start the process and to talk out what the future looks like. Again I just know that people have to grieve their own way. I don't think there is a right or wrong way. Just a your way.

[@CherylAnderson0]

I am very happy for you.

[@scopeyourpeace3975]

@@ihndz9824you need to understand that every person is different… I fully understand both perspectives. You just need to be understanding that everyone is different and that there is not wrong from right… That’s the beautiful thing about people… Everyone is different. You should really try to be more understanding of that. I know if I were ever to pass away, I would absolutely want my wife to find someone new that could help her to raise my son as quickly as she is ready… I wouldn’t want her to ever feel alone and sad for any stretch of time. I know I would never not be missed or not be loved by my wife or child. I would always only want what is best for them and their happiness

[@ggrace1133]

Yes, thank you for sharing your experience. I hope your sister likewise found someone to be with on the other side too so she’s not lonely without her husband and children from this side here. Heaven wouldn’t be heaven without loved ones.

[@ttinkers1062]

Such a beautiful statement.

[@mayyace]

I was shocked that he got married so soon after Maddy's death, but I listened. It's horrible what happened to his new wife and it's horrible what happened to him, they're both still alive and with kids, they deserve to be happy and I'm sure Maddy would've wanted this tbh. I'm so happy for them and their children.

[@mayyace]

I'm so, so happy for his kids.

[@Walterskidsaccount]

They need a mom and it's what Maddy wanted

[@mayyace]

@@Walterskidsaccount You're right. And it's lovely that his kids now have more siblings!

[@karisolem2791]

No judgment, just love. That's what this AMAZING man needs & deserves! He has been through enough... Sounds like you loved Maddy alot & if so, then you already know she would want Chad to be happy once again...Love is all we get to take with us when its our time! That's why love is so important. ❤

[@elainefournier7376]

Wooh! Sick at home and found "Maddy's last year", and cried and was so sad. Then clicked on your channel and found "Life Update: I got married", and cried again! Amazing, amazing, amazing. So positive, full of hope, sad, devastating, and, and, and.... Those two videos bring lots of reflections, and inspiration, at this time of my life. Thank you. You spoke very well, and the pictures were so enjoyable. I am happy for all of you 7! Thank you.

[@ClarasVersion13]

Same!

[@andyvaldez212]

"live it for the kids, and before you know it you'll be living it for you again"...........damn that was a powerful statement.

[@EGGSHEERAN35]

As I read it he said it😮😮😮

[@NicoLanes]

Agreed ❤

[@leftfinned]

for me as well. That’s deep.

[@stephanielounsbery8492]

She was right though

[@GodsDaughter1984]

Extremely powerful ❤

[@HeatherRose2023]

I lost my sister to a car accident the same year my ex left and divorced me. Was dealing with significant health issues (undiagnosed celiac disease) during all of that. Two years later, I lost my mom suddenly to cancer. Two years after that I lost my job due to the economic downturn in the industry. It’s been 10 years and I am still struggling. Loss and grief suck.

[@kyoshikikresnik6972]

Keep standing tall. I do not know the pain and difficulties you are and have gone through, but know that you are doing the best and that there are always others that will be there for you. I cannot say more since I am not in your footsteps, but keep standing tall and be proud, be happy, and love yourself and those who love you.

[@Divine_ot]

❤❤

[@sabusk7415]

God bless you, keep pushing ❤️

[@angelanorton5975]

You are a warrior queen! To have gone through all of that and still be standing....you may not know how you are doing it but you are! Sending you love, hugs and all my good wishes and thoughts for better things ahead 💕

[@christinenightingale336]

God bless you and your beautiful children and new wife. 🥲🙏♥️

[@NickM11561]

Holy shit. Losing every male in a family is beyond sad. Im glad you met each other.

[@Monica-hv4rf]

That's what happens in my family. Every single male on that side gets prostate and colon cancer and dies. The newer generation doesn't go to the Drs and seem to be healthy. (Newer gen in their 60's now)

[@EricaWasilkowski]

Bro Therese’s kids

[@jovitarich7078]

I hate small airplanes….very dangerous I think

[@kcm7134]

My mom died from cancer when I was 7 and my dad remarried a year later. Unfortunately, I think it was mostly because he was overwhelmed working and caring for two small children and needed help. Theirs has been a tough marriage and my stepmother and I have never had a close mother-daughter relationship. However, things got better once I was an adult and no longer living at home. They have now been married for 45 years and will both turn 81 this summer. 🙂

[@erinclearwater3620]

I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s hard to have a little one. I lost my husband when my kids were 16 and 7.

[@adredsox79]

Wow i was trying to figure out the headstone on the other women ex husband. Is she to be burried there or is that gor a diff meaning. Im not sure. Being very serious no ill intention with asking.

[@TheePrincessBrat]

Most men can’t handle things like this on their own and will rush to move another woman in or remarry. How he was going to handle the kids was one of his concerns so it’s not very surprising. It’s a common pattern with single fathers, whether they became single through divorce or death

[@arualstarr]

My mom died when I was 8, and my dad was engaged within 6 month…married just over a year later. My step mom did not like children and had no business coming into a home with 2 kids who had already been through so much. Honestly lucky for me, my dad passed just over 4 years later, and I got to live with my Aunt for high school instead of that witch. I do miss both my mom and dad, but he was selfish to rush into a new marriage and not even seek therapy for his children.

[@vf8653]

When I saw the thumbnail, my first thought was also judgmental, how fast! But after watching the video, it's so clear that this was meant to be.It's such a beautiful example on how life takes, but also gives. I am so happy for your and all those beautiful kids, able now to fill some of that empty space losing a loved one leaves, with more love ❤️

[@mitzimoore3068]

Hearing you explain what you went through after Maddie died, and rightfully so, and then getting to the point of marriage in 1 year, I sure cant understand; HOWEVER, I do SINCERELY wish all of you the very best!

[@RearviewWisdom]

I read through these comments before watching the video and I also came to this video for clarity as well. But I’m not sure what isn’t there to understand. These two families in all their pain FOUND each other. These kids found each other. Everyone (including the kids) were on ONE accord. Regardless of how quickly it unfolded, my heart bursts in gratitude that they now all have each other. This is a blessing, we all should be able to SEE that.

[@ericnelson9100]

​@RearviewWisdom there's no mention of love or romance

[@RearviewWisdom]

@@ericnelson9100 Then you clearly weren’t paying attention.

[@ericnelson9100]

@RearviewWisdom there is no love or romance in mormon marriages; it's all about good stock an whether they're in the same social and economic class, nothing more

[@nicofelie]

@@ericnelson9100that’s so ridiculous to say. I’m not Mormon but I live in Vegas and go to St. George often - they are some of the most loving families you will meet. Horrible thing to say…they aren’t animals.

[@izzymoon7648]

Reading the title, I was skeptical. But listening to your experiences made me understand your actions, desicions and I completely agree with you. I think that both you and Jessica loved your respective late spouses but you found peace and support with one another. It's not wrong to find comfort and love with someone who understands your pain and can heal with you. Feeling guilty is a very normal part of grief. Bit just know they'd want you to be happy. Not only is this relationship beneficial to you and Jessica, but it's very beneficial to the kids. Growing up with the weight of such a tremendous loss will be difficult. But having a unit that will understand and help you in you in those low times will be more important than you can imagine. This doesn't mean that Maddy and Tyson will be forgotten. They were both wonderful souls and will not be left behind. They will always be special to everyone in this family, and they are not just a part of the past. They are not being replaced. These two families who lost members find solace within each other and they can honor and continue to love said members alongside each other. There are many negative comments here, which don't make sense to me. They're not in this position and they shouldn't be bringing negativity to family trying to heal. Keep your rude opinions to yourselves please. It will do nothing and benefit no one, so there's really no point. To the both of you, dont take these comments to heart. Do what you believe and know is right for yourselves and your family regardless of what others say. That being said, I wish all seven of you happiness, peace, and comfort. And most of all, I hope you keep Maddy and Tyson close to your hearts because while they may be gone from this earth, they will forever live on inside this family. ❤️‍🩹

[@godwineffiong4301]

Thanks for this beautiful comment. Their unique life experiences brought them together and I love it

[@mama2boys123]

I worked on oncology and cancer patients in homecare. I'll say they touched my heart. There was a time driving that l broke down for a big cry. It was holiday season and everywhere l drove was taking me by homes of patients I'd lost. All l could think was all of the tables that would have an empty seat. I'm thrilled you had the courage to love again. I agree that Maddy and Tyson were in cahoots up in heaven. Well played angels, WELL PLAYED! ❤❤

[@rmilkyswife]

You are probably right because it sounds to me like Andi and Wren would have lost both parents because I think he was probably ready to kind of end it. At the end of the day we are all humans holding on for dear life trying to make it through life.

[@JAMESFERNANDEZ]

For me personally, it would be too many things happening in just one year but each person has its own way to grief and different timings to process everything with inner self. Hope you'll find peace and emotional stability with your new life partner. Moments are the only thing that matters in this journey.

[@Foxie770]

When you have kids, they bring you out of your own shell and back into the reality of life. That is the beauty of children, they are the truth and the future.

[@TheSolver-PR]

I'm with you on that... heal and learning how to deal with one-self and surrounding is the foundation. Many emotions are still settling in such a short period of time (look at him... still breaking in the grieve). Hopefully it goes great for him.

[@jenniferhonohan4278]

Agree 100%. I am a widow so I don’t have to imagine. My head is not be where it should be to fully engage with someone else within a year or even shortly after. But that’s me. To each their own. I wish them the best.

[@MeetKevin]

Our entire household is so happy for you and your family, Chandler! We love you all!!!!

[@ChandlerDavidSmith]

Thanks so much Kevin! Thanks for all your help through everything!

[@nothin9891]

@@ChandlerDavidSmith7months? Married already? Nah idgaf what the excuses are. No need to get married right away to someone you don’t know truly until year 2.

[@lovemypurple7406]

@@nothin9891 he cheated on his wife.

[@djcalisucks]

@@lovemypurple7406it’s not necessarily cheating. maddy would’ve wanted him to find happiness. and jessica just happened to be the answer.

[@brothertn708]

@@lovemypurple7406are you serious? How do you know?

[@trishthedish2790]

Chandler I have watched you for a while now I lost my husband 4 years ago with bone cancer I’m 54 an I don’t think I can ever remarry but I’m so excited for you God Bless!!

[@Amber-dx6dy]

It will happen to you again one day. God Bless you

[@TeeNicole10]

GOD’S WILLING 💕🙌🏼🙏🏽

[@GameTime-yj6qv]

Men are more likely to remarry than women after their spouse dies. Age plays a role too as younger people are more likely to remarry than older people.

[@carla5830]

I feel the same way as you do. My husband died 7 months ago, suddenly congested heart failure, he went into hospital on Tuesday and was gone Thursday evening, I am devastated, no one can take my beloved husband's place, I am only 60 years old.

[@freckhefner4019]

he remarried because you have to understand something. The pain is being alone. He didn’t wanna worry about anymore to everybody. Grief is different. You know we have different ways of looking at things. I don’t necessarily agree with it either. What is the man supposed to do? Sit in the corner and cry she would want him to live his lifebecause we want to acknowledge the truth or not she’s never coming back. It’s just the way life works.

[@blake2492]

Chandler, I have been rocking with you for years, through the tear downs, the evictions, the new properties, the cars, all of it. Watching you go through this life battle was so hard to watch, yet so inspiring. You are such a strong, patient, humble, and grounded guy. I know I don’t know you personally, but I can honestly say I am super proud of you, and happy for you. You deserve it! Congratulations to you both! God bless you and your new family! 👊🏼

[@ChandlerDavidSmith]

Thank you so much! This is such a kind genuine comment!

[@UrbexTex]

@@ChandlerDavidSmithHappy for you and Jessica mate! Your children will always have love for Madalyn, and love for Jessica…

[@staceyvitale]

I just came across your tribute video for Maddy and sobbed for your loss, she was amazing. Then I saw the thumbnail for this video and was elated! What a beautiful bittersweet story, that really has only just begun! How special. God Bless you all…you all deserve every bit of happiness!

[@meganiles7899]

I love this!! For you both to have amazing spouses, to tragically lose them, then to find each other - it's just beautiful. So many people have such painful, unfulfilling, and disappointing marriages... I am so happy you all found each other.

[@cindiegrimm5983]

How wonderful!!! I've been a widow for nearly 15 years, after being with the love of my life for 41 years. I was 57 when he died, and just felt I was too old to start over. I have to say, I regret those years I lost 'stuck' in grief and not letting myself out. I've spent the last 13 years telling people with loss that grief never goes away, it just changes. That the open wounds tend to toughen with scars we will always carry, but we learn to move forward. I am so very happy for both of you and those beautiful children. You have 2 guardian angels watching over you and cheering you on. If you had gone first, this is what you would have wanted for them. LIFE . God Bless and BE HAPPY!

[@AllDayRayRay]

I can't imagine losing the majority of the men in my family, all at once. Brothers, cousins, father, grand father... That's insane. What a strong woman. Your family looks like it blends so well together! Congratulations.

[@catworld8119]

I completely agree! I don't know this man or his family but just from this video, I feel these two adults who tragically lost loved ones far too soon, had some heavenly help to find each other. Whether or not people believe in that, I feel Tyson and Maddie were guiding the way. :-) Looking at the blended family, I cannot see whose kids are whose. They all look like Daddy and Momma! Such a great story and a beautiful family.

[@TeeNicole10]

🙏🏽

[@TeeNicole10]

WOWWWWWW I DONT EVER WANT TO IMAGINE WHAT JESSICA AND HER FAMILY ARE GOING THROUGH😔💜🙏🏽

[@westcoastbred7745]

How couldn't it? They're all white , they blend easy😂

[@Godislovedayany5098]

@@westcoastbred7745what

[@desig23]

This is beautiful. I’m so happy for all of the children involved.

[@ad6417]

My aunt became a widow with 2 very young children back in the 60s. She remarried within 6 months and she stayed married to my uncle for almost 50 years. They both died last year.

[@lynnkayee1015]

Yes, it happens. My grandma was with a man for about 6 years, she waited for him while he was off at war and they decided to wait a little bit for him to "heal" before they were going to marry. Sadly, he was in devastating car crash that decapitated all 3 occupants of the car. My grandma met some of his friends at the funeral and married one about 4 months later. They stayed together 30 years and had 2 kids before he died of cancer. So some people can move on quickly even if they loved the other person very much. Some people can't move on at all. We should try not to judge.

[@sulbamt7622]

Que descansen en Paz😞❤️

[@bonnierickards6973]

Congratulations ❤! Am so happy for you🎉 My husband passed away at 31 yr’s old after a softball injury! My children were 7 and 9. It’s been 47years. Never remarried, but always have been blessed with 3 grandchildren.! So happy for you and know you will have a wonderful life together!❤️

[@TeeNicole10]

BLESSINGS 🙏🏽

[@collinb1892]

Holy shit... What kind of softball injury caused that?

[@theSatanist]

Chandler, your courage to share such a profoundly personal journey is truly commendable. The way you've articulated Maddie's enduring spirit and optimism amidst such daunting challenges is deeply moving. Her resolve to stay positive and present has clearly touched many lives, including those of us who only know her through your words. It's evident that Maddie's legacy continues to inspire and guide you and your children. Your ability to rise from the ashes of grief, embracing hope and gratitude as Maddie wished, is a testament to the strength of the human spirit. Thank you for reminding us all of the power of resilience and the importance of cherishing every moment with our loved ones. Keep living your life with the same tenacity and love that Maddie showed every day. Your journey gives others the courage to face their own trials with a hopeful heart.

[@ChandlerDavidSmith]

Thank you so much!

[@kaden56]

Hell ya man I’m so happy for you! Those kiddos have a bright future after your tragic loss because of the outlook you chose to have. You are killing it!

[@ChandlerDavidSmith]

Thank you so much for this comment! Means the world!

[@justinev7846]

Ever since you started sharing Maddy and her story, I felt so drawn to her, she seemed like such a kind soul and you are so lucky to have found a love like that and to find love again. Many congratulations, wishing your family all the best

[@averyvery18]

I hope the kids are in therapy. Best of luck

[@Nancy-w1f]

I feel I need therapy just as a subscriber. I imagine the poor kids.

[@averyvery18]

@@Nancy-w1f yeah. It's a lot to go through. Things are happening too soon and too fast for their young minds to comprehend. They need guidance to navigate those big emotions and answer the questions they might have.

[@myyoutubeaccount12111]

Before watching the video, I judged the timeline but I'm happy for you and your kids as well. God has really had mercy on both of you and given you each other. Congratulations.

[@Oyimtalkingtoyou]

That's so beautiful!!! I was crying watching your other video just a few days ago .. then this one came into my feed. What a gorgeous, wonderful place you now find yourself. I'm.so happy for all of you in your new journey. God bless you ❤

[@dawsonlinde9542]

This video has me in tears. There are not enough like buttons. In world full of division and self-numbing, this vulnerability and leaning into grief and suffering and finding hope and restoration is a story we all need to experience more. I subscribed to your channel because I have a few rentals, but this wisdom and perspective blows away all investment advice you’ve ever given. Blessings to you, stranger. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@ChandlerDavidSmith]

This comment means so much to me

[@sherylcarruth1332]

What a nice comment.

[@lovemypurple7406]

@@ChandlerDavidSmith huh I really thought you loved her so much but as they say what goes into the wash comes out the rinse!!!! You fall in and out of love so easily!!!!

[@SenpaiChief]

@@lovemypurple7406 chill

[@KayGua]

@@lovemypurple7406shut up

[@NS-lx4hx]

I had a cancer scare a few months ago..I got very I'll fast; i was also first trimester pregnancy.. I told my husband when we came home from the ER( the doctor did a scan and thought I could possibly have lymphoma cancer the doctor said older moms (41) risk of cancer gos up. I need to see a specialist the next day) that night in tears😢and very terrified ..i told him that if I have cancer 😢 ..I won't do any treatment (bc the pregnancy) ...and that if I am to die please get married right away😢! I was extremely upset! I can't put words to it! .... But I knew I didn't want him to be alone the rest of his life. The initial next appointment the specialist wanted me on heavy steroids..( to reduce the swelling) but I needed approval from the pregnancy doctor for the meds .. The next day after was our first ultrasound! ( I was very swollen & in pain) They saw the baby had no heartbeat 😭..(I was so sick and felt I was nearly choking bc of my swelling in my neck)they scheduled emergency D&C😢. And I was on the highest dose of steroids they could give me ...we went through the loss of the baby & still me very I'll & not Knowing exactly what I had for shure.. then after seeing a head and neck specialist and some weeks past & medicine.. It was clear i did not have lymphoma.. but an issue w my glands that would resolve over time. I'm thankful and grateful to be here but it was the most painful physically mentally and emotionally spiritually I ever had in my life!! I wanted the best for my husband and I wanted him to enjoy his life if I were to go. No one wants to go! No one wants to even think about it! but it was the first thing I told him that night after the ER if I ever was to die. he knows my wishes for him to have a blessed life if I die. I have also told family my wishes for him if anything happens to me. I love him ❤ We are going to celebrate 24 years of marriage this year.

[@atlantidamaldonado7115]

God bless you sweet soul 😢

[@buggy627]

I’m so sorry, I lost my daughter in the same way. ❤

[@catherinelange5109]

I think this is the best news. I love that you are not just moving on and shutting the door on your old lives but moving on and being happy whilst still honouring your past loves. It sounds like your children will gain too and have the chance to be part of a bigger loving family. Wishing you both a long, wonderful marriage where your losses become happy memories woven into new happiness for your whole family x

[@Arae48]

Chandler, I’m so happy you found someone to share your journey with. I don’t doubt for a minute that Maddie and Tyson brought you both together. What a beautiful blessing for all!

[@StaceyPhillips-p1h]

Congratulations! It sounds like Maddie & Tyson brought you two together. May you live a long, happy life as a family of 7. 🙏🏻

[@linak7155]

I came across your channel a while back and sobbed with you. Maddy died, and you were so broken. You have now climbed back out❤ So wonderful you have chosen life. Your Maddy was a beautiful young woman who knew she was dearly loved 😍

[@Renee1207]

It takes so much courage to share your personal story publicly. You have articulated your journeys so delicately. Maddy and Tyson aligned your families to come together for a new chapter of lifelong support and love💞You all deserve it! All the very best!

[@Logan532]

Hello Chandler I Know I do not know you but you literally made me cry my eyes out my girlfriend’s mom died of colon cancer in August and it hit me hard Thank You for sharing your story.

[@laurathepoet]

The capacity humans have for deep, daily grief AND abundant, joyful love is a miracle. Both feelings, both bring wisdom and perspective. Your honesty here about how you were likely judgemental and unkind, that's a brave thing to admit. I am so happy you have found more love and support.

[@Ditronus.]

Man, you motivated me to make some of the best business decisions I have in my life, buying my first several--and possibly last--properties (let's be honest the market is crazy high). I tuned out for a couple years (while still using your very helpful app), and was *crushed* when I came back and saw the video of your wife's last year. I was in tears the night I watched it. I'm happy to hear that you and your kids are doing well, pulling together the broken pieces across multiple families into a unified whole again. It's beautiful.

[@ChandlerDavidSmith]

Thank you!

[@sznlaura]

Thank you for sharing this with the world. I lost my mother to cancer in a similar age as your kids, my dad remarried around 6 1/2 months later and for me it was the greatest gift ever. Very happy for you the kids and wishing your family the best!

[@Bel-ri4vz]

For Me ....the opposit. 😔

[@vloggingblonde]

Wow.. I am speechless... I am so happy for you all, especially those 5 precious angels!

[@SamanthaMajors-px2rj]

I think it’s wonderful that you both could find love again, and also find support within each other. Be there for the children and be there for them too.

[@wowzatrishiebunz]

Congrats to you and I know Maddy is happy for you and your new family. I hope folks don’t press judgement on you for getting remarried because you deserve to be happy as well as your children. I’m happy for you!!!!

[@PaytonClarkSmith]

Love you brother. It’s been so hard to watch you go through this but amazing to watch how you have responded. I’m amazed at how deeply you love Maddy and the lengths you went to get her better. We sure miss her. Im so happy for you and Jess and the kids. Love you guys!

[@krissmith8671]

Nothing but love and admiration for you, Jessica and those five beautiful grandchildren of ours🥰

[@ElizabethJW]

I hope you truly do know that it is okay to love someone new while still loving and grieving your late wife. I’m sad to read so many judgmental comments regarding the timing of the new marriage because I just don’t think there is a “right” or “wrong” way to move forward after such a tragic loss. You and Jessica can relate on a level that many others will never be able to fully grasp. I hope your now blended family can find joy, peace and love after losing so many important people 🙏

[@kendrahughes8622]

I totally get it. I lost my 30 year old husband of 10 years to suicide when I was 28 years old. We had two young boys together and the pain and grief is indescribable. I unfortunately did not do well afterward. It took me years to heal from it and there still isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t think of him. I’m glad you found love again. God bless you! Xoxo

[@rondalynmassey.life2.0]

Aww, I am so happy for you, and Maddy is so proud of you. I am continuously praying for you and the new family you have created. I am so sorry for what has happened to your wife's family praying for her entire family and her children. God has you all

[@yogi.myers.]

Love you Chan! And we love Jessica so much. And remember the lost loved ones every day with you guys. ❤️❤️❤️ Excited to have you back on the channel! I’ll even volunteer to do any dumb thing you want to celebrate ;) Grateful for you!

[@ChandlerDavidSmith]

Love you G! Thanks for all that you have done and continue to do for us!!

[@dev_alade]

Yogiiiiii thanks for being a great friend to Chandler

[@cloud24patrol]

Love Yogi. Love Chandler. Thank you both for being so uniquely you. Both of you

[@unofficialnation7033]

I've felt so beyond words for the loss you had with Maddy. No one deserves to go through that and during your hiatus there were times id often think about you and the kids hoping you were doing ok. I'm so happy for you and Jessica and the life the 2 of you will give those 5 beautiful kids! This is your happiness that you both deserve and its the family those kids deserve. Much love bud!

[@jeanniecalello1227]

Life is so short, the children grow so fast. Im so happy you found eachother when you did. The children can grow together with so many memories being young. God bless this unity. ❤

[@lindaturner9806]

Some people stay single for a long time, others remarry pretty quick. Its very individual. We all grieve in our own ways. I pray Mattie is well and happy in her new existance. Have a good journey Mattie.

[@gwenmartins363]

I am very supportive of the situation, no one should judge you or Jessica, the most important thing is the kids are happy. I am sorry for both your losses but happy that you found each other. Have a very happy life together!

[@Shawn-Leider]

When you lost someone like they did I doubt they even give a single thought to others judgement. They know what’s important in life. And it’s not others opinions

[@noahromar7415]

We missed you so much brother!!! LETS GOOOOO. Glad to have you back!

[@WoodUCreate]

My Man!!! You've gotten lucky twice in love! Jessica obviously captured your heart and life can move forward with your great family. I'm overjoyed with your new life and know you'll be happy.

[@DadLifeGaming]

It takes a lot of courage to create a video like this,. Only you know how you were feeling and how you are feeling now. I'm glad you were able to get out of that dark place because you deserve to live your life and continue to be a great father to your children. The best part is that the kids get along very well. Wish you, Jessica and the kids nothing but the best!!

[@nancybentsen9381]

to me it to soon every one think fast remarrige is great god forbid any man be single for any amount of time hes marrid already i dont think its wonderful

[@jrmckim]

But why remarry so soon? Im a terminal cancer survivor and my fiance left me right after I went into remission. I dont understand it. Idk you and your story, but it hurts me to know that if someone like you could move on from an amazing woman so fast... why would I think he would be different? Idk yeah move on with life but marriage is so sacred...

[@billnict1]

Why not? Maddy isn't coming back, nothing Chandler can do will bring her back. People live their entire lives searching for true love. Chandler has found true love twice now, turning his back on it makes so sense...

[@sarah29880]

Yeah your situation is different because you had remission. He is left alone for over a year?

[@sarah29880]

@@billnict1exactly

[@wigglywoo8899]

I agree....I'd hope my husband would wait a while before wanting to date etc. I was diagnosed with cancer 6 months ago, and I am unsure of my future. The thought of being replaced immediately is heartbreaking. I'd want my husband to be happy....but if that meant dating right away, I'd take that as I wasn't truly the love of his life..and also not his soul mate. Especially since most 2nd wives are jealous, and can't stand a photo of a deceased wife being in the house. The thought of some jealous hag talking my husband into putting my picture away, and making me disappear from my son's memories at home makes me want to vomit.

[@RobinStock-hu1ml]

​@@wigglywoo8899I'm sorry to hear that you have cancer and that your future is unknown but you truly sound insecure. Like people have said, when you're gone, you're gone, all the grief and suffering alone would never bring you back. Maybe, just maybe you should turn the things you just said around a little. Maybe if he knew that you would want him to be unhappy and alone until you were satisfied with the time frame, he might believe that he was never truly loved by you. Just a thought. May God be with you during your battle. 🙏

[@englishbeauty88]

So fascinating. I think it’s too fast BUT what’s the likelihood of finding a gorgeous widow with even more immense grief? There’s literally no one who could ever understand it and I think it would be so hard to move on with someone who hadn’t lost their person, I think it would feel like you couldn’t talk about them or remember them fully and I love the sentiment of you both remembering these beautiful people with each other. I hope you two never know grief like you have again, good luck

[@Duckduckobtusegoose]

You do what’s best for the kids though not yourself. I’m not saying this wasn’t best for the kids, just saying that it doesn’t matter if you’ll never meet someone like that again it’s a big big change to get remarried and move in with someone so shortly after your children’s mother has died. If they go to frequent therapy(the kids) and he was told they are on the path where that would be okay that’s one thing and of course not our business, but it’s unlikely that at this stage this is a good transition for the children.

[@gracehaven5459]

​@@Duckduckobtusegoose agree 💯 %

[@gamingtastic4516]

⁠@@Duckduckobtusegooseexactly! It surprises me that someone would be able to move on so quickly … maybe finding someone new wasn’t a bad thing for him, but marrying already? I won’t judge, but it seems awfully fast and rushed. It’s about the kids when you have them

[@Jennwarner1988]

@@gamingtastic4516a lot of spouses of terminally ill people move on emotionally before their partner passes. It’s honestly pretty screwed up. Their partner is just not the same anymore, so they emotionally are gone. They will justify it any way they want to. At the end of the day, give it 15 years and let’s see how many of these kids need extensive therapy for this.

[@Naturefan354]

​@Jennwarner1988 Gee don't you think it's the whole "A child losing a parent so young" that is the actual reason why they need extensive therapy?

[@Wired1200]

Your pain is very relatable. What brought me joy again was giving back to people less fortunate than me. I'm not a multi millionaire like yourself but buying Christmas gifts, toys, etc, to children growing up without parents, orphanages or easing the pain of children growing up in poverty is giving me purpose in life.

[@vallivergano239]

This is beautiful ❤

[@cbowman78]

I am so incredibly HAPPY for you and Jessica!!!! You have a whole lifetime ahead of you with your beautiful children!!! Mady will never be forgotten. She is an amazing spirit! I will continue to keep you in my prayers!! Beautiful video. You did a great job! ❤❤❤

[@amyk3020]

OMG, CONGRATS to all of you. This is what a Hospice RN calls Devine Intervention....you both have been brought together to share, love and nurture each other as well as, allow all of the children to flourish and grow with each other. A true miracle and don't let anyone tell you different. I have said for years stop judging and allow people to do as they do, especially when speaking of the grieving process. Chandler, I have to tell you that the kids all look biological. Jessica looks like she could have been sisters with Maddie. Enjoy and love each other. This is an incredible story and in the future I hope Jessica will come on and say hello. She is a beauty. Best

[@christyrn8009]

This❤

[@Gggvf3644]

Jessica is such a strong lady. I sincerely send wishes for a happy future in your new family which you deserve.

[@elliegyurdiev2372]

Unfortunately, once a loved one passes, they are not coming back and the sooner we accept this truth, the better for us who remain living. Very glad to learn that you have found a mother for your children and a new life partner for yourself. It doesn't mean that we no longer love the ones we lost and we will always miss them but they were taken from us outside of our and their control. Life is for the living! I think you are a very strong person for moving on as fast as you did! Rooting for you and your loved ones!

[@KateBlank-x7g]

I don't believe in coincidences ...this is truly divine intervention! So happy that you were able to keep Maddy's request to live again!! I wish you all the best always...❤ You both deserve this second chance!

[@angelacrimmins6074]

Maddy was part of the same cancer support group as I am in. I'm a stage 4 fighter myself. Maddy was awesome. I can't lie it kind of breaks my heart you remarried SO fast. I do however pray for you and your family's happiness. You all do deserve to be happy even if it was moved fast in our eyes 💙

[@acs1993]

You don't know his situation they are most likely helping each other through there losses. Not everyone is the same I'm sure he loved Maddy he now has to try to move on and if this is his way of moving on let him be.

[@nancyellen8006]

Well said. Men often feel the strong emotional need for love and companionship and some men remarry quickly after losing their wife. It’s okay if they make the choice to remarry. We don’t know what they’re going through. It must be horrible. ..

[@diannedao]

I am sooo happy not only for Chad and Jessica but also for those precious 5 young children. When God closes one door He definitely opens another. We can plan all we want but when He has other plans for us, you just got to grab it with both hands! I know this because I too experienced the same thing. After the loss of my husband I was left with 2 young sons age 2 and 4 years old (and we were working on our 3rd baby) I had to pick up all the pieces of our broken dreams and make new ones. I soon found myself going on the same path of a very close friend of my husband and mine (I’ve known him as long as I have known my husband). This friend was left with a devastating divorce 2 years prior and he had to learn to be a single dad of 2 boys same ages as mine. We found ourselves getting together to do fun stuff for our boys. The love of our years of friendship was already there so as we spent more and more time together it was undeniable how our feelings grew to love and our kids enjoy being with each other. 15 years later we still look at each other and amazed how we ever got together and grew 4 amazing smart responsible young men all in college and medical school and we have 1 still at home (our 14 year old son that’s ours)! We would NEVER EVER imagined we would have that second chance of happiness and of raising a blended family!! But here we are! God is truly Great! Even though it felt so fast within a year that I moved on, honestly everything just FELT right and his kids and my kids being so young made the transition so much easier. So CONGRATULATE Chad and Jessica for finding each other and giving yourselves second chances at happiness and making a HUGE difference in your children’s lives by having a loving stable happy family!! God bless each and everyone of you. No one can truly know what and how you feel and what all you are going thru. The only things that matter are your big beautiful growing family!! ❤️❤️👏🏻👏🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🎉🎉

[@tracycagliero129]

I think it’s great they found each other. Now they have a great support with each other and the kids are young and need a mother and father.

[@Rnjeepshoelver]

I don’t think it is that fast 🤷‍♀️

[@katherinemitchell9003]

Congratulations, what a beautiful story! I was a widow. As my husband was dying he told me to live and get remarried. Six months after losing my husband I met a widower at my church. A year later we were married. It’s wonderful to be happy again. I am so very happy for you and Jessica. 😊

[@crystalgail3967]

Oh, how i LOVE this!! I'm so incredibly happy for you, your wife, and especially all these sweet babies. Kids need a loving mom and dad and what a miracle you two found each other!! ❤❤

[@TairiqueTuray]

One of the most tragically *Beautiful* stories ever. Everyone viewing this video is incredibly happy for you and your new family. Perfect for each other 🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️

[@amymac41890]

Yay! I don’t even know you but so incredibly happy for you all ❤

[@nixx8840]

Chandler. Regardless of whether you personally know us, we're your community and your family. We always want you to be happy and want to be there when you're struggling. These people in the comment genuinely care for you and your family. KZbin is a strange thing.

[@ChandlerDavidSmith]

Thank you so much!

[@HolyElkGaming]

Hey Chandler, you're all very amazing. Thank you for sharing an update. I'm happy for what you've found and allowing your life to continue. Your family has grown now, congratulations! May God continue to bless you and guide you through your journey!

[@Jess-tj7ve]

I think they both understand one another and know what is means to grieve. We can’t judge them it’s a tough time for all of them . As long as everyone is happy especially the children .

[@lassiepenniemom1951]

Nothing wrong with meeting new person. But It's just too soon.

[@Leona_-]

He's a man

[@melissareynolds56]

Maybe for you

[@lilianapapp6731]

Agreed!

[@lexirusso5840]

Agreed

[@lexirusso5840]

Just looked into it and they started seeing each other and dating 5 MONTHS after maddy passed. I just don’t understand but I do wish them happiness above all but wow that’s soon! Shows the first photo of the couple together on his instagram which was in October when she passed in May the same year (2023)

[@motley06]

I lost both my parents within a year of each other, so I can relate to your pain. I don’t think the pain ever completely goes away. Glad to see you’ve learned to manage that grief and move forward. You’re a great guy. Glad you’ve found happiness. Super excited you’re back on KZbin, but do it at your own pace.

[@susanw9443]

God bless you! You are honoring Maddie by continuing to live fully and well. 🙏🏻

[@johncody-newinvestments5187]

Chandler, first I want to say I’m glad you took the break you needed for your family and for yourself. welcome back and I hope to see more of you! Nothing I say will ever make things better for you nor can I comprehend the situation and feelings you, Maddie and your kids have felt over the last three years. We’re here for you, we’re rooting for you and we’re part of your community. I’d say the way you handled this chapter in your life was nothing short of incredible. You’re an amazing father and husband. God bless you, your family and Maddy. ❤

[@Lac.481]

As Maddy told you, your life has changed sooner than you expected. It seems as she had already knew it somehow. Wish you all the best. They’ll never be forgotten 💫

[@valeriemoran842]

I saw the video of Maddie's last ten months. You are correct, Maddy was exceptional. Her smile was amazing and lit up her entire face! I am so sorry for your loss. I wish you and your children peace and hope that you again find happiness. We all know that our loved ones who have passed on would want us to find happiness again and live full lives❤

[@spicytoyz1183]

Welcome back, and thank you for thinking of us! I think it's absolutely amazing that all of you found each other! I support your decision, and admire your strength! Thank you again for sharing your story with us!

[@RodNavarroDotCom]

Bro. This is awesome. I'm pumped you were able to find balance! way to go for you and the kids! Long life for Jessica and you. And it totally makes sense to have both Maddy and Tyson as close as possible, remembering them for the great place they had and always will have. I'll send something over podia as well.

[@elizabethcorsini5499]

I am so very sorry about Maddy and Tyson. They are both clearly still loved, remembered and missed. I wish you and Jessica a very happy and joy-filled life together, raising your combined family. When you think about, this is really such a wonderful and happy outcome. All the best to you.

[@MissOlyaSmile]

Your family with Maddy is exemplary to me. You are very good, caring parents and strong people. I hope everything goes well for you and Jessica

[@BlckgalAnointed]

Congratulations, you both deserve love!!!!❤❤❤❤ I'm ecstatic to see two people who lost so much find so much to cherish in each other 💗

[@CookinCatWithMesoMatt]

It's good to see you're back. I could say a million things but that's the most important. You are inspiring. Stay strong brother.

[@CaseLucasRobinson]

Congratulations. You are on of the reasons I started posting here on social media. Glad to have you back and glad life is looking better.

[@annchavez1494]

I’m so sorry for the losses of Maddy and Tyson 😢 May you and your beautiful family be blessed with love, peace, and so much happiness ❤ Your story has given me hope that I will find a way to find some peace and happiness on my grief journey. I didn’t lose a spouse, I lost my eldest daughter, and have been struggling for almost 13 years to find a way to stay present, and bring love forward. Your love that you share with your family and your story really resonated with me, and I hope to read your book someday ❤ Much love going up to Tyson and Maddy ❤ Congrats to you and your new beautiful wife. ❤

[@PrayPrayPrayPrayPrayPray]

I admire your resilience. After watching the whole video, I am sure Maddy sent you Jennifer. What matters is that you all are happy! Blessings to a beautiful mixed family!

[@lynnadams9876]

Is it resilience or not caring that she died in the first place?

[@conniephair6812]

I can’t imagine losing my spouse let alone the mother or father of our kids. I’m so happy for you that you have found someone you can share your lives with and can relate to what you all have lost. This will help the kids in the future as well with their relationships. As much as your hearts hurt you do have continue living.

[@SkiddingF350]

You deserve to be happy and so do your kids. Your journey has touched many lives. My mom was a widow and my step dad was wonderful father to me. I've watched your story and I'm familiar with that deadly plane crash of a couple years ago, such a tragedy. God has a plan for all us, the Plan of Happiness!!!

[@MendandMake]

you deserve your happiness... been following you and glad to see a good guy smile again. Best of luck to your family man.

[@NoahKettle]

Great to see you again wishing you and your family the best, extremely sorry to hear about your loss

[@ML-cg1dw]

My grandmother died unexpectedly at 40 years old leaving my teenage dad and my 6-7 year old aunt with my grandpa. He never remarried or had any serious relationship after her, he just couldn’t experience life with any other person having known life with his soul mate. He found his comfort and peace in raising their kids as a single dad. Grieving is different on each person, sometimes we just can’t do it alone. I think he never recovered from her passing, he just learnt how to deal with life without her. I hope you find peace and comfort on each other.

[@lilianario3538]

I lost my boyfriend and soulmate 11 years ago to cancer. It's a terrible pain and I fully understand those feelings and emotions. After all these years I found a new love ❤️. And I believe it was sent by him from heaven. I just wish you all the best in the world for you all. You deserve so much to be happy!! All of you ❤

[@Janice789]

I’m so happy for you and Jessica! I will always be sad about Maddy. I cannot fathom the loss you and Jessica have both experienced. Best wishes to you and your beautiful family 💜.

[@blakevotaw5033]

Orchestrated by the ultimate conductor…..GOD is GOOD!! Continued prayers for you all as you start this new journey together

[@MissMariQueen]

Yeah, a bus conductor.

[@barbaraphillips4375]

Praise the Lord, Hallelujah keep loving those who are struggling thru grief ,they will come in at some point, I lost my husband all most 16 years , Thank you Lord , He's seeing you thru and blessing of new beginnings,together.

[@jeremiahdavis7666]

Wow! Well spoken my friend! That was bravery not shown by many! I truly wish you the best for your blended family! SO COOL!

[@cqbarnieify]

As a grieving person myself, what you said about the times where you weren’t sure if you would make it, really resonated with me. One day at a time, we must somehow go on. I am profoundly sorry for your loss. You are now inspiring me to have hope for a brighter future. May God bless and protect you and your beautiful family each and every day.