life update

[@alexsousa551]

There are many great trans youtubers but NO ONE did what you did julie. You showed your ENTIRE transition. No one ever did that. You're an inspiration to the world.

[@princessjoules]

Thank you so much. This means the world to me. I love you!

[@Nicole-sn4mg]

Stef showed everything too

[@nesscrane]

Stef!!!

[@slightlymisdirected]

It appears you have no knowledge of our Bread Mom, Stef Sanjati

[@alexsousa551]

Nicole julie showed everything about srs. She is the only one so far. But stef is amazing as well.

[@UrbanCarnage]

if he ever tries to find you or go to your city to see you, call the police, have him arrested and get a restraining order.

[@princessjoules]

That is my plan.

[@howdyclowdy]

PRINCESSJOULES Have you thought about moving??

[@laceystephen]

agreed, this is why he skipped the country because he knew you could take legal action. ❤ be safe !!!

[@valleyofthedawlz]

And deport him

[@TheJesusAlejandra]

Having atleast one person with you that can accompany u to run errands or just at home as much as possible could be helpful too, not that being alone is bad, it cuold make u less vulnerable

[@XxArjaypheonixxX]

Yes girl. Do not let him or his negative friends silence you. I’m so proud of you. Let’s do our best to never show Julie the shit he’s up to or what he’s posting. Of course he’s going to lie. He beat her physically and emotionally. There’s no line he won’t cross so don’t show her anything. It’ll just make her upset. He’s a fool.

[@princessjoules]

Amen thank you!!!

[@Reehanagnihotri]

So you were acting all this while to love him

[@RaneyG91]

Raghav Kiya You're an IDIOT!!!

[@RaneyG91]

Raghav Kiya SUREEEE, She was "acting". Now, go on bout yourself! If that's what you want to believe and it tickles your pu$$y then believe it and go on about yourself!!! Ignorant dammed people 🙄🙄

[@samanthakrull6517]

NOTHING is more important that your mental health. If you don’t have that, you don’t have yourself. There’s a bit of light in your eyes in this video, and I’m new to your channel but I see it. Please please please keep seeing that light. Life isn’t about having great relationships with everyone, but more so yourself first, so then you can with everyone else. You have a huge impact, remember that.

[@uwaisali6433]

Never set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm again, Julie!!! Wait for the right person. He will come. We love you!!

[@sweetdosage]

it hurts me that you had to go through this...but trust me, you made the right choice. your mental health comes above anything or anybody! stay strong girlfriend

[@tonymullenix9281]

Jazzy Tan So so, very true! Very well said!

[@randyluna818]

Julie, I know it hurts, but the right man will come along and sweep you off your feet. You are so gorgeous and beautiful, don't ever stop being you. If you are ever in Texas, let me know. I would love to meet you. On another note, I really love you with blonde hair, Wow👄👄❤❤

[@stephenblake8708]

Jazzy Tan she's amazing

[@amandamiller8039]

Randy Luna YES! I'm in Dallas 😊 What about you?

[@joesparza1]

I am very proud of you for making the right choice! Thank God you're safe Julie! ❤❤❤

[@angelforfreedom]

I know Julie, personally. We bump into each other very often, here, in Vancouver. Trust me, she's not faking anything. This is all 100% real - this is not fake drama. Not only did she and her ex come into the store I used to work at, but her ex, by sheer coincidence, had happened to enrol in the same math class as me in the college that I go to! lol!! I'm "lol" because she's, quite literally, like my "Where's Waldo" in Vancouver in that I run into her EVERYWHERE; in the most unexpected (yet most critical) of times.

[@princessjoules]

writermachine80 thank you ❤️

[@angelforfreedom]

PRINCESSJOULES you're welcome, sweetheart. Keep on shining!

[@SingSingSING94]

Can i also just mention how important it is that you came on here and were so kind and validating. I can imagine its something refreshing for her to see in such a rough time. God bless you guys.

[@angelforfreedom]

Samantha Rossiter - Vancouverites are oftentimes misconstrued as being cold and abrasive. But those of us who were born & raised here, like PRINCESSJOULES and I were (I THINK that Julie was born here...unless, of course, I'm mistaken and she was born in Vietnam), we are in fact quite warm, compassionate, and caring individuals. Plus, I know what it's like to be marginalized and oppressed just by one merely being themselves. I see Julie as someone who's very strong and she's had to overcome A LOT, as have I (..but, then again, haven't we all?) and so stressing to her audience that's she's legit felt important enough as something to speak up about. God Bless you too, Samantha.

[@SingSingSING94]

writermachine80 well, I am really sorry about that. I’m not from Canada, I’m from the US... more specifically California but this place is a shit show with how much people get profiled mistreated based on who they are. I always try to have a very open mind to every person. I know sometimes people may feel that’s hard, but I have found it’s brought me the most peace. I’m just glad she has someone like you to be an advocate for her. Hope you have a nice day !!

[@Hi_Its_LP]

Your story helped me realize the manipulative snake my ex is. I finally blocked him everywhere after a year of being too afraid to completely let go. Thank you. Hope you’re cracks heal more beautifully than you ever were before. 🖤

[@reneerevolinski4822]

I've never commented on your videos, but have been following you for years... Stay safe and take good care of yourself. Hope your birthday is filled with happiness and love!

[@dorkkis6080]

The truth is that your fight isn't over just because the relationship ended. Now comes the part where you need to get to know and trust yourself again. But I know that you'll turn this around into strength and a new, better chapter of your life. Love you ❤

[@candicem8781]

Dora Lagerspetz that was beautifully said ❤

[@TheJesusAlejandra]

Thats right, now its the time to seek help on moving on, to cope, and to heal!

[@Quinncidentally]

I can’t express how much I needed this and how much you helped me in these recent weeks. You helped open my eyes about my emotionally abusive now-ex. It was so hard but I finally did it and broke up with him. And I kept asking myself “Why am I crying over this” in the night. You’re helping me realize my feelings are valid and it will hurt but I will get through it and deserve to be happy. I love you so much Julie and have been following you for years, I wish for your happiness!

[@ProspectorSaloon]

You’re not dumb, you’re not dumb for making mistakes. You are not to blame for what has happened to you. You are human, and you wanted it to work like any person would. It’s only his fault. Never ever yours. Regardless of that, We love you Julie!!! I’m excited for your next chapter in your beautiful life!! YOU MADE IT!!! AND WILL KEEP MAKING IT!!! 🎉💞

[@addictedtoysenia8743]

GIRL YOUR MAKEUP IS SOOOOO GOOD!!!

[@arizenera8338]

I have been watching Julie since before srs and I don't usually comment but I felt the need to. As a trans woman myself watching Julie go through all of these things has inspired and motivated me so heavily. At the end of the day Julie is one of the realest, baddest role models on KZbin. Thank you so much Julie for being an OG baddie and staying true to yourself and us.

[@SierraAnaleigh]

I’ve been going through something so similar to you. It’s so extremely hard for me to believe life will ever be better when someone has hurt me so much, but I’m trying to keep going. Thank you for sharing your story. I’m glad you’re feeling better.

[@TeenaNikole]

Sierra C it does get better! The moment you believe that you deserve better, better will eventually come 🙌

[@SierraAnaleigh]

TeenaNikole You’re completely right. Thank you for the encouragement. We all deserve to be treated with love & respect.

[@leeroy9374]

I seen the bruises!! The marks on your face and neck. Please don't be afraid to cry. You held a lot in, I just wanna hug you! I've watched all your videos you posted since you showed up on my feed just to see who you are and what you are about. On my creator you are such a STRONG WOMAN!! Good vibes and love sent your way.

[@mrs.elentz2336]

I have been through this kind of thing, I was left for dead. People like them need to be exposed... to protect future women they encounter but I understand completely not doing this. YOU ARE NOT DUMB JULIE... you've gone through an unfortunate event you weren't responsible for where you came out the other end a bigger and brighter star... and stars don't shine without darkness. I'm inspired by the fact you made the conscious choice to go from victim to survivor so quickly, and moving on to go from survivor to thriver!! Sending my love

[@FireKat1224]

Being open with yourself and others about the pain that you're feeling and have felt is honestly one of the strongest, most powerful things you can do for yourself and others. Fully embracing the pain, fully embracing the past, making your peace with it and then moving on, is such a powerful, kind, and important thing to do for yourself. Just like you said, it's okay to cry, but afterwards, you have to smile and live for yourself. Be kind to yourself. Love yourself. Live for yourself. You are such a wise, strong, powerful, important, beautiful woman, and you have no idea how much I and everyone else look up to you for that. YOU are worthy and strong Julie! You say that we have saved your life, but seeing you be so strong and open about your experiences have helped me save my own life after going through some similar experiences. Thank you so much for being such an inspirational and real human. xoxo

[@applepie2020]

hi babe i went through a break up with an abuser the same day you uploaded your video about the truth, it was like a miracle. thank you so much for continuing to share and be open and dont forget you can still have all the good things you may have enjoyed about the relationship (the friendship, support, great sex, whatever) but WITHOUT PUTTING UP WITH THE ABUSE and you WILL find those things again in someone who deserves your love.

[@lilymissy1]

You are super duper inspiring!!! You have no idea and you are so gorgeous. I really appreciate that you open to your audience this much and it’s absolutely strong and brave of you!

[@sukhjinderdhaliwal5199]

Joules u r a real princess n u will always be ... stop crying a lot of hugs from me 🤗🤗 u r an inspiration for me ..... just let the things go and u deserve much more better than him 😘😘

[@oddward5759]

I have been following your journey for years, I've been a quiet supporter, but your strength has always been an inspiration to me. You are such a strong inspirational woman.

[@rimmy1819]

I’d just like to say this just shows how much of a lie social media is... and how that one picture can be so deceiving from reality. So all those young teens out there who wish their life was like a celebrities or someone famous. I hope this shows - no ones life is perfect and be more grateful and accepting of your own. I wish you all the best Julie, we know your not faking it - I’m in the same situation and i hope god gives you strength to get through this and come out stronger😘... you’ll always be in my prayers much love xx

[@ANAVRICCIRCLE]

I was in a toxic relationship a few months ago and I loved him so much but he was abusive but you helped me to get out of that relationship and take my power back and you've taught me so much I honestly don't know what I'd do without you Julie, you are the most supportive person in my life right now besides my brother. Happy birthday princess ❤️❤️❤️ #supportJulie

[@lvmisshillsvl]

I am so glad you're doing okay. Its gonna take time for you to heal babe. I know you're a strong spiritual being

[@TheLilacFirefly]

I love you so much omg. Thank you so much for being vulnerable with us! We are always here for you!

[@annonhart]

I did the same as you when I left an abusive relationship I went on holiday because I needed to feel safe and just for a minute find myself again. Women need to support each Other I'm sending love from new Zealand

[@stefanie3406]

Julie! You are the strongest and most inspirational woman I know. Speaking out about this helps people so much and I am SO thankful that you are safe and on the road to healing 💕

[@AS-bq7sc]

You’re not dumb for loving someone and trying to make it work. But you are a hero for knowing enough is enough and your self value is worth more than ANY ONE ELSE and leaving. You’ll find real, true, raw happiness someday... sooner than you think ❤️

[@aleilani9159]

I’ve been watching your videos for YEARRRSSS and you’re one of the reasons i finally started transitioning. You gave me hope and you saved me. We all make mistakes but just know you’ve helped so many of us and now we’re here to help in your time of need. Sending lots of love from New Jersey ❤️❤️❤️

[@michailp3021]

at the end of the day it doesn't even matter if its make up or not you are sending out a very positive and empowering message so that matters most!

[@maxsimic6]

You deserve it because you naturally give off such a genuine light energy, you're a beautiful soul, Im so excited to see all the good things that will begin to come into your life

[@briannaa335]

I’m glad that you’re aware of how inspirational you are Julie because it was because of youtubers like you who inspired me to embrace who I was and to love myself no matter what. I’m also so glad you were able to get out of that toxic relationship before anything bad happened to you. Stay strong and safe, sister! Love you ❤️

[@StellaKaye]

I have been watching you since day one, and I been here and supporting you. I always loved how real you were and how much you really care for the people who watch you! And wanted you to know how much I admire, your strength. I want you to know, I love you. I am sending you so much love! And, I want to let you know that you are MY hero, and you have helped me so much in my transition.

[@brotherbrandonheterosexual4131]

"Never put your happiness in another's hands" Beautiful *Joules!*

[@lollypokemon]

You are such a great and lovely person. So much love to spread and power!!! I feel really great after watching your update,I'm so freakin happy for you :)

[@pattykochenower4222]

Hugs and love , toxic relationships are so blinding until it’s too late, we don’t want to believe it’s true... but when you finally had enough and have the strength to move on.. yes, it’s scary, sad, the unknown... but... trust me.... there are way way better and brighter and happier days ahead. One day st a time, let yourself heal... you will. I know exactly how you’re feeling and I’m so sorry but so happy you’re on your way UP!!!!!! Don’t look back, only ahead! You’re going to so happy and see how lucky you are to be away!!! Love you !!!! 😘❤️💕

[@himesama_k407]

Oh Yes! Happy Birthday!!!! You're gonna have an amazing weekend. Perfect weather and Pride is coming to town soon.

[@bearyhot]

I stand by you, honey!!! Stay strong, you are amazing!!!!! If I were there, I'd give you a big hug and hold your hand and we could talk it out. If you EVER come to Phoenix, Arizona, you have a nice house to stay in. I'll take care of you like a sugar momma, no strings attached! Haha! You are incredible and never forget that! You are beautiful, strong, intelligent and educated. You need a man who can protect you and cherish you like the queen that you are. Never settle baby gurl! I'm on your side, 100%! Much Vapor L

[@maybesang]

Been waiting to see your new upload VDO....happy to see you back sharing us your stories and very happy to hear you do enjoy your recent trip...hope your life is now sparkle with full of positive lights

[@nikki-qb7iq]

Glad to see you're okay. Please enjoy your birthday and stay safe

[@jbrown4623]

Ive been following you for years, so glad to see you are doing better after the last video. its day by day. Love you Julie!

[@NiaChii]

I wish you the best in the world Julie !

[@koldkutgirl]

glad to see you are healing. thank you for having the strength to do everything you do. love you❤️

[@DesosLife]

I love you so much julie. Always remember that we are here to support you everyday! 😘❤

[@rollingmetal949]

I am so proud of you that you opened up. It really helps. Worst thing is to stay with your thoughts by your self.

[@OceanFoam]

6:27 please don't call yourself dumb! You, and the huge amount of people who've been in your exact same situation, are not stupid. Breaking free from the cycle of abuse is NO EASY FEAT. If it was, then abusive relationships would be practically unheard of because people would break free from them before they got so bad. It can happen to anyone.

[@kingty6221]

I just found you a couple months ago but I can see how sweet and innocent your spirit is. Ughhhhh I just want to give you a big bear hug!!!! Continue to do you & remember to put yourself first. Love you beautiful 😘

[@50kekk]

Stay safe jules!

[@kristian2971]

Love you Julie, so proud of you for speaking up and (in)directly helping so many others with your warmth, positivity, and past experiences. You are truly radiant and lovely and we all stan you binch 💛✨

[@TheNocturnalpheonix]

All that matters is that you're safe, supported, and healthy. Physical wounds heal in different times, and different ways than the emotional ones. None of us are ever as alone as we may feel. You are seen, you are heard, and you are loved. 💖 Sun, sand, and a soothing ear is its own special kind of magic. Drink it in deep. ✊🏼🔥😘

[@Chandra2510]

You’re are gaining your strength back and it will take time. Thank you for sharing your story and being vulnerable in front of us. You are strong, unique, valued, appreciated and you deserve happiness. Happy Birthday Miss Julie! 💕

[@rubaadwan4756]

Girl, I gotta post a comment before you put this down! Love you so much, and will support you always 💜🦄🍩💙

[@elleo3244]

Girl you have soooooo much to offer. Live your self with love and share that with someone who deserves it that will share it with you. Sending love darli.

[@hinachawla6880]

Support you. Forever & always ❤️

[@Solkuro]

Your spirit is so beautiful, It’s good too see you getting better. The healing is gonna be a process but it’s good too see you on that road. If you travel to New York City soon I definitely would love to meet you.

[@femmefuntime]

You're so beautiful and so strong. We all support you so much and wish the best for you ♥️

[@randomlysunny]

so proud of you julie it’s insane. you deserve all of the light, love and happiness in the world ☀️❤️👑

[@paulm6306]

I knew something was up. When you were with him, it felt like you weren’t the same, like your videos didn’t feel genuine. I’m happy you got out.

[@TheJesusAlejandra]

Oh hun dont be afraid to treat yourself, glad u went to take a break in vegas and mex, ur so lucky! Do what you gotta do, block people that wont shut up about him, that are linked to him, etc. Do what u have to in order to heal!

[@hazellesprings7302]

I luv u Julie stay safe and aware 🙏

[@RaneyG91]

Love you! I am so proud of you! 💖 It all takes time you're looking so much healthier!

[@natara2384]

I admire your strength and bravery Julie! Nevertheless, keep being you and stay strong!😊❤❤🌹~Lots of love from Singapore🇸🇬

[@dareharley84]

I am overjoyed with happiness to see you doing better. Birthdays are reminders of the gift of life! Be safe and continue to be kind. Wishing you all the best Joule! Cheers!

[@rusdierahim]

I've watched you since long time ago... I respect you so much for open up important things in your life. I RESPECT YOU FOR THAT COURAGE! be happy, and you deserve the best in life.. keep continue to bring awareness to learn how to speak up. I'm your huge supporter from Malaysia.. love you so much

[@brandoncarr4097]

I love you so much Julie, I'm so proud of you for being a bigger person and putting this in the past, the damage is done and I'm proud of you for being stronger and moving on from it, you're so strong and beautiful and desserve so much better. 💕💕💕💕

[@redvelvetcakeYUM]

We love you unconditionally ♥️

[@kelseyzephir6335]

I happened upon your previous video when I was thinking of going back to my abuser. You inspired to cut contact with him once and for all. Thank you! 💕

[@sarahall1836]

We stayed at the same resort at the same time in Cabo

[@princessjoules]

Hi Sara!!!

[@beastlyasainchika98]

I have so much love for you, Julie. Keep moving forward. You are so loved.

[@chichijpw3io]

Girl, you look bomb 😍😍😍😍

[@makeuplover428]

I am so happy with this video!!!! Love you momma sparkles ! Keep sparkling

[@BossLADY-oc1ub]

Such a brave woman you are .

[@travelonpackbag]

so happy to see you again,been waiting for your new video that you are okay,it really hurt me as your youtube watcher that you have to go through on something,but good to see you are okay,

[@constanceaurora9513]

Julie, I'm not trying to hurt you but everything that you have gone threw in your life I think it would be good to see a therapist it will do good to your soul. Sending you good vibes!

[@monicamonroe9172]

thank you for being an inspiration julie

[@Hattori1a]

Always put yourself first

[@alinaszpilman9856]

legit one of my top five favourite people here on youtube, you are such an inspirational and resilient woman! thanks for sharing your life with us ❤️

[@marinao730]

Thank you for the update, was very worried about you. Be well and stay strong.

[@notmyselfusee]

Honey, I know you want to just forget it but I still think that you should address it in therapy. You definitely were describing PTSD symptoms . I am glad you had fun but no amount of vacationing will make it all disappear. You should not bury what happened because it’s not your shame it’s his.

[@KimZeee]

notmyselfusee came here to say the same. No matter how much you try to forget your abuse, it will come back to you. It's so important to have and deal with the emotions that arise from this kind of situation. All the best, I'm so glad you got out of it. Stay safe!

[@peacheyearth]

Love you so much Julie. Always here for you and I fully support your healing. I am so proud of you for putting one foot infront of the other in such hard times. I've done it and I KNOW. Would love to see you in the UK some time. And I will pray for your healing tonight - my bday present to you. ❤

[@MaynardsSpaceship]

Beyond ecstatic to see your beautiful face again.

[@6561gnc]

You are great julie! Please stay strong!

[@jyotsanasingh4828]

I love you girl😘😘😊😊 Lots of love from India 🌹 and you have become my Idol 💓

[@MsTootss]

GOOD FOR YOU

[@paintchipsfromthewal]

Really proud of you Julie keep trucking and you're right you are a Queen

[@KatsPurr]

I'm so glad you're on your road to recovery now! However I'm kinda worried about the videos you have on your channel that still have him in them. I have to be honest, if I were in your shoes, my gut instinct would be to remove each and every one that has any connection to him. First of all, it would remove any reason for him to ever contact you. As long as they're still there, he has an excuse to harrass you. Second, for your own mental health, surely it must be mega creepy when you see your inventory of videos and see those of him in there? And it's the only way to make a truly fresh start. Lastly, this channel is YOUR turf, YOUR sacred haven. He has absolutely no place in it. Even though yes, you control whether they are there are not, ironically he will still be controlling your emotions by being a constant reminder. I wouldn't be surprised if that amuses him quite a bit. Get rid of them girl!

[@1984REV]

Your the best Julie I wanted to thank you for everything that you have helped me with hunny I go to your videos when I'm feeling down and you always seem to brighten my day so thank you for everything from the bottom of my heart keep going strong love you girl.

[@Sumaya_iran]

Love you so much from The Netherlands 🇳🇱😘😘

[@kaelahkaelah]

Stay strong! I’ve been there before, it’s horrible but now I’m living a much better happier life now with an amazing husband and baby on the way! ❤️

[@wilted9]

oh yes 😿 I was so worried 😿💖

[@jasminef.2078]

You truly are an amazing and wonderful inspiration, and you're very strong for doing what you did to take back control of your life. Keep being strong, Julie, keep being that inspiration that others look up to.

[@eringemini7091]

Aloha Julie! I'm not a transgender woman (just a regular one), but your beauty first inspired me, as I tuned into your channel for makeup/fashion inspiration, but now, your strength inspires me! I went through this too, but put up with it far too long, I am so glad you got out of it and loved yourself more than the situation you were in! I am so, so proud of you, and with this you are helping others too!

[@eringemini7091]

theopengrave Mahalo, for that, I was wondering!! Thank you for clearing that up!!

[@plasticreplica]

Regular is offensive af we trans people are regular too

[@eringemini7091]

Romanchiikku Kijun The term I failed to use is "Cis-gendered" I am new to some terms, and try desperately to be as politically correct as possible. I even made that clear in my comment. I dont care if Julie is pink with purple polka dots, I watch her because she has a true heart, great fashion & style & I learn a lot from her makeup tips. In a word Adorable!!

[@shortstackfan24710]

i knew this courage was in you Joules. we respect your healing process and i agree. your mental health is not worth the money he owes you. fuck that. you deserve all of our support we see how much you were crying out for help. love you so much if you can do this YOU CAN DO ANYTHING xxx

[@babyelias3992]

Just don't feel, be strong, in this time LGBT people have to be stong. I am always there for your support, I been in church and prayed for you. Love you!

[@meg2231]

Honey i agree 100% with you chosing to completely move on and yes as others have said, if he bothers you at all even if it's a small incident... Please get a restraining order because that will prevent ANY contact at all. Stay strong ! :)

[@minoanlight4545]

Stop deleting videos! We all know what happened, and you are not gonna run away from the truth! He is the abuser and always will be! Please, Julie, please wake up before it is too late.

[@teefuhnini]

Thank you Julie for putting your truth out there. You’re a strong woman and this experience made you even stronger. Sending lots of love from San Francisco!

[@beyonbeach]

Your awesome lady and i like you and down to earth girl.

[@fernandaayala4661]

Thank you for talking about this !! So glad you're feeling better. And moving on... ❤