The Truth Why I Don't Dilate

[@karid5447]

As a woman you don’t have to justify what you do with your body. It’s yours. Period.

[@dot7107]

As long as he pays those hormons and plastic surgerys and so on it is ok for me. Do what ever u want with your body and life, I really don't care. But if society pays those, then I am interested because those are also my money!

[@davidhunter2824]

Exactly

[@basedbattledroid3507]

@@dot7107 in pretty much every mtf and ftm transition the patient has to pay for their own surgery and hormones. So this complaint makes no sense.

[@dot7107]

@@basedbattledroid3507 That is good to know, and then he/she have every right to do what ever he/she want's to do with h/h body. Here in Fin taxpayers pays those transitions and it is wrong!

[@xluner]

Vegetarian Soylent-Green exactly 🙄

[@Tterii]

Wait... people assume SRS is for sexual purposes exclusively? Wow.

[@googleuser4010]

Tterii that person must be one of those who transitioned for sexual fetish

[@punlokomovicdevinho7611]

It's about having female genitalia, not for sex.

[@genericchannel126]

Its about the process of transitioning!! It makes them feel more womanly and feminine

[@oliviawutam]

@@googleuser4010 I agree, due to my hormones I'm now "asexual" I have no feeling and don't miss them, I only have a 'vulva' and nice boobies.

[@oliviawutam]

​@@genericchannel126 and I have nice boobies my pride and joy.

[@random_birb_qween]

I'm very sorry that you have to experience people telling you how to feel and what to do. Julie, it is your body. You get to decide how you use it! I love you! Been watching you for quite a few years!

[@deannasalem9195]

People can be really rude and crude trolls. Yes it's her body and her business.

[@alexusbest1520]

I agree with you. I feel like women should be free to do whatever they want with their bodies. Just because we have vaginas doesn't mean we have to use them. Theres even natural born females that don't use their vaginas. So she shouldn't be judged for not using hers. It's her decision.

[@oliviawutam]

Kathleen D, I feel the same , As soon as the virus stops.. I''l get my SRS but no deep vagina, it is called vaginoplasty without 'cavity' so mostly a 'vulva' anything male will be gone (never liked) or used my penis etc.. I never even had a girl friend .

[@oliviawutam]

@@alexusbest1520 , Julie dear I agree. I feel the same , As soon as the virus stops.. I''l get my SRS but no deep vagina, it is called vaginoplasty without 'cavity' so mostly a 'vulva' anything male will be gone I have nice boobies my pride and joy. (never liked) or used my penis etc.. I never even had a girl friend . (in Montreal,qc.)

[@champigranja1179]

To use it? A body is not an object. You literally ARE your body.

[@just4now492]

Julie from someone who has had srs, I think you need to have this looked into by a professional. You might need a revision or to look at alternative options. You shouldn’t have to live with this and it sounds like you were botched.

[@daria5846]

For what I remember her saying at the beginning, she understood wrong the dilation process as far as timing and using the different dilators. That's why when she filmed herself dilating the first time it hurt so bad. I wonder if that somehow affected her recovery... maybe it healed wrong? Maybe it was already closing when she started dilating correctly? Idk, I wish her the best and I agree that a professional should look into it just to be safe

[@drinfauvel9908]

i agree that this has to be looked by a professional. i agree also that just because she has vagina, it has to be used for sex - doesn't have to be. But the pain does not seem to be okay and it's a bit worrisome.

[@aubreymondor5637]

I went to the same surgeon as her and honestly? Im having the same exact problems, dilating hurts like hell and the nurses just keep telling me,a year later to "just keep dilating"

[@saranikolaisen6879]

@@drinfauvel9908 PAIN is not GOOD , AND even girls with natural vaginas have problems done there .. it hurts even to have a finger inside , and it hurts to have sex etc.. and some girls have to use the same tools as us because ...... ask them LOL a vagina is made to feel good , what you do with it is only up to you dont feel like you must do this and that . but GO TO A DOCTOR

[@cutiepie6790]

There are many bad stories from Western surgeons including Brassard MANY, they just are not as advanced as other countries, u should NOT be having pain a year later when u dilate its literally not possible if u are healed properly she needs to get this checked badly!

[@allymvlogs]

Honestly so done with strangers telling you what to do with your vagina when it isnt even attached to them 🙄

[@princessjoules]

Omg YESSSS!

[@allymvlogs]

@@princessjoules I'd love to go off at this strangers in tagalog (because it bites more, you know how us asians get) but, they arent worth my energy. They arent worth yours too!!!! But im so proud of you and how brave you are. Love you Julie!❤

[@oliviawutam]

@@allymvlogs thanks, I agree, I'm not even Asian

[@allymvlogs]

@@CrazyGuyBlahBlah people like you are the reason the world cant have nice things

[@booboodafoo3247]

Vagina….. 😂😂😂😂

[@TetraResinstone]

First and foremost- SRS is not about SEX! It’s about conforming to your gender! To feel in line with your mind and body period. If you want SRS for Sex then you need to rethink your whole transition. I’m sooooo sick of people Sexualizing transgender women we are MORE than our sex , more than or Orientation, more than our gender! We are human

[@mariahslittlelamb8049]

Shut up

[@dot7107]

No, your parents just didn't done that one thing what they was supposed to do and that was that they didn't raise u as a boy. U are not female, you have born as a male and u will be male in the end of your life, u cannot change it! All this trangender shit is liberal BS

[@Julie-ik9cr]

@@dot7107 No one can tell what you're even trying to say here because your grammar and spelling is so atrocious. Shut up.

[@dot7107]

@@Julie-ik9cr u should read Charles Darwin, or bible if u are more religious person. I prefer Darwin...

[@KS-bx2jf]

Girl it’s an inverted penis. It will always b a penis it’s just now mutilated

[@juhopuhakka2351]

I think this community is not known for its common sense.

[@florenceedee]

I'm surprised you have to explain to people.

[@maevery7785]

I don’t like my stomach but I don’t get it cut off

[@Ivy-dd8bf]

People commonly get liposuctions there, which can greatly improve quality of life whether it’s for aesthetic or medical purposes. I’m personally doing yoga and dance to help tone my stomach and thighs to feel more confident.

[@maevery7785]

@@Ivy-dd8bfwow good job.

[@sineadgetfit]

I cannot believe someone said this to you. I'm so sorry that you had to explain yourself this way.

[@howtopasstime]

Have you heard of pelvic floor therapy? Just something to consider, a lot of pain may be caused by hypersensitive nerves and while it may not solve the issue it may lessen pain a bit

[@michellesyraketera2502]

howtopasstime 👍🏻🤗😘

[@niecysincerejones387]

She doesn't have a real vagina. She has no walls is not gone work. The vagina is fake dude

[@theoistrying9904]

@@niecysincerejones387 pelvic floor therapy isn’t just for those who are afab.

[@niecysincerejones387]

@@theoistrying9904 okay. I'm learning

[@nthkeoaeosntuhaeosnu]

That super smile at the end was so worth the whole video.

[@sdbeagle10]

At times I would be back and forth with getting SRS but videos like this help me stay non-op.

[@BrittaneyBoss]

2:12 Because it's NOT a vagina.

[@ellaminnow9379]

Speak your truth girl!! Your aren't the only one. As a women who prefers anal sex to vaginal sex I agree with you. For me vaginal sex has always been painful due to past trauma. So its definitely not okay for anyone to judge you for not having vaginal sex just because you had bottom surgery. Not all women enjoy vaginal sex and THATS OKAY.

[@billybro1403]

it hurts cuz it's a wound

[@natashaenglish-xe8vw]

No it's the same as a Cis womens

[@user-user-user-user.]

Can we take a step back and think about what we are talking about here? An artificial valley, carved out of the genital area that remains essentially a wound, sometimes for years. This is mutilation

[@yvonnewalton2484]

@@user-user-user-user. For life, they have to dilate for the rest of Thier lives, Not as often, but its for life, the brain still thinks it's a penis, but a penis with an open wound, so will continue to to try and heal it, close it over

[@Auntee-Sara]

Reading many comments prompts me to share that while not new, bottom surgeries either way, m2f or f2m, are still in their infancy. There is a lot of information needing to be compiled to allow doctors more of the knowledge required to prevent what Joules is enduring.

[@asteriasummers4600]

As a transgender woman who is pre-op, thank you for sharing your story as a always and being transparent. You don’t need to dilate, do what is best for you girl . Live your best life hunie.

[@DannyD-lr5yg]

@Transphobic Green Shirt Bathroom Guardian you’re cringe 😬

[@SneedFeedandSpeed]

You're a man You will never be a woman. No matter how much you dilate your axe wound. No man will never love you K Y S K Y S K Y S K Y S

[@MsHeavenly]

@Transphobic Green Shirt Bathroom Guardian 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 choosing violence

[@Kepi_Kei]

Sure, encourage others to butcher themselves

[@BillieB.]

​@@Kepi_Kei If people want to "butcher" themselves, that is their constitutional right... What is your point? People have the right to kill themselves if they want... Mind your business, and find happiness or stay miserable I don't really care because I actually enjoy life 😂

[@leonaball196]

I’ve just had srs surgery and I’m currently dilating it hurts as ive only just come out of hospital. I have 6”!depth and have experienced orgasm whilst my bf was driving me home with the vibration of the car. I’m gonna stick out dilating I don’t want to lose depth otherwise I shouldn’t of done it this is a sad story tbh bless you maybe you should come to the uk and get some help here of the surgeons here as they are amazing.

[@JJenkins-j9k]

@gn412r4they claim they can. Idk if I believe them at this point. Who orgasms from the vibration of a car? It sounds delusional

[@talim5686]

Dont settle for this... you can fix this , i did. I know you are talking from pain, i was there. You would really prefer it to work, we all do, don't compromise after all you have been thru, You can reach out to me to chat about it, I'm here to talk, please don't hesitate, what do you have to loose?

[@michellekaadan6949]

Hello Tali .. I had my SRS 7 months ago .. and I struggle with dilation too.. do you have any recommendations?

[@talim5686]

Michelle Kaadan sure, would love to help, reach out [e-mail] and ill contact you.

[@rebeccaspratling2865]

I am shocked someone had the nerve to tell you that. It's your body. Not theirs. Your body your choice. ❤️

[@azmgbbb]

When you felt that way as a child, you needed counseling. If a child tries to cut anything else his body, people would seek mental health.

[@thehoebehindthedumpster9389]

yeah no shit , gender dysphoria is a serious issue that needs to be adressed in a person and can lead you to make bad choices if left untreated, that's literally what trans people have been begging for for years

[@boutiquebitcoin809]

As a psychologist I agree but it is illegal to tell truth

[@johnnymotorboat8824]

I respectfully disagree. I believe what is in your mind is the problem, not your dilation or lack thereof. I am sorry your gender dysphoria wasn't addressed at what I believe to be the site of the real problem; your brain. God bless you and thank you for your viewpoints.

[@oslatron]

Your videos inspired me to get srs. And I regret getting it after having so many complications. 😩 sad

[@leefrancis007]

Sorry, where did u go?

[@MsHeavenly]

Why do you get inspiration from the internet? You don’t have your own purpose?

[@Kepi_Kei]

THAT IS WHAT I AM SAYING! *IT* inspired you? How many people are going to mutilate themselves because of IT. I am a biological woman and IT has no idea what that means. The reason your "vagina" hurts is because YOU ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO HAVE IT.

[@cecelopez6285]

As someone who just got SRS this makes so much sense dilating is the most painful thing ever!! N at first I was like uhh I regret it but then I see that area and I get happy bc i no longer have the thing that caused me dysphoria!

[@sia9907]

How did you not know that you'd need to dilate forever, and that dilating enough would hurt you? Why did no doctor warn you about the pain? They're so unethical.

[@kayleeblisschannel]

Julie I love you, I am so proud and inspired by you, you are living your best life. I'm a trans woman, I don't know if I will ever be able to afford SRS, but even now being pre op, I don't care about sex. Our bodies are not just tools for sex. Our transition isn't just about having sex. I appreciate all of your videos and explanations about your life journey and perspective. But know YOU DON'T OWE ANYONE an explanation. Not parents, not friends, not strangers. Not anyone. Only open yourself up because you want to. Or because you think you should. You are an incredible, beautiful, funny, delightful person, regardless of your gender or your body. I think people need to be able to recognize each other's beauty and gifts outside of gender roles or expression. Thank you for this video, I have watched you since the very beginning. As a matter of fact, you were the first trans woman I ever saw on the internet. Don't let anyone get you down , especially if they don't have any idea about what you deal with. You are a star and an icon, when people give you bullshit, don't even acknowledge it. Just keep on walkin' I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!!!! -KK

[@roshnipatel4963]

Kaylee BLISS you should know well that transwomen vagina get shrink after mtf surgery so you must think about first bcz its so important .i think you dont get expirience like this surgery and after it you surely will become sad

[@HaQmi]

hey, I just wanted to tell you that I appreciate this video!!! It helped me to understand myself better and what I want to do with my body

[@eloisavillars]

This is so personal, I don’t get why she “has to” explain this.

[@yvonnewalton2484]

No one is born in the wrong body, feeling like you are the opposite to which you are born does not make it real, feelings are emotions from the brain, it's the brain that is fucked, and yes i do feel for these people that suffer from gender dysphoria, and i have no problem with adults having surgery, but that doesn't change the fact that no one is born in the wrong body

[@wintersong9870]

True I kind of Wonder though it's confusing what are we calling chimeras? Are they intersex or not really?

[@alicewhitelhpw7517]

Yeah that would totally upset me too girl 😡

[@neneortiz4122]

then keep your shit to yourselves and don´t act as if you didn´t know youtube was an open forum. she´s making money out of this.

[@Kubulek17]

NENE TV except these videos are demonetised since they’re on LGBT topics

[@Cee_Cee8]

your honesty is so refreshing. you shouldnt be ashamed and your story could help soneone else who feels the same way abd need to hear their not alone. wishing you happiness joy and love..

[@Betsy.Ross76]

I'm sorry but the trans women don't feel what real women feel so I wouldn't dilate either. It's a wound that wants to heal and will close up. Don't blame you for not using it. I think many do it so they can say they have sex like a woman. I'm sorry but real vaginas are packed with nerve endings that a hole cannot replicate ever. It's very sad but the medical industry is creating customers for life with all the revision surgeries and complications .

[@dijaemarie6135]

Relatable. Had complete stage surgery ( SRS ) with Dr.Marci Bowers .the pain is real. Sex is so painful and uncomfortable everytime. Feels like a virgin over and over. I did it for me and not for anyone else. You're a beautiful woman inside and out, stay safe my luv

[@anastasgiselle]

“you do you boo, i do me.” PERIOD 💁🏻‍♀️

[@adaamatt]

Thank you for saying this, I am in exactly the same boat as you and feel the same, but don’t have the same confidence you do. My initial dilation was also a nightmare due to surgery complications

[@arielfeys1558]

It’s because it’s man made

[@christinemcdonald8705]

Wow that is a very unique perspective. I’ve never heard of this issue occurring. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@TheStichUpUnicorn123]

thats good your body your choice but if you truly think you got botched which just sounds scary even if youre not going to use it you should get it checked after this whole mess but still you do you

[@sabrineb7016]

your hair is GLORIOUS

[@lauraboltonehlis3446]

Julie you don't owe any damn person an explanation about your life dear lady! I am sorry people are so mean....love to you sweet lady!❤

[@kjh906]

Thank you for sharing your story because I’m deciding right now weather or not to go through SRS. After hearing your story I think I’ll be just fine with out the surgery. I’ve already lost the feeling in my nipples after my Breast Augmentation and that’s difficult enough for me to deal with. I’m sorry that you’re experiencing that because I’m sure you didn’t expect that to happen. Stay strong and beautiful 💜

[@svichky]

I dont how long has passed from your breast augmentation, but it took me 2 years to get sensation back in my left nipple and its still healing...

[@kjh906]

svichky oh wow. It’s been a year for me. I was told after 1 yr if it doesn’t come back then it’s most likely permanent. That gives me hope that you got yours back.

[@svichky]

@@kjh906 yeah, i know its scary but don't lose hope...my right nipple felt fine from the get go but in my left nipple i felt absolutely nothing...and then after about 15 months the nerves started to regenerate and the sensation was slowly returning in the upper pole of the breast and gradually lowering till it reached the nipple. So be patient. I hope everything turns out alright.

[@kjh906]

svichky thank you!

[@irgendwelchedinge]

I hope you'll make more videos on this topic because a LOT !! of trans girls don't understand that SRS means a dialation for life and also the possibility that vaginal intercourse will not be enjoyable!!! I love your honesty, no sugar coating from queen julie!!!!

[@NinaMorenos]

Too many dumb people giving out opinions that are irrelevant. I’m sorry you felt the need to do this video. Honestly, like you said they don’t know or understand what goes on in your personal life. Some people are just petty and opinionated. You do you, girl! I’m rooting for you!

[@axi271]

Being a woman is a biological experience that you can't get from surgery!

[@thehoebehindthedumpster9389]

yall transphobes always make that same vague meaningless statement amd think you did something , this is just metaphysics and life's too short for that . Also wierd how you only direct thar at trans women , why does noone ask what is a man ?

[@Marz859]

Sounds like you don’t know the difference in gender and sex

[@danyczer5809]

@@Marz859 and that’s exactly what she’s telling? Bio girls don’t have to dilate cause real vaginas don’t need to. So having a vagina is a biological experience. Getting a NEOvagina is different. It doesn’t feel as pleasurable, it doesn’t stretch the same, it doesn’t feel the same, etc. That’s reality girl, not trying to be mean.

[@dcc-randomstorieswithmel7424]

​@@Marz859surgery doesn't make you female,biology does

[@jackthered2446]

​@@danyczer5809neovagina is disgusting it looks like some alien creature

[@Gamerstrats1987]

Ok Google isn't giving me what I'm asking for, so correct me if I'm wrong, but if you're not going to be using it for "that" purpose, you don't need to dilate? Im a trans girl too, and I'm scared of srs ONLY because of the pain that comes with it

[@maevery7785]

Bro wtf I just wanted to know why men don’t dialate 😭😭😭😭😭

[@maryannflannigan7468]

Thank you Julie, I am a trans-woman, I am 54 and I've heard alot of stories, nightmares if you will, about dilation. I would like to get the surgery but I don't want to deal with the maintenance. But, like you, I'm happy with how I am. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You.

[@Aerafae]

Thank you Joules, this video is so so important for so many trans women Edit: Also just to put it out there, many people opt for SRS *without* a canal at all. Also in your video you say you don't do it because it's painful but even if someone just plain changed their mind and didn't care so they didn't dilate, that's okay. It's their body :)

[@ledzeppelin820]

I had one of my eye sockets turned into a Second mouth so when I drink cold fluid, my teeth wouldn’t hurt, but the eyeball cavity has been getting really infected like food keeps getting caught behind the former eyelid turned lip what do I do? This is totally unfair. Why won’t it work?

[@BeaEss]

Things a woman would never say... Sounds like a nightmare though.

[@zoeysosa6361]

Have you thought about going to get a revision with kamol or another doctor ? I feel you I’m saving and planning for Mines and I pray for succuesful and enjoyable results

[@TheMauroc]

People can be so rude sometimes, I really applaud you for keeping yourself together while replying this, very classy! I would be swearing the whole video lol

[@thegrayfamily5237]

It sucks that people have commented but I’m genuinely curious if you have gone back to your surgeon shouldn’t be painful :(

[@itsericaaquino]

this was an AMAZING heated video. thank you for being our voice! I’m a trans woman who has never taken hormones. we all have different paths! Love you joules

[@mikesreptiles8249]

Yes queen!!!! Don't allow anyone to dictate how you are supposed live your life!!!!!!!!BTW I stole your (hello sunshine sparkle face) its my greeting every time I talk to my friends lmao...just keep up the amazing work!!!!!

[@jiovanni6968]

We all have a place in this life. Trans people have their own importance across religions & cultures throughout all of history in Africa, Asia, Europe, etc. Just make good causes. Help instead of hinder. Too many people have been sacrificed in the name of hate. When will we realize it’s about more than just sex? It’s about loving yourself. Obviously, if trans people haven’t gone anywhere, there’s people still loving them.

[@johnrinaldi2698]

I with you on the subject. I totally understand how you feel. Having the bottom surgery I feel just makes us complete.

[@linajmval]

I appreciate u for you doing you and standing up for yourself!!!! I am a nonconforming Trans individual/DemiGirl and I refuse the use of hormones because I love my parts the way they are and I am actually quite feminine and I do want the Ffs and chest augmentation but I do want to keep what I have. It is my life and no one is gonna make me feel bad for having what I have so I definitely love that you stood up for yourself. U are everything!!!!

[@linajmval]

- can u talk more about this please?

[@daisymarqu]

I’m a female and a virgin. I choose to wait and I don’t have to excuse my choice to my friends who aren’t virgins. It such a shame that other girls are bringing you down as if sex is everything.

[@KorraMea]

Hi Julie, I also had SRS about a year and a half ago so I know exactly what you mean about dilating. It hurts, especially in the begining, thankfully it got better for me. I don't understand why people feel the need to call you out for not keeping up with it if you don't want to. You do you. The only thing I was worried about is your hormones since you will start to lose bone mass if you don't have some type of sex hormones in your body, but girlllll I get it I've missed days on my hormones too cuz life happens. Just please stay safe and healthy, cuz we

[@slylover123]

I just thought you didn't dilate cause you said you liked it better from the back lol Edit: it sucks that you have to explain your preferences to people

[@samanthawhang7498]

Your honesty is very much appreciated. I hope you have less discomfort going forward. ❤️

[@amohap821]

Im trans too and honestly srs sounds so scary and painful i might decide to get zero deph srs or maybe no srs at all. As much as ive wanted a vagina i think i can learn to live without a neovagina, especially if i manage to get some extensive atrophy from hrt

[@FranceneJacques]

Some years ago I had a zero depth SRS. So pleased with that decision as the zero depth achieved gave me some depth and enough depth to enjoy the associated pleasures .(nearly half ) and no variation with the normal appearance..Less painful option .

[@MompreneurDiary]

Some people say they're barbie pockets feel going . Do you think they are lying?

[@emoliver80]

Julie, I adore you! I'm just a CIS woman over here, always enjoying your content. I have learned *so* much from you and the information and knowledge and experiences you choose to share on your channel. I'm sorry that you have people like "Martha" that feel they get to judge you and your choices for your body. You're a real gem, Julie, and I hope you stay strong and try hard not to let those people get you down. Easier said than done, I know! ♥️🤗😘

[@doreese]

Ellen Marie O agree with everything you said! We love you Julie!

[@sandrsofias]

You're not "just a cis woman". u don;t need to downgrade yourtself or compare who's what. you're a woman. so is julie. end of

[@nancyhunter3293]

Ellen Marie, I agree with you!

[@emoliver80]

@@sandrsofias I'm not downgrading *or* comparing. I stated that I'm a cis woman so that she knows shes educating *everyone.* The "just* was meaning that I may not necessarily *need* some of the things shes teaching on her channel, the way someone who isnt a cis woman may need to know them, but because I like learning about other people and because learning things is usually for the better, I'm here and I'm grateful for her content. Theres always someone like you who has to turn shit into something it's not.

[@oliviawutam]

Ellen Marie, Thank you, being a person is enough to understand.

[@jovictuando4840]

thank you jules for giving me information

[@shuichitomono9508]

Haha, you took the words right out of my mouth. "You do you boo!" Thats right. Dont pay 'em beeyaches no mind. Powerful stuff today! Kudos.

[@introvertedextrovert5725]

You're the cutest sunshine sparkle face I've ever seen! I'm so sorry have to even begin explaining your business to anyone

[@ryanjamie97]

I am crying right now, I needed to hear this SO BAD!! I am in the exact same position as you. And I feel like some weirdo who was a vagina now but cant use it. And people DO NOT understand why. All the things you are saying just hit home very hard. Thankyou so much, its such a relief to hear another transwoman having this. All I hear is how great their vagina is and how well it works and it makes me so sad..

[@AJ-ox9oj]

I'm with you Girl, its your decision in what makes you happy... I just had FFS surgery, and wanting brest implants thank you Girl

[@sia9907]

He isn't happy. That's the issue here. This surgery and all the meds don't make anyone feel good.

[@valleyofthedawlz]

Gurl you sounded like Samantha Jones when you said you can take a '10 and im living for it haha

[@winros]

Thank you for your honesty! How long does a woman have to dilate for? Isn't it year or the rest of her life?

[@JJenkins-j9k]

Life

[@Ivy-dd8bf]

⁠​⁠​⁠@gn412r4 I do need to dilate. I have vaginismus and used to be unable to even get a tampon in. Pelvic exams were a hell that made me feel like I was being split open. Dilators have helped me immensely. A lot of issues associated with pain during penetration are treated through dilating. Women also need to dilate after invasive vaginal surgeries.

[@user-ub9mm4vr5k]

Just putting this out there for anyone who doesn’t agree with trans women being women: We may not be biologically female, but we have the choice to legally become women. Just like if I was born in Europe, I was raised by a European family and lived as a European , but I moved to America, I got an American citizenship, I have a job there,pay my taxes, I live there permanently and so on. I wasn’t born American, I wasn’t raised by an American family, but I legally am American and there’s nothing you can do to change the fact that I’m American. Another example can be religion, I was born in a Christian family, I was raised Christian, but I don’t want to be this religion because it doesn’t feel right to me , so I decide to become a Buddhist, you can’t force me to be Christian because I chose Buddha over Christ and I want to live my life as a Buddhist. So if I was born male and I don’t like it, I have the choice to legally change my gender to female and you can run circles around your room I will still legally be female no matter what you say or do , period.

[@user-ub9mm4vr5k]

* I literally said that I’m genetically not female and I wasn’t born as one, but legally I am a woman and I present myself as one, you just repeated what I said. My body is male, but my soul and mentality are female, it just shows that you judge a book by its cover and how shallow you are, obviously you only care about what’s on the outside and you don’t care about what’s on the inside.

[@suchaladyxtensions7930]

@@user-ub9mm4vr5kthat’s literally an opposite statement because what on the outside technically is a cover up for a female but what’s on the inside is still a male/man at the end of the day. Basically this post is just saying you’re allowed to live in a imaginary world if you choose. & you’re right I think all people want you to realize is it is just that, imaginary it’s not the reality and you can’t force people to accept you as something not real. If like saying I may be a human but if I choose to identify as a lion then that’s what I am. Okay, that’s your thing. However I’m not here to argue I just felt that was a contradiction. One thing I will say although I strongly disagree and I want to put that out there if no one knows what you go through you’re right but you trans have NO IDEA what it’s like to be a real woman and what we go through for your playing around with our real struggles and respectfully it’s quite upsetting as a woman looking for dilation for child birth videos and struggles to come across this and have someone waste my time based on the title just to be talking about a shallow topic and a cosmetic surgery when I’m planning a life I’m responsible for safely birthing. Please just respect those things and label the video more precisely.

[@angel-ms4ce]

So would you say its true what they say about dr brassard?

[@torturingsouls9635]

You really wish it worked though so you can fix it

[@ansibasi786]

You are absolutely right.... What’s wrong with people.. it’s your body at the end of the day... whatever you do with it is up to you... why others worry... you are a very beautiful very strong person and I can imagine how much physical and mental difficulties you have been through to be what you wanted to be.. you achieved a lot dear.. just neglect what others commented... even Lord Buddha and Jesus Christ had enemies and they been insulted by some people so you and me definitely get whatever we do... Be more strong... we love you ❤️

[@monimonimoni3082]

+PRINCESSJOULES Thank you for always giving me the best advice, I’m beginning my journey and you inspire me to love myself ❤️

[@michellesyraketera2502]

Moni Omnas 😘😍👍🏻

[@monimonimoni3082]

MAKE UP BY: MICHELLE SY RAKETERA 😊😊❤️

[@Maharlika97]

Sorry to ask Julie but I'm still wondering until now. You had some surgeries in Thailand like the breast implants. But why didn't you had the SRS in Thailand? From what I know, Thailand has better hospitals for SRS patients. Anyways I was just curious.

[@abdulrhmanadelsalam]

Thank you for always keeping it real Julie! This is why i love you:)iam not trans or anything but i followed your whole journey since the beginning and i love that you speak nothing but the truth! You look amazing as usual ♡

[@michellesyraketera2502]

Abdulrahman Adel 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

[@KS-bx2jf]

Real? Bitch where?

[@abdulrhmanadelsalam]

@@michellesyraketera2502 🙏

[@michellesyraketera2502]

Abdulrahman Adel 😘😘😘

[@monicamonroe9172]

bravo joules feel comfortable being yourself i applaud you 100 percent

[@charlieg5529]

It sucks that you feel like you have to defend something like this. Mamas you should never let someone guilt trip you with the progressions you have made in your life. It’s YOUR BODY, you can be selfish with YOUR BODY.

[@GlitterSuperb]

Jules Im so proud of you chica, I’ve followed your story since you first started on here. You are strong, beautiful and bomb!

[@Materva-hv6sz]

SRS regret

[@Joann76212]

i would go back to the doctor and see what is wrong. wishing you well. Praying for you.

[@TiphanyAndrea]

Welllll, isn’t her g spot in the back anyway?

[@sierrajacks9831]

Yes

[@TessaLee]

The prostate is also accessible through the vagina :)

[@dutchik5107]

@@TessaLee depends on how the surgery was exactly done. Since women don't have prostates.

[@janemh5866]

@@dutchik5107 *cis women

[@rhys896]

@@janemh5866 Don't be so sensitive, i think we know what they ment.

[@demabridges7582]

You are an amazing person. Don't take those hurtful comments to heart. You do you.

[@taylorhemelli0523]

Omg girl I feel you. I sometime get pains in my area after sex. And the next day I started to bleed. Women are all different and nobody is gonna understands another women body cause they dont own it. You do. So yesss. Do you boo ☺

[@dot7107]

Well do u know why u bleed after sex in your "vagina" ? I can tell u: IT IS NOT VAGINA, IT IS JUST MUTILATED PENIS IN YOUR MALE BODY

[@didostempest2966]

dot That’s so much bs. I’m a cis woman so I can say that this happens with us too! Ovarian cysts, not enough lubrications, tilted cervix etc. You absolute insensitive Bafoon.

[@msdanette]

@@dot7107 STFU already! No one gives a shit what you think. Go preach your bullshit somewhere else!

[@sierrajacks9831]

@@didostempest2966 yea but if you are healthy and in the mood sex should be good and not a virgin

[@kristenk6898]

@@dot7107 this happens to cis women as well. I too have pain down there when I have sex not all the time. I have vaginismus. Thankfully, mine is only mildly uncomfortable and doesn't last the whole time. Some women have underlying conditions that cause this.

[@inugraheni]

Your decission is really great, you care to yourself and love yourself, it's really important to have a good mind to make you healthier and happier

[@XerxestheGreat1]

The whole thing is a scam. This was wrong

[@TheRainian]

Hey Julie I can recommend hormon bandage or pads i donno the english word for it. Pills dident work for me either, they just made me feel weird. also you only need tp reaply pads every 4th day instead of everyday so it´s much easyer to remember.

[@covfefemaga7918]

This was amazingly icky. You're just a gay man with extra steps.

[@user-ku1np8bs8n]

I hear you

[@malibufrfrr]

Girl, i barely got this surgery done and i’m glad that im hearing this before i even get it, because even it seems painful to me and when i told my mother that i would have to do it for the rest of my life and 2-3 times a week so it doesn’t close. The stress level of me thinking of getting it is real cause it’s like im getting mixed emotions. Like i wanna get it but at the same time not

[@Discordia5]

I hope you didn't get it. ❤ You're beautiful just the way you are, I promise.

[@zephyrr914]

Love you Joules. We all have our own issues and people need to stfu. You are awesome. You’ve been through so much. Fuck em.

[@luff1800]

Maybe you should see another Doctor for a "check up" on it, to see if you were botched or something. Not, that you have to in order to be happy, I totally agree with your point, but maybe it can be made more comfortable for you. Just wondering, I by no means am an expert or anything. Much love 💖

[@oliviawutam]

Nikki B. ** You mean well, BUT nothing was botched. using or not is our choice, I never used my male organs, never even had a girl friend, Nature did not botch me

[@Nox_Atra]

I'm so sorry to heard that it was painful for you , it must be hard but I hope you are okay now

[@PhanyPacker]

Girl, my coochie shattered watching you dilate in the last video lmao. Do you, hunty. Like you said it had a lot to do with aesthetics. As long as its cool with you, nothing sucks. Go on bout your business boo. People will be people.

[@Jelloz104]

Thank you so much for this video. I tried so hard for six months and honestly, I wanted my life back. To try and dilate enough I was having to spend about four hours trying to dilate outside of the eight hours I worked. It was just putting myself through pain for nothing. It felt like knives in there and the feeling stayed for hours after dilation. Long story short, that awesome for folks who can dilate and do it, everyone has a different body and I'm living my best life my way. 😄

[@outskirtsparadise2500]

This might not be the most appropriate time to say this but I love you so much. Thank you for sharing your life and educating so many people, although I know it’s come with hardships. You are incredible.