Life Update

Prepare for a very long, candid and chatty video while I have a 'wellness' night at home. Felt like I needed to share a life update with you. N xxx
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Thank you for watching!

[@illusion5804]

It's crazy how important 'strangers' on the internet can become to you. You're like the older sister I never had. Watching your videos is so comforting. Sending lot's of love

[@AmandaWeldon]

This is so true!!

[@briee.9579]

Gilmore Girls is the BEST series. Makes me feel all warm inside, especially during the Holiday Season. Makes you want to cozy up in bed with a hot coffee (😜 if u get the reference, give this a like!) , light some candles, and dim the lights. A really good vibes series. Have fun! Let us know how u like it. Xx

[@AnastasiaChase]

I agree. It's a show that can never get old no matter how many times it's watched. ❤

[@RelDavi103]

Agreed

[@AmandaWeldon]

As soon as October hit I started Gilmore Girls and it gave me sooo many wonderful vibes. That show got me through the hardest breakup and I will forever be so grateful. xo

[@aakruthikarthic969]

or a "ho-cho"??

[@reveuse2282]

Yes Sameee

[@CarolineSophie93]

That sparkle in your eyes when you said „I got a piece of myself back“ ✨❤️ people always preach that it’s okay to be not okay, but please remember: it’s also okay to be okay!

[@webvinita]

Joey was so dreamy though 😍

[@emilysmith1000]

@@webvinita I think you should delete that, it's just unkind and not considerate of someone's feelings.

[@CarolineSophie93]

@@webvinita maybe he wasn’t after all? Sorry, but your comment is really unnecessary and potentially hurtful for Niomi.

[@webvinita]

@@emilysmith1000 Didn't think it would come across inconsiderate but maybe it is. Still surprised by everything. She used to call him dreamy (and most of us agreed) and they seemed so happy in summer.

[@emilysmith1000]

@@webvinita well I think it's good to imagine whether you'd say it to a friend or family member. It's kind of like saying "you lost something amazing". Just remember that you reap what you sow, if you get kicks from being kinda bitchy to someone online, you're not growing positivity in your own life 🙏

[@ozgiakihc7877]

Your personality seems to have changed a bit, in a way that you've become more confident and real. Way to go girl! Best of luck!

[@katie4623]

For those out there struggling to recover from heartbreak, know that there are other people out there who take a really really long time to heal too. It’s ok.

[@Alice-po7tc]

This is very true!! It took me about 3 years post breakup of a 6-yr relationship to truly be over the heartbreak.

[@everlark4ever]

your talk really resignated with me. when i was going through a similar tough time, a lot of people expected me to reach rock bottom and be a mess for the next year . but aftet the first wave of sadness, i found myself being so motivated and calm with were i was in life, i felt a new energy going forward and liked being completely with myself. it helped me love and heal myself so much. i’m glad you are living your authentic life ❤️

[@MagneticNorth61]

resonated?

[@lorenaheller1371]

You go girl 🤞🏽👌🏽

[@marzukxo5680]

love listening to this, it brings me such peace - close your eyes and let let go of the world for a minute - I hope it brings you peace too, even if it’s for a moment ❤️ kzbin.info/www/bejne/rqGtiYmtdqpglbs kzbin.info/www/bejne/mquvhZ-orNuogdU

[@constancewright1404]

@@MagneticNorth61 thanks tips, because that autocorrect was obvious

[@bucketlistadventureskrs]

✨there’s nothing more peaceful than connecting with your own soul...it’s the most powerful relationship you will ever have

[@JamieLynneBeauty]

When I separated from my now ex husband it was like a weight had been lifted and I had an amazing support system and because of that it was easy to be ok and happy and allow me to heal the way I needed to. Only you are going through your journey and you know what is best for you!

[@rebeccaward9365]

Exactly! How you deal with an ending to a relationship is different with each relationship you have. There are so many factors involved. Your mental state and feeling of stability when it happens or if it was something you knew was coming or if it was out of the blue. Even the time of year can be a factor. There is no wrong way to move on with your life and find your new path and routine.

[@biancabrogan694]

You need to read the book first! So much better after reading the book xx

[@lorenaheller1371]

Good for you girl 🥰

[@TheShiwiiipinks]

I appreciate how you’ve filmed this. No make up, no set up. Just a casual chat. Thank you for this 💕 this video is like a hot cup of cocoa 🤗

[@707anm]

Niomi, I haven’t even finished the video yet and I can already say this is literally my favourite video you’ve ever ever posted. Can’t even find the words to express how much I adore and admire you. This is making me feel so peaceful and easing my Sunday scaries haha! You are my absolute favourite and I hope you post even more videos like this! 💫❣️✨

[@elisam.4270]

This is exactly how I feel every time I watch Niomi's videos, she's so sweet and wise!

[@DesignGuy17]

Same! I love the relaxed style of this video. Feels like we’re just hanging out

[@aliazaluor2620]

Yes totally felt like hanging with a girlfriend which is hard to do with covid going on! Loved it too 💕

[@Saena]

It was lovely, wasn't it? Definitely felt more natural and gave me some serenity going into the week ahead.

[@popcorn3000]

This is so true!! You’re the sweetest and kindest person, keep on being you ♥️

[@mllemarineb]

I'm in awe of how much you take care of yourself. Everything you do (from the little things like the food you put in your body, the ingredients you put on your skin, the kind of exercise you do with your body, to the decisions you make i your life) is a way of loving yourself. This is such a lesson. I did not realise I sabotage and neglect myself throughout my day. Thank you so much for that. I'm french, so Merci beaucoup. Ps : Emily in paris is a bit cringy sometimes as a french too, but it made me want to watch till the end.

[@mann7298]

same, watching this and another video by another person i kinda feel bad for just about my eating as i see and know i could be fueling my body in so many better ways.. small changes can make a big difference

[@tinalemna7998]

I think you’ve handled this beautifully and with grace. When I was much younger I went through a tough break up and I sat down to write him a letter and poured my heart out. When I was finished writing it I tore it up and I can’t tell you how much better I felt. I totally get you saying you got a part of yourself back. Sending love 💜

[@nikilorimer411]

Brooklyn 99 has become a comfort show for me, there's relatively short episodes on Netflix and it gets you invested in the characters, its a load of fun! xx

[@sashajulia7973]

I’m having a difficult time dealing with a breakup, learning how to be alone/single again and being ok with that. Seeing you this way gives me all the hope! I’m very happy for you, you deal with this very gracefully

[@AdriFVA]

This is my favorite video of yours. Ever. You were the most genuine I've ever seen you be, I feel like I got to know you truly and not just the youtube girl. I feel very connected now. Appreciate it!

[@FoodieForce]

How on earth someone DM’s you and has the cheek to say that you need to face the situation is really such a weird thing to do. Even if coming from a good place, we see a tiny bit of your life. You have been through the worst of situations and you have the right to deal with it how you want. I just wish you love, happiness and health. Do you 😘

[@GreySalt]

These people are bitter, middle aged Karens from that nasty gossip site. Kinda terrifying by how invested they are in Niomi's life. Niomi should get a restraining order tbh.

[@constancewright1404]

@@GreySalt omg I’ve been calling these people out for years....they’re absolutely obsessed with her and they seem to have endless amounts of time to devote to hating her, they do this to others as well. I can’t stand how much shit these people think they can say to people....when I went there to check, I couldn’t even stomach how nasty they behave and talk. Don’t go there 🤯😭

[@lanecrescent4161]

@@GreySalt What gossip site? I'd love to go and rip into them ☺️

[@ece9421]

You should watch ''the marvelous mrs maisel'' . I wasnt expecting anything before watching it but..this tv show is definetely my fav from now on. there is nobody that ı recommened and didnt like it !

[@aneesahrashid8803]

Yes it’s so good!

[@Selena-vh8ti]

great recommendation!

[@ninanaparty]

Yes! IT IS SO GOOD. Someone actually recommended this to me a long time ago but since the title didn't really speak to me I procrastinated watching it. Well, might be in my top 3 series I ever watched.

[@michelledawnharpist]

Ecenaz Can I second this ... it’s my favorite show almost of all time!

[@Garglicious]

Omg its the best show evaaa❤️

[@llibrinha1627]

Hi Niomi, Don’t worry about unplanned videos, they tend to be real and showing how life is. With regards to the criticism, it says a lot about them than you. Being on a platform that started real and slowly became super fake and superficial...you are definitely on the right track and that is why I look forward to watching your videos on Sundays! 😊 You do you and be you and ignore the critics, it’s just noise.❤️❤️❤️

[@plantily]

Have you watched Schitt's Creek? I love it as an easy watching and enjoyable show.

[@yurirosa2408]

It’s so interesting that people messaged you on social media. This year has moved incredibly slowly and quickly at the same time, it feels like. I vividly remember you struggling and not looking as happy or as centered - understandably so. But we have so much more time to ourselves this year that I think it has worked for your benefit. And there is no right or wrong length of time to move on. Doesn’t mean you won’t have moments of feeling sad or lonely or yearning for what you had, but only you and your CLOSE friends and family know the true reality of your life. Not us. We’re just here to enjoy whatever you allow us to see. And we thank you. ❤️

[@dailylifeofskim]

Naomi I went through a very similar time as you - recently ended a 5 year relationship and moved away to a new city near friends. I connected so deeply to your chat, especially when you said you found a part of yourself that you didn't know you lost. Amen sister I'm so happy to hear you're doing well

[@JanetSuzanne]

“I got a part of me back and I never knew I lost it” I really felt that. Sometimes it takes something negative to happen to realise who you are? That’s not how I want to word it but I can’t think of another way 😂

[@janetbartlett6119]

I would highly recommend Gilmore Girls as a cozy series to watch during your downtime. It's great especially for this time of year

[@emilyang25]

Yessss

[@Tori22188]

Is it in Netflix x

[@julialasobras1092]

Very good recommendation!! Gilmore Girls is such a brilliant, clever show about love and relationships, you will love it Niomi x

[@Emma-Jayne100]

Yes!

[@janetbartlett6119]

@@Tori22188 It is here is Canada and I think it is available in many other countries but I am not 100% sure which ones.

[@eroemer13]

I wasn’t in my last relationship for very long but realized that it wasn’t for me and I deserved so much more from a partner. After the break up I started putting my happiness first, taking the toxic relationships out, and doing things for me and I’m genuinely happy for the first time in a while and it’s amazing. So glad you are genuinely happy and doing great!

[@summerroberts1000]

Not a series but girlll Eat pray love is the movie for you ... it’s one movie that I can watch any time any day and something tells me u will really really resonate with it right now ❤️ love light & positivity to u niomi

[@ThePrivet18]

One of the word movies I’ve seen. So boring

[@biancabrogan694]

The book is amazing!

[@RhiannonAshleeVlogs]

Loved this video, my favourite kind and was lovely hearing you chat are getting a piece of yourself back 💛 I also really want to try one of those face tools now as I get so tense in my neck/jaw too x

[@CharmednReady03]

I love your channel so much!! Seeing you in the comments made me smile ❤️xxx

[@littlemisskittyuk1]

Same - Niomi & Rhiannon are my favs. I just find them so lovely and calming x

[@meghanmccarthy5913]

Please let Niomi be. Nobody has the right to comment on anyone else’s life. We are all doing the best we can with life’s twists and turns and it’s important to respect Niomi. Sending you love N, thank you for being so raw. Xx

[@mollypotter15]

Your energy feels like you got a part of yourself back. Sending you every bit of love in the world- thank you for inspiring me always.

[@itsWeasley]

This was such a lovely, cosy video. It was like having a chat with a really good friend. You go Niomi, you're glowing!

[@tinyshinystar8458]

When I split with my ex there were hard days and good days and days I just felt incredible and within weeks even though it was a very very long relationship I felt good. I think when something stops working and you have the strength to leave that situation and you leave on good terms its not the soul destroying experience everyone expects a break up to be

[@toniabishop1734]

By far one of my favorite videos you have made. Just real honest conversation! I’m so glad to hear how well your doing. It’s not always about time but how you feel internally.

[@megb7491]

I was SO worried about the tub overflowing !! Thank goodness Niomi mentioned it so I could enjoy the rest of the talk !!

[@hairgeek95]

Me too, it’s when she was putting her mask on chatting away. I kept thinking the bath... the bath 😂😂

[@Kelly-cp8nv]

i’m actually speechless that people are accusing you of being “fake” on instagram. like a) NONE of their business b) theoretically if you got out of a situation in which you weren’t your happiest......it makes sense you’re happier now!

[@mineolas]

I loved “ “Easy”, which are more “raw” love stories, more real and also the vulnerable energy coming out of it. Like you get in touch with your emotion. Really loved it.

[@Himikoiii]

I feel like nobody is as sweet, pure and gentle as you and that may be why you haven't found the right one yet. I'm glad you're okay, tho. You deserve the best

[@TheMalouWaidtloew]

Please make a video about how you have focused on yourself, and small tips om how to implicate self-love in an everyday routine!🙏❤️ - This could help alot of us

[@axoxoblue]

I would recommend "The Nanny" , it's my all time favorite series

[@KG-sf3tf]

Everyone processes differently - kudos to you for working through the challenges you've recently experienced in such a healthy and positive way. I am a few videos behind but thank you for the self-care & self-love tips you've shared along the way.

[@Sweetsluv]

You seem a lil’ different..really liking your vibe, seems open and confident..a realness can’t put my finger on it cause you’ve always been real and awesome...but just like a breath of fresh air❣️🌈🙏🏻

[@RachelDex]

I know we only see a snippet of your day in these videos, and have no idea about what's happening behind closed doors, but from what i see, you should be really proud of yourself. You're so respectful and dignified even through everything you've been going through. Ignore anyone who tries to question that 💛

[@LilMissAngel1116]

I have watched you for years and ngl, as of recently, haven't really been following you on KZbin for a while now, I'm sorry. My life has just been, a lot too. Maybe I'll see and like your posts and stories on IG. So this is kind of the first video of yours that I watched since years now I think, and oh my goodness, you've grown so much as a person but still the same you. I don't know how to explain it but the YOU right now, so different from the you I watched back then and yet, similar in a way. But one things for sure, you are definitely stronger, happier and wiser. I'm no even exaggerating when I say I'm just blown away and I could not be happier for you. I've loved you, the values you hold, the things you teach, the way you are, and I can honestly say that I am so much more in love with you now Niomi. I've been going through something recently too and I feel like this time, out of all the rough moments I've had, is the hardest. Feel like giving up. But watching this video, seeing you go through what you've gone through and are still going through, gives me hope. Makes me want to try harder. It's hard and I know it's still gonna be hard, but at least, especially after hearing you speak your truth in this video, the way you truly love and respect yourself as a human being, I'm gonna try my damn best. I don't know if you'll ever see this but I'll just leave this here anyways. Thank you Niomi, from the bottom of my heart, thank you. I love you and I wish you nothing but positive energy, love, blessings, happiness and strength in everything that you will go through. I can't wait to see what's next in both our books. ❤️❤️❤️

[@IChangeMyName]

So beautifully said wish you the best 😭

[@LilMissAngel1116]

@@IChangeMyName Thank you!! I wish you the best too! 💕💕

[@trishyyyyy2685]

I highly recommend Brooklyn nine-nine, modern family and Gilmore girls! They’re so good if you just want to watch something during your down time. Those shows really helped me through some hard days.

[@roksilewandowska2931]

I highly recommend Anne with An E! It’s such a good feel show and it makes you feel extremely positive afterwards. It helped me during a hard time and I rewatched it 3 times afterwards haha.

[@kristend3456]

“I think I got a part of me back”.... how beautiful. And you owe no one am explanation so I love that you don’t feel obligated. I ended an engagement a little over a year ago and it was incredibly difficult but also helped me meet parts of myself I’d lost touch with and explore new ones too. My life has transformed in fabulous ways this last year (even with the challenges of 2020) so I trust that your life will continue to enfold in the most beautiful ways - because you are so deserving, genuine and hard working. Keep living and loving life on your own for the time being - there is magic in it all! ✨🤗💜

[@muzkash3916]

One of the most genuine youtubers

[@pinelopik98]

Modern family!! I can’t recommend this show enough. Such a perfect, feel good show. It has really helped me through my lowest times

[@annakoszegi5176]

I much prefer natural, simple, unstaged videos like this.

[@ChloeMatthews]

I completely agree!

[@haneeshav8590]

Me and my boyfriend of 3 years broke up this Spring. It is tough, has been tough, but I fully understand what you mean. I feel like I got back a part of who I was as an individual before the relationship. It is so liberating focusing on myself, my wants and my needs. I do incorporate me time, but I think I will also dedicate an evening as a wellness evening, sounds super relaxing.

[@ashleyconnell5987]

Hi Niomi! I just wanted to say that I'm so sorry you received some negative comments about how you so beautifully moved forward, stayed focused on the positive and found that light within yourself again. I couldn't help but notice a few comments on your IG page and I just shook my head. You're so bright and brilliant and motivated and we've all seen that over the years and here you are facing this massive life change and loss and you handle it so maturely and wonderfully. I fully admired it and thought, what a great example to young women everywhere. These life changes don't have to completely define you and they shouldn't! Here's to staying positive, growing and keeping that light within.

[@clarisselsdc2558]

Niomi, you are the master of your feelings, so just keep on ignoring people who think they know better than you what you have inside your heart. You’re doing so well by putting yourself first and set such a great example for all of us struggling out there. Girl, you are stunning, so just keep shining bright ☀️

[@aniellakulik7563]

It was such an honour to watch such a sweet and raw "girls night" with you, thank you for sharing your journey, being such an empowering and positive light in the world, and just generally being you. Love you

[@vbgcfan]

I absolutely loved this video, especially the last part when you're chatting on your couch. Also: "I kind of feel I've got a part of me back and I never knew I lost it." I know exactly what you mean. It took me longer, but I'm so happy now about having my other "me" back!!! ❤️

[@MrsTumachina]

Now people are shaming others for being happy.. The internet gets more ridiculous day by day 😂 Everyone griefs differently 🙌

[@crossecloe7956]

"i think i finally got a part of myself back" this. This is so much help. I just feel the same way about life right now. You're SO true. And don't worry, never really watched a video and this one randomly popped up and i loved it 😊 thanks for sharing real life...

[@lucianacanning9975]

Fleabag is a funny show on Amazon. I think each episode is 30 mins. Ozarks is a crazy ride on Netflix. Outlander is a great period piece on Netflix. Glad that you are healing and starting to feel more like yourself! ❤️

[@karen4253]

NETFLIX ~ Just a couple of Korean dramas (K-dramas) that I you might enjoy 1. Crash Landing on You 2. Something in the Rain (Son Ye-jin is in both dramas and a great actress). Even though dealing with a breakup is very difficult, just continue doing what makes you happy and gives you a peace of mind. Stay positive and journey through life at your own pace ~ Time heals, so take one day at a time and focus on attaining those Yoga goals 🤸🏼‍♂️💛 ~ All the best and stay safe.

[@reveuse2282]

I loved crash landing on you. I love kdramas. Can you recommend something cosy and warm for cold winter nights?

[@karen4253]

@@reveuse2282 RE: Netflix K-Dramas: Something in the Rain, It's Okay, not to be Okay is another good one. There are others, you just need to browse. Glad you enjoyed Crash Landing on You. All the Best.

[@marielaalemanc]

I had a bad breakup but not being financially stable was the worst part, I couldn't get out of the place we lived together and in that moment I realized when people in an abuse relationship can get out because they had the same problem like me. This is common in my country because even I have a degree my salary it's so so bad, but there is no jobs so what can you do. Your videos help me a lot xx

[@sharonhughes1538]

💞❤️💕💕💕

[@discopumps]

What country are you from if you don’t mind me asking. And did you manage to move on from your relationship?

[@HuongNguyen-vi5yy]

Keep strong

[@3gymnasticslover]

Gilmore girls, Avatar the Last Airbender(trust me it’s amazing), great British baking show, New Girl, Call the Midwife(this show is outstanding). All these shows make me happy 100% all of the time.

[@francesandrews5506]

It doesn’t matter how long it takes to heal. Just be your lovely self and take care of you 🥰 We all deal with things differently and just keep doing what your doing 🥰 sending lots of love x I enjoyed the video and I have helped me get back into my yoga - I’m struggling and now we are isolating as my daughter has just tested positive for Covid ( even when we followed the guide lines, mask etc)- so for me I will stay positive and keep my family safe with my hubby by my side and make time to do my meditation and yoga - Thankyou for always inspiring 🥰 your a beautiful soul xx

[@hhoward2996]

This is my favorite video you’ve ever made. Your personality really shines through. Well done.

[@tisha1990]

Gilmore girls is great!! I didn’t get into Emily in Paris either! Also for 30 min episodes the good place is fantastic light hearted tv show xxx

[@katerutland4235]

I love how real and open you are. The energy you give off is so pure and calming. You give me hope ❤️

[@hopehenderson1185]

A “clug” is a great product for vertically storing your bike and adding decor to your wall.

[@Dianaxox3]

I think these type of videos are what make me feel better during these challeging times. I love to see and hear how people find their inner peace just by themselves. Thank you so much for this, Niomi. ❤️ Please more videos like these.

[@lisanvugts]

Hearing tom rosenthal always makes me emotional! Such a beautiful song. And so are you Niomi xx

[@ndoherty1000]

Enjoy your YTT training. I completed my power yoga YTT in March and it was such an amazing journey. I'm envious that you have the rest of your experience ahead of you!

[@itsjustkyra07]

A shame people can’t see someone thriving & being happy without trying to destroy or ruin it. So nice to see it Naomi & it is inspiring for those of us who are going through similar situations & feel there’s no light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you & wishing you all the happiness and beyond ✨✨✨

[@amay4203]

You do seem very at peace. Life will throw all kinds of things at you, but you become the person you're meant to be. Walking through pain and feeling your feelings let's you heal so much quicker.

[@jennys.945]

That song during your hand stand pose just makes me think "Niomi!" I love it! I can't wait to see where you take your future. One day at a time and focusing on taking goodness in and giving goodness out and you'll continue to get past this Niomi!

[@Jennikreads]

This was probably my favorite video you’ve posted in awhile. So chill and down to earth and such lovely food for thought on self care

[@coatwilkinson]

Gilmore Girls is a perfect cosy show! And I just wanted to say this is one of my favourite videos you have done, it was so real and honest and I love that!

[@Nimbleful]

I love Gilmore Girls! any other recommendations? :)

[@The.Caroline]

I think it’s essential to put yourself first sometimes, and if anyone deserves putting themselves first it’s you Niomi. You pretty much refocused your life, dropped everything and moved to India for someone else. I think part of the reason you feel happy so soon after is a sign that it wasn’t meant to be, that he wasn’t 100% right for you. I’m sure it has been hard, but you do look really happy and I wish you all the best xx

[@beautifulbliss9797]

Wow, people sending you texts criticizing you for being happy is just mad. You are and so is anyone of us allowed to feel what we feel. I'm watching your channel for 2-3 years now and I don't know you in person but to me you seem authentic and inspiring. All the best and sending you a lot of good vibes!

[@ohsolemonie]

i recently finished watching jane the virgin and it was so clever, heart warming and a perfect show for escapism! if all fails autumn = gilmore girls season xxx

[@abletolove1997]

Niomi, this video made me cry. Mostly because I have had tough months lately, but also because it has been hard for me to focus on myself and be selfish enough, in a good way. Hearing you having these kind of feelings too made me realise that I'm not alone. I wish you all the best, love you. ❤️

[@amaberc27]

This is my favorite video that you’ve ever filmed! I love how genuine and raw this was! I’m glad you’re feeling better! You deserve happiness!

[@lottizoe1858]

@Niomi wow, when you said: "I think I've found a part of me that I never knew I lost" - you just completely summed up my journey over the last couple of months. I too went through a break-up in February - but that wasn't it, I realized I hadn't felt like myself for so long. Now I'm slowly refinding myself and I'm so proud of the woman I've always been but kind of denied myself to be. Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability, shows how strong you actually are. Lots of virtual hugs

[@gleeoflife]

How very odd of people to judge how you deal with your emotions. Every single human being is different, so why compare? You have dealt with your difficult situation, you have healed and are moving on. Focus on yourself and your happiness, wishing you all the best x

[@fashionchoco]

Thank you so much for being so open and vulnerable Niomi. Really resonated with me. Beautiful to see your progress and how happy and relaxed you are.

[@josepha133]

This is exactly the kind of chill video I needed right now! My series recommendations: The Affair, This is Us & GIRLS

[@mirandadeards1524]

Loved this video. I've been on a similar path to you since February and not as far as you on my journey to recovery. You give me hope and a reason to look forward and not back. Thank you xxxx

[@whoweare3350]

Definitely take a look at Crash Landing On You, beautiful series, has everything, romance, comedy and suspense. 💯💯💯

[@Soltopmtz]

I think that were you are now is the goal for everyone that its in this journey of self love and healing, you said it right, when you focus on yourself and the emotions you're feeling instead of running away from them is when the healing starts. I'm so thankful that you share these moments because some of us are living/dealing with kinda same issues. Loved this content i've missed it! XO From Mexico!

[@MiddleAgedMinx]

Dont arch your back in the handstand PLEASE PLEASE read Iyengas Light On Yoga...its all about alignment

[@hannahwilson8394]

How beautiful and honest you are. You have been such a huge influence in my life throughout your KZbin journey and are literally the reason a transitioned to a plant-based diet. Thank you for being real. So glad you are happy xxx

[@jillianmclaughlin25]

Hand stand tip: Get closer to the wall. You're leaving too much space! It'll be easier :)

[@AllyCat8901]

It's amazing to see you like this. Don't feel like you have to justify the way you've handled and are handling things. My best friend has gone through the same life change in the summer and you reminded me so much of her when you said that you found part of yourself again, not even knowing you've lost it. It's an amazing thing to find out, not just for you but the people around you to see you more content and happy is amazing! You're thriving hun! Sending loads of love and I hope this positive note helps xx

[@simoneviebke5424]

I recommend "Easy" and "Master of None" on Netflix. Short, 20 min per episode and just nice. Also "Love", it's cute!

[@blakekohjing1236]

Thank you for being vulnerable with us and genuine. I empathize the same with how you've been through and it's so lovely to connect and feel the same way when dealing with comments and post-relationship situations. Love these lovely vlogs and updates, would love to see more :-) thank you for sharing! Keep staying happy and true to yourself! xx

[@shazmcuk]

I’ve been subscribed for years and I have to say this style of video is your best - I’ve always loved your dinner/night time routine style videos, but the chatty parts really make it. It’s lovely to see you look so happy again!

[@Assignments7566344]

Hi Niomi, I’ve been following you for what feels like a lifetime (before you started your own KZbin channel). I’m from sunny Brisbane, Australia 🇦🇺. I love these kinds of videos. This raw genuine nature feels so cosy and real. Please do more of these when you feel like it. Wishing you all the very best always. xx

[@kaitjensen1618]

I loved this video so much. I prefer the natural watching you in your normal habitat, then a more planned video. Because it's real, the real you. And you made it feel like we were actually there,having girl time together. I'm happy that you're growing personally, after something terrible happened. I went through a breakup earlier this year, and I was all over the place, emotionally. I had the highs and lows as well. We ended up getting back together after a lot of talking through everything. But I do understand what you're going through, it's an interesting time learning yourself again. Wishing you all the best

[@TheFlyingReporters]

My recommandation : This is Us

[@FreakyAnna92]

Oh yes! It’s so amazing!

[@TheAbbybabs]

Best series ever!!

[@annabelgodwin4862]

Was just thinking this would be the show I’d recommend! Can’t wait for series 5 to start!

[@nataliebyrne]

Thank you so much for sharing, and I completely resonate. My long term boyfriend and I broke up after 6 years, I had 2 weeks of crying and then I felt so at peace and so happy. But it was because I spent the last 2 years of us together just so heartbroken, and tense that it was like a huge weight lifted of my shoulders. Everyone processes things differently. 💕

[@RelDavi103]

I also rewatch Felicity every few years and it gives me a warm fuzzy feeling and very optimistic almost melancholy motivational feeling too.

[@Nimbleful]

oo never heard of Felicity - must check it out :)

[@jovicrazed]

So do I! I love, love, love that show. The Smart Powder episode makes me laugh like crazy every single time.

[@kgg9572]

Niomi, I love that you are choosing light and being light to others. Just remember planes reach their highest altitude going against the wind! You’re very inspiring and you are becoming the absolute best version of yourself! Much love!!

[@littlemisskittyuk1]

‘Love Life’ on BBC with Anna Kendrick is such a lovely heart warming series! OH & I watched it all this weekend :)

[@ingaeider-kruger7505]

It makes me so happy to watch this and see you so happy

[@RikoScouse]

People can be so rude. How someone deals with emotional situations is completely up to them. Sometimes things go by quicker. Not easier, but just quicker. And sometimes, tiny little setbacks follow you around for months. Every situation and every person is unique and so is their way of pulling themselves out of the mud.

[@reveuse2282]

Yes how we deal with stress in our live is not something everyone needs to comment on. There is no right way to deal with stress and trauma. Live and let everyone live

[@romycullen17]

I'm bingeing all of your new content. I so enjoy these sort of videos where it's more of an old youtube vibe of sitting and chatting and showing life and things you like. Sending you love