Shaadi Ka Lehenga | Hindi Short Film on Marriage Pressure | Women Empowerment |Drama| Why Not

The story discovers the journey of 28 years old Neha. She is under the constant pressure of getting married from her family. Her mother (57, divorced) thinks it is her fault that has made Neha hate marriage so much. Conflict breaks out between the two one day and Neha finally gives her mother the real reason why she doesn't want to get married. How will the mother respond to this? Watch the video to find out.
Cast
Anshika Awasthi
Madhu Sachdeva
Nirupama Verma
Crew
Writer - Anshika Awasthi
Editor - Bhupesh Kumar Nakul
DOP - Roshan Purbay
Sound - Jay Prakash Kumar
Production-- Saksham Khanna
Creative Director - Shikha
Post production supervisor - Rahul Chopra
Creative head - Cauvery Rajagopal
Executive Producer - Chandni Ahlawat Dabas
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[@LifeTak]

Thank you guys for all the lovely comments and feedback! 🥳 Glad to have viewers like you!!

[@Myself_Megha]

Facing the same problem😌 Apne life mein itni pareshani aur upar se ye shaadi😞

[@skyblue-ii8bh]

Old actors ki team kahan gayi .? Can u plz tell to viewers..

[@ruhibhatia7076]

It's time we realize... marriage is not a compulsion. It is a choice....if u think u r not able to go through responsibilities and social structure ...better not to chose it . Parents should also support their children . There are many other things in life then pressuring adults to marry . Marriage is beautiful and engaged journey.. not one tym instance. Let them do whatever make them happy n peaceful

[@Pinki_rai011]

Exactly

[@reemadas5794]

So true ❣️

[@travellover6563]

Thank you 😊

[@SS-md6hl]

❤

[@gurujee203]

This short film mislead youth, reality is different

[@misssoni4466]

Shadi se jyada jaruri freedom Hoti hai...kisi k saath raho ya akele jaruri hai happy rhena ... or mujhse Jyada ache se is bat ko koi nhi Jan sakta.....Kitna sukun milta hai ek ghtiya zindagi se alag hokr ... Kitna mza aata hai khud k sath khush hokr 💞

[@shilaroy6639]

This is the original story of me and my beloved daughter. The only thing is I never entertain anybody between us. We faced severe difficulties in our lives. Only God is with us. Now she is 25 and an excellent professional.

[@Preetinspires]

Its high time people understand this message. Shadi is not a necessity.. Being happy n peaceful is wht matters

[@Arjun70275]

True yarr......it is 2023 now and marriage should not be a compulsion for anyone...... especially if they are financially independent

[@Preetinspires]

@@Arjun70275 financially dependent k shadi waise b ni hoti ajkal. Chahe boy or a girl. Sab paise ka khel hai. Ajkal marriages r based only on lust n greed contracts.

[@born2shine587]

Very true...सिर्फ शादी ही खुश रहने का रास्ता नहीं है...खुद से खुश रहना भी ज़रूरी है👏👍

[@divyakukrejasachdeva9214]

Kya baat hai!! For my happiness, "I am enough!" 😊😊

[@kiranjuneja4736]

Such a thoughtful video. Very important message. Coming out of an abusive relationship is a brave decision. Actually no one supports this decision, but whom so ever is bearing that, knows the pain. Hopefully society understand that.

[@deepashrivastava6286]

Sbse achhi line mujhe lagi k jb meri school fees bhrne nahi the meri maa pe tb kaha thi aap...ye rishtedar ese time me khisak lete hn or duri bna lete hn jb jarurat hoti h...or pressure bnane ese aa jate hn shadi k liye jese inki kamai ka hi kha rahe hn ham

[@shoban1520]

Good movie. One should marry if one wants to not because society thinks it is a must.

[@smitaray1893]

There are so many people who are in toxic relationships but they need some support system (for mental, emotional or sometimes financial) to come out of the same and lead a life with self-respect and peace. Surely your contents give confidence and A RAY OF HOPE to such people before they give up. Kudos to your writing team. Your storyline is always balanced and contents have right amount of emotions. God bless.

[@prachiraizada]

I just loved it. It's better to put ourselves first then to take unnecessary decisions because of societal pressure

[@sushmashukla4112]

Girls should marry when they are financially stable and when their mindset is ready

[@asmasyed3073]

Its a long way to go I think after so many decades people realize it K shadi is not the only criteria to get respect in the society.

[@priyajoseph5267]

It's nice to understand both sides of the story. We can see why our parents worry about us finding a life partner, so we don't end up alone and loneliness doesn't catch up on us. It's not that we cannot look after ourselves we r very much capable of doing so, but it's the love of our parents. Parents and children must have an open conversation if children want to get married or not and whatever the decision is it must be respected. Being unma doesn't mean you have gained the title of 'Loneliness' and being married doesn't mean you are 'happily married' you are just 'Married'. None of us can un each other's position because we r not in their shoes. Be happy and try to be positive in what life has to offer.

[@meerasanandi4855]

Putting ourselves 1st ...yehi toh nahi karr paathe hum be it old generation Indian women or the new age modern independent Indian women....kaheen na kaheen hum sacrifice karr hi detheen hain by putting others before us....the biggest mistake we women do is we put in so much effort to be perfect and to satisfy people around us by playing the role of a mother, a wife , a sister, a daughter, a daughter- in -law, that we forget our own identity....we women often forget that we have an identity beyond all these roles that we play....we forget ourselves....the most important person in a woman's life is herself and not the outside world that never stops influencing her.... congratulations guys...we need more mother -daughter duos like you who believe in empowerment and being happy about your own self rather than those who would just lead life of slavery slogging for others throughout and preaching the same to the next generation

[@sukhwindergill2024]

Each and every video lifetak proof that this channel is amazing but still it doesn't reach on that point where actually it deserves

[@fanab8151]

She is so right about these so called relatives. They are always there to tell you what you are doing wrong, and how you should live your life,but never there to help financially or give a helping hand. Such hypocrites. Peace to all

[@HRHKamal]

Very good message - walk out of a toxic relationship, take your own decisions instead of bothering about other people's pressures, expectations etc.

[@sindhumenon7383]

Nice vdo. Marriage is not to be done under pressure. It's a journey between two couples to share whatever comes in their way. If the relationship between them is torturing it is better not to continue. Wise decision is to be taken before marriage otherwise remain single and happy if you don't want to handle responsibility

[@usha26]

It's high time we realize the truth of life. Loved watching ❤

[@AuthorBooksReader]

Marriage should be a choice and not compulsion. Its absolutely okay not to get married. Its actually a high time that society needs to accept these facts and learn not to judge anybody for the choices which an individual makes for themselves.

[@Cherrycamroll]

So true

[@nikitafernandes461]

So true 💯

[@nikitafernandes461]

But always this society judges a woman for being unmarried and not having a husband and kids

[@nikitafernandes461]

It is really stressful and painful for girls

[@pragatigiri6708]

But always our parents even think about society so much ...

[@ranikalra4239]

If you are Happy. No matters, what's your marital status You can be happy ad a single person

[@aindrilamitra1359]

Marriage is not a key for "happiness"!!

[@tarandeepsingh5044]

Beautiful short video , really proud of you neha and ur mother, it's true that marriage is not the reason to happy in life , their maany other reasons to live and enjoy and happy in life . ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@legendkiller1744]

Relatives sirf jale pe namak daalne ke liye hote hai. I'm 34 but still single & happy.

[@sanedoings]

By the end of the video we all got ans of Pata nhi kyu ladki ko itna padaya-likhaya? yup in order she'll take stand for herself & will not depend on anyone for her expenses & ultimately her happiness. Glad to see her mother supporting her choice. Life tak 🎉❤

[@sukirtiverma3345]

Amazing video 👌 Each & every word spoken by Neha is totally correct 👍. Marriage should not be compulsory for one's life ,it is only a choice. One should do it only if he/ she is ready & meant to do it . This harsh reality is must to understand by our society .

[@user-hf8uw3vz1m]

YOU DUMBOS FIRST UNDERSTAND THE HIDDEN AGENDA BEHIND THIS CINTENT. JUST TO DEMEAN HINDU SYSTEMS. DO THESE ROGUES TALK ABOUT THE PEACEFUL COMMUNITY WHO ARE THE BIG MENACE TO THE COUNTRY

[@nikitafernandes461]

True 💯

[@nikitafernandes461]

But society does not understand this for women

[@littleflwr1007]

Live life on ur own terms not under the dictates of others. Be morally gud! Serve society and make life worth living

[@Mvmysterious07]

Yes ... I think shadi is not biological clock Me is story se kafi jada relate kr skti hu I'm just 15 jb mere papa is duniya se chle gye and fir kisi v relatives ne hmari help nhi ki meri mummy ko majduri krni padi ghr chlane k liye hmari schl fees k liye but fir tb koi relative ni aaya hmari help k liye, tb agar actual m kisi ne help ki to vo meri schl ke sisters ne mummy ko schl m job diya and jb hum strong huy to sare relatives hme puchhne lge , mene jb 12th complete Kiya to sbko meri shadi ki chinta hone lgi mummy k brain wash Kiya un logo ne kayi sare rishte bheje ( tb me Sochi ki achanak se inko hmari chinta kbse hone lgi😂) aese lga jese meri shadi ho Jane se sb sahi ho jaega 😂 but fir mene un logo ka virodh Kiya nd aaj me apne dream ko pura krne m lgi hu nd jldi hi use hasil kr lungi 😊

[@sangeetasingh6645]

I think aisa wardrobe har ghar mein dekhne ko milega jo ki bikhra hua hoga

[@ritharamsuchit5202]

Now this is something all should learn 👏👏👏👏 Beautiful Message 👌 I am so GRATEFUL to my late MUM for not pushing marriage onto me. I married when I was READY

[@nikitafernandes461]

At what age uh got married

[@ritharamsuchit5202]

@@nikitafernandes461 30 yrs Celebrating my 35yrs of marriage in a couple of weeks 😍💕💞

[@swm367]

It's better to be independent than interdependent.

[@himani773]

What a great message 👍//showing reality to these so called rishtedaars was best

[@LifeTak]

Thanks!

[@tiyasa7511]

Her saying "phir se ? Kiyu?" was all of us 😂😂😂😂

[@vidhisingh7086]

It is individual’s choice to marry or not , but a good companion is required in life. After a certain age most friends get married and have partners . We have to take risk. That’s it. Get married whenever you are ready . Don’t fall for the pressure.

[@aashmanm.4767]

Wonderful... N we all need b gud to ourself first.... Hum khud ko pyar n respect nai denge then no one will give that... 🎉🎉

[@sairamsharma6185]

zindagi me har cheez sirf do vajah se milti hai ek koshish aur dusri kismat. jahan tak settlement ka sawal hai vo to marte dam tak nahi hota. isliye har kam waqt pe karte rehna chahiye, shadi ek pavitra bandhan hai uski kadr karen.

[@jacquelinetauro]

Yes. You have to be happy with your self. Only then can you make others happy or have a happy marriage. Nice video ❤❤❤

[@Kingfisher11-k2i]

We must get married when, ready.

[@rashi2199]

Such a relevant topic 💗 And thank you for making video's on these topics 🌻 You guys always bring something important for our society ☺️ Keep growing 🙂

[@ankitjain9999]

It’s a great social message to everyone who just think like that if he/she won’t get married or re-married life will stop and they will live in hell ,which is not true as everyone one have there own journey there own circumstances some had abusive marriage and some have traumatic marriages too but people won’t understand this as they are watching from the front side not standing on same side ,hope one day all relative’s and parents will support and understand its only and only our choices for going for marriage or not ….why not @lifetak

[@saymaansari2719]

Absolutely....khud maine b 32 me shadi ki when I was ready properly

[@suboohiyasmeen]

i think every girls age should be 30 plus during her marrriage

[@snehallale193]

Marriage is only a part of life n not whole life😊 Grt content on so unpopular topics 👏👏

[@krispylife1693]

To all unmarried girls who has dreams and ambition out there Send this video to parents and relatives so that they can understand about this marriage is not a achievement or a career but it's a choice

[@bhumichorasiya889]

Nice, mere मन की बात, same Neha s thinking

[@radhikamalpani6453]

Such a beautiful message for this world to understand marriage इस not everything.I am going to be 36 this year and still unmarried ya fir single this world very harsh towards you and its just my mumma why i am here able to write and face this world my brother is also my support and my father he ll never understand me why I still get furious and have full of anxienty whenever I hear marriage

[@ellanjohn9230]

Yes me too 36 ys old n unmarried

[@shouryasaubhagya3638]

Video ka point ek hadd tak sahi but har baat ki ek age hoti hai aur jab apne saath waalo ko Kam paise me bhi family ke saath khush dekho tab ander hi ander bahut akela pan feel hota hai.......aapka akela pan ek achche companion ke saath hi dur hota hai....khud financially secure ho but financially secure hone me kahi age na nikal jaaye......"Sabar ka phal meetha hota hai but jada sabar ka sadd bhi jata hai" Is tarah ke video bana kar aajkal ke bachcho me galat soch paida kar rahe hai aap log.

[@pankajamshivkumar4500]

One in a million video ... wow feeling ❤❤❤❤❤

[@revathyrajendran3567]

Perfect 👍 Put yourself first 💯❤️

[@hope8282]

as a person going through the same thing being 25 now i can totally relate it feels like as if each day im going a bt far from the ones who made me study and build a career if im saying i need time and want to build a career they will say what you have done until now so its better try to be financially independent by next year or get married we have to live in society and dont want ourselves to be mimic by socity

[@kangkanabezbaruah681]

Exactly!!

[@sanashaikh2619]

So relatable....

[@pragatigiri6708]

Same story...but my mom is still trying to live because of society.

[@aasthacoomar3264]

A meaningful video that proved to be pointless. Not allowing the daughter to speak out her experiences out of regard for her father who was abusive to her mother. An abusive marriage always clashes on the kid as well. Let the regard be reserved for the one who served.

[@shobhakamath3142]

Wonderful acting ....fantastic video....

[@bulujoardar]

Right approach to marriage and life.

[@suryalekhathungavaloo7993]

Excellent video 👌❤️👏 and msg for all women and men. Respect 🙏 and thanks 😊🙏 from South Africa 🇿🇦❤️🙏. Thanks 😊🙏 also for your English subtitles 😀❤️👌

[@louannseeram2547]

Besutifully done

[@anjanamukherjee5096]

Excellent social message

[@sujataverma8088]

Shaadi jaruri nahi hai par shaadi karni chahiye aapni pashand or tume par koyki jindagi jine ke liye AK aachi jiban saath jaruri hai khushi to har chhoti chij bhi mil Sakti chahiye to nahi to aakele bhi Khushi nahi rah sakta ye yesa rista payara hai dono milkar nibhana chahiye dur nahi bhagna hai ye hi hamari sanskriti ko jinda rakhta hai ❤

[@Arjun70275]

My classmate surbhi is doing mbbs she is a junior resident doctor and she is 29 years old.....but since she is financially independent therefore her parents are not forcing her to getting married.....

[@meghanawagh7991]

Brilliant video.

[@seemav9384]

Meaningful episode,,,today lighlighed topic🎉

[@afreenrizwan5055]

Ryt married krna best nhi hum waise hi best h mom k sth

[@actoramol]

Mummy ji aap happy Raha Karo AAP yeise sad acche nahi lagate so keep always happy and I like you

[@deepalivikrant488]

Perfect!!👍👍👍

[@dr.foodie7724]

Kash real life me aisa hota

[@saharwritess]

Superb content ❤❤❤❤❤

[@shefalibakshi300]

Very nice message

[@BKT822]

Very nice keep this type of video continue please

[@chandrika.113]

Beautiful ❤

[@pluckyyoungster2995]

Thank you so much Life Tak team 🥳❣️👌🏻

[@meghameshram67]

Life tak never let us down ✌️🙌 beautiful concept beautifully filmed ❤❤ Million tons of wishes ❤

[@user-hf8uw3vz1m]

SHAME ON YOU DUMB HEADS WHO DOES NOT UNDERSTAND THE HIDDEN AGENDA BEHIND THESE ROGUES. THEY ARE JUST PROPAGATING TO REDUCE HINDU POPULATION. PLEASE UNDERSTAND THAT

[@farahabbasi4558]

So so true

[@Gaurav-world-of-fun]

Pressure thing is for real, however we need to think beyond it

[@Carludovica1836]

Nothing scares men more than marriage

[@justaninfiredperson]

Ikr its very scary for men. As they have to live with in laws. Has no choice but to be obedient to wife and inlaws. Has to take care of kids and job and in laws. Even after that thet get treated like a slave and disrespected. It's very scary for men. even the pregnancy is very scary. Lol

[@mitalig222]

​@@justaninfiredperson lol 😂

[@muskanmishra1194]

Beautiful

[@hiramani_Avp_Army]

It's was outstanding video👌💖💖💖 concepts was so nice 👌❤️😇 I could relate with Neha 💫✨✌️this thing happens with me also , my parents 😘 support me to much 💖💖💖 Thanku so much maa, papa 💖💖💖 I am so lucky for them that I am their daughter , working independently financially secure ✌️❤️❤️❤️🌺🌺 Marriage is not the reason to be happy 😇😍 we can live happily with our friends ,family members 💖💖💖 live the life as you want 💫✨🌟 Overall in this video each and every dialogues was perfect 👌💖💖💖 It gives us a very good lesson to the society 👍💖 as well as to those parents who pressurise their daughter to marry soon 👍💖🌺🌺 Thanku so much 🙏💖🌺 LIFE TAK for making this type of videos 😇😍😘 I am so much grateful to you all 👍💖💖💖

[@Brimming_soul]

Marriage should be choice not compulsion...not everyone is meant to get married nor everyone needs mrg...its better to live life on our own rather than suffering under pressure, reaponsibilities and expectations of others. One should themselves decide whether they are ready for a complete different roles in their secind half of life then only move forward

[@kirtislifestyle9299]

What a thoughtful topic❤❤

[@Shining_Starx_690]

Wow amazing video 😊😊

[@harshitaagrawal9061]

Such a good message.. however nobody understands this in Indian families...

[@hopeandlive9615]

Omg!! Its true what is depicted..aunty will come only for wedding, if problems are there, she dont even ask how is life?..

[@Aitutaki9582]

No marriage No divorce No child support No Alimony Result happy life....😎😁

[@ashonashona2237]

Rizult... alone ... No support.. No partner.. Jisko bate shair ki jae..dukh me Sahara koi nhi...Khushi me sath koi nhii..ar jb bemaar hojae to care krne Wala koi nhi...ar sbse last ar important k jb eged hojae fr na maa na baap na Bhai behn ...tb koi asa nhi Jo sath m ho...jb koi life partner nhi...

[@aarya297]

@@ashonashona2237 even alone is better

[@ashonashona2237]

@@aarya297 haan jb tk AP me himmat h takt h tb tk alone is better...ar dosri bat hr partner bura nhi nklta..

[@aarya297]

@@ashonashona2237 I don't need to interfere in others life But I won't marry....

[@ashonashona2237]

@@aarya297 shadi krne ka mtb zroori nhi k interfere krna h..buht support mlti h abhi na sahi but aage chlke buht need hoti h ksi partner ki..

[@meenukathuria4825]

Very nice concept

[@hithakalmada8570]

Really i dont know why i am very eager to get married 😂😂 marriage is not torture,some may not work but not everything❤

[@sushmasareen4019]

As few have mentioned, marriage is a choice not compulsion... it's good that you are eager to get married...we all can can give it a chance...but when it is forced on us, then it is not just torture but hell...

[@hithakalmada8570]

@@sushmasareen4019 agreed

[@YM-ch5no]

You are absolutely right. Go ahead and get married. Don’t let these cynics affect you

[@hithakalmada8570]

@@YM-ch5no 😊

[@anjanabhatia1491]

Nice.. 🌹

[@neetachawla3506]

Very nice story घर घर की कहानी

[@apekshamodi4145]

Great job , hum bhut si bate khud apni family ko ni smjha skte and that time ur vedios support alot

[@susmitakumbhar7296]

Very true🙌

[@neetachawla3506]

Very nice massage खुश रहो

[@anjaranisha9669]

Agar partner acha mile to marriage life bhi achchi hoti hai 😅😍

[@senoradelvita]

Such good acting

[@akanshadixit1324]

It's great

[@anjankumarsarkar6243]

An exceptional presentation

[@priyankajoshi9303]

Good work

[@raginiarulraja8865]

Yes. I too agree. Few girls themselves want to get married instead of being financial independent then they can marry. But who want to be independent give them their few years. But not too late. Akela jeena bhi mushkil hi hota hai. You have money but no one to wait for you in your house is also painful. Get married before its too late. when you are young living alone is OK but when you grow old life is very lonely.

[@kitchenandgardeningideas8827]

Wow amazing video first comment

[@swatimishra6872]

Very nice 💖

[@desigirl29]

Everything is good but yes everything has a time or else u miss out on some experiences n yes biological clock is real n people do face alot of challenges if they dont get what they expect out of life

[@Carludovica1836]

Men don't have any biological clock. Men are fertile all throughout his life.