That feels very sensible to me. My mother was PDA and gave me a remarkable amount of agency, for which I was always grateful. It was society’s messages that gave me trouble, and still can.
@KristyForbes11 ай бұрын
That's so amazing of your Mother. 💛 Mel, Team iTP x
@llmeekos8 ай бұрын
My mother didn’t. My PDA parent tried controlling my every movement, called me defiant, attempted to kill me in her dysregulation, was extreme, violent, abusive, made up fanciful lies about me, targetted me for her abuse. I never had any agency. Fuck them