HOW TO NOT LET A NARCISSIST GET TO YOU/LISA ROMANO"

[@yeahshebadder]

Lisa, Your channel speaks volumes and is guiding me through my exit plan. ❤️ Thank You!

[@melodienaber3238]

Me too

[@yeahshebadder]

@@melodienaber3238 it feels good to know I am not alone ! Stay safe 💕

[@VoiceBoxofDaBlockTV]

They are everywhere

[@musiclovetara]

You are not alone❤️

[@musiclovetara]

@@melodienaber3238 you are not alone ❤️

[@vickibazter3446]

They are gaslighting bullies who exploit others for selfish gain.

[@pytone23]

I was married to a narcissist for 25 years. I've experienced every single word your saying. I left wit two of my sons with special needs into a dv shelter. I divorced and after two years in a shelter. I got a place for us. I haven't experienced so much peace in my life. Thanks fo having the courage to make thes videos and help someone else like me.

[@Sand24]

This now happening worldwide. Just look around, lies are truth now.

[@ramoncabassa214]

Oh man, gaslighting city but once you figure then out the don't stand a chance!!

[@mountainmommarealestate2205]

I have dealt with jabbing comments from a family member for years. Would get off the phone highly irritated. I realized what was happening. The next time I spoke to them, I didn’t give them anything, kind of a pleasant gray rock. I felt victorious after that conversation!!!! I had taken care and honored myself.

[@darlenemichuk8553]

Did she/he tell you what time not to call after 5pm, yet she would call me at 9am asking me how I am. Drama Queen.........UNEXPICLIBLE In-Law.

[@Jp-iw1ss]

I totally agree, grey rock works till they blow up on you, especially if they are a boss or parental figure, fun to play with then you grey rock, so they discard you actually.

[@ardent9422]

One of the things I realized today after watching this video, is that once you figure out that the person criticizing you is a narcissist, why would even care anymore what their opinion of you is... Think about it like this: imagine a person that you have a lot of respect for, could be anyone who you know is a healthy person, this person tells you that you're excellent and that they're very impressed by you, this makes you feel good... now imagine that you're walking down the street and for no reason at all some random bum laying on the ground looks up and tells you, that you're a loser and a piece of crap... would you care? No, because clearly the bum laying on the street is in no position to tell you who you are... The narcissist is a bum emotionally and internally, even if they look healthy externally. So once it clicks in your mind that the person you're dealing with is a narcissist, you can see them as that bum, then their opinions and put downs should have no effect on you.

[@alleymed0250]

Good point moving forward with this.... In my situation I did not know I was dealing with a Narcessist, I just couldn't work out why I was feeling drained, I spent years explaining, apologising and defending myself and my actions. There were times when I apologised not knowing what I apologised for???

[@daniellemason4951]

Exactly! Well put.❤️🙏💪

[@daniellemason4951]

Yess! Very well said. This is what I've always said. Thank you for this wonderful explanation!🙏❤️💪

[@Jo-ie8kp]

I like the way you put this. That makes it easier for me.

[@jacklinks6097]

Are you a wizard?

[@sindiswamoolman5505]

I am a person who acts if I see injustice towards anyone. As a result I became a target of a narcissist work colleague. I applied this tip after years of abuse from him while continuing with my call. I would just ignore the person and continue giving others my attention. I would just act as if he doesn’t exist, no greeting or acknowledging him. All of a sudden boom... I don’t exist to them too. He applied the same strategy on me and I love it because we stay out of each other’s way.

[@katherinehedrick9108]

This video is so valid. I just walked in the house where I'm the full time caregiver for my abusive narcissistic grandmother and after putting her groceries away she immediately came after me b*tching at me for something she messed up. She called me a liar over and over again when I told her it was her issue not mine. She's now sitting on the couch pouting. It's crazy how one person can cause so much trouble and cause crazy making drama and still believe they are never wrong. My grandmother is 93 years old. Narcissists and the abuse they inflict never gets better, they only get worse with time. Get away from them as soon as you can and don't look back!

[@ramoncabassa214]

I learned to deal with these situations by absolutely not reacting to their head games. It works

[@soniabernatchez7466]

yep yep yep

[@Leona.luna8]

I’m going to try it!!

[@melodienaber3238]

I don't talk about anything anymore, it's always an argument

[@stellawoods4272]

Yes! It can be the simplest thing taken the wrong way. Get ready for an all out brawl.....

[@joysimmons446]

Right it's just crazy

[@phantomwatcher8170]

I learned to absolutely gray rock and not see a thing or laugh and not say a thing that really kills them

[@Nitya-r86]

True!

[@marshallgosbjorn8704]

I second this (no contact). As someone who studies (violent) crime I would like to mention that the moment no contact starts (with a violent partner)... the next 2 years are the most dangerous time in such relationships. If contact occurs, the 2 year stretch starts over. Get out of violent relationships as soon as you can and if possible; make sure you have help staying safe for the 2 years after leaving. Best wishes to all, namaste 🙏

[@WhiteBirdMustFly1]

I agree. A NARC doesn't want to let go. They blameshift onto others their own vomit and project. They troll and cannot apologize, even when they are caught. They are unable to see, how insensitive they sound and act towards others. They point fingers, not noticing that three of their fingers are pointing back at them, and their monkey see monkey doers follow. Simply mad thinking and crazy making circle talk.

[@TheendofBabylon]

You're so on point with this Marshall. Somehow I instinctively knew this in my past situations. Thank you again someone needs to hear this and I appreciate the reminder.

[@deannaaston4687]

After 30 years of every kind of abuse from my narcissist husband, I finally got it. Thank you Lisa, I am learning from you every day and I will get out of this rabbit hole!

[@tootienottoofruitie1726]

Deanna...be careful and educate yourself bc they are truly everywhere...🍀🌹

[@cathyhansen7715]

You're so right I haven't been with my narcissist for 4 months and I just feel so at peace so weird when you get off that roller coaster it's like at first you can't find your legging but when you do it's just so peaceful so nice

[@airari24]

That was one of the important signs I had that made me realize the toxic situation with a now ex-friend. I spent a summer away from them living my life (they were my housemate for years and so I could rarely escape them for longer periods of time) and I was so at PEACE! I had more self-esteem and energy to interact with others, to work towards my own goals, to get healthier (I even lost weight in a healthy and fulfilling manner and didnt even notice it happened), my acne cleared up! That was a wake up call.

[@princessak21]

Same I feel peace till she contacts me again that’s why I’ve blocked her

[@airari24]

@@princessak21 That's difficult! When that happens I feel like a disturbance or burden was put on me; like I've expressed I want space etc, but they keep contacting me from time to time and I feel that puts one in the position of having to do more emotional labour than them right then. Like, you have to figure out your feelings and reign them in enough to respond how you wish, you have to phrase things a certain way not to set off a huge issue but make your point, you have to make clear that you don't want to deal with them without putting yourself in an incriminating situation (my ex-friend would twist things to other people), you have to maturely respond and push aside any jabs/triggering things they throw your way, etc. Good luck, and remember that peace and self-growth are much better than giving in to their attempts to reel you back in. Stress can cut years off a lifespan!!

[@deborahjohnson1065]

I had a bad day yesterday until I plugged into your videos. This one this morning was exactly what I was dealing with yesterday!! I am DONE...This was my "Little God Moment" this morning with you. God Bless you my dear

[@nikkid9915]

Grey rock is my life. I choose peace. There's no reasoning with them.

[@soniabernatchez7466]

yes it s the zqy

[@cosmicjourney1111]

I was dating/married to one for 25 years. I’ve slowly come to realize my boss at my new job is one too. 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@kippadr4338]

25 years? i think you are looking for an excuse after that much time..

[@mariechristmas4393]

Well how do you explain 33 years then? I am a very articulate, intelligent & empathetic woman .. married and now divorcing a narcissist... only now have I realised and now I have to do what is best for me. Please be kinder with comments - we have suffered enough judgmental rubbish - as Lisa says “we want peace” - sending you love & light ❤️

[@JohnnyDollar1973]

@@kippadr4338 you have no idea. There are lots of reasons people wait long times. I didn't know what narcissism was until about 5 years ago. And I've been married for 45 years to a narcissist. They always had an excuse. I regret that it took me that long to find out what a narcissist is, but now I know.

[@JohnnyDollar1973]

@@kippadr4338 There are different degrees of narcissism

[@decemberlotus]

Why did I watch a video stating there's no going back? What does that mean? My children want to go home but I feel I have to stay to learn my lessons.

[@deniseramsour1129]

Your videos are helping me so much. Getting me to understand and learn boundaries is such a blessing. Thank you.

[@ladydi2045]

@LisaA.Romano You are a very intelligent spirit-being brought into this world for a purpose. Thank u for sharing yur personal story. By walking out of the toxic relationship u were in, u have brought so many to the light and opened up doors for many. God Bless!

[@deniseramsour1129]

I was also strong, fun, willing to learn, I liked my self... before I married my ex husband

[@SW-nd1fi]

When I met mine I was in better shape, I looked good on the outside and was more sure of myself. Then when I left him I lost weight, (his weight and 20 lbs of me.) I am now coming back to me (an exciting, lovable, smart, creative person) just not to him. 😆

[@brittneylyntalks]

Thank you! I didn’t realize I was surrounded by narcissistic family members until I thought about how often I say “let’s agree to disagree.” Great advice! If you don’t give them the reaction they want, they do back down.

[@agnesstrzykowska4300]

12:40 "he sees no good in you" that's exactly what a friend of mine told me after meeting my husband for the first time! She saw it right on the spot! I'd been already so destroyed that it was the norm for me, it took me many years to understand. I'm still healing and this channel helps me a lot. Thank you!

[@gigi1746]

Yes they love to call you every name in the book! It’s so exhausting trying to prove to others that my feelings are real and I’m not “acting”. I shouldn’t have to. I deserve kind and loving people who believe me in my life.

[@buildtherobots]

The advice towards the end about becoming boring to the narcissist and taking away their satisfaction of seeing you react is the background explanation I so craved as a child when my mom told me to ignore people who hassled me at school as a solution to the taunting.

[@debhadden205]

Thank you. Very much needing the tools you are presenting right now. Two family members have severe Covid which is forcing me to be in contact with the individual who engages in very narcissistic control over the whole family. The games have begun and as her sister-in-law, married to her most accommodating brother, I have had to slip in the background to keep the family drama down from my end. Even though I have been in the family for well over 30 years, I realize I am only an accessory. You have given extremely valuable information to be boring. Naturally, I would very much like to be an active force for healing in the family, but to do so would make the narcissistic feel challenged, so I'm going to just have to let it go for peace's sake. Thank so much Lisa!!!!! I believe your advice has literally rescued me with a new focus that will preserve both my mental and physical health, and also the health of my marriage.

[@izawaniek2568]

Lisa, Thank you so much. Great idea to become boring to narcisists! Think and not feel to get out from toxicity!

[@H0pe4All]

💛, Thank u Lisa. Indeed, *becoming boring* to narcs/cluster b's *IS* the best as to keep peace when stuck in a toxic environment.

[@H0pe4All]

also, very recomended to be organized with self dicipline arround them (& of course also recomended when not arround them) but when they see some1 is organized with self dicipline, they will less try to gaslight them as maybe they r afraid to be exposed by some1's being organized & they see it as its hard 4 them to try to control on this some1

[@glenrobinson6846]

Relentless Lisa , grateful for your work , constant eye opener, 🙏

[@phantomwatcher8170]

Everything you said is on spot in absolutely truth there’s no point in fighting and just walk away do yourself a favor it’s an absolute nightmare mine lasted three years I was 20 pounds thinner and stressed to the max and pulling all the way on my own for five kids three of which were mine it will never get better they will end up old and alone unless they find a new supply more and more people are wising up therefore they are alone I have a tendency to really watch people now and see what their behavior is not fall for that ever again

[@sunrise7244]

Thank you for your videos and for this community of thrives. Getting stronger slowly but surely 🙌🏼🤗👍🏼

[@sixthsense8836]

Lisa A. Romano There is a special place in heaven 💫 for souls such as yourself. You help SO MANY PEOPLE!!!!! Thank you!!! God bless.☄

[@mariechristmas4393]

Thank you so much for all your videos and positive help & advice - love and light from UK 🇬🇧

[@izawaniek2568]

Thank you for great advice Lisa. Narcisists thrive in drama, chaos and emotions. If we want them to leave us alone, we should become grey and boring to them and do not Let them provoke any emotional reactions from us. The narcisists do not want us to think but to feel so LET US USE OUR BRAINS AND THINK!

[@Wearethechamps]

Beautiful lady i love you and all you have shared since I found you 3years ago. I recommend your channel to any one who has suffered narc abuse. I know it changes lives. I'm still learning and love growing as a I heal from codependcy 🤗🌻💜

[@renemattison6630]

I hear ya Ms. Romano. I am at a age too where I want to remain at peace. I have had to set boundaries with my adult narcissistic son.

[@Smillasp]

Thank you so so so much for your channel. You are truly helping me stay sane and deal with the abuse from the draining awful narcissist in my life 🙏

[@kerrivarney4209]

Lisa, God is definitely using you as a vessel to speak to all of us!! Whenever I feel anxious, I listen to your videos... I was wondering if you could help explain what a healthy relationship looks like. My Mom had multiple sclerosis as well. I grew up the same as you. Now that I’m 48, I have not had one healthy relationship. I don’t know what the conversations, behaviors and patterns are supposed to look like. I look up to you. I feel like you are the “big sister” I never had.. I understand if this does not resonate with you and you don’t want to talk about it.. I do know that, I feel like I’m alone in my thoughts about what is acceptable and what’s appropriate in a relationship and what is not.. Sincerely, Kerri

[@m.skinner6303]

About when you were saying caring what they think...i once read, that we should not be pleasing to man- it means we should only be pleasing to God- care what he thinks.

[@tinylittlebutstillalion4101]

It is so true, i first realised what was happening as i went no contact. I had to get to a place where i had the Peace to actually think straight. Id had to get really really bad before i could start working on myself and i am sooo Happy i got out, even though it ment a lot off hurting. You are Spot on when you say, you dont know when you dont know. Thank god i now know. Love from Switzerland ❤

[@arty5818]

Try to think 0 minute to people try to use or control us. Spend every precious moments to ourselves who love peace and kindness. 🙏 Let’s stay in us and peace. Thank you Lisa

[@VincoMalus]

With all due humility & respect🤝Ty Ty Ty👏

[@phantomwatcher8170]

You’re also right the simplest things people say become so profound a woman told me that watched me that they got through life before without me and I’ll get through life again without me it’s not my cross to bear and it was the absolute truth

[@Nancy-dx1zt]

You’re just fabulous, Lisa. I was brought up by a narcissist. I didn’t know any different. I didn’t even know I’d become codependent! Your videos have helped my begin to turn my life around. Thank you

[@beelarehman5992]

I put down a boundary and got discarded by my brother. Its been hellish. Ive been abused in every way you can think of.

[@jojowillcoxwillcox7623]

If the don’t get adoration, the will settle for fear. Spot on.

[@jennSalvate]

Thank you so much Lisa. I so needed to hear this right now. I just got out of a 2 year relationship with a Narcissist, ( thank you for opening my eyes) but they keep or are wanting a "friendship" with me just to keep me for a narcissistic supply, I've noticed, and I do NOT like it at all!! I need to break away... You are helping me so much. Thank you, again. ❤

[@sherriecampbell6914]

I really love your video , "How to stand up for yourself ." I got so much out of it and it provided healing for my self esteem. I play it several times . You would be surprised who has had a problem, struggled with that because it was never really taught or demonstrated growing up. I am 58, and have always felt things but didn't know how to really express myself in an adult mature manner. Thank you so much and keep talking on the subject.

[@Yeimi66]

Thank you Lisa as always xx

[@elizabethclaes2468]

Hey Lisa,thank u so much! For ur informative helpful content,u help me out soooooo much.Since I discovered ur channel I'm gaining so much of my selfesteem back, mostly I use the grey rock method,sometimes so much that I turn cold to others, I'm learning haw toturn it of until I have an exit plan from the narc. So passive agresive comments reply->"I'm sorry u feel that way,everybody's entitled to there own opinion" and I ceep it moving 😊👍(although I sometimes wonna answer want to hear my opinion about u? Haha ,been there done that🤣 but we al know we're not getting on that narcrollercoaster ride)🤣.Emotional reaction provocation-> answer,but don't react emotionaly, as they operate in the emotional realm😊👍.thanx Lisa much luv,may TMHY bless u & yours

[@melodienaber3238]

He says my ability to remember is fading....

[@soniabernatchez7466]

lol cycle

[@lindamoore9729]

I appreciate you, Lisa. Your videos are SO helpful and I thank you. This one comes at a time I need this particular advice.

[@olimpiapeters8082]

Thank you so very much for giving me the tools to deal with these people in my life. You are a beautiful person and a blessing to the world!

[@katsmith4905]

Lisa is 💯 right. I didn’t know how to separate from a covert Narc childhood friendship. I became boring and implemented grey rocking. I discussed the weather and current news events. I stayed away from controversial subjects and politics. I declined ALL get togethers and events. If they asked about something that I attended, I’d say it went well and change the subject to the weather. The relationship dissolved, why because the Narc NEEDS supply. A rock doesn’t and won’t ever serve as supply.

[@pasikaukola4101]

Thank you for this awesome lecture. Been there and survived ❤

[@chereenelson1880]

Perfect timing for an encounter I must have with the narc this evening. Always such good information.

[@davewelbylivinginhistinyti4796]

Thanks for sharing your experiences. Think, don't show your feelings to someone who's looking for a reaction, because they care what people think about them. Their guilty attitude towards themselves need to project onto people with a sense of dignity and respect for others so as to try to break them down to their mental state of mind. Stay strong everyone. Namaste 🙏

[@davewelbylivinginhistinyti4796]

@Krishna Patel Hi, Krishna, I can relate to your feelings, and l can assure you that it's not specific to your country and culture. In all walks of life one can find this kind of abusive attitude towards humanity. I wish you good luck Krishna, and hopefully one day your wish will come true for you. Tell yourself it's going to happen. Namaste 🙏

[@bronwyntanner4501]

OH oh oh I really needed this today. I was about to message a former friend who has been employing flying monkeys - my friends - to tell them how devastated she is that I have ended the friendship by going no contact with her. Argh - I wanted to message her and say who the hell do you think you are?? She would love that. I won't give it to her. Thanks for the reminder!

[@tuyattuyat2155]

Thank you so much. It is very helpful for me.😀😀

[@fleep9008]

I got my narsiccist girl friend of two months but to her credit she was honest with me in a covert way mind you. She realized I had boundaries and I wasn't as Weak as she hoped. I called her out on being a narcissist and offered my ear to her. This pushed her away in a blink of an eye. I got lucky for finding vids like this. It was like "Reverse Psychology".

[@OUTHERETRYNASURVIVE]

I found grey rocking to be really effective when my ex narc & I were separated BUT it was also effing hard to do when so unbelievably trauma bonded. It’s taken over a year it figure out ... but man oh man ....

[@bumblebee803]

I struggle to deal with two-faced people. FAKENESS!

[@trishrobertrisher2185]

Ty! Because of your insightful & informative videos I've been able to break the trauma bond with my ex boyfriend & become happy joyous & free again!

[@enochlightburst333]

Thanks again Lisa your the one keeping me moving forward not sure what id be doing without discovering your channel...much love always

[@yu12si7]

Thanks so much, Lisa....very helpful...great reminders...go non reactive and/or stay non reactive. It is so boring to them...YAWN :)

[@natashapeeters988]

Thank you! Your videos are helping me big time.

[@tootienottoofruitie1726]

Thank you Lisa... for helping so many of us who deal with this toxicity on a daily basis. Thanks 🌺💐🌼🌹

[@jend2915]

Thank God for you Lisa. You came at the right time. I attract narcissists and by the time I realize it the damage is done. Now I have learned my lesson. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@lenmigliore5804]

GM Listening this morning to you has been great. I’m getting it. I am getting peace in my day. I wake and look forward to my day with my pug Lilly. She helps . Thanks again. ❤️Len

[@wendy038]

Sorry you feel that way! Great advice Lisa 👍 💜

[@FrancesShear]

Thanks for explaining how to go on leaving any narcissists behind still in narcissism swamp. I had no choice when developing a thick skin. Now my biggest problem is after finally admitting it that I take after my dad in that I can at times when bored feel less attentive to my immediate surroundings like the space that would be on my sewing machine desk in front of me and instead feel more drawn into any kind of chaos happening around me including just outside of my door down the hall or the other floor under my feet just in hopes that I too can maybe be one of the problem solvers there too. My eldest son told me off not too long ago about that by saying, "You have to learn how to mind your own business better". And so I better start working alone on my own internal conflicts first more often until I take on any new major project again.

[@thefighterinside3981]

I've cried everyday thinking I was crazy. Trying to prove I'm a good person.

[@phillyflytee9849]

I told the narcissist friend you can say 1+1 =54 I will say ok. Hunni since I’ve been doing that he gets bored. Cancels plans etc. I crack up and go out with other dates. Love on me continuously and have peace always. I don’t call him nor text him. I love my life.

[@jaydemohammadi3196]

I am currently raising (or trying to raise) a son with a narcissist and it is absolutely debilitating. Thank you for these videos.

[@nancyleddy5449]

Thank you Lisa for opening up my eyes

[@katiewarren443]

My mother is a narcissist. She set everyone against me. I have had to distance myself from the whole extended family because they think I abuse my mother when it's the F****** opposite. It's been very lonely and sad.

[@shahadah1451]

I am going through the same thing, Katie. It is terrible! My whole body hurts!

[@vinceraver7764]

Wow. Just perfect. You've been there before.

[@StarSunfire]

Hey Lisa. Such great advice. It’s funny how family can be. I comment before on your other video in how my dad let me go in fresh start in 2021 but bugging me lately him and his wife in turning it around saying oh your cutting us out. It’s sure a game and I’m not giving into it. The mind games and how my dad will be 80 this year. I’m ignoring the emails in how I feel I’m being Harassed. I know she as control. It’s her emailing as he gets help with them at times. Such mind games. I’m moving on here. I know my worth. Thanks Lisa in helping with tips too. Should I block them of email also? I’m tired of this. I pray all is well. I sure appreciate this video a lot. God bless. Much love. Hugs. ❤️💕❤️💕❤️💕

[@raiderlove5923]

I enjoy and find that I am learning from your wisdom and knowledge, Lisa. Yes, I was in a relationship with a narcissist who was manipulative, controlling and very selfish. In the beginning, I didn't really notice. My mother had recently passed away and with this person I was seeking some of the same characteristics that my mother had. Little did I know what I was getting myself into.

[@missromina4512]

You always give the best advice, to find peace just be boring to a narc 🙏 Thank You Lisa! Greetings from Argentina ❤️

[@joannpelliccio-lindgren2969]

Your story resonates well with me. Mine is similar. I grew up, and it continued into adulthood, as the target. Once you have been designated as that, growing the thick skin doesn't work. At times it provokes.

[@dannysze8183]

my sister in law is a covert narcissists. she is very difficult. it comes to a point I don't converse to her except necessary practical matter.

[@vannessa7636]

Hi Lisa, I relate to your personal story regarding your ex husband so much. Did you do the self-work while still married and then divorce? Or did you divorce him first and then do the self help work? I’m trying so hard to fill myself with what I need to be happy and strong but the rollercoaster of emotions that come from still being married sets me back each time. My young children are also very much a reason for me to leave and heal but I don’t know if I’m being selfish to do so before I’m “ready”. I’m so unsure of any big decisions that I’m scared to leave and then crawl back, leaving my children even more confused and affected. Thank you so much for your help in these videos.

[@bridgetb9899]

I'm in the exact same spot right now. I hope she answers this question.

[@andreahampton471]

I'm in the same spot right now too

[@essentialsouls7267]

I need an answer to that same question as well or a video on how to deal with things while preparing to leave

[@darrindavis2841]

I’m hiding from one now moved to another state to get away before I left she knocked some teeth out of my mouth she searched for me for months contacting family and friends your content is very good I know now why she did it but I still need to heal an I’m not yet

[@justforfun-jp2vc]

I work with several narcs. One of them developed an inappropriate crush on me and tried to groom me. I set boundaries and they think “I’m rude” now. This person even saw me get into a car accident after work and drove away unaffected. Insane.

[@speakingout9740]

Thank you so much Lisa. I appreciate you so much.

[@ettamae05]

ABSOLUTELY ABSOLUTELY ABSOLUTELY

[@MegsintoZen]

Excellent info!

[@TheMrssanderson]

Become boring, Best anti-narc advice ever!! 🙏🙏🙏

[@SherrysReviewsandResearch]

Side note, that is a beautiful color on you! I love that color, but washes me out. You look very vibrant. 😀

[@lindamoore9729]

So helpful. I enjoy your videos. They are a lifesaver to me.

[@aza9195]

Could you please explain how being co dependent as a child and for a very long time.....After with a husband, no comment..., We are boring people so much seeking (absurdly) for some kind of affection or friendship. Silly isnt it? Now I try to keep far away from people not to ennoy them and also to be at Peace. Namaste 💖 Lisa .

[@richardwalker1405]

Yes, yes, yes! Thank you!❤️👍🏻😊🌹🙏🏻

[@keoniray8423]

Thank Lisa good point on alllevels…

[@liberty8463]

Hi Lisa been married to an alcoholic and an narcissistic person for 18 years . Which I have only just discovered, since she left the family home 8 months ago. I done everything frobringingng up my children on my own to taking her and giving my heart. Now she wants a divorce. Since watching this channel I have leant what gaslighting means, how she has controlled everything. I am an empathic person. I know why she told me 20 plus years ago I picked YOU. I feel so hurt, used. She is not living in house, as she been arrested for attacking me whilst intoxicated. She blames me. From the UK.

[@francesca7093]

Great job 👍 thank you ☺️

[@IrinaVanRonkel]

❤️❤️❤️ have a blessed day Lisa Romano

[@ma859]

So useful. So good! Thank you.

[@keoniray8423]

Good point Lisa

[@keoniray8423]

You have to put the focus back on yourself and screw them , what goes around come around for each syllable and each word that they speak will come back on them three times over karma

[@melodienaber3238]

I'm not apologetic any more. I turn he's comments back on him.

[@natashapeeters988]

There's un big bunch of ex jw's who are making fun about me. My English is bad. Not that bad for a second language after brain aneurysm ruptures. People are making fun about me, I can't change that! It is hurting me bad, it is from the people who are supposed to understand where I come from. The ex-jw community. I will erase all those idiots who are acting like a 2 years old. I was 17 when I wrote my dissaciated letter. Sometimes, it hurts. They are supposed to know! I think that lots of them are still : mentally in. . . !

[@lizafield9002]

You are free! Every wise person in history attracted ridicule from unhappy folks. Socrates. Heraclitis. Moses. Buddha. Jesus. St Francis. Lincoln. Gandhi. Li Po. Han Shan. MLK. It's normal. Stay free & bless the world. I think you are terrific!

[@sophiejose4872]

You’ve helped a lot!!!! Thanks!!!!!!