7 Reasons Men Fall for Toxic Women

[@SvenThatoverpassisinLanc-qj4qg]

There is nothing more valuable to me than my peace, quiet, and freedom. Of course I had to learn this the hard way, but thank God I did learn! There is not a man in the world who can stand up to these women and not be destroyed. I don’t care how strong a guy thinks he is, these gals will take him down. DONT IGNORE THE RED FLAGS! Thank you Lise for your life saving content. God bless.

[@AnetaMihaylova-d6f]

Yes I was going out with one of these creatures. Fucking Nightmare

[@ak-47intelligence75]

​@@captng, sure, if the STDs are worth it.

[@marcdaoust2780]

Women always ask "where are all the good men at?! " they're all here hanging out with Lise🤣

[@JustinDizon-h8z]

I was knocked some over and over again and I lost my identity. Working on trying to get my confidence back that I had before I met her.

[@kennethmanuputty9865]

​@@JustinDizon-h8z yes indeed people underestimate those situations but it literally can break a man down!

[@Jimyy36644]

Iam right there with you stay strong brother.​@@JustinDizon-h8z

[@willyjansson3995]

Very good comment!

[@djpvma]

Isn't that the truth. I get new video notifications from someone else who goes on and on about narcissism and she's unhinged when she does videos like these, and then there's Lise, who's very pleasant about her message. I like Lise's professionalism when she speaks, the other lady scares me. 😅 I've been through so many crazy women and she describes them all, and when she does it's very easy to think about, when the other lady does it, I'm angry when I make it to the end of the video. I'm glad I found Lise, because I feel like I'm understood.

[@DonovanAenslaed]

I'm glad "Beth Dutton" is shown here as a toxic archetype, most toxic character out there. What amazes me is how many women (and men) see her as their spirit animal. People need to reevaluate their role models...

[@bronxbeauty614]

You're absolutely right! Weirdly enough, i admire some of her qualities, yet despise the way she chooses to use them. I think some people over correct their insecurities by thinking this type of behavior is cute and/or warranted. It's not!

[@Synchrothron]

Hey Lise, Just wanted to let you know I've found your channel 2 years ago, when I realised my partner was narcissistic. Followed your advice, pressed the catapult button, enrolled myself in therapy and gained my life back. I don't regularly watch your videos anymore, because I consider myself well informed and healed, but I remain a subscriber for life. Thanks to you I have good awareness now. Since then I have met some people who are very likely somewhere on the Cluster B, but I've disengaged quickly and never looked back. Bottom line is, it's our responsibility not to invite toxicity in our life, and I like that you're advocating for this.

[@LiseLeblanc]

@@Synchrothron thanks so much for taking the time to share your story! I’m happy to hear that you got your life back

[@allanlees299]

As someone who never watches TV because mass entertainments are inherently toxic, I greatly appreciate the clips that reassure me my decision to avoid such things was very wise.

[@human_4real]

Yellowstone? More like Yellowsnow 😂

[@DHW256]

Same here!

[@clintpot8521]

You can only control one person in this world - yourself!

[@surfshack2]

After you’ve seen/experienced the horror, you’ll never want a woman like Beth again.

[@rostamr4096]

Aman to that...

[@117delta]

🤣🤣🤣ikr

[@boris1387]

100%👌👍🏻✊🏻

[@rjlacroix3334]

Been there . Truth !

[@MF-rc4zh]

Nailed it!

[@rjlacroix3334]

I was married to a woman like Beth Dutton . Her behavior forced me to leave and go no contact .This video was very real for me . Frightening lesson , Thank you .

[@GabinoAngelini]

I ran into what I now understand to be a female covert narcissist (or a BPD-Petulant), who, after watching that TV show, wanted to be like the Beth character. I plainly told her: if you behave like that, it will mean good-bye from my part. So, she started playing those games, and I had to let her go. I even wrote a novel about the ordeal, it makes for a great story. However, it is not worth engaging with these types of individuals (male, or female). Great video as usual!

[@seanasbell9368]

To the young man who thinks a woman like Beth would be exciting, challenging, erotic … yes, she is all those things. But she is NOT worth the damage she brings. An emotionally stable woman is MORE exciting, challenging, and (believe it or not) erotic. They just don’t lead off with these aspects of their nature. Don’t let your desire for immediate gratification land you in the middle of a train wreck. Because that train just keeps on wrecking. It never comes to a stop. All it can do is destroy, so that’s all it does.

[@acvoltti3324]

As a young man, I thought so and married a woman like Beth...

[@mikejames9642]

I’ve experienced a couple of these… they are definitely appealing and I initially enjoyed the no sense approach. The sex is absolutely addictive and over-the-top. What you don’t immediately realize is that all you are seeing is the part of the iceberg visible above the surface. At some point, the rest of the iceberg will surface with all its sharp and jagged edges. In the end, all their traumatization, ugliness and lack of respect will dominate the relationship and the sex isn’t worth it. It’s a slippery slope to get involved with these types. They can mess your mind completely up.

[@scr9504]

This is what I just dealt with for 7 yrs. First 4 yrs were great. She moved into another man’s house 3 weeks after our breakup. Then sent pics of his cars, expensive house and bike. Sex was the best , yeah. This guy is getting that but not the rest of it yet, lol. Still stings though

[@mikejames9642]

@@scr9504I’ve split up with two of these toxic types… definitely hard for my brain to let them even though they exhausted me. I think I just need to stay away from women for an extended period. Good Luck!

[@FGC-ku4ez]

​@@mikejames9642You need to stay away from that TYPE of woman. Don't blame all women for one you knew was toxic.

[@RudraMatsa]

When love bombing and adoration ends, you gotta run immediately wasting no time.

[@doubleffect7110]

The one I fell for is a covert narc, and what pulled me in was her acting like she was a shy woman that would start flirting with me and be openly sexual. I thought I met the woman of my dreams, she seemed warm, caring, intelligent, smart, and ambitious, at the same time very feminine and totally my type physically. I thought I was making her be so sensual. I thought it was the beginning of the most intense and closest relationship I would ever have. That was until I found out she had a boyfriend, then I witnessed her responding to another guy in a flirtatious way, but of course I found convenient explanations for everything. Perhaps her boyfriend doesn't satisfy her, but she doesn't want to hurt him by breaking up. It went on for almost a year and even after I figured out she was a covert narc, I still couldn't get her out of my head and thought I could help her heal. She used her sexuality so many times on me and was frustrated that I didn't give in. I made it clear to her that nothing would happen as long as she was in a relationship with another man, a few times. And she kept pulling me in. She drove me crazy and then crushed me when she discarded me, and flirted with other men just as she did with me before, same face expressions, same voice, same body language. She did destroy me but I also know that what I did cost her a lot of frustration, and in the end she left the company we both worked for.

[@Bibleinformationandhelp]

Red flag #1. If you see a woman seductively dressed, stay away. You have to think to yourself, if she is willing to expose her body to random people in public, how do you think her personality will be? Do you think her personality really will be good? Be honest with yourself. Red flag #2 Many piercings and tattoos on their body. What regular person will do something like this? What state of mind do you have to be in to get so many piercings and tattoos on your body? In many cases, what we are into or concern ourselves with, I believe will show on the outward. In many cases, you can look at a person and know some things about them. Especially when you have worked in the area of mental health for quite a time.

[@Jess-kn8vl]

As a woman, my experiences with borderline/narc women have been worse than with men. Women seem to have similar red flags. Tattoos, yes but with exemptions to their artistic personality or jobs. Obsession with horror movies, books and halloween. Obsession with Disney, Harry Potter, Vampire series etc. Obsession with animals and rescue especially reptiles. Im not saying these are bad things its the combination and obsession with it claiming to be empaths. They tend to be irrational and get easily emotionally dysregulated.

[@Bibleinformationandhelp]

@Jess-kn8vl You wrote some keywords there. Easily dysregulated. My family is filled with narcissists. Hopefully I am not one right now. As I researched about mental health, I kind of understand why some of my family members behave in the way they do. I can understand people so much better now. Many mental health problems began around childhood. Many parents are not really good parents. This may never happen, but people should go through counseling classes before they start to have children. Seriously. A lot of people are raising children wrongly.

[@frazer9]

What in the literal hell are you talking about. Harry Potter ...? What....? You need to explain yourself clearly. What you've said makes no sense. What exactly are you trying to say here? What link between toxic behavior and loving Harry Potter or animals, or books, are you trying to prove exists ?? What's your reasoning?

[@Jess-kn8vl]

@frazer9 Key word obsession. Which means it takes up most of their mental space and time while neglecting their responsibilities. Spending money recklessly on tats, movies, buying or adopting animals they don't have the space for etc. Living in and for these fantasy stories and get upset when the series is over.

[@DannySims-y3y]

Unfortunately you are dealing with a demon. Oh believe me I'm speaking from experience... RUN 😂😂😂

[@Mia1827]

I just had a hard breakup. It's been really difficult since my five-year relationship ended a few months ago. My former partner is still very much in my heart, and I can't seem to stop thinking about him. Nothing has worked to get him back, and at this point, it seems impossible to be with anyone else. I know it may seem strange to admit this, but I miss him terribly and think about him constantly.

[@Shanieceflordi]

I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without him, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring him back into my life if you're open to it, seeking help from a spiritual counselor might make a difference.

[@Mia1827]

How did you find your spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with them?

[@Shanieceflordi]

His name is Father Obah Eze and he's an incredible spiritual counselor known for helping restore relationships.

[@Mia1827]

Thank you for sharing this valuable insight. I just looked father obah eze up, and I'm genuinely impressed.

[@ChrisPTY507]

The level of self-awareness I've gained regarding these toxic behaviors, and the knowledge I've obtained on how to spot them, understand their behavior, and recognize their impact, makes it impossible for me to fall for toxic women again. In fact, I avoid them like the plague. The moment I discover the girl I'm dating is either toxic or has high levels of dark triad traits, I immediately cut her off without giving it any further thought. At this point in my life, I'm prioritizing my mental health. I seek maturity and peace, and the newfound self-respect I've gained has given me zero tolerance for the BS of cluster B individuals. Learn to spot the red flags before they suck you in.

[@colinellicott9737]

I've run into a couple of these women over the years, I feel I escaped pretty much in tact despite their attacks, and best efforts. The trick is to stay calm, see the red flags for what they are, and walk away. You must go into these situations with the idea that walking away is not only rational, but necessary, and right given the toxicity levels. I sometimes miss the fun they generated, but I do not miss the chaotic toxic wake.

[@SteveDave5763]

I have seen a few of these types and in my case it’s only a matter of time before they rip the rug out from under themselves.

[@colinellicott9737]

@@SteveDave5763 I like that analogy, hope you don;t mind if I borrow it from time to time ; )

[@SteveDave5763]

@@colinellicott9737you can use analogy on the condition that the monster your using the phrase on is in ear shot. 😂

[@Warp75]

My upbringing predisposed to nuts women, but I’ve done a lot of self work & now I couldn’t think of anything worse. It took me till I was 47 years old to work it all out & countless crazy relationships.

[@rickwolfe7386]

Jezebel was trampled to death by horses and eaten by the dogs...but her spirit still lives on...

[@charlesblassingame3745]

Yep and then some. End up in jail, broke, divorced, and forever disturbed. Thank you for your work it has helped me understand better and your videos always show up after I get a call. 7 years and the dogs are still coming.

[@dancingvajra]

The question is, how did the writers and directors of the series so perfectly display this personality disorder..???

[@KA-ux9qb]

Narcissism has a playbook they all use. It is freaky how they will use the the same phrases and tactics.

[@rostamr4096]

"Need for constant attention and validation"..tell me about it

[@EwenRichards]

Thank you Lise for your clear illustration of these toxic behaviours. I have experienced some of these in relationships and I do not choose to experience them again.

[@Bibleinformationandhelp]

Normally it isn't good to ignore people. One way to deal with a toxic female like this is to ignore her. When she shows you very bad behavior, spend some time away from her. No communication at all. Some toxic women seem to not understand words, but actions. Speak with your words and less with your lips. Some toxic people want to know what your boundaries are so they can purposely cross them. Take yourself away from their presence. For a time.

[@darinsmith2458]

What comes to mind is... We confuse love and pity.. There is a difference between strength and manipulation and bullying.. I don't want a woman that flirts and acts strong but I do like strength when the woman can say no and get away from toxic people..

[@rostamr4096]

Thank you, Dr Lablanc. You are so amazing and on the point. I hope you know how much you are helping man...The majority of men are oblivion and have no clue what they get themselves into...these video are gold...

[@Watts378]

These facts are gold as usual Lise! *Almost at 200k subs!!* 🤩

[@hawkspirals3483]

I am so thankful for your work, it took me a stroke, then the divorce, afterwards to finally comprehend:she is committed to her misery

[@user-of9mo5wz8o]

She don't wanna be saved

[@MattMyers-n7f]

These are Jezebel women and are mentally ill demonic possessed and should be avoided at all costs

[@draganjagodic4056]

There is also one extremely perfidious trick, such ladies use: pretending to be in need for support. pretending to be vulnerable, pretending to be poetical etc. and before you realize, you have invested the best of you in such evil, selfish and destructive person. Especially dangerous: she doesn't have to be attractive. It is "her gentle soul", you believed to be good and worth loving. And it is her "gentle, poetical soul" that will do so much harm. Dear Mrs. Leblanc, it all happened long before internet, but may the younger brothers learn from Your valuable advice. Sincere regards.

[@Seanus32]

A definite turn-off. They are wrecking balls that can leave you hugely psychologically damaged. Best stick with a calm type that doesn't play dangerous games. People like Beth are endless pits of darkness and trauma. Life needs you to carry good energy to maintain your own authentic standards.

[@gangGreenthumb]

Beth is an extreme example of the kind of people I have been with. The person who brought me to this channel nearly destroyed me in the end. She is extremely confident like like Beth, but she also demonstrated caring and empathy at times (push/pull). Whether her love was genuine or not, only she knows- it felt real to me. I am very much attracted to women like this like an addict craves the "junk" he knows is poison. Normal women do not give off the same energy, so I don't have interest.

[@rjlacroix3334]

" Normal women don't give off the same energy ' . Spot on observation !

[@rjlacroix3334]

I was married to a Beth Dutton . I wouldn't pursue that toxic energy again for all the tea in China .

[@inpersonaDK]

@@rjlacroix3334because this behavior is toxic like cocaine and plays with your brain chemistry. 15:11

[@chuckb470]

💯 I spent some time with a woman that I'd known for years. She was everything that my BPD ex wasn't. I couldn't stay with her. 🫤

[@ThomasO2]

6:53 This this this. It’s what got me wrapped up in a BPD partner for 8 years. She wasn’t narcissistic in the Beth sense, per se, but the same principles applied. The clarity of the emotions she communicated felt unmatched. Everyone else I’ve met have secret objectives or have a hard time being open about their honest feelings. But, in the end, some things are better left unsaid, even if they’re true. 10:13 This too… incredible intelligence and the boldness to wield it. Powerful combination.

[@rrf6747]

I was married to a woman just like this for four years before i was devalued and kicked to the curb. Ten years later i still think of her and still love her. This video really hit home for me.

[@nightrider4370]

I dated a woman just like this last year. I just met another recently. I have no desire to go any farther. I learned my lesson last year.

[@steveco.1234]

Men want to be a hero, and try to save her, but she doesn't want to be saved.

[@Solod49]

I couldn't have said it better myself. Lots of times tried to talk to my ex about her drinking or her depressive thoughts. She always avoided talking about her alcoholism. When I suggested she to visit a therapist, her argument was "the doctor will prescribe pills, and I don't want to take it" She knew of mental problems, but she didn't want to do anything about them

[@user-lx4uk5un7s]

J.Cole

[@reynierwho]

You're very on point, I'm 100% have the character of the guy that you mentioned. Now after the breakup, I m able to see why I'm prone to be in relationship with narcissists and feel bored with normal one.

[@MariyanEftimov-sq7ib]

Lise , you are always on point

[@MariyanEftimov-sq7ib]

Thanks to your clips was able to recover

[@JohnSmith-wo7ns]

Knew a woman like this, absolutely beautiful and initially exciting but before long you realise it's constant hassle, supporting her in her constant battles, even when she's obviously in the wrong. It's exhausting. Get out early before you get mentally hooked.

[@tigreytigrey8537]

@ 3:00 he was thinking "it wasnt bigger it was just harder cause you were younger and more attractive".

[@rickrudge9349]

A man is willing to put up with a lot of toxic BS if the woman is beautiful, shapely, sexual, and knows how to handle a man. He’ll stick by her even when the guy’s friends are telling him to dump her. If she’s not any of those things, a man is quick to tell himself that this lemon isn’t worth the squeeze.

[@russwj]

It’s as though the toxicity is the underside of the love bombing.

[@majorbloodnok6659]

I don't know about Beth but, after my divorce, I dated a woman that you describe here. Initially intoxicating and while not as extreme as the Beth character, nevertheless, she completely messed me up. Anxious and with my self-confidence totally undermined, In the end I walked away. Now, months later, I'm back on an even keel and happy with the lessons I've learned; videos like this are a great help in gaining perspective on what happened, thank you.

[@imaginedo2407]

A true story: After 1.5 years of chronic lying, trust breaking, apology breaking and promise breaking she asks me if we can 'have a fresh start' if we can 'start anew again' and her reasoning was 'if we break up, you have to start new with someone else anyhow.' Think about this. She is asking for the giant mess she made to be just forgotten about and to be looked at and approached as if we just met and she didn't act the way she had acted for 1.5 years straight. There is no way this is a unique request among people with NPD. When/if they still want the relationship they may ask for a 'new start' which will interestingly enough involve them not having to clean up any mess they made and request you to do the psychologically impossible - act as if what happened and the fear and anxiety they caused just never existed. She kept saying "I just need a fresh start" and I totally believe her when she said this which is why she had a history of chronic affairs in her past. She would ruin every relationship and find her 'fresh start' with a new guy who had not yet figured out what she was really about. Psychologically speaking, a 'fresh start' is not possible. What is possible, is the persons fresh start could be their actually becoming accountable, remorseful and making real amends complete with getting the professional help they need and having the humility to ask their partner to be (even more) patient with them as they try to heal but if they are asking for you to simply 'forgive and forget' they are gaslighting you. She will, no doubt, quickly go and find another man as she always has and affirm to herself how wonderful she is by his short term adoration of her that she will secure with her good looks, charm and sex and when he too begins to distance himself from her as he begins to learn about her stories that do not add up and realizing how much she has and is lying to him....she will start the exact same pattern up again and begin finding another new man who will adore her false mask until he realizes what is underneath it. They are con artists, going from one relationship to another using manipulation, intimidation, deception to fool people into giving them their attention, affection, time, energy and money until that person is exhausted, furious and completely distant. They will then blame that person for 'not giving them what they need' and rationalizing why they cheated on them as well. It is a nightmarish mental condition to experience as a partner and I can only imagine how deeply disturbing it is to be the person who is NPD and feels absolutely dead inside unless they are fooling and hurting others. This is a major social problem.

[@rickabr123]

Spot on. I was naïve. And I'm trying to get out. It's complicated...

[@modernmasculinity6560]

As a lifelong real cowboy I can tell you no cowboy I’ve ever met would ever date, let alone marry, a Beth Dutton. We choose this life because it’s a simple way of wife with no drama and we work damn hard to keep it that way. No real cowboy would never invite or tolerate her drama in his life. Second, cowboys are traditional men who want traditional women. I don’t know of any men that find a woman who acts like a man and drinks, fights, and cusses like a man attractive and that is double true for cowboys. It’s sad how Hollywood has brainwashed modern women into believing a man tolerating your unhealthy toxic behaviors is the ultimate sign of true love

[@TheBigdog868]

You're using a "no true Scotsman" fallacy. It goes like this... "No Scotsman puts milk in his tea." "But, my uncle Angus is a Scotsman, and he puts milk in his tea." "Well, no TRUE Scotsman would ever do such a thing!" Do you see the logical fallacy? Tying a behavior to a label is overly simplified reductionist thinking. The label and the behavior have nothing to do with each other. Using this logic, you would deduce that since a policeman upholds the law, he would be incapable of committing crime. Thank you for your thought-provoking comment.

[@modernmasculinity6560]

@ It’s only a fallacy if I’m trying to argue that it is “literally” impossible that any cowboy would ever date Beth. There are exceptions to every rule and I’m sure somewhere, some cowboy would be willing to put up with her shit, but he would be the exception. It’s called balance of probability which is how we all live life. Yes, a convicted murderer and a policeman are both capable of committing crime, but which would you choose to have babysit your child if you had to choose one? Rip could have almost any woman he wants so why would he choose an absolute shit show like her to be with other than her daddy’s money? Even with her daddy’s money she’s not worth the constant headache and drama she brings let alone the strong independent boss bitch attitude which is just absolutely insufferable to most men and certainly traditionally masculine men.

[@Stuff7164]

@@TheBigdog868 - You "win".

[@Paul-fk6eq]

Hi Lise. Thank you for your channel and this contribution. I was caught in the quagmire of a woman in my life exactly like Beth. Highly intelligent, very beautiful. Looked the same...a cunning little vixen. For a while, I didn't know why. But I figured it out after 10 years. I would appreciate the opportunity to discuss with you more. Thank you.

[@NavdeepSingh-qf5eb]

Sometimes it's not even challange, sometimes it just feels safe to know that someone has gone through something similar as a man has, so she might not hurt a man as she herself has gone through this crap.

[@djpvma]

My ex checks all these boxes. The smart ass sharp tongue, the verbal cattle-prodding to get me started so I looked unhinged while she looked like the saint, leading the entire first encounter with sex, keeping me around after sex with bait (for me it was a bag of cannabis she happened to have hidden in her closet that belonged to her last ex that wasn't putting up with her bs anymore), the promiscuity and hiding a secret life where she was having sex with other people and living out her fantasies that she wasn't getting from me without even consulting me about what she wanted in bed. But, the verbal cattle-prodding was ridiculously traumatic, because there was no room I could escape to without her following me and continuing to torment me, I couldn't leave the house and walk down the street to cool off without her following me and begging me to stay, I couldn't leave the house overnight without her calling me the next day and pretending to be genuine and sweet to lure me back into her web/home. And to think, that she would lie about me and have me arrested for things she did. It was very scary to live with her. She even went as far as shoving an unloaded gun in her mouth and threatening suicide with it for attention when I started gaining independence from her and started bucking back in order to protect my sanity. The part that screwed me over was when I called the cops about it and the sarge asked if I wanted to admit her to the psyche ward, and I said no, because I was so hypnotized by her and also afraid of what she or her family might do in retaliation, and the fact that she claimed that she would have lost her nursing license. It was very scary, because I was afraid to even move or be myself around her, constantly walking on eggshells with her and her always secretly acting like I didn't matter.

[@JDMSMOKEY03]

same bro! i’ve been to jail 3 times now! lost all my fire arms, license, and am currently on house arrest while she ran off with my roommate that i was having watch my house when i went to a detox facility FOR HER! i’ve never fell off cus of the drugs or anything. i’ve taken care of her AMD him the whole time! she convinced him to go to the police with her and got me arrested and just did a month in county. my bail this last time was 176k! i never had a record or ever was broke or anything and i let her fuck me over real good. it still feels like a bad dream. )!? prosecutor offered me 40 months in prison. i have my own house and and really good job, multiple cars, all kinds of shit that i’ll loose if that happens. i’m not a bad person at all. not a cheater or anything. last time her own mom spoke to her when she came to visit from another state she got her arrested and thrown in jail also. her kids are like 13 and her mom hasn’t seen her since kids was in diapers. she does this to every one of her boyfriends. and yes the sex was GREAT cus she was a SUPER FREAK but def not worth all this. i have a 12 year old son that will hurt the most to loose. I still can’t even believe all of this. It feels like it’s unreal.

[@RyanBrown-hr7ct]

This was outstanding; amazingly accurate

[@montemasterson9588]

Congrats on 200K subs Lise.

[@Cowface]

They’re like shiny objects. I started to fall for one. In spite of her showing limited empathy, she was smoking hot, and her high opinion of herself was kind of contagious, in that it gave me a high opinion of her too.

[@jaredvaughan1665]

I theorize the fearful avoidant is the most likely to be described as the narcissist. Who love bombs (anxious) then discards (avoidant).

[@Richard-dk7wc]

I have to say through out my life I’ve found women like this utterly irresistible. Women who are good, respectable, supportive and see me as a treasure can never really trigger my sense of “being in love”. Never thought of this as a self esteem issue until the past few years when I started therapy. It’s a long journey and that kind of animalistic pull towards women like this is still very strong, but I try to keep the distance now.

[@immers2410]

It’s probably because you see yourself in them

[@dealightful5745]

It can also indicate, that your parental figure was presenting these behaviours, so you are attracted to them, by being conditioned to what appears familiar.

[@univers368]

⁠@@dealightful5745unfortunately it is true for the majority. B..ches have boys and boys like B..ches.

[@dmgill83]

The character seems like an exaggerated version of my Covert NPD / Quiet BPD ex-wife. Even a year after she left, I find myself conflicted: I still pine for the 2 1/2 years of idealization, infinite affection, and the ideal sexual partner that I've always wanted... yet my most painful relationship memories are the two years of devaluation, neglect, emotional abuse, and her cheating when she left. Sometimes recovery feels like a dream more than a possibility

[@aa-yv7uw]

thanks you for activiting "audio track" I was able to listen to the video doubbed into my mother tongue :)

[@AnetaMihaylova-d6f]

Yes I was going out with one girl like that . She made me sick because I was in love with her

[@DHW256]

Oh, my poor father. Our mother was Beth without accountability, a composite of Jezebel, Athaliah and the negative aspects of Miriam, the most difficult person I've ever known. She did all she could to enable but destroy her husband, her children, her friends, anybody who tried to share their lives with her. Being around her was insane, and I finally walked away at 46. Her life deserves a biopic as a cautionary tale.

[@jeffreylee5770]

There is a female character in the Orestes plays by Aeschylus, Clytemnestra, the queen who kills her king after taking a lover. This strong woman character was said to maneuver like a man. She tried to manipulate her son with her sexuality, but he was obligated by the honor code to kill the killer of his father even though it was his own mother. Orestes knew it was unnatural to kill one's own mother, but he did it anyway. Then he lost his mind.

[@electrickflame353]

Dr Lablanc reads me like a book and we have never met! I married at 22 with the ideas as described in point number 1. After 16 years, I’m divorced(by her hand) and I damn near paid the ultimate price. I’m back on my feet now but guess who has been knocking on my door after 11 divorced. Never again!

[@MoreFunInTheNewWorld]

They always return but don’t seem to understand we’ve done the work and moved forward . Good for you bro .

[@histreasure3189]

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[@jwhubert91]

I think there are a lot of people who have harmful or "toxic" behaviors who aren't narcissists. It would be interesting to see a more general take on this phenomena.

[@Aotearoa.]

You hit the nail on the head!

[@timebroua]

This video has only one dislike - probably by narcissist! Thanks Lise, great review!

[@drivethruabortion280]

Me

[@DaveyBoyNZ]

Exciting women…. They truely are. Good to have the experience and excitement of dating one - they know how to spin your wheels But even more - better to know when it’s time to wave goodbye !

[@JasonJones-x5e]

I've been on that roller coaster before that is one ride I do not want to get back on again if I can help it.

[@chuckb470]

Lol. My favorite analogy is when you almost die on a broken rollercoaster, but they repaint it and open it up again. No thank you! 😅😅

[@Reid.Anderson]

Toxicity is trouble 👿

[@Cougs2894]

Not only will you be devalued you’ll be discarded like trash

[@frederickhartray8364]

The line "I always remember your "Nixon" being bigger." is easily answered with the indifferent reply" "Ah must have stretched it out back when it was bigger." You match blunt, with blunter. I am not saying she won't win, but why not have fun.

[@astrotrain3332]

I learned to be happy alone. Took 3+ years of intense therapy and yogic practices... never stopping either... I'm going to enjoy my remaining years with friends and my distant family and most of all my child. I didn't get to experience the romantic love thing I heard so damn much about. Not experiencing a person feeling it FOR me. Think I kinda get it now. I think when God grants his role for you, it can suck, but nothing sucks more than floating aimlessly.... so I'm grateful for the other types of love I have. The only ones that ever made sense to me.

[@throttle1400]

Thank you for this

[@herrroy4963]

The problem with these women is that they are simply just mean. Sexy, but at the end of the day you will always feel inadequate and bad. Lise, why do some of us fall for women like these? Does it come from our upbringing?

[@66MobileAutoRepair]

They are exhausting! Wish I knew about your info. When I was 15.

[@Marcel-fo2cb]

Hi Lise .I cant believe you described my last G.F to a t .I am 73 Y.O and done with women.Been single for 14 yrs and love it Still got lady friends ,go for coffee but thats as far that it goes.thank you so much Lise and have a good day

[@Jess-kn8vl]

It is NOT your job to help or save anyone who doesn't acknowledge their own healing work.

[@jerrymalisewski2061]

Excellent evaluation of a toxic women👍

[@ShadowKing1993]

Ive always fallen for the toxic and narcissistic women. Its because they acted soo well in the beginning then they showed their true colors slowly. Then they got mad and lashed out at me because I was smart enough to see through their facade and cut them off. I am no longer naive and cautious of almost everyone. 😂

[@raphaelgittelson8267]

I really understand what you are speaking about and find it extremely helpfull. Unfortunately my wife is a Covert narcissist and I have two beautiful young daughters with her and I can't leave them with her. I am suffering and don't know what to do

[@djpvma]

Haha, while the guy is getting off to her saying the crazy things she would do, an AI girlfriend commercial popped up. 😂🤷🏻🤷🏻🤷🏻🤷🏻

[@davidsisson2026]

Listen up. I've been there. And am also ending a relationship with a Beth. Way too difficult. She needs to much control and is quick to put you down .

[@georgesparks7833]

I'll just go back to watching The Brady bunch and the Partridge family. Thank you very much😅

[@rednose1966]

Oh my goodness that is a borderline personality disorder type of person. I dated one of those a year ago. I’m in my detached garage watching videos a year ago from Sam Vaknin the author of malignant self-love narcissism revisited. And I also have his toxic relationships book. I don’t want anyone is terrible as that ex-girlfriend ever in my life again. I did not know until she moved in that she had been in a mental institution in every decade of her life after the first decade. One thing that I like about your channel is you talk about practicality. The person Beth that you’re referring to is the borderline. Those people are not worth knowing. I cut them out of my life. What I try to do is remove the emotional aspect over time and only refer to this history as a matter of fact rather than any type of a emotional stronghold. I leave them where I found them and I carry on with my life and the only baggage I carry is the lesson learned . I’m really getting a lot out of your videos and I find them entertaining. You’re not selling fantasy and that’s something I really appreciate.

[@prophez23]

Take it from me a 52 year old man who has 5 kids with 4 different women and I've been married to my current wife for 8 years and she's 14 years younger than me and we have 2 of my 5 biological children and she has 2 children from a previous marriage and I love all our children no different than the next and I think I've made more than enough mistakes to have a good idea about different types of women and as far as the woman like you're talking about well just so happens I had a 10 year relationship with one just like that and I'll first say that the judge who presided over our case said in all her years on the bench she had never seen a more tumultuous relationship ever and she absolutely hated my ex. And I won custody of our daughter we had together. What was fun and exciting and easy in the beginning became the very thing that almost destroyed my life. Now if you are a soy boy type (no offense) or a guy who doesn't care about being told every single thing to do and if you don't mind being used as a punching bag all the time then you just might like it. But I'm sorry I'm a natural born leader and an alpha and after awhile I just lose all my patience with the BS and let her know that she's not going to run my whole life like that and she's not going to be hitting me and getting stupid cause she's having a bad day or something like that. After having a thick glass jar broken on my face cutting my mouth open and then her getting arrested for domestic violence against me that was it. And this woman had a mouth on her and no ability to control what she said and that's why the judge hated her and she could see right through her and this woman hated that especially. Once you knew enough about her and could start seeing through her lies and BS then she would get really violent. I'm not the type of guy to put my hands on any woman only unless it's life or death and because of that and because I didn't do anything when she broke the jar on my face everything went great for me in court. But I swear I could write a huge book about the 10 years we were together. She would do the most insane things you can imagine and yes I'd leave and swear it was the last time but I don't know it was like my penis did all the thinking for me when she would call me the next day and cry and beg and promise and all that good stuff and the only thing I could hear was how good the make up sex was going to be and then once we had our daughter I would do everything I could not to leave or anything for my little girl but that's no reason to stay. But thankfully all that is years and years in the past and my girl is grown and doing her own thing and happy. She doesn't care much about her mom and sees how destructive she is thankfully and she is a good person for it.. So men yes it's fun at first and real fun other times but I promise you when it stops being fun it'll be the worst nightmares of your life...

[@bannyrooster1827]

I actually went after the wrong women. I figured I would curupt the good girl. If I just dated all the wrong ones it always burn out quick. I'm upfront and honest actually friend with every ex

[@desiregoodministry]

No interest! But, hey! Congrats, Lise, on hitting 200K subs! Woot! Woot!

[@simpinainteasy680]

Hard to imagine theres women that aren't like this. Harder to imagine....

[@hugmc]

Because some have been groomed from childhood by their mother and sisters

[@whitesamurai]

"Groomed" explains the young me, "reactive" explains the middle aged me. I am now so far over this type of woman, she amuses me but no longer interests me. I no longer seek her out and no longer try to avoid her.

[@thetruthplease3879]

My ex-girlfriend recently for almost 6 years. I did enjoy her heightened sexuality. But at the same time in the beginning, there was a lot of respect appreciation, but that slowly went away as it does with most covert, narcissist females. I will say that sex was never an issue if I wanted it. Now near the last year or two always had instigate it which got old. I guess for me I would probably want maybe a 20% of Beth Dutton and then the rest someone that appreciates , loves , respects, Has empathy and compassion

[@immers2410]

Good luck finding your unicorn

[@rostamr4096]

Lise's last word is "Break free"..enough said...

[@Carl-pq9vd]

I haven’t seen the show but my narc ex was the type. As I gradually found out. Beat her mother, had fist fights with two exes, always on wrong side of the law and parasiting off older men, drove a dead man's car for six years so as not to pay endless tickets, sexually aggressive, huge ego and drove cars into the ground. Spent other people's money faster than they could make it. Exotic pets to draw attention and her only friends were enablers. Her own family were scared of her.currently on the run 🫣. It was like three years of front line trauma.

[@gs90000]

How could you stay for 3 years?? It doesn’t seem possible

[@immers2410]

@@gs90000good cooch is intoxicating

[@dab7805]

1:01, to be honest I prefer a girlfriend who does that which shows me that she really loves me and she will be worried if she doesnt see for a long time. I dont see anything wrong with that kind of behavior in a woman in fact its a plus.

[@FoxSleeping]

I don’t watch TV.

[@Darth_Bateman]

You’re watching it right now…

[@ronsmith9003]

I haven't watched TV in a decade but this character is a near perfect description of my ex fiance.

[@Vitriol-Divergent]

6:00 This is exactly the sort of woman I've had to learn the hard way, too many times, that I am fatally attracted to and I cannot afford to ever let these psychos into my life.

[@adreaminxy]

Beth is my dream girl for sure 😅

[@Bonedripper]

Uhm genuine question to men, have you found women not like the ones described in this video? All the women that I have interacted with were narcisists. Eastern EU here.

[@brettthompson9082]

If you like women like this, its because YOU are broken. I felt the same about "fiery" women my whole life. As I heal, these women look more nuts. I value peace and love more than her erratic behavior... Women who identify with characters like this are red flags.

[@critter1888]

Sounds very like my ex. After meeting the woman I married, I feel like I caught the last chopper out of Saigon.

[@lindltailor]

Lise is a relationship genius with analytic abilities I cannot fathom! Is it possible to have a Beth scaled back just a notch and in a more empathetic package? Or this an all or nothing proposition? Please keep in mind I stopped watching Yellowstone after episode 2

[@FloydCourtnell]

This is all my relationships 😂