HARVARD negotiators explain: How to get what you want every time

[@suleyldrm5299]

This is the best explaining video I ever watched. Her voice also very helpful. Thr content itself just excellent!

[@jessica76311]

True! Her voice is very engaging. I was only coming here to save the video for later but I kept watching on. I've even subscribed without checking what the channel is about! Though I can tell from the channel name.

[@batman4329]

This assumes both parties are logical and are negotiating in good faith.

[@edan2629]

dead right.... most poor ppls negotiation arent logical at all, its ego, interest, this that and then some....

[@simplesample4939]

@@edan2629 how do you cope up with this circumstance then?

[@THEMOMENTOFBIRTH]

Exactly.

[@maartenvz]

Did you watch the video till the end as your statement is addressed from the 8 minute mark and on...

[@maartenvz]

​@@simplesample4939watch the video till the end as this is discussed for multiple minutes from the 8 minute mark ;)

[@whatthefunction9140]

My wife is definitely winning

[@AJITHKUMARV-ud5dg]

😂

[@AnyTriangle11139-ASg]

fr

[@SugarKane9547]

Same here 😂😂😂

[@designcorporatearchitect2553]

Because u don't want to lost her.

[@kennethumeadi8205]

😅

[@husbandandwifeteamak]

Amazing insights! Learning negotiation strategies from experts can truly transform your approach. Mastering these skills helps us achieve our goals effectively. Thanks for sharing!

[@BeachsideBachelor]

I'll be sure to send this to every seller on marketplace before I make an offer

[@Marryvictorfrancis]

amazing ad thank you for making this video, so interesting and easy to understand. God Bless You.

[@DunBossNyakundi]

I like the new style of summaries but i love when its only THE HAND doing it.. it sticks more if you DRAW AS YOU EXPLAIN THE POINT!!!! ... Thanks God Bless your efforts

[@Well_Read]

Would you say it matters if the channel shows the person talking?🤔

[@DunBossNyakundi]

@@Well_Read Yes ..its unique the way it is and personally i love it........ NOT comparable with what everyone is doing nowdays..copying copying copying!

[@almachavez6814]

Thank you! I always tune in and am very excited when new videos drop.

[@MyIslah]

Me too😊

[@Getbetter2023]

Yes True 👍

[@AnyTriangle11139-ASg]

Same

[@user-ve5nk5le7s]

This is wonderful and amazing negotiations that navigate individual processes in different organisation ❤

[@Pronellyllon]

Thank you for the video. It's always very helpful. Although I have some convincing to do, I believe these skills will also be helpful for the convincing. My problem is that there are regulations we need to comply... but my colleagues are completely against it. As the regulations are final, I doubt there is room negotiate for a different outcome. We cannot come to agree to a half compliance to regulations. I can, however, try to listen to their worries and see if I can change their minds or perspectives.

[@biasweet643]

Wondering if someone can negotiate the palestine - Israel issue

[@Asdrvbhjmkkgdcbkllhf]

How do you not have 3,000 replies to this comment already?

[@YoMoyg07]

Candidates: The UK - which facilitated the return of the Jews in the 20th Century The US - already showed prowess to do so by way of shuttle diplomacy (RIP Henry Kissinger). Also, can persuade ally Israel to agree to a ceasefire. Also, can plead to Arab allies to assuage Palestine (Hamas) to do the same. EU - Because they have leverage too. The UN - it should have from the start but the US always vetoes actions sanctioning Israel via the Security Council. Two cents have been dropped.

[@TheHugoDelgado]

I would add to your question considering the Palestine-Israel conflict negotiation history.

[@MandRGeneralplc]

🤣 the issue never be solved...because its a spirutual war...two very different entity fight for the same land...the issue is not tolerance...the issue is distroying the other one...u see...they fight to distroy not to tolerate or coexist ...

[@casioamplifier]

Yes. Israel is an actual country. While there is no country called Palestine except in the minds of isl@mist t3rror1sts

[@TsetanDorjay-oc2xm]

Thankyou so much .. my life improving because of your videos..

[@La1Neese]

Thank you for all of this awesome material that you continue to present. KZbin recommended a channel that is doing the same type of whiteboard stuff with the same books-and its crap. You, my dear are a rockstar!!! Keep doing what you’re doing !

[@rosenkechichukwunwendu1561]

I love the way of understanding

[@DavidMANZI_093]

This is amazing! indeed I need to be a wonderful negotiator... Thank you!

[@KokayMate]

These situations mirror todays western situations. Great accomplishments, Companys etc begin with mutual interest, knowledge and dedication. The second is great leaders. These traits are however rare nowadays.

[@karichmapyar]

I become addictive to your channel it's the first youtube channel I wait for its new videos to see. ❤ thank you so much😊 ❤😊

[@moseschileshe9297]

One of the best channel ever❤❤❤ when are you summering think and grow rich

[@warrenbradford2597]

I need to take the time to be a harvard negotiator. Thank you for informing me!

[@DesmondDaCyborg]

Thanks I tried reading that book but it was so boring. The voice over summary and animation make it seem interesting I’m going give it another chance

[@rienzitrento8397]

The cake is basically the same as king Solomon deciding whose baby belongs to the real mother

[@eddyhenry5050]

I doubt ,I fell there is a bit difference . In this case the orange doesn't belong to either of them .

[@donnegociador]

Focus on Interests, Not Positions Effective negotiators focus on the underlying interests of all parties, rather than merely their positions. By understanding the motivations and concerns of each party, leaders can identify potential areas of common ground and work towards mutually beneficial solutions.

[@AnuragMehta]

Excellent inputs. Really worth introspecting and applying !!

[@dantonshepherd9705]

I've learnt (and reinforced) quite a few concepts from your video. Thanks for sharing. Do keep it up!

[@HenryOkiya-or5pc]

I love your work u have changed me 😊

[@showxating9885]

1:07 Everyone who's ever split a bag knows this one. My standard for negotiations is when both sides are equally dissatisfied a balance has been struck.

[@adhiraj_18]

00:02 Negotiation is not about winning or losing. 01:26 Negotiation is about finding mutually satisfactory solutions. 02:48 Show you care and understand their interests to get them to listen. 04:20 Negotiate effectively by focusing on fair standards and inventing options for mutual gain. 05:43 Embrace differences in negotiation to lead to creative solutions 07:10 Building relationships before negotiation boosts success rate 08:39 How to handle difficult situations in negotiation 10:08 Negotiation is about collaboration and finding mutually satisfying solutions.

[@maartenvz]

Great examples of coveys 3 interpersonal habits from his classic the 7 habits of highly effective people.

[@MatkarimboyMatkarimov-n9u]

it is best showing of business conservation with customer

[@ivangunawan6700]

Another great video book review. Thanx very much Elvin

[@jr.rasentertainment4074]

Nicely said. Thanks for the advice

[@honchoabhi]

Simply brilliant.

[@ابراهيمروساريو]

You are the winner! Your idea may not work sometimes.. but you gain money through viewers😂

[@mamadbr2845]

I appreciate you and your videos❤

[@CharlotteGrayson-z3w]

I finally hit 80k today that's a personal record. Thank you for all the knowledge and nuggets you had thrown my way over the last months. Started with just 9k two months ago, 2024 is amazing!

[@user-gy4qp3nf1s]

Very informative 👍

[@jozefriskalcik7105]

The most challenging situations are when one party doesn’t reveal the interest or even hide it by many BS trics

[@warlockpaladin2261]

First, haggling is a form of negotiation that is often a hassle we would prefer not to be entangled in. Second, if your enemy is able to walk away then you have lost.

[@Theguycarechannel]

Very educative content and i learnt so much. What whiteboard tool do you use tho? I love it!!! ❤️

[@rosenkechichukwunwendu1561]

It is good to have cordial understanding

[@user-ej9qv8uq4f]

Good advices , for me I use the same strategies to finish any negotiation n I'm always gains respect n full trust in myself

[@ngo73221nc]

Thank you. I missing listen to your voice. I bought most of the books you suggested. This book is so helpful

[@AllinOne-co7gw]

Hi little bit better. You're great as usual, but Imagine inviting your paymasters suggestions on way forward. He will return you to your desk with a promise to "fix it" soon as his way fwd. My paymasters act like that.😅😅

[@lor3999]

When husband & I were newlyweds , we literally had the window argument upon going to sleep over & over. Some nights he’d see it my way, other nights I’d sleep on the couch. Eventually I discovered & could afford cashmere.

[@poojanoza8151]

You my friend have gained a loyal subscriber! You sound like we are 2 friends having a convo. Never would have though that learning something can be this interesting!! Keep making videos!!

[@rosenkechichukwunwendu1561]

Mutual respect and love

[@Esther-vr8fc]

Very useful video. Thank youuuu❤

[@_benon]

I'm in love with your voice! 😔

[@harshilmodi3590]

How would you negotiate divorce alimony with your wife?

[@mary-vb7fm]

😅😅

[@brysonwest93]

What's the usual standard? How do the experts establish alimony? What's a fair standard for alimony?

[@Ffsdevgj]

What do you do when “destiny” gives you a lot of B.S.? This is where we get our sense of justice and injustice.

[@podcastmariapopa1]

Hope you are a real person❤ WHO reads the book, summarise....i 'm so fed up with the AI .😅 Great insights ! Thank you !

[@rosenkechichukwunwendu1561]

Standing on the truth and ground

[@FulviaOrlandoChannel]

why it doesn't work for Israeli Palestine?

[@vishalmudaliar]

At this point it’s a generational rage from Palestines side and geopolitical identity for Israelis. Cannot be negotiated as negotiations and peace will lead to hidden agendas and cold wars in the future

[@Hrg_g]

Hi @Elvin, i am one of your subscriber for long time. I like your videos explaining books and ideas. Do you have any videos about Inverse/reverse thinking. If not and thinking of making one, pls make long videos. I would love that.

[@abhijithvm3166]

I don't know how much this technique works in real life. The video I really enjoyed and it's quite good actually then the issue feel that including a real life story of anyone or creating a random story based on each topics it's really it's really worthful. Then another issue like the video didn't share how to improve our negotiation skills and including thats thing I think it's really worth.

[@user-kf1me5zr6f]

can you get them to work with Hamas and Netanyahu?

[@oscar9558]

Your voice is as beautiful as your skills are. Amazing video.

[@rosenkechichukwunwendu1561]

Making peace on both sides

[@lyrontrayofficial820]

This is really lovely. Thank you ❤

[@josephcuellar7661]

Don’t see this working with narcissistic…

[@miroslavczadek]

Excellent theory

[@emmy638]

When negotiating think of a win-win outcome

[@someutubchannel69]

I'm sure my wife read this book!! 😅😅😅😅😅😅 She always gets away with HER way!!!

[@ashikshetty2672]

"Negotiation is finding a solution leaving both sides happy"

[@rosenkechichukwunwendu1561]

Negotiations is very important

[@rosenkechichukwunwendu1561]

Giving each other opportunities to air view and ideas

[@m_shajan1132]

Beautiful explained mam ❤

[@drshoma]

Do these summaries get monitized by KZbin or its flagged as copyright violations??

[@myvisionataglance]

Great video❤

[@FulfilInsight]

Love your ideas!

[@brandoncave-wynter6987]

Look up the book Never Split The Difference. You’re welcome.

[@user-cw1ys8xg3q]

I like you work and i know you really like to help people i need to know what tool are you using to generate such amazing animation and tank you for your help

[@helenoni3003]

Use canva

[@ngo73221nc]

Very useful information

[@gurpeetsingh9173]

The fact that nobody talks about the book whispers of manifestation on borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance

[@tpot559]

The first example is a bit of a cop out. What if they both want to stay in the same room with the door closed. Now that’s a situation.

[@ekejavictor9323]

Same question I wanted to ask.

[@laurmito]

You might encounter other similar situations, just apply the same principle onwards.

[@robdiamante7543]

That's easy. Hand them both a knife and find out who really cares

[@jacobj5567]

Just turn the heat on and open the window. The librarians dad will come get triggered for wasting electricity. The other 2 men will get uncomfortable and leave.

[@francia6263]

I ❤️step #4, person over problem!

[@AAhmed79]

great, very good, thanks for sharing,

[@rosenkechichukwunwendu1561]

Taking life sample and easygoing

[@cheazarjr]

The landlord analogy is bs. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@cmccoll4110]

💯 😂

[@cappuccino12345]

Sure it was a useful one , thank you mem

[@musaeyymmbagaiii9143]

Very Usefull

[@g.ramanan5190]

The underlying assumption is that the actors to the negotiation are not bad actors . In case of bad actors , it’s a clear case of win or lose.

[@maartenvz]

Did you watch the video till the end as this topic is discussed for multiple minutes...

[@Liang-y9g]

This is based on two parties are both reasonable.

[@Elilmu_Nur]

The examples here works only for kids and for easy situation to deal with. In real life situation are much much complicated.

[@rosenkechichukwunwendu1561]

Based on understanding

[@brandoncave-wynter6987]

What if the negotiation is regarding someone’s inability to recognize their faults or n a relationship? You have to talk about them thus making the conversation personal. Both sides have to be willing for negotiation.

[@scienceoffinance1778]

Negotiations is Economically viable outcomes

[@Getbetter2023]

It was really informative video ❤

[@TMM6900]

So stepping back

The intro looks good and it will be awesome for other kind of channel I don’t know, it’s good but feels kinda strange 😅

[@drewmotley1507]

Who are you? Creator of this content. In negotiations the otherside needs to know you( rapport) So how is it you know all this? Good presentation

[@rosenkechichukwunwendu1561]

Having aggrement first before negotiating

[@unityforall-md4fl]

My own interpretation on negotiation is just to be inclusive and utilize level 2 logical mindset instead of level 1 emotional association without inclusive logical reasonings.

[@sriharshaguthikonda5323]

What if there is only one room so that you can open the window or not open the window in first situation? And in second situation, what if you are the only one person who is going to cut and distribute, then the other person who was not there at the time of cutting has an issue?

[@toberealestate]

Well put together

[@jocysatu1038]

We should ask the question "Are we both winning?"

[@markbrajkovich311]

This is a lesson for children

[@LindaLieffers-m6y]

Great content and I thank you for breaking it down!! Even in the current crypto dip, I'm happy I can smile back at my portfolio of $19,000 made from my weekly trade within a short period❤❤❤❤

[@EmelieBorglin]

Hey bro please teach me? Or atleast give me some tips where i can learn from?

[@Somenchakravarty]

The problem we have is because Most people always taught that " you only need a good job to become rich. These billionaires are operating on a whole other playbook that many don't even know exists.

[@BraveIntrovert]

It is remarkable how much long term advantage people like us have gotten by trying to be consistently not stupid, instead of trying to be very intelligent.

[@LarissaEremeeva-n9h]

I was big on gold and silver but a few months ago I discovered Bitcoin and Ethereum. Listening to lots of stuff from Sir Harvey Barrett FX has been really helpful in my journey.

[@CanalCheong]

Mr Harvey Barrett FX was my hope during the 'bear summer' last year. I did so many mistakes but also learned so much from it, and of course from Harvey Barrett FX

[@user-mf1xc3zb2t]

So if 2 trained negotiators go against each other, they both get what they want? I don't think so...

[@Scorpio-gb8ss]

Would love to watch a Video your way of Napoleon hill "Think and grow rich" if you don't mind of course 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻