How to Talk to ANYONE and Get What You Want: Surrounded by Idiots by Thomas Erikson

How to Talk to Anyone and Get What You Want: Surrounded by Idiots by Thomas Erikson

[@alexmarvel4682]

You really blowing my mind with how accurate this actually is I feel like I look at the world in a much different way now

[@8MinutesExplainer]

Pay attention to what the other person is saying, and show genuine interest in their perspective. By understanding their needs and concerns, you can tailor your communication to better align with their interests, increasing the likelihood of getting what you want.

[@zsoltmadacs5567]

It’s called Active listening . There’s a book called “ Listening the forgotten skill - second edition by Madelyn Burley-Allen” . It points out quickly what kind of listener u are and help you get better at listening and also become a better and more successful person

[@ish1231997]

I was part of a management course this year where we were categorised into our colours! This video has condensed it all into 20 minutes 👌 sending it to my boss

[@noorgonzalez1076]

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😂

[@simplereally.]

My wife and I have such a wonderful marriage. I always know what she is thinking, because she always tell me. She always knows what I'm thinking, because she tells me that too. Communication is great

[@TK.000]

😂

[@minterproperties7146]

Sou ds about right

[@susanadelgado1023]

😂😂😂👍

[@rebeccaxodonq7893]

Me Im combination for some certain matters I'm straight forward and transparent. For some certain matter I don't want to disclose to anyone n want to do my own n unpredictable. I don't share where I'm, what in doing, when..

[@perfectplays6849]

Can you please make an video[ specifically on small talk.] "How to build small talk mind map? Don't worry about what to say and build the ability to ask questions without feeling what to ask." After taking a lot of courses I came to realize that problem is specifically small talk. A general mind map of small talk great communicators follow. Will be very greatful.

[@user-do3gg6zb9g]

Thank you for coming back Elvin, Life and Work was kind of not effective without you Around.

[@kingdidi0037]

Best lesson ever ❤

[@marycjey4141]

This is a perfect video to master the skill of interaction.

[@akitadakid6326]

yeah your right i do feel empowered cuz apparently im the avatar. i change through out the day and with different task. This just helped me uderstand why sometimes im on top of things and later i can feel like i never stood a chance.

[@BlessedOne686]

Excellent Summary🔥🔥

[@scottunique]

Fabulous Video!! Your work is always so thorough and clear. I'm reading more quality books because of your excellent choices!!

[@haleemabdurahman5151]

Part 4, blue and yellow is gold 👌

[@boss-fu1cy]

Thanks it's helpful

[@Getbetter2023]

I like your content👍 Nice attention to details

[@MoonLint]

Amazing video.

[@matiasantoniocafemba]

It was amazing watching this helpful video

[@NewDay12114]

I love your videos ❤❤

[@SueZillaz4444]

Red predominantly, the other three secondary and depends on the team and what's needed. I'm camelion like that

[@warrenbradford2597]

I am keeping in mind these four types when starting my own business and create a mainstream company. Thank you for the information. I will read this book, one day.

[@nsepeter]

Nice graphic backing ✅

[@ProdProddy]

Everyone can be all of them under the right circumstances

[@KaysProduct]

It was one of your best video of all time. I found myself clearly described in what you were saying. I just hoped you would tell us where you locate yourself. You made it so great. It filled me with ideas of what to do and what to be. Thanks

[@theminecrafter49er]

Hey love the videos and hope all is well! I’d love to see a video over “One Up On Wallstreet”! Thanks

[@Neezy9]

Great work! Very helpful content.Helps me be less blue lol

[@infoworldnow-ig6lo]

Please turn this into a series

[@kartikgrover2545]

I am all four colours. Might be schizophrenia

[@bentonrp]

I always considered you more of a mauve.

[@kartikgrover2545]

@@bentonrp nvm I am n word colour

[@stevenchapman5810]

ME TOO.. BITS AND PIECES

[@travelingtheusa277]

Hello, can you do a summary of CRUCIAL CONVERSATIONS?

[@lucifir3]

This concept is pretty much in line with DISC personality.wonder was Erickson was inspired by this ?

[@IsaacMusama-ry5tq]

can you continue putting that background tune(sound) that I hear in your older videos please 🙏🏼

[@getachewdessie1685]

Please present the book can't hurt me by david goginns pls it is amazing book that is why i said do the book because i want to share what i know for this amazing youtube channel fans lots of lov!

[@SailorGreenTea]

Interesting

[@sammou8011]

which kind of program do u use to make this video? i want to use it for school. thank you✌

[@charmievisperas]

I have this book…

[@GOEDGEDAAN]

i love this channel so much change the title because you spelled it wrong ANYONE you wrote ayone

[@XindyNnn]

I think I’m a green person. And my close friend is a red person . No wonder I feel stressed when I’m with her

[@Farzaneh.kalhor]

Can you please tell me what software you are using for your video?

[@fwdsmatter1117]

For sureeeeee i'm all except yellow lol

[@knvtv642]

I don't think I'm surrounded by an idiot, but after watching this video i understand that people around me have 2 color in their behavior. And judging by the way how the speaker talk on this video, i believe that you are a combination of yellow and blue person with a little bit of red😀

[@tome3454]

I'm definitely a red, blue, and yellow combo.

[@Luna1917a]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@Lunar123424]

Green blue 💚🪀💙🍏🥒🦋💙💚🩵🩵 🌱

[@Chuck-Norris1]

I'm a perfect combination of green and blue

[@sahebmark]

❤❤

[@albertjohnbasson]

Bit of a spelling mistake in the title there

[@sherrellejohnson3451]

Unfortunately with titles KZbin doesn’t give you enough space for a complete title. So you have to be creative with your spelling.

[@albertjohnbasson]

OK I get that but by dropping the "N" in the word you created a complete new meaning. Why didnt you just drop the space after the Colon: ​@@sherrellejohnson3451

[@angelinebarreno9460]

*SC

[@angelinebarreno9460]

Could of used NEone

[@bentonrp]

I think she fixed it. But anyway, chaps, ...what do you think this chick looks like? Think she's a fox? I think I've always liked her naive, little voice, is why...

[@onlyme2450]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤

[@stevenchapman5810]

I AM A MIXER OF ALL 4!!!

[@daniellagunes5930]

Red is a menace

[@juliemarkham4332]

Green was right on. I'm a turtle. 🐢

[@Aerixes.]

i'm red and blue combined. i find being yellow a bit naive tbh, the way i understood yellow's personality is "if we're all relaxed then it will all work out" but someone's gotta do the dirty work, same way that everyone works so the country keeps going

[@bentonrp]

No; You're Puce.

[@Bruce4lmighty]

We are all a combination of all 4 colours, some stronger than others. Perfection would be when all 4 colours are represented equally. I did a course 11 years ago along with colleagues at the company I worked at and we all found it incredibly beneficial 👍🏻

[@Isushmasagar]

Strangely.. I am a combo of all four.. Depending on the task..

[@lesleyjohnson8488]

Yes, these were the colours many years ago when they designated people according to the Four Humours in medieval science and medicine. I remember it as Red - choleric, Yellow - sanguine, Blue - melancholy, and Green - phlegmatic. Doesn’t really help as much as the Enneagram, though. Not enough nuance. Plus it is based in a very flawed vision of medicine and psychology. Recycled ideas from 40 years ago, which was recycled from the time of Galen.

[@Bruce4lmighty]

Totally agree. I did this then the Enneagram at a retreat over a decade ago. Works well in combination however, if I could only choose one it would be the Enneagram every time 👍🏻

[@user-fk8gm9zz2p]

I like this channel it's favorite one, I hope to see more videos

[@bumpintheG]

🏆🏆🏆

[@palakondahemanth7464]

wow im clearly yellow but i kind of feel like im a combination of all colors .but still yellows dominant😜.

[@FrostyFlipz]

I'm literally all of these, every last one!

[@JonnyRay82]

Why do I feel like I'm an equal part of all colors??

[@1999Jerod]

I wonder if we can change 🤔

[@brak1381]

We can be more aware of each other and ourselves.

[@dudalojogrme]

Good question, but it's a marathon not a sprint!

[@akolangito4209]

Whats the best thing to do while me as blue and my wife is yellow😅

[@user-eg1sk6bx2r]

Some people work very hard to make things complex especially women 😅😅😅

[@hrg_tv]

*anyone

[@rebeccaxodonq7893]

I'm green n blue 😂

[@RishiRajxtrim]

🙂👍😌🙏

[@kazuya99ace]

As a blue primary-red secondary, I feel like it's easy to hate absolutely everyone around me except for other blue-reds. Anybody else in the comments feel this?

[@queenyassgoddessgifts9418]

I'm actually a yellow type of person mixed with blue, but I am introvert and I don't like surrounded by peoples, I get my energy from animals and natures.. I don't like working with groups of peoples, it drained me..

[@Bruce4lmighty]

Strong yellow represents an extrovert. I think from your comment you are strong blue & green, weak red & yellow. I did the course 11 years ago 👍🏻

[@Myst-wo7jn]

One of the things I got from this video is that adults are just kids in bigger bodies.

[@justicechannelforthepeople1730]

I’m definitely red

[@codylazenby5282]

Would be a good video if there wasn’t an ad every 2.5 minutes

[@akolangito4209]

Blue😅

[@sylviazepeda6259]

Anyone? You have a typo in the tittle of your video

[@ryanmoraleta6592]

You got “tittle” on yours

[@nelju0621]

Hello, Blue

[@T-o-o-t-h-l-e-s-s]

Definitely a green guy

[@Aerixes.]

i find green a bit closed minded.. in my eyes red and blue are the ideal and what everyone should be aiming for.

[@listennow5496]

Dear diary, Today I found out that I am a rainbow.

[@brak1381]

😅

[@mrunalpatel5458]

I am green

[@spartacus-ib7tc]

im GREENNN

[@_themasteroflife_]

Yellow is narcis

[@rodgerpiercearchitect]

…I’m thinking that this video would be really funny at 2X speed

[@socksrocksdocks]

i guess im a little of every color then

[@chebautista169]

I am yellow-green. My boyfriend is red-yellow

[@bentonrp]

No, you're turquoise.

[@user-ss4kb2ti8l]

I'm a yellow

[@bobtarmac1828]

Too many stupid people? Maybe. But with swell robotics everywhere, Ai jobloss is the only thing I worry about anymore. Anyone else feel the same? Should we cease Ai?

[@miguellibert4645]

There is another page called so much better thay is copying your content

[@zap7140]

【Free Advice】I think in your videos, the way you speak is too quick and make me stressful with lots of important information in short period of time. I think you might work on it.

[@dudalojogrme]

But I think everyone of us can cut her a lot of slack, it's not easier to cover a whole book in 20mins! I suggest anyone who is finding it difficult to catch up to listen twice or thrice and also to pause and listen and ultimately get the book she's promoting. Then we will see what a great work she's Doing.

[@BradyVaughn]

You can actually slow down the playback speed thus slowing her speech. Neat!

[@Vexwisval28]

This sounds like hogwarts houses

[@casmartin1314]

This is bullshit. I'm a different color depending of the crowd, mainly the 1st three

[@bentonrp]

Of course it's bullshit. Don't you know that this book is just a conspiratorial ploy to make you think of, and buy more Skittles?... 🔴🟠🟢🟣🔵🟡 🟠🟢🔵🟡🔴🟣

[@Venom-nk8nd]

🇵🇬🇵🇬,,,

[@HeavenlyLights]

I’m a RED surrounded by NO REDS. yuck. Except I DON’T do temper. I STAY AWAY from the time wasters.

[@seonpook429]

You painted the Red & the Yellow in a way they are mostly from the higher up, defining how the world works in all human history. If that's the case, it doesn't worth the time at all because the Red likes to blame upon failure, and the Yellow likes to kiss xss, cuz that's how they get into where they are. You might end up losing yourself or being a toady trying to impress everyone, before even getting what you want. And you think you're smart enough using "surrounded by idiots" to immune from potential criticism on the credibility of this borrowed content.

[@brians1902]

This has been debunked. Oversimplified that it is pseudo science.

[@rayzerot]

I'm not going to listen to the rest of the video because the color/people organization method used is hot garbage. Oh well

[@mahboubnik2376]

Hahaha, you are basically trying to sell your services by presentation visual means.

[@508outdoorcooking]

I love how I have you in my featured channels because I always need you, you are some of the best advice I have ever gotten the books you read in the way you deliver it are so helpful to me I know I don’t comment all the time, but I really am a life fan of your channel and all your hard work. I know I said it before but thank you.🫶💕👌😎