Live for Yourself! | Chetan Bhagat | TEDxGraphicEraUniversity

[@dipakradia515]

I agree. We always include others in our decisions and thinking and we feel guilty if we do not. So what Chetan is saying makes a lot of sense. Thanks.

[@vaishalivaidya7978]

So so true...The time I was married before we ended the alliance of matrimony with each other and decided to retain the alliance as a family, I was living for everyone else and dying inside, not just emotionally and mentally but physically as well...and though I was in the best shape of my life from outside, just like how the speaker , Mr Bhagat's life looked from the outside, it looked amazing from outside because I was physically running from my insides. I was taking pain killers injectables and orals, even running towards people who were unhealthy for me, trying to escape me, my reality. Finally when I decided to breath for myself, to preserve myself and my sanity, ofcourse I faced both external and internal resistance...and I tried a few escape mechanisms again...but realised whatever we resist will and does persist...till I decided to not resist it, listen to myself, I was able to breathe, to connect better with myself and ppl I call my inner circle. Thank you for this amazing talk.

[@legendoctane5732]

Right 👍

[@supriyabejjenki8794]

Mam...ur words...r happening and going to happen in most of the home makers...both working and home makers especially..thing is u expressed it...tq

[@rishabmishra6957]

Such a lovely expression of what's inside 💛🔥 , thank you so much ma'am

[@vikrantshukla94]

Well described... How r u now?

[@leenanirmal9598]

😊9

[@prernagosain597]

I was fortunate enough to witness him live

[@seeratarora702]

Wow

[@samramajeed5315]

Mujh b lay jate 😏

[@PRASHANTSINGH-sh2hn]

I also wanted to join the same graphic era university 🎓 I love that ann location 📍

[@basirunkhatoon9364]

Ghhc

[@Atul1273]

I got distraction at 9:07

[@ilajoshi2515]

Lovely speech...Pandemic has taught me to live for yourself and in last year I did 3 high altitude treks as a long time procastninated long term passion....its changed my attitude towards life...Till 5 yrs back was totally dedicated to my career and wellbeing of my family and an centurion FIL to now co-leading treks the journey is satisfying Absolutely 💯 agree with your views. Have read all of your articles too...A great fan of yours Mr Chetan Bhagat.👍🙏💐

[@vikrantshukla94]

Great to hear...what all you have trekked btw?

[@cindyhalpern3187]

I get to live for myself finally. I lived to please my parents. I lived to please husbands. I lived for my daughter. I lived for my grandchild. I lived for my boyfriend. Now I live alone! So finally, I live for me!

[@pnmehta2559]

Good message, especially for Indians who get recruited into roles that we are not old enough to comprehend but feel entrapped for life, because our parents, preachers and pundits decree the purpose of your life. You hardly have a say in how you want to spend life or if you have an alternative dream for your life. So you are right, that the majority cog Indians are raised to live for others. It takes an immense will power and courage to follow your heart. But you are right, in asserting and claiming at least some part of your life for yourself. In the old Indian tradition, men walked away from it all in Vanprasthan age ( post working life) women retired and focus on spiritual growth once the kids got married and brought others to takeover the responsibility. Not so now. Elderly parents now have to devote their so called Golden years in raising their grandchildren in service of the dual income family where husband and wife work! So unless one musters courage to say ‘no’ you could be spending your whole life to please others! Good speech!

[@cherry__official_9476]

❤

[@sowmiyagnanakumar]

Amazing. I just started to live for myself 10 days ago and this speech proved my decision is absolutely right and no harm. Thank you so much for this wonderful video.

[@sweeteesinghbisen7344]

What an amazing lines of Chetan sir ...live first urself than care others 😊😊

[@arora.akshay2312-Noida]

True like in airplanes, it is usually said first mask up yourself !

[@sauravmathur6192]

Two books that I read 400 days and half girlfriend these books are amazing and gives the value not only love but also related to life experience

[@VenusEnrique57]

Honest. Such an honest TedTalk. I don't know this speaker, however, his message has me wanting to hear more of his helpful discussion: "Live for Yourself"...then I will be happy and really (I know this)..."happy draws happy"...Thank you Chetan Bhagat. peace.

[@subimathew287]

One of the famous author in India❤

[@akashrathi9050]

He is very famous personality in India since my childhood. Shocking that even this influencing personality wasn't happy with his life decisions. Very inspiring talk indeed.

[@Diya9777]

Famous writer in India

[@mohibquadri4053]

Uncompromisingly forthright speech 💛

[@learnenglishbybangla]

A great writer and his insight are very deep and clear.

[@mohdarbaz9331]

Yes, Live for yourself but don't forget to keep balance to take care of yours.

[@shwetamishra8298]

Loved ur last line stole the show if u are happy n start living for urself people won't run away they will come to u that's essence happy going people have different vibes n aura __sumptuous way to lift motivation avid admirer of urs sir

[@abhiramkumaryadav.]

Best ever speech for making yourself better.

[@sanjuktapal9100]

The need of the hour is to live for your self.Thank you so much for this amazing talk.

[@xyzpeace7814]

If we attach our self worth to much with our work, status , when things don't go right we feel miserable, depression kicks inn... Self independent is very imp ... But we must love unconditional cause when things Trumble,we don't drag into depression..

[@aggiesart6]

I feel this so much❤. Let it go! Says my mother after a lifetime pleasing people. Past year she almost died en now she is another woman. She live and laugh and is not busy with other people lifes. Thank you🦋

[@pranavijha9801]

Thank you so much for this amazing talk Sir. I will live for myself now!

[@subhasr92]

Sir.. what you said is quite right..bcos most people care about what others say about them nd not caring their own ambitions or aspirations.,.means even their small wishes or dreams. Such people are not living actually they are simply sacrificing this one time life in this earth. We have to live for ourself as no one can satisfy our own needs nd deeds. It was a nice nd thought provoking speech. Congrats 👍

[@mohammedfaizan9198]

Definitely at 4:10 you are talking for me, from my heart. Heart💕

[@RiteshRathod101bro]

Chetan Bhagat one of the best speech I ever seen ❤👏

[@daljitkaur52]

Thank you so much Chetan Ji for sharing your wonderful journey 🙏💞💐🙏

[@syncstudy8792]

Straight clear n brief ! Value life to find your purpose 👍👍👍👏🙏

[@dank_shiv]

You always tells something great sir.

[@amodkumarvig7865]

Somewhere we should also accept we are living on borrowed culture.. we have moved away from our core cultural values . It’s best to identify root cause . Loved this TEd Talk let’s hope more people become happier.

[@vikrantshukla94]

💯

[@shwetabhchandra3684]

I will live for myself

[@aarshavarsenal]

Learned this at my mid 20's... Since then have been doing "for myself"

[@sanjanagrover7436]

*BIG FAN CHETAN SIR! YOUR AUDIENCE WANTS MORE SUCH TED TALKS SIR❤💯*

[@Mia-ei4mh]

This is soo true, thank you for this 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@seeratarora702]

Best speech ever CB Sir💞

[@LotusITHub]

Don't sit down and wait for the opportunities to come. Get up and make them . Thank You Chetan sir 🏆

[@therevolution1615]

Great Sir, this is an eye-opener to many.. who would work their entire life,living for others,as in autopilot mode, everyday spending their time,energy, resources, everything for their family or for the lovedones not even thinking about their health or their needs.....As you rightly said, first put your oxygen mask, then only you can help others....nice Sir, Thank you.....

[@reshmareshma7646]

Awesome and worth realising talk .we do lot of things in our life but unfortunately we don't live for ourself ..truly an eye opener session.Thanks for inspiring us and many

[@ashikahmed2727]

“Live first yourself then care others” me first

[@odjibicharity9421]

I'm 30 years now this was me. I care so much on what other's will think.

[@jessietigga5379]

He is a legend 💙chetan sir

[@ruchikashyap7072]

Such an Inspiring words that can change life in a beautiful way❤✨

[@RpPan-wu4hy]

Lovely Dear Respected Mr Bhagat .You ROCK THE WORLD Genuinely...SHARING ALL THIS WAY ON PLATFORM ..LOVE YOU FOR YOUR DARING TALK

[@competitiveexams486]

Yes first we have to be happy....To make others happy

[@anitakaushik]

Hello Chetan sir I just had dinner at South Indian Vibes pure vegetarian restaurant Rajpur road dehradun, and manager told us about celebrities visit at restaurant. I felt so happy after watching your picture there. And clicked selfie there. Actually I am from haryana staying in Delhi and on a business trip in Dehradun so I searched pure vegetarian restaurant and got a chance to create a beautiful experience.

[@ShantayBhushan]

Best Ted Talk I have ever seen❤

[@kavisaurabhbhanu9637]

हे भगवान..!! इतनी अंग्रेजी आज पहली बार सुनी।

[@dipakujala8928]

I'm very inspiring by this person.

[@chatterjeeacademy9196]

Thanks for such a deep thinking and awesome presentation I like the way you are presenting the session

[@narayanadhasojuraghavender1478]

Very insightful message Chetan ji. Tq🎉

[@09onammtaamut]

You Motivate us ... Thankyou ✌

[@silviachandra5647]

thank you sir for an eye-opening speech

[@DilCardyn]

Hey there! As someone who values happiness and inner fulfilment, I completely agree with the message you've shared. It's easy to get caught up in seeking validation from others or chasing external markers of success, but ultimately, it's important to stay true to ourselves and prioritize our own unique identities and happiness. Living for ourselves is key to leading a happy and empowered life, as Chetan ji wisely said. So let's all strive to find contentment in the present moment and embrace our true selves.

[@manojsingla77]

Very inspiring Sir. Live for yourself.

[@fishmn7414]

Thank you Chetan.....you never fail to inspire us.....wishing you and everyone around a great life just the one we want...'Live for yourself'...I am implementing this theory now on 👍🙏🥳

[@bliss5205]

Very important for PPL who wants to be a good human being by neglecting self love and self care....

[@Glo_Cha]

Amazing . I can totally relate

[@srikantparmeshwar7978]

Very true... Lovely speech

[@georgiana7857]

And when you start living for yourself, you feel bad for disappointing them.. There s really no going around this..😅

[@navin9290]

Nope actually... Living for yourself means living unapologetically. We generally wired to feel happy only when our loved ones are proud of us but it's not a good way of living. It might be good if it happens but if not happens, you should still happy enough to lead your life

[@BipinPandeyOfficial]

thanku for amazing talk , you are really talk about of reality of life , if i am not happy , how i can make others happy , it's really true, so i tell thank you again , i have learnt to you , that give life for yourself then others .

[@kirthananambiar8873]

One of the best tedx talks👍👍

[@swetagupta-themusicalsoul6776]

Superb, superb, superb👌👌👌👏👏👏👏absolutely veritable!!!👍 Happiness, inner fulfilment & contentment is what matters the most, irrespective! This is best understood by people who are creative, genuinely talented, artistic & believe in themselves. And people pleasers who seek approval & validation from others or chase money lose their own unique identity & happiness & deplete their soul power eventually. Hence 'Live for yourself' is the key to leading a happy & empowered life as aptly quoted by Chetan ji. Kudos & hat's off to him for leading by example.

[@atulyadav5729]

One I will come at this platform to tell my story..❤❤🙏

[@jeetenglish4660]

Overall message of Mr Chetan Bhagat speech is that 'charity begins at home'so first of all we should leave for ourself then only we can understand other.

[@TOMBHAGAT]

I am so happy, Not Alone !

[@asnakhan9576]

this is finally the chetan bhagat that i like

[@ZiyadAzariRidhwani]

Awesome it makes me feel what is life

[@pappu1022]

Best speaker on youtube 👏

[@atulmanitripathii]

Genuine guidance 🙏 💐

[@NehaGupta-sm5je]

I saw this video and now I feel euphoria and u see this video because this video are motivated you how u do in your life how u started an all and own think I like u first love yourself ❤️☺️

[@deepakseducationhub5108]

I will live for myself from today...

[@Charmingrebecca2]

Such a great Talk

[@abdulbari5473]

When you start to fill your dreams definitely change your life at least you feel like that

[@DeepakPatel-st5kn]

Thank you so much sir... It was really fervent speech.. We enjoyed a lot and would implement in our lives 🧡

[@LearnerRahul-dk7gu]

Live for yourself.

[@PankajjPokhriyal]

Live with yourself

[@yogitadhawan2470]

He's a brilliant author ❤❤❤❤❤

[@ulhaspatil4298]

Excellent speech 💐

[@nitinnagar2337]

Such a appreciated video contents and really fruitful.

[@supergamingshort5496]

I can understand your speech and I am not able to English language but now I understand you're thought ☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️

[@sauravchatterjee848]

Just loved it.... every words.... ❤️

[@p.gyaltsen30]

The lady who walked in the middle 9:00 min... Spoilt my focus

[@SadikAli-re6qo]

I read your book ''three mistakes of my life '' amazing man .👌👌

[@raishabkumar6055]

Thank you Chetan sir ❤️

[@danf4447]

hearing his talk made me realize one thing.: indian and jewish culture is almost identical !:)

[@Eduhub124]

I love you're books 😍🥰🤩

[@ArtiYadav-ru7zn]

Thank you sir for motivate us 🙏

[@varungupta5706]

Fabulous, jai Bharat ❤❤

[@xyz-pc3tl]

Grate video sir....

[@mahinpm]

Thank you..Awesome ..

[@kavithakavi1728]

Well said Chetan 🤝

[@ashokkumarvaradarajan6038]

Loved it. Chetan down to earth guy, no non-sense guy

[@sachin4619]

Superb Sirr❤❤

[@Trading_RKC]

This man is great author I read this author books 📚

[@apatheticme7030]

I needed to hear this today

[@prasadtakarwankar7463]

Beautiful video Short but Sweet.

[@templeviewgate]

Work analytically and systematic value the decisions on priority basis and that is easiest step ...it is first step when one realizes what calibre one has ..than competition, opportunities teaches the mode to be in the control of own goals.

[@mdshekh327]

Chetan sir is king

[@savvysshares]

Makes a lot of sense.

[@sensibleIndian_]

TedTalk please bring Acharya Prashant on your stage. The world needs to hear him.

[@doctor7937]

What did I learn from this talk !!!!!!

[@naveenkoul611]

Self care can be intertwined with duniyadari. Both things can co exist. What matters is the priority to be given to a particular thing. Your health and self care has to be first priority. Once your priorities are set right ,you can look after duniyadaris,other people as well

[@arora.akshay2312-Noida]

True Sir

[@harshabajaj6973]

Awesome Most needed session

[@GajendraSingh-yk3pu]

Great video, eye opening video 👏👏👏👍

[@zs70]

Such a great informative speech n experience dear ❤