LIVING ALONE IN MY 20'S *slowing down, finding new hobbies, lots of therapy, house hunting, & more*

[@danielleormerod2167]

1 HOUR OF SAM?! MY NIGHT IS COMPLETE❤

[@lifewithLaura1]

My thoughts EXACTLY 💯

[@its_me2424]

So excited!!

[@lessavessa8398]

YESSSS

[@yoon2917]

exactly my thoughts omg!!! this is amazing

[@shiraa3249]

I was so excited

[@summervandebogart6990]

As a house cleaner we appreciate when you move stuff out of the way before we come makes cleaning so much easier and helps us focus on things like your baseboards!! Love your videos Sam ❤️

[@Rizzmtism]

Literally came to the comments to say this! Thank you for going the extra mile Sam! 💜 I promise you it doesn’t go unnoticed. Housekeeping is a tough job and wonderful people like you make it SO much easier!

[@rpuhlman1397]

same for me, i get more deep cleaning done the less clutter or items that i need to work around

[@summer_time_5]

No pressure for long content but absolutely LOVING the long videos. Love the hangout vibe. Gives me peace and comfort when I’m on my own. I recently moved and haven’t made friends so I enjoy your company

[@gracenogueira]

OMG!! 1 hour of Samantha Jo... What more could we ask?! Thank you girl ❤🥰

[@siennaconda]

Thanks for entertaining us during all the snowstorms Sam 💕

[@ameliaabrams4839]

Right cause the south is not built for snow and I needed quality entertainment to boost my spirits

[@iamemi5052]

30:00 as a therapist, I should say, that a therapist should never give you advice - it's what we learn over and over again. But that's true, that a therapist should question you, challenge you and make you think, give you exercises to do at home and do practices in the session.

[@nicoleN1993]

I disagree I think it’s important for them to give advice. Not like “yea you should move”, but encourage the person to weigh out the pros and cons and unpack it etc I think it is also different with each client and what they are looking for in a therapist.

[@georgiabowen3517]

As a cleaner it helps so much when things are put away : lots of people expect us to put there items away without having an idea on where they go . So thank you 💖 also love the 1hr vids 😍

[@irenestrongrock4106]

This was the best vlog ever. Having a horrible day, and this helped. Never ever need to apologize about not using overhead lighting, it’s awful. I LOVE that you keep the cozy lighting on during your vlogs, it makes them so peaceful. The vibes in this video were just immaculate (minus the loud af concert, which made my anxiety soarrrr for you).

[@kendalgarrett]

This one hour video made my week. Ive been stuck doing nothing at home, just got home from the ER after some heart issues and i am only 18 so its really scary. I love you Sam!

[@Gucciblackberry]

Hope the best for you girl❤

[@melissablois3242]

Danm good luck girl, stay strong 💪 ❤

[@sierramcwenie6700]

Oh no. I've had heart issues at a young age as well. It's hard, but hang in there and try not to worry. You're gonna be okay.❤️

[@moonfairyalana]

thanks sam! I struggle with depression, ocd and anxiety and showering can be so triggering and stress-inducing. your reminder helped me make the effort to pause the video and just go shower and not worry about it being 'off routine'. I feel so much happier and supported when I watch your videos like this. I would love more hour long videos in the future! hope you're well xxx.

[@AimsKnits]

SAMANTHA!! AN HOUR?!?!?! IM SO HAPPY TO HAVE SO MUCH TIME WITH YOU!!!❤

[@baesic_asf]

Hi! My hair fell out like crazy when I started losing drastic weight, and I can tell you that taking Biotin daily really helped after a couple months of consistent use. It is so worth it to start sooner rather than later, because I didn't start taking it until I was about 80 pounds down, and now I have SOOOO MANY baby hairs that I have to slick my hair back with gel when I wear it up. I have lost 147 pounds and it has changed my whole life, so I'm not mad about it, but I can't wait for my hair to look as healthy as it once was! Keep it up because you won't regret it!!

[@juliastrait9745]

I used to take biotin as a teen to keep my nails from breaking because my mom noticed it, and it helped my hair too so much, I've always have thick hair and I blame that loll

[@kelleyeckmayer497]

Sam, heads up on something about neurodivergence that I didn’t realize! We have a tendency to go ALL IN for a hobby and then drop it to move onto the next hobby. You end up spending loads of money on materials, so I figured I’d share the perspective. The hope is you can self-edit to hold back from purchasing all the things for the next amazing hobby. (Been there, done that too many times.) You have also made comments in the past about having a shopping addiction. It may not be an addiction, rather another example of neurodivergent behaviors. 😊

[@sarahcollins9845]

Yes THIS

[@Sydneymariethompson]

I love hearing how you’re trying to make a difference in your life and evaluate everything. You’re taking control and I’m so proud of you! I am also a new crocheter so I’m definitely here for that content too. I would love a video on content creating and the tools that’s are needs to execute making long and short content. I love you so much ❤

[@noahmansell9]

I love these one hour videos. Keep them up.

[@itsteagstho4928]

Loved this vlog! ❤ I took a step back from my socials and it's the best thing I've done. At first I didn't think it was a problem in my life but the hours I would spend, the money I would spend and the comparing mindset I developed was crazy. I came across this quote "Be where your feet are." And it honestly changed everything. Being present, grateful and thankful for my beautiful quiet little life has brought me so much peace. I don't feel the need to keep up with the grind, organization or aesthetic girlies and that is honestly so freeing. ❤

[@darkgils]

I NEED to say that the content you post is the content I look most forward to. Between KZbin (which was where I discovered you years ago) to tik tok to fameished I just can’t get enough! This hour long video is about to cure everything for me HAHHA thanks girl happy new year! 🎉

[@samfisher2923]

Really appreciate you talking about your dandruff journey and your product recommendations from someone who also suffers and has tried so many different “dandruff” shampoos that just don’t work for me! Also loving this new era of slower living and focusing more on productivity and learning what hobbies you like!❤

[@tpwk21]

if you haven’t tried nizoral shampoo i totally recommend it’s worth the try! literally the best product i’ve ever used for dandruff

[@Gucciblackberry]

Try scalp serums!!!!! Briogeo has a nice one, it’s $26 but Pantene has one as well that’s like $7, it’s good to rub in and message on your problems areas, I ran out before winter came and I definitely have the adult equivalent of cradle cap on one side of my head in a small area/: I hate dry scalps

[@gabriellareyes0716]

I saw the notification and immediately tapped on it I love you so much Sam and I’m so so proud of you 💕

[@jasminehunt4207]

It's actually life changing when we find the right medications. It's like seeing all of the potential you have & how different your outlook on life is. Forever grateful for Vyvanse. It's so heart warming to see your mental health improvement, you're doing phenomenal. Don't forget it!

[@Behind_the_bella]

I love this. It’s like FaceTiming with an inspirational friend. This is so great !

[@hnichole]

I haven't even started, but this video couldn't have come at a more perfect time. I start my spring semester tomorrow and will be going back to living on campus. Long story short, I had such severe anxiety being on my own for the first time (I'm in my early 20s) that I missed like 6 weeks of school last semester. I'm nervous about having another breakdown like that, but I've been working intensively in therapy for the last several weeks and really look up to Sam as someone who shares a lot of my mental health struggles. So thank you, Sam, for what you do. You make me feel like if you have the same struggles and you can do it, then I can do it too.

[@ThatBinchKerbs]

You got this! Sending lots of good vibes 💛

[@jlgoodson8174]

These one hour videos make me feel like I'm watching a TV show and it gives me a pleasantly wholesome feeling to watch. I enjoyed it. Please keep it up. ❤

[@flohs51]

Genuinely love that you spend the time to edit and create these long videos. I love unwinding at the end of the day to an hour long video from you! Love your little chats in this too, keep them coming!!💓 also wishing you lots of luck for your house searching!

[@Natbat22]

My jaw dropped when I saw that this video was an hour long!! Thank u Sam! I wasn’t having such a great day today and this just made my anxiety simmer down!

[@delaneygarza2213]

I really struggle with laundry and cleaning too. One thing I’ve tried is the cleaning schedule like you mentioned and part of that I added laundry. I do a load of clothes 3 times a week (darks, lights, and delicates) and then I do towels on the weekend. It’s helped me. I hope you find what works for you! Keep up all your hard work and self love. You’re glowing ❤

[@fairlady4096]

Yes our cat overgrooms from anxiety we have tried treats, feliway, giving her alone time, etc its to the point where she is grumpy with our other cats, she has pulled/licked out bare spots on her legs. You're not alone with Harlow, when you mentioned that, both my fiancé and I looked at each other haha as for what to do about it, we are taking her back to the vet. Let us know what you find out about Harlow too! Edit: attention helps a ton. Having one on one time and playing with her/petting helps. Cats arent as independant as everyone says

[@omnipotentfaces1514]

Mine does this too, he’ll lick all the hair from his back legs and it’s so horrible and scary seeing him so stressed. Especially when you can’t take time off work to hang out with him and nothing else seems to work :(

[@fairlady4096]

I'm sorry your pet struggles with this too, honestly even for half an hour or 15 minutes after work we play with our cat, and we are always offering pets and snuggles 💙 have you taken yours to the vet? Maybe medication would be helpful, I think thats what we have to do for our cat

[@emiliebrousseau2769]

I have a anxious kitty also and I tried felliway and it didn’t really work. I switched his food with food that is formulated for anxious animals and we saw a biiiig difference :)

[@jessmercedes2669]

My baby girl did this too 😔 when she said it I also got wide eyed. she passed a few years ago but at the time we lived in a veryyyyyyy cramped space and the dog of the house kept trying to come into our room (we wouldn't let him but her just hearing him at the door would be enough to stress her tf out) , I think everything at the time, her being so old, was just too much for her and she'd lick her legs and nibble to the point of pulling hair out/getting sores. It was awful. Nothing really helped but when she had alone time she was a bit more calm for a bit

[@fairlady4096]

@@emiliebrousseau2769 what food is it, if you don't mind me asking?

[@winterwrenn]

your cat watching you crochet is adorable! I love your channel, such relatable content :) and thank you so much for all your word-vomit during hobby time. I'm also trying to cut down on tech time and spend more time doing small projects :) and building a slow routine is a great idea! thank you "I'm genuinely turning into a grandma" is SO RELATABLE! lol and I love your beanie!!! good job :)

[@LauraBeutler]

This was great, because I was knitting, you started crocheting, and it was like we had our own little fiber friends sort of get together! Your beanie turned out so cute. You should be very proud!

[@russellambros490]

40:57 I love that you are focusing more on yourself, family and friends. It’s empowering to be less on social media and it’s motivating me to do the same.

[@marionjohnson4411]

Therapist friend here- so proud of you! I actually just suggested someone I work with watch your journey of discovering hobbies and peace. Also enjoyed watching you catch some of your cognitive distortion. You are such a delight to spend time with on the internet! thanks for making space for us to connect with you

[@Mimilee1233]

You love us so much, thank you for giving us extra time Sammy 😭❤️

[@erinnicole6871]

I am not the type of person to comment on KZbin videos very often but I just have to tell you how much I love you and your videos! You are so positive and send an amazing message, especially to young girls and women about how to treat their selves mentally and physically. Thank you for being a light in a dark world! You were given this platform for a reason!💕

[@agirlandherpassport]

As a Texan, getting away from the windows was a smart choice. I probably would have taken too long to get down the stairs safely and with animals. Try to bring a mattress or pillows for added protection. If you were in a house, ground floor and inner walls! You did good. I would also love a video on your process of videomaking. Thanks!!!

[@Rachel_Skunes]

1 hour of Sam is exactly what I need today!! Genuinely my favorite KZbinr ever!

[@amyd169]

I’m really enjoying the relaxed longer vlogs. While I agree yes, the structured videos are fun, im really loving these. I love watching you

[@taylorburnett4121]

I have been STRUGGLING with dandruff so bad lately so thank you for letting me not feel alone 😭

[@kaytlindanielson4445]

I was a house cleaner for a couple months and yes youre doing the right thing by picking up before the appointment ❤

[@shannon329]

Girrrrl. So happy hearing the messages you’re spreading to everyone ❤️ Living a nice calm, mundane life really is where it’s at. We got so confused thinking that chaotic fast pace life is fun and the only way to be but it really feels so much nicer to slow down and stay slowed down even with the chaos around. Lots of us thought we thrived on and loved chaos but that’s a lieee haha growing up in chaos sure makes that seem like the truth but damnnn is it dope clearing traumas and seeing through it all 🤪😬❤️❤️

[@violetsibley]

sewing enjoyer here! for the hem you can totally do it! my only tips are to fold the hem, iron it, then pin it in place before sewing it

[@amandacalderon26]

Ahhhh the video being an hour, ahhh I love that! Samantha you’re literally my favorite KZbinr ever, I’m always happy every time you post!!🩷

[@eliseelise9711]

I appreciate you for always keeping it real sam. One of the few on KZbin that feels really authentic and relatable in a good way. Thank you for helping out all the girlies ❤

[@laceycritchley1060]

I am LOVING these longer videos Sam!! I love you so much and i'm so proud of everything you've accomplished!!❤

[@alexway1073]

Ive been dealing with mental health strong issues lately and this video lighten up my week. thank you for being out there, Sam. Love from Chile

[@julieheth2475]

Yes they do have meds for cats that have anxiety, and it helped our cat so much, now he's just so chill and not skidish at all. Btw , love your videos.

[@nessabjo]

Sam, I just wanted to say I am so grateful for your content. I’ve had a hard time with friends and every one of your videos feels like hanging out with my best friend. I don’t care if you’re just sitting at home, I do the same. I love your little rants and your relatable home life. I never feel alone when I watch your videos. I want to thank you for being such a funny, relatable, and real human being. Keep doing you. 💙

[@Soy.Kimmie]

I waited almost all day for a new video to clean my closet, I hope you’ll be happy to know I’m 3/4 done. Love you and stay hydrated ❤ Edit: An hour long video?! Oh I’m getting this closet done today! 😂

[@nataliekurek2905]

1. this was my favorite thing ever. AN HOUR OF SAMANTHA JO 2. my puppy has anxiety and he’s on prozac! he has improved a little (i’m planning on seeing if they can increase the dose or change the meds) but they do have other options and medications for animals with anxiety!

[@angelagovig1450]

Love it! You’re like a buddy I can do my mundane life with. Had your video going while crafting and then doing my evening kitchen cleanup.

[@TegridyTowelie4.20]

You should do a beginner crochet tutorial! I've had yarn and hooks for 2 years but I also have adhd and haven't been able to sit down and actually learn

[@vintageval174]

felt you on the "wanting to be a homemaker". It is okay for women to want that, that's what brings me peace, personally. The stress of always wanting to do the most is not it for me. I'm pretty sure it's normal for us to feel more feminine in those roles... anyway thanks for the hour video Sam!(:

[@HoppySabbathHomestead]

Sam, I am so proud of you, I love to see you becoming self-aware. I changed my life by learning to becoming self aware. It's so freeing and so hard to look at yourself objectively and learn from your successes and "failures". You are such a beautiful, intelligent, talented young woman. I love seeing you walking in your journey of self understanding and love.

[@danikay8233]

I saw one hour of Samantha Jo and couldn't click the video fast enough 😂 Thank you girl for being you every day and blessing us with your presence. We need longer videos like this please when you have time we know that you're busy. Love you girly!

[@jessmercedes2669]

You seem so much happier/CALMER than I have seen you in a long time and I love that for you soo much sam ❤️❤️❤️ I'm def a homemaker type too, it took me a lot of painful burnouts to learn that. The "mundane" is everything, when we can accept it and find joy in it, there's something that happens in our hearts, something very magical and powerful. Don't ever let anyone make you feel bad about the simple things bringing you peace, I know it's hard bc I struggle with it too, but in reality, theyre the only things that really matter. Life is just a million little moments. Like a million little stitches in your beanie, in the end it creates something so special 😁❤️ very proud and inspired by you, there's a lot in this video I could learn to implement in my own life as well, but like you say, baby steps. Anyway, I hope you get the house of your dreams, I hope you keep investing in your peace, and being kinder to yourself. I think we can all afford to do that a bit more each day. God bless you 💕💛🎀🌷⭐ ((also p.s you're bedding is GORGEOUS AND BRINGS ME SO MUCH JOY))

[@rosecox5236]

I already know this vlog is gonna be amazing! You are just so fun to watch and make my day. And like an hour long that's amazing!! Love u Samantha ❤😊

[@alexisanderson2929]

The second beanie is Jaw Dropping! I am so proud of you! I have absolutely adored the experience of this video. The sitting with you and just kind of vibing and discussing the week was so nice. I really look forward to the type of content brings you the most peace.

[@marissab0717]

I love the talking videos !! Today i painted my entire living room while binge watching your videos on my tv ❤ It feels like FaceTiming with a friend and it weirdly motivates me 😂😂

[@MoonbeamAtKnight]

51:18 you can add a scalloped trim to the first beanie to make it longer and not need a fold over and learn a new stitch. Because they both look great!

[@melissaconway7382]

Living for your long vlog! I seen an hour and got sooo excited 😆 And THANK YOU for the dandruff advice!! Sephora needs to pay you I just ordered everything! The amount of times I paused this vlog to find things is insane lol

[@Kennaggrace]

I have the worst adhd and I need to get diagnosed so badly so thank you for opening up about it & always being so vunderable & sharing with us ❤

[@gracieflanders]

I am loving the longer videos! I feel like we are hanging out it is so cute.

[@shanae5208]

Loved this episode. Simple and honest, feels sincere, and really enjoyed it Sam!

[@chrissiemulligan3436]

Could not be more excited for a one hour Sam video!!!! 💕

[@alexisw7989]

Sam stop picking apart your work its amazing, I'm OBSESSED!!! you crushed it. Also get so excited when you upload❤

[@imanjoseph612]

Omg i love the beanies! You did an excellent job on both, i love the pompom. I would buy one from you. This video was so relaxing and I felt like we were all sitting in your apartment having a girl talk session. Im proud of you for your self-awareness and mindfulness. Good job Samantha! We adore you!

[@ryliepinson1452]

I have been so stressed with college applications and financial aid that this is exactly what I needed!! Thank you so much Sam I love you❤

[@mikaylafolge3306]

Holy shit girl! An hour?! Thank you for blessing us this Tuesday night I was wondering what I was gonna watch in my ✨everything✨ bath

[@nicoleprybyla5265]

oh how i love u samantha jo

[@heatheristhatu]

Our parasocial relationship just skyrocketed with these video formats 😂 we may be besties. Love FaceTiming and chatting with you while you crochet and I fold laundry 🎉

[@SammyIngram]

I’m obsessed with your vlogs. You’re one of my fav humans since you lived at your moms house 🫶🏼

[@hannahbirdsall705]

Gotta love these long nights with Sam, our FaceTime bestie!!! ❤

[@strawbberrygirl]

hi sam!! im so glad you are back!! just wanted to let you know that I work in property management and it’s actually against the law to deny a service animal even if it’s on a “breed restriction list” as that would be against fair housing laws. As long as the animal has proper documentation, they cannot deny you. just thought you should keep this in mind. I hope you find the perfect place!!❤️❤️

[@tedddybear]

Yes and this counts for ESAs too even though they are a different categorization from service animals.

[@youngrly4]

I highly recommend pulling from the center of the ball of yarn when crocheting!! It’s so so much easier!

[@jessicaronan9378]

You look amazing and seem in good spirits! Love this for you!

[@shyannray3524]

I feel the same way. I work a full time job and I don’t need a bunch of little things to do. I just want to relax and have fun and I don’t want to feel like I have to be on the go all the time! Loved this video 💕

[@lastcry7027]

I love the length of this video and YOUR BEANIE LOOKS AMAZING!! Gurl you are amazing!! Keep going and yes, find your own happiness in your own company. This may be cheesy but I went to sleep last night watching your video. Your words sticking in my head as I slept. I have a hard time sleeping due to back issues and barely slept but I woke up so excited. I decided to take myself out on my first date ever! I was in a 10 year relationship and forgot how to fill up my own cup. I lost all the things that made me happy. I lost myself but this year I promised to put me first. So thank you Sam for reminding me that we have to love ourselves as much as we love the people around us. Don’t let people discourage you, you matter to many people even to someone like me. To spread joy, giggles and a little extra sunshine. Life is too short to worry about others opinions. You are growing, and you are glowing. Proud of you. Keep going!! YOU GOT THIS. Xoxoxoxo

[@kathleenmooney1606]

As someone who cleans homes for a living we appreciate clients that pick up before we come. If I'm allowed 2 hours to clean I can focus on the deep cleaning if I don't have to pick up the bedroom floor before I vacuum or the kitchen sink before I clean it.

[@musicmoviestrailers1]

I don’t want to hustle either I just want to have nice things and have a nice time being creative and doing my hobbies and investing in relationships. I feel not as good as my friends for not making as much money and hustling as much Thank you for sharing it makes a difference ❤

[@michelleacker2118]

Girl I’ve been struggling with dandruff THANK YOU! Added both to my Amazon cart and they will be here today ❤

[@jai7605]

Thank you for posting! I hope you’re doing well! ❤

[@kristenmorale3562]

Loving this energy 🫶🏼 less phone & comparison, more joy and peaceful growth. Thank you

[@Hannah.7412]

😮 OMG SAM that pom pom beanie turned out so CUTE!! I love it and would also totally pay for it! 💕 The direction your channel/self journey is going is perfect imo too. I've always kinda been a grandma, but it just feels right to lean into that even more this year. I'm excited to see the coziness and peace that the future will bring!! 🥰

[@tsogio217]

I am watching your video while felt knitting a cute mouse, while my 1000 piece puzzle is waiting for me on my desk and I am sooo happy you've started doing what brings you peace and happiness. That's exactly what I need and your channel is becoming a safe space for me that also motivates me to be creative and enjoy my own company. Thank you!

[@ameliaglasgow9153]

Saaaam, I would LOVE a video on exactly how you film your videos & your tiktoks! been here since literally 2018, you are a ray of sunshine :) Also your hair is looking super healthy!!

[@-ari-25]

This was so cozy😭 I love the whole crocheting and talking part. thank you so much Sam for making and editing such a long video. Love you❤️

[@kateclark8400]

It never fails to amaze me how I come to some conclusion or decide to do something and then I see you are doing/thinking the same thing. I just told my friends that I was ready for my grandma era. I deleted my social media apps (aside from KZbin, but I’ve been trying to be very aware if I get lost in scrolling shorts) AND have started charging my phone across my room at night probably 90% of the time. I’m reading at night and trying to get back into hobbies. ❤

[@ChloeJo]

I can’t wait for the podcast!! You and Andrew just seem like such fun and truly kind and good people!!

[@emma.figari]

best start to the year 1 hour of Sam!!❤❤

[@Ivy_cab]

Just came across your channel recently and I enjoy your videos especially this style of video where you just chat and do everyday things. You’re very relatable to me and I feel you on having a cozy little life. I got burnt out trying to work work work and it has impacted me physically and mentally. Thank you for sharing a part of you 🩷

[@pfil.odendron2036]

I needed that hour to decompress. Thank You.

[@ashhmartt.15]

You’re my comfort creator, thank you for being you and for spoiling us with a long video 🥰

[@graciew5243]

Im seriously so happy for all of these dandruff product recommendations!!!! I struggle with it as well and it drives me crazy, so thank you!!

[@KayeMawree]

Some tips from a crocheter: To get the perfect length for your head, chain until you have a length that goes from your eyebrows to the “top” of your head (think messy bun). Then start your beanie. To get less bulk when you sew the top, instead of doing half double crochets, single crochet the last 5-8 stitches. Keep crocheting until the piece is the circumference of your head.

[@margaretdiaz6043]

Omg I love your content so so much it’s so cozy and your so genuine and you look so stunning not because of the weight loss because you are always so beautiful but just because you feel so much happier!

[@fernandahuizar970]

I just watched this while organizing my makeup, felt like we were on FaceTime I loved it ❤️

[@SarahDoucette0111]

Thank you for always inspiring me Sam and bringing happiness to my day 💗

[@kelseywagner4301]

for the candles to stick in the holder, melt the bottom a little then press it into the holder, itll stay straight up once the wax hardens

[@syerrac586]

I am so in love with these new longer videos being able to watch the video and do little things around the house like a facetime call ❤️

[@ShelbyKilpatrick-h3b]

Sam I can't believe I'm saying this but your more of an older sister than my actual older sister you go through some of the same things that I go through and it just feels so good to be able to relate to someone I love watching your videos. ❤❤❤❤

[@izabellaoden8564]

I’m so Happy for you!! I feel like you’re the only influencer that’s real!! ❤💗💓