Living with a gay roommate...

[@JessBlake2]

I don't know why you posted this. People aren't required to do everything you want. They're not required to be interesting to you. If you don't want to live with the guy, move out and live with somebody you're more comfortable with. With the new person, set up some mutual agreements. Be sure to include in your list of clauses no gossip nor ordinary conversations (sarcasm). You complained about other people being boring and "cliche" and then posted a boring cliche post about some gay men. Even at double speed, this was a waste of 10 minutes I can't get back.

[@tosheatower]

Totally agree, people don't have to be interesting to me, same as I don't have to be interesting to you. I made the video because it is my channel where I discuss things that go through my mind. Nowhere did I say everyone has to agree with me or find me interesting-as a matter of fact I clearly state in the video that most people probably won't and I totally understand why people find my content boring. The overall idea of the video however wasn't I don't like living with my roommate (in fact I said the opposite) but that I question what gay men are being told is progressive and liberating behavior and is in actuality quite damaging to ones self-esteem and long term dating prospects.

[@SDjilliaRE]

The more authentic you become to yourself, the more you realize how boring the world is. It's kind of harrowing lmfao But it's a good sign of growth.

[@speakz6935]

I wish I had his confidence. I'd love to have been promiscuous when I was younger, but have always been too defensive.

[@tosheatower]

Confidence? I have to disagree with you here, sleeping with anyone that is willing is not a sign of confidence, on the contrary...it shows how desperate he is for constant validation.

[@speakz6935]

@@tosheatower I'm not in favour of sleeping with anyone who's willing (I'm very selective when it comes to both looks and personality) but missing out on physical affection isn't nice.

[@tosheatower]

Yes, physical intimacy is important, but a quick hook up is hardly intimacy.

[@potts995]

Hot take but I think a lot of people just want to be a piece of meat or they have very one-track minds at the end of the day, sexuality is such an important part of adult relationships and society. Even for many straight people a relationship is really just a gateway/excuse to have kids and be socially accepted in that way, it’s not really about love or even commitment necessarily. Many will say/market themselves as one thing but then behave in a completely different way.

[@larzander]

I can't imagine seeing six guys in one month forget about ONE DAY! If nothing else, from a physical and endurance perspective, like how...?! especially if he's not eating carbs hahah. My room mate is NOT like this lol (she's a straight woman) And I do agree. Walking, talking cliches are so sad in the long run and the gay male community is full of this, sadly. I've decided I actually find a lot of the LGBT world a bit boring actually, and not as freeing or empowering (or fun) as we tell ourselves it is. Thankfully I have friends from all backgrounds. Straight, gay, bi, black, white, Asian etc. etc. and I like having friends different to me, so long as we still have some common ground and are respectful of each other. But yes, the world is full of very predictable, basic "personalities". Sounds like you've been able to find more like minded people throughout your life though?

[@tosheatower]

I agree, it seems like gay men (the cliche ones) see themselves as the embodiement of culture, style, fashion and whatever other nonsense we tell ourselves. And in reality most of us are just very borying and BEYOND BASIC in our actions and beliefs.

[@eranbenavraham]

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[@inkollo]

I guess it's like me who never understands why anyone would choose accountant to be his life long creer... well... you just have to accept, that's their choice. lol