Renovating My House in 90 Days Episode 1 | Living To DIY

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[@louilind4300]

Please stop saying "getting your life together" and tell yourself that you already have your life together 😊 I think it might be a sign that you feel like you haven't started living the life you want yet.... But the thing is... You are living your life right now! You are not behind! You are doing great! 😊❤

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Love this perspective.

[@larissamariaschroeder3521]

Great to see that you are taking baby steps, but moving. Do not push yourself into a roller coaster of must-dos again. Enjoy your trip and celebrate each step. You're amazing and soon will be a new version of the true yourself. I love your work ... just keep doing.

[@ritasilva8797]

Girlll! It's about to be 9 a.m here in Portugal and I'm stopping my job to watch you. This is what I needed today ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thank you for spending your time here with me! 🫶🏼

[@afroborilafemme]

I’m in NYC. I didn’t realize the hurricane reached all the way to Joshua Tree. I’m sorry you had to deal with that alone, but your such a tough girlie. You did the damn thing. You ALWAYS get sh*t done when you need to. You always move forward, even when it’s hard to. I’m looking forward to this series.

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thank you 😊 🥹.

[@timaaa50]

I went to California for the first time that week and was freaking out because of the hurricane. I was blessed that the area I was in wasn’t hit hard. Prayers to those that got the worst of it. ❤

[@simonwoda1498]

Feet up…coffee…let’s go… inspirational to the max. You make me get off my butt and do things x stay safe well and happy

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

🥹 thank you for being here.

[@gretahudson8558]

The framing of that wall feature looks like it would be great for a murphy bed. The room can double as a multi-purpose space. Love the wood paneling. ❤

[@Kains_whored]

I nearly cried when you said "2 years of work just gone and that's ok" ....same thing happend to me and it's reassuring I'm not the only this happens to..........also inspiring just hearing that that fact is okay ....♡♡♡♡

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

We got this xx.

[@amberbiggs]

Very nice! Don't push yourself too hard. 90 days seems hella fast. It was cool to see how you smoothed out the wall, it was easier than I thought it would be. Thanks for sharing that.

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Not a hard deadline xx.

[@lechatbotte.]

I lived there most of my life. When rain comes in the desert it is always too much no happy medium. Down the hill from you in DHS it’s always windy I lost the tops of my jacarandas they were ripped off one year. Then there was the year it rained so much I couldn’t leave town to get to work in rancho mirage. Girl you’ve been through worse storms you can do this stuff. Good you’ve got a good neighbor. No one should be alone. No need to rush the reno you’re not going anywhere and once done you might want to change things homes are an evolving thing because we change. Love ya girl you rock

[@vanillaskye55]

I love that you have a goal. I love that you are working on the reno. I love that you seem excited. I worry about you burning yourself out trying to do a whole house in 90 days. I know full teams of contractors that would struggle with that goal. Just remember to give yourself grace if the timeline gets moved. We are all still here to cheer you on throughout this reno.

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

It's not a hard deadline but a great goal xx.

[@KoKoCola82]

Wow, I’m sorry that you are feeling alone! Obviously, you don’t broadcast every private issue you face… But I do remember the times that you did projects with your dad at your parents home and you spoke so highly of him in your voice overs. I remember that because seeing you interact with your dad, mirrored me and my dad’s relationship… So, that really stuck out to me. Also, as a parent myself, I know that our LOVE and CONCERN can SEEM or be PERCEIVED in the complete OPPOSITE way in which we intended. Being a parent never ends… We just come to realize that we have less and less say over your decision making and sometimes it’s a hard pill to swallow… Especially when we THINK we know better! And even if we do know better, we have to sit back let our children make those mistakes… But, that doesn’t make it easier!!! It’s a funny thing, when you have kids of your own, you start hearing and seeing yourself saying and doing the same things your parents said and did to you!!! And you start to have a better understanding of what your parents were going through at the age they were when they were raising you. Sorry, for the novel… But, it hurt my heart to hear you say you felt really alone and that your parents hadn’t checked up on you! Maybe they weren’t aware of the storm in your area… I know I wasn’t 🤷🏽‍♀️ Or maybe they feel like you don’t want to hear from them… I REALLY DON’T KNOW!!! But I DO KNOW, YOUR PARENTS LOVE YOU, and WOULD GIVE THEIR LIFE TO SAVE YOURS… and nothing you say or do will change those facts! So, if you do miss your parents and want them to know you want to hear from them from time to time… Just simply text them an “I Love You” and leave it at that. They will reply and hopefully that will reopen the lines of communication…. IFFFFF, that’s what you all want! I’m praying for you Rachel 🙏🏾😘🥰

[@witch8794]

Blessed Be 🖤

[@MikeMetzGolf]

Wise words

[@timberv9672]

I love you're design choices! If you plan to do smooth walls for the rest of the house id highly recommend a large drywall scrapper, a wall sander (triangle shape is best), and an extendable pole for the sanding head. It will make your job so much easier!

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thanks for the tips!

[@liveLifeHappyFull]

Hey Rach! I have been following you for over 5 years now and I am all here to support you! Good luck with your 90 day challenge! There will be hiccups in your journey but I am sure you will finish them!

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Wow thank you!

[@carolinetheriault3435]

Don't stress about tour schedule and your videos. We love you and if you read the comments you will see all the love you receive from around the world! I'm from Québec, Canada. ...juste undery comment you have someone from Portugal and another from California. You are important for us. You don't how tour video are important for me! Keep going and please do not stress ❤️

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Love you xx.

[@doo21leroux]

Girl you got this. I'm following you to inspire me in my own reno. Take your breaks, your mental health is most important.

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thank you 🙏🏼.

[@kellybean2489]

I will never take my perfectly smooth walls for granted! I live in Australia and all houses built after the 60s have smooth walls, it just isn't an option to get orange peel which I'm so grateful for!

[@jbyrd2789]

I live in Apple valley CA (high desert) and when we had the Hurricane coming in I thought of you and was worried about you and everyone out there. I’m glad you guys didn’t get it that bad like we did. Just a lil more rain than usual and winds weren’t too bad. Looooove your videos. Keep up the amazing work but Guuuuurl remember to rest and take care of yourself. 😊💜

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

I'm glad you're safe as well!

[@LuxurCr3Tv]

I already had a psychiatrist for 2.5 years he’s grate n now I finally got my therapist assigned 2 days ago she’s a doll sweet as can be. Love that I have in person ppl I can sit and talk to work with me prescribed medications find techniques to help u grow never put ur mental health on hold once that clears a lot of things in life do as well so I’m glad u went to better help n got help

[@qt9177]

Love, love how this project turned out! Looking at my corded lights now and thinking how much better they'd look with a copper pipe cover. Thanks for all of your inspiration. 😍

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

👏👏👏

[@anna.l8829]

What a great way to start this day.I'm home from work, sick. I have wild animals running around my feet, 3 crazy kittens 10 weeks old 😁 I'm tired of being tired and then.... My happy moment arrived! A new video❤.I'm honestly really happy. Thank you. Be well

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

🥹 appreciate you spending your free time with me.

[@anna.l8829]

@@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetzwow,thank you 😍 if only you knew how many times you've saved me. Filled my empty moments with happiness. Inspired, motivated, energized me over a great idea you've presented... iiiiih I'm so exited over your new 90 day renovating project and I wish you all the best doing it!!!

[@sharonclarke8683]

Omg Rachael the thought of you feeling alone hurts my soul,girl just kwow we got ya back and we're here for you sending you all the hugs from the uk❤❤❤❤

[@Dicanb777]

I appreciate how real and relatable u are. Can’t wait to watch the 90 days journey 🥲

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

🥹

[@lindadelacy9330]

Lookin' great, Rachel! Love that you added the copper tubing to the light fixtures. Great color!!

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thanks so much!

[@asancheeza445]

You are an inspiration to women who are afraid to be and do anything alone. Can be challenging and stressful to be alone. I’d say hang in there as best you can. You’re better than you give yourself credit for.

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

I appreciate and love you.

[@rachelm3142]

So excited for this renovation journey! By the way, i love your fashion style! The outfits you put together look so good 😊

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thank you so much 🤗

[@Lizbd510]

Hi Rachel! I've been watching your videos for so long and one day, some months ago my mom says "I love these renovation videos this girl does". She sends me the link to your channel. We thought it was hilarious because it would be us to follow the same person, we enjoy the same things. But we're 4 hrs away from each other, don't see each other very often and you brought us together! Lol. So when your videos come out, one of us always says "Rachel has a new video today" lol.

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

🥹

[@potatopotatoeOG]

The bedroom is shaping up so well!!

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thank you!

[@Kath-Erina]

This room comes along so nicely 😍 I'm so thrilled for you to be tackling this reno! I send you all the productive and creative vibes so you can enjoy your finished home on christmas ❤❤❤

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Please do! Thank you for the love and support.

[@953orion]

Loving you Rach!! Super happy to see you happy & on a mission babe! Xoxoxo 💚

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thank you for being here xx.

[@irishqa.]

Rachel, you're doing amazing! SO excited for these series!!!

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thank you!

[@im_just_lizza]

OMG! our lives are paralleling right now. Finding my personal peace, letting go of abusive relationships, diy-ing my life, and LIVING for your videos. And your energy, and wisdom. I'm all in on this 90 day challenge. I'm creating my own 90 day reno thanks to you. And we'll see how well we do. If you need parental support, I'm here cheering you on! We all are. 🎉 We got you! Mental health is really f*ing challenging right?

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

We fucking got this! And I'm always here for you xx.

[@kaitlinmeadows6273]

Love the goal setting!-inspired me to set a couple of 90 day project goals for myself! Working beside you, one day at a time!

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

We got this! Week one is almost down

[@Hope-fv3kf]

Great idea the copper covering the electrical cord

[@tracylee4633]

You can do it Rachel ,cant wait to see your 90 day reno videos xx

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Yay! Thank you!

[@Crystal.Calvin]

Looks so gorgeous. I really appreciate all the warm times in the wood with the burgundy. So lovely. Keep up the hard work

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thank you, I will!

[@user-bt9cc2rx5l]

keep up the great work you are inspiring my renovations

[@missebel7671]

Liebe Rachel, das wird so super schön...es hat was aus den 60er Jahren und ist trotzdem im Hier und Jetzt! Gefällt mir sowas von gut❤

[@sabrynadennison1317]

I love that you have set a 90 day goal. My dog just passed away and I’m dealing with it by jumping into full renovations I’ve been putting off. I’ve given myself till the new year to finish. Now it feels like I’m not doing it completely alone! Looking so forward to this!

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

I am so sorry for your loss.

[@pdubstuff]

Me too girl it’s my first time I bagged up a bunch of sandbags. I mirror your sentiments exactly. I was terrified. I really got worried when Home Depot and Lowe’s was in panic with people trying to get everything they could. A few days between my back and lack of sleep, it took a toll. I am in Riverside County and I think you are in San Bernardino County. I feel bad for the people that was affected, but I was so relieved that it didn’t happen here. 💛 I fellow KZbinr and sunnier here.

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Glad we ended up being safe!

[@pdubstuff]

@@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz thank god

[@cantocant2346]

Glad you made it through the storm. Happy for this new series!

[@fridaartista]

Oh Rachel, you are such a powerhouse, I am wishing you all the best in your 90 day journey!

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thank you so much!

[@LSDMCraika]

I'm about to move to Texas looking at fixer-upper, and I need to get my inner Rachel in once the time comes.

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

🫶🏼

[@LSDMCraika]

@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz I love how raw your videos are! You're an amazing human being. ❤️

[@paniHelena]

My dear, I'm so glad you're taking such good care of your mental health, it's hard to watch when you're sad and the people who love you (including me) are so far away...

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thank you for being here for me.

[@Jlo5438]

Your design is always unexpected but so creative. It is inspiring to watch your work.

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thank you so much 😀.

[@lanaschweitzer99]

Girl you are amazing, incredible beautiful and handy! ❤ You got this! ❤

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thank you so much!!

[@dwynn57]

glad your back! can't wait to see more! xoxo

[@stacybroussard3097]

I am Loving what You've done on the bed wall... So FRIGGIN GOOD 💯

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thank you!!

[@oh_itsjenna]

also so heartbreaking about the trailer….you handled that really well, i would’ve had a full meltdown

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

I was hoping it'd randomly catch fire haha.

[@kathlynmaslanka8780]

Your reaction to the hurricane was very similar to my first one last year with Hurricane Ian. We'd just moved to Florida and were supposed to be a direct hit so we were freaking out and prepping, and my neighbors were calm as can be lol. I also remember feeling really alone when the only people that reached out to check on me were my brother and best friend. I now just try to remember that unless you're the one going through it and seeing it on the news 24/7, its hard to empathize and realize the severity of the situation. That being said it does feel extremely isolating and hurtful in the moment.

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

I think my little kid inside me got bummed when my parents didn't even bother to check but solidified my decision to continue to DIY my family. Thank you for being here xx.

[@kathlynmaslanka8780]

@@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz Absolutely! Your videos are always there for me when I am lonely and need some motivation, so I help any way I can. Thank you for the inspiration!

[@freckles623]

I love how honest and open you are. ❤ I need to get on my renovation too and you inspire me to do it!! Thanks for giving me the push I've needed. Excited to see your journey

[@amandafarish87]

I thought you were close to your dad so I'm sad to hear this im sorry glad your neighbour looks after you

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thank you! We got this. Good luck to you as well!

[@freckles623]

@@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz heck yeah we do! Thank you!!

[@whitneylivesay5528]

lesss gooo baby!! You can do this! So excited for this series!

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Yay!

[@cks9516]

Unique and looking interesting-I luv it!

[@annagyure4844]

Have you thought about doing a roof over the trailer? Just like some corrugated plastic or metal roofing on a pergola type structure to protect it some from the elements

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

I have a video of doing that actually but it didn't last. I need to build a whole new structure

[@brooklyngiraffe]

The space looks really beautiful

[@24jessejames]

So glad you’re doing well. I am loving this phase of your life 👍🏼

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Me too!!

[@dawntreader1247]

Momentum, momentum, momentum! can’t wait to see what you can achieve in these 90 days

[@earthymama_kaia]

How exciting! Yes!!! Goooooals girl they are everything and u can move mountains with just a target insight!

[@judyescobedo4769]

You are fantastic! Love to see your creativity in action. So glad to be seeing you more💕

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thank you so much!

[@cartwheelsinthezendo]

Hi Rachel. Always happy to see a new video from you. I love the terracotta colors you are using. A favorite of mine as well. As far as mental health goes, I have started following the Crappy Childhood Fairy on KZbin and I have learned so very much from her. She is very straight forward and real. I had never heard of limerance before watching her. She just nails it and is so easy to listen to. I believe you would find her helpful also. Look forward to more videos. ❤️

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Oh I appreciate that recommendation!

[@Rana-to5mo]

All the love Rachael ❤️

[@stephaniec2478]

that scream at the end 😆 always amazed at your projects!!!!

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

❤️

[@TamarLitvot]

I will admit I’ve been avoiding your channel because it’s seemed so chaotic lately. But this episode feels like you are finding a direction and beginning to move in a more organized way. I love what you’re doing in that bedroom! One caution- 90 days for a huge amount of renovation seems like it will be extremely difficult to accomplish. Maybe revise to a room by room goal?

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

I felt the same about my channel and I am not giving myself a hard 90 days. I'll keep you updated as it changes but for now - that's the goal so I have an actual direction and less chaos as you mentioned🫠.

[@xtjoy]

I have a 1x5’ sheet of 1/2 thick glass here if you want to cut it down for shelving! I have two of them. One I’m turning into a whiteboard.

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

I need it! Yes please.

[@xtjoy]

@@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz I’ll bring it with me next time! I know the guest room is coming along, but I still enjoy our snuggle slumber parties with you, me and Blaze 🫶🏽 Love the sunrise reflections with you and your desert family.

[@BlackTinkerbell]

This VLOGGGG so good. So inspirational and v. Proud of you girl Proving hella stuff out here xxxx

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thank you 🥹.

[@kerihedquist5170]

Can’t wait for the reveal!!!

[@denises9426]

Love you love your channel good luck with your new 90 day goal. We’re here for ya! 👑🥰❤️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thank you so much!!

[@oh_itsjenna]

the birch looks so good!!!!!!

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Right! Sealing it was the right choice I think.

[@kimsome8334]

Your creativity and vision are amazing, as are you! Hand to heart 💛

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Wow, thank you!

[@user-wz8bs5vc1r]

Oh,oh,oh I just started watching your channel ❤ Love.... it... I love how you Congratulate yourself with a little smirk. So Beautiful ❤❤❤❤

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thank you so much!!

[@josefinacosta4877]

You got thisss! Im excited for this series

[@simplewedding8480]

Rachel, I've been following you for about 3 years now and so appreciate all of you... from your work, to your words, your quirks and most especially your solace. Thank you for inspiring me through your bravery to do what makes you happy and content. Most especially to have the courage to check in with oneself. Thank you for everything! :o)

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Wow, thank you! And you are so welcome.

[@lydiacongdon8135]

LET'S GOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!! You've got this, Rachel. I'm so so excited for this journey you're embarking on and I can't wait to follow along with my own house projects. Don't forget to give yourself grace everyday during this process. We're here for the long haul ❤️

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thank you so much!! Can't fucking wait to tackle this series with you all.

[@TBYRDLEW]

OOOO A SERIES I BELIEVE IN U METZ

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Woohoo!

[@ltlt3477]

I love you queen!!! What an awesome idea for the drop cloths! And I have a pendant plug in, but I needed something to help light my closet where I moved to!! Thank you so much for showing those pendants!! DO you have an Amazon storefront? I would love (as I'm sure others would too!!!) to see all your other awesome finds!!

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Ah! I don't - I will set that up.

[@carolebuckle7977]

You are unique, talented & well done for staying positive. 🔥🙏🏻🇬🇧xxxxxxx

[@tashacutmore3832]

so pumped!! but zero pressure!!

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Exactly! It's getting me excited but not going to be bummed if the 90 days gets pushed a little.

[@moneymakingmikeg.9555]

Yoooooo Raaaachellle!! The wall is coming out DOPE!! The rug & the copper pipe in the light fixtures are a freakin cool a$$ touch. Hoping all is well SuperCat, Dirty Jersey out!!

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thanks my dude.

[@jenburns6265]

You have wonderful talent! ❤️

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thank you so much!

[@mayaquin2612]

We are here for you..

[@villevalo281]

Your presence brings me such hope and deep joy. Your level of transparency and vulnerability is awe-inspiring, to say the least. I am so f*cking geeked for this series

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Wow, thank you! I am so stoked with this series that's unfolding.

[@melindamaiden566]

❤❤❤ Metz Back!

[@graysjonz3539]

You’re doing it Metz! I’m so proud of you!! Excited to follow along. What an awesome gift to yourself 🎉 Happy Friday!

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thanks so much!!

[@katharinabruns9480]

Oh my god, your dogs are so cute!!!! My dog hates washing. :(

[@Corrinarrina]

YES BBY 🎉 YOU CAN DO IT

[@NicoleQM]

You got this!

[@maeamber]

Rachel is Living to DIY and I am Living to watch this 90 day series =D

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Awe thank you!

[@patrickperson1252]

magnifique Rachel une belle réussite .j adore patrick

[@angelaortiz3406]

That is beautiful I love it❤

[@alannabalderas2962]

Get it girl!

[@carolinagonzalez8733]

Great Rachel!!!

[@stephaniemireles-v7e]

Youre so gorgeous love your work so much so talented my role model 😍

[@moda78z]

It looks amazing!

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thank you!

[@nataliemora1096]

I’m a firm believer that we pick the family we want ❤

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

I totally agree.

[@Domenique89]

😍 heck yeah!

[@sandrastaygold39991]

I hate that you were stressed about the hurricane. I wish you peace of mind next time ❤️🫶 really glad you posted I truly enjoy watching your videos always real and raw.

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thank you! Excited to start this series.

[@albertbm3105]

Good job !!

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thanks!

[@j.castino7585]

Rachel, I'd be happy to check in on you! I'm 68 and can be your Father figure. Love ur videos.

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Wow, thank you!

[@lilivicordero8077]

Awesome video ❤

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thanks 🤗

[@vinitashinde4045]

U inspire me 💗

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thank you xx.