What Younger Gay Men Really Think About Older Guys (And Vice Versa)

In the spirit of Logo’s newest shows ‘Cucumber’ and ‘Banana’ NewNowNext asked gay men of all ages, shapes, sizes, and preferences open up about the taboo subject of age regardless of how they feel about the word “Daddy".
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[@stephenotoole6633]

The oldest guy in this video is also the most cool and sorted

[@8tomtoms8]

I agree. The fellow who is 63 and the European gentleman are the only two I'd want to hang out with.

[@elektrofrere]

Wanted to comment the same but you already did :)

[@vidaurreta]

...and the sexiest!

[@elmayberry6467]

Or he has reached and age where he doesn’t give 3 flits about any of it. Living ones life as one sees fit is not, in whole, selfish. It is knowing who you are are where you want to be. At 54 myself, a 25 year old holds zero interest for me. Pretty sure for most 25 year olds, the feeling is mutual.

[@jamesmcinnis208]

"Sorted"

[@MrRee-rs5dm]

I'm 67 and my partner is 50. We've been together 26 years. I met him when I was 41 and he was 24.... BIG DEAL.

[@ramirogutierrez6312]

Congratulations!!

[@dsprivate706]

Same-o, same-o. 49 yo here, husband is 66, just passed our 25th. Madly in love, way more than we were back then, and that's saying something. We couldn't be happier. You know it's sad, though. I took more $hit from the gay community about our age difference than I ever got from anyone else. "Daddy", "gold digger", blah, blah, blah. Depressing. We're best friends. Wouldn't trade him for the world. I just wish more young gay people could see that a good, happy, contented life spent with someone you love is worth WAY more than staying on trend.

[@worldpeace7285]

I'm 26 and interested in men from 35 to 45 socially, emotionally, intellectually, and physically (because many who have kept in shape during their youth have actually gained a substantial amount of strength later on in life contrary to ageist beliefs).

[@naseembano4833]

Congrats.! I'm 19 and my partner is 27+. We love n respect each other.

[@melachidavisacts2386]

PERVERT 🤮 😡

[@Indiescos]

I can see the good intentions in this video, but you're categorizing a 28 yo guy as young and a 34 yo guy as old. Can you start realizing how silly is that?

[@MattandEric]

👍agreed

[@raymundsubardiaga5567]

No

[@raliixaviero4674]

RetroSupporter93 what do you mean? So what’s young? 12?

[@kevinbarwick6451]

How are you doing

[@chopin65]

Thank you! Well said. First of all, the gay standards for older and old are all over the map. Some think anything over 25 is older and 35 as old. I still think one hard fact is in place in the queer community: the older one gets, the more invisible they become. If the only option is "daddy" culture, then that only reinforces the age related prejudice that exists in gay culture. Also, some people want relationships, not just sex. Sex is fine, but what comes after it determines relationship potential. If you are a middle-aged gay man, the odds are very likely that you have a lot working against you if you are twice their age. It's not that it is impossible, but with each passing year it becomes more unlikely you can build on that common ground, and more likely both are to be unhappy. I have had friends on both sides of the fence of the issue, and it is really hard to not make an ass of yourself when you are about to retire from your job and your current partner is a sophomore in university. It's a bet you will lose.

[@ztadiaz8606]

Growing up without a dad figure definitely impact my interest in older men.

[@nathanoliver7145]

Same

[@elkstrooper4651]

Hey

[@elkstrooper4651]

I am 43

[@SethHanLee]

Daddy Issue, my type of Manga

[@felixdom9693]

Same. My dad has passed away when i was 5 and i always get interested in older man as my figure father.

[@RiVvenGuard]

Since when is 34 old?!

[@adrianghandtchi1562]

Yeah, I'm crushing on a man who is 52 years old and he is so sexy that he is ageless to me. Not too old to me

[@adrianghandtchi1562]

+OH Yeh! I can't, I'm not ready for marriage, I'll be ok in my 30s

[@Eunostos]

"older" "old", princess.

[@bdavis8397]

Lick Mydeck Thirty four is old in gay years.

[@ftbuddy]

haha, you're right, unless it's someone who's only has a life expectancy of 50!

[@chucksipes4911]

I am 75 and gay with the recent death of my lover my age. I am not seeking a replacement - he is irreplaceable. I am thinking of starting a Vlog of the insights and experiences of an older gay man. Does anyone think there is any interest there?

[@michellarabie6574]

I think there could be an interest

[@horacefranklin467]

Chuck Sipes Sounds interesting.I'm 42 and I not interested in anyone younger

[@MarkWhiley]

This comment is two years old but definitely. I learnt so much from older gay men in my youth that has stuck with me. Go for it!

[@fitbody69]

Been with my guy 33 yrs .....13 yrs age gap ! I'm 57 he is 70....our love only ever got stronger ! We met when I was 25 and he was 37........I think older gays do need a link to an older sophisticated life ! .....with true connections and friends !

[@MrMadscotsman]

Hey Chuck, I'd be interested to hear your thoughts

[@georgesoros8589]

I'm gay, and this video is a great example of why I can't stand most of my own kind.

[@lucas_rays]

same

[@Nigey01]

Same. So much cringe...

[@JoeJoe-xt2rz]

Exactly

[@EM-eb1lf]

AMEN

[@justinmcgillxboxreigns6591]

Bruh you spoke my mind bro

[@helengelifan]

Our community should be about inclusion. Not exclusion. And don’t forget. We are all getting older. Every year.

[@hoodaticus]

Except for Ryan Philippe

[@itsallbabyg7454]

And Cher. Time waits for her and holds the door open

[@juntamayo8035]

True.... 💗💗💗😘

[@marcsoundz]

if you're lucky

[@christophernorton33]

I am sorry to say that the idea of a gay community is a myth as you rightly point out we are all getting older .The young in general have no respect for the older guy.s there just treated as dirty old perv.s Its a great time to be gay if your in your teens after that your on the shelf .

[@jamesa.fitzpatrick1566]

My experience is that privately, young men love older men but publicly, there is a stigma so they don't admit it. I admire most the young men who can and do.

[@iambryyyan]

Levi is 22?!?! The fuck?!?! I thought he was in his 30s.

[@CAATMAN1]

***** no way. he will be 21.

[@istvanpraha]

***** I know, his skin is not looking good for someone of that age.

[@ixlnxs]

***** He could be Ryan's twin and Robert's kid bro.

[@dauphin15]

He's not 22. He's an actor in NYC. All of these guys are. This whole thing is scripted.

[@AdrianMendoza23]

***** ok

[@trgoohileshea2820]

The younger guys in this video seem very stuck on themselves. The one who said, "I've been given a lot of offers because of my looks and my age," really isn't very good looking. Wake up, young people. You will realize before you know it that you are 30, then 45, then 60. It happens in the blink of an eye.

[@jasonpotter4870]

RetroSupporter93 and being of 25 is considered old???

[@aaironparker2837]

True this why I'm open to many legal ages no need to be stuck up lol

[@gabrieleamornim960]

If they re lucky

[@TheJust22az]

I grew up in the club scene where looks were pretty much everything. I found a lot of affirmation from good looking guys who wanted to hook up which was great for my self-esteem but short lived. I realized how shallow I had become and even now as an older dude, I find myself with the same mindset at times. It is a culture trap that is difficult to overcome for those who grew up with self- esteem issues.

[@hollebrunette7779]

. . 👎 👎 👎

[@hollebrunette7779]

.mmmmm

[@Not-Ap]

Because that's not where real self confidence comes from. It comes from within not without. That's fake confidence and bravado compared to someone who's actually taken the time to really know themselves (and it does take alot of time sometimes).

[@user-jz8ui8pf8p]

​@@hollebrunette77790:09

[@imsolost8140]

I'm 34 n my man is 54 been together for 5 years and I love him to death

[@ashbats48]

That is really sweet. I hope you two are very happy. :)

[@JanEwing69]

Pedo Bear I'm 47 and my partner of twenty years is 74, and we love each other to death. The guy in the comment above has at least 20 years to go before death. What a pathetic thing of you to say.

[@marksmith46]

Pedo Bear LOL that was the funniest comment I read today. It was awful but LOL on you, mate.

[@theprojectzero]

Pedo Bear That got me burst out laughing so badly, but it's kinda mean though if he really loves him that much. LOL!

[@imsolost8140]

Pedo Bear make it 2 tickets cause my bf will need one too. You Internet tolls bother no one. I love dick get over it

[@izzyxclusive5185]

I mean i considered Robert and james both very attractive.Robert is 63 and he's still got it!

[@Gee-xb7rt]

Izzy Rebel lion Sexy is more than just a veneer, its why i hate going to clubs where people think sexy is just a veneer. Robert and James are ok with who they are, and that is sexy. Trying to be something you aren't isn't.

[@thethecat100]

Izzy Rebel lion yeah he was handsome.

[@izzyxclusive5185]

gisforgary oh I completely agree it's all about presentation and I found them both to very honest and i felt comfortable to listening to them. In all honesty one of the guys completely turned me off but it had to do with how his attitude was.

[@Gee-xb7rt]

Izzy Rebel lion the twinkie chaser wasn't exactly my cup of tea -- but Robert does what I tell everyone they should do -- learn how to dress yourself, find a good barber, don't let yourself go. i don't know why so many people in the gay community can't dress themselves. they see someone with a different body type and think it looks good, but, um.

[@SeanShimamoto]

This is a really interesting video. When I was 25, I used to really like guys in their 40s and 50s for some reason...I think it was mostly because they were better spoken, were a little classier, but also because older men just looked more like men (as opposed to boys). Oddly, now that I’m 45, it seems like the guys who seem to show the most interest in me are in their early to mid-20s...but they’re usually just nice eye candy to me and I don’t have much attraction to them. Some of them are very mature, very well spoken, and quite intelligent...but I just don’t get excited by them. At 45, I’m actually noticing that I like guys 10-15 years my senior. I’ve had people tell me that I probably have/had issues with my own dad...but it was actually the opposite. My dad was a blue collar worker who took my brother and I fishing and crabbing, we used to work on my truck together (he taught me to change my oil when I was in high school), and he was your typical American man. When I came out to him, the first, and only, question he asked me was, “are you happy with your boyfriend?”...and when I said, “yeah”, he replied with, “that’s all that matters to me, and that’s all that should matter to any parent.” So I definitely didn’t have any dad issues. PS - yes, that’s a current picture. One of the perks of being Japanese...you look young for quite a while. Hehe.

[@1331roland]

I was never into younger guys before this and still am not, just one. My fiancé is 23 and I am 42. We have plenty to talk about at the end of the day. The world is chocked full of so many wonderful things to talk about and learn. People tell us all the time that we are such a beautiful couple and the age thing does not matter. It never even comes up! It did at first because I had my doubts but I am glad that I gave it a chance.

[@DasSchwarzeKorsett]

Levi has been 22 for a while but ok

[@collinsje5]

Yeah, like maybe 10 years.

[@harshnemesis]

haha Ik right

[@hoodaticus]

@Josue2018 porn star is really the brown dwarf of stars though, it's not really a star, but it's not really Tyrion Lannister either.... Plus we've all lamented at one point or another that the TRULY hot guys never do porn.

[@TheNinJaAU]

His name isn’t even Levi. His Instagram is “rustincharles”

[@chad8519]

If he is 22... Oof, he is not going to age well.

[@kennethmaese4622]

When I was young I had no interest in older men and now as a 49 year old man, I have no interest in anyone younger than 40.

[@dennisstaughton7474]

Kenneth Maese Agreed. Well..., maybe 37! But I'm so tired of teenagers & twenty-somethings that believe everyone wants to fuck them--or worse, BE them. Twenty-five years ago, no one I knew thought middle-aged men were pining away for us or wanted to BE us. It's a little creepy. Girls and straight boys today are the same way, so it's not exclusively a gay thing .

[@andrewmarvell4604]

Amen brother!

[@burlhorse61]

i use to think that way but that changed when i dated a younger guy-its down to chemistry for me

[@adoboguys9581]

I love you for saying that!

[@KozmoDyne]

I can relate. I think the perfect age is 28 for looks and charisma as an adult man. But for actual interaction, anything less than about 34 just feels like babysitting. Its not their fault. Twenty-somethings are cute or hot, but they just don't 'get it' until they are nearing 30 or over.

[@gizzycatcat6468]

So nice to hear different opinions!

[@knucklehoagies]

I'm older and quite frankly I think it's turn off when a guy can't or doesn't want to take care of himself.

[@tonydrabenstott4745]

Hi r you looking for a man I AM 💌💌

[@utry0197]

Julian is right. Most Guys in the 40's have no interest in other guys in the 40's-50's.

[@tyamada2167]

And for those young guys who pull faces about, talk badly about and put older gay men down, just remember one thing - you would not have the freedom to live your life as openly as a gay person today, if it wasn't for the hell-fire the older gay generation worked their guts out to put out for you.

[@kevin4227]

tyamada21 They'll also be old one day and they'll be on the receiving end too!

[@tyamada2167]

tyamada21 Absolutely! And then for those who are worthy 'cause will have its effect'.

[@frigglebiscuit7484]

not necessarily. we had our own revolution as well.

[@brunolbt]

@@kevin4227 Plus that!!!!

[@nikicarrie4071]

Also they will be old one day too

[@rudylabsilica2286]

RIGHT ON, THANK YOU for this! It’s about time men of varying ages can be open and appreciate each other’s differences, as well as their similarities.

[@mrmusiclover4178]

38 is OLD? Good grief! Wait till you're 77! But I had some great gay experiences. When I was in my 20's in the 1960's, I also felt anyone over 30 was ancient! I love the comment of the guy in the video who said he liked to be in a relationship, but to be able to bang twinks on the side! Hilarious! I feel the same! Nice video. BTW, I am part of a small group of older gay guys who get together for lunch once a month and swap stories. Our ages range from 48 to 95, and include several survivors of long-term relationships, 3 of which lasted over 50 years. Lots of experiences to share! The lunch idea, to me, is a great one. After all, we will not always be around to get together.

[@hoodaticus]

When I was 19 I was grossed out by anyone over 21. A friend of mine who really liked me was 28 and he was gross to me but he gave me his "just the tip" speech and, having not heard that one before, I thought it a reasonable request.

[@fairuzradzi2701]

you are 77? you look so fine

[@hiltonsebastian3477]

i hope i can meet someone someone like like your age i really want matured guys that i can be my partner,friend,dad,buddy in short my everything. facebook: Hilton sebastian mobile: [phone] skype: mayke000 i hope i meet him soon in jesus named.

[@flaneurgh]

Gurl, the struggle IS real.

[@SirKintaros]

Love how this video wasn't perfect because it makes it that more real. This video is pretty nice though honestly, love the part about how age is just a number and how love is chemistry. Ended on a strong note. Thank you!

[@JemRemillete]

It's nice to hear different perspectives. As for me, love knows no age. :)

[@tonydrabenstott4745]

@Joseph Benhur hi r you looking for a boyfriend I am looking for you💬💬💋💕🌹🌹🌹

[@TimothyPolhamus-dw3ou]

Yes..but since when is gay life about love? Overwhelmingly, it's about sex, vanity, and youth..

[@mj6962]

I have found the best, most wonderful relationship with someone 21 years younger than myself. And the best part is, we have a TON in common and never run out of things to talk about.

[@babyucon]

impossible

[@anobody7888]

*Even though I'm 18, I'm only attracted to older guys, who are in their 30s and 40s. I don't like stereotyping but most younger ones are very immature and make a big deal out of anything. I prefer older, kind of hairy and romantic dudes.*

[@johndoe3233]

Nice.. I like younger men also are drama free, respectful and independent. Wish i could find that PERSON soon

[@pikapool1383]

Same here

[@didi_mega_dudu]

omg, the 63 year old is one of the best looking, if only that were more common

[@simonjenkins4481]

I've been in love once. He pursued me for about three months and I had NO clue of his interest. He was 22 and I was 48. After about 15 or so months, we decided to marry and we were the first same-gender couple in the Continental United States to file a Federal suit for marriage equality, against the AG of Arizona and the Clerk of the Pima County Court - the date was 1993.

[@williamf4544]

it wont last

[@jasonpotter4870]

william f and why is that?

[@Pistonhammer]

@@jasonpotter4870 males life expectancy is very short sadly compared to females , hence why sadly

[@trenttoms]

Wow lol this was refreshing. Me and my partner are 18 years apart. Cant wait to show him this video haha

[@kellywilliam9486]

I know if a man that help me get the person I love if you need help wh'atsapp me [phone]💯💯 I can recommend you to him

[@kimzapanta91ify]

Watching this video reminded me of my teenage years a lot. I never developed an attraction to guys close to my age range and younger. I like mature guys because I wanna feel young and safe. Fortunately, my husband is 10 years older than I am and I am happy with him everyday.

[@marcelkamira]

Hey, i have a lot questions but i met someone who is 6 years older than me but i am hesitating to enter a relationship with him…. If i can ask you some questions it would be great…. Stay in touch

[@kadrikaloshi3506]

❤

[@curlyhairdudeify]

The 22 year old easily looks 30.

[@misipar1934]

Omg yeah

[@curlyhairdudeify]

What's his name??? :)

[@Angeles2]

he is Levi, from randy blue :)

[@leanture3685]

heay he looks 30 and also very cocky! He said ive gotten offers to live life easy cuz of my looks and age! Seriously? hahaha His eyes are soo droopy that i have to put on the airco just to stop them from drooping even more! His mouth is shaped like an upside down triangle with weird looking teeth. The only nice thing about him is his haircolor.

[@curlyhairdudeify]

Brusel Christophe Thank you.

[@locoHAWAIIANkane]

Absolutely! Love is love is love is love. IF two people connect (despite their ages), and TRULY love one another, there’s nothing wrong with it.

[@DalV]

I’m 46 my husband is 22 and we’ve been together almost 4 years now. We balance each other perfectly and never had a single argument

[@ktoma7314]

If you're young, white, cute, have fit body, you have it made in the gay world.

[@dustiny.334]

im not white and get along quite well. the gay world isnt THAT narrow minded.

[@tarothara8632]

Im mixed and i fit in fine. Why you trying to stereotype.

[@ktoma7314]

Dustin Yx. Yes it is. It's more narrow then you think.

[@dustiny.334]

Ktoma7​ maybe its more narrow than i think and not as narrow as you think.

[@ktoma7314]

Dustin Yx. Eh, it's pretty narrow, especially here in the SF

[@JakobTennisMB]

2:03. Did he really say because of his LOOKS? He's not that cute.

[@kyihsin2917]

JakobTennisMB Levi is a professional porn actor, so some people definitely like his looks.

[@57goku]

JakobTennisMB Hallelujah! He is not cute at all

[@pimpharold1]

JakobTennisMB i was thinking the same ,bitch please!!!!, he needs to visit the dentist like righ now ,don't flatter yourself

[@PanoT]

JakobTennisMB Oh please Levi is cute as hell and you know it

[@pimpharold1]

not really

[@import26]

That was a pretty rough 22 years there.

[@astrotter]

I'm 47 and my taste in men has aged with me. My partner is 55 and Very Fine. I'm happy to know the young 'uns are having fun, but I have zero interest in hooking up with any of them.

[@yescandles]

Ageism is a very sad thing. Back when we all needed each other, we had friendships. Now that gay people are more accepted, the "need" for us to all stick together is gone and old people are no longer needed. Whereas all straight men think all gay people want them, all young gay people think that all old gay people want them. Sad.

[@poodtang1]

+yescandles Sad but true.

[@RobertWorthLexus300]

+yescandles 5 years ago I answered a young mans ad. He was looking for friends. I have always believed age doesn't matter when it comes to real friendships; "real" being the key word. I have always had young friends in my life. The young man was 19 years old. I was 67. I am gay; he is straight. I told him upfront that I was that age and gay when I answered his ad. We met and today we have an unbelievable friendship. I mean it is the best; It's the way friendship is supposed to be. Just to let you know I am not your typical 72 year old man. I feel like a teenager. Being around young folks helps keep you young. So I just say to you...don't let age be a factor. Beautiful friendships can happen between any age. I treasure this one with my young friend, and so does he.

[@AllTheNamesAreFTaken]

+yescandles "all young gay people think that old gay people want them" sounds like ageism lel

[@JohnnyGNV]

+Aaron Fyfe It also sounds terribly narrow-minded and is an astonishing generalization. I wish that people would think carefully before posting such comments. I am fairly certain that perhaps SOME young gay people think along those lines, but surely not "ALL".

[@AllTheNamesAreFTaken]

Johnny Gainor Of course young people think that way, not every young person can be expected to be mature, same can be said of older generations. I'm sure there are some "daddies" out there who think all young people want them! ;)

[@eddieray]

I am 21 years old & I don't care about the age . all guys & men are cute ^_^ love y'all

[@josephsisneros1503]

Edmund Ray Valentine love you too.handsom man

[@sensitivespirit1118]

Edmund Ray Valentine Julian is fine as fuck oohhhh !

[@harshnemesis]

Well that's good because looking at your profile it looks like you're in your 30s at least, lmao

[@maxbustos1188]

Edmund Ray Valentine you are truly special. Beautiful outside but that heart is even more beautiful. Wonderful attitude

[@user-yz6rt6ge3g]

Edmund Ray Valentine I agree with you, I too don’t care about age, it’s about the chemistry, attraction between two people that counts. Have to say, from your profile pic. Damn! You’re HOT! 🔥

[@williamdeschamps9543]

I love this video.

[@agustinlozano1641]

38 here and loving every second of it

[@wyoruss]

Age does not matter! Love is love. Two people can connect and have lots to talk about even with an age gap.

[@Rr4wrRr]

True but it’s kind of weird that a man who’s 40 is trying to be with someone’s who’s 18.

[@imfar2busybeingdelic]

You guys are the biggest example. Thank you.

[@JosueRodriguezsharon]

Alexa Castillo it is not weird that was what many thought about gays

[@anapastori9876]

wyo russ So true 💋xx

[@niahjai9513]

wyo russ Hi 😁😁😁😁 I Love you guys

[@nicholasrue7397]

In what bizarre alternate reality is 34 considered "older?" Someone mentioned Millennials. The oldest Millenials are turning 35.

[@nicholasrue7397]

Millenials are roughly the generation between the Aids crisis and 9/11. The cut off is 1981 - 2001. Anyone born later in the 2000s is not a Millenial.

[@nicholasrue7397]

The Millennial generation (Generation Y) directly follows Generation X strictly speaking. Gen X are the Baby Boomers. As for my usage, demographers and researchers frequently use historical events to classify generations.

[@ElissaStark514]

Nicholas Rue the generation spans are crazy. I'm considered a Gen X'er, and my son a millennial, but I'm only a few years older than 35.

[@ElissaStark514]

Nicholas Rue that's such a wide range. I was/am a young mom, but it's strange to see that my son and I are only a year off in being in the same generation. We do feel that we "grew up together," though.

[@harshnemesis]

Actually millennial means late 90s and 2000s not 80s lmao

[@michaelvinson2446]

that is so cool yall

[@anthonylawson518]

I can totally relate I am 37 and very young acting and can't seem to attract the younger or older but it seems that the majority of the men I meet are sexually driven and I am not. I just want companionship and love... Not complicated

[@nikicarrie4071]

Make a fb page, or find one I'm sure you wil meet someone ❤️

[@Frisby2007]

I was 19 years old & fell in LOVE with a man who was 34 year old. I'm 25 now & I will not love any man below the age of 32. Older men are much, MUCH better to be with. Besides the experience, it's all about how well rebounded they are, & they know what they want in life. I dated a guy my age once & it was the worst. I just cannot date a man who isn't well above my age. I've just always loved men who were older than me. My current date is above his 40s & I could give less of a shit, he's the sweetest thing.

[@dennisleporte2327]

Love is love. Europeans seem to understand this concept better.

[@starrockertaytay]

Frisby2007 just because you dated one guy your age that you didn't like makes all canceled out? Imagine if you dated a older guy and you hated him too, would u rule out all guys together?

[@javier2393]

Frisby2007 once when I was 14 I date dan 18 year old. And then after we broke up I dated people of the same age and it was disturbing to see how immature they were.

[@Xthreat2002]

I'm 23 and my partner is 63, have we faced difficulties? Yes. Do we regret it? No. We're tremendously happy with each other I wouldn't trade it for the world.

[@prophetofprosperity1107]

Benjamin Tindal that's just not normal O.O I can't

[@Xthreat2002]

What's not normal about it? We live together, go on holiday together, spend time with each others families. We#re like any other couple. Age shouldn't determine love.

[@prophetofprosperity1107]

Benjamin Tindal No. Age shouldn't determine love, but love no matter how much you love someone you still have to be realistic and intelligent. Since you are so much older you will likely die before your lover. Don't you think they deserve something better than that? Both of you should have.

[@prophetofprosperity1107]

***** It's not just an age gap. If you date someone 40 years older/younger than you, there are major physiological differences. Relationships are supposed to be mutual, not just 'loving'.

[@Xthreat2002]

I'm fully prepared for the reality that he will die before me. That doesn't bother me, We both talked a lot before we got together, What do I lose from 30 years of happiness? I'll have great memories and I'll be sad when that day comes but it would of been worth every minute. The relationship is Mutual. It's no different from what you consider a normal relationship. I think after two years in which we continue to grow stronger I don't think either of us have been stupid in our decision to live together and make a life together.

[@waltseekircher3332]

it's been one of the most amazing discoveries in my later life (widowed at 64) to find so many younger guys are interested in older ones...Im 81 and it goes on and on

[@emiliobello2538]

Interesting video

[@celebait2751]

Ugh that Levi guy thinks he i way hotter than he actually is

[@joshlayes3130]

CeleBait I agree... good for him, I guess?...

[@joshlayes3130]

I guess that's objective... I don't find him remotely attractive physically and his personality is a bigger turn off but everyone has different tastes. :)

[@abacus912]

you mean subjective? anyways not my type either, however he does look a lot older for his age

[@joshlayes3130]

abacus912 I did mean to say that. Thank you so much for correcting me!

[@Tonetare]

Well, I'm a 30 year old lighter black skinned gay male I find older men annoying, particularly older white males. On all my ads in which I express to seeking a boyfriend, I make it very clear that I'm looking for no older than 33. But then I open up my e-mail and I get gobs and gobs of e-mails from white males, ranging from ages 36 all the way to 65. It never fails. My requests is always rudely ignored and it pisses me the fuck off. Sometimes they will even answer me without giving their age and give all their other information. I will ask them what's their age. And they will give me a huge e-mail discussing other things without answering my question. I will try to be nice and address their points and ask again and I am once again ignored. It's incredibly obnoxious and annoying dealing with older men and particularly older white males. I never get black men and men of other races acting as predatory. Sometimes Latinos engage in it, but it's mostly always white males pulling this bullshit!

[@AliHassan-qt3zp]

I am 58 years old and despite my good looks was almost always rejected by guys when I was younger. I am much keenly pursued by a lot of young guys now and found the love of my life also at this age. I honestly wish that I had always been over fifty. missed so much being loved for all those younger years

[@JB-THC]

I love this

[@shiningdawn8578]

I met the person whom I think is my special someone when he was 21 and I was 39. I had way more of a problem with the age than he did. I had to do a lot of internal work to get over that seeming triviality.

[@ChrisCollins01]

It should be about attraction but the sad truth is that if you don't fit a certain look no is ever interested. When I was in my 20's no one older hit on me or younger for that matter. I went through my 30's into my late 40's and nothing changed. I think generally people go for a certain number of things that they look for in another person and there are some of us around that just don't make the first tick box. It doesn't mean to say we have nothing to offer because we do. It just means it takes us so much longer if ever to find someone. The important thing though is to remember to enjoy life and live.

[@Unicorn-jj2og]

I have mentioned in the past here that my partner is 36 years older than me. I wasn't looking for an older man though I had nothing against them either. I am one of the youngest men he ever dated. He didn't go after younger men. We met through a common friend and the spark was instant! I knew he was Mr Right and vice versa. We have been together for 7 years now and I haven't been happier. And yes the sex is fantastic. Much better than I had with younger, selfish, inexperienced men. We have had our bumps but managed to overcome issues. We have so much in common but enough differences to keep things fresh. Of course people wonder and probably gossip behind our backs. Lately, we have started reading each others mind a lot....lol

[@nikicarrie4071]

Are you still together ❤️

[@martinquinn9007]

This so true

[@ravasolix]

This video totally eluded the sore topic of the ageism among our community which hurt so many older gay men who try to meet on gay apps. Its not all daddies and young twinks who wants them. Theres a lot of disrespect from younger guys towards older guys.

[@michaelt8161]

Ravasolix But I mean you can't force younger gay guys to meet older guys on apps if they arent attracted they just aren't attracted

[@ravasolix]

Agreed but I think the lack of respect is what is problematic on these apps. Exactly the same deal as with :"No Fats No Fem No Asians" bullshit. You CAN be unattracted to either of these "categories" but theres a way to say it.

[@AlonzoLombardi]

I'm 25 and I'm totally into daddies. Men over 30 have been my ideal men since I was a teen.

[@MaScErRaDe95]

probably because ur parents divorced whenever you were young or whatever, its called daddy issues ,u didnt have a fatherly figure to look up to growing up..., a therapist is what u need

[@algonzalez6853]

★Fabss★ i've always had a dad, i just always felt attracted to older men, since i was 12

[@vleung96]

For me is the same when I am 18 , I am into older men. Now I am 42 I am more into younger men, I find them more simple and pure in mind

[@sammyibarra2078]

vincent leung I've been into older men since i was about 17 i just think there more mature then guys my age and im 21

[@taotaobarskih]

Me too

[@berjaboy]

The guy named Levi who's 22 could easily pass of someone in their 30s. For a young guy, he looks like he was put through a ringer.

[@DJG0810]

berjaboy well, he is a porn star :p

[@michellarabie6574]

I apologize i should have aid a majority are shallow - I should not have included all of us gay people.

[@koffz-nl2118]

What has being a porn star got to do with ageing??

[@pauldilley8974]

I'm shallow but aware that I ain't no porn star either. +myname iskoffzz - Everyone knows that masturbating too much / having too much sex makes you go bald and grow hair on the back of your hands and feet!

[@mgeek1]

He does look rather......................rugged.

[@mj6962]

@ 1:30. YASSSZSZSZ. SAME!! I have noticed the same thing.

[@crisissocoylike]

I am not ageist. I appreciate the company and socialize with fellow gay men from all stages of life: . From young gay bros whom keep me in the know with post-modern slang, to young twenty somethings who I get lit with at clubs, to the classy but spontaneously wonderful middle aged men, and lastly to the beautiful character and soul that life has crafted therein our elder gay gentlemen.

[@tipofmytongue1024]

I'm 25 about to marry someone 44. Can't wait.

[@siempremoo]

tipofmytongue1024 I was 34 when I fell in love with my husband and at the time he was 49. Now 12 years later we have built a good life together and I'm still very happy.

[@sleekcartim]

congrats! the bottom line is its all about what makes you happy... Im dating an 18 y/o, im 54 ;) p.s. and no, im not his sugar daddy lol

[@jacubtscorpio5084]

Sleekcartim .sleekcartim Not judging but that's weird I'm the same age as the guy your dating and other than our looks guys my age are selfish, inconsist and ego to boost like it's annoying as hell but I'm the same way so I can't complain not to mention I have the hots for my boss so it goes both ways I just texted him actually but at the end of the day I'm sticking to guys in my age range in the long haul

[@dennisleporte2327]

good for you I truly wish you all the Best ! xo

[@collinsje5]

25 and 44 can work. I met a 27yo when I was 53, and it lasted 4 years. We split, but not because of age.

[@Halloween771]

2:47 what that guy said was interesting, "the people who are most alive, are people where now is the most important thing in their lives."

[@rambler241]

What ON EARTH is the background music added for? These are INTERVIEWS!

[@angelisruledbyjupiter]

did that guys really said that he wanted a person to bring home for Christmas but "BANG" twinks on the side, and then older gays wonder why younger gays dont want anything with them 2:21

[@germanquinonez7661]

Trueee, that weirded me out actually.

[@Parliament9502]

When you become an adult you’ll understand what he meant.

[@Falkore02]

I've been in a relationship with a guy who is 13 years younger than I am. He's 23 and I am 35. We met at University (I'm a non-traditional student) and fell in love very quickly. We have been together for over two years now and always have something to talk about. While it's true that he may not understand some of my 80s references, he still keeps me interested and stimulated (mentally and other ways). I have always been attracted to younger guys but have not referred to myself as a "Daddy". I do not want a "boy" to take care of, I want a partner who can support himself without my help. That is why I'm so grateful that I found my current man at University rather than at a bar or on an app. Love is love and does not care about age. As long as you have a connection, mutual respect, and a common goal, love can surpass all challenges.

[@Fakebook1983]

Falkore02 so right, I’m 35 too and my boy friend is 24, it’s really happy to find “younger me” through him, and we’re together one year and half we just met at a friend’s dinner which we fall in love later, not like my younger years, he makes me want to be “better me” not just a 35 years old “Daddy” haha good luck man!

[@rinirini2520]

how is that pedophile???? none of the guys mentioned in this comment are below 18, duh

[@josephr.gainey2079]

Are you two still together?

[@Falkore02]

@@josephr.gainey2079 We've now been together 10 years. We just got married to make it all official. But yes, still together v

[@josephr.gainey2079]

@@Falkore02 I'm so happy for the two of you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@claire7144]

Makes me think of Bianca and Adore tbh.

[@myjfff]

+Bug jesus, get over the show..my god.

[@claire7144]

myjfff I will never get over the show, I don't want to and I don't have to. Thanks!

[@LA-nx4fv]

+myjfff SAID NO ONE EVER

[@iamnabo9780]

im 30 and my partner is almost 57.. 10 years we been to gather this 2019.he a bit old but that the first time i feel someone love and take good care of me sincerely. love is love age is just a number... #greetings from malaysia...

[@Bochanable]

For years I was attracted to older guys, now that I am 63, I feel invisible and feel sort of disrespected by younger guys forgetting guys my age tore down the walls and survived the big “A” crisis. I just have difficulty finding guys my age because I often am thought to be in my 40s and have a young spirit. I’m happy for younger guys having a much easier time than we did. I just wished more knew and respected what the boomer generation endured for them to have their freedoms.

[@jzwalz51robin45]

same here, often mistaken for 40's and yet THAT is considered too old

[@kornmaze]

I'm a millennial and I totally get that you all had to fight hard for what is right, regarding our society. I can never thank you enough for what you've done. And we still have to keep fighting, unfortunately, no thanks to this "President" that we have in The White House.

[@aunpaidintern7035]

Bochanable And trust us, we know. We know your struggles and appreciate the fight you put up. But at the same time it doesn't mean that we have to give you the time of day, we don't need to talk to you, we don't need to send you photos, or even meet up. We don't owe you anything like that.

[@kevinbarwick6451]

@@jzwalz51robin45 am the 48

[@floop1673]

Younger gays are not gonna fck you just because you fought for their rights. Imagine being this entitled.

[@SearchingForTimothy]

I would say that age doesn't bother me, but the way you act does. I value maturity, at any age.

[@edwinrivera8449]

We were all young once. The problem with the gay young men of today is that they don't think they will ever get old. We are all standing in a line... there is always someone younger in front of you. My point is... enjoy your life, your age, take care of yourself. I know many young men who are old and many men of youth who are still kids at hart.

[@issacmiria1632]

Well I watched some pics of my farther and know his stories. And then I found out he is me and then I know every old people once was young before. From that time I respect those elders , understand their point , they way they talk and knowing to accept.

[@guy5656]

Mitchel is essentially me. Also, he's so cute I just want to give him a hug!

[@stumack9755]

a bit swishie for my taste

[@sirrlucky6285]

My partner is 18 years younger then me. We have a loving relationship. We been together for five years now. I never thought I would fall in love with a younger guy. He a wonderful young man that is also caring and watches out for me.

[@michaelgaynor6866]

YOU are very Lucky!

[@drumbunny]

Actually when I was a teenager, I was really attracted to older men...like my friend's actual dad! I was always turned on by older guys in the porno mags. Now that I am 50, I can appreciate both older men AND younger men. Sadly, when I was a young 20-something, older gay men were dropping like flies. Young guys nowadays should consider themselves lucky...

[@john.premose]

I feel the same way. I’m 42 and I like both older and younger now

[@gordon3186]

Back when I was a young gay man, I hated when old gay men leered at me... Now, I studiously avoid doing it. If you want to know why so many young gay men aren't all that interested in you, ask why you're not interested in men of your own generation and you'll have the answer.

[@devinngeorge]

preach!

[@dudeinaleatherjacket]

I’m in love with Levi’s jacket

[@prayzehymnonline]

2:19-2:27. I wasn't ready for it. LOL.

[@princekorea]

Age should not be an issue when it comes to falling in love. Having said that, older men who only look for much younger guys are pathetic because it seems that they do not love themselves, and younger guy who only look for much older men they are either looking to fulfill their fetishes or looking for a sugar daddy. If you fall in love with someone, you should consider yourself and your partner equal and not just look for financial or sexual benefits.

[@monk3yboy69]

PEOPLE PLEASE....... Just stop analysing and just enjoy the moments. If you meet a guy and he is hot, what difference does his age make. You fall in love with a person, not a number.

[@monk3yboy69]

***** I'm sorry, how is my "stupidity" showing when I say you fall in love with a person and not their age? And who said anything about his skin? Have you replied to the right comment?

[@get2rog]

***** I take it you have always had bad skin and now that you're getting older people look at you and think you are a lizard alien living among us

[@pcross84]

monk3yboy69 Unfortunately, not a whole lot of people seem to be interested in falling in love. They're only interested in falling into bed. It's a culture shock that has made me feel asexual most of my life just because I don't find that personality type to be attractive.

[@monk3yboy69]

pcross84 Funny you should say that. I have been with my partner for 18 years, so falling in love is not something I am looking to do. LOL My good friend however is single and desperate to fall in love.....yet he only ever meets guys on Grindr for a quick fuck. The very idea of arranging a date and actually HAVING TO TALK to a man leaves him cold. LOL

[@pcross84]

monk3yboy69 Oh my, lol. I have a partner now of 9 months. It's a new relationship, but we both have so much in common--views on religion, politics, commitment, etc. but 18 years? I hope to be there someday. I'll be honest though; I think that most of my sexual hangups come from body image issues, fear of rejection and/or being used, and a constant, unavoidable confusion in my brain between sexual intimacy and emotional intimacy, i.e. love. My partner has some of the same issues, but we can both admit to loving each other and we talk about falling in love. I think my greater need is emotional stability with someone rather than a mind-blowing, earth-shattering sexual experience. If it makes any difference, I've never gone all the way with anyone. (Although as of lately, I have had sort of an 'awakening' in that department, lol). Sorry for the long reply, but I do see what you're saying. :)

[@michaelreidperry3256]

I had my turn being young and pretty. I experienced feeling preyed upon by older men. It was flattering, but felt I wasn’t being appreciated for my best qualities. Being 58, I go out of my way to not come across as a wolf. There is also the fear of seeming cold. It’s a tricky balance, so it’s best just to genuinely be comfortable in my own skin and never mind any judgment that will come. We all can count on constantly being judged for whatever reason.

[@stevencp]

I've always liked older guys, they were not as shallow and flighty. Now that I'm 40, any of the guys my age are finally maturing LOL

[@armbartriangle1234]

I think the actual issue with age difference in dating (for me at least) has to do with aging at the same rate. If I were to date a guy who is significantly older or younger than me then as we grow old together there is a very high likelihood that one of us will die way before the other person. I don't know if I can handle that heartbreak of living a large portion of my life without the person I intended to spend the rest of my life with. Sure, there is no guarantee that dating someone around the same age as you fixes that problem, but the chances are a whole lot better.

[@Marklinsf]

"Why Older Guys couldn't give a shit what younger guys think about them..."

[@satnitcboy]

As someone over 60, the one thing I would tell anyone younger - and that means all types - is that youth in itself is attractive. It is far from the only attractive thing, but youth in all its qualities, including energy, optimism, health, curiosity (and all as much as looks), is attractive. What you make of those things is up to you; there are definitely young people who walk through life with a frown and an attitude, and no matter how beautiful are as appealing as yesterday's leftovers. But it is worth knowing that your youth is an asset far outside the bedroom. I've also found that there are as many plain people as pretty ones who will only give the time of day to those they feel meet some standard of beauty. If you think your potential to attract others is truly dependent on looks, and you don't think you're scoring because of it, one thing we know is that healthy gay men can always increase their physical attractiveness at the gym. A hot bod is a hot bod. But of course having one won't make your life great if you haven't gotten past liking yourself and others for more than that.

[@richardcourchene7477]

I'm a 52 year old gay man and I consider anyone under 40 too young for me.

[@user-wf8sc8pg9m]

I have a love for older white men. Thick amd long, to fuck me, anal orgasm. Im usually a bottom wanting deep, hard, intense pounding,

[@shaan0121]

Personality and how committed the person is matters. I am into inclusive relationships that both are loyal and committed but also can have a connection. I will never be in a relationship just because of sex or money. I want an actual partner that can be my best friend too. For that i will never judge upon age but rather the connection we have.

[@willyboy6126]

Good for you Shaan...you're thinking with that head on your shoulder...and not with the 'other' one! ; ) ....Very wise for a young person like you....and you said a key phrase..."partner that can be my best friend".....That is the foundation of ALL relationships, to be each other's best friend. Sending hugs and love from Canada : )

[@ranaromai7784]

I am from Pakistan. Would you like to contact me

[@danseabreeze1404]

An older person that has always liked eating super healthy and working out might look much better than a younger guy. I think it's more about how you respect your body and other people, show your spirit, carry yourself, present yourself and respect yourself instead of JUST age.

[@princeothello4153]

Dan, u r right. I've been into fitness since I was seventeen. This is my lifestyle.

[@jusssayin480]

I feel sorry for men that are in their mid 30s and up who only are attracted to younger men. They're missing out!

[@SwobyJ]

Minne Man Yeah, there's tons of hot men 18-whenever. My own preference cap is 40-50, but that's probably significantly because I'm still 25, not in my 30s.

[@Gee-xb7rt]

Alan Grimaldo lol -- i have a hard time with twinkdom, most twinks aren't that cute, 5 is average, and for good reason. but don't tell them that. i guess there are those that are attracted to age only, but sexy is sexy, and that doesn't have a number.

[@kelseyrogers8157]

Try telling that to the people who think only white guys are attractive.

[@mikek5910]

*****

[@metta108]

+Minne Man I get what you're saying and all, and I realize you're not passing judgement on anyone.... but look at it this way; if people could simply pick and choose what they are 'attracted' to sexually (or otherwise), why wouldn't all gay men have simply chosen to be 'straight' and find someone of the opposite sex? ...at least in previous generations when it was 10x harder to be gay or live as a gay person. ....I agree with you, all I'm saying is, attraction is actually 'complex' and not as simple as making a 'choice'.....You can't help what you're attracted to (which is why pedophilia is a psychological disorder that needs psychiatric help).....the only 'choice' we have is to not 'indulge' in our 'attraction'. For me, the solution was simple, I chose celibacy....I just stopped looking for 'dates' or other people completely. ...but I do feel sorry for men who are obsessed with finding "the right guy"- and that "right guy" happens to be completely out of their league and inaccessible. You'd have better luck being attracted to a homophobic straight man. lol

[@lakesadmin3622]

I'm 55 and completely invisible in the LGBT community.

[@michaelgaynor6866]

I'm 63 years old.....Fuck em!

[@tonydrabenstott4745]

@@michaelgaynor6866 hi r you looking for a boyfriend I am💬💬💬💋💕🌹🌹🌹

[@byiza9484]

Génération gaps are a challenge. Had a guy 40 years my senior, distinguished accomplished, in shape etc. What could he really be than just a mentor.

[@tr.c5148]

So 34 is older.... Jeezzz

[@SwobyJ]

Trey C 34 is 'older' to the vain, youth-focused mentality, yeah. But yes, in the scheme of current life expectancy and physical standards, anything 20-30 should probably be considered young to some degree. Even the 40s in a way (but still more depending on individual IMO, at least until we get crazy-ass anti-aging tech 0_0).

[@istvanpraha]

Trey C I laughed at that too. I'm 34 too and laughed when he said "when I was growing up" or whatever. I was thinking, at the earliest, you went to your first gay club sometime in 1999. That was definitely not that long ago to already be saying "back in my day" type comments!!!! Things have not changed that much.

[@jasonc.parker4644]

I love how two of the "young" guys are 27, and one of the "old" guys is 34. A whole seven years difference.

[@lenwelch2195]

Jason C. Parker amateurs lol

[@collinsje5]

34 is so ancient. They must have found him in a pyramid - lol. I am 34 twice + 2.

[@DarkShadow-hi3cp]

7 years is a long time.

[@Not-Ap]

@@DarkShadow-hi3cp It's really isn't. That's like people saying the civil war was like 500 years ago or something. It really wasn't but it can feel that way I guess.

[@openskies11]

"Guys my own age don't want guys my own age." So true. I do not understand the obsession with youth in gay culture. Give me a guy at least in his thirties, when he's learned about life, and has a little more humility, stability, and understanding. You can keep your twinks.

[@jimp4170]

Ha. "The older you get, the younger they get!"

[@istvanpraha]

Because if someone is a top they want to screw someone that really gets their gears moving, not someone who is similar to them and thus sort of "blah" That's why opposites attract.

[@Not-Ap]

@@istvanpraha Just say it... Men are attracted to youth straight or gay. Stop trying to sugar coat it. That's why hugh hefner was a thing.

[@cjdavis2684]

I am older, and have been alone since my partner of 17 years cheated and left me 12 years ago. And there has been no one in my life since the break up. And I am convinced now at the age I am, there is no one ever going to be interested in me again. That I will die alone.which rips me apart. But there is nothing to do about it. Except wait to die.

[@tonydrabenstott4745]

I AM LOOKING for a boy friend R You I AM LOOKING for a relationship R You🔥💋🔥💘💌💌💌💌

[@Tonezinator]

This is not commentary on gay guys but on gay guys on grindr. In the real world, no one cares.

[@gordon3186]

+Tony Dreher ---The phenomenon is much older than grinder.

[@AntAciieed]

i disagree sorry , this has been around way longer than the age of vapid e dating

[@przemisio1]

well hello there

[@TOPOTWO]

Holy shit some of the younger guys look older than the so called older guys woah

[@craiglambert2131]

I am 47 and have embraced my inner daddy. My experience has been that the majority of the guys who hit on me are no older than 30. That as it is stated in the video, "I find a lot of guys my age are not interested in guys my age" to be very true, and I am ok with that. Age is just a number. Love is love and comes in all forms. To me, it's all about the attraction, commonality and how well two people get along. So, why limit yourself to an age bracket! However, it IS a little intimidating at first beig the older man because I don't know the motives of the younger guy. Is he seeking monitary generosity from me for this time and companionship, or is he wanting to date me for me as a person. When I was in my 20s, guys my age were not datable. So, I went for the older man... 35+... I NEVER looked for the sugar because I was more interested in the guy, not his wallet. To note, I don't have daddy issues. My father was present from the day I was born until I was 38, which is the age I was when he passed. To support my "age is just a number" attitude, a good friend of mine is married (legally) to somone who is 23 years his senior. They've been together for almost 20 years and are as much in love now as they were when the first started dating. My friend has even legally changed his name. My friend's 43 and his husband is 65/66.

[@ayrtsennparra3932]

The guy with the baseball hat, its really funny.. "If they weren't interested in me when i was their age, why would they will be interested in me now" Hilarious