Pastors' Wives Thrive

Lois Evans is joined by pastors' wives Jackie Pugh (New Life Fellowship), Serita Jakes (Potter's House), and Jada Edwards (One Community Church) to discuss various issues that pastors' wives deal with.
For more information on the Pastors' Wives Ministry visit www.Loisevans.org

[@tralayned3872]

this is refreshing to hear this as a new pastor's wife. "Everyone wants the light, but not the heat". Love Mrs. Jakes

[@evereen35]

Tray RM Amen I feel you..... I'm a new Pastors Wife as well.

[@sonjastanley1067]

@@evereen35 Hi! How is your role coming along? I am a newly pastor's wife of over a year now and I know the challenges and I wish you all of the best.

[@gayle2020]

RIP Lois Evans. She had such a sweet spirit. I have enjoyed this so much. I wish I had discovered it sooner. It feels like I'm in these ladies living room fellowshipping together. I'm not a pastors wife or wife but I pray you all out there pray for me to find nice Godly women to fellowship with.

[@kaefreemanduchess719]

💛First Lady Mrs Jakes she's so cute and very charming 💛⛪

[@donnadequire-rios3531]

Although i am not a pastor's wife, i am learning so much from these ladies. Thank u ladies of God.

[@marykozi9652]

Amen

[@vjsim1]

I've watched this twice already. I'm not a pastor's wife or even married but, I've learned so much from these beautiful women at this table. So much wisdom. Rest in Peace Mrs. Evans. I didn't know you but I miss you already.

[@lastdays3148]

Same here I was watching videos today of Jack Van Impe passing away last week. When I noticed a video of Madam Lois Evans and I went over towards her videos to watched them. I said to myself what a beautiful woman inside & outside. I had no idea that she was the wife of Toni Evans. Because I did not follow their Ministry. I noticed another video of her family Celebrating their Parent's 70th Birthday and another video on her Home Going Celebration. May she Rest In Sleep.🙏🏾🌹🙋🏾‍♀️

[@modawnie]

@@lastdays3148 Oh I didn't know Jack Van Impe has departed as well. The sweet wife will continue with the Ministry.

[@agathathomas7534]

😅😂🤣😇OH I AM JUST LOVING UP ON THIS. AMEN!!!! HALLELUJAH!!! SERIOUS BUT THERE IS SO MUCH HUMOR ALSO. AMEN!!!

[@Mel-nc3jg]

Such a loss to the body of Christ. RIH

[@ledonnathompson-cheek9540]

I thank God for these ladies being transparent....I am married to a minister who will soon be a Pastor.....and I needed to hear ALL of this, because we are already dealing with a lot of these issues and he hasn't even started a Church yet! Help me Lord Jesus to help my husband😔

[@MomTheEbayer101]

As a new preacher's wife I want to thank you for sharing your wisdom. The statement that was made "The bigger the ministry grows the smaller your circle becomes". wow!!! I needed to hear that. I've grown to realize not everyones energy is welcomed in my house and around my family. Those two entities are my safe spaces and I refuse to have negativity around them. Thank you ladies for your help.

[@evereen35]

Mom The Ebayer Amen I'm a New Elect Lady 2 Jonh 1:1 and it's not easy but worth it

[@rosierussell8588]

@@evereen35 moo

[@ojochidestephen9668]

wow! you made my day... from Nigeria a new pastor wife

[@hopephillips9154]

Love the wisdom of the pastor wives. I am new pastor wife. Our first year pastoral anniversary is coming up. Thank you for all your testimonies. May God continue blessing all of you.

[@evelynjohnson416]

Thank you so much each and every one of you! First Lady Serita - every word...Sistah...every word...all true. Thanks for your transparency, keeping it real, real....I love the part where you said, "he delivers me daily"...but I also love the part where you put down ministry to become the mom that your daughter needed. I really needed that.

[@debragraves2323]

First Lady Lois Evans answered Father God’s call and He gave her Eternal Peace and Rest! She’s still a light leaving a rewarding legacy to Women near and far! May she continue to Rest in Heavenly Peace!

[@CNM2326]

Mrs. T. D Jakes has a warm voice im melting... It inspires me...

[@elizabethameka2577]

Words of wisdom, thanks

[@kierajacobs7947]

Pastor Jada is FULL of wisdom!!! FULL!!!!!

[@sasw77intwo]

Mrs.Pastor Jakes really spoke to my heart because I have a child that I pray God will help. Each panelist contributed heartfelt words of wisdom.

[@joannawofford]

Amen yes Lord

[@joannawofford]

This is really helping me I'm grateful for this conversation I needed this

[@joannawofford]

Very well said

[@joannawofford]

This is good

[@joannawofford]

Amen we are not in competition

[@nicolelady34]

I am not a Pastors wife but this talk has blessed me beyond what I imagined!!

[@cynthiajacobs8895]

I love Jada. You remind me of myself... I love how you keep it so real. I'm always asking God for forgiveness and to help me to love people and see them how He does. People can be so vindictive and evil. Even in the church. God bless you all.

[@designercaress]

Cynthia Jacobs God will definitely give you more grace, I totally understand, we definitely he the grace and power of the holy Spirit to assist us

[@joanlyn1]

I am so blessed by this discussion. Thank you so much. The Lord bless you and keep you under His wings in Jesus name.

[@Yukia76]

Very good conversation good nuggets 😃

[@yvonnebelcher1823]

Yaaaaaaaas this was a delight!!! And a drink of fresh water!!!! These women ministered to my soul!!! I’m not a pastors wife yet 😂, but the hubby and I are heavily involved in ministry and this was absolutely delicious 😋!! Thanks beautiful women of God!!

[@Pomaa25]

Thank you! I really needed this. So encouraging to hear as a Pastor's wife...at a point I felt I was loosing myself....

[@niceymix1]

Rest in heavenly power Sister Evans....you ministry was so unique.

[@teresatatmon9183]

"Rebellion is never the answer...Submit to his wrong authority and let the Lord correct him" Jada Edwards

[@anneloved]

This is wisdom lol

[@susanwilson1962]

"Just because you don't like them doesn't mean you're not Christlike." What a revelation...thanks Jada, I needed that.

[@terimatthews279]

“Sabbath Lifestyle” is a Word.🎻

[@talishabennett2775]

44 minutes in... I needed that. I dont want them to bare the burden that i carry. I have to make sure the people are still open to the voice of God that is speaking through my husband. REAL GOOD WORD>

[@joyfaida1754]

Wow, wow! So much wisdom around this table. I thoroughly enjoyed watching. Rest in glory, Mrs Evans.

[@tashaclark1194]

This was so good and informative..so much wisdom sitted at the table

[@officialhealingthewounds]

This is such a necessary conversation, Sister Lois. Thank you so much for your obedience to the Holy Spirit to bring this offering of love to us ladies who are at our husband's side, doing the best we can. These are authentic answers to burning questions that we may not have known to ask. Just thank you, Ladies...each and every one!!!

[@poeticallycorrect1676]

This was excellent. I am also a new pastor’s wife, along with being a new wife living in a new state. A lot of back-to-back transitioning. It was nice to be able to receive pure advice of how to handle my new life.

[@kathyrivas8547]

Thank you for this. Yes make disciples! Keep the vision. Great wisdom women of God !

[@yolandacallegariburton3879]

You beautiful women of God are His treasured vessels. Thank you for sharing gems of wisdom with us.

[@yakineamarie3848]

"Even when I lose I win." Powerful statement Lady Jakes. This was truly a powerful conversation filled with jewels of wisdom. Lady Lois was truly a gift to this world. She is such a beautiful spirit. You will truly be missed. I'm praying for the Evans' family.

[@thobivalred2027]

Good conversations never get old.

[@hleejr6311]

Over 100 years of experiences, love, pain, and suffering. I'm honored. I'm humbled by the humbleness of these women.

[@blesslife9855]

I have never been married but my heart still is set on being a pastor wife after 40 years l am still keeping the faith that but I'm also reminded of that's my will but Lord if it's your will let it be so but no matter what I love you Jesus I trust in you and I appreciate my life and thank you for womens of God that are encouraging and can tell stories of what they've been through or what they're going through to help lift up sisters that's in Christ and not even in Christ just period so for that I'm grateful for conversation that we often need to have and for the true word of God never give up hope ladies there's always hope and whatever we're facing so to all the sisters pastors wife young old ladies of the church trust God and all their ways and acknowledge him and I know he will direct our path I thank you and I just came in contact with Dr Evans on this KZbin channel and all what she gave and what people said about her and how her kids and husband talked about her I don't know her personally but I truly believe that she was a living testimony that the life she lived was passed on from generation to generation and so just to get a glimpse of her life and her legacy was a blessing to God be the glory amen

[@dineothebe]

More levels, more devils. Thank you first ladies for being so candid. I am learning deeply. May the grace of God be with you 🙏

[@jolynnwhite7946]

The congregation is always aware and watching,yet God is our stronghold if we draw close .much lv

[@lovefelix1566]

This was excellent! I am not married or even seeking to be a Pastor's Wife but I learned so much about Authority and Submission as a woman under a Ministry. I also love where Mrs. Jada Edwards share about submitting to his wrong leadership and letting God be the one to change him. Don't over step but pray and go to God because a woman has a powerful role as having his heart. #EveryWomanOfGodNeedsToListenToThis

[@ladysophia8824]

Wow, this is so LOADED! Dr Lois Evans, you are so going to be missed 😥💔. What a phenomenal woman you were. God bless you for having this message on tape so we can listen over and over again. What a fantastic Legacy💝👏

[@stephxylv4165]

So true generation to generation will listen to this.

[@crystalgrose]

Such beautiful, graceful, humble First Ladies. Love all of them. Rest in Heaven Dr. Lois. Job well done ♡ Such wonderful role models for married and unmarried women.

[@prayzur]

Keeping it real...I LOVE THIS!!

[@melanieserrette7648]

This has been a blessing for me. I am not a Pastor's wife, but I'm a Pastor's daughter, and although I'm a grown adult, with a family of my own and serving in leadership in my father's church, I do experience a lot of the pressures that these first ladies have mentioned. Lately I just needed some encouragement to help me put things into perspective, as I've been experiencing a season of weariness. This session with these first ladies has been a breath of fresh air to my soul. This Ministry has been SUCH a blessing to me, I honestly believe God led me to this KZbin video today. To the family and loved ones of Dr Lois Evans my prayers are with you. Her legacy continues to live on. God bless you all.

[@wendywoos1008]

Oh my god! I am a single woman and a pastor. I came home from church and i thought let me see if their is any program about pastors. And i came across this one. Thank God this is helping me right now. Thank you ❤️

[@jeanniedillard8827]

I don’t understand why do pastor’s wives are calling themselves First Lady, when they should be the only ladies that their husband is married to. First Lady isn’t biblical at all. These ladies are our sister who is serving beside their husbands, who is called to leave God’s people. To many labels in the church, this is just to setting yourselves up highly highly then they should be. Yes I do believe that the body of Christ which is the church should respect marriages and pastor wives, I am asking this with no shade behind it. I hear to many single women that wanting to be a First Lady and I don’t understand this when Pastors and their wives are servant of God’s people.

[@poet82n]

I think it just means your the 1st Lady of the church, not necessarily 1st lady of the pastor as if he had a second lady as well. It's just something that sort of stuck over the years. Not really sure how it came about.

[@MsVarie]

I read somewhere that it also has its roots in the slavery era. Most churches were full of women and the pastor's family. First lady was a distinction to show who the pastor's wife is in the church.

[@sherriealexander737]

First lady is a sign of respect for the pastor of the church wife" The Pastor is the leading man in the church the 1st lady just that 1st lady stop being jealous give honor to whom honor is due......

[@annettestadmire2238]

Jeannie Dillard I agree with you.

[@thyslop1737]

Because people do not read their Word. Not familiar with these woman other than the many videos I have watched of T D Fakes and his so called ministry. He is a buffoon, a clown butchering the Scriptures. He is running a show, a carnival where he barks and shouts and struts about as though that masquerade substitutes for spirituality, growth and edification. That these ladies do not have enough discernment, nor shame to be identified as such in this area is testament to the incredible deception taking place in the church. Being called First Lady imparts nothing to you. It does not somehow set you apart other than self aggrandizement.

[@patriciaterry4652]

I needed this! Women of wisdom helping and holding each up! This is Awesome! I’m just now learning of sister Lois what an Amazing woman of God🙏🏼🙌🏽 May she Rest In Peace😘I love these women👏🏽

[@ashleystephangilliard3331]

I wish i could put my son to bed. He is 2 and wont go to sleep 😂😂

[@onthebeat4466]

The term first lady is not constitutional. It came about in the USA because England once ruled America and England had Kings & Queens. So America had no such thing so they came up with this first lady title which has moved from Hollywood to the business churches.

[@sawilsondtownpa]

no 1st lady is not in the constitution- I don't know who said that- but it is what we call our US spouse- it is a term of endearment,respect for a woman sort of thrust into a position of prestige because of her husband. It came out in the church I assume hen someone felt that the pastor's wife was an integral key to her husband's spiritual and pastoral success and that of the church. Most people mean it as a term of respect and honor. It is not a Biblical term but t is also not satanic- there are lots of positions, ministries and titles that are not in the Bible- or intended specifically for the church such as co-pastor, asst. pastor, trustee, sexton, minister of music, minister,praise team, children's ministry ,armor bearers----- as in everything- there are times when things get out of control.... but these women are attempting to help other women in the same position to thrive as wives, women of God and women of influence

[@evereen35]

Rachael Holness were called Elect Ladies 2 John 1:1

[@prophetpssamuelchristthero6183]

This discussion encouraged me so much,thank you all

[@sonyawood3978]

I love this information just being a wife. You all are a blessing to the body of Christ!

[@genovevamurorunkweri981]

Father thank you for this it is not a coincidence nothing in the Kingdom ever is ,women of God thank you for your obedience

[@Blkqwn7]

I watched this once before and it was good to watch and listen to it again. I grew up in the church and was raised to believe that God sent those of us on the pews to assist the pastor and First Lady. I vividly recall once when my childhood pastor rebuked and reprimanded the women in the church for not assisting the First Lady without her having to ask for the help. Reminding the women that they are the laborers that he had prayed to God for and should do their part. It was a given without being said that you just don't mess with the first lady. I recall the women received the word humbly from the pastor with tears and then later actions of amending their error and not anger or bitterness. I left the church when I became old enough to do so and returned in 2011. The things I have witnessed in the churches since my return is very sad. I've seen first ladies working their behinds off and none of the laborers lifting a finger to help unless the first lady ask for help. Once when I mentioned to a few of the sisters about the need to help our first lady they became defensive and told me if the first lady needed help then she should ask! I've seen women within the church group together in clans, taking on positions within the church of Sunday school and bible studies teachers, then using those positions to gain power over the church. These women were actually running things right into the ground and the pastor seemingly unable to do anything about it, eventually one of the pastors resigned. My daughter came home from work telling me about coworkers who hated their pastor and first lady so that they were plotting behind their backs to the board working craftily to get them out of their positions, saying things such as this is my church I have been here longer than them! Something is happening within the church and we as women hold a huge responsibility to check our own selves and spirits making sure that we are being honest about what is going on with us, asking the pastor and first lady for help in prayer to break and loose footholds before they become strongholds. This is not about us, but God. The pastor & first lady are always the head of the church and to mess with that order is messing with God.

[@thyslop1737]

There is no such thing as a FIRST LADY anywhere in the Scriptures. There is a reaaon to leave the so called church with pastors who are not feeding the sheep, but are hiding behind bloated, self important titles, twisting and perverting the Scriptures while simultaneously enriching themselves by selling Christian entertainment masquerading as edification and insight.

[@zukisahogana6508]

@@thyslop1737 I don't agree with you Sister May God give you the wisdom and grace to know when you are wrong and show you how to correct,your thought process for His glory. Let us embrace pastors wives in the same way we would embrace girlfriends.Then we would see the glory of God shining upon us and our families like never before Then the devil that wants to use us for the downfall of others, will be shamed!! I'm writing from Pretoria,South Africa Amen

[@thyslop1737]

@@zukisahogana6508 If you had a ounce of discernment and read your Scriptures you would know that her husband is a false teacher. No where in the Scriptures is there reference to a First Lady.

[@officialhealingthewounds]

Here I am. Back. For the 2nd time. This is so incredibly necessary. And I am soaking it all in. Thank you, Ladies. You have made a difference.

[@LadyRenada]

Beautiful words from these ladies. I am grooming myself. an preparing now to be a first lady.

[@JustinRWhite]

Beautiful ladies! I can feel their love and sincerity. First Ladies are some of the SWEETEST human beings to ever live

[@CharaMcGill]

She said “it’s hard to vent down. You have to vent up.” Wowsers....love it

[@patricialewisforbes7932]

I'm extremely bless and inspired watching this video as a Pastor's wife

[@cassandradeans784]

I have watched this more than once and love doing so b/c there are such rich spiritual nuggets to gain! I am not a Pastor's wife, but I have relatives and friends, which helps me to know how to pray for them. I continue to be grateful for Dr. Lois Evans's video recordings that allow her teaching and legacy to be shared with me and others. Praise God from Whom All Blessings Flow!

[@alejandratash]

This is so so so so good 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@christineelizabethhorner5829]

How do you include people with mental, developmental and physical disabilities in your church?

[@jaisharp1165]

so thankful this gathering came across my "recommended for you"...these women are so AUTHENTIC and AMAZING!

[@anoruolauritta8369]

This is really amazing. God bless you all. Lois Evans, may your soul rest in peace.

[@crystalgrose]

PREACH Sis. Jada!!!!!!

[@joyceharvey410]

I'm not a pastor's wife and this was still amazing and helpful! What wisdom these awesome beautiful first ladies shared from their hearts! Rest in peace Ms. Lois Evans. What a lovely Soul!💖

[@billielara3563]

Thank you so much powerful women of God. Praying for you all. Praying for Pastor Evans and family.

[@sindiswathwala9372]

We must be married to date,Amen! Thank you first Ladies for such a powerful discussion,Really needed to hear this,I'm about to get married to a wonderful man of God soon soon...

[@kirkbrown2147]

There's no such thing as first lady in God's words

[@omolarabangura]

The Lord sure brought this my way. It's amazing how lonely one can be as a pastor's wife in the midst of so many people. Finally I got people who I can connect with. So uplifting. God bless you all!

[@missharris1880]

I love you Serita Jakes xx

[@gqamynkabinde3607]

Great well done ladies!!

[@melodyjohnson9119]

It's not your church, it's the Lord's church.

[@sawilsondtownpa]

it's a figure of speech- they know that- like a person says- my job, my kids- even though they belong to mother and father---- they understand that they have a responsibility in the particular church to which their husband has been called/employed

[@pinksilverqueen1197]

I wonder why God called certain women to be wives of Pastors; I'm not a pastor wife ,but been told many time I will be ; I'm not in a rush for that, I told Jesus ,I don't know how to be that. I told him,I just clean church , stay in the back I'm happy. I just want to be a prayer warrior. That's it.

[@Taytimethursday]

Pink silver Queen ppl put to much emphasis on this man made title. At the end of the day just be a good wife to ur husband.

[@sharonadams2858]

Great words of wisdom and encouragement. Thank you ALL.

[@rolaine733]

O wow this is really good, the woman with the glasses lots of wisdom. Thanks for sharing, this was great.

[@marshasmith7124]

Thanks so glad I heard this. Not been a pastor wife long. But it's been so hard.people seem to judge about everything. Watch and listen to everything you do.I'm expected to do all if Sunday school teacher im suppose fill it ect. And times when things go guess who's blamed. I've just find it overwhelmIng

[@louisesirls9352]

RIP FIRST LADY EVANS, she was so humbled to be in a large church. I know she went out of Her way to stay in her self.

[@chingboihangsing5470]

Very encouraging discussion indeed. Watching this for the third time from India ❤️🙏

[@vanessasmith5280]

God bless Ms Lois Evan's "TWEET"

[@Lisa-hj3nc]

PHENOMENAL WORDS, AMAZING TRANSPARENCY from All The Pastor's wives. Thank you so very much for your words of wisdom, encouragement and tips shared..

[@kaefreemanduchess719]

🌷🌿The Beautiful First Lady Dr.Mrs. Evans🌷🌿RIP🌷🌿This one it is my favorite Video about Pastor's wives I love this one so much WOW First Lady Mrs.Jakes

[@laurettabaldwin1082]

Oh my goodness this was phenomenal!! I have been a pastors wife for almost 5 years and to hear words of encouragement and your stories. God Bless you and Thank you.

[@faithben4851]

This is still encouraging even in 2022.... Continue resting well madam loice Evans .

[@macksministry3866]

Lird, please allow me to stay at Bible College till I graduate, with better than passing grades, without the hardship I am having mastering the material.

[@evereen35]

Everyone wants the light but no one wants the heat. Soooo True

[@loriesmith6944]

R.I.P. Pastor Louis Evans Gifted Mighty Woman of God

[@dianariley1067]

This is so awsome!!❤ And so many divorces, especially in the church. Could have been, and can be prevented in the future. If this conversation were discussed on a regular basis. Thank you ladies. 😊🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👍🏽God Bless you all.

[@pauletteadams4262]

Loved the openness and transparency shared around the table from these beautiful women of God. So much wisdom and insight. RIP Lois Evans. You had such a beautiful warm spirit.

[@lsmenterprisesllc5597]

I watched this twice and really enjoyed it, RIL Dr. Lois Evans you were a pillar in the body of Christ, all the women on the panel were awesome!

[@s.g.4823]

What a dynamic conversation! Thanks for sharing! Amen! 🙏🏾❤️

[@KeebasWorld]

RIH Lois Evan such a great woman of God. ❤❤❤

[@hyacinthwilliams1177]

Hallelujah! Truth! God first! The individual! the family! Then the church. Amen

[@DonnaHall8117]

Wonderful and very informative information

[@rosettajones1161]

Pastors wives are special and my prayers are with you all. Not only on the panel but everywhere. For me I would never want to be a pastor's wife, it is just not me, but I am a praying woman who will have your backs and support you. I am a widow after 22 wonderful years of marriage, the best time in my life was spending those years with my late husband. On another note, the first pastor wife Jackie, in the orange or red dress talked way too long! Leave enough time for First lady Sereta Jake's and the other first lady, Jada. We must share the table you are not the only one we need to hear. I was waiting to hear the other women of God. So First lady Lois Evan's called on First Lady Jake's; she is inspiring. Love all of you and stay strong for your husbands and families.

[@Jenesem1]

I love this. I am a pastors sister and this has blessed me dearly.

[@loriesmith6944]

And Dr.Tony We have been following Him 4 20 years William & I.

[@valicia1140]

Powerful opening 🙏 my God I needed to see this!

[@Journeyofthehouse]

amazing just wonderful

[@jdfodio]

This is beautiful to see and hear. It's encouraging to see Christian women supporting each other. Thank you. May God continue to bless and prosper you, your marriages/families, your friendships, your congregations, and your ministries.

[@agathathomas7534]

THANK YOU!! TREAT THEM AS THOUGH YOU ALREADY KNOW THEIR STORY. THANK YOU!! AMEN!! I NEED TO PRAY THIS PRAYER. AMEN!!

[@tamelacole478]

I was Blessed to know what it is like to be a PASTOR WIFE......GOD IS AWESOME

[@loriesmith6944]

All you Have Bless me Sooo.

[@winifredjpittman7551]

I'm a (pk) preacher's kid but this was healing to intake. Lots of good wisdom!

[@rubydavis8603]

hey sis Evans I was once a member of oak cliff I have always always admired your lady qualities you are truly an amazing lady God continue to bless you and your family enjoyed listening to all the first ladies such wisdom and insight in that room

[@tootiesmall816]

Mrs Jake is very humble she keeps it real and she is not one of these want to be she got it going on l love her she's very pretty and popular l like her she is a for a real lady

[@belpri633]

The woman in the orange dress loves God and she has a meek Spirit. Easy to see! Praise God