7 Mistakes Pastors Wives Should Not Make | mildred kingsley-okonkwo

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[@edenphilemon7459]

I want to applaud every pastor's wife who saw this video and clicked on it. I'm a pastors daughter so I have some knowledge from my own experience and also being around a lot of pastors' wives. So, I think I'm not the only one who's first reaction seeing this video was "Here we go again" like she said, the expectations and rules on how to be can be overwhelming. This is why I know that it must have taken courage, discipline, a determination to get it right and HUMILITY for many of us to click on this video. And to my pleasant surprise, it wasn't a bashing or shaming but a space where we could feel safe, put down our walls and listen to someone who understands and isn't speaking from a "high pedestal" I should've expected nothing less from Pastor M. I just felt the need to acknowledge and appreciate the pastors wives who watched, and tell you that God is happy and proud of you. You are mothers of nations so keep equipping yourselves for your role, His grace is sufficient. God bless you🙏❤❤❤

[@janineakaliche6726]

7 mistakes pastors wives should not make 1. Don't fight the church ( God's wife) 2. Don't confuse hospitality to access. Isaiah 39: don't allow everyone access into your home. Have clear boundaries 3. Don't assume you belong to the church. Don't be entitled be grateful whenever your members do something for you. 4. Never take prayer as optional.... YOU CAN NOT FO LIFE WITHOUT PRAYER. 5. Forgetting that you live in a glass house. Don't throw stones be careful. 6. Forget to live for an audience of one. Live to please God. 7. Never forget that you husband he's 1st a man then a man of God. He has weaknesses too. Wow thank you Pastor M. Receive much love ❤️ from a pastor's wife here in 🇰🇪🇰🇪

[@sandrakotey2558]

Thank you for this.

[@angelsampson4517]

Thank you Pastor.

[@lydiajuma7468]

Thank you sister

[@Jennykuri]

About a year ago this message Pop on my timeline and I refused to listen to it because I'm not a pastor's wife or praying to marry a Pastor... Well I'm engaged to be married to a pastor in less than 2 months from now and here I am listening to this message 🥺

[@TamandaniMsyamboza-wv9cu]

😂so funny...all the best

[@khurstydalhia3781]

Funny enough... this is equally what I'm experiencing today😅

[@88niteowl88]

How is it going?

[@PROSPERTEDDY]

I am one of those who never planned to marry a pastor but it was a plan of GOD. I am glad God is teaching me how to embrace the call.Thank you so much mum for this great insight

[@tory518]

Am not a pastors wife and am not married but I just love listening to her 😩😃

[@ifouzezi]

I am a guy, even! 😁 She's just amazing!!!

[@maryglorysalala6216]

Likewise here I love and celebrate Pastor Mildred

[@annvic3996]

I know right, i learn something everytime i listen to her

[@amazinggraceukpai3783]

Me too o. Like I came to listen cos after all, my future husband is a priest over my head😊

[@tory518]

@@ifouzezi Am telling u, so amazing 🥲

[@A_living_Stone]

As a single lady, I felt chills just listening to you speak 🔥

[@telormeli6007]

❤❤ Wow, I was so blessed by watching this video. There is so much I want to say because I’m a young Pastor’s wife and a very new one too. My husband was already a Pastor when I married him and we’ve been married for a year and some months. God bless you so much for sharing this. I was “wowed” from the introduction to the very end. It kept getting better and better at every point and I didn’t even want it to end. I really love the way you backed everything with scriptures. It really kept me going and wanting more. I don’t know when this video was made but the message is so fresh, practical and real for me. Obviously, I can say more 😂 but I’ll just end here. I really like you already even though it’s my first time seeing you or hearing about you. I even want to meet physically 🙈. I pray God grants me that privilege and opportunity. I’m so excited that’s why I can’t stop bubbling 😂. Ok I’ve stopped 😅. God bless you so much Pastor M❤. Thank you 😊🙏🏽

[@ChatsWithFlo]

“your home is not your church.” 🔥🔥 It took me years as a pastor’s wife to realize that. We have to be careful about who we allow in our personal space. If I would have learned this when I became a pastor’s wife years ago, it would have saved me a lot of heartaches.

[@neva3010]

I have upheld this early on. Ministry life helped me protect my home. Especially for my children

[@user-ud9yd9rg7w]

Thanks ma you have bless my soul today

[@jacquelinemaliwa7400]

My first question is where were you 14 years ago when I got married 😊😊 but I know God's time is always the right time, my sister I just want to thank you for this wonderful teaching, all these mistakes you are teaching I have made them and I just pray that there is still time for me to rectify them. Please continue teaching is cause when I got married I was never taught about prayer or how to pray for my marriage, my husband,myself, my children . All what I knew to pray for was to pray for the ministry , pray for the church pray for the pastor, we got so good at praying for all these things but never did someone teach me to pray for my own things. i just wanted to say thank you women of God

[@thaduchess242]

I'm a Pastor's daughter. This helped me tremendously to even cover my own Father.

[@edenphilemon7459]

me too, i now realize the reasons for some of the things we've faced as a family over the years. I understand now that we aren't like everyone else, we don't have that luxury. Effectively upping my prayers now. Cant wait to share this video with my mom🙏 God bless pastor M

[@ogunsoladare2613]

GOD BLESS YOU AND GREET YOUR MOM FOR BEING THERE FOR THE CHURCH, FAMILY, AND THE ANGEL OF THE CHURCH. THE LORD WILL HELP YOU ALL TILL THE END.

[@blisshouse3123]

1-Ne pas combattre l'église parce que le mari n'a pas assez de temps pour toi ou la maison. 2-Limiter les visites à la maison(mari, maison, famille)ne pas abuser de l'hospitalité 3-Ne pas croire que vous (femme) appartenez à l'église, ne rien attendre des membres 4-Penser que la prière est facultative 5-Se réserver, se taire, être éveillée car vous êtes un standard. 6-Oublier ce que disent les gens et vivre selon le standard de Dieu 7-Ne jamais oublier que votre époux Pasteur est un être humain, ne pas l'élever au point de Dieu.

[@shamelesskay2737]

This has really blessed me as a Pastor's wife💖Thank you Pastor Mildred💖

[@mariaperez4761]

I woke up this morning & God told me to find an answer as to how I must develop myself in the ministry because I’ve been stuck. I’m not in love with a pastor but im in love with the Pastors son who is as involved in the ministry. Being a member of the church/leader/evangelist doesn’t mean I’m prepared to marry the pastoral ministry & I’ve been terrified because I’ve been feeling neglected, shaken, misunderstood & depressed. The Lord presented me these answers. this video has shown I’ve been doing it all wrong & I must change & receive the wisdom of the Lord. Even if things do not work out with him God has called me to prepare. I cannot be more grateful for this video. May the Lord continue to bless your ministry.

[@somie4040]

If u are d only reason tube n insta was invented its so worth it.i thank God 4 ur life.thanks for blessing us with ur msges

[@eleanornkwenti3551]

As a pastor's wife, this has changed me. It's my first listening to you ma, but you have inspired me ans blessed me.

[@ellacarteraernan9393]

Me too sis. This was just what I needed. Awesome words of wisdom.

[@arrahtheguitarrah9805]

I am very certain God made me stumble in this message for a greater reason. 41 minutes transforming a hundred added years of previous snd current lives of many women. My first time watching this woman and my innerman says yes. Anointed cool voice to convince the confused. I personally Thank you ma.

[@Nana-ob4xv]

Clear distinction between hospitality and acess. 🙏🙏🙏👏👏madam God bless you, am not a pastors wife but I find it very useful 👏👏👏👏👏watching from🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲

[@Odiaabel1563]

Pastor Mildred is a big gift. This is the best message on pastors' wife I have ever listened to. She's not sarcastic in her message like some that I know. I can recommend this to my wife because your manners is something to emulate

[@nakijjobarashidah1252]

Am a Uganda in Jordan am grateful for teaching me.

[@learnwithsteph4573]

Thanks for sharing this mom , I’m engaged to a pastor now and I’m trying to learn as much as I can to be a support to him and good with people although we can’t please everyone

[@thepreciouspeopletv]

I think we have something in coming. Being engaged to a pastor. God's wisdom is in excess for us in Jesus name.

[@learnwithsteph4573]

@@thepreciouspeopletv we’re waiting

[@Jennykuri]

@@thepreciouspeopletv well welcome your newest member 😁😁

[@thepreciouspeopletv]

@@Jennykuri thank you 👏🏽

[@mpumintuli6960]

Thank you. I am not married to a Pastor but this was helpful n insightful even to a single Christian woman

[@grace2excell]

tenor

[@Pendo737]

This is not only for pastor ‘s wife, it concerns every conscious Christian women. thank you very much. God blessed you

[@jeanettemolotsi9688]

Yes this is applicable to all of us woman life learnings, that's why I liked it when she said "you cannot do life without prayer". Just try doing life without prayer and see fire flames. Im sending my appreciation to you Pastor Mildred all the way fro..South Africa Pretoria.

[@sophia4christ]

These are valuable tips for anyone in any position of influence. Thanks so much Pastor Mildred for such commitment to excellence.

[@mildredkingsleyokonkwo]

Thank you

[@grace2excell]

true

[@ritagyan9325]

@@grace2excell to God

[@peacesanusi6576]

I can't explain the GRACE you carry ma. I am always blessed by the words of wisdom from your mouth. I have sent this message to almost all the Pastor's wives I know. This message is very key. I am also learning even though I am a single. God bless you more in Jesus name.

[@jerutomercie6484]

Yes ma....I needed this in preparation to...more grace

[@joanneclarke4226]

Thinking prayer is optional💥🔥🙏♪🤲Prayer is our breadth in this life...husband and wife must pray before bed and before leaving your marital home and even in between the hours of the day💥🔥🙏🤲🙌👌thank you Pastora for speaking this truth.

[@TeeNCee2521]

I love the manner with which you explain things, especially thinking that our husbands as pastors are infallible. God bless your ministry ma

[@diortchapmeni3514]

Ooooo my GOD this IS the kind of message i was looking for.

[@londiwemaphumulo7265]

You are indeed a blessing to this generation ❤

[@yolanwilliams7483]

I needed this message, and I'm not even a Pastor's wife! God knew I needed pastor M, so He put her on my stream. I'm binge watching. Can't get enough!

[@queeniyekekpolor1835]

Thank you so much ma for this. I am currently engaged to a pastor and I am in the category that never wanted to marry a pastor but here we are. I've been looking for things to help me navigate and make the transition. This is super helpful. God bless you ma. Everything is spot on.

[@waltrudgondwe2307]

ah this one is for any wife oo, not only for pastors wives. truly blessed me oo. "your husband is first a man before he is a man of God." chai. Thank you PM for this teaching

[@grace2excell]

amen🙏

[@sbonisosbanda7865]

It my first time to know you mom bt lein a lot thank you for your wonderful teaching 🙏🙏🙏

[@rachaelokoloeze4572]

One more thing ma, please 🙏🙏 can you do this more often? Talking to pastor's wives more often. Sincerely I need more of this as a young pastor's wife. Or if you have a platform where you mentor young pastor's wives in ministry, I will love to register. Thank you so much!

[@peaced.ekemini1316]

Wow...! I thought I knew what to expect until I watched and stayed glued till the end. Thank you Mama! You are indeed a blessing to the body of Christ, God bless you🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@user-zk5vw1hd1h]

More grace ma

[@chinishfathbasile9324]

I as a man so blessed by this message and the presence of God while listening, thank you ma ! May the Lord increase you.

[@lynangati6501]

"When you get to the point where your mind is renewed you will only know that it's the word that works"🙌. This one hit me.... Thank you very much Ma you are truly and inspiration. Been learning so much and seeing the results already since I started following you about a week ago and the Lord is still doing Marvellous things as I continue to follow your spirit filled teachings. Love all the way from Cameroon 🙏

[@grace2excell]

amen🙏

[@testimonyvictoria1057]

Wow ma

[@SnizhanaSvirid]

I'm so thankful for your wisdom. Thank God for your ministry

[@deborahbascombedeborah.bas6734]

I am a pastor's wife and I always receive the Word from you. Thank you. Somertimes The Lord reveals what you should pray for through dreams. Blessings to you and your Husband.🙏

[@chukwuemekacaleb]

This is awesome! I simply love your teaching woman of God. Would love to listen to more of your teachings. I think every Christian sister should listen to your teachings.

[@samanthajohnbull5265]

Pastor M, I fall into the second category. I keep praying for strength cos I never prayed for this at all. May God keep strengthening you for all of us. Weldone Ma.

[@arizoniabusisiwe8444]

Thank you woman of God

[@jumokejohnson9903]

Am a pastor’s wife.. it is extremely challenging honestly.. not fun at all..i wish you had a mentoring program where you can share more with us ma.. most times i really need someone to talk to..behind all d fake smiles and facade am really hurting inside..

[@eleanornkwenti3551]

Am with u on this. The stress is not easy.

[@idowu0704]

I'm with you as well. Let's us prayerfully consider encouraging each other weekly. God bless you tremendously

[@designercaress]

Wow Prophet/Pastor wife here, I understand, more grace to you both! And joy in the midst

[@PROSPERTEDDY]

Same here...May His grace be sufficient for us all🙏🙏

[@fj_channel4525]

Truth, Maybe coming together to see what the Lord will help accomplish. I pray for grace and mercy upon all the helpers in ministry ( pastor's wives). Strength is released upon you 🙏

[@VivianNwankwo-mk4ne]

AMEN Thank you so much Ma

[@KimmyD-eyesonjesus]

Identity..... access..... prayer not optional.... remain his wife first. I am a young pastors wife. Just a couple of months in...i am sooo greatful for this word.. God bless you. Wisdom

[@seyramadubah-asante9942]

Its the authenticity for me😀.God bless you Mummy 🙏🙏

[@grace2excell]

yes

[@WUNi23]

Best advice ever for Minister's wives. Honest and full of wisdom

[@ea201]

Pray until you become prayer 🤣🤣Love that! Thanks for this powerful message 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@feliciaighile8322]

I am not a pastor wife, but I love your teaching , God bless you ijn

[@maameekuabaidoo5572]

Love, love, love this!!! It's been such a blessing watching this video. God richly bless you, Ma'am. Much love

[@mercyayodele5305]

Wow....God bless you PM

[@roshanmakhole1101]

WOW!!!!!!!!!!! Love this!! very enlightening pastor M! thank you!

[@nwobiarita5375]

Even if you decide to stop pastoring right now...the sermons that you've already dropped will be more than enough to last a life time. God continue to increase you in wisdom and grace. God bless you ma. I love you so much!

[@lorrainebuchanan9481]

Absolute wisdom! Thank you

[@sondanjy6694]

Amen thank you Lord for this

[@nancycoker4054]

Thank you very much ma, I'm grateful.....

[@anthony.igbinosun]

Wisdom on display. Thank you! And I thank God for using you.

[@olastephen1996]

I love your teachings MA, GOD bless you

[@ooyeniyi5300]

Hmmm pray with understanding, thank you for being transparent

[@kateduke2535]

Thank you ma'am for always being real and teaching undiluted word of God

[@ambakani3078]

Thank you Pastor Mildred. Listening to you ignites something in me. This message was so necessary!!

[@funmilayoolatunji7361]

Thank You Ma. Quite profound teaching. God bless your Ministry, Pst. M.

[@painsdeden3831]

Thanks, Pastor M.

[@dzifadordoh3623]

I love you Pastor M ❤️!God bless you for this wisdom.

[@theharbinger2282]

You are so sweet Pastor Mildred... I love you.. More grace....

[@ladonnagoines5484]

Thank you so much for being obedient to share. God bless you always.

[@gloriaekanem4049]

Thank you ma. I celebrate you and your ministry. I was blessed by this message.

[@ntsakomavunda9018]

Sharing this to the pastor's wives in my circle....Thank you Mma

[@Thatzamgeriangirl]

Profound teachings Pastor M... sending love Ma ♥️♥️ God bless you 🙏

[@shadekotejumade5850]

Thank you. I am blessed.

[@susanodhiambo6379]

Thank you for the Words of Wisdom.More Grace.

[@asabereafiapokuaa9245]

Thank you so much Pastor M. May God continue to bless you.

[@tolistical]

You're an amazing woman, full of wisdom. I'll listen to you more often. God bless you, Ma.

[@jawnettagreen5083]

Awesome teaching and confirmation. Thank you for your godly wisdom!

[@ellacarteraernan9393]

My God you are helping ALL of US today. Hallelujah!!!!

[@udochiobunaonye5968]

Hmmmm. Deep! Thanks for this beautiful message! More grace.

[@user-en7jd6ko5c]

Thsnk you ma 👍 I'm bless by watching this powerful massage. Thank you Jesus for using such a woman to be a blessing to her generation 🔥

[@happinessumoru8490]

God bless you my sister.

[@florenceidehen6515]

I love this... Thank you ma

[@euniceosamudiamen2420]

Thank you ma'am

[@konnectwithKike]

God bless you and increase you .Love from United Kingdom 🇬🇧

[@londiwemaphumulo7265]

Thank you for the words of wisdom.

[@MrSironide]

Pastor Kay is soooo blessed.... Wow!!!!

[@eseemasodje1485]

I love you ma'am and your teachings. Prayer is truly not an option.

[@shillahkemboi9338]

Thanks ma for the wonderful teachings I get every time I listen to you. More grace. Much love from Kenya

[@valerieclemence2965]

Thank you for your wisdom! Your videos always have the presence of God in it!

[@mpinganandemufao6936]

Thank you very much woman of God. This is so powerful.

[@jenniferomenna8476]

Thank you so much ma, for this teaching ,

[@user-gj1qb4wk9r]

I really love this!

[@chimechijindu1253]

Exactly God bless you ma That's exactly what I do tell my husband, that we are shepherds does not mean we shouldn't have our privacy. Everyone wants access to rooms and kitchen and everywhere in the house, but it shouldn't be so.

[@EM-qj1cc]

God bless you MA for the wisdom!

[@agathawangechi4817]

Wow thank you for the teachings

[@oyeniyijanet9986]

Im speechless cos I'm super blessed with this message. Thank u Pastor Mildred. God bless you

[@theresareeves3249]

Thanks for this message, I'm learning a lot. Amen

[@marysunday1989]

Absolutely beautiful

[@Omolola_Adigun]

Woooow Thank you very much for this. God bless you ma. More of God's wisdom and grace. AMEN.

[@tarisotzendera6758]

Pray till you become prayer🔥🔥🔥🔥. This made my day. You are a blessing ma.

[@lisamojela]

Thank you Lord for the woman of God's life😊🤗

[@malikiyasusana3336]

Thank you Mildred 🙏🙏