7 Mistakes Pastors Wives Should Not Make | mildred kingsley-okonkwo

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[@janineakaliche6726]

7 mistakes pastors wives should not make 1. Don't fight the church ( God's wife) 2. Don't confuse hospitality to access. Isaiah 39: don't allow everyone access into your home. Have clear boundaries 3. Don't assume you belong to the church. Don't be entitled be grateful whenever your members do something for you. 4. Never take prayer as optional.... YOU CAN NOT FO LIFE WITHOUT PRAYER. 5. Forgetting that you live in a glass house. Don't throw stones be careful. 6. Forget to live for an audience of one. Live to please God. 7. Never forget that you husband he's 1st a man then a man of God. He has weaknesses too. Wow thank you Pastor M. Receive much love ❤️ from a pastor's wife here in 🇰🇪🇰🇪

[@sandrakotey2558]

Thank you for this.

[@angelsampson4517]

Thank you Pastor.

[@lydiajuma7468]

Thank you sister

[@Jennykuri]

About a year ago this message Pop on my timeline and I refused to listen to it because I'm not a pastor's wife or praying to marry a Pastor... Well I'm engaged to be married to a pastor in less than 2 months from now and here I am listening to this message 🥺

[@TamandaniMsyamboza-wv9cu]

😂so funny...all the best

[@khurstydalhia3781]

Funny enough... this is equally what I'm experiencing today😅

[@88niteowl88]

How is it going?

[@edenphilemon7459]

I want to applaud every pastor's wife who saw this video and clicked on it. I'm a pastors daughter so I have some knowledge from my own experience and also being around a lot of pastors' wives. So, I think I'm not the only one who's first reaction seeing this video was "Here we go again" like she said, the expectations and rules on how to be can be overwhelming. This is why I know that it must have taken courage, discipline, a determination to get it right and HUMILITY for many of us to click on this video. And to my pleasant surprise, it wasn't a bashing or shaming but a space where we could feel safe, put down our walls and listen to someone who understands and isn't speaking from a "high pedestal" I should've expected nothing less from Pastor M. I just felt the need to acknowledge and appreciate the pastors wives who watched, and tell you that God is happy and proud of you. You are mothers of nations so keep equipping yourselves for your role, His grace is sufficient. God bless you🙏❤❤❤

[@user-on6bu9si5g]

Amen 🙏

[@PROSPERTEDDY]

I am one of those who never planned to marry a pastor but it was a plan of GOD. I am glad God is teaching me how to embrace the call.Thank you so much mum for this great insight

[@tory518]

Am not a pastors wife and am not married but I just love listening to her 😩😃

[@ifouzezi]

I am a guy, even! 😁 She's just amazing!!!

[@maryglorysalala6216]

Likewise here I love and celebrate Pastor Mildred

[@annvic3996]

I know right, i learn something everytime i listen to her

[@amazinggraceukpai3783]

Me too o. Like I came to listen cos after all, my future husband is a priest over my head😊

[@tory518]

@@ifouzezi Am telling u, so amazing 🥲

[@blisshouse3123]

1-Ne pas combattre l'église parce que le mari n'a pas assez de temps pour toi ou la maison. 2-Limiter les visites à la maison(mari, maison, famille)ne pas abuser de l'hospitalité 3-Ne pas croire que vous (femme) appartenez à l'église, ne rien attendre des membres 4-Penser que la prière est facultative 5-Se réserver, se taire, être éveillée car vous êtes un standard. 6-Oublier ce que disent les gens et vivre selon le standard de Dieu 7-Ne jamais oublier que votre époux Pasteur est un être humain, ne pas l'élever au point de Dieu.

[@telormeli6007]

❤❤ Wow, I was so blessed by watching this video. There is so much I want to say because I’m a young Pastor’s wife and a very new one too. My husband was already a Pastor when I married him and we’ve been married for a year and some months. God bless you so much for sharing this. I was “wowed” from the introduction to the very end. It kept getting better and better at every point and I didn’t even want it to end. I really love the way you backed everything with scriptures. It really kept me going and wanting more. I don’t know when this video was made but the message is so fresh, practical and real for me. Obviously, I can say more 😂 but I’ll just end here. I really like you already even though it’s my first time seeing you or hearing about you. I even want to meet physically 🙈. I pray God grants me that privilege and opportunity. I’m so excited that’s why I can’t stop bubbling 😂. Ok I’ve stopped 😅. God bless you so much Pastor M❤. Thank you 😊🙏🏽

[@A_living_Stone]

As a single lady, I felt chills just listening to you speak 🔥

[@ChatsWithFlo]

“your home is not your church.” 🔥🔥 It took me years as a pastor’s wife to realize that. We have to be careful about who we allow in our personal space. If I would have learned this when I became a pastor’s wife years ago, it would have saved me a lot of heartaches.

[@neva3010]

I have upheld this early on. Ministry life helped me protect my home. Especially for my children

[@carolpatty5016]

I tell you my sister...may the grace abound to us

[@apoloniakengachatoh7083]

Thanks so much Daughter of the Most High God. I am a mother who has been so concerned about what you've just shared. Alot of applause has been given to women by the men generally. Its time for women to rise up and begin to share more of these weaknesses so that together we can improve on ourselves and become virtuous women. The more virtuous women we have in our society, the more pleasant society will be. Training skills and ability for humanity is in a woman. Thanks so much Daughter, it was not only for pastor's wives but equally to all the women by me.

[@user-on6bu9si5g]

Amen 🙏 God bless you Ma and God bless your Ministry In Jesus Christ Name Amen

[@rachaelokoloeze4572]

One more thing ma, please 🙏🙏 can you do this more often? Talking to pastor's wives more often. Sincerely I need more of this as a young pastor's wife. Or if you have a platform where you mentor young pastor's wives in ministry, I will love to register. Thank you so much!

[@shamelesskay2737]

This has really blessed me as a Pastor's wife💖Thank you Pastor Mildred💖

[@jacquelinemaliwa7400]

My first question is where were you 14 years ago when I got married 😊😊 but I know God's time is always the right time, my sister I just want to thank you for this wonderful teaching, all these mistakes you are teaching I have made them and I just pray that there is still time for me to rectify them. Please continue teaching is cause when I got married I was never taught about prayer or how to pray for my marriage, my husband,myself, my children . All what I knew to pray for was to pray for the ministry , pray for the church pray for the pastor, we got so good at praying for all these things but never did someone teach me to pray for my own things. i just wanted to say thank you women of God

[@alheriemmanuel9145]

Honestly as a pastor wife l am grateful for this wanderful massage love❤

[@user-en7jd6ko5c]

Thsnk you ma 👍 I'm bless by watching this powerful massage. Thank you Jesus for using such a woman to be a blessing to her generation 🔥

[@somie4040]

If u are d only reason tube n insta was invented its so worth it.i thank God 4 ur life.thanks for blessing us with ur msges

[@thaduchess242]

I'm a Pastor's daughter. This helped me tremendously to even cover my own Father.

[@edenphilemon7459]

me too, i now realize the reasons for some of the things we've faced as a family over the years. I understand now that we aren't like everyone else, we don't have that luxury. Effectively upping my prayers now. Cant wait to share this video with my mom🙏 God bless pastor M

[@ogunsoladare2613]

GOD BLESS YOU AND GREET YOUR MOM FOR BEING THERE FOR THE CHURCH, FAMILY, AND THE ANGEL OF THE CHURCH. THE LORD WILL HELP YOU ALL TILL THE END.

[@sophia4christ]

These are valuable tips for anyone in any position of influence. Thanks so much Pastor Mildred for such commitment to excellence.

[@mildredkingsleyokonkwo]

Thank you

[@grace2excell]

true

[@ritagyan9325]

@@grace2excell to God

[@eleanornkwenti3551]

As a pastor's wife, this has changed me. It's my first listening to you ma, but you have inspired me ans blessed me.

[@ellacarteraernan9393]

Me too sis. This was just what I needed. Awesome words of wisdom.

[@Nana-ob4xv]

Clear distinction between hospitality and acess. 🙏🙏🙏👏👏madam God bless you, am not a pastors wife but I find it very useful 👏👏👏👏👏watching from🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲

[@learnwithsteph4573]

Thanks for sharing this mom , I’m engaged to a pastor now and I’m trying to learn as much as I can to be a support to him and good with people although we can’t please everyone

[@thepreciouspeopletv]

I think we have something in coming. Being engaged to a pastor. God's wisdom is in excess for us in Jesus name.

[@learnwithsteph4573]

@@thepreciouspeopletv we’re waiting

[@Jennykuri]

@@thepreciouspeopletv well welcome your newest member 😁😁

[@thepreciouspeopletv]

@@Jennykuri thank you 👏🏽

[@joanneclarke4226]

Thinking prayer is optional💥🔥🙏♪🤲Prayer is our breadth in this life...husband and wife must pray before bed and before leaving your marital home and even in between the hours of the day💥🔥🙏🤲🙌👌thank you Pastora for speaking this truth.

[@yolanwilliams7483]

I needed this message, and I'm not even a Pastor's wife! God knew I needed pastor M, so He put her on my stream. I'm binge watching. Can't get enough!

[@peaced.ekemini1316]

Wow...! I thought I knew what to expect until I watched and stayed glued till the end. Thank you Mama! You are indeed a blessing to the body of Christ, God bless you🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@mpumintuli6960]

Thank you. I am not married to a Pastor but this was helpful n insightful even to a single Christian woman

[@grace2excell]

tenor

[@user-ud9yd9rg7w]

Thanks ma you have bless my soul today

[@sondanjy6694]

Amen thank you Lord for this

[@lorrainebuchanan9481]

Absolute wisdom! Thank you

[@SnizhanaSvirid]

I'm so thankful for your wisdom. Thank God for your ministry

[@nakijjobarashidah1252]

Am a Uganda in Jordan am grateful for teaching me.

[@olastephen1996]

I love your teachings MA, GOD bless you

[@mercyayodele5305]

Wow....God bless you PM

[@roshanmakhole1101]

WOW!!!!!!!!!!! Love this!! very enlightening pastor M! thank you!

[@susanodhiambo6379]

Thank you for the Words of Wisdom.More Grace.

[@MrSironide]

Pastor Kay is soooo blessed.... Wow!!!!

[@shadekotejumade5850]

Thank you. I am blessed.

[@Folake_Speaks]

Thank you Pastor Mildred

[@theharbinger2282]

You are so sweet Pastor Mildred... I love you.. More grace....

[@VivianNwankwo-mk4ne]

AMEN Thank you so much Ma

[@chinishfathbasile9324]

I as a man so blessed by this message and the presence of God while listening, thank you ma ! May the Lord increase you.

[@TeeNCee2521]

I love the manner with which you explain things, especially thinking that our husbands as pastors are infallible. God bless your ministry ma

[@kateduke2535]

Thank you ma'am for always being real and teaching undiluted word of God

[@maameekuabaidoo5572]

Love, love, love this!!! It's been such a blessing watching this video. God richly bless you, Ma'am. Much love

[@DrEzinneErhirhie]

This message is from above No person can say these things except God be with them I like how it exudes from you ma that you are indeed a branch of our Lord Jesus Christ. This message has made me pray more.

[@londiwemaphumulo7265]

Thank you for the words of wisdom.

[@annodianosenayewoh944]

God bless you ma.pastors wives need this education.

[@malikiyasusana3336]

Thank you Mildred 🙏🙏

[@dzifadordoh3623]

I love you Pastor M ❤️!God bless you for this wisdom.

[@konnectwithKike]

God bless you and increase you .Love from United Kingdom 🇬🇧

[@asabereafiapokuaa9245]

Thank you so much Pastor M. May God continue to bless you.

[@Omolola_Adigun]

Woooow Thank you very much for this. God bless you ma. More of God's wisdom and grace. AMEN.

[@nancycoker4054]

Thank you very much ma, I'm grateful.....

[@jenniferomenna8476]

Thank you so much ma, for this teaching ,

[@gloriaekanem4049]

Thank you ma. I celebrate you and your ministry. I was blessed by this message.

[@udochiobunaonye5968]

Hmmmm. Deep! Thanks for this beautiful message! More grace.

[@ellacarteraernan9393]

My God you are helping ALL of US today. Hallelujah!!!!

[@florenceidehen6515]

I love this... Thank you ma

[@funmilayoolatunji7361]

Thank You Ma. Quite profound teaching. God bless your Ministry, Pst. M.

[@ooyeniyi5300]

Hmmm pray with understanding, thank you for being transparent

[@EM-qj1cc]

God bless you MA for the wisdom!

[@kumlovelineenjeh3356]

Am so blessed mum thanks a lot more grace

[@agathawangechi4817]

Wow thank you for the teachings

[@mpinganandemufao6936]

Thank you very much woman of God. This is so powerful.

[@valerieclemence2965]

Thank you for your wisdom! Your videos always have the presence of God in it!

[@rachaelokoloeze4572]

Thank you so much ma for sharing these great tips, I am truly blessed!

[@marysunday1989]

Absolutely beautiful

[@ntsakomavunda9018]

Sharing this to the pastor's wives in my circle....Thank you Mma

[@NkeirukaBennethRNBNSc]

This is powerful, Thank you Ma.

[@peacesanusi6576]

I can't explain the GRACE you carry ma. I am always blessed by the words of wisdom from your mouth. I have sent this message to almost all the Pastor's wives I know. This message is very key. I am also learning even though I am a single. God bless you more in Jesus name.

[@user-gj1qb4wk9r]

I really love this!

[@Akambamarie]

Thank you mother

[@aliceasseri2410]

Pastor M you're so wise..

[@tolistical]

You're an amazing woman, full of wisdom. I'll listen to you more often. God bless you, Ma.

[@ladonnagoines5484]

Thank you so much for being obedient to share. God bless you always.

[@pascalinegates2494]

I love that wisdom.

[@lisamojela]

Thank you Lord for the woman of God's life😊🤗

[@bongiwemiya4984]

Blessed...thank you Pastor M🙌

[@theodoraca4013]

Thank you for this Pst M.

[@msdots5541]

God bless you Pastor M. May God's hand continue to rest upon you in Jesus name.

[@mariaperez4761]

I woke up this morning & God told me to find an answer as to how I must develop myself in the ministry because I’ve been stuck. I’m not in love with a pastor but im in love with the Pastors son who is as involved in the ministry. Being a member of the church/leader/evangelist doesn’t mean I’m prepared to marry the pastoral ministry & I’ve been terrified because I’ve been feeling neglected, shaken, misunderstood & depressed. The Lord presented me these answers. this video has shown I’ve been doing it all wrong & I must change & receive the wisdom of the Lord. Even if things do not work out with him God has called me to prepare. I cannot be more grateful for this video. May the Lord continue to bless your ministry.

[@MrEAC1977]

You are speaking wisdom!

[@chinwesdiary9175]

Thank you PM

[@jeanettemolotsi9688]

Yes this is applicable to all of us woman life learnings, that's why I liked it when she said "you cannot do life without prayer". Just try doing life without prayer and see fire flames. Im sending my appreciation to you Pastor Mildred all the way fro..South Africa Pretoria.

[@reginathomas4813]

Thank you Ma'am ❣️❣️❣️

[@SM7SM7SM7]

Thank you, the points are full of wisdom

[@afuadonkor3504]

God bless you more for enriching our lives. This is just what I need

[@thegracedlifenetwork8812]

Wow! What a lesson, thank you so much ma for this message. Learnt me so so much

[@florencetendo9833]

Thank you woman of God.for this message

[@euniceosamudiamen2420]

Thank you ma'am

[@bonangbiancamohamadi1896]

Thank so much.... this was beautifully put...

[@arrahtheguitarrah9805]

I am very certain God made me stumble in this message for a greater reason. 41 minutes transforming a hundred added years of previous snd current lives of many women. My first time watching this woman and my innerman says yes. Anointed cool voice to convince the confused. I personally Thank you ma.

[@lbntv5319]

😁 Thank you so much Ma! I LOVE YOU MA!❤❤❤

[@happinessumoru8490]

God bless you my sister.

[@mildredmiti2786]

practical teaching thank you woman of God

[@nicolebanks5266]

Thank you for this

[@Nisile_116]

Profound teachings Pastor M... sending love Ma ♥️♥️ God bless you 🙏

[@londiwemaphumulo7265]

You are indeed a blessing to this generation ❤

[@diortchapmeni3514]

Ooooo my GOD this IS the kind of message i was looking for.

[@jerutomercie6484]

Yes ma....I needed this in preparation to...more grace