London Police's Warning to Nigerian Women

[@tehillahaugustinaali-emele7831]

"It is better safe than sorry", nothing can be truer 👌

[@yesstv3952]

Very true

[@glindaclark64]

Hello baby girl

[@yesstv3952]

@glindaclark64 hey mama

[@gabrielekorhi3889]

Hmm you don't know women misuse opportunities from time?

[@yesstv3952]

I hear your concern, and I understand where you're coming from. Yes, it’s true that in any situation-whether it’s men or women-there are individuals who may misuse opportunities or systems. This happens in many areas of life, not just in relationships or legal matters. But it’s important not to generalize based on the actions of a few. Women, like men, are complex individuals with different motivations and life experiences. Some may misuse opportunities, but many genuinely seek justice, safety, and fair treatment. It’s crucial to have a balanced perspective and recognize that while a system can be misused by some, it also serves to protect those who truly need it. At the end of the day, the focus should be on promoting fairness and accountability, while also ensuring that those who genuinely need protection or support are not undermined. We need to address these issues with a mindset that seeks solutions, not division.

[@Mthab75]

Ur a very bias in ur arguments and not worth listening to..

[@yesstv3952]

Thank you for your feedback. I appreciate that you took the time to express how you feel, and it’s clear that something I’ve said didn’t resonate with you. As a life coach, my goal is always to encourage open dialogue, even when we don’t agree. Bias can come from many places, and it's important to recognize that we all have different perspectives based on our life experiences. If something I’ve said felt one-sided or unbalanced, I’m open to understanding more about your point of view. Growth and understanding come from respectful discussions, and I would love the opportunity to hear your thoughts so we can address any gaps together.

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[@yesstv3952]

Thank you

[@delerahmat1192]

You nailed it Femi. You have thoroughly analysed it.

[@yesstv3952]

@@delerahmat1192 thanks mama

[@akinwumiajayi1785]

What about majority of women this days from Nigeria who lie of been abused and raped by the husband in the western world. When both couples were living in Nigeria, there was peace. Now that they have move to the US or uk, they become something else because the law protects women😮u

[@yesstv3952]

It sounds like you're concerned about the dynamics between couples that change after relocating to a different country, especially when it comes to issues like abuse and the protections offered by laws in places like the US or UK. It’s important to acknowledge that every relationship is different, and while some may experience conflict after moving, this doesn't mean that all women are lying about abuse or manipulating the system. When people relocate, there are significant changes in lifestyle, expectations, and even personal freedom, and this can sometimes create tension in relationships. In Nigeria, societal pressures or norms may have influenced how couples interact, but in other parts of the world, women (and men) may feel more empowered to express dissatisfaction or seek help if they feel mistreated. However, it's vital to avoid generalizing or assuming that the legal protections offered to women are misused or exploited on a large scale. Abuse, in any form, is a serious issue and should be taken seriously, regardless of where the couple lives. The law’s role is to protect vulnerable people, and while there may be instances where the system is misused, that doesn't negate the fact that many women (and men) are genuinely in need of protection. It's important to encourage healthy communication, understanding, and respect in relationships, whether in Nigeria or the Western world. If a relationship was peaceful before and now faces difficulties, addressing those underlying issues with honesty and respect can often bring clarity and healing without jumping to assumptions about manipulation.

[@chidon4286]

Oya continue reporting to police, small time una go they look for husband foolish women in UK and London even you the owner of this platform is not making sense because u need to differentiate when a case can be reported and not

[@yesstv3952]

Thank you for sharing your perspective. It’s clear that there is some frustration around understanding when to involve authorities in personal matters, and I completely get that it can be a sensitive area. However, I believe it's essential for women to know their rights and the importance of protecting themselves, especially when their safety or well-being is at risk. Reporting to the police isn't about being foolish or lacking common sense; it's about empowerment and understanding when to stand up for oneself. Women have the right to determine when they feel unsafe or threatened, and that includes knowing when to involve the appropriate authorities. Each situation is unique, and learning to navigate those decisions from a place of strength is a critical life skill. Instead of seeing this as a matter of labeling women as foolish, we should encourage conversations around boundaries, respect, and self-worth. That’s how we create empowered, confident women who understand the power of choice in any situation.

[@Sachealbrainbox]

Even here in Nigeria... Women are becoming something else... I can feel the disturbance the UK police are feeling ...

[@yesstv3952]

Interesting comment

[@yesstv3952]

I hear your frustration, and I understand the concern about changes in societal dynamics. It's important to acknowledge that we’re living in a time of rapid shifts in gender roles, expectations, and power dynamics globally-not just in Nigeria or the UK. Women, especially, are becoming more vocal about their rights, choices, and boundaries. This can be uncomfortable for some, but it's also a sign of empowerment and societal evolution. In Nigeria, as well as other parts of the world, women are becoming more aware of their options, rights, and opportunities to stand up for themselves, which can sometimes be seen as “becoming something else” when compared to traditional expectations. This shift can be disruptive, especially when institutions and cultures are adjusting to accommodate new levels of independence and equality. Regarding the UK police, it’s true that navigating cultural and legal differences with immigrants can pose challenges, but it’s crucial for every society to strike a balance between protecting individuals and ensuring fairness in how laws are applied. The key is finding ways to address these changes through dialogue, understanding, and respect for both men's and women's experiences, rather than focusing solely on the disruptions they cause. Change can feel unsettling, but it's also an opportunity for growth and better understanding between genders and across cultures.