Look + Feel Stylish When It's COLD! - How to become friends with your wardrobe in winter!

HELLO! Welcome to my channel. I took a month off and it's good to be back!
I'm Kristen Cain... The Simple Stylist. I'm a style and mindset coach who loves to share how simplicity in your wardrobe makes it easier to get dressed and look amazing.
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[@wendybarker590]

On one of the hottest days of our summer, am finally home from a Saturday morning op shopping (thrifting), and trying to cool off with aircon, ice pack, chilled drink, and drapes pulled. Also dreaming of my favourite seasons - autumn and winter - when I layer on my favourite garments. Have always been the queen of jackets and coats, and I seem to have several.😊 Layers, accessories, boots, gloves, bring it on. I can't cope with summer!

[@KristenCainStyle]

Hi Wendy! Love this!! I can picture you trying to stay cool while watching me talk about staying warm! I have friends in AU and Tasmania ... we chuckle about our temperature and wardrobe differences. Sending cold weather vibes to you! ❄️

[@andreaf.6572]

Same! I hate hot weather. 😊😊

[@SuperTracilee]

Montana born and raised. We just had -30 degree weather here 2 weeks ago, this week it’s 50 degrees! 😅 I think what you said makes a lot of sense, if you have clothing that keeps you warm and you feel good in, winter seems better and it’s fun to get dressed-even if you have to go out and brave the cold, you’re prepared for it. If you don’t have those things, you can dread it more.

[@KristenCainStyle]

Exactly! And -30 might be beyond my limits! I do love how Montana, Colorado, and Utah all fluctuate so much and there's often a temporary reprieve from deep winter. Thanks for your comment. 💝

[@annamichelle3248]

This gave me some helpful ideas. I live in West Africa, but when I'm back in the US for three months to a year,, I'm based in NW Montana. I don't hate winter, but I prefer warmer weather. When I'm back in MT in winter after years of hot weather, I struggle. Even if I'm fine emotionally, the shorter days and lack of sunshine make me feel tired. A few of these things I was already doing, like adding some color and coziness. I like the coziness of home in the winter, and I'm going to lean into that more when I am next back. Twinkle lights are something I hadn't thought about, and I'm excited to use them. One thing you said really struck me, "A belief is just a thought we keep thinking." I wrote it down, it's going in my journal!

[@KristenCainStyle]

Thank you for your comment. Seems like your two climates and locations are quite different! I'm sure it can be challenging to adapt. Twinkle lights (and battery candles on a timer) make a huge difference in my mood when I'm home and it's dark. Also, the idea that a belief is just a thought we keep thinking blew my mind when I first heard it!! I believe it was Abraham Hicks who I heard say it years ago. So true!! Thanks for watching. 🩵

[@l.l.lekens6610]

I love winter, as any other season, it has its own rhythm, its own seasonal magic, its own vegetables, its own festive days, its own expectations. As for dressing for winter, I like the chunky sweaters combined with skirts, the winter white trousers, I like the layering, the chique wintercoats, the tall boots, ... we can dress so elegant in wintertime. BTW, I love your pink sweater. 🤍 Good content!

[@KristenCainStyle]

Hi Leen- You've inspired me to love winter more ever since we first met. Seeing you stay true to your elegant style even in cold weather made me realize how much mindset is at play. Thank you for your perspective! Stay warm, my friend. 💖 And thanks... seems pink is having a moment in my closet. Stay tuned!

[@l.l.lekens6610]

@@KristenCainStyle Thank you Kristin, for your kind words!

[@michelemarotta2874]

Ohio gal here. I literally just got good winter boots and a long winter coat. I'm 63!! I am outside frequently with my dogs. Great video!

[@KristenCainStyle]

Hi Michele- Love meeting another Ohio gal! Buckeye forever! Good boots and a a long coat make all the difference. That's awesome! 💕

[@amikrenzel5788]

For me a huge part of winter dressing is being warm enough especially outside. I love tracking thru the snow in snow boots, a big puffer coat with layers, hat and good gloves. I am also a skier and my ski clothes have to be colorful as well as keep me warm. The long underwear and warm socks are Winter essentials.

[@KristenCainStyle]

Hi Ami- I haven't personally skied in years, but I'm surrounded by incredible skiers here in Utah! They inspire me to layer in new ways! I've thrifted some long underwear for wearing under trousers when it's bitter cold. And I'm collecting lots of fun socks! 🩵

[@PeonyLadyKim]

Great video, Kristen, you have been missed. You look so pretty in this shade of pink. Currently it is -32 outside here in Fairbanks, Alaska and we have another week of the same weather until it warms up to -10. Ahhh Winter, I don't hate it, but don't love it either - Winter and I have made peace to coexist. I am a retired Interior Decorator, flower farm owner and a part-time antique booth dealer. And in the Winter I am a "Nordic Princess". Faux fur, cashmere, merino, wool, denim, scarves, all kinds of leather boots and booties - color, pattern and sparkle carry me through until Spring (April here). We still have the Christmas tree up as we had many January birthdays to celebrate. It is soooo dark here in the Winter, but we are gaining daylight now - a few minutes a day. I gained quite a bit of knowledge from today's video, thank you. There are a few new things I may implement. Also, I don't know if anyone else has mentioned - the sound volume seems very low. I watch you on my P.C. and have to turn on my auxiliary speaker to increase the volume (I even put in my hearing aides :) )

[@KristenCainStyle]

Hello, Kim- Thank you so much for your comment. I didn't see anything else about the sound. I'm so sorry about that... I'll double check the settings when editing the next video. Thank you for letting me know. And... Nordic Princess!! This is my favorite!! I can picture it! What a beautiful way to celebrate the season you're in right now. I'm enjoying the additional minutes of daylight each week! ☀️ I'm always happy when spring arrives!

[@carrieb9106]

hi Kristen, I hate winter! I'm 67 years sick, sick, sick of Chicago winters. First, I would like a happy light for SAD. I think it would help with depression. Next, I hate being cold. This winter I made my bed extra cozy: a new blanket, Rina's beautiful bedspread, a quilt my grandma made, and a bedspread to top everything off. My next purchase will be flannel sheets. I love your idea of fairy lights. Around my windows, over my bed, wherever I think looks good. That's another thing to save for. Ok. I need new curtains. Mine are thin and they don't match. I could use two different colors, but I need them to be the same style. See? You're getting me thinking! I have to admit, I'm not as sure about making clothing changes. I have a cool coat, it's down, but I have to layer it with another down under it. Boots: yes, if I could find an affordable pair that's different from my very typical black snow boots. I don't have a cool hat or mittens. I just grab whatever is there. The fun part would be going shopping in a winter fit that is warm enough and makes me feel happy. Or going to dinner, coffee, whatever. The parts I hate but can't change are scraping my car, starting my car in sub zero, almost getting hit by our crazy snow plow drivers, 34:51 driving in slush. Change what I can, accept what I can't. My dream move would be Arizona or San Antonio (the only place in Texas that I'd live). Or, Mexico or Portugal or the coast of Spain. If I'm ever brave enough to do it alone!! ❤thanks, Kristen!😊🔆🔆🔆🔆🔆🔆

[@KristenCainStyle]

I LOVE your change in perspective!!! You've got this. Once you begin to tap in to the next version of yourself and give her permission to show up fully... watch out world! 💞

[@clara3322]

Very interesting! I don’t like cold weather, and live in Scandinavia. I tend to buy great quality coats, I try to buy them in the sale and then wear them for many years. This season I have a new green one that is very practical and it resists water, and it’s a lovely color, and I get compliments on it from other women. It’s great when the winter coat can be a splash of color, somewhat elegant, and also useful. It’s a tall order though.

[@KristenCainStyle]

Hi Clara- Thanks for sharing! I'm always curious about women who live in Scandinavia and how they do it... and do they love winter?! Thanks for the peek inside. Your coat sounds beautiful and so practical because it also resists water! Great find! 💕

[@pamg2132]

I love your analogy of the "must have list"!

[@Lotusblume.8]

I love winter but I hate summer in south Florida. I spend the whole time inside because it’s so hot and I’m always sweating even indoors. I don’t like my clothes either. Can you make a video for humid summers? 😊

[@KristenCainStyle]

Oh, south Florida can be tough. Are you on the east or west coast? My mom lived in Cape Coral for years! The humidity was fun to visit... and difficult to dress in when not vacationing. I'll add this to my list of upcoming video topics. 🩵 I do think that not liking your clothes could be part of the issue. 😉

[@Lotusblume.8]

@@KristenCainStyle Thank you💕!! I live on the east coast lol. I’m just so over tshirts and shorts I think. Haha! I absolutely love your pink sweater that your wearing! 🌸

[@marionannmacredie]

It’s boiling here in Kiwi land and yet today it’s suddenly pouring with rain! Did you know something about the weather that I didn’t?? So great to get your videos again and in your absence realise why I love your videos - they aren’t cookie cutter and delve deep into the whys. I have Xmas twinkle lights in my room always… I love them but will look at the happy light! 💞💞💞💞💞

[@KristenCainStyle]

Hi Marion- Thank you! I love that this video arrived with some rain for you! I'm glad my video content feels a bit different than the rest. Mindset is such a huge part of what I do that I can't offer just style tips anymore. Thanks for the warm welcome back! 💝

[@karencrecco2922]

I loved Lake Placid. I wore winter white outfits, furry hats, and matching boots.I also love black leather gloves lined in fur and I have a Cossack looking double breasted black wool coat and black leather high boots. I love led lights and my fireplace

[@KristenCainStyle]

Your comment makes me almost ready for the seasons to change!! Thank you! ☺️

[@sheristrybos5831]

I feel this way about summer! I really dislike it but in Texas is very long and miserable… at least to me!🙄

[@lose999]

You're back!! Happy New Year. Our Texas winters are unpredictable; one day it freezes, the next day is high 60 temps. I love wearing baby blue vests and colorful scarves.❤

[@KristenCainStyle]

Thanks! You too! Ooh, baby blue vests with colorful scarves sounds like an awesome winter signature for your climate. 🩵

[@christry1]

Lovely to see you back and with such good advice. One thing I would add is that footwear is so important. This is always a challenge if you want to look put together but insulated boots with good grippy soles are essential IMO for walking in ice and snow.

[@KristenCainStyle]

Yes! Boots and footwear make such a difference. I defaulted to thrifted classic Uggs for years. They did nothing to enhance my outfit and I disliked winter enough that I wasn't willing to buy something I liked more. I've changed that and now have a small collection of boots that are warm, dry, and grippy! 💘

[@youtimeful]

Color in winter was a huge aha for me. I realized I need color and not just grey and black. So now I have great fleece jackets, including a sunny yellow, and it has been great. I also realized I need to wear a little camisole under things to keep my torso warm. Game changing.

[@KristenCainStyle]

Yes to color! I noticed several years ago that I'm happier in the winter when I incorporate more color into my outfits. Pinks and bright blues usually make an appearance. Your sunny yellow fleece sounds wonderful! ☀️

[@sheilarhea]

I'd agree with those who said Outerwear- it makes all the difference. I live in TN and we have temperature swings, but can mostly get away with a lightweight winter jacket/coat- but I love having a variety to choose from, some purchased new, some thrifted, and some decades old! I definitely get excited when it's cold and I know I've got appropriate and pretty outerwear choices. I can remember years of going without the right coat for the weather, and what a difference it makes. And when I'm ready for a change, or to cull, there are always places to donate to help others in need. Welcome back from your holiday break!

[@KristenCainStyle]

Hi Sheila, Thank you! Such a great point about donating the coats we no longer wear. Always someone ready to give them a new life. 🫶

[@connienunez9924]

Now that I'm retired, 80% of my time "in public" is just walking around to do errands in the neighborhood. When it's cold I'm wearing my white puffer coat (which I do love for look and warmth) but I always think..."well, I could literally be wearing pjs underneath and who would know... have to wait until spring to display my style again" I don't think changing the pant from knee down makes a huge difference. Waist up has the most significant impact on my look

[@KristenCainStyle]

I hear you! All the more reason to have outerwear you love and feel great wearing!

[@andreaf.6572]

Total opposite - I’m in Alabama and have never been able to tolerate the heat very well. It’s gotten worse as I’ve gotten older. Went through chemo a couple of years ago and anything above 70 degrees is rough!! I have always loved snow, cold weather, and dreary weather!!!! I get more energy in the winter!!! I’m very pale too - the sun and I do not get along!! I jokingly call myself a vampire!!! I love coats and jackets and sweaters and boots !!!! I LOVE the few truly cold days we get where I live. It’s early March 2024 and I’m already dreading the summer heat. Needless to say - I stay inside as much as possible during the summer and crank up the A/C!!!!

[@KristenCainStyle]

Hello, Andrea- I'm wishing you a cool summer! I'm sure that navigating the heat is difficult for you. Hoping you have a few lightweight pieces that you enjoy wearing when it's hot! 🌺

[@MostlyCaffeinated]

There is so much to outerwear. If your boots and your coat are things you hate, the whole season of dressing is icky. You're going to wear your coat every single day for months! Every day! Have to have one you actually LIKE. (I've lived in Wisconsin my whole life. When I stopped trying to wear puffers or other such outerwear, and bought two A-line wool jackets, I am infinitely happier to walk out the door.

[@KristenCainStyle]

Yes!! Having coats you love wearing is key! I resisted this for a long time. Once I started 'collecting' coats I actually liked... getting dressed for cold weather became more fun. 🩵

[@carrieb9106]

I'm from Chicago, and there is nothing that I like about a Chicago winter (except to see it go🤣) I don't think it's possible to look "cute" here. I can't afford North Face or L L Bean, etc, but I do need to be warm. I found a decent and pretty cool looking camo pattern down coat on Amazon for just under $100 two years ago. I still have to wear another coat (a thin, doen coat) under that! I'd love to have both: style and warmth. ❤❤❤

[@KristenCainStyle]

Hi Carrie- I can only imagine Chicago winters! Philadelphia wasn't much fun. The damp cold is tough to escape and can make it difficult to feel stylish and warm enough. I do know some very stylish women who live in Boston and NYC. They manage with great layers, coats, boots, and hats-gloves-scarves. Lots of pieces required... and spring will arrive soon! 🌷

[@carrieb9106]

@@KristenCainStyle hi Kristen! Yes, layers are the answer to keeping warm! I even layer my down coat with another thin down coat! I just thought--thrift stores sometimes hide diamonds - never know what you'll find 'less you go mining! ❤️

[@aliciavelice3806]

I like dressing in sweaters and warm clothes, my current problem is hot flashes, I am learning to layer in such a way that I can be cool then Warm then cool again. But if anyone has any advice i would be grateful.

[@KristenCainStyle]

Thanks for your comment! I completely understand that struggle. I just added that to my list for upcoming videos. Stay tuned... and stay cool! 🩵

[@marionannmacredie]

Ha ha I’m thinking Taylor Swift- red beanie, red n white Chiefs jacket… and I know nothing about NFL 👠💄👠. I would love a travel video. I’m going to my son’s formal wedding at a vineyard on an island . It’s only day one travel on ferry and attend rehearsal dinner, day two wedding and day 3 home. But I’m traveling alone and worried mostly about handling my luggage. It seems like because it’s a wedding I will have to take hair equipment etc and I know all these extras add to weight. I have a very light roller suitcase but am fearful of rolling it overboard. I would love just a backpack but think it would hurt my back. I’m planning 3 dresses, one for each formal and one spare in case one falls overboard. Would love any ideas you have about travel and keeping the dresses in good condition. 💞💞💞💞💞💞

[@KristenCainStyle]

I love the Taylor Swift image! We'll be seeing her version in February! Ooh, the wedding adventure sounds amazing! Agree that the backpack could be bad for your back. It would be for mine. The rolling back will be easier on your body and the dresses. The ferry must have rails to keep bags from rolling out to sea, no? Hope so! I'll add a travel video to my list. Thanks!

[@marionannmacredie]

Thanks Kristen for helping me sort that one out! Are you going to another Swift concert !? Oh I guess you mean the Superbowl!😁 will make sure I’m glued to the screen! I heard tickets were selling for Nz $20.000🙀🙀

[@KristenCainStyle]

@@marionannmacredie Yep, Super Bowl! I'll be watching from home also.