Losing Our Virginity - feat. Our Wives

The Mythical wives join the podcast for the first time ever! Listen to R&L, Jessie, and Christy discuss the first time they all lost their virginities on their respective wedding nights, the key to maintaining a vibrant sexual relationship all these years of marriage, and more on this Sextember episode of Ear Biscuits!
EB #304, Original Release Date: 9/27/2021
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[@hurricanecatrina9548]

as someone who basically grew up with these guys, i never would have thought that I would hear Rhett tell us he’s obsessed with “cunnilingus”

[@MoneyMoisture]

What is “cunnilingus”?

[@tamd5670]

@@MoneyMoisture when dude gives head to woman

[@General12th]

@@MoneyMoisture IT'S WHEN THE GIRL PEES IN YOUR HAIR :)

[@lemons_66]

@@General12th damn, if you're lucky 😂 lmao

[@lemons_66]

To be fair, he does like to eat hahaha

[@theunimportant196]

I knew Link was cheap but THIS IS FREE is on a whole different level

[@ICar-co2kx]

Best bargain since the two for one

[@ndobug6231]

a man on a budget 😂😭

[@danicegewiss862]

Lol. I love how his mind works. The best was Rhett saying 'you paid for it before?'

[@fairytalegoesbad8724]

I am CRYING of laughter

[@jadenhetzner4662]

this was so funny 😂

[@cianleonizoabad]

These guys aged like fine wine.

[@therapyseshpod]

I would also do them…I mean I agree

[@emilymulcahy]

They married out of their league then grew into being in their league

[@ballaplayz]

@@therapyseshpod 😂

[@iluvcookieluv747]

@@emilymulcahy facts!!!!!!

[@adriennebaer5837]

Best comment lolz

[@JimboJS]

"The best thing I can do as a parent is to work on my own shit so that I don't project it onto my kids." Jessie just dropped a gem that I'll carry with me into parenthood, whenever that day may be. - 56:36

[@chewyjello1]

There is so much truth in it. I wish I would have taken this advice before I became a mother. Unfortunately therapy that is not Christian therapy can be hard to find and even harder to afford in some areas. :/

[@EmilyRoman]

Idk why but for some reason I didn’t expect Jessie and Christy to have such strong southern accents.. but I love it

[@dayquangarrett4818]

Have you seen the LTAT episode where stevie paints them? It's hilarious if you want more of them and their accents 😂

[@maneater901]

ok

[@marfaxa]

It's not really that strong, as someone from a few counties over. It's strong for LA. In Buie's Creek they'd be Liberals or carpet baggers.

[@smashingintoyou]

It’s probably because Rhett and Link have practice to have a more centralized accent for all of the different shows that they have done. Also I imagine Rhett and Link have had more experience with people outside of North Carolina because of their line of business long before Chrissy and Jesse moved with them to Cali.

[@VideoMeltdown]

Their kids get the best of both worlds, growing up in California but their mom has a cool, homey accent

[@michaelandkrystaltucker6091]

If they come on again, it would be super helpful to highlight Jessie's pic when she is speaking and highlight Christy's pic when she is speaking. Just until we learn their voices 😊

[@joakuz]

Yes!! That’s what I was thinking the whole time! Please do this

[@the_minimalistic_adventure]

Yep. I was thinking the same. Would have helped me differ better!

[@AllAsparagus]

That’s exactly what I was going to comment!

[@Joylevinstein]

I was fully expecting the pictures to be highlighted as I am used to it happening on work calls on MS Teams.

[@3llevate]

Yess please.. this

[@RatQueer]

Hearing Rhett's experience described as life changing followed by Jessie calling it "anticlimactic" was absolutely hysterical. Edit: hearing the ladies speak about their experience was very interesting, would love to hear more from them.

[@jorrrrdynnnn]

@@kroneexe put in more effort dude

[@houseplantnerd2872]

I think for the " first time" for boys/men this is the most common situation. Unless the man has spent a great deal of time educating himself on pleasuring the woman first, the first time. 😉

[@jorrrrdynnnn]

@@kroneexe the whole story is irrelevant. Regardless of what it is, as a partner it's your job to put in more effort to help her with whatever the issues are. Whether that's physical effort, emotional effort, or mental effort. I'm not saying it'll be a quick fix, just make sure you try

[@fivemjs]

Our wedding night was hysterical. Both virgins laughing our heads off. We went to Taco Bell afterwards and then came back and did it again :-)

[@Alex82332]

@@kroneexe don't let other people make you feel inadequate, man, if you put in an honest effort and communicate with your partner, don't worry about difference in experience. I think most people got you wrong because of "that's how it usually is", because in my personal experience it's quite the opposite, meaning women felt much more then I did. But if you meant " There's usually a difference in experience" , not "guys have more fun than women", then I agree with you. To others I want to say, that people sometimes have issues that cannot be overcome with effort. My girlfriend can't do anything about my depression, and she shouldn't feel that she doesn't put in enough effort.

[@GiveMKellKid]

To hear adults near my parents age talk about having wonderful relationships but that also go to therapy is so touching. I am so happy you all are so passionate about your mental health. It’s only something I wish my parents would be open to

[@4yer4]

absolutely, same here ! :,)

[@kouizumi9484]

This comment aged me eighty years.

[@the_minimalistic_adventure]

“My parents age”. That sounds weird when talking about adults who are only 42-43 years old. Lol. That comment ages them so much! It’s still fairly young.

[@GiveMKellKid]

@@the_minimalistic_adventure No, they are literally still very young! Just closeness in age-wise they are near my parents age of 56 rather than my age of 24 haha

[@GiveMKellKid]

@@kouizumi9484 I just meant they're closer to my parent's age D:

[@niltoncabraljunior]

hjahahahahahaha Link's first time being "THIS IS FREEEEE" is the most Link thing ever hahahahha

[@ibustanut]

"so you're not saying you're free, you're saying THIS was free" lmao

[@caseywest8650]

Opposition

[@christinecannibal844]

I was dying laughing 😂😂😂 it was totally typically link !!

[@JakeGunst86]

I’m kinda surprised he didn’t account for the price of the condom.

[@marmotarchivist]

I laughed so hard at this, that the neighbours must be asking themselves some questions. 😂

[@cynthiacarrion6453]

I am so grateful for Jessie and Christy spoke on theirs side of purity culture. And just how damaging it can be, especially when you have kids. Thank you so much ladies!!

[@kaytarracorrea25]

Agreed

[@JewelBlueIbanez]

I can’t speak for evangelicals, but as a Catholic, things have improved greatly and the errors of the past approach to chastity are being fixed. I do think traditional chaste courtship needs to make a comeback.

[@paolacrown868]

Bring back the purity 🤍🤍

[@Aidynoh]

@@paolacrown868 we should allow people to do what they want to do outside of purity culture without judging them 😐

[@mr400meter]

Why?

[@conernedperson264]

The best advice I ever got about raising kids was from my ex wife. She told something I had never considered and she got it from a loving caring person. The advice was: we are not raising children, we are raising adults. Changed my life in so many ways that I can’t even explain it.

[@Glim246]

Really interesting how a few words can open your mind to a completely different way of thinking about something. Hope you're raising some wonderful adults, the world could use them.

[@Aetriex]

This is what my mom said about how she raised me. Two things that I will bring into how I one day raise my family: 1. I am raising an adult, not a child. 2. I am not your friend, you have plenty of friends. I am your mom, and it is my job to love you so much that I am okay with you not liking me sometimes.

[@SmittenKitten.]

We started teaching our sons about money (how to earn it, how to save it, how to invest it, and how to borrow) when they were around 10. They are 13 and 15 now and have their own credit cards - they each have a single credit card, that is. They are earning credit steadily while learning how to handle money. We want them to have credit when they go to college and beyond, and if we don't teach them about money now, they'll be like fawns learning to walk on a highway. We all need to remember we're raising adults.

[@marshmallowdj8543]

Why’d you guys divorce then

[@Claraimal]

​@@marshmallowdj8543 Sometimes, life is like that. Love is gone, or goals change. Staying together is not always the best option, and its certainly not the only option.

[@jess-tu6jc]

Rhett: My entire life changed, my head exploded, I saw fireworks in my brain, it was the moment I had been waiting for my entire life Jessie: It was anticlimactic.

[@JLC48]

Which is pretty typical in my opinion. The woman feels the invasion and pain. Eventually it does get better, but that first time...definitely different for a woman.

[@jessieqk12]

@@JLC48 and in that religion women usually feel a lot of shame the first time.

[@francoomarlopezlopez]

@@JLC48 it's typical, but it's not normal Women have no reason to feel pain their first time as long as it's done right Some of y'all should study women's anatomy before you get into one lmaoooo

[@Robin-hi8oq]

@@francoomarlopezlopez ironic

[@delaneyreyes8995]

@@francoomarlopezlopez THISSSSS!!! It is not suppose to hurt and that’s something that I wish I would have known.

[@maryjo3255]

Christy and Jessie big kudos to both of you for sharing so personally and publicly. It was great to hear your ladies' perspective-in conjunction with Rhett and Link. Maybe ya'all will join EB in the future with other topics too!

[@TheBosborn]

All four of them are well spoken, and good listeners... More four person EBs would be a treat!

[@DaveDuncanMusic]

Its crazy how Rhett and Link lost their accents but their wives havent.

[@Momof4furbabies]

I think it’s just their professional voices.

[@DaveDuncanMusic]

@@Momof4furbabies I think they've discussed it before and how they made an effort to lose the accent so they could be taken seriously. So yeah, I think you're right.

[@fenestrapain]

I don’t know about you, but I still hear Rhett and link’s accents a lot. Maybe they’re not *as* strong, but they’re not gone by a long shot.

[@toomanyopinions8353]

I mean they haven’t lost their accents entirely. But it’s really not that crazy, they’re in show business. It’s rare for people in the entertainment business based in LA not to lose their accents.

[@madimay]

when they use their "i'm not on camera" voices they do sound a little more southern, especially link

[@niki4you]

I love how open they’re now! It’s just feels like friends telling us stories. Who would’ve ever thought they’d be telling us this haha

[@BrokenGodEnt]

They always said as their kids and as their audience got older they'd start to be more... explicit.. I guess? I waited so long that I never really thought it would happen. But they've been getting progressively more and more willing to share this side of them for the past couple years.

[@kouizumi9484]

Jessie and Rhett laughing at Christy and Link looking forward to praying together is so genuine. They really were the "ideal" modern purists that Evangelicals want their kids to grow up to be. And that is so nerdy and cute and sad all at the same time. I'd also like to point out Rhett laughing and saying, "You are such a weird man," is the most genuine thing I have heard him say to Link.

[@shilohstore6086]

36:23 I had on my lingerie and we got down on our knees and prayed... Is probably the most perfect country song lyric that I've ever heard! 😂

[@piperarcher9706]

Christy's fear and embarrassment in this episode speaks wonders to the world of shame she was saturated in as a female in the Evangelical sphere. I'm sad that even tho she consented to be on this that it was still hard and so obviously nerve-wracking for her.

[@k1773ns]

I definitely picked up on that. She was kinda ticked off and didn't wanna answer questions about the big night. Which is understandable! But she did mention she felt caught off guard. :(

[@the_minimalistic_adventure]

Yeah, surprised this isn’t mentioned more in the comments. She seemed slightly irritated and put off by Link’s openness and questions at certain points.

[@the_minimalistic_adventure]

@@k1773ns Well, she should have realized what this episode was about. Unless Link wasn’t fully honest about what the questions were going to be beforehand!

[@Killingglorie]

nothing wrong with having some humility and not being an open book

[@zebz313]

It is normal and natural to have shame and modesty about something so intimate and private. Trying to take away the stigma and making it seem like normal convo is silly.

[@AngryKittens]

This is the first time I've actually heard Jessie and Christy. They could easily make their own show. They have pretty much the same sense of humor as R&L. LOL

[@lemons_66]

Wait I'd love that😭 Like a little podcast, just audio or something, and they share their life experiences and what it's like being them. I'd love to know, especially being together BEFORE GMM, during, and after. What it's like having kids during this, their views on religion and what not. Omg please😭 there isn't many big KZbinrs who was with someone, even married, before the start of their channel! What an interesting perspective I'd love to see I'd take like a monthly podcast or something even!

[@RogueWon57]

RIGHT?! When can we get their show?

[@binch8576]

theyre both in one of the episodes of the Saturday show Stevie had

[@the_minimalistic_adventure]

They have a sense of humor, but they’re way more dry-humored and not as open as Rhett and Link. They’ve got a little irritated a couple of times at the questions that were being asked.

[@BusyBusyPanda]

Just like the Try Guys. The Try Wives have so much more to offer the world of podcasts than the Try Guys who ae just there for the lols.

[@joakuz]

It’s so cute that Christy loves rules and feels safe with them. Makes sooo much sense that she’s Link’s wife! They are perfect for each other ❤️

[@nicholasborkowski3589]

Wouldn't it be fun for just one week seeing Jessie and Christie switch places with Rhett & Link on Good Mythical Morning? Watching them play where in the world, and shuffleboard, and ranking foods? It would be fun!

[@jess-tu6jc]

It would be fun if they're up for it!

[@houseplantnerd2872]

Yes!!!!!!

[@IQNAProductions]

I would love to see that. 1 week wife takeover lol

[@lexarona300]

A lot of pressure for them tho

[@angelwingstn3392]

That's a great idea!

[@vwharman]

Not going to lie. Christy talking about having to “protect” Link from her body is crazy. It is so hard to imagine the undo responsibility that places on young kids.

[@eboone]

What does this comment mean

[@emilyb3875]

I was raised very similar to Christy and the amount of times pastors or abstinence speakers made women out to be “gatekeepers” to “not allow men to sin” while the women in question were 13 year olds…. I go to therapy now too

[@vwharman]

@@eboone see below…

[@doctordolldesigns4009]

its a very prevalent idea in purity culture. The women are basically held responsible for both themselves and the men around them

[@tara6637]

Religious trauma is extremely real and scary… :(

[@LaraNotLaura2001]

not gonna lie, this is SO REFRESHING to hear people talk about this openly, honestly, not being jerky or jokey (yeah, laugh but not making jokes). This type of conversation will open for so many more people now I hope!!

[@powerpuff4ever]

It’s so interesting to hear Jessie and Christy speak on a topic like this as essentially deprogrammed Girl Defined. Like how they can express that there were parts of purity culture that made them feel secure and safe and acknowledge that there’s a bit of trauma associated

[@Phryxil]

Ah, I see... Rhett used to have a chin, he just wore it down doing his favorite thing!

[@cristallewis4842]

Hahahahahaha

[@Treesaw87]

😆

[@whosdevin]

LMAOOOO YES

[@xueshanshanxia1475]

stooooop omg🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@shelbyyoungblood8479]

OMG HAHHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAH

[@judyl6325]

Jessie saying "this is fine" had me busting out laughing so hard, because it was so relatable. I didn't even grow up in purity culture, didn't rly build anything up in my mind, and it was STILL anticlimactic for me too lmao

[@biancacherry7059]

Literally😂 I’m 20 and still have some virgin friends and when they get close to the milestone I tell them it’s overhyped experience so keep your expectations low lol

[@judyl6325]

@@biancacherry7059 I don’t want to say it’s sad but it’s just the truth 😭

[@JustMamba]

The same can be said for men. Coming from a guy himself. I feel like this whole chat is girls so just my Insight.

[@bluz1864]

Same. Grew up in a very progressive household so while my first time was exciting, it wasn't too big of a deal. The first thing in my mind was "that's it? That barely lasted 5 minutes". And Because we used mood music, I KNOW it really was only around 5 minutes. Lol.

[@badcornflakes6374]

@@bluz1864 5 mims for most guys is pretty dang long. Let's be real.

[@snowsam6563]

Christy...what a journey, and to know that you are one of the rare peoples that even sought therapy for their kids sake is a huge testament to the wonderful parent and person you seem to be...I wish my mother had cared enough to do the same.

[@jamesedinger4956]

One of the unintended results of raising kids in the purity culture: When you spell out what's right and wrong, and young minds discover that what's "wrong" brings pleasure, it can subconsciously spill over to other areas of life. Shoplifting is wrong, recreational drug use is wrong, adultery and lying are wrong. In times of depression or confusion, there's a tendency to self soothe with what brings pleasure. Yielding to that self medicating brings a sense of guilt. It can easily turn into a downward spiral and parents are at a loss to understand where all that is coming from.

[@claireisdope]

this is a very insightful perspective

[@cinxin]

completely agree

[@lilypup0515]

This is exactly what happened to me.

[@brittaniejones8755]

You are so right. All the people in jail, all the people with drug problems were taught to be pure when they were young.

[@Inferno-Dante]

I love how serious Rhett and Link’s faces are when they are listening to their wives.

[@NatiLite]

I realized without realizing! So beautiful

[@PiRobot314]

Lol! I hadn't noticed until I glanced at this comment, then sure enough! They are making grave decisions about the fate of the universe here

[@siesiehaycraft4699]

they're both such good people, it makes me really sad to know that they went through so much of a struggle coming to terms with sexuality and were like constantly mentally throttling themselves for having normal, human thoughts and feelings. I'm glad they both married really great people and don't still have that internal war.

[@sallyfrazier5843]

Never did I think that the guys who eat weird stuff on the internet would produce something so meaningful. I feel sort of silly, but I am actually tearing up. I really needed to hear some of the things Jessie said and probably needed to hear it from a fellow woman. I appreciate them coming on and being so vulnerable. I have a renewed motivation to go home and fix what has been slowly breaking. Thank you!

[@giselapagandiaz1031]

Yes!! I think the ladies should get a whole episode just to themselves. 🙌🏽

[@AnxiousSoul]

Yes, crying over that is silly. Maybe see a therapist?

[@kayshinae9023]

​@@AnxiousSoulWhat a strange way of saying you've never satisfied a woman.

[@AnxiousSoul]

@@kayshinae9023 Projecting here?

[@kayshinae9023]

@@AnxiousSoul Wow, you really elected to circle back and confirm with your whole chest that you don't understand women. 😆

[@asksomeoneelse98]

Jessie and Christy need their own podcast. They have me laughing to the point of tears

[@sallyfrazier5843]

I would listen!

[@giselapagandiaz1031]

Agree 1000%

[@shadowowner6485]

Link: "THIS IS FREEEEEEEE" Rhett: "That's a man on a budget right there."

[@emrazum]

huge props to Jessie and Christy for contributing their perspective, takes a lot of courage in our patriarchal/puritanical culture. They could totally have their own podcast, I'd listen to every episode

[@joe92]

@Er-Teeus it’s the programming

[@bonita1228]

I love how they all admit to and are fans of going to therapy. The communication between the guys and their wives is something to be envied.

[@brandy9878]

Idea for Future Podcast Episode: Rhett and Link talk about their first year of marriage. The ups and downs of that first year and where they are in their marriage today.

[@renatakalinastrausstrombet1576]

Yes! That would be amazing?

[@blablabladuda]

Love this idea

[@KelseyMarieeMusic]

Yes! And then bring on their wives to share their perspectives too!

[@bessjess]

PLEASE RHETT AND JESSIE

[@teresamcmurrin8672]

My husband's contribution to the wedding planning consisted of, "whatever you like, dear". I wondered if he was even listening, so one time I slipped in, "...and I'd like you to be naked". Instant response: "Nobody needs to see that, dear", so I guess he was at least sorta listening.

[@TheFrugalMombot]

He didn’t want to be naked?

[@teresamcmurrin8672]

@@TheFrugalMombot Nah, he's shy that way...He wasn't the least bit shy during the honeymoon, though!

[@vivaciousmyosotis]

@@teresamcmurrin8672 😳

[@IrisRiedel6]

@@teresamcmurrin8672 oh 😳

[@omegasage777]

@@teresamcmurrin8672 ;)

[@nottamouse4530]

Rhett wouldn't be the same without his beard, but his chin is NOT as bad as he seems to believe it is. He doesn't look bad without facial hair, he just looks different than we're used to seeing.

[@patdow4276]

Agreed! He looks handsome both ways.

[@Dabearsies55]

He has a sexy mouth and lips!

[@eggchomp]

He legit looks like my dad when they both are clean shaven

[@BriannHere]

He kind of looked like Eminem

[@pinheadlarry2921]

because the entire internet went crazy when he shaved his beard. He still shows up if you look into “beards are makeup for men” anywhere. can’t blame him

[@ActuallyAnanya]

Unrelated but damn Link was a real dreamboat when he was younger

[@NewPhilosopher]

He could have been a model.

[@threeholePUNCHify]

he was omg lol and christy was so pretty!

[@ThisIsFiftyWithLil]

100%

[@envy7455]

Bro Rhett looked like a straight goblin lol 10 feet tall with such a small face. He looks like a king now but my God he must've had some good talk game

[@discoj7112]

@@envy7455 LOL yeah I was thinking you know Jessie really loves Rhett because she married him when he looked like *that*

[@carissaree]

this is so valuable to hear. Christy talking about the pressure from purity culture to cover yourself to “protect” the men is exactly what I was taught, being raised evangelical. that mindset leads directly to the common belief that when women are assaulted, it’s because of what they were wearing, or otherwise that they were responsible. such dangerous ideas to feed to children. I wish I could have heard this at 14

[@twinthinguk3621]

just watched an old episode of GMM....Rhett refers to himself as " lick daddy" lol now we know why x

[@louiseharris892]

😂😂😂

[@mariabuck3166]

What episode what it lol

[@twinthinguk3621]

@@mariabuck3166 tasting barbeque flavoured snacks

[@LillerThatIsMe]

Oh no lol

[@apen_7]

💀💀💀💀💀

[@kathleenc.314]

Jessie talking about having a 'harm reduction model' and knowing/acknowledging that she would do harm really struck me and made me cry because it's such a reflective way of being a parent (that I never have had in a true or consistent way w/ my parents). It seems like it would require open communication, flexibility, willing to admit to mistakes, etc. that goes into the hard work of trying to be self aware, and I imagine that would be so empowering for her kids. Beautiful. ; u ;

[@MintReactions]

Rhett aged like a fine wine. Went from looking like Sid the Sloth to looking like Aquaman. 😎

[@2542lauren]

backhanded af...

[@the_minimalistic_adventure]

But honestly though, if he cut the hair and beard off back to where he used to have it when he was young, he’d look exactly the same lol. He aged well, but his head would still look awkward without all of that hair. Lol

[@MintReactions]

@@the_minimalistic_adventure very true 😂

[@_.lizziejohnson]

NOT SID THE SLOTH HELP HUHAUTIRI

[@hostilebuffalo]

I want to hear Jessie and Christy talk about their deconstruction stories so bad

[@bluz1864]

Same. It does seem like part of them wants to but they don't know if they want to. If they ever feel ready, a lot of us will be here to listen. :)

[@Kaalyn_HOW]

I want Christy and Jessie to know I found this at 6am on my way to bed (I know I know), but now it's 8am bc I couldn't stop listeninh. They were so incredible and I'm so proud of them. This was SO valuable and earnest. Adore them and this entire series💙💜

[@BusyBusyPanda]

As someone who lives 3rd shift because of insomnia dont appologize just thrive.

[@Kaalyn_HOW]

@@BusyBusyPanda Lololol facts

[@owesome2]

Same lol it’s almost 8:15 atm

[@CadenHinkle]

I love that Christie and Jessie seem just as close as Rhett and Link!!

[@georgie1214]

Rhett definitely seems like a guy who goes down like a champ but I don't know that I needed it confirmed so emphatically 😂

[@jujubee807]

Glad I’m not the only one that was thinking that 😭😭

[@frostyskeletons8950]

I like to think he’ll add it to his LinkedIn

[@jordan_goes_in4378]

........

[@Rekct22]

My first time was boring, I remember thinking “This is what people are obsessed about? I could do without this.” Meanwhile he’s having the time of his life, and I just wanted to go home 🤣

[@JoeGanja]

It don’t cost a dime 🤣 I’m laughing hard right now.

[@KatBee00]

Read this literally as he was saying this and laughed so hard

[@jdc2434]

Quote of the podcast

[@tealpatt]

Lol unless you have a kid and then it costs you everything LOL

[@patriciabarnhart1886]

“Accents” brought back such a great memory of my husband who has been gone now for 12 years💙 He bought a French beret and used the best French accent coming through the door at times. Oh how I loved it - miss him so much💋

[@bellas14u]

I’m so sorry for the loss of your husband. I can’t imagine what I’d feel if I lost mine especially with us having been together more than half of our lives. Sending virtual hugs to you sugar. 💜

[@teresaburk8753]

This is great!!! I can’t believe how open and vulnerable the guys are being!!! It’s refreshing as long as their wives and kids are good, it’s good to get healthy conversations going!! Coming from a marriage that is severely broken because of a lack of intimacy and vulnerability on one side, this absolutely gives me hope in men again!!! Wow, just realized that’s why you guys are so meaningful to me… you represent such great friendships and relationships- trust, vulnerability and hope… something I have lost and missed for many years! You are all four such beautiful people. Thanks for sharing and keeping your listeners talking!

[@AlexSousaViseu]

- "I didn't trim that up..." - "Oh I did... Cause I had a friend who was in the Navy..."

[@joakuz]

🤣

[@zharawillywonka4438]

As woman who is aromantic, Rhett's performance issues reminds me of my issues I had before when I was trying force it, I really liked hearing Rhett's story because I've never heard a man speak on that before.

[@TheFrugalMombot]

Hugs.

[@badcornflakes6374]

Hahahaha

[@raynbullard830]

I've watched theses guys since I was in 5th grade...I feel this is a natural next step In our relationship

[@wh0aheavy]

I'm a 35 year old woman and I have giggled all the way through Sextember. This has been amazing. Thank y'all for sharing so much 💜

[@judyl6325]

I can’t describe how amazed and grateful I am to hear Rhett acknowledge asexuality, thank you for sharing your story and acknowledging it as a piece of a much larger human experience

[@kimishere2slay]

I know right? I totally wasn't expecting that, but I felt so seen 🥰

[@whatiwasgoingtosay]

Where do I find a guy with Rhett’s appreciation for the vulva? 😂

[@lilmisssydnis1]

If you find out let me know, but so far it seems they have to be evangelical.

[@emilieanselmo1994]

Ex-evangelical is the way to go. They have an appreciation that can’t be matched by a “heathen” man lol.

[@luredinthedark]

@@emilieanselmo1994 wsg baby girl

[@the_nikster1]

h there are more of them out there than you think. I’d say go for the mature men, rather than the younger gentlemen. they tend to appreciate “the vulva” more often than not. that’s been my experience anyway 😉

[@Aati_Gumer]

Where do I find a girl to show my appreciation for it? Lol

[@carsongracespearman3518]

As a Christian woman, I’ve always been so nervous for my first time and wondering if it will be awkward because I don’t know how to do it. So I’m so thankful for this and for Christy and Jessie sharing their experiences. It makes me feel so much more comfortable knowing that I’m not the only one who has gone through this. Thank you so much ladies for being so open about such an intimate detail. I know I speak for a lot of women when I say that I appreciate it very very much.

[@krystalgodwin2513]

I’m so happy Christy and Jessie came on the show but my one criticism would be I wish they would have had them listen to what they had prior talked about before coming on so they could know right where you guys left off and what was said so they knew how to respond and their experience in that moment. However they did so good and I’m soo happy to hear their perspective ♥️

[@the_minimalistic_adventure]

Yeah. I noticed that they’d ask the girl’s some questions, they’d skip around the questions asked to some extent and go on a deep philosophy type of answer.

[@bubblegumbxtchh]

And stop interrupting Christy and Jessie when they’re speaking!

[@bookslikewhoa]

1) This makes me more excited for a future episode with Jessie & Christy sharing their deconstruction journeys, 2) I had to pause to laugh at "THIS IS FREEEE" for like 5 minutes. Could not be more on brand for our frugal king

[@alissawease7251]

Rhett making eye contact with the camera every time he makes a pun is cracking me up😂

[@sourest_lem]

41:49 Rhett's ego was shattered when Jessie shared her perspective 😂

[@Kaalyn_HOW]

We watched a balloon deflate in real time. Or ball.

[@blakeog2034]

Most of our first times I’m sure lmao unless you let one out beforehand 🤷🏼‍♂️

[@kroneexe]

@@blakeog2034 most of female first times* Men usually have a great no matter what

[@stacylowe5721]

I’m guessing Jessie has absolutely no complaints these days. ;)

[@marissahuber6265]

"Jessie.......😔"

[@thered4048]

7:12 DANG Rhett throwing shade!! xD Link: "he said you look down and its more impressive" Rhett: "Some people might need that"

[@p.adolpha7808]

I’m so grateful for Jessie and Christy’s perspective. The trauma for men and women individually follows the pattern of how men and women are treated in society and while I understand the pressure and anticipation for the guys, I have major empathy for the DEEPLY personal twisted mess of religious patriarchy and misogyny that clearly still sticks with them today even being in these healthy, communicative relationships ❤️

[@thebigtobinski1448]

Y’all should do a couples podcast. Good Mythical Marriage.

[@jillbarnett9224]

Yes!!

[@silverlve70]

Thank you to Christy and Jessie for bringing their sides of the story, it's not easy being so open on this topic with people.

[@crimsonvoo7505]

thank you Christy and Jessie for talking to us in your perspective, the difference between sharing these stories publicly and on ear biscuits is no one here came to judge , we came to listen and for some (including me) came to relate. thank you again C.J.R.L, btw i had to watched this video with my wife EDIT: THE REAL CONVERSATION HAPPENS WHEN THEY GET HOME

[@MostDefinitelyNotRosie]

I truly appreciate Jessie and Christy's stories and perspective. It was a contrast from the guys' and it really helps that they felt safe enough to share. Purity culture, man ...

[@MostDefinitelyNotRosie]

1:22:00 a bookmark

[@alanaleightate]

I’ve spend most of my twenties listening to these guys. But hearing them being so vulnerable and honest about the purity culture I grew up in and the deconstruction of it while I’m going it through it at the same time, it’s healing to say the least. This pod cast was important, especially to people like me. Thank you.

[@sivilsiyah]

christy and links honeymoon pictures are really cute but they look like 16 year old sweethearts more than a married couple lol. like i know they were really young when they got married but link's face looks like a little boy in some of these pictures. i guess he still has a very youthful grin. anyways both jessie and christy did great for a very broad and intimate topic in a limited time - as first timers on top of that too!! also christy's one liners were so funny i dont know if she planned to be that funny or if it came out that way because she was nervous but it worked either way! she sounds charming

[@annab6726]

Rhett said once that out of the four of them, Christy was by far the funniest.

[@sivilsiyah]

@@annab6726 i can see that! i often catch that type of casually snappy humour in a lot of more or less anxious personalities around me. too bad she is a private person i would like to hear more from her/them as a friend group. (maybe with more relaxed topics next time lol) but again i totally understand not wanting to be in front of a huge audience of basically strangers, she probably doesnt need that kind of stress in her life

[@sapphiresuzuki]

what part of the podcast shows their honeymoon pictures?

[@DanniSmile]

As someone who's been married 16 years and got married in purity culture- thanks for doing these! Your experiences mirrored ours in a lot of ways, and your advice and particularly the "Scheduling" thing really hit home. I think these conversations are so important to have!

[@waifuwubs]

The way Rhett looked at the camera and sighed “Jessie..” LOL

[@S04P]

i love that these two are so bonded with each other, that they’ve even bought vibrators together for their wives 💀💀

[@lizardb97]

Jessie and Christy! Please come in the podcast more! We'd love to hear your reactions to what these guys have said and your prespective!

[@TheFrugalMombot]

I’d love it if they had their own podcast as well

[@ThisIsFiftyWithLil]

At least once a year, right?

[@kitwinters7434]

Wow looking at Link and Christy’s wedding photos their kids look JUST like them, it is absolutely amazing!!

[@ceciliamarien4456]

Hearing the wives speak about codependency and how it's related to parenting is so relatable for me! It certainly makes a difference to take a step back and let some things be what they are and appreciating it! I love the podcast but their sharing about themselves as mother's was the most relatable thing I've heard so far. Thank you to Jessie and Christy for sharing!!!

[@sarah1123r]

I feel like I could just sit down and have coffee with Jessie and Christy. This was so great to listen to. I grew up in a very similar culture and I am in their age bracket, so this is just amazing to listen to and get their perspective on. Thank you!

[@liam8c474]

i thought this series would be awkward but it's been so much fun

[@ThisIsFiftyWithLil]

Right? Kinda relieved about that fact.

[@bobbiedaniel9347]

I've never seen them be truly awkward lol

[@lovelycampbell]

@@bobbiedaniel9347 have you ever seen the fanfiction episode of gmm? Lol

[@bobbiedaniel9347]

@@lovelycampbell I may have blocked it out actually 😅

[@lovelycampbell]

@@bobbiedaniel9347 bahahahah I just rewatched it yesterday and I forgot just how embarrassing it really was lol its a really good laugh though

[@madimay]

I cannot get over how beautiful of a couple Link and Christy were (AND ARE!!). They literally look like Hollister models in those old pictures.

[@JennRighter]

“Monday’s, Wednesdays, Friday’s, it’s the Neal night with the green worm!”-One of the funniest things Link has ever said, and he’s always funny. 👏🏻👏🏻

[@tirzah9929]

I so so appreciate your honesty when it comes to examining how purity culture/ evangelicalism effected your decision making. How much easier it would be to just shove it away and focus on your new normal. So educational, thank you.

[@olvidadiza744]

This was incredible, seeing sexuality from their perspective, a woman's point of view, has been amazing. So refreshing and funny! Kudos to y'all

[@JV-sc2wr]

“rhett’s really great at accents” what a GIFT of information thank you Jessie 😂

[@_.lizziejohnson]

what’s the time stamp 😭

[@lynnebecker1628]

1:19:35

[@mandarachelle81]

Still waiting to find a man who will love and adore me as much as Rhett and Link love and adore their wives…

[@CFawkse]

This episode was amazing! The whole series was incredible, but getting to hear Jessie and Christy talk about their experiences was really special. On the off chance either of you ladies see this- thank you so much and you’re wonderful women! It’s easy to tell that you’re both strong and insightful people ☺️✌🏼

[@Tiff_lifts_alot]

"I didn't want burnt buns..." Oh Link, you're killing me 🤣😂🤣😂

[@hannahsellers8272]

As a women who grew up in that purity culture I appreciate Jessie and Cristy speaking from their perspective even though it was something they kind of wanted to keep private. It’s so true that growing up in the church you’re told as a woman and even a little girl that what you have on and what you do can make a man “sin” or stumble and it’s your fault if they have impure thoughts. I grew up with a lot of guilt and thankfully have worked through a lot of that over the years. I appreciate yall talking about your evangelical years and how you moving away from it.

[@citystars1117]

Watching Rhett being crushed after Jesse says "it was alright" is hilarious.

[@misskinsCO]

I'm only just listening to this, and let me just take a sec to thank you all for sharing this. I've been married for 15 years, and our intimacy has gone stagnant. Hearing what you guys do to keep your relationships strong is allowing me to reflect on myself, and want to do better. Thank you

[@xoxokatie.9359]

Wow I never thought I'd see the day Rhett and Link discuss cunnilingous, but I'm here for it !!

[@XxVedoxxX]

This comment may be lost, but I just want to say I’m 14 minutes in and this is the most entertaining content ever, and I’ve had the best time. You two are so open minded, smart, and self aware people. I’ve been a lurker since 2013, I’ve probably seen almost every ear biscuits episode (spare the guest ones cause I really love y’all and your introspectiveness) and I’ve never commented, but I have lately fallen in love with Ear Biscuits so much more, ever since the deconstruction series, and just felt the overwhelming urge to reach out and say something. I’m such a young person as well, I’m 21, so y’all’s experienced perspective on this stuff in very enlightening and really gets me thinking. I love The direction that Ear Biscuits is heading. 🖤🖤🖤

[@jessicaromandia1954]

As a woman who likes your show, I appreciate hearing your women’s perspective. Thanks for sharing!

[@cynthos_]

We need more from the ladies!!! Please have them on more often! I related to Jessie when she was like “ok… this is alright I guess..” from the first time. Everyone makes it out like it’s going to be the most romantic thing ever, but really the first time it’s just moving parts. It gets better with time, and yes, the “aging like fine wine” statement is true.

[@David-ii2op]

The it's free moment might be my favorite in ear biscuits history that killed me

[@toreycarlyle9953]

42:35 😂

[@borkbork4124]

Jessie and Christy appreciation comment 😊 I really value their female perspectives as a young woman myself. I cannot wait to hear from them again!

[@michellet297]

I was not prepared to learn that Rhett loves to eat the box. And he has always been so fine. I needed to pause the video to process that. Jessie is a lucky woman. Con😭grat😭ulat😭ions😭!

[@katherinejanzen9195]

I have never heard the term "eat the box" so thank you for that

[@mossfroggy4312]

jesse and rhett laughing at christy and link is everything, they’re made for each other

[@GiveMKellKid]

Also when Rhett said he is pretty good with his tongue, I screamed

[@ms.l3392]

I feel like for most women their first time just isn’t good. It’s anticlimactic and you kind of feel empty. But for men it’s the best moment of their life . So unfair lol

[@elizabetheardly]

can i just say that it’s so amazing to hear that christy and jessie both appreciate therapy for themselves and open communication with their loved ones, you can tell that they are great moms and women💞