Cheating Wife Stories, She told him to pack up and leave, Reddit Cheating Stories, Audio Story

[@RodolfoDiaz-n4h]

Cheaters don’t deserve any compassion or consideration

[@chrischannells7466]

If my cousin ever talked to me like that, there would be a hole in the ground

[@bratty1851]

Let me guess she would be in the hole 🕳 all covered up by dirt 😂😂😂

[@williamrichardson5678]

The girls should know the truth from the start!!!!

[@Lilpapersthe1]

The girls were 12 you gotta give the main characters of credit where they were still children as he did not want to lie to them at the same time he’ll try to be subtle with them as it wasn’t a full fledge lie it’s just the fact that he just didn’t give them the full information which was that the mother cheated as he was just trying to be a responsible parent which probably failed because the mother is a piece of crap

[@LostLoveChronicles]

He did tell them but had to filter out a lot of it. But he plans to tell the truth

[@draconisdragonheart4248]

@@Lilpapersthe1 I agree. He did say his wife wanted to replace him. 12 years old is 7th grade, and pretty sure they knew mommy dearest had a boy friend from his statement.

[@scottm8076]

Absolutely!!! They deserve to know the truth (age appropriate)!!!

[@leeenokian6861]

​@@Lilpapersthe1yes. Give them the age appropriate explanation that their mother cheated on the family. She made a conscious decision to break up the family.

[@scottm8076]

How does the argument degenerate into ‘accusations’ from her!?!? She betrayed the marriage. She wanted to kick him out of his house! She has ZERO moral ground to argue from. His cousin is worried that he will ‘blame’ the cheater for the divorce!?!? NEWSFLASH!!! SHE IS TO BLAME!!! So glad he didn’t listen to ‘Laura’ and continued his plans.

[@Direwolf216]

Women never accept accountability for their actions. It's always someone else's fault, no matter what.

[@lukR1234]

I'm just at the part with his "sister" wtf

[@sparkeyjames]

@@lukR1234 Laura is not his sister but his cousin. It's just that they were so close all their lives it was like they were a close knit brother and sister. MC and Laura's mothers are twin sisters. While MC and Laura may have siblings they play no roll in the story or are not mentioned in the story.

[@lukR1234]

@@sparkeyjames thank you captain obvious

[@nitareed4088]

I'm glad he didn't follow the advice from "Laura".

[@treehouse2902]

The cheaters ended up as they deserved. He and she abandoned their homes to be together. Leave the aggrieved spouse and kids alone.

[@TimoneraAviary]

Laura is the name they kept using as the cheating wife in these stories lol

[@draconisdragonheart4248]

I totally disagree with Laura. 🙄OP needed to tell his daughters the truth. There is a danger in having a cheating stepfather around your young daughters. It is also true that there is no reason for OP to trust his Ex-wife. OP did handle this correctly, and took responsibility to send the message that his EX betrayed the family.

[@blacksunday4231]

He shut her whole argument down when he said "Is she really the best option for a mother? What am I teaching my girls? That you can cheat on your husband and get rewarded for it?" Not his exact words, but the point stuck, and Laura had no good counter for it.

[@branislavpetriska882]

Agree. They need to know the truth.

[@THE-michaelmyers]

Laura made some good points about post his post-divorce life. The mistake many people make in these situations is thinking the children are snowflakes that can't handle the truth. I can't tell you how many people I know who were small kids when their parents divorced. Every one of them that looks back with fondness to their childhoods are the ones that were told why early on. If given a chance and the conversations are handled correctly children have a resilience beyond what some think possible. I get so frustrated at my comments being removed because of my words. So I will just put it this way. What comes around goes around. Start stepping out on your spouse most likely you will get stepped on yourself later on. There is just this weird thing about the universe. When you release negative energy it comes back to you. Time and time again I see this happening.

[@draconisdragonheart4248]

@@THE-michaelmyers Exactly, kids really don't like being lied to. Too many adults feel the need to lie to them and in the end cause the children to question everything they say.

[@blacksunday4231]

@draconisdragonheart4248 seriously, I can't believe parents are still treating kids like they know nothing. Kids may be innocent, but they know a lot more than people give them credit for, and with the internet at their hands, they're probably more aware of what's going on than prior generations.

[@joeferlin2048]

Ok. Let's trade a controlling cheating wife for a another controlling one thats going to control his life. Just run away from both of them

[@ROCKSTAR123620]

More loving after divorce nice

[@Lilpapersthe1]

I’m not even gonna lie I feel like it was best for him to stay away from his cousin because what she did was literally siding with the wife even if it wasn’t her intentions she did it out of instinct so yeah I honestly feel he did the right thing by going with his instinct and going nuclear. I’m glad he did tell his daughters the truth at the end as much as I’m glad that everything came out in the open but at the same time I feel his cousin kind of lost her place by not siding with family as she literally wanted him to basically be the guy that gets slandered.

[@draconisdragonheart4248]

I thought Laura was an idiot. As a parent he was required to look after the safety of his daughters. His wife was bringing in a morally bankrupt man into her house where two young daughters live. I would 100% support OP on this even if I wasn't family. Too many bad things happen to children because of their stupid wayward parent.

[@bratty1851]

Agreed

[@leeenokian6861]

He should have controlled the narrative from the start. That's what the ex-wife feared the most. Her house of cards was bolstered by him taking one for the team.

[@nitareed4088]

When women OR men are "squishy" on cheating, they are a little too gray area on cheating, they have cheated, want to cheat and/or can see themselves cheating. It's always a red flag that needs to be paid attention to, for sure. Fiction but quite informative...

[@KLRCAT]

Laura is the perfect example of why you should NEVER take advice from women on divorce, even if they are related to you.

[@Direwolf216]

Never ask a fish how to catch a fish. Ask a fisherman. That's usually said when talking about dating, but it holds true in this situation as well. Or just remember Al Bundy: Don't try to understand women. Women understand women, and they hate each other.

[@eleethtahgra7802]

Cos more women forgive their husband cheating than husband forgiving cheating wife. As long as hubby doesnt get the other woman preg, many of them would still forgive. Kinda different than guys. Once she fukk/kiss/be groped by others, thats that. Thats why infidelity hit men harder than women. Thats why there are more ded husband after being cheated than ded wives.

[@jamesrhode4695]

Every word out of her mouth was toxic.

[@noodlecompany8123]

Make no mistake, the woman code is absolutely real. I am one of many who is very own mother took the side of his cheating EX. Till this day, 18 years later, my mother still thinks that I'm wrong for not raising another man's child. After all this time I can't find it in me to show my mother any respect

[@Rjeda30]

As close as him and Laura are she should have known better than to get involved and offer any advice on a situation she luckily has never been through. That she told him to get over it pisses me off for OP.

[@ricardocamara7116]

I would like to see what Laura's opinions and attitudes would be if it were her husband cheating. Good story. Thanks for the post.

[@tampaguy6370]

Listening to Laura is like taking your car to a mechanic who has never fixed a car.

[@Vipershadow1]

Laura made sum decent point for some things but overall she was more wrong than right I wouldn’t have taken her advice.

[@kenforsman1563]

I'm so glad he stayed strong awesome man

[@WhiskeyWizard]

My brother chose hatred and I respect him for it. ✊️

[@yaokuanhuang4816]

Indifference is stronger than hate or love. Kryptonite to women.

[@Nostradamusknow]

Taking advice about a woman from another woman is like being trapped in ditch and asking for a shovel to dig the ditch deeper. Any man who thinks a marraige is for keeps gets tons of weeps.

[@TheSilvertrigger]

Horrible advice from cousin trying to hook him up with women his own age. He should get a better looking younger woman. Best revenge is living well.

[@lukkaredwolf3534]

Cousin sided with the sisterhood rather than family. Expected.

[@cavey001]

Let Laura's husband leave her for another woman and see if she changes her tune.

[@Kevin-nw9om]

My son saw how his mom treated his stepsibs. Because of her actions, I didnt need to convince him of anything.

[@bennettjames16]

Nothing could be worse for the children than hiding infidelity. They will eventually find out and when they do, the lesson will be, you can live without morals or decency and the good people should cover it up. Or worse, if someone betrayed you, the right thing to do is let them and hide it for them.

[@primigenius623]

Too much time spent on Laura and her goofy-ass advice.

[@sparkeyjames]

The failure rate of the two affair participants forming a lasting relationship is 95 percent. This story rather shows that albeit in a minor way near the end of the story.

[@stolenproperty8823]

Laura means well, but proves women give the worst advice lol

[@Burritofan]

Regarding Laura and her advice, let me see if I understand properly. She was saying not to push for sole custody but shared to make the divorce less hostile. She touts Joe as an example where this failed as he never sees the kids and is embittered. However it was a gamble as it was s still very possible that the mother will retain primary custody regardless of whether he plays nice or not. More importantly though, shots were already fired. That didnt happen here it seems.

[@lukR1234]

If it's his sister who teached him about womens ters no surpirise he ended up with 304.

[@mshaw7560]

What's with women and talking about a man's ego when he's cheated on? Also, are we sure Laura isn't a cheater?

[@stevebowman421]

Love how women go so your getting a divorce deal with it! Ok fine but you get dragged through the mill, lose the home, kids and 75% of your assets.

[@jonathanzoellick8602]

Hell yeah, I just wanted to piss mine off for cheating on me 😅😂😅

[@juelzadebisi1898]

Tough decision, going scorch earth to destroy his ex wife is tough because that will hurt the kids. However he shouldn’t have to suffer by spending minimal time with his kids, that will affect the kids too. No good father wants another man raising his children, especially in a relationship that was established by an affair.

[@acone87]

I'm so tired of losers saying they won't tell their kids that their spouse cheated on them. F ING stupid. It doesn't help the kids and usually hurts the innocent party.

[@MrBbuggy]

The problem with these stories you don't pick wives you pick 50/50 career women you have no leverage

[@thegrinch8161]

Regarding the advert for jaguar, in my teens I may have boosted a car or two but I never even thought of swiping a jaguar because they were crap then and they’re crap now

[@thesandero2454]

OP did the right thing and he should keep his distance from Laura. Best thing is to trust your gutt feeling and she was trying to manipulate OP on OPs ex her behalve. And she sounded like a pimp for all her single girlfriends who she was throwing at OP to manipulate him. I wonder what Laura did behind closed doors when her husband was out.

[@Bill-1370]

OK, OK Laura and him were close growing up and family but Please enough, get on with the story.

[@LostLoveChronicles]

It was important to highlight that they were close during their childhood. They grew up to be very different individuals, with different values.

[@Toka972]

​@@LostLoveChroniclesno it wasn't. All he had to do is say she was his twin sister or something. The whole double twin parent arc is absolutely useless to the plot or intrigue, the whole extension on how he has to explain there was no incest or parent swap is borderline sick. It was not only a useless addition, it was so useless it made the whole situation so weird he had to express he didn't sleep with her... That's how bad it is. And then she's supposed to be the one calming him when until now he says she always echoed his thoughts? So the context doesn't even fit the development?!!

[@LostLoveChronicles]

Did not think that hard on that context.

[@blacksunday4231]

​@LostLoveChronicles I get it, but that conversation dragged on and kind of went in circles, while the ending felt rushed. I looked at the time, they were still talking and there was barely 2 minutes left of the whole story lol.

[@Bill-1370]

@@LostLoveChronicles It also to a certain extent shows just how different men and women no matter how close growing up or related that they may be, can and do look at the world of cheating very differently.

[@RobertBishop-xt6yq]

Laura's problem is being 10 minutes born before him she feels superior Somehow and she isn't facing The same thing as him.

[@nitareed4088]

"Laura" = BARF Ridiculous advice from the "Laura" character. So, teach the kids that infidelity is ok.

[@ScottSchellman]

“OP” did what needed to be done. The other man was going to get destroyed no matter what, OP playing mr. Nice guy potentially puts his daughters there for the violence. The mother is, and was proven to be, unfit for primary custody. People grow apart or divorce sometimes but this is not the way to do it; she cheated, lied, betrayed and blindsided…she didn’t play fair at all, she was out only for herself, the OP needed to do whatever is legal to be out for his new family’s best interest

[@okiemale1589]

😎👍 Big thumbs up for the channel... Before I go for a day ride on my Harley Davidson...

[@LostLoveChronicles]

Have fun!

[@okiemale1589]

​@@LostLoveChroniclesThanks... 😎👍 40k miles of fun on this Harley so far... Retired and living the dream...

[@LostLoveChronicles]

May be one day, I'll just leave everything and ride.

[@kaycrishun1075]

Why do some people think lying to the children is ok? It's not! Children have every right to know what's going on. After all, it does involve them, especially if the kids are older i age and can understand that cheating is wrong and a betrayal. The cheater doesn't get to play victim and ride off into the sunset look clean.

[@eleethtahgra7802]

Unsatisfactory ending. Make heather the mother damnit.

[@williamlenderman387]

Trying to slowly go back and check out the stories i missed or dont temember which, with what's left of my memory e compasses A LOT. This one sounds familiar but whether or not I've listened to it before, it was a good one.

[@themandownthehall]

Laura is full of garbage. He absolutely needed to go after the ex. Wife hard

[@glundgren2097]

There seems to be a sisterhood, at least in abstract. When in direct competition, women fight ruthlessly, but against men, they seem to unite. Women seem to agree that men are the cause of all their problems. Imagine if they one day take personal responsibility. 90% of their reasons are formulated around avoiding responsibility for their emotional bullshit.

[@treehouse2902]

Pack up and leave, check keep paying the mortgage, check and yeah, pay her alimony, check And punitive child support, check Why do they think they can replace the spouse like this. This is when the spouse should force the cheater to do the heavy lifting of divorce. Never leave your home. Also, force the cheater to move into the guest room. Keep another male from moving into your home with your daughters. Always tell the kids the truth and prepare them for a court battle. The cheater is planning to destroy, so get ahead of them. Tell the kids the truth and keep the cheater from weaving lies. The cheater is not playing; you play harder. Look at what happened to the AP. He got kicked out for being a cheater and lost everything. Why should he gain on this husband's back and wallet? Don't listen to the Lauras.

[@barnyardshenanigans8576]

Enuf about Laura already 😂

[@jguterrez01]

This OP did great.

[@kenolson3064]

Your Mommy wants to be with a different man. This is not your fault. We both still and always will love you kids. The end. It's a simple and truthful explanation.

[@RealCurrencies]

Interesting story.

[@FrankHirsh]

Husband just can't get over his insecurities, the Daughter's are worth everything and he was just to Stupid when it could more pleasant for the family!!!!

[@sammypatton5377]

Dam his cousin talks to much.

[@mahdiallen2728]

For a brief moment I did agree with Laura on the whole joint custody but that's mostly because from what I've seen women usually get the kids simply because they are women. It's very rare there is a truly cut throat lawyer that could and would pull this off. (On a note points to the boss that man has wisdom, he went through the same thing and gave out perfect advice and the perfect tool to deal with cheating 304's) But at the end I would have go with the OP's move if I had a lawyer that could get me full custody then fuck the cheater. Laura was right about one thing though the wife got dumped.

[@cgt1373]

Yes. Stay away frim Laura

[@kurtschmidt6779]

Repeat, repeat. Go scorched earth. I stop listening to just halfway through it sucked

[@JamesJones-is4ps]

I agree with him the girls need trueth Laura needs to understand sorry

[@marcusbarnhill-c5m]

i think this pretty cool indeed

[@karthikk7545]

Laura is a bad influence,op should keep the daughters away from laura.

[@kdeville87]

You got to wounder if the two twins switch up partners on the honeymoon

[@Arac23]

It started out good, the middle with the cousin, twin whatever was a bit unnecessary as another commenter mentioned, for me it distracted from the story, the ending was quick, not one of yr better ones.

[@tonynelligan1930]

it's funny a woman he thought like a twin sis would side with a cheating wife. i bet 1m she's cheated on her boyfriend/husband. then again women tend to not care what other women do since it's their ENPOWERMENT.

[@shanizaratepadillak]

So this guy Bill is buried in his work, can't even spare a minute for his wife's call. Dude, you gotta set some priorities straight!

[@eleethtahgra7802]

39:39 ummm....disagree....well, maybe during old times, thats true. But with the rise of fleminasty, thats kinda false. Married women visiting beach resort/casino resort by themselves? They were looking for hook ups as well.... However, its true that women would fall for sweet words more than men...

[@MW-zz3mv]

At the very end... he wants his daughters to stay away from Laura? I could see how their relationship might take a hit. But that seemed a bit extreme.

[@draconisdragonheart4248]

I'm not sure it is. Laura made it about his ego. This is not about ego. He is a father of daughters and is responsible for their safety and well-being. His wife had a affair with a married man. Both his wife and her lover can't be trusted. His main concern shouldn't be Laura, it should be his kids.

[@michaelofsydney6128]

I think an affair is an act of hatred towards the children. Can you imagine the sheer disdain towards the ap's kids that you would (without even telling them) plot for the destruction of their lives..the deep wounding of their souls. It is an evil act.

[@draconisdragonheart4248]

@@michaelofsydney6128 I agree, the children suffer as well.

[@tedfeast]

This one was lame

[@franciscotabar6873]

His sister just wantwd towin an argument those qomen ahe was saying were intrestwd in him qantefdhim for his money only, they wanted a relationahip i dont think so, he did ghe rigt yhing puniahed the wofe for infedelity and fogvt for thw kods. Ther has to be consequences

[@Kasiek2011]

Very wise sister. Quite stupid brother.

[@lukR1234]

Very dumb cousin smart op

[@jld12er]

No very stupid sister blaming everything on his ego she was stupid. OP is a father his first priority is to protect his daughters and teach them good life lessons and what lesson would he have taught just rolling over. He would have shown them being a 304 is profitable they can marry then cheat divorce get the kids and half his stuff and make him pay for it all. Then how is ot protecting them if he let's a moral bankrupt guy into the house to screw his wife with his daughters there. He was smart he got his girls and now they are safe and he taught them that being a 304 doesn't work out his cousin didn't understand that or if she did she didn't care and just wanted to defend another woman

[@Kasiek2011]

@@jld12er I am not saying he shouldn’t divorce his 304 wife. I’m not saying he shoyld surrender his ego and let things to happen. I’m not saying he should teach his daughter how to cheat and deceive the husband. What the wife and her lover boy did was totally unacceptable. I only want to say I have been just like him before me an my ex-husband stood in court for divorce. I was all about: now I will show him how did he hurt me, he will remember me for the rest of my life, etc. And then one very smart lady asked me: OK, but what for? Of course I was furious back then and told her something like: Can’t you see how hurt I am because of his betrayal? How happy I was, and what a mess I am now? Who’s side are you on? She said: You know I’m on your side, and I can se how much you have been hurt. But just tell me: what for? Because I want my revenge on him. That’s all I can do, pour everything I got on him in court. And then she asked me for the third time: What for? And then I started thinking. He doesn’t care for me anymore. He doesen’t want me anymore in his life, he stepped away from my life. He left me. He moved on with his life without me. I have to move on with my life, too. It hurts like hell, but I know I wil survive this. So why bother? It was like she had turn a switch in me. And this was the one thing that helped me to gather my life back together. That is why I see the sister’s advice as very wise, dictated by life’s experience. But the brother chose to go to war, and dwell in doing little nasty things to each other. That was stupid, but I hope he’s got his revenge.

[@jld12er]

@Kasiek2011 did you have children if not then yes what you did is the correct action but with kids you have to teach them that disrespect can not be tolerated now did he go a little far yes I would have held back a bit BUT he had to get his kids out of there and in a proper home and the way courts treat men well that was the only way to do it family court sucks they always side with the woman unless extreme measures are taken and the only winners are the judges and lawyers it's why I will remain single for life

[@dougnowak4205]

When someone betrays or seriously wrongs you remember everything. Evaluate your options and listen to advice. Only you can figure the correct path for you. Then get even and more in spades ♠️ 😂😅😊

[@robertorinolfi3004]

che storia penosa,e,,,,, tragicomica