Love and heartbreak in the new India | Dr. Shyam Bhat | TEDxSIULavale

[@chinmaylovekar]

Having gone through the break up stage is one of the best things that has probably happened to me. I am a really good new me. How? It made me think more about the approval from myself than from other people in a very rational way. I remember a saying- Love thyself before loving anyone else. 100% legit

[@annfrank9440]

Brilliant one !! Never saw someone describing heartbreak so scientifically ..Thank you soo much sir .

[@chandandas7135]

ann frank i m your big fan.. 😃 i read your dairy 😃

[@chkapoor]

@Sajal Jeet 😂😂

[@RamanVirk504]

Love is beautiful...but if you have a heartbreak and recover from it in a positive way that feeling is just wonderful... because it's then that you realise that your love can't be so selfish to be confined to one single person rather you are capable of loving the humanity as a whole and you being a segment of Universe are eternal😃

[@madhursurve6363]

This person is straight to the point. This is one of the most articulated speech about love and heartbreak ever. He is not impressing the audience, he is not smiling before audience laughs, he is just popping out sentences from the bottom of his heart of the experiences he's had. Being so intelligent and certified in so many fields, strange but very helpful of him to talk about love and heartbreaks in such a lucid manner. Very very grateful to this.

[@sanjaycomedy]

Shyam broke my heart once, and then helped me heal it.

[@vasumitrasingh4384]

Did he give you a prescription???

[@kirtu9035]

oh

[@rakibhasan0152]

Bollywood is the training school of getting heartbreak.

[@preetidas9511]

Perfectly said! 👏👏👏

[@AResearcherPoV]

Good analysis..

[@DivineTarotGuidance1010]

No..its not...it teaches you 'happily ever after'

[@hitman5161]

Right

[@musikali-pianoinstrumental8852]

True....by setting wrong expectations

[@lets_bekind]

what a simple and genuine person he is, came here by bicycle

[@test-tu4xv]

His explanations are very mature

[@swatisucharita3514]

We don't want to carry our wounds from one relationship to another.😊

[@jkk4666]

Yup..... Live in present

[@akshaybankar8180]

Haha

[@etherealecstasy]

The first video I watched after my breakup and I'm still sitting in a pool of tears but that's okay.

[@mitthughosh2058]

He has explained it beautifully with scientifically and spiritually. Thank you sir🙏

[@namrtarawat8265]

Forgiveness and acceptance is the key to build long lasting sustainable relationships.. Real relationships are built on willingness and unconditional love, making the most logical choices in life, can never reflect true love...

[@prakashsarkar6914]

What???🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

[@ariemulchand]

I love how you mentioned Lord Krishna . Thanks.

[@aquadir2830]

I love Dr Shyaam. I keep listening him since 2012 from radio indigo..

[@shubhammathur1614]

This is probably one of the best Ted talk I've ever seen.

[@omprakashkharwar8215]

Woowww..Lines..Did anybody notice ? For those of us who have not had a heartbroken, we know.. that perhap we missed out one of the most epic human experience ever..☺️😊👌 Only those can understand who literally went through..☺️😊

[@iiamrohit]

Existential loneliness. His words are powerful. Thank you sir.

[@imprathamesh_]

6 years later this still is a masterpiece

[@sheiljasingh6079]

Yes I was heartbroken nearly twice in a year by the same boy 😭I don't know how I got cheated .Don't let emotions control ur mind .Just think rationally nd move on .Don't rely on karma let success answer the questions.

[@nidhisomkuwar2150]

How's life now??

[@hyperloke]

What a speech! Very eloquent. I learnt a lot from this short yet instructive speech on heartbreaks. Who would've thought we Indians are more susceptible to heartbreaks eh! That said, keep loving my friends.

[@snehaldeshpande3512]

It is a good speech. And I am gone through all this. Heartbroken is such a sad thing. But making better person is good thing .

[@SaurabhYadav-hh7fx]

It's been three days since my heartbreak, it feels relaxing after watching this.

[@nishazahrazaidi8078]

U kill it ....have no word to explain the maturity of your words...

[@Time2Kids]

I still remember his Video now we can get his Podcast in Sportify

[@sipranayak8563]

Best talk on heartbreak❤

[@supriyasingh8018]

I literally luv his theory first tym I think there is a guy whom talked about love at this stage people talk about depression anxiety heartbreak but I never found someone talk about love or forgiveness he is an amazing guy nd yup we never saw our parents have an heartbreak luv to hear u sir ❤️

[@kunleuing]

wow this kind of a revelation make me believe i am alive. and its not me living in this metaphorical world after all. thanks

[@zaphodbeeblebrox3494]

After watching this video ..I only can think about the dialogue from the movie Rockstar.. टूटे दिल से संगीत निकलता है...Too good..haha

[@RaviJhag]

this guy just amazingly explained & the last thing about "Forgiveness" this one is mind blowing

[@MedfactsbyVanessa]

what all he said is exactly what happens to most of us.

[@fatimahussain9531]

Thanks for coming on Ted your amazing.

[@TusharSharmatushar13992]

Amazingly said and i must say I'm impressed with the explanation part.

[@SRLeo1111]

That love comes from your heart. The other person is a catalyst. It is yours. It will always be yours.

[@raghavdhamija4330]

Wow he completely changed my thinking and probably I will now be more positive about my long term relationship which just ended sometime back and leave the wounds behind and approach the bright future with my strengths ✌🏻❤️

[@bhartisahu2866]

Nice

[@techhunger_in]

I needed it...thanks❣️

[@nehadas2983]

Thank you sir for ur wonderful speech.

[@pragyadhungel7932]

Love.. Is a beautiful feeling ❤️what gives us a positive anergy 🥂

[@jfs2113]

Thanks for your factful speech...Enjoyed a lot.

[@SR-eb3ej]

Very nicely elaborated with scientific basis.

[@JustMe54328]

Well explained doctor!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@javed3834]

This man is jst genius❤

[@adityaanandshahi9889]

FORGIVE AND FORGET. Neither am I Jesus, nor do I have Alzheimer's !!! My way or Highway !!

[@xz6476]

Exactly Buddy

[@vijaysinghrathore399]

I m 23 yr old. I also dont belive in love. People use others in word of Love. So I dont wanna be used again and again. So I just love my parents only n no one else.

[@parikramasachan3090]

Its amazing.. You chose to deal with this problem is appreciated..

[@iampratikk]

Really such a amazing explanation. You have touched this topic so deeply...

[@Electrifiedpawn]

Good one.. he explained scientifically

[@umaimanoor6654]

One of the best video on this topic loved it❤

[@poonamsbedre3539]

Everything explained so beautifully that too in a scientific way ofcourse!👍💯

[@ajitthakur9944]

Thank you so much it actually what I feeling right now I wish I will come out from depression ... Thank you

[@letherspeak3063]

Ajit Thakur u will dear trust me..god bless u ❤

[@kingmonras]

So now it's a year .. Did you overcome depression?

[@vrajpal-jhala]

It gets better with the time.

[@advsoumik4686]

whats the update now?

[@syedzabiulla1004]

physical relationships are more intense. takes extra effort to heal.

[@nathanjones9099]

THis was needed, thank you, so much

[@akshayrathod7936]

Very good information ..

[@adarshp.371]

Most epic human experience ♡

[@melwin94]

very rightly sad..totally agree with him..

[@shardasinsinwar5585]

Wow....its amazing sir...thanks for sharing ur experience😊

[@speedracerrockstarash5891]

I had taken good advice from u, Good Doc You have taken my Advice in subconscious level to know about Bhagwat Geeta and Meditation ..

[@sheiljasingh6079]

It was really awesome bt I disagree to one thing u mentioned that u shld forgive bt u should also forget .Just forget his /her existence .In this cruel world u should only rely on yourself .Don't be attached to someone .If it comes let it .If it goes let it be and u will find peace 😃u should learn to live alone because those who fly alone have the strongest wings 😃

[@asiayalrodrigues2109]

He spoke so well!!

[@manroopsinghnanda44]

A very eloquent speaker

[@debashistalukdar8628]

incredible presentation and excellent selection of words. Never before this occurred to me that heartbreak could be such a serious issue. It seemed to be more inspired by movies. Thank you for showing us a more constructive perspective towards this issue.

[@sateeshsangamalla8826]

Thank you so much sir...

[@bittusumant]

The way he described ...he had issues 👌👌

[@shubhamjadhav607]

Thank you so much 😊👍 For this message ☺ now i feel better 😊

[@manwani2]

amazingly described..

[@MayurJadhavOfficial]

Superb job Sir

[@vineetameena7684]

Wowwww such an amazing point of view..Loved it :')

[@levishasingla9589]

this helped immensely👌. thankyou loads.

[@m.manishdev4040]

great words. very satisfying.

[@sk.s.isk.s.i1712]

Owsome one.... Really change someones thinking.....

[@anjanag5396]

one of the best talks I had heard

[@sauravkamalmedhi6008]

So good.. I liked his lecture very much

[@AP00RVA.]

Bahu shi tareeke se btaya h bande ne... Superb bossss👌

[@Anand-ol8rv]

Great speech

[@honeyboy8826]

Superbbbb sirrr....

[@krishnaca65]

nice talk Dr shyam..

[@Rihangavandi]

Xavier from Xmen

[@Amiittk]

As I'm watching this The love of my life has not been talking to me for close to 40 days.

[@advaitgogte6385]

I would love to have him as my therapist 😌

[@megha3732]

very nice speech...

[@connectwithmohit]

Let me give the perfect solution for that. Suppose someone is in the room and you are out side the room. you are knocking the door again and again, and got heart breaking and thr person is not agree to open the door of his heart. Solution is please stop knocking the door. you will get the solution.

[@munnakthr]

🙄🙄🙄🙄 TRUE

[@lakshit2780]

good example

[@rohittiwarisir]

You should break the door I think

[@prakashsarkar6914]

@@rohittiwarisir 😀😀😀😀😀

[@BusinessDestination]

True man 👌👌

[@biswajit10]

Truly AWESOME one 💔

[@seethroughmywindow4651]

What does not kill you, will make you stronger apparently. One should also refer to another video of TEDx in which Onkar kishan describes the power of break up

[@letherspeak3063]

Very happy -fall in love -feel worthy -feel numb-broken into pieces -strong version -n d world is awaiting fr u... (Trust me )..god bless u those who r in depression anxiety .n emptiness U will recover up trust me even I also had n m here a bravo robust ME..n ME 😎😇

[@laxmikanthwacha1185]

very clear voice

[@siddhidesai2118]

I really miss him😩

[@ravinaunnyal3889]

m in love with you men .you are just amazing , i had a breakup some few months ago I hoped that am strong enough to hold everything by my slef but i have to admit it that it was danmly killing me again n again i have seen a lot of videos trying to get out of this guilt but today watching this i'hv thougt to forgive him and move on to my future .

[@ramyarswamy1495]

Should the word "heartbreak" be used only in context of romantic relationships?? Would'nt it apply to any relationship where a person has invested a lot emotionally-parent/child, friend/friend??

[@slaveofallah.5980]

well said. I agree with u.

[@NITISHKUMAR-be6cv]

I think the HEARTBREAK that speaker is talking of is most popular and common than any other. Further he could have talked he should have but the patients of this catagory are more, and are more vulnerable so this catagory needs tips at first followed by others. And also he clearly explains that this has more cases in our generation than any other cause of all the reasons we know phone, freedom, globalisation, societal reforms, more freedom and gender equality. So it is okay to say all other past generation have felt it least but our generation has felt it more.

[@robertbarry9824]

Ramya R Swamy jk

[@prokokex]

same boubt

[@anmolnathani4386]

Thanks for dis amazing video...its beautiful

[@pottenvasu8697]

Thank you so much sir

[@VivekSir90]

Wonderful great one.... Need more session

[@deepaliaswal1341]

Just amazing.😊

[@zainabkhan2475]

thank you

[@NityaNavodayClasses]

act of forgiveness 11.00😍😍

[@ashanigam6212]

NITIN PAGORE f

[@nmajhi9555]

thanks doctor

[@aami1172]

To be loved and to love...exactly sir

[@jaydalvadi9090]

wowww all the answers i got..

[@vihaanaverma7287]

beautifully spoken

[@anant7966]

it was awsm sir...... nice one.....

[@anadiomsrivastava]

it is a nice video

[@akankshya2022]

Loved it! Thanks Sir!