Power of Breakup | Onkar Kishan Khullar | TEDxRamanujanCollege

Talking about the emotional energy of heartbreaks which creates an Artist or his masterpiece.
Popularly known as "Gareebo Ka Steve Jobs" or "Digital Gandhi" started his first company,
I Impact India Partners at the age of 21, creating a niche for himself as the youngest
Consultant in the Cause Branding & Marketing Industry Internationally. After 3 years
he founded a presentation solutions firm called Presentation Ink. He is on the board
advisors for various non-profits in India and is the Consulting Director of the UK Based
Innovation Firm -Chakraviyuh. He received Pride of India Award 2015 for developing a
process called Impact Thinking to help out non-profits around the world. He is well
renowned for introducing 5 year Old Philosophy through his book 5 year old Billionaire. He
is spearheading India's Social Entrepreneurship Movement amongst the youth called
'Gandhi with a laptop' through his workshops across the nation.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

[@prasenjeetdhiwar2067]

Don't get attached to someone unless they feel the same towards you, because one sided expectations can mentally destroy you.

[@maxscot4236]

Hello I know of someone who can help you just as he did mine too, he can as well help you too

[@maxscot4236]

Contact him on whtsapp

[@unknown2.060]

i feeled it now😿😢🥺

[@sharukrkt5947]

@@maxscot4236 I'll contact him

[@KICK839]

Easier said than done

[@sahilsalekar4455]

If someone leaves you but you find yourselves YOU WON

[@EnHl3]

Powerful 👏👏👏

[@aqeelthoughts7680]

Yes i find ourselves u r write....

[@letmobilet]

yesss

[@swapnilbali]

Absolutely bro😉✌🏻

[@kuljeetladdo5335]

Ya l find myself ....really yaar ...its awesome ..me and myself ....its my best version...now m more powerful...and nobody can hurt me anymore ...i was used to be very shy..now i can face people..l can concentrate more on my future ...and i have interesting plans ...i used to study...for 8 to 10 hours per day ...and finally thnku god

[@dr.nikhilvasudeva231]

I had my first heartbreak at the age of 17. 6 months later i cleared neet with 57 AIR

[@chirantandas1659]

Vai plz can i talk to you personally... My gf left me... There is a big story & this year i aslo want to rock in neet

[@dr.nikhilvasudeva231]

@@chirantandas1659 dont make it an issue dost. Make it a reason to succeed.

[@chirantandas1659]

@@dr.nikhilvasudeva231 thanks brother... I've not even seen you but you became my inspiration 😊❤️

[@snehalbhosale.]

Wow, bro you did really well...😊

[@snehalbhosale.]

@@dr.nikhilvasudeva231 what do you mean again ?

[@beamay]

To everyone experiencing heartbreak right now, I'm sorry you're in pain. I know it may seem like the world is ending and you'll never come out of the dark, but you will. It's okay to be sad. Feel what you need to feel. Eventually you will come out stronger and more beautiful. Just keep going and this will all pass and soon it will just be a memory. xoxo

[@chrisquinnx]

Thank you for your words. I just want you to know you’ve helped someone.

[@HunterZS]

Thank you, I felt your words !

[@tahminalaskar6325]

yes i will be stronger and beautiful.....i am in the track

[@sanjanapokhrel7881]

Thanks a lots

[@ao-yuki3165]

And today was the day I came across your comment, the day I decided to let go after waiting and waiting. It's so painful that I don't know how to handle myself. I don't know how to eat or how to get myself out of bed !

[@andrew2324g]

You know a sudden break up with no clear explanation from you ex is the most heartbreaking.

[@priyamaurya7127]

I know

[@harshitsharma1676]

Going through it ryt nw 🙋‍♂️

[@taetaeiamagoodboy3649]

And our reply should be🖕🏿🖕🏿🖕🏿🖕🏿

[@lilyb3165]

Me to though we were happy came home he had gone abroad so many years together broken still 3 years after😪😪

[@Sai-zb8ib]

Yes..I am experienced...

[@anewloveofficial9137]

Break up was never easy for me because there were sleepless nights where I was just crying in bed thinking where did I go wrong. I thought I couldn't recover but it's really true that time is an ultimate healer.

[@rajkar7372]

I'm having same problem, what should I do?? Plz suggest me something.

[@SuperSilverJay]

Raj Kar best advice is to talk to someone so you can address your feelings.

[@karan6516]

I've had 3 breakups and each of them motivated me to do something for myself and when you do something for yourself and get a positive result then everyone around u starts liking you I joined the gym today to show that girl and to gain back respect in my eyes so I don't lose it ever again in front of others

[@SateeshMishra]

going with very tough time of my life .... every whole day just motivating myself but end of the day just destroyed everything ..... even cried whole night and still not able to figure out where i did a mistake ..........

[@farwarabani6177]

@@SateeshMishra ....same sitution

[@aditikar5606]

Loved him. For me, the most meaningful relationship i wanted to treasure. He called me to say it was all casual from his side. Begged him to rethink. I realised, even at your best, you'll never be right for the wrong person. After two weeks of excruciating numbness, i feel unstoppable. I am gonna do what i never thought i could. This time, FOR ME. I am gonna come back to this comment in 4 months.

[@xalinax1659]

Same

[@aswathi2450]

More power to you @aditi kar ✨

[@atdhenuhiu2843]

4 months... Go on spill the beans 🙏

[@inbamalargovindasamy2836]

I hope you are feeling better now dear. Same boat as you, suffering. Time will heal for sure.

[@Bryan-bh7cy]

?

[@taragurung933]

After my break up, I realised that I had a poet living inside me. Like they say " Tragedy gives birth to Literature."

[@chuwangtamang499]

Khusi lagyo sunera, best wishes to you

[@smallscalegamer28]

✌️✌️✌️

[@taragurung933]

@@chuwangtamang499 Thank you so much!

[@chuwangtamang499]

@@taragurung933 how are you doing these days

[@maxionsoundcloud]

As an artist myself, i love this. so much this inspired me. im tearing up.

[@vishalithakur6843]

I think breakup means wake up in life. After breakup we concentrate on our future and carrier. And do lot of things independently .😃

[@DigitalGandhi]

Very well said ....breakup = wakeup do send me more ideas if you have

[@Gagandeepsingh-bt1dt]

Righttt

[@alizaali3234]

Yes u r exactly ri8

[@princevishal1952]

Nice

[@Sunilbishtdelhi]

Satya vachan......

[@z.deutch1334]

This was the energy behind Will Smith's success. He said in an interview that what motivated him into becoming a successful actor was his ex-girlfriend had cheated on him: _“When I was 15, my girlfriend cheated on me. And from that moment, in this bizarre psychological twist, I wanted to be the most famous entertainer on Earth.”_ 7 years after the breakup, NBC wrote a sitcom around his rap persona Fresh Prince and the rest is history. Breakups can break some, or make some. Which ever you end up as is dependent on the path you choose after the fall. You can get back up, set your determination to turn the pain and experience into something positive, or as the motivation to become someone great/better. Or you can stay stuck, feel miserable, be unproductive, live in the past, wasting the present and future on regrets, longing and hopelessness. That's no way to live. So give yourself the chance to love again. Your future spouse is out there waiting. Don't waste your precious years, being stuck on memories of a person who doesn't value you.

[@akcooldud001]

Cameron Lorna thank you for this wonderful thought!

[@harleyquinn7934]

thnx

[@abhishekkanojia7324]

Thks

[@myh4you]

thank you

[@Lui_Cee]

Cameron Lorna I needed this right now!

[@bitangaproductions]

"The biggest masterpieces are made by heartbreaks." That resonates!

[@asphaltfernandez3995]

You have to work towards your confession my dear friend i can recommend you to a great relationship restorer from the US that can help you manifest your ex back without any delay in less than 24 hours 😊

[@asphaltfernandez3995]

✝️ 19717620089⏭️💕💕💕

[@asphaltfernandez3995]

He just helped me restore my relationship of 2years with law of attraction manifestation last week and everything is going well between us and I pray the universe grant you your heart desires through the relationship restorer ✅✅💕💕😄

[@asphaltfernandez3995]

He just helped me restore my relationship of 2years with law of attraction manifestation last week and everything is going well between us and I pray the universe grant you your heart desires through the relationship restorer ✅✅💕💕😄

[@asphaltfernandez3995]

Whatsapp him directly now

[@mashiela7189]

worst heart break, is a one sided love.

[@i.s4005]

Shiela M yes:(((((((

[@dipankarpoddar1345]

Totally agreed that

[@ajayjadhav9041]

Shiela M "Yes"

[@faridaparvin9059]

Sheila M.... Yup I'm going through the same!!!

[@himadrisonai8291]

Yes right..after being with someone for 4years she told me it was attraction from her side..🤓

[@syedutfa8528]

"No fear, No Insecurity , No Jealousy + Lots of Energy + Free Mind" and "Nothing to Loose" 👌💯 "And Time for Self improvisation."

[@manojgaikwad9026]

True well said ....🌞

[@nunya898]

yes. A lot of insecurities in people.

[@thunder440v3]

So true!

[@mashhoormachu1213]

Well said 💯

[@zaink7037]

Oh that's so true. Best just to love yourself and hope someone really nice chases after you and are committed and don't change later on

[@amreen3684]

'Do not drop out from college, do not leave your jobs, just try to find out what you really like' Damn that's the best advice I've ever heard nowadays ♥️

[@MT-mo4ml]

I really like to drop out of college and leave my job.

[@vikramsuhag9796]

Emie that is not in his hand

[@MartinKohoutekchannel]

Funny thing, that was the first thing I did :D I quit my job

[@popeye9995sp]

its funny how people are alike, so close to dropping out and quitting my job and joining the military. i remember my first heart break i went skydiving, closest thing to jumping off a cliff and i gave zero fucks if i died. but the whole experience opened my eyes and made me realize how beautiful life can be; things got better from there.

[@samaptidebnath4725]

3

[@rpezay6700]

THIS WILL HELP ME SLEEP NOW..!!! Mark my words, i am going to be one of the biggest Artist ever.

[@chumkibhattacharyya5360]

All the best... Work hard nd never give up..

[@kayalvizhi1107]

Yes am waiting ur success story 🤩

[@adnanahmad6464]

All the best ♥️

[@ashoksinghShekhawat]

best of luck....you will definately be successful

[@joshpage3911]

😀100

[@muskansanjeev2407]

A sudden breakup is the most heartbreaking... But now after watching this, I m feeling very positive..🖤

[@joshpage3911]

🙂

[@aerialtaprootanalysis6117]

i feel u, good job! you can do it!

[@deepakkumarcreations7742]

Muskan sanjeev sani I'm currently facing this 😔 she suddenly changed and stopped talking to me ..

[@muskansanjeev2407]

I wrote this comment five months ago that I am going through a breakup, but I never thought that I will not be able to come out of that sadness till now... 🖤😶

[@deepakkumarcreations7742]

@@muskansanjeev2407 that means you are still missing him ??

[@ashperdite]

Finally someone who speaks about break up so positively. Amazing

[@DigitalGandhi]

thank you Nor....there are more talks on digital gandhi channel

[@_Canvascrafts_]

Nor Aisyah Mohamed Mydin true✌

[@buddhamoon4519]

Osho listen to osho

[@aapp776]

So basically it's a win-win situation. If it's true, you'll be happy; if it's not, you'll be successful!

[@shubhrapaul2192]

I love you positivity and enthusiasm amongst the plethora of comments here.

[@aapp776]

@@shubhrapaul2192 lol I just got through a breakup😅

[@sameeruprety8306]

the most positive comment

[@krajani2739]

Nice observation 😊

[@ayushawankhede2948]

Well said dear

[@538-saipraneeth8]

I lost my own happiness at a such young age by loving someone more than myself ! 💔

[@imajaz...4221]

Same happen with me dear

[@abhidey2824]

Same here

[@Ravixstarr]

Same here.

[@abikrishna.b6825]

Same bro

[@peachybee256]

And same happen with me why love is crime or what why it give punishment? But we'll find happiness we are too young too broke!

[@SabbirAhmedSibli]

My four years of a serious relationship (both of our first love also) has ended up 4 days ago. She agreed with her family and is marrying someone else. I also convinced my family but she declared she can't be able to go against her family. In the end, she told me that she doesn't want me anymore. So I have nothing to fight for anything as she herself is not on my side. I am upset, very upset. She did many things for me in the last four years. She sacrificed many for me. But in the end, she left me behind. Maybe my fault, but I tried from my side also. She is very special to me. I tried, but can't bring hatred for her. I feel so lonely thinking that my love will be someone else's for the rest of the life, in the same home sharing the same bed. And here, I am sitting alone, listening to these speeches to gain some confidence to overcome the unbearable pain of loss. Maybe I'll overcome, maybe I'll not, but I always pray for her. She is already happy, I hope she will be happier.....

[@icemanpacman]

Sorry ...m also in break up 2weeks since..painful..I know..v r all in same boat buddy

[@PriyaKumari-hg2wf]

U have such a nice heart❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@williamcord6369]

@@mariyaadhikari3752 she can help you my dear just message her

[@reottemacdad9054]

How do you feel now bro ?

[@kajolpawar7657]

Same thing going tohappen wid me..he is marrying with another girl..i m just thinking to quit my life..bcz i cant suffer from this pain..i cant..i even faught with his family to accpet our love but then i heard that he is dating that girl from last year..and my 7 years love is nothing for him.o m broken..i even faught with that girl also..we married in temple but now his family dont accept this marriage..and he also dont need me anymore..guys..what can i do now..if i leave him then waht about that marriage he did with me in temple..i have proof also..but he told his parents that i was not that much serious at that time..and she forced me..he played wid me..my mom knows that and she just want that i keep quite and accpet all this..he did wrong to me..and i even cant stand for me..bcz of this society and bloody minded people..guys i just want to die...anybody can give me some suggestion for this situation..otherwise i will die..i cant handle this anymore..

[@akash5656]

Breakup is a wakeup call. Atleast it is a breakup not a breakdown

[@mashhoormachu1213]

It's true

[@faithyorke9430]

After my marriage it was a breakdown lol

[@aashcreation7900]

Every breakup is Wakeup call... If someone leaves from you that only for someone better to come ..

[@simransachdeva4873]

Wakeup call...👌

[@anakruhoberec3389]

Not just if someone’s leave you. I left my bf bcs he was psychopath so I believe good time will come to me.. since I am heartbroken of hearing his last words after couple years of dating “I stopped loving you long time ago” and 2 weeks ago he was swearing how I am the woman of his life.

[@simransachdeva4873]

@@anakruhoberec3389 🤗🤗🤗🤗 God bless uh sister❣

[@shaikrafi9864]

Damn good dude...

[@indumathipadmanaban3924]

Really

[@scarlet2989]

I broke up myself from loving someone who cant love me back.. from days of heartbreak i start to play a song wid my guitar crying alot by his memories while fixing myself, i nver thought i could complete d song but i did.. and the day he heard d song, he realized my value but its already too late.. i already loved someone.. MYSELF.

[@bookofspirit]

You go girl!

[@Soulfulaesthetics]

I had my final breakup after 5 years of relationship and permanent heartache after my result of 10th standard I got very bad graids I was the nill student of my class i was very disappointed, after that I started my college and now I'm the topper of my section doing medical, C.R of my section also a writer and hosted many events of Superior group of colleges. The night before yesterday he called me I attended his call and asked" who's there?" He told his name and I replied "sorry I don't know' who are you, who is Ali"(his name)? I cut the call, took a deep breath and said to myself "you're strong, you're enough for yourself! You're no more that girl who've begged him to stay with you (:

[@tahminalaskar6325]

last line touched me

[@meethleshmishra5195]

*grades😏

[@rahulfzl10]

@@meethleshmishra5195 bhai tumhe 300 words mese 1 word galat nikla to yha aake hg diye... That show's you're akhand chutiya

[@Yuvan0112]

Bro ❤️

[@neerajak9319]

After how many months he contacted u??

[@SuperMsmystery]

it only works if the relationship is keeping you from your true potential.The right people multiply your potential.

[@sailikesh3903]

Well said

[@zdvincent]

I agree, this is a naive talk, I’ve broken up with partners who brought the best out of me but we weren’t meant to be, weren’t the best for. Everyone gets a Ted talk these days.

[@triptirathore9027]

Someone should make platform for singles who have been through breakup’s as they can understand each other better ...

[@salahali1587]

Good online business idea

[@user-jv6im9nr8i]

That was a nice initiative mental health ka aadha solution Nikl skta

[@marjorieyadao1399]

Truuuuuuuueee

[@sameeruprety8306]

now that's an starup idea. will see if I can build a website

[@priyaparul11]

@@sameeruprety8306 Did you try on building the idea?

[@RamandeepKaur-st7bw]

Breakup was not easy for me. I remember numbers of sleepless night and crying while night. It took 5 years to heal and accept everything.

[@DonS-ff2yt]

You are a hero then..

[@siksaad]

Sad to hear how long was your relationship?

[@cactusjck7471]

5 years😲 you strong

[@rrr1592-f3g]

5 years for mine also

[@peachybee256]

And I took 7 a MBBS degree can complete in this years ! But healing is such beautiful process I enjoyed lot if loving someone is injury then we are healing !

[@gauravv_019]

*God has always 3 Replys to your pray* : ☆Yes ☆Yes,but not now ☆My plans are better than yours

[@anthonywooten9930]

I like this

[@golzisoars1099]

Christian?

[@summysanny]

Good one bro

[@parinitakhanuja8604]

Head this in my school like 1000 times and this is true

[@mrb5539]

Truth!!

[@kamarulsharil1322]

Actually, the emotional energy from heartbreaks is true. The first time i was heart broken, i started my own company and prove to that person that i was successful. Than second time, heart broken i manage to wake up at 4 am do some exercise, prepare breakfast with lunch, clean my house, wash my car and still came into the office early.

[@yryalam7874]

Jesus, I need to break up so I can get all those things done !

[@praveenmunuru3005]

@@yryalam7874 😂

[@clhk12]

oh my freaking god, same! previously i sleep at 2am, now after heartbreak i sleep 10am, wakeup 6 for exercise, run, shower, and go to work. and i feel more energized throughout the day than when i sleep 9 hours back when i sleep at 2am.

[@jessicapalmer2778]

My Mom just died suddenly at the age of 63. When my fiancé and myself got back from her funeral. He told me he had been cheating. It feels worse than a broken heart. My whole being feels shattered.

[@prashant2374]

Feeling sorry for you.....but relax..... going through the same situation....

[@fareengul5876]

That’s so sad

[@VioletEmerald]

That's definitely worse. You were in the worst emotional place already

[@gowthamthangavel8074]

You will get through this, Chin up queen

[@Alexrmacleod]

Jessica Palmer my god sending love your way

[@dbsk06]

My first major heart break happened this year and it already led to so many positive inner transformations I guess when you hit rock bottom you can only go up

[@timprex317]

How is it going for you so far ? Did you get over it?

[@high4lfye243]

Honestly, getting over the person you love is hard and will forever be carve into your heart but you just kind of learn to live without them.

[@dbsk06]

wow randomly saw the comments to this but proud to say after two years from the original comment, i am not only over him but he actually wanted to get back together but i have already moved on and am in a much better place emotionally, financially, spiritually... trust yourself that you deserve better and if he/she is the right person, it will be very natural. in my case, i dont think that person was the right one for me.

[@dbsk06]

and never rely on any one person or external things for your happiness :)

[@Piyussh]

Loved her with all the depth, Got cheated, difficult but moving on, just hoping for a better future.

[@livingthatcalilife3716]

You will have a great future!!

[@Piyussh]

@@livingthatcalilife3716 Hope so

[@harshprakashnamdew5843]

yee bro in lockdown it is not looking possible to get over it

[@horoscopetango_byanisha]

May you heal yourself!

[@bharatchhuttani2736]

how are you now brother?

[@nikhiltiwari749]

I had my breakup 5 months ago and truly there were sleepless nights for months,got depressed,I lost her,I lost my friends,I lost my phone,I lost my hope but now I have decided to get up and use this whole energy for my future Always remember never cry for what's gone be thankful to God for what u have it may be parents,job anything and never give up it's life's way to test us and "Kabhi kabhi question paper hard hota hai"😂😂

[@ramakrishna6975]

How months it took to completely forget..

[@beyondbeauty6921]

Without heartbreak U wont find your Soulmate!

[@luvk1770]

REALLY ,TODAY I HAVE BROKEN , SHE LEFT ME FOR SOMEBODY ELSE . WHAT SHOULD I DO ?

[@rajeshrajput7813]

favourite k how u feeling now aftr 6 days

[@luvk1770]

@@rajeshrajput7813 . Better than 6 days back I was

[@nitinchauhan8232]

And that soulmate is you, yourself.

[@dhirajaqualife1761]

Really true bro...😄😄

[@Good_vibes_vlogs]

I m in a relationship from past 8 years and believe me this all will be possible with love too... The love which forces u to be best out of u...Now i m preparing for IAS and my love supporting me like my soul. Guys...Every impossible is possible with love...Like the video said with love or heartbreak.

[@bookofspirit]

Happy for You! All the best.

[@missmedico572]

You are so lucky man.. but see nit every partners are same.... thats the ptoblem.. thats y brkups... ✨️💓.. all the beat for u r love and carrier ✨️💓

[@icemanpacman]

I supported my partner love of my life .. she cracked neetpg medical n got top rank n seat and then left me the very month she joined the college for another guy...love for her and heartbreak for me

[@Good_vibes_vlogs]

@@missmedico572 Thanks dear ❤️

[@Good_vibes_vlogs]

@@bookofspirit thankyou ❤️

[@shaikrafi9864]

On August 13 my love was broken,the then next moment I was depressed n thinking about her each n every single second,now I started thinking for my self n I am doing 5km run everyday and I am going to be a cop very soon....

[@1511nisha]

For artistic people, sad emotions usually creates masterpieces out of them. The same thing doesn't happen for all, some people just grow fat & have low self esteem after a heart break

[@UL789]

lack of willpower and misdirection of this force into food :/

[@adarshkumar8727]

If you feel that there was your fault then it will lead to self destruction of yours. And no one can help you out even you cannot!

[@mysticbluelight5872]

True. So if your with an artist they do extremely well after and people like me become the latter. 🙏😞

[@ldraw586]

That’s true

[@aditishukla6043]

True

[@melwin94]

after I was dumped by my gf I went to a depression for about a year , dis year turned to a dark side though but taught me tough lessons and after that I recovered and became successful in my life.

[@bk12373]

I have gone through the same fate.

[@user-zt3ih7id6m]

Edge Vijith yes from soul she is mine

[@shd145]

How do u guys bcm successful....plz tel??

[@prasozworld1860]

i am broken i am sleepless all night still missing her so much now exactly 5:30 am, i am watching this video.😢😢

[@enricoginelli3405]

Did you already break up?

[@prasangipirangi1663]

How r u now then??

[@DonS-ff2yt]

Bro be a hero tomorow

[@asadulasad7310]

Don't worry guys time isthe real healer

[@invincibleme7927]

I have no energy, I don't want to do anything. Mind is full of memories

[@hevamaebonote5995]

same here 😢

[@masudhossain6120]

@@hevamaebonote5995 i got break up 1week ago

[@ANONYMOUS-fu2pz]

you gotta fight life doesn't end with one people that too a fraud , a cheat 😂 it's very hard to deal you know those memories keeps running on and on, whenever you see or hear your ex happy with someone else, flirting etc it just unbelievable but you have to completely detach from them .. let them go and be glad because the day you broke up they could have continued for more years ..that would be more painful .. so thank god their masks fell off .. Pursue your dreams make yourself proud . Theres plenty of fish in the sea ,8 billion people in the world why do you let one person ruin your precious life 😂 the more you care the less they care .:) go out and live , make yourself proud

[@richapandey2139]

Be strong. We are all strong women and losing us would mean they lost something good. Embrace the sadness but pls be relax and happy. Do not i repeat do not think or do things which will trigger your sadness.

[@rohinianbumani2060]

Don't keep feeding the need to think about her/him again and again. It will not let you recover and make everything worse. Instead, learn it's okay. It's ok to let him go, it's ok to have a heartbreak. IT'S OKAY. Or Embrace yourself, getup and walk away.

[@MrSachinvyas]

Believe or not, i had a downfall back in college and that energy really let me to prepare, turned out i cleared every single national level test for PhD, led me to join IIT and also to be on the path of a successful scientist. Somehow i thank that i had that breakup. I was not accepting that it really made a change in life, but this was a major factor which turned my life to awesomeness. yes digital gandhi you are right.

[@DigitalGandhi]

proud of you sir

[@MrSachinvyas]

No i am not a sir :) just a person like u. I remembered a lot when i watched this video, the way you explained, i remembered my college days. same query i had some day in the past "is it just me?" .. and yesterday while watching the video i got one more person :)

[@DigitalGandhi]

welcome to the club

[@poonamgrover8791]

MrSachinvyas great ya! I just keep feeling worse with everyday passing. that worthless kinda feeling? I can't concentrate and sleep even :/

[@ManojSaini_15]

feral one Don't try to fight it. Don't try to forget. Just think about your future, make a goal, build a routine and keep reminding yourself to stick with it to achieve your goal.

[@BasudeoRajbhor]

I have experience this things before break up I was a kind of dumb person who doesn't kno how to live and for what to live, after break up when I got my mental space I wrote some poems, made sketchings, paintings, learning guitar, making ship in a bottle and more over I improved my self as a person. I have experienced this Energy.

[@luvk1770]

WHAT SHOULD I DO ? I M NOT ARTIST ?

[@ankitasuman7]

@@luvk1770 you don't have to be an artist! Just do what makes you feel happy and lively! Maybe take classes for something that you wanted to learn since a long time! Just do anything that makes you happy, because nobody else in this world is going to take that responsibility but you! Have a good day 😊😊

[@luvk1770]

@@ankitasuman7 thanks

[@srashtigoel6536]

To whomsoever this msg is concerned,. I know, you might be going through the most pinching pain and might feeling worthless with wet eyes, heavy heart and drowning in the deepest ocean of emotions. Don't know how to come out. As if darkness has been spread everywhere. But my dear, for sure you will rise as a phoenix, you just need to wipe off all the darkness around you by shining like a star. Rise, shine and make history. Everything happens for a reason, might be this hppend bcz something really good is waiting out there for you.

[@barshabera304]

Thanku so much for your lovely words.....it really made my day

[@srashtigoel6536]

@@barshabera304 ❤️❤️

[@InstavidDocs]

After a tough breakup, I felt shattered. But I'm healing and rebuilding. She wasn't the one, but I'm moving forward. Update: Nearly four weeks later, met someone amazing. Life's short, so heal, then get back in the game. Stay strong, friends.

[@beautifulangel6187]

After break up, I realized that I'm a new person.

[@manojgaikwad9026]

I also ....🌝

[@rishayadav5650]

Me also..😶

[@michalremis]

Me too..I am cigarette and alcohol free for 1 month (broke up 1mnth ago)..after 2 years of smoking and drinking because I found my value and I don’t need these things anymore

[@thunder440v3]

@@michalremis so great! God bless you 😇

[@michalremis]

Thunder 440v Thank you so much..2 months..still haven’t smoked one cigarette or drop of alcohol..started painting also and became good at it really fast..still miss my x because I tought that never in my life I would be without her but it’s okay...God bless you too❤️

[@abhishek0o7]

90% of comments "I'm masterpiece just because of my 💔" .... 👏👏👏

[@samyeharshel]

Worst heartbreak is when you know you love each other but you don't wanna be together.

[@liare5539]

i broke up n now i became IAS aspirant

[@yeshwantkendre9259]

Just work hard to remove word aspirant

[@liare5539]

@@yeshwantkendre9259 Thank you

[@KrishnaKumar-ph7zw]

All the best . U will clear it 🤜🤛

[@AM-xc1ol]

Thukra ke Mera Pyaar Mera intkaam dekhegi 😂😂. Too good bro

[@shejicreation3728]

Time is coming soon when you say that I broke up & now I am an IAS Be confident

[@sonalisona280]

i am broken today .... after listening this .... i am full of energy sir ... thanks to you

[@sahabenet8168]

I am going through breakup right now. I loved him for 2 years. Breaking up on our 2nd anniversary. Its been 8 months. I am much better (than how drowning i was for first 6 months). Yet seeing that guy flirting with other girls make me angry. Because he is happy roaming with his new friends and crushes and here i am stuck on the same ground. I am improving i can feel it but i will never forgive him for what he put me through for 3 years(loved for 2 years and wasted 8 months on breakup) But i think i learnt many many many lessons in life. However i could trust anyone boy/girl . Because i only relied on him for past 3 years leaving my friends and family. I was a sociable person long back but right now couldn't speak to anybody. Its new to me, i feel uncomfortable. Yet i hope i will win. That i will break my chain. That i am much more than my scars.

[@casanova4282]

first off, congragulations, that person was not the right person, when the right person comes he stays with u no matter what, second point time heals all wounds if you have a purpose, if no goal then you will be stuck in it for a long time, don't give up life is beautiful

[@HasaliKaushalya]

The same story here...💔😥

[@7000Leafs.]

you are more than your scars.

[@kumarharsh4362]

You would definitely win, believe in yourself!

[@m26k-k]

Same situation i had suffered

[@hopeforus3360]

I fell in love with my friend since we met. Maybe the greatest break-up is you can never be with that person, you will just see yourself holding on for something that can never be yours. As they lay their head against your shoulders, that's you'll ever be, a comfort of pain not a haven of intertwined soul.

[@mrsleazy3337]

It’s good to see that I’m not the only one going through this. Literally my ex left a week ago after 4 years of being together and it sucks. I understand that things happen for a reason but man it hurts. I’m barely 21 and this was my first real relationship so I didn’t know how to handle the situation and just feel like I dug a hole and can’t get out of it.

[@thelostmonkYT]

Be strong, cry through it do not suppress this emotion time heals everything people loose their parents who have a blood relation i know a heart relation is too pure but have trust in yourself try pretending to be happy till you are, you have to figure this out, the choice is yours weather to make the best of this like this guy did or sulk and cry, more power bro❤️💪

[@spongebobsquarepants4773]

Do you feel better now?

[@miscelleneousstuff]

How are you now? Did you recover. I genuinely wish you healed.

[@kwstasvaliotis4060]

How u doing now

[@anshikagupta4931]

same, 2 years and then poof. I picked up driving and it really helped clear my mind now i drive to work even thought its WFH for me - but whatever helps keep me busy i guess

[@timcook3410]

this screams just one thing: ALWAYS follow your passion

[@DigitalGandhi]

thank you tim

[@Roz-mb8bq]

When i went through a breakup, i went from being a honors student, to a barely making it student. When i went through a breakup I missed so much work and school purely because of how I felt. When i went through a breakup I stayed up until the sun rised. When i went through a breakup i lost me. When i went through I breakup i lost everyone.

[@szai6068]

how are you now?

[@Roz-mb8bq]

@@szai6068 i am doing much better now !! have went thru more breakups lol but it’s life and everything happens for a reason! i needed those bad times to appreciate the good times :) it really does get better and i’ve learned to not let one person affect my every move and emotions

[@frontlineshopping3802]

So sorry ☹️

[@Roz-mb8bq]

@@frontlineshopping3802 it’s okay i am doing so much better now :) i found happiness in being alone with myself

[@angiechung724]

A free mind is what I do not have. When I go through a breakup my mind is completely filled with the person, memories, sadness. I don’t have the mental space to pursue anything..

[@ajayjadhav9041]

I think, "Heart Break" is a key of become an artist or strong person or successful person.

[@ritiksinghteam]

After heartbreak I have become an actor 😁😂

[@Sahilxsachdeva]

"Toote hue dil se hi sangeet nikalta hai"

[@BhawnaYadav9]

or ghalib bhi

[@aashiamaryam478]

After breakup u will get the experience how to live life freely... In luv sometimes u get frustrated but in an independent life u can make ur own decisions and the decisions are always right..... So my suggestion is live life freely and be independent alyzz it will make u happy 🙂

[@lieke9807]

Damn, i just had a heartbreak. With someone i still love so much and he loves me still so deeply. At this point it didnt work. We want it to work our souls are connected, but now its time to rise for ourselfs and then maybe later for each other if its meant to be. Only time will tell❤️❤️

[@issa1543]

What sapp him

[@issa1543]

[phone].

[@christinaceuppens4829]

I'm in the exact same situation. Only time will tell...

[@oxyjinnvlogs]

same:((

[@josegomez-lj6fi]

Same it hurts so bad :( idk fk me

[@thakkarhappy2822]

Break up is like peace after storm. Break up is chance to restore your potential. Those people are lucky who face break up and overcome it

[@dhrubajyotisarma7631]

I am not the only one to get rejected by somebody there are still lots of people out there who has gone through this amazing experience. In time they not only overcome their emotions but also have become successful in their respective fields.

[@aidaseguin]

This is exactly what I needed to hear right now, thank you! Namaste!

[@megha14304]

Fall in love with ourselves is the one that have no fear of heartbreak.

[@sahilhansrod5394]

It's not the goodbye that hurts, but the flashbacks that follows.

[@coolala124]

To me, love was my fuel. Heartbreak killed all reasons for self some how. Everyone keeps talking about how people finally have time for themselves after breakup. I don't relate to it. For me being in love made it all the more easier to even want to live for myself. Period.

[@adiielena]

i feel the same way. being in love made life more meaningful. that alarms me though. because at the end of the day we have only ourselves. so to live for another human being does not makes sense

[@mrbluebird1213]

How are you doing now? Dp you still think heartbreak has no positive effect in your life?

[@ShailendraSingh-pk1gf]

When I separated I used to feel the same way, I didn't felt belonged, but as the time passed it got easier and now I think that my break up happened for a good reason, now I feel free more than ever. The feelings are inexplicit, now I'm exploring more ppl more options, learning new experiences. It's kinda good.

[@satvik7474]

destiny.

[@username160895]

How long did it take you to finally get over it? As in for you to start thinking that it happened for a good reason?

[@sakshi4053]

When I had breakup, I kept myself in darkness for 2 months. After that, I started to lift myself and regain my confidence, self esteem and self worth. I started to improve myself. After breakup, I have more self awareness so that I can learn those things which makes me better. I grow,glow, heal and evolve.

[@GurpreetDhariwal]

You are so on point. After losing someone who was my world I published two books and sold off twenty paintings. Yes, I invested my time in things that have become my passion. His memories don’t bother me now. ❤️😊

[@devyanishakya1973]

Exactly!!!!! I agreee After my first heart break I took intrest in poetry After my second heartbreak And now I write urdu poetries and everyone is amazed and says how can u write this much good in this small age Even my teachers stands and clapps for me❤️

[@aayush2331]

Could uh share some with mee???

[@neomikaganguly8958]

I have been into very serious relationships in my life but I have always had a very bad end to it. I use to cry all day and the nights were sleepless.. It was difficult for me to move on and think beyond that but then i managed and survived because I have the habbit of not giving up in life.. No matter how much pain you are in you should always stand up straight and think that you are above all of this . You can and you will.. ♥️🌸

[@realpassionlife]

Neomika Ganguly thank you! 🙏🏼💛

[@himadrisonai8291]

U were in many relationship...lol...u don't know about true love

[@neomikaganguly8958]

You don’t know me personally @himadri sonai

[@NehaSingh-qq1si]

Exactly . Both love and breakup have intense power with them. Nice video

[@ASid95]

Love fills your heart with lots of energy if it's TRUE but when heartbreak occurs, all of that energy is released suddenly. If you can tap that energy, it can change your life otherwise it can break you . Osho says during love you remain superficial, heartbreak goes deep into your bones and bone marrow. It shakes up your inner soul and it's the time to focus and do something great.

[@ValentineWan]

After the breakup i had last year 2019 i finally went back to school this year 2020 after dropping out in 2014. My heart aches and i still have hard time believing its over but everyday i wake up stronger and i finally found myself. I must admit its hard but the pain really pushes me to work harder. I love when he said the feeling of nothing to lose on his talk because thats literally what ive been feeling. I was always scared of doing something and i stuck in my comfort zone now i dont care about anything (good or bad) the bad thing is my depression really kicks in that makes me not afraid to die but this heart break also teaches me something ill never forget and that is "forgiving myself". Its like a blessing in disguise.

[@shalinimakeovers]

I have never been in break-up but i think a guy dumped me because i was fat.I was over weight.Today i lost some extra weight & i am happy alone.I feel thankful to be dumped because love doesn't mean that somebody dumps you for physical looks or any thing which isn't reasonable.

[@alexandros8354]

Mua Shal don't get me wrong but I'm glad that he dumped you because you seem strong & intelligent girl for him .believe me it's better for you that you didn't end up in toxic relationship with him .

[@handsomeprash3946]

:)

[@santhoshsanthoo5250]

ultimate dear

[@ankitkumar-in1ie]

same thing even m to facing in my life

[@anandsingh4071]

that guy was big chutiya...how anybody can dump u just bcz of your looks...he crossed the level of immaturity.... keep on loosing weight n have six pack abs...post it on insta...

[@swastikmishra7757]

This amazing guy came to my school and he rocked that session with us..... It was just total party and it was so dope ..... I loved it .....

[@vaishalik8342]

After heart break, no emotions, no feelings, no care..just numbness, and full of loneliness, but still people living life in a different stronger way🙏

[@Jrincloset]

When we brokeup, it’s not only the relationship that is broken. Our heart, our trust, our dreams, our hopes, our souls are broken too. And it hurts when that other partner of us, think that we are creating a big drama from it.

[@Jrincloset]

@Erica Ben lol

[@MerariBonova]

I loved this video ! I’m going through a break up and I’ve been feeling anxious like I want to do something, go outside and run and do something with my life, like you said it’s so much energy inside! Thank you !!!

[@rajeshrajput7813]

Merari Bonilla so how u feeling aftr 2 weeks

[@creativecorner999sirisha3]

If you are breakup with someone mean s you are getting ready to achieve fruit full life.

[@sahilnimar7361]

Dil tuta lekin abhi bhi kaam kar raha ha. I salute your Honesty .

[@willpowermantra9731]

last night i got heartbreak,,,, and today am here for some positivity,,, and i finds alot

[@willpowermantra9731]

@Erica Ben okay,,,,, whose that guy,,, and how can i contact him

[@anshu5518]

At times, you know what you are in, yet hearing it from someone else wipes out the dust resting over your mind. Exactly what I needed. Thanks bud !

[@DigitalGandhi]

thank you anshu ....there are more videos on digital gandhi channel

[@DigitalGandhi]

Thank you anshu

[@nehajoshi9643]

Anshu garg true..

[@arelosso354]

Just broke up 3 days ago, now still searching for motivation to move on. I loved her with all of my heart for 5 years, and now she wanted to focus on her studies, and be an independent women. She said that her feelings suddenly became less. Right now I'm having what's called Takotsubo (heart break syndrome) it really hurts and tears me apart from the inside. I have a very small family, my mother, father and lil brother which is has a down syndrome, so he couldn't understand me that much. But he is sure special. And for my friends, I have just 3-4 friends which are close. After she left me, my world turn upside down. She still text me tho, trying to convince me to stay until she's really okay, until she can find that feeling again. Pls pray for me, I'm that kinda guy who will love too much than a girl should deserved.

[@casanova4282]

buddy move on, the real reason is not studies, its something else, if i talk further it'll hurt you more, so the best course of action is moving on

[@himangshudeka5849]

It gets better bro. Trust me 😇

[@nelson617]

Mohd Dzeryl bro move on its not the studies, my ex dis that to me this year after starting college and I fell for it. Whole time she was getting to know other guys and the moment she founded a right fit she didn’t want to talk anymore. You gotta put yourself first now bro it will be hard

[@hebihebi6818]

Damn! I'VE BEEN DUMPED FOR THE THIRD TIME FOR THE SAME REASON AS YOURS and I love him so much n loved him all these years together and apart but he chose freedom over me... it broke me, even it was the third time him dumping me I swear the pain felt same like the first time. And because I love him...I let him go and yes I won't wait for him this time. Either breakup will break me or make me, pain is inevitable and suffering is a choice. Do well friend, think on it.

[@icemanpacman]

Cut off totally ..don't expect her back ..she cares abt herself only .not u ..ur never in the pic

[@zulfigeo]

It's really painful to forget a person u love the most...don't get emotionally attached to anyone, at the end people left u anyway which destroy u mentally and physically as well...💔

[@kehloorigirl1999]

I think this is the most powerful speech to overcome the breakup depression

[@cadreg5217]

notice shahrukh in 'ae dil hai mushkil' saying, "it's strange how you love someone so much that you don't really want them!". I think heartbreaks mean that once you have lost everything, you are free to do anything.

[@syedainayaqadri2326]

Deep

[@sneh5748]

Wow. I've never seen that movie, but line is so true. I love him still but I don't want him in my life anymore

[@eswarprasad9773]

this guy is perfect company for a joint with all the "youre at the end of the cliff,you can fall or fly" stuff

[@loveloving9935]

Eswar Prasad LOL

[@vishalv9113]

😄😄👌

[@29.priyankakurbet16]

This vedio helped me alot..i loved a person too much. Thoght he would be with me till my last breath..bt unfortunately got cheated by him..alot of thinking came to mind about suicide and alll..at that time i saw this vedio and it just changed my life. Now im focusing on building my life..i scored 9.5 cgpa after this..thank you so much for this🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@SurajSharmaCR7]

Yes, break ups do hurt. No one wants them but they still happen. We accept them and learn to move on in our own time. My journey started in 2019 and it's still going on. Time has not healed the pain but it has transformed me into someone who has learned to live with it. Sending more power to people currently going through a break up.. 🌹❣️🌻

[@issa1543]

Hello lovely I will introduce you to the same Relationship restorer who attracted my ex back to me within 48 hours.. He can also help you to reunite back with your ex real quick.

[@issa1543]

What sapp him:

[@issa1543]

[phone]

[@AnuragPandey1989]

बड़ा जरूरी सा है इश्क़, जरा कर के देखिए । या तो बिखर जाओगे, या संवर जाओगे

[@AnuragPandey1989]

Nandini Nivedita thanks

[@prakritig.c429]

Anurag Pandey Thank you got your words. Actually, very good words that really make sense.

[@satyendrapanday1299]

इश्क़ इश्क़ ही तो है कर डालिए..... बन जाइए या फिर मिट जाइए..... पर इश्क़ कर डालिए.......

[@danishkhan8532]

Sahi kaha pandey ji😁

[@NoobGamer-dy8yl]

Sab bikhare hain

[@urveeebby]

I don't even know you bro! but I'm still so proud of you.

[@nathansimwanza4976]

breaking up has left me down to zero... i have lost everything. i have nothing left for me. no home, no property, no time to see my kids, nothing. i am doing my very best to keep my job, but i can't find a branch to hold on to for me to sink completely. i just found this video and somehow i am beginning to realize that, my life, starts with me; that my freedom starts with me; that my independence starts first with me. I choose to love myself first and commit to myself first. Thanx TEDx for this. i may have nothing not even food to eat apart from here at work, but i know that my life is worth millions of tons of happiness than just to mourn over a person that never even considered me human. I am so thankful

[@rhythmnaidu5233]

Broken heart people will become artists.... That's really truee

[@williamcord6369]

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[@robert0405]

Take one step at a time, meet one stranger a day.

[@nmathur767]

Beautiful! It's absolutely true that one cannot get that drive to get up and do something when you are in a relationship, because you are complacent. You are not really harnessing your potential. It sounds lonely, but truly, art becomes more breathtaking when it comes from a broken heart. Great talk Onkar!

[@neham.marathe1869]

Breakups make u a good artist but love makes u a great artist..love is the inspiration for the artists it makes life worth living.

[@SriDevi-nl1sn]

After the break up, believe me, I intensely cleared all the mountains of karma that was stored in my body in different parts, and just became totally empty from within.

[@hephzibah.joviern]

Tru. After a series of heartbreaks of which the death of my hubby has been the epitome, I'm fearless just at the age of 28

[@TheGHAJU]

Breakup means the wakeup in life. I was in a similar situation when my ex left.. I was totally in silent for weeks or months. Sorted insomnia in few months. But this is my life and its ending one minute at a time. Life is only once!! Humans are so advanced creatures they are so evolved and developed.. Find an interest in your like. At the end of the day it's only you should be happy. No one bats an eye!! Life a life that's interesting to you and not everyone else..

[@chintugorana4130]

I loved someone, I have waited for him for 2 years, I have sacrifices many things in life just for him. In the last I came to know he has cheated me, he got married with someone else, after I got time for myself, now I m more independent, more free, now I can fully concentrate on my carrier and dreams. Break up is a wake up in life. It teaches you many things which will be helpful in future, but one thing also that u can't trust anyone again, and if you want to trust then plz don't blindly trust anyone. If u had a break up then he is unlucky that u r not in his life, but u r still lucky bcz u have seen his true color on time.

[@triptirathore9027]

He is so right ....no fear , free mind , realising what you want ....