Love Is Blind: .... NO MORE AFRICAN MEN ABEG!!!!!!

[@sashanyc1942]

Lydia DELIBERATELY spoiled Aliya’s experience. It was 100% on purpose and very hateful. She still wants Uche.

[@DrKoko90]

💯

[@elysemorgan1854]

Agreed! When uche was kicking her ass about the cheating the first thing Lydia said was you need to leave him

[@RoseSimeus]

Yesss! Especially when she started disclosing unsolicited information about his lifestyle, what he drives, etc. She didn’t need to know all that. Glad she left the experience!

[@nisastar]

Agreed

[@imani1023]

Agreed

[@lawyerleya22ify]

As a lawyer myself, I can tell you that Uche was cross-examining Aaliyah once he heard something that he did not like. It’s what trial lawyers do. It was an effort to get her to agree with him at all costs to show her that she cannot beat him in an argument. Then he minimized what he did to put her another level down from himself in his eyes. I’m honestly not interested in any of these couples.

[@Kelema86]

Yep. And the goal was to make her feel unworthy so that when he does choose her she will be grateful that he did.

[@elysemorgan1854]

SO unfair

[@dortheacaldwell6780]

Yes. To add to this, from an attachment view (as a therapist) his insecurities of trust came up and instead of him being vulnerable he became defensive by judging. Aliyah was being vulnerable and needed reassurance in that moment because she was looking for closeness in her transparency. While it may be frustrating for us to watch cause it comes across as weak (or getting beat up) she is showing up from emotion not logic. I won’t say Uche is as intentionally being manipulative but he stayed in his protective tendency which is interrogate, attack and judge which at the very least shows a deep level of insecurity. It was hard to watch.

[@dortheacaldwell6780]

And you are right about it feeding right into Aaliyah’s insecurity. Ol girl did her a favor cause these tendencies and insecurities will only intensify and feed their negative cycle

[@dortheacaldwell6780]

So after finishing the review, cause I fast forwarded Lydia and Aaliyah’s convo cause I couldn’t and now I know why. Cause Uchi choochie and Lie-dia are full of shit. Simply put.

[@prettynpetty8342]

Lydia made her whole personality the stereotype of being the loud feisty Latina and that gets old really fast.

[@Justsomegirl8]

Yesss, as a Latina nothing annoys me more. My eyes rolled so far back the minute she started talking

[@themysticwarriorgal9465]

she didnt shes just overly emotional. Being loud and feisty isnt bad if its who u r.

[@AshleyT716]

Right. I felt as though she was annoying lol.

[@eclecticsoul3904]

Lydia is manipulative. She befriended Alliah with the intent of keeping an eye on Ouchey's potential partner. And tried to brain wash her into believing they are just alike and he wants someone JUST LIKE HER. Translation....your man really wants me. Lydia is EVIL.

[@alextroy9202]

I noticed that. She did not get the guy she wanted though

[@TheNelles365]

When Aaliyah was trying to convince him she changed, basically begging him to stay with her, I screamed at the screen!!!! GIRL STAND UP

[@sadiM653]

Production paid her to do that. Why else would she care to go back on the show?

[@sevon751]

Sarah Jakes voice .. “Girl get up, girl get up, girl get up”

[@shyranhilaw4352]

“Don’t bring no more Africans on this show! I’m tired. Me, the ancestors, the sisters, we’re done.” This is so funny but accurate 😂

[@Kg_525]

The whole continent though😂😂😂

[@tazzy4624]

​@@Kg_525Pretty much all the subsuharan ones

[@anitaartis9591]

We live in an educated society... from what I see out of African men, is disgusting to say the least. They like to have many women , but uchee, was constantly judging the black girl. They don't usually date black American women. And I don't blame them, because we are not going to be their doormat.

[@anitaartis9591]

An African man demands too much out of a woman... After all, they were the first man. However, in this educated society we have here in the U.S, women go to work AND make decisions also. He wants the woman to be " less than" when he has more flaws than she has.😊😊

[@macphallic]

I don’t appreciate that! When white men fuck up or show character defects, I don’t see us saying Don’t bring anymore white men on this show, or fuck them all, let’s get clear about the implications of what we’re saying, even with what we are being shown…like you don’t think the politics of representation, and who they select and how they set things up aren’t being manipulated in such a way to have us hating on African men. It’s one thing to say this person is making poor choices or I don’t like his character, another thing to denounce an entire continent of men. Like WTF!?

[@newwave2705]

Uche is a hypocrite. He chastised Aliyah for something she did two years before knowing him but then barely took accountability for lying about dating Lydia. All this after he claimed lying was a deal breaker for him. He then tries to defend Lydia talking about she’s a trustworthy person etc, as if that’s appropriate given his lie. He tops it off by pivoting to talking about an engagement ring. He’s a liar and manipulative. Aliyah dodged a bullet.

[@bobococo89]

Yassssss thank you!!!!! And also he ain’t shit

[@butterfly11222]

💯💯

[@MistyPremium]

EXACTLY what I noticed too! Wrong for her to have a past, but him fn her home girl a few months ago, "nah girl let that go. There's nothing there" 🙄

[@LaymansLawVault]

👏👏👏exactly! Like he did his dirt three months before the show and with a woman on the show. He should’ve told her straight up but to judge her harshly. Should’ve been a tell but wow

[@RugbyPrincessT]

He’s actually not a liar. There’s a comment on his IG where he mentioned the producers told him not to say anything when he wanted to tell the whole time. And when he said “the producers told me not to say this”, they cut it out of the show 😭. The producers do a great job getting us riled up lol

[@CoralieStSurin]

“These mfs looking for love instead of looking for therapy” gets me everytime😭😭😭

[@CoralieStSurin]

I did the same dancy dance when she left! (In my mind)

[@Lady_Tee15]

It is ridiculous

[@GreeneyedAmbition]

It’s honestly what I thought they were needing therapists

[@lisah8438]

This season is insane. When i heard Chris story, i was like i know Netflix did not air this. With no trigger warning. With no sexual assault hotlines. No nothing.

[@daniellar2165]

‼️‼️‼️ They are trifling for all of it! Smh!

[@totalpefectionisto]

I don't remember this.

[@LeahFrazier]

I felt the same way. It was triggering for me

[@futasupastah]

They are very irresponsible for that!

[@dannicatherine324]

A violation fr

[@sandrar7099]

As an African woman, I COMPLETELY approve this message. It is ENOUGH PLEASE

[@lasirey]

The disgrace is too much. We have had enough😂😂😂

[@kimbrown797]

@@lasirey As a Nigerian woman it’s embarrassing watching these African men on tv..enough already !!

[@basicallyv9873]

😂😂😂😂

[@christinethuo6840]

Wanachoma brand

[@BlackandGold-x6n]

which country? don't include all of us in your mess.

[@LauraMartinez-nd4lr]

UCHE pretending he didn't recognize Lydia's voice when he was rearranging her gutt's 3 months before LMAOOO!!!!!

[@Lulu060986]

Lmao

[@jimmie4141]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣That part!!!!!!!!!!!

[@Onbrandaccess]

Now ma'am😂😂😂

[@cheriepomba]

That part sis 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jarias3751]

The “fiery, loud” trope only benefits/applies to lighterskinned or non black Latinas. That does not apply to darker skinned or black Latinas. We’re seen as angry or aggressive when in reality we may be passionate about something. But that girl was loud af for no reason. She would go to library and would get shushed by the librarian 10 times over and still be loud.

[@jp-id8sk]

It’s a stereotype that so overplayed and it annoys me everytime

[@emmas9928]

Not shushed by the librarian...😂

[@ff2154]

I think Lydia is naturally a more reserved depressive type person (hence her stalking) & she puts on this Loud Latina Persona to feel Alive, get attention & Feel Better about herself.

[@macphallic]

It’s absolutely true, and it’s rooted in anti-blackness. The patriarchal white supremacist need to suppress any type of potent and powerful force that originates or emanates from black people, particularly women.

[@_belleza]

@@ff2154very insightful

[@MadGriss]

I’m a Dominican woman and I’ve always hated the stereotype of us being loud, aggressive and crazy because I am none of those things and when people find out I’m Dominican they’re already expecting me to act a certain way. It’s soooooo annoying. Sure, I can say the Latin culture can be passionate but sometimes it’s dragged.

[@Jdavismoranti]

Agreed 💯💯💯

[@WatchandLearn16]

Me: oh I’m Jamaican! Everyone: oh Ganja Bob Marley! Me: I’ve never done drugs in my life. 🥹

[@MadGriss]

@@WatchandLearn16 you just look at them like 😒 stfu please 😂😂

[@ara0320]

I totally agree with you! Dominican here as well. Since I don't fit most of the stereotypes , I'm weird🙄

[@marisortiz273]

I agree. Its an annoying stereotype

[@emmas9928]

As an African woman, I was mesmerised by the way you express yourself in assessing Uche's scandalous behaviour. I. Love. It. The pointing. The double finger pointing. The clapping. The delivery. The emphasis. The prolonged CUSSING in Haitian Creole. Jessie, ❤❤❤ So so good. Do you know how many times I watched that section? 😂😂😂 Yeah, Uche is appalling. This review was EPIC.❤❤❤

[@TheeJessieWoo]

😭😭😭😭😭 my best work!

[@emmas9928]

@@TheeJessieWoo Absolutely outstanding work ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

[@nickoletcampbell4657]

YES. I was thinking to myself this video is gold. The new background the new closet😍 the energy, the comedy the editing👏🏽

[@emmas9928]

@@nickoletcampbell4657 I totally agree. Our girl has moved up to Golden Review status. 🏅 🥇 🌟 🌟 💛 💛 ✨️

[@AnaAcuraErica]

Uche has been the best African representation yet imo 🤷🏽‍♀️ I feel bad for him cus of Lydia

[@ChimereJackson-j7p]

I’m convinced Lydia and Uche decided to complete their applications together!

[@psat21]

😂😂😂😂 I see that too

[@thorpe1128]

I personally think she heard about him doing it and signed up😂.

[@ChimereJackson-j7p]

@@thorpe1128 agreed!! She probably hacked his phone 😂

[@basicallyv9873]

Me tooooo

[@basicallyv9873]

Cause 3 months ago you probably filled out that application and auditioned and everything.

[@anikaweeks1172]

Him asking her if she feels embarrassed or ashamed is so wild to me and shows a lack of emotional maturity. We shouldn’t be stuck feeling regret, guilt, embarrassed or ashamed if we are actually processing our emotions

[@futasupastah]

Period!!! Thank you for pointing this out! If you had an experience years ago, that you actually dealt with, processed and grew from, why would you be feeling embarrassed??

[@thobilembuli8571]

As an African woman, I agree. These boys be embarrassing us at every turn. Can’t.

[@Oivia2024]

My sista…. Why? 😭 It’s like every season 😂

[@charlottedomingos2988]

Lmaooo i meannn they were all Nigerian....

[@fumisoko7303]

​@@charlottedomingos2988Kwame is Ghanaian.

[@SHall-xk1tn]

Damn 😅😂

[@PrincessVelaryon]

It's mostly West Africans on LB. But there have been others on other shows from different parts of Africa.

[@Bree5three]

The clap and point to the screen, the impromptu singing, we don't deserve you Jessie!

[@TheeJessieWoo]

😘

[@gozio]

The point to the screen is my new favorite 😂

[@GooniesGirl]

You know who does deserve her? Netflix! Have Jessie do the reunion please. 🙏

[@simplyblessed2851]

You went IN on Uché😂😂😂sounded personal… btw, not sure if you know but your goods were def tryna peek at us..that too was struggling

[@chelseajay2011]

Uche is the type to have multiple side families and gaslight you when you find out

[@chantechantechantechante]

My theory: Lydia found out Uche was going on LIB and decided to go on to make it look like a sign they meant to be together. She didn’t seem surprised enough, immediately calling out his government on TV, and the breathing comment?? She cemented it when she’s started telling Aliyah everything about the man.She seems like a plotter to me

[@mzteez5770]

Yes! And then she seemed relieved that he started laughing and wasn’t angry! Why do you care about his reaction if you didn’t purposely plan it?! 🤔

[@birez6625]

I was so mad for Chris, he’s everything I would look for in a partner. He takes a chance on being vulnerable, he’s vocal on how interested he is, he seems like a solid person and so sweet. He would make any person that he’s with feel so safe and I’m scrambling my brain why on earth Izzy was even in the realm of possibility as another choice. Also I’m Mexican and hate the stereotype. I’m a naturally reserved person that’s pretty soft spoken. I’m not a doormat but I don’t need to flail and scream to get my point across. No judgement to Lydia but it just feels like a self fulfilling prophecy with her.

[@meghan22]

Chris should go on the bachelor, he’s adorable

[@ABryantable]

Chris is my favorite.

[@QueenB723]

Johnie's mom was right. She ain't good at picking at all!!

[@oksanaml9279]

AND.....He fosters puppies!! 🥰🐩

[@Sol-zv4wy]

Yes! It's like being PR [is] her whole personality. It was a bit obnoxious imo

[@istm.podcast]

I need Nick and Vanessa to move out of the way and let you host the reunion!! I already know they are not going to ask the questions that need to asked after these first 4 episodes lmao

[@whoisZubaydah]

This comment needs to be pinned 🎉😂😂

[@changeoffocus1074]

Her & Tanner from dish nation would be good hosts for the reunion…

[@opaldl2734]

Can we start a digital petition? Jessie is now famous enough to get a role like this!! We gotta let Netflix know!

[@triciacharles8022]

An hour and 47 mins?!?! I love this for us! ❤😊

[@TheeJessieWoo]

😭💪🏿

[@VonnJackson]

Right?! 😂 and we gone watch every second!

[@Melissa_Lorraine]

Truly 😂

[@thespajourney4930]

Yessss got my snacks ready😊

[@johncrowbatty2000]

literallyyyyy😊

[@AmberNicholl]

Your commentary about being the oldest child really resonates with. I am number 2 of 7 kids. But I’m the oldest girl. The amount of responsibility I still have compared to my younger siblings is insane.

[@pnwnewyorker9088]

It never gets better either.

[@dharmascool2009]

I am the youngest and the only girl, I feel you on this too. It took me years to do this, I cut off both my brothers, my mother, bio aunties and uncles. Guess who's left? My dad and non bio aunty. Some of these family members only want you when they want to abuse you and/or take something from you. The saying you can choose your friends but not your family is bs. Blood is thicker than water is bs and that quote from the bible has been misquoted. It's actually the opposite. I am blessed, guided and protected, even more so after I cut off years of dealing with human weeds. I am out here manifesting, educating, doing therapy, eating healthy, drinking my water, setting and maintaining boundaries and minding my beautiful, melaninated and progressing business. 🎉🥰🍀⚖️🥳💷🍲🧉🪄🧘🏾‍♀️💪🏾✌🏾☯️

[@ask4theupgrade359]

This happens in many families, where the oldest child is expected to step in and assume responsibilities on a parental/adult level in the raising of their younger siblings. Thereby, having their own childhood shorten. I’m the youngest of 5 and I view the oldest of my sisters as a 2nd Mom, who got her 3 young siblings ready for school, took us and picked us up from school, helped with our homework, started working at 14 to buy us nice clothes & other things All while also translating America 🇺🇸 for our immigrant parents and only being 4 years older than me. I had a great Mother/Parents. However, my Big Sister, operated more like my Mom’s younger Sister. She also took on being both my sisters caregiver and my parents. I wholeheartedly appreciate all her efforts and even wrote to Oprah back in the day to have her honor Big Sisters and their role within a Family creating the “it takes a Village” concept. In my observations, it takes a “Big Sister” that we love and appreciate. Thank you for being one yourself. I still would love to see a “Big Sister Day” sepárate from “Mother’s Day” 😊

[@Simply.Dee12]

I’m the 2nd oldest of 7 too. I agree.

[@DeeSunbae]

We are the same. Second oldest of 7. Oldest GIRL. And believe me you. We get the worst of it.

[@msbarbhenry]

Jessie can we please get a make up tutorial because every look in every video is GIVING! The girlies need to know how they too can look this flawless 😍

[@cindyben3089]

I was just thinking about that ! Her makeup is always beautiful.

[@NakyaMami]

I’m waiting for it too

[@anslymontero8083]

Im convinced Nick Lachey himself is giving these men haircuts in the back the way their hair lines are so messed up 😂😂😂

[@dayanad824]

I feel like Lydia found out Uche was coming on LIB and found a way to be on the show. Befriended his closest connection and manipulated someone else to propose to her when all along she wants Uche to pick her. I’m convinced once Aaliyah got off camera she realize that both of these people were nutty and ran the F out of there…

[@Kriscs123]

People keep on saying that, but miss the fact that she is the one that blocked that man after their hookup. I don’t see this theory.

[@divinegangsta3692]

YEssssssss!!! I was saying this!! Lydia and Uche are cat shaat crazy and covert narcissists! Uche not so much of the covert, and Lydia has very low self esteem, but they're both psycho and meant for each other. 😂

[@ArianaWoods112]

⁠@@Kriscs123but she’s the one who wanted to keep going once they found out they were both in the pods.

[@TheeJessieWoo]

Agreed!

[@raycraig2231]

​@@Kriscs123 how do we know she really blocked him? Lydia seems batshit crazy and a manipulator. She could have lied about blocking him because why did she ask him if he wanted to date again

[@Esther-iv1fw]

Lydia was cutting off Izzy with her wailing, it was too much, and yes when hispanic women say they are loud because it’s part of their culture, it’s definitely looked at as, “spicy, sexy, feisty, exciting” let it be us, it’s ghetto.

[@Electra9797]

I was thinking the same thing, it was giving walking stereotype vibes very uncomfy 🤢

[@Tasha8626]

It irks my soul with the blatant bias and the fact that it legit comes from our own men, that love to perpetuate that the stereotype the most.

[@earthchild8536]

​@@Tasha8626"comes from our own men" I don't claim any one of these negus lol guilty till proven innocent

[@soupeorange]

The funny part is that most of these dudes were not into it... Izzy would cringe when she would show up in the pods. Lydia also liked the other geologist on the show, he also cut it off with her to focus on Miriam I think. It looks like it's a fine line between sexy & spicy and just batshit crazy.

[@neetra3727]

Lydia asked Uche how would he feel if she got engaged, and truth be told, he wouldn’t give a damn. That’s why he didn’t ask how she would feel. Now go back to the episode when Aaliyah told her how Uche said yes falling for her. Lydia’s face went blank and she looked like she wanted to cry. Please tell me I’m not the only one that saw that.

[@whatsittooya243]

I saw that too! When Aaliyah told Lydia how Uche wants to spend the rest of his life with Aaliyah or something like that Lydia was lowkey had a stank face!! Me and my friend peeped that instantly!

[@LeahFrazier]

Ugh! I missed this. I need to go back and rewatch

[@plawrence0885]

Nope I saw it too! I thought why did she look jealous now I KNOW!

[@s.s.5106]

I went back and watched it after the truth came out and YES! She was about to cry, meanwhile Aaliyah was cuddled all up on this girl, pouring her heart out about their man! Plus Lydia lied when she said she broke up Uche and SHE said the experience would be inauthentic if they dated in the pods. She’s a snake.

[@KyraKennedyHughes]

@@s.s.5106Exactly Uche is the one that said that she wanted to date again talking about you think this is destiny. She was wayyy too happy to hear him in those pods makes me wonder if she came there to pursue him for weeks thinking she can force him into being with her.

[@clidneyjay]

Sis, once Lydia figured out Uche was in there and he said he did not want to pursue her for the sake of being true to the experiment, Lydia was trying to force whatever relationship she could so she could make it to the honeymoon and see Uche again. We are in the 5th season of this show, ain’t nobody can tell me that they don’t know what they were getting into. Lydia was playing the long game so she could get another chance with Uche. Cause we all know she still want that man.

[@clidneyjay]

BECAUSE THE WOMAN DO NOT WANT MILTON!!!!!!!!!!

[@Akengaroo]

Netflix needs to hire reactors to provide commentary during shows like this because I'd pour hours into it. Your reaction to Uche was ON POINT because the devil is taking notes from him atp

[@Passionatelycurious91]

Not the devil taking notes 😂

[@Megz129]

Uché the demon😂

[@trevi3749]

omg yes!!! lots of Korean shows do that and its super entertaining!

[@JinaChantil]

Girl, Brett & Tiff was THIS year! Netflix done pumped out about 3 seasons of this show in 2023 alone! They are going crazy with this show 😂😂😂

[@DBrown-vg1fi]

A dam shame 🤦🏿‍♀️ On a brighter note love ur profile pic girl 💕

[@thatgirl_nay7049]

Her profile pic is fire 🔥

[@sweetrain50]

2 seasons this year but yeah.

[@MsChantae]

lollllll

[@PrincessVelaryon]

The UK version is coming out soon as well. Soon we will be sick of this show 😅

[@adeolashoyebi]

The title alone has me CACKLING. Reality TV producers have discovered Nigerian men and their toxicity and have never looked back 😂

[@a.b.2405]

They’re going to make sure to add more of them from now on! 😭💀

[@Lulu060986]

West African men. Kwame is Ghanian.

[@adeolashoyebi]

@@Lulu060986 wasn't talking about him..

[@melissasllew2527]

Unpopular opinion here. I'm from the caribbean and never dated an African, so I have no reason to be for or against them, but I see nothing wrong with the ones who've been on the show so far. With SK, I'm the only one I know who doesn't buy Raven's story. I think they weren't in a real relationship, they made a deal to continue, maybe for publicity, but the white girl blew up SK's hustle, I guess cause she wants publicity too. Raven and SK can't tell the truth cause I'm sure it would cause some contract issues with the show and what not. Kwame, I felt his feelings about sacrificing certain things were valid. Uche's questions to Aaliyah re cheating were valid, I was saying some of the same things out loud that he said to her. Chances are producers told him and Lydia not to say anything about dating. Prob no one on either side would've wanted to date them if they knew

[@adeolashoyebi]

@melissasllew2527 As a Nigerian woman, it's not that deep and my comment was in regards to an on going discussion/ joke within the community about Nigerian men

[@justjanies]

hearing you bought a house genuinely makes me happy Jessie. We gone get that house decorate by fire or thunder!

[@NYCBJP]

As a Cuban Afro Latina everytime you say "la negra tiene tumbao" I just burst out laughing LMAO cause you so enthusiastic about it

[@KathyOdisse]

Lydia gives me the vibe that she’s willing to settle with literally anyone to get engaged JUST to show Ushe what he missed out on/get him jealous or even see him “on the other side” … I KNEW it! Even when she was making those comments to Aaliyah since day 1 I thought it was so so so weird.

[@nicnoe]

Is it possible that Lydia knew he was going to be on the show and tried out as well? She gives that vibe.

[@daniellar2165]

😮😮😮😮I didn’t even think of that!

[@letyoufindme]

It takes months of interviewing and paperwork to be cast (Deepti and Nataile from S2 talked about the process on their podcast). They both would've been in the casting process prior to their last meetup. So, I honestly don't think she did it for him. Just a weird coincidence.

[@ArianaWoods112]

@@letyoufindmeI mean S2 was years ago, it’s possible things have changed, or once the producers heard the potential drama they rushed her process. That could explain why she immediately recognized him and he didn’t recognize her.

[@Josie19969]

Yes I can see that! Lydia gives me crazy ex girlfriend vibes 😂

[@dyamondd1771]

According to Uche's Instagram production had scouted the cast this season, he says was approached about the show and that they also told Lydia and Uche to hold off on saying their exes 🫤

[@GingerSnapsss]

I'm the oldest of 3, and younger siblings sometimes will resent you for seemingly "having it all together". They don't realize the constant pressure we are under as the oldest: you are basically the spokesperson for the family, the lawyer, the doctor, the tax preparor, the translator, etc, while the younger ones got away with murder. And our parents often compare us to the younger ones, which leads to hostility towards us.

[@TheeJessieWoo]

Girl I resign.

[@sophieman2185]

Wow spot on girl

[@DBrown-vg1fi]

A whole fact

[@astoldbyshay8345]

I feel seen

[@briolivia]

I'm the youngest but i feel like the oldest

[@HighMaintenanceMinimalist]

Miriam's skincare company is called Zack and Lucy. She sells body butters and hand creams that are basically made from shea butter and vitamin E oil...I have NO idea why she was being so sketchy about that. That said, hilarious review. Congrats on the house!

[@JoyintheA.M]

Girl, how did you find that out?🤣

[@zedkuchalo]

Maybe production would make her pay for advertising/product placement 🤷🏾‍♀️ just a guess

[@HighMaintenanceMinimalist]

@@JoyintheA.M I looked it up. She also used to promote it on her Instagram.

[@seriously2798]

She knows African man will dismiss your achievement instantly!

[@coop8089]

😂😂😂

[@traetrae11]

I’m sorry your family wasn’t as supportive/celebratory about your move as they could have been. I understand fully how that feels. I’m wishing you a long and happy life and nothing but pleasant memories in your new home!! Edit: 28:44 When I hear people proclaim to be “givers” I rarely believe them. I haven’t met true selfless givers that have to run around telling people they’re givers. Usually they don’t even know they’re giving too much and you have to reel them back a bit so that they don’t burn themselves out.

[@emilypagan79]

As a fellow Puerto Rican, not all of us are loud and obnoxious, nor do we like to be. I think pride in our island and flag is beautiful, but not all of us enjoy the stereotypes on Latinas. I hope to see growth for Lydia throughout the show 🙏

[@adelaramirez970]

I'm Cuban, and SAME! I can have loud moments, but I'm usually soft-spoken.

[@Libra-Lewin]

Congrats on becoming a homeowner YESSICAAAA! 😊

[@breezluize3282]

There is nowhere in the American reality tv world where the producers are interested in upholding the dignity of black women. Be it on the Real Housewives franchise, Basketball Wives, Love and Hip Hop or ANY of the dating/marriage shows. Their business model is based on profiting off of the humiliation and degradation of black women.

[@uniqueone8928]

Who fault is this at this point? If Black people agree to do these contracts to sell out their people and low their standards for greeds. They should be holding themselves accountable and stop lowering their standards for the white people. Black people gotta do better at this point. They stand for nothing nowadays.

[@meghan22]

In Izzy’s defense…johnie gave us a huge trauma dump and said “so yeah what do you think?!” I was sitting there with my mouth open 😂

[@Electra9797]

That’s fair, I’m not exactly sure what she expected him to say. Maybe she thought he would trauma dump back and that would bring them “closer”. But telling a man that you weren’t in love with your ex husband and the one person you really love died is wild because did she think that would make him more interested??? Sis could’ve took that to the grave tbh. I think Johnnie would benefit from therapy and putting marriage on the back burner. And I mean that in the nicest way possible.

[@MichelleNgome]

Johnnie is unhinged, watch her cut up this season.

[@ABryantable]

@@MichelleNgomeI can believe it! The elevator definitely doesn’t go all the way to the top👀

[@meghan22]

@@Electra9797 I agrée! Thé first thing I thought was how do you expect him to believe you’d love him when you didn’t love your last husband

[@crissyjayfae]

The way that she basically told him she didn’t love her first husband, I would have left her too. Stacy and him had been having a nice fun easy connection, why wouldn’t he choose that relationship? Johnie did not say anything about maturing, reassure him that she’s grown and is serious about wanting a true connection and a healthy relationship. Nothing. She waved her red flags and expected him to just accept that and continue? Nah. I couldn’t fault him for that. And the way he informed Chris of this was very good bro behavior, he let him know that Johnie is not honest or consistent. Good for Chris.

[@stonepainter]

"He look young and old at da same time" 😂 Jessie says perfectly what i'm thinking and unable to put into words.

[@Legallyglory]

I truly don’t understand how people fresh off relationships come in this show to “find love”. Should be a two year minimum of being single requirement lol

[@IvyElizabeth918]

People would just lie lol.. majority of people have a deep issue with being alone for that long

[@jembear888]

Jessieeee I’m Salvadoran and Guatemalan and I’ve been watching you for 10 years now ❤ love you and happy to see you growing every year!

[@TheeJessieWoo]

I love you ❤ thanks so much it means the world to me truly

[@jessyfierce_]

🇸🇻🇸🇻🇸🇻🇸🇻

[@patricesc82]

I see that closet! Love to see my fellow Haitians winning and upgrading ❤ 🇭🇹🇭🇹🇭🇹

[@deeniesmothers9310]

Both Uche and Lydia are diabolical. He has that bombshell of a secret, yet interrogated Aaliyah like that over infidelity that didn't even happen to him? Lydia is playing in her face like she's her bestie, but not only she's harboring a huge secret, she tells every detail about her relationship with Uche.

[@lorindaopoku2803]

Izzy is that sugar daddy who wants exclusivity but has a wife 😂😂😂😂

[@emilywilliams2328]

I cringed during Uche’s interrogation! I was like sir, you’re doing way too much. This style of communication does not promote honesty. The whole time I was like, yeaaaaaa she’ll never tell you the truth again. BUT LYDIA! Now that vindictive, dishonest snake had me in my feelings. The way she single handedly sabotaged that relationship was unbelievable. The whole time I was thinking why hasn’t this woman been loved, she’s so loving and kind. After that convo with Aaliyah, I was like ok so she’s bay sh*t crazy! I get it now. Nah, she deserves more smoke than Uche in my opinion.

[@aiihairyou1336]

Tbh, if anyone goes around preaching about how good they are as a person,thy normally arent. She is a walking red flag

[@joanna0988]

Watch the new episodes and you'll see Lydia's behavior makes more sense. It's now Uche who's clinging to her and trying to force a different narrative so he looks better. I need Aaliyah to run.

[@maggief1851]

Me too

[@AssEater3000]

@@joanna0988yeah exactly. let’s not forget that he literally cheated on her and following all these other women on instagram, maybe even talking to them too? Either way, Lydia definitely was acting a lil crazy tho. They just both toxic.

[@joanna0988]

@@AssEater3000 Oh she's nutty for sure but he's malicious whereas she's just desperate and chaotic lol.

[@Alltingzkaren]

Personally for me, she should’ve never told him that. There’s just something’s us women must keep to ourselves. Yal know we do not get the same grace as these mens… !!

[@LaShawnDenise]

Especially since the ex wasn’t aware of it and couldn’t have gotten on the internet to say she’s lying 😂

[@sexyblackcharlery]

Exactly

[@AFOS94]

He hoodwinked her into thinking it was a safe space with no judgement and my good sis fell for it smh 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@mrs.c6569]

Take it to the grave…😂😂😂

[@Electra9797]

I was thinking the same thing, he really didn’t need to know that. Plus, men have loyalty to other men that they don’t even know so of course he came down hard on her in the name of her ex 🙄

[@RoxiieSays]

“Milton is giving Lionel Richie is my daddy and I been using his jerri curl shampoo” lmfaooooooooo 😩😂😂😂😂😂

[@Yespls888]

Yesss 😂 I told my husband he looks like a tall and younger Lionel!! 😂 I think he'd look so much better with a different hairstyle and/or no facial hair (which I usually like) or add a goatee.

[@ccgirl5597]

He got that SOUL GLOW

[@blalala5837]

I didnt even care that Lydia was loud, it was what she was loud and extra about. It seemed like she was overcompensating to drown out her pain of not being chosen/ loved in the way that she needs. It was sad to me because she seems really sweet. Edit: I do also agree about her being batshit crazy.

[@kelsealopez3031]

From a Dominican woman, thank you for the shoutout! I come from an Afro Latina mami and this felt amazing!!!

[@juliejulz320]

When there's an echo in the house...look mama, we made it! Love this for you Jessie!❤ I'm not even gonna waste my time watching this season of Love is Blind. Imma just watch Jessie's reviews cause one thing Jessie gon' do is be thorough and give us all the tea.

[@KyeyuneBatuma]

Nopppe gal go watch it its worth it

[@patricia247able]

I'm so glad you're commenting on this show. Your maturity and wisdom are what black girl magic is all about.

[@CreateAndEvolve_]

Got my parents watching LIB5 now because they saw me watching your review and were cracking up! Netflix needs to cut you a check sis ❤

[@Josie19969]

ASAP!!!

[@ryerye5697]

As Afro Boricua (with African ancestry, 4B hair and from the boogie down Bronx), I am happy that you give space to the girls that are not “white”enough to look Latina. Also, I disliked when they went in on her accent. She has an accent but is very intelligible - these yt people like to make latinas seem like ditzies and dumb. She’s a whole geolist and is educated. I also feel like people will play up my slight accent I have and automatically disregard me (I am a Neuro PhD). They automatically assume I’m here because of my diversity and “fiesty” looks (mine you I am au natural and yt people wonder what I’m doing at the med school). Anyway, you are the best Jessie!! Love your context ❤❤

[@90swannabe56]

Didn’t know there was a new season out until I saw the thumbnail, binged it yesterday and now I’m back and ready to pop off with Ms. Woo!

[@rebekah3420]

You are so right, Jessie! Uche was treating Aaliyah like a child he was scolding. I was cringing the whole time. Idk why she felt the need to reveal everything. Withhold something...please! Uche is certainly giving LDE. Then to intentionally withhold that bs with Lydia 🤬

[@MsMojo014]

It definitely made me uncomfortable to watch…🥴

[@SidraAdele]

I’m so here for your videos! I’m here for the accents, the facial expressions, the creole I don’t understand, the fingers pointing like you’re casting a spell, allll the shenanigans! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@natashaevans6379]

The creole we don't understand, yaaasss 😂🤣

[@LaymansLawVault]

My fav lol I be looking forward to these

[@jonigurl]

If she ever were to put subtitles for the creole it won’t be the same 😂😂😂

[@natashaevans6379]

@@jonigurl swear down 😂

[@canteven772]

i know the season was a mess when it aint even fully out yet and Jess makes a nearly 2hr video

[@seriously2798]

I watched all episodes and the dust is blowing already while still in the pods😮

[@Kelema86]

Girl. This video gave me life. The way I laughed and giggled throughout this entire review. You are so much fun. Thank you for seeing through Uche, emotionally abusive is a great way to describe his behavior toward Aaliyah. The way he scolded and chastised her when she came clean about her past. Whewwww very disturbing. The way she responded to it too, like a shameful child… difficult to watch. She showed herself to be a prime victim for him to sink his teeth into as well. I’m so glad she left. But I have a feeling she will be back 😫

[@javanjunkindahouse6625]

Yessssss. When watching the first time I felt so uncomfortable and like buddy what are you doing - leaning in so hard and her reaction and the crying I was oh hell no. I’ve been in abusive relationships and worked hard to pick up on this shit early. Really appreciate Jessie for bringing this up and calling it for what it is.

[@christyzelinski3464]

I just love you Ms. Woo!! Spot on commentary. As someone recovering from narcissistic abuse from the Ghanaian man I gave everything to. It's vindicating hearing you so accurately recognize emotional abuse.

[@mekeeianb]

Congratulations on becoming a homeowner! I have not even started watching this new season of Love is Blind but I love hearing what you have to say about these shows. You are so hilarious and always make my day. Never really watched Dish Nation until I found out you were on there but you have me rolling and so do the other hosts. Wishing you all the love, happiness and many, many blessings! ❤

[@Assumpta_B]

Girl you are an ABSOLUTE TALENT! The beginning of this review alone had me cracking up!! I sent it this video to all my fellow african friends!! 😂

[@SianLondon]

1 minute in and I'm loving this ENERGY! My good sis said " they are blind to love!"😂😂😂

[@adetoroceballos211]

This song about these haircuts?! I'm CRYING. I don't watch the show but your reviews are everything!

[@Jessica3467]

Jessie, I was listening this while walking Target and I look like a damn fool trying not to laugh in public.

[@TheeJessieWoo]

lmaooooo

[@heartofthematter247]

@TheeJessieWoo I was laughing OUT LOUD in Prague! Looks for more than one reason! 😂😂

[@thetaylordbrand]

Jessie has blessed us with 🗣️ 1 HOUR, 47 MINUTES AND 18 SECONDS

[@Electra9797]

Baby I flew to this notification!!! Before I even watch it, thank you so much for your hard work Jessie we really appreciate it! ❤️❤️❤️

[@TheeJessieWoo]

You're the best!

[@Electra9797]

Thank you girl!! 🥰

[@oumsangz]

I love how she insert truth as she insert creole french! On point! Précise à l'heure! On adore! Merci encore Jessie!

[@simplyem.]

I think alot of men value trust over everything when choosing a partner, and after what Johnie said about her not even being in love with the person she last chose to marry, it's clear he feared for the same and probably felt she could not be trusted. Even if his emotional connection with Stacy wasn't as deep as with Johnie, he probs felt she was the "safer" option. Also congratz on your new home Jessie! 💛

[@sexyblackcharlery]

Yep, she should have kept her mouth shut

[@destinyschild5768]

Izzy made the right choice picking Stacey cus jonnie is nuts

[@spamsamwabam]

Lydia even telling every damn body she is Puerto Rican spoils the experiment. You're supposed to go in there getting to know people without any biases and she makes it her whole personality lmaoo

[@Choklatekisses1]

CONGRATULATIONS Jessie!!! My Amazon gift should have arrived by now. Peace and Blessings!! I'm almost never on IG and don't even know my name there lol I don't care for the shout out anyway. :) We're so freaking proud of you!!

[@HonduranTendaroni]

I see they always need a TOKEN AFRICAN MAN each season!

[@mari-wp5nn]

Do you know what a Token mean ? Because a token character is a background character just to be there but in these case those African men are the story . So there no tokenism. There are a part of the main characters everytime. I would say they need a token Asian woman because we always see them and a part one season they are always in the background.

[@LaymansLawVault]

@@mari-wp5nntoken means one of the ones. It doesn’t mean in the background it simply means providing the filler and main character or NPc it’s always one so he would be the token African 😂

[@PrincessVelaryon]

Nah, in these shows, black people are usually the main entertainment. It's gotten to a point that the white participants are boring.

[@NIO623]

Ummmm. ... Honduran do your homework. Texas has a huge Nigerian population so that is why Netflix chooses them because it places into the demographics of the city. It's no tokenism- Netflix casts based on the city population. When there is LIB Alaska or Ohio, there will not be any Nigerian .

[@NIO623]

​@yovngandauthentikbrand6726 there were 3 Nigerians cast so its not tokenism- they casted per the demographics of Houston. I am Nigerian and I live in Houston and we are here.

[@Okra_winfrey]

Woo! I felt so bad for Chris for that EXACT reason. He opened up to her with something so traumatic because he made such a deep connection and she did him like that. I’m glad he told her FOH when she tried coming back when she got rejected

[@Pinky_Tingz]

It was divine karmic justice. I'm happy he chose himself and hope he learned what he really wants and needs in a woman moving forward. And by the looks of the rest of the season, Johnnie will be chasing Izzy and Lydia will be chasing Uche.

[@Kat_X085]

It was funny to me that she got turned down by Izzy for getting emotional when she did the same to Chris. I was like KARMA!!

[@Legallyglory]

At this point I’m gonna petition for no more Hispanic women on these shoes cause all they do is embarrass us 😭

[@crissyjayfae]

Yeah I wanted better for Nancy and then Lydia is giving snake vibes

[@charmaineespeut4627]

​@@crissyjayfaeJackie was the worst one lol

[@kg-13131]

Yess! Lydia begging Milton for a proposal was giving Nancy and barista vibes! girl is desperate! Mallory was the only one that did not embarrass herself.

[@charmaineespeut4627]

@kg-13131 I think she begged so she can stay on the show.

[@taniadesravines5782]

Lydia, Jackie, Nancy, and don't forget Giannina S1 who was a little toxic. I say fire the casting Mgr, LIB has an agenda.

[@jennyfotang1083]

I see 70K views so there NEEDS to be 70k likes! Make sure y’all hit the like button!! LIB cut my girl a check! @jessiewoo congrats on the house!! Very much deserved💜 Family may not always be the first to say it but we’re proud/happy for you and I know only more beautiful things will unravel for you if you continue on the path you’re on. You make the mess on LIB all the more worth watching because you’ve created a community in this small corner of the internet and it makes the show THAT much more interesting! Thank you for the laughter but also the bluntly honest thought provoking discussions

[@Claire_by_the_Seashore]

Really grateful for you, Jessie. I watched the first season because quarantine came as a surprise, but I couldn’t stomach the red flags after. I love hearing what happens through the lens of someone using their sense.

[@19babydiva]

So apparently the producers told Uche not to tell, so I’m assuming they did the same with Lydia. But what makes it weird is that she went and befriended Uches connection. I don’t think the producers have that much power to also make them friends. She could’ve kept her distance from Aaliyah. THATS why I’m side eyeing her😒

[@LeedaFaizi]

I've been more excited for this video than love is blind itself!!!

[@yohannasufran9415]

I clicked so fast

[@anneb6262]

Me too! I love her reviews!

[@shelbyspellman3046]

I ain’t even started the season but I’m here supporting my girl 🤣

[@TheeJessieWoo]

💪🏿💪🏿🥹🥹

[@KyeyuneBatuma]

Galll go watch the season you are missing out 😂😂😂

[@shelbyspellman3046]

@@KyeyuneBatuma you right you right ! I just be over the disappointment but ain’t nothing else on TV , why not?

[@DBrown-vg1fi]

@@KyeyuneBatumaChile if black people gonna be on here embarrassing us I’m tied !

[@anissa2361]

Lol, this was me last season but my coworker said you need to watch it this time so I am, lol. But I always get excited about her commentary.

[@ntombifuthigumede]

I knew Izzy was broke when they said he was an "Insurance Agent". I don't know about the US but in South Africa, let's just say Stacy would be contributing more than 50%😬

[@taniadesravines5782]

So nobody else didnt it was weird when lydia was intially consoling aliyah. I mean she was right but when she started talking about those are "he has issues he has not worked out" and "he has trust issues" I was like hol'up, Nena 🤔 ¿Comó sabes?

[@neotheboxer]

Right? I wondered the same thing

[@glyntaylor96]

JESS-EEE-CA! You’re reactions are BETTA than the show itself.

[@Jmaxx196]

Congratulations Jessie on the house. Love seeing my fellow Haitians being homeowners.

[@nurseidalia1610]

Jessie!!! You have no idea how much I loook forward to your love is blind reviews! This was legit the best part of my day! Don’t ever leave us 😊

[@WendalynBrooks]

Honduras! Absolutely adore you and your intelligence! You banter is top tier!!! Congratulations on your new house, I feel like a proud mama!

[@shawnadena128]

SISTAHHHHHHH what is this lip combo!! Also congrats on the new home!!!! Blessings and blessings unto you!!! You prayed for this and you deserve it all!!! AMEN!

[@modelk25]

As the oldest of 6 I felt that to the core. They will help each other out but never me cause “I got it”. It’s like I’m their sibling but I’m also not. I am trying my hardest to not let this pattern repeat for my 4 girls. Each one is being taught to look out for each other from youngest to oldest.

[@kgantt05]

I have been following you for a while and I never comment, but I had to tell you... Sis, the yellow is GIVING! 😍 Against your chocolate complexion, it's just gorgeous!! Perfection. 💛

[@staceymischelle6495]

I'm sorry... Stacy didn't want Izzy for real. And Lydia just wants anybody to want her. She'll attach to anybody just to have a piece of man than no man at all!! 😂😂😂

[@Jdavismoranti]

It’s giving Nancy Rodriguez 2.0 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@MsMojo014]

@@JdavismorantiDefinitely🥴

[@Fleur_2desert10]

Lydia’s situation is sad . She need to work on her self 💯

[@franceparis5714]

😂😂😂so true

[@mmsandee1]

That is the best review I have ever watched 😂! Love everything about it! Specifically the message about accountability as women, particularly black women. We need to start taking responsibility for the part we play in allowing someone else to treat us poorly.

[@simplycleva]

40:16 The way Jessie broke out into song, comparing Uche to Bartsie had me on the floor.

[@Msshayson1]

Not the closet having an echo 👏 👏 👏 love it congrats!!! 🎉🎉🎉

[@125loopy]

I thought she was in the living room with all that space in the shot😂😂 super proud!

[@DoYouSalut]

My husband is going to be so happy to hear you have a home. He used to be so stressed about your neighbors because of the random yelling and singing. Lol congrats 🎉

[@selfishgirlsgofirst]

that's so sweet 😊

[@ninaserina83]

your husband is adorable

[@MariaFsu]

I remember when my white Cuban history instructor at FSU had to stop the entire 500 students classroom to educated our class about how Haitian are Hispanic and Haitia is in fact Latin American. People were mad and confused all because they were learning that for the first time in college. These are the things that people should know. As Haitian doctor who was born in DR to both Haitian parents and is now married to a white Norwegian man. It is my duty to teach my biracial children about my background. My son and daughter know they are black/white for race and Norwegian/hispanic/haitian for origin background.

[@Bibirallie]

But being Hispanic is being relative to Spain or Spanish speaking countries. Haitians were colonized by the French. Haiti can be from latin America, but they aren’t Hispanic.

[@joanna0988]

​​@@BibirallieYes they're Latinos/as but not Hispanic unless of course they also speak Spanish.

[@fabulousideas3848]

Omg I just graduated from FSU, love that school. I’m Haitian by the way

[@missems7909]

He was literally interrogating her. He was just being a lawyer and she wasn't getting it.

[@nyimasallah1837]

You are so right about Miriam. The minute she popped up on my screen and knew she was bleaching her skin. and it was confirmed when she was reluctant to share her skincare business.

[@juliestarks1279]

So happy for you that you got your ‘Mariah Carey ‘ dream closet!!!! 🎉🎉 I love it when people say “it has always been a dream of mine as a little girl/boy, to have ______” And then they get that very thing they dreamed of as a kid!! 😊😊😊