Love is Blind Season 5 Episodes 1-4 Review LIVE DISCUSSION

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[@dominiquedom2684]

Late to the chat but Sharonda, my girl, if they make a black Love is Blind it will absolutely defeat the purpose of the show and also, plus size people are barely casted, let alone chosen, so in comparison that would be like us requesting there be a love is blind for thickies but again, that would defeat the purpose because that’s exposing at least one physical trait. The show would need a different name. Also, Brett and Tiff didn’t get a lot of screen time because they were a snooze. Which is really not a bad thing at all for them but they didn’t make good tv, which is why they’ll probably have the most longevity out of any of these couples, Cam and Lauren included. And not to take the all lives matter approach but there aren’t a lot of Asian men being chosen, or middle Eastern women. So, it’s one of those things that we can only hope gets better on the show but we cant create a love is blind for every marginalized group, I don’t think it would hit the same,

[@shellywalton8545]

Can we talk about the toxic friendship between Lydia and Aaliyah? They are too much. Their conversations were cringy. There was a scene where the other black girls were across the room like WTF is going on. I low key wanted one of them to rescue Aaliyah from Lydia. Am I by myself on this?

[@ladygakga9265]

This is not a relationship, it’s a master manipulaylay. 😁 It’s one sided, on both ends! Aaliyah had no idea! The way I’d feel played!!! Pieces coming together in slow motion like…🤯 I’d have had to leave, to keep from fighting! These… are the elements, of a good movie… I did not expect this outcome! And the way we all found out together 😮‍💨 straight villainy! LiB writers are not on strike?

[@ladygakga9265]

I meant friendship, not relationship

[@yemio1005]

Aaliyah needed to get tf away from Lydia. Their “friendship” was very weird. It just showed how being in that experience really can affect people, like u can fall in love with someone in 4 days and also have a whole best friendship formed as well. Lydia was definitely manipulative and giving single white female delusional

[@PayOrWait]

I think that being confined to only interacting with the same people for 2 weeks straight with no access to the outside world allows those types of friendships to happen. Their relationship was very weird to me as well though. Like this is not your best friend at all. Just another contestant on the show

[@yemio1005]

⁠@@PayOrWaityes! And I do also think Aaliyah has low self-esteem because her reactions show she is far too accommodating and agreeable. I hope she will grow from this and know she deserves WAY better

[@emileigh6524]

I don't get why Sharronda is so adamant for a Black Love is Blind. There are many Black dating shows on other channels. Also, can we stop wanting to pair up Black women with Black men. Black men aren't the default choice for Black women. It's also interesting how Asian women aren't well represented on the show but no one think it's because they are undesirable so why is this logic only applied to BW. Finally Cameron mostly dating BW doesn't mean he had a fetish.

[@paigew6707]

Exactly!!

[@RMBS91]

I think she has blinders on. There is a show on vh1 called The Love Experiment that is similar to a Black love is blind… but she won’t review that show.

[@PayOrWait]

I was technically lobbying for A. Get men who are actually open to dating all races of women (Which I never believe they will do) so B. Was me wanting to see a show with Black people only where Black women would statistically have the chance of actually getting chosen for engagement. I didn't say Cameron had a fetish I said production would've never guessed that Cameron had a history of dating Black women

[@PayOrWait]

@@RMBS91 I don't think I have blinders on at all. I also haven't been reviewing anything lately lol this is my first time even reviewing something in weeks and if I am not reviewing something 9/10 I didn't get access to It or was never notified about It (i.e. the love experiment) but now that you have put It on my radar I will see if I can watch the episodes on tv and let you know what I think. Always feel free to recommend stuff to me to watch but just know that a lot of the shows you think I'm just not reviewing just because I probably didn't get access to or wasn't even pitched about It

[@amaebarnes]

​@PayOrWait such a classy response after being criticized! I was already a fan but now I'm a bigger fan.

[@RoxiieSays]

Tait on Bartiste: “When I walk into the room, I’m the hottest commodity.” Bartiste, where do you go?? 😂😂😂😂

[@TaitsTake]

😂😂

[@ProfessOz]

Lydia is every villain on the lifetime movies.

[@PayOrWait]

STOP It lol

[@kweenz600]

I would call it “Best Friend Nightmare” or “Psycho Best Friend” but those already exists 😂 I’ll keep working on it though!

[@CiaoColeG]

​@@kweenz600 How about "She Called Me Her Sister"?

[@rainclouds1188]

@@CiaoColeG How about Sister Wives Friend

[@kweenz600]

@@rainclouds1188 Secret Sister Wife!!! 🤣🤣

[@dalubuhlengwenya7188]

Here for Tait. He just makes sense for me and he thinks very open mindedly which I enjoy. Sometimes Shonda just sounds like every stereotyping person I see on socials. Idk. That’s just me. I’m happy Tait is here to open up her mind to different ways of thinking

[@BroadwayMajor]

I agree. Tait’s point made more sense.

[@vonvon333]

I agree, love my girl but come on

[@halioj]

I absolutely get what Sharonda is saying about the Black men that are casted on these dating shows. The reality is, the Black men casted usually pick non-Black women. Even in situations where they can’t physically see them, they pick up on social and cultural cues that identify the women as Black, then they are able to eliminate those women from their line up. And even in cases where Black men have had a history of dating Black women, it’s like when they get on these shows they choose to pursue non-Black women as they now have proximity and access to them where they may otherwise have not.

[@polivepea]

🎯

[@Daveyjonesvi]

She’s right but how would you truly vet that in casting. Most people won’t say their racial preferences and most would lie and say they don’t care how they look. Especially for a show like this which is supposed to transcend the physical. It’s truly a tough aspect to vet.

[@halioj]

@@Daveyjonesvi I completely agree that it’s a hard thing to vet. Unfortunately there’s really no solution to it, which is why Sharonda keeps emphasizing the need for an all Black cast or version. The problem is, I doubt they’ll ever do that and even if they go to African countries (like LIB South Africa or Nigeria), I think they’ll find a way to still predominantly cast non-Black and/or light skin people (but mainly women).

[@leggs4113]

Tait cracks me up. “I almost took over your whole channel” 😂😂😂

[@Goddessluv22]

I like listening to Tait. He gives good advice and is very good listener.

[@kiam6218]

Love when you two get together. I think you two should come up with a KZbin dating show 😂

[@PayOrWait]

We just might have to do that

[@samsmith4924]

Sorry Will not be watching you anymore I do not find your new partner or you funny

[@carine8516]

@@samsmith4924 Byeeee 😂

[@kiam6218]

@@PayOrWait Get your Tyler Perry on. If you see a void, fill it 😀

[@Simplyunashamed]

Sis, respectfully, it is dead wrong to suggest they should segregate. This notion is problematic. I’m with Tate on this one. You would not be able to call it “Love is Blind” any more. I’m Afro-Latina and my husband is White. We met online, after we divorced our former spouses. He was married to a white woman before. I was the woman of his dreams (based on my character, and yes, my looks and race/ethnicity) and he didn’t even know it UNTIL he met me! Segregation is NOT the solution, under any circumstances. The premise is not to be considered as a life partner, based on race/ethnicity only. “Love is Blind” to differences in culture, history, interests, lifestyles, etc. Can we just stop making everything racial??? Massive props to Tate for thinking critically and pushing back on this notion.

[@lionelwithers8069]

Agreed. I really wish black women would stop trying to force a situation where black men choose them. Stop chasing men that don’t want you. Stop concocting scenarios where they’re being “tricked” into choosing you. Once they realize, they’ll just find an excuse out of it. Or they’ll stick it through and mistreat you because you’re not what they really wanted. You don’t see black men ANYWHERE coming up with ways to exclusively date black women. The ones that want you, will pursue. Leave the rest to the white women they want.

[@lthomas6022]

Agreed 💯

[@donnabohanon1570]

Lychee and Lydia played AAliyah like she was booboo the fool. Outrageous!

[@PayOrWait]

They truly took advantage of her kindness

[@thetransformationalwoman369]

I think Lydia is a stalker

[@Carrie-s1d]

straight up. Like what are the odds of "showing up" on the same dating show as your ex of three months ago? Lydia hunted Uche down low key

[@Afrikah2911]

I was ok with it until she started talking about him, his house, his dog. I would not be able to be her friend.

[@S_8-]

Same!! I don't beleive that was a coïncidence. She came to get back with him playing the "fate" trick.

[@amandadosanjos3994]

Yes!!

[@bosslevelcarter]

Pertaining to your discussion about black women not being chosen by other men, I literally just saw a white man confirm that Miriam is his number one pick on the show this season and there were probably more instances of that happening which weren't aired on the show. So I do think black women are being chosen and we're being chosen in real life too. But I also agree that there are a lot of black men showing up in reality shows who don't want to date within their race, however it's not anything I am upset about personally, I think people should date who they want to, just don't trash black women as you do it.

[@Carrie-s1d]

White men love Black women and cherish them especially when they get serious. Period. Black women are valued just as much as everyone else romantically. Black men sometimes want their women not to be confident because they arent. But where there's a sista, there's tons a white guys willing to choose her and cherish her for life if she wants.

[@PayOrWait]

I agree that you should date who you want but It seems like they go out of their way to choose men who truly don't date certain types of women

[@Lexichi22]

It's highly possible that there are a lot more matches and pairs that do go forward, but the producers just decide not to spotlight them.

[@amaebarnes]

After seeing Lydia show her true colors, I know that Lydia telling Milton about the Uche debacle, I swear she got off on telling him that, making Milton jealous and starting all that drama. Wanting to find a way to bring her name up to Uche in some way again

[@Kloves818]

Age is not an indicator of emotional maturity. It's not an indicator on whether a marriage will succeed or fail. My parents were 24 and 30 when they got married and were happily married for 20 years. My old roommate and her husband got married at 19 and have one of the healthiest relationships I've seen. On the other hand I have relatives 30+ yrs old who are emotionally immature have no business being married yet. It's not fair to put people in a box just because you feel like *you* were young and immature.

[@Miranda-gi9fx]

I agree it's not always a factor, but generally it is. Exception is not the rule. And beside maturity, usually a 30 years old woman and a twenty something man are at different stage in life and wants to move at different pace.

[@PayOrWait]

You know what after reading some of the comments I am going to rethink this but I still think in the case of Lydia and Milton its a no for me lol

[@lizzien5846]

You are funny, I met my husband when he was 25 (and he was already married and divorced) and I was 33. We have 2 kids and have been married for 17 years!

[@lthomas6022]

I know a lot of people who got married young to older people and are just fine. I know some where the man is younger by a big age gap. It's about maturity level and age does not equal maturity.

[@leggs4113]

I ain’t gone hold you but Im just here for Tait 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@TaitsTake]

Who me???

[@solangevarela5802]

Sameeeeeee!

[@stsworld4669]

Not to degrade us, saying that there’s not enough Black people but I kind of feel like there’s just not enough of any race other than white people like there was one Asian girl last season and her entire engagement got cut from the show the. Of course Jackie is the one Latina girl of last season but then they kind of just copied and pasted her with Lydia. It’s just kind of weird to me how there’s not any other race at all not just black versus white but Asian, Mexican, middle eastern, like shit Native American like you know what I mean it’s like they pick one person to represent the entire race every season.. in my eyes not everything is black or white

[@amaebarnes]

Milton actually isn't a geologist. He's an engineer but seems to also like geology. But funny enough, another male cast member is a geologist too. Like what are the odds? Maybe it's a texas thing lol

[@BB-ty6iy]

I think it’s a Houston thing- Houston is very big on oil

[@rays.3242]

This is the first season when I realized the pods are glorified therapy rooms and the cast is eachother's Therapist

[@PayOrWait]

Lol this is such an accurate statement

[@michajaneroy]

Tait’s takes >

[@egyptianqueen4007]

Love is blind Africa? That's like saying Love is Blind North America. I really dont understand why so many Americans are ignorant when it comes to not recognizing Africa as a continent. I'm from Egypt and Egypt is a country in Africa. I really wish people would stop referring to Africa is a country.

[@Kloves818]

No one said it is a country. They obviously meant an African version. Love is Blind Africa is vague as to not limit the show's options. Any country within Africa will do.

[@a.b.2405]

And not everybody in Africa is black.

[@ivapetrovska9986]

Mrs. Sharronda Williams bravo for going after Uche and Lidia ! 💪 I think Aaliyah was used by the LIB production who did not protect her searching for the drama !

[@Lexichi22]

Being unwilling or uncomfortable with talking about your emotions isn't an age thing, it's a personality thing. There are countless young people who have no problem openly sharing their emotions, just as there are many older people who keep their emotions close to the chest.

[@donnaclinton991]

Aliyah and Lydia cried and it was sad to see, BUT the other women sitting around wasn't bothered by the tears... at all.😅

[@PayOrWait]

I am sure they were like why are yall crying you need to be discussing how are yall that close but you let your friend betray you like that

[@teresadamore5802]

poor Aaliyah felt doubly betrayed I think and she was so scared of getting hurt in the first place!

[@stephanieyun1872]

Go for it, Sharronda! Tiffany from LIB 4 was in her mid-30's during her season, so you def haven't aged out

[@cheryldavis6656]

I'm a fan of both of you! Keep it coming 😊

[@PayOrWait]

thank you for watching!

[@teresadamore5802]

agreed on the flag worship, kinda scary

[@PayOrWait]

Ok!!!!

[@teresadamore5802]

Woody and Amani were successful from New Orleans season and Brett and Tiffany from last season, all beautiful people

[@donnaclinton991]

Tait is handsome and funny; it's a good combination.

[@PayOrWait]

He is definitely hilarious

[@leggs4113]

Join the family. He reviews lots of good movies and shows. “Taits Take” is his KZbin channel. We would love to have you. 😊

[@meganburch]

Not "you got money" 😂😂😂 Iverson the name brand puffs. I died.

[@Sibby496]

How did you determine Uche was a narcissist in 4 episodes which were heavily edited. Please don’t rush to hate on people for no reason. This is a reality show, it’s edited for entertainment.

[@alleycat5061]

Production had to have known about the history between Lydia and Uche, and I think they shouldn’t have been put on the show. I get that it’s for drama, but they are screwing around with people’s lives.

[@egyptianqueen4007]

Yeah that whole dynamic is odd and weird that Aliayah feels like Lydia is her best friend. Geez she has only known her for two weeks. Is she there to make friends or to find a husband.

[@LadeOla]

Maybe they should start distorting voices so people won't be able to tell the race of the people behind the wall.

[@agoodreadsgirl]

Love you two together. Just stumbled across your individual podcasts this week. ❤

[@teresadamore5802]

for Miriam, working in the Middle East doesn't sound odd bc she's in the oil and gas industry very likely, but lots of people are saying she's selling skin bleaching cream, how sad!

[@JhoJhoMojo]

Milton on the show said that he thinks he is going to die young so why is it impossible for him to want to get married young. Also, if there is an issue with age gaps, then Netflix should have a higher age range for the people participating. If a 24-year-old has a fulltime job, paying his own rent, paying his own bills, paying taxes, why is that person not able to make their own decision about marriage and wanting to marry someone older than them. I don't get that.

[@ladygakga9265]

Milton’s brain, is still finalizing

[@PayOrWait]

He is super smart maybe we misjudge because someone else brought up and interesting point on the age difference between taylor and jp

[@ladygakga9265]

@@PayOrWait I think he seems very smart! I really felt for him, when he told his story about feeling stupid in Japan, and I’m glad he got to blossom passed that! I just meant that his prefrontal cortex, isn’t even done maturing! I appreciated, how he confessed, that he realized, he has things to learn. I mean, we all do, but you can see the age difference, when he interacts with Lydia, or some of the guys, in the pods. He seems adorable, and I hope he’s just there, for extra screen time, and a vacation…! He must know!!! That Lydia ain’t it! Saying all that, I’m not ready stuff, the way he was at the proposal, and in those jeans lol! He better enjoy the honeymoon, and leave unmarried! Anyway! Thanks for the review 🙏🏿 I came over from Tait Talks, so thank you both! 🫶🏿

[@Jambeauty098280]

Izzy def said in his bio that it would be a plus for him if his partner was "blonde with beautifully colored eyes". So Sharronda was on point

[@leggs4113]

Stacy & Izzy just want to party and have a good time. They will crash and burn. I don’t think either is truly ready for marriage.

[@pearlosibu]

Love Tait so much. I’m subscribing here!

[@jennlands1884]

Omg just realized you guys giving me Regina Hall/Nia Long and Taye Diggs/LLCoolJ vibes. Omg love it. Would watch you as Love is Blinds host fr!

[@beckystreet9576]

I understand what you're saying Sharronda. The general viewing public needs to see representation of love between black couples on mainstream media. These shows make it seem like black men don't ever choose black women, and that obviously isn't true in the real world. Love is Blind isn't quite the right fit for an all black cast since the premise is that love is color-blind, but a similar show could be created for mainstream media where the cast is primarily (if not entirely) all black

[@Stephanie_Ella]

I was 24, and my ex was 30 when we met and he was still living with his parents.. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@PayOrWait]

not him living with his parents still!!!

[@JKnight1316]

I feel like everyone is intentionally missunderstaning your point Sharronda. Although I agree a black version of this show defeats the premise, the fact of the matter is reality TV producers rarely pick contestants open to dating ALL types of women which puts black women getting picked at a disadvantage. They should cast more contestants without a racial preference.

[@agiry183]

Lmfao "we can see you too". With a show like this, a lot of people with insecurities are attracted to the idea of not being judged for their looks. They still are regular people though and uphold desirability politics themselves. They don't want to be judged for their looks, but they're reserving their right to judge others lol.

[@e-one-off9870]

Sharronda girl! I missed you girl! So glad I caught this live! I am with you 💯% I woulda opened a can of whoop ass on Lie-Chie and Lydia too!💪🏾

[@PayOrWait]

They had me too heated

[@carlylejour]

So mad I missed the live. I enjoy watching you both! Definitely can see where both of you are coming from in this discussion.

[@jenniferk4190]

Sharona, you are absolutely right!!! Netflix does not want to show us black women who are happily in love. The fact that Aaliyah has to be the one to deal with the most drama this season is another example.

[@abbient]

I loved this ENTIRE discussion! I missed the live party, but it was still a time! I hope to catch your next live for LIB 🤞🏾

[@sanra167]

“We gotta get u some air” 😂 😂 😂 Men in shorts with defined thighs will get me everytime!

[@Izzyouable]

I don't understand why people act like a 24 year old and a 30 year old dating is inappropriate. I'm sorry, but that's extreme. Maybe you were immature at that age and you grew by the time you were 30, but not everybody is YOU.

[@PayOrWait]

You know what we are going to discuss this again because the comments are making some good points

[@JhoJhoMojo]

I agree. That discussion about age is mind blowing.

[@lionelwithers8069]

Truly insane. And I notice it only applies when the man is younger with an older woman. There have been several couples where the woman is 24 or 25 with an older man and no one bats an eye or even notices lol. 24 is not 12. That’s a grown adult. Like we have to stop infantilizing men just because they’re under 35. Only in the U.S do we regard these grown men as “kids.” Any other country they would be like “he should’ve been married with kids by now” lol

[@ask_why000]

It's strange to "hate" someone just because of who they support politically, no? I like to think of it like this: Would you care if the person saving your child from drowning was a Republican or a Democrat - or would you just be happy the kiddo was rescued? People are so... politically myopic. When (in fact) both parties are (largely) irredeemably corrupt.

[@Stephanie_Ella]

I just try not to talk about politics with people.. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@alvinluv1127]

I agree with every word in your comment

[@PayOrWait]

now who said we hated somebody lol

[@dalubuhlengwenya7188]

@payorwait girl you were judging JP the whole time saying he was a republican blah blah. Listen back and be more self aware of what you say. This is a general amaerican thing y’all do.

[@stsworld4669]

It depends on how deep the political stance goes to me personally I couldn’t be with a far right person but I could be with a right person

[@kirsten_305]

In Season 1 reunion it was revealed Lauren was sought after by a lot of the guys So I think they got the casting the most right that season where people really did want to know if love is blind. So I still prefer Lauren and Cameron’s romance over the Brown’s because it was FANTASTIC promotion for a darker skinned black woman who was ADORED by her pick/future husband, super feminine, and desirable. I like the Browns obvi but my issue with their courtship as it played out on tv specifically was that Brett was too stoic and Tiffany seemed a little too grateful to be picked. So when comparing the two, as a black woman I prefer the more reserved and pursued Lauren. Doesn’t matter Cameron was white. Because I think as black Women we need to see more of that on screen. So I will reiterate Tiffany got picked but her dynamic as it played out on screen was not as meet cute as Lauren. Period.

[@eyekandy3000]

Tait you’re making more sense than Sharronda on the race issue. It sounds like her issue not something that LIB has to fix for her. LIB African would solve nothing for African Americans. A black version defeats the point- Lauren and Camron wouldn’t exist. They should make it blinder- take away names, ages etc

[@aldon560]

They give me siblings vibes lol love their banter on these types of shows

[@lynlee142]

LMAO no way JP is NOT a trumper 😀

[@natiaron8617]

He seems like a great guy (republican or not)

[@brandybaker3280]

Why would it matter regardless? Not a problem unless you’re the one in a relationship with him.

[@lynlee142]

@@brandybaker3280 it does not matter to me, I mentioned it because Tait said he did not think he was a trumper which is is kooky talk😀

[@lynlee142]

@@natiaron8617 Agree be presents as a sincere guy, but the whole flag costume/security blanket thing is a bit over the top

[@brandybaker3280]

@@lynlee142 you right 😂

[@natiaron8617]

Just my 2 cents - I wish people in the U.S. wouldn't hate people from the opposing political party. It seems like both sides just detest each other and it's killing you guys.

[@PayOrWait]

We were just making fun and we don't hate anyone because of their political ideology but overall yes that is a problem in our country

[@sarahgates6947]

Taylor and JP are equally yolk. I feel like they been together forever.

[@PayOrWait]

Look they were cute together in the pods

[@egyptianqueen4007]

When they met outside of the pods their reaction was so awkward. I don't think they will last.

[@thankyou6610]

The producers put uche and Lydia on LIB5 on purpose, they been knowing this tea

[@dannyt7269]

Maybe I missed something, but I’m interested in what’s going on on this panel? I feel like there’s a history or story. There’s some interesting flirting and energy between y’all.

[@Stephanie_Ella]

Love this collab!

[@PayOrWait]

ayyeeeee

[@computercavemen]

Okay Tait's analysis of the flag is off. It'd be different if he wore it once without thought, but he's making a point of it, and he even coached one of his dates about it, so he's proving a point. Mind you, I wouldn't even forgive wearing it once low key but to each their own.

[@JonChrymes]

“I don’t think I’ve ever coughed before”😂 Yo, you here in Atlanta? If so lemme know if you do a meet up.

[@zubygirlmbrigm5947]

The Indian man was so awful. He just wanted to know if the woman was thin. He kept asking if he could put them on his shoulders or how often they worked out. 😢😢

[@ericalivinglife693]

LOL Lydia meant Uche didn't choose her. She just wanted to continue in the process and got with Milton. Funny how norms change. Tait thinks it's insane to get married at 24? I'm a little older than ya'll and I've seen a shift. Many of my friends got married around that age. In fact I had one friend who didn't come to my wedding because she was a bridesmaid in another person's (age 24) wedding the same day😂. The thing about these shows when marriage is the 'goal' they don't pick people with kids (rightfully so) so...the pickings get slim as they go up in age. This season is kind of a dud IMO.

[@Nmendenh-rl6ej]

2:16:37 Tait a real motivational speaker!

[@Lexichi22]

Sharronda, all of your points are valid, but LIB: Black Edition would just be a different show. It would be great to see, though. We need more black love.

[@SweetUareDesi]

lol nah

[@zubygirlmbrigm5947]

You have to be willing to compromise. There is no perfect person. Both people will need to adjust. The main thing is to put your to arm around his waist, that you want to walk with him and hold his hand. Kiss him each time you see him or say goodbye. Make him think he's the best in the world.

[@shehatemel]

Interesting discussion, good points on both sides, but I understand where Sharronda was coming from.

[@scienceisfun4868]

I missed this live i’m upset. Can’t wait to watch the replay!!!

[@mizzyeks]

I agree with Black women not being a dating preference on these shows unfortunately

[@PayOrWait]

Everybody making It seem like im trippin with making that statement

[@JhoJhoMojo]

Some 30-year-old who can't share their emotions might come from a place of trauma. Not sure why you think that is unheard of for someone in their 30's who can talk about their emotions. Some people are just guarded and don't just want to spill their emotions with a literal stranger.

[@grandmamas.whor3500]

Tait Is SOOOOOOO fine

[@zyiacoleman1364]

They ask them if they are able to travel outside of the U.S for the honeymoon possibly

[@jennlands1884]

Just subscribed to you! Love you! And already a fan and subscriber of Taits take

[@indeadawkins6097]

Wait isn’t Taylor 25? Is the argument the same for her and the firefighter?

[@PayOrWait]

You are absolutely right and I will bring this up next week for sure

[@indeadawkins6097]

Also if you’re looking for a dating show with black couples you should watch ready to love

[@Lexichi22]

Taylor was probably directly asked by the producers what she thought about JP's looks. She mentioned his teeth in passing and immediately dismissed the thought because she liked him and had already moved past it. Irina could not shut up about how weird and unattractive and cartoonish Zach was and she told him that to his face. They are not the same. Also, flag notwithstanding, JP has a republican face. I don't know how else to explain it.

[@DMBazile]

Hey! I’m under 30 (27) and engaged lol. Granted my fiancé’ is over 30…I’m also a mother, so maybe that augments the rule 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@PlannersAndTacos]

wait wait...you did a live on selling the OC?...send me the link so i can watch LOL

[@lionelwithers8069]

1:41:34 production isn’t seeking people that are white-centered. People ARE white-centered. Most black men want to date white, most Asians want to date white, Deepti and Shake only dated white. Why are we pretending like these people are so hard to “find.” They’re everywhere. And if they want to date white, LET THEM. Sharonda if you keep trying to concoct situations where black men choose black women, all they’re going to do is MISTREAT those black women. If black men want black women, they’ll pursue them. They don’t have a problem pursuing white because white is what they want. Let them have it. Otherwise the outcome will be what Shake did to Deepti. Didn’t matter how well they connected, didn’t matter that he admitted how amazing she was, eventually her race was an issue for him. He kept bad-mouthing her looks to other people, describing her as his “aunt.” Why? Because he wants a WHITE WOMAN. Let them go. Why pursue men that don’t want you? They’ll only abuse you for it.

[@say.yes.]

I know allot of Puero Ricans like Lydia. Its uncomfortable but in a werid way because youre offended but you know they dont mean any harm.

[@AfroMillennialMomma]

1:44:00 There's different kinds of Black. Genetically speaking Lydia is just as Black as Bartiste; neither is dark skinned but they both have African ancestry and melanin. Her Black just come from a different part of the US and speaks Spanish. Uche is genetically Black and culturally Nigerian-American. Bliss is Black Diamond was Black American (even though she look about the same skin tone as Lydia.) I always thought Iyanna was Asian and adopted byt Black people. I get what both are saying here but we have to be accurate with how we label people culturally and genetically because people will get it confused. I agree that they should separate the casts by CULTURES, not necessarily by racial makeup cause people be mixed anyway and race just determines what you may look like. Culture can determine religious practices, musical tastes, family etc. They can have a casting for people of African descent and ancestry so you have Jamaicans, Dominicans, Nigerians, Black Americans, etc. and do the same for other groups.

[@era9540]

I really love this comment. Very eloquently explained.

[@JonChrymes]

How I miss this!

[@shortyp1000]

Wearing the American flag whether Trump is office or not is a red flag. Why is he being so obtuse?

[@Im.kaylad]

Sharonda, it’s important that you pointed out the disproportionate representation of black women on this reality show. You aren’t alone

[@EverythingAnimePodcast]

I’ve litterally dated every type of guy and race and they are all amazing, they def should be more open for LIB

[@brandybaker3280]

Taylor definitely was not starstruck by JP…😬 I figured it would be something about his teeth/thinner lips for her. I think for me he is just a lil too eager😂

[@JhoJhoMojo]

Taylor reminds of Irina from season 4 when she talks about looks but then he got an issue about that dude's gap.

[@sanra167]

u can tell someone’s face without their name lol

[@socialite8218]

Do black men want to get married at this age? Is there enough of a pool to choose from?

[@amaebarnes]

Johnie is a contract lawyer

[@leggs4113]

Izzy is fine. 🥰🥰

[@ewertz4196]

Izzy is a nice looking man but the more he spoke i realized he is looking to insert himself into someone else family. He has attachment issues due to his past. He is still trying to find out who he is. He is a serial dater. Dating any and every body to find his place. you can tell is a sentimental person but he pick a person who is unemotional.

[@vbmorris81]

Just duck already. ❤❤❤❤😂

[@enneirda07]

1:37:30 oof, fetish is a strong word. I just think they need to profile more couples to account for when one falls through.

[@lionelwithers8069]

Very. A white man liking a black women doesn’t equal fetish lol. And a black man NOT liking a black women doesn’t equal conspiracy. There are plenty of white guys that don’t care about race when dating and there are plenty of black guys that do, and may prefer dating white women. That’s the reality. Don’t chase men that don’t want you. And be open to men that do.

[@KaiReality]

WHY! I MISSED IT 😭😭😭😭

[@PayOrWait]

We will be back next weekend

[@latrice2850]

Maybe to limit racial bias…. they can do generic names and they can talk into mics that alter their voices lol idk