can 2 strangers fall in love with 21 questions? | tea for two

[@martharigby]

Good for John for being upfront, I wish that more people were able to "reject" or stop dating someone with honesty and respect for the other person.

[@Narra0002]

Same

[@chainjsvods]

The endings of this series is so much harder to watch than cut’s button videos. They have to build an actual deeper connection here just to maybe be stood up 🥺🥺makes me sit on the edge of my seat everytime to see if someone will come back

[@lucyservo6574]

I like daniella. I could feel the vibe that she is easy to talk to and can make anyone comfortable. I hope she continues being open and vulnerable to find her match!

[@sevin6060]

I feel like they should have put two people who value emotional intimacy more than physical

[@melissa-5670]

I agree, the deep questions right away could have made them feel uneasy too? (Although they are voluntarily there) Especially the guy who is closed and said it takes more time for him to trust/open up.

[@Rudi_Mentary723]

@@melissa-5670 I'm glad the guy is closed though.

[@subtitlesonplease]

Two very lovely people romantically mismatched. She was hopeful, he saw the bigger picture. Very nicely done

[@sophiaisabelle027]

I do believe in the fact that two strangers can fall in love by asking questions to each other. Nothing’s too impossible in this world to begin with. All it takes it a bit of trust and let fate do its magic.

[@Selin14.03]

Love your comment✨❤️

[@syrenhaze4579]

as a capricorn, i fell in love so easily, in scenarios in which intimate questions and vulnerability aren't even involved. if i did this game with a person that intrigues me in i'd fall in love immediately

[@karinahernandez6709]

and willingness too! if someone is not open it doesn't matter if their soulmate stands in front, they won't even notice

[@royarnehansen]

There is actually some well-documented science to this in the field of Neuroscience and research of Neural Pathways and how they get stronger when repeated and repeated emotional questions would make the pathways of positive emotion stronger.

[@vanessa-tn2ls]

@@syrenhaze4579 literally same but i’m a pisces

[@millennium87]

I love the last part where they can either go back in or just leave. It's exhilarating!

[@ccstarr]

they both seem like they could be great friends but I agree with John just from my outside view there wasn't much of a romantic spark like they didn't seem too attracted to each other in that way

[@allyshaw]

I didn’t see that coming, but I didn’t think they were the greatest match either.

[@thebazile5253]

It was questions like these that made me more interested in my husband. I thought he was good looking but I wasn't too interested at first. But the more we talked the more I fell in love. He said he knew he wanted to marry me after our first date ( we had been talking before our date) I knew 3 months after dating. We got married 1 year and 5 days being together. Why wait when you know you should be with that person. Talk about everything important to you at the beginning and upfront. Don't waste your time and don't waste someone else's time.

[@jcicrafters5724]

This is so wonderful to hear!! God bless you all. You are so precious to God, Jesus loves you, He loves you

[@sirsytham1588]

It’s a strange idea to put two people together who value physical intimacy (much) more than emotional intimacy together to discuss about life lmao

[@alexare6655]

Question for the class- what does everybody actually think of the elusive "spark". Is it bullshit is it real does it just simply refer to sexual interest? Is it about how comfortable you feel with them, how naturally conversation flows? And something I personally want to know is can it develop over time or dies it have to be there literally on the first date? I met a guy who is everything I would want in a partner but I'm not sure I'm into him physically. That's a problem right? I think attraction in a holistic sense can grow but unless they get a makeover lmao physical attraction is what it is. Let me know what you think!

[@alexare6655]

@@morganalston6579 I feel that! I'm in 5he same boat as you and it sounds like we both lean towards the demisexual and sapiosexual side. It's interesting to factor that in because there are definitely people who can just sleep around sans emotional and intellectual connection. I need those before even considering that.

[@apollolyon]

As as Aromantic Asexual......I dont feel sparks. However, many people I know would say they do. For some, the spark is sexual, for others it romantic, some may say its both, and others may something its something else. I think its just something complicated.

[@alexare6655]

@@apollolyon hello fellow lgbtqa person!

[@honk42069]

For me a 'spark' is always an emotional connection. I can feel it during conversations. Mostly when I feel a deep mutual understanding. But it's kind of hard to explain. It's like a rush but with a feeling of "I can easily fall in love with this person". A couple of times in my life I've felt a spark with complete strangers only through eye contact or very limited conversation. That to me are spiritual connections, as if I was connected to these souls in another world at one point. I never pursue these because I find this to be scary and creepy (Feel free to criticise this spiritual mumbo-jumbo). I can only develop a physical/seggsual attraction to someone over time, however, I can clearly recognise who I will find physically attractive from the beginning. This doesn't translate to feeling a spark though.

[@777-s2k]

Chemistry seems to be the elusive spark. It’s the combination of physical attraction and the ease to be able to interact with that person in an engaging way. For me The guys I felt comfortable joking around with and who made me laugh I would feel the most pull towards.

[@xe11e]

I admire him for his honesty and saying how he felt

[@Donatello777]

I like the way she gives him attention, seems like she’s focused on listening to him and at the same time analyzing what will she actually answer.

[@vsh8076]

your approach to building a life with another is to take things slowly, revealing aspects of your inner world over time, gradually allowing your social circles and hobbies to converge with your partner’s. you process your feelings and thoughts alone before carefully

[@orianajadedequay1548]

I mean personallyyyy im not messing with the nectar statistics we got this time around. I liked how organic tea for two felt before.

[@bekindtoanimals2189]

He got there early to pick out a special tea for her. I hope she connected with that.

[@FrankDenbowDotCom]

Yikes, most terrible memory question on a first date? I'd leave that out...

[@natashafigueroa9198]

Agree! I have a fair amount of trauma, and would not be comfortable answering that question.

[@sirsytham1588]

@@natashafigueroa9198 same. I’ve been in psychosis before and that’s by far my worst memory. i do not want to tell random people that lol

[@jinjunliu2401]

@@sirsytham1588 You just did though :p

[@sirsytham1588]

@@jinjunliu2401 true but as far as i know you’re not going to be my next boyfriend bwhahaha

[@subtitlesonplease]

@@jinjunliu2401 Though, a mere mention is drastically more comfortable than intimate details.

[@tashaiman]

I disagree with the comment section. I prefer physical intimacy, my love print is RIPO. But I value introspective conversations on a first date. It makes me feel like I’m really getting to know the other person, but physical intimacy makes me feel closer to them. So its not fair to say that Nectar should have chosen two people that value emotional intimacy for this video, cuz people that value physical intimacy still value open conversations and getting to know the other person's intellect.

[@NathanMaid]

thats so sad he didnt go back also but its good that he was honest and not just doing it for the sake of it

[@angusmcdonaldboydetective]

So glad they revived this show

[@alexare6655]

Their complements to each other were so shallow and basic and they just copied each other.

[@Fashionceo]

They were definitely grasping for straws 😂

[@coasterb1]

Thank you for the chimes indicating a new question for those of us just listening.

[@emilyradcliff6550]

this set is so beautiful

[@MynameisAdji]

Sparks dint necessarily comme ont he first date. She was potentially looking for a partner and as he said: he's dating around. His loss

[@jessicarenae5107]

Might seem harsh but I feel like it's important to be honest and real when it comes to dating! No sense in wasting your time! He didn't seem to be interested in looking for anything long term so I wasn't surprised!

[@yourewrong154]

“I’m an AWPO” “I’m a ‘we person’” All I can hear is “I’m a wee person” He’s not really that small

[@AshwiniRamesh93]

Waitt....nectar is a branch of Jubilee?! How am I just finding out about this?

[@AlzMarioWolfe]

I don’t know how you’re just realizing this

[@windylue6206]

there was even a video on nectar where one person said that Jubilee is inviting them again (for the video in question)... lol

[@yumi.eXVtaQ]

Somehow 36 questions were cut out to 21, but it's ok, still great content =)

[@beatrizaguiar3770]

honestly i was pretty surprised that she came back... for me this was the "least chemistry" episode of the whole series

[@Godschosen118]

Question: are you supposed to feel a spark the first time you meet and talk??

[@eduardowolf8890]

Yeah I really felt like one of them weren’t connecting with one another. Third licks the charm for the next couple

[@gipu9208]

I liked this episode. Even though it wasn't a match : )

[@kiarawingate3981]

I couldnt have these types of conversations just for the peraon to say well nice to meet ya bye and probably never talk to me again

[@austinduke8876]

21 questions and no one asked about money, kids, religion or what to do when the parents get old and need to move in.

[@Artnotforthesakeofart]

😬

[@fifilein6720]

LMAO THAT CUT TO WHERE THE CHAIRS WERE EMPTYYYYY

[@iColonicsss]

Shes is honestly sooo … ughhhh! I would love her in my life

[@singmelullabies]

idk it didn't feel genuine when he was complimenting her lol

[@coachswag8956]

he knew it too so he added those random "and" compliments to pad it LMAO

[@kill3008]

well yeah obviously he's not attracted to her I felt it from the beginning

[@d.2542]

Feels like he’s still not over the ex tbh

[@carysdowd2381]

can you make a webpage dedicated to the questions so we can ask our partners please?

[@LawsynRose]

John only makes eye contact when hes listening to her

[@montae3x952]

S/O to nectar helping me learn a lot about myself and my past relationships and current relationship. Video ideas 🔥

[@petrapinter349]

I love his voice

[@haileysmith7175]

This was so awkward HAHA

[@jerrymurry5978]

she will find her prince she is beautiful

[@Narra0002]

It might have worked if one of them valuedemotional intimacy more

[@monae1127]

My love print: Rieo, Reflective, “i”, Emotional, Open and #6. I like the questions. It was slightly hard for me, because I have never been in a relationship, so I couldn’t think logically about some of the questions.

[@martharigby]

I'm all for vulnerability and everything, in fact it's something I think about a lot, and I definitely feel better when I am being vulnerable with my people who I know and love... But it's starting to be like a trend and really I felt like it was being pushed down my throat in this video.

[@бре-ц6ч]

What do you mean with “trend”? Care to explain?

[@sirmel11]

No one made you watch, Martha.

[@sunnyboateng180]

Well said

[@vickz2985]

good for John but for both as well though I thought that they both were gonna say yeash

[@annagarnot6602]

John! 😢😢 He’s just shy but dude.

[@Artnotforthesakeofart]

I am half way through, and he seems pretty dead, like uninterested in life. She seems open and alive.

[@xounpredictable]

I got my results and it says I’m an “I” person. The problem is that, I do the hobbies my partner likes but sometimes I absorb too much of it and feel like I’m losing myself. Recently, I realized that. And I’m trying to do things with my friends, separately. That way I can find who I am and not feel like I’m only doing what they want.

[@zyaicob]

It's nice to date yourself. The best part about it is you can do it while dating someone else, and it can really strengthen your relationship. Take yourself on romantic adventures, spend quality time with yourself that you know you appreciate, take an effort to treat yourself

[@sonofsarek]

Most terrible memory: watching a mother deliver a known stillborn via C-section, dressing the child up in a Superman onesie, placing the child on the mother’s chest, and going through the entire process as if the child was alive (name tag, foot and hand prints, photo, etc). How’s that for a mood killer? How about taking care of my father on home hospice, my mother calling me to the room to basically pronounce him dead, and helping the funeral home staff move my father’s body to the gurney so they could take him to the hearse and drive away. Cool story huh? Wanna date? LOL. I have a lot of death stories.

[@BelaDesouza_]

I genuinely hope you’re ok and doing well. Traumas affects us all in different ways n lives with us, but man quite some stories

[@sherrriethelyn]

Where can we buy "tea for two"?

[@toubeelo1979]

You can tell he wasn't interested. The way he ended a lot of his answers to the questions or not giving much of an in-depth answer to the questions wax a sign of his disinterest in pursuing a romatic rel2eith her.

[@limacarolayne]

I defo wanna participateeeee!!! Ahaha love it. Love datings and talk about vulnerability/deep things 🫶🏼

[@sumanrodrigues9807]

All my fellow RWPGs mark your attendance! (everyone else tell me what y'all got in the comments) ;) 👇

[@Seazured]

I got RWPG too 😂

[@mist3995]

Ohh yeaah! I've missed this series

[@sunvavachi]

I think she knows what she wants but he doesn't. I feel he has issues to deal with. He'll waste alot of people's time by the way he views relationships. Maybe due to trauma who knows. Hope he heals.

[@chelseaxoxo784]

Wait isn't the guy at the beginning the owner of jubilee? Is nectar a part of jubilee as well?

[@fbspin]

yes it is part of jubilee!

[@AlzMarioWolfe]

Yes they’ve been advertising this channel on Jubilee’s channel

[@chelseaxoxo784]

Oh, I didn't know that. Thankful you all for telling me ♥️

[@marcyweinmann1438]

i love the chairs! :) Where did you get them ?

[@sotiria_lazaridou]

just got my results!! I'm a RIEG!!💜

[@aishakhan591]

i thought john really liked her

[@piscesfae]

im AWPO!

[@LegalTrappeRx]

Tea for two byke?! LFG

[@UnCreativeBeliever]

Any other RWEG's? Lol

[@okoinoo9177]

Ryan and haileys doppelgänger

[@annakay6980]

Can you add a next button on the quiz? I'm having to refresh the page after every question. P.S. Love the video! :)

[@Pedroacamposs]

He is cute

[@walltime1]

an 2 strangers fall in love with 21 questions? apparently not lol

[@loveleeluv7]

For people joining in this, is there a choice on eliminating anyone who vocal fries before their meetups? These two are both great in their own ways, well maybe Daniella has more depth than the guy, but whoever made vocal frying a "trend" had not seen people with throat surgeries in hospitals and they regret what caused (usually smoking) their surgeries in the first place. That "trend" has got to stop.

[@bigron1946]

4:26 I feel like she should have told her story in detail

[@honest_commentator3317]

Well here I am!!! The complimenting session. I'm out of here.

[@loskrrr2271]

City boyyyy

[@ridhimajp]

he reminds me of charlie puth

[@joey8033]

We all know what happened here but let's be quiet. It's sad actually but hey that's the society we live in today

[@abidingline4]

Anyone else AWEG? 😅

[@UnCreativeBeliever]

I'm RWEG, so close!

[@OHVSCA]

Sign me up .. I’d like to go on a date with Daniella 🤷🏻‍♂️👍🏻

[@sunnyboateng180]

Wtf is a awpro , oh lord .

[@amolpakhare5548]

AWPO ✌🏾

[@marcadenexus]

Oh come on, the majority of people will be AWPO; it's not a very scientifically interesting quiz.

[@sirmel11]

He didn't come back! Let's go!!! King!!!

[@jeanenne616]

??

[@sirmel11]

@@jeanenne616 KING

[@Hazy_y]

Maybe he didn't feel physical attraction

[@Rudi_Mentary723]

@@jeanenne616 well the women all go 'queen' when they see other women do stuff like rejecting guys and making their own choices. he's just doing the same, for a man.

[@Blood4TheBloodG0D]

no.

[@sirmel11]

Your friend can date your ex. You have no stake in their life.

[@olivergille8305]

Mop

[@averagejoe2232]

I was so close to being first dang it

[@lugit36]

13:18

[@natnaeltadesse1953]

😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@waunm128]

Shes upset at her friend for having a fling with her ex? .... What

[@jinjunliu2401]

She's justified to be upset there

[@sirmel11]

Exaclty, she needs to be quiet. Her ex and friend can date if they want.

[@angapleee]

why wouldn’t she be? it clearly didn’t end well. why would your friend want to be with someone who hurt you????

[@beez5123]

@@sirmel11 you're are a walking red flag as a friend and as a partner

[@symeon5518]

You people are stupid and selfish. You think that just because you don't like something you have a right to demand of your friends to not do it. Sounds to me like you are bad friends

[@tyrahope3969]

omg first

[@tyrahope3969]

@teddybear ty 😭😭

[@symeon5518]

"Thanks for taking time out of your day to take our quiz, now that we've hooked you in by making you invest time into seeing your results we will withhold them from you until you give us your email so we can probably spam you with useless commercial info

[@rosy2]

you can unsubscribe afterwards, it's not that deep x