i am so beyond grateful for you. i’ve been a quiet viewer for the past few months but i just needed to reach out and let you know the impact you’ve had on my life because wow. 2 months ago now my boyfriend and i broke up, and i was crushed. my entire world felt like it got turned upside down. i literally had no sense of self, no confidence, no nothing. i felt desperate and scared and all i wanted was this guy back in my life, who in end wasn’t actually giving me what i wanted from a partner, let alone the bare minimum… lumma! you have not only helped me through the HARDEST time of my life, but you are literally giving me the greatest gift of all time. the guidance back to myself! i truly feel like you are helping me heal and grow into the highest version of myself. i’m so beyond grateful that the universe allowed us to exist at the same time and that you are willing to share your wisdom and love to help others like me. i appreciate you so much, thank you for shining your light
@kolsen54202 ай бұрын
can you please share more about what you did? reeeeeally struggling this week after being dumped out of the blue, it was messy and he claimed he still loved me crying so i feel mind fccked on top of it.... but anyways, i so want to move through this but i feel insane, cry as soon as im alone and feel like a loser.
@Lexioliviia2 ай бұрын
@@kolsen5420 first things first, you are NOT a loser. not even close. we are all humans and break ups fucking suck. i’m so sorry to hear that happened to you :( i had a similar situation where my ex partner told me i was “the one” and maybe “in a year or so” and then turned around and said he didn’t feel comfortable talking or anything. it’s frustrating because when people give us false hope it’s really really hard. it’s been 2 months ish and i still struggle daily. but, it’s getting easier. as much as it feels like it won’t get better, time will heal what you think you can’t. you are destined for SO much better and even though it doesn’t feel like it, i hope you can find some hope knowing that eventually we all do come out of it. some things i started doing that i find help me a lot is going to therapy weekly, that changed everything. i’ve been taking this one moment at a time. literally when things get too hard i focus on what is LITERALLY right in front of me. i’ve been confiding in friends and family A LOT and not feeling embarrassed or ashamed to. I read the book “When you’re ready this is how you heal” by brianna weist i think? and wow, life changing. i carry it around like a bible now lmao. but i take things day by day, im so sorry i know how much you’re probably hurting. i’m sending you my love because i know how dark it can get in these first few weeks. give yourself grace and know that things will eventually come to light.
@Nadiyakaya2 ай бұрын
Great video! We put too much emphasis on someone completing us. I truly believe that someone that you have in your life is just an addition and not the completion of your life. Know your worth and do better for yourself, before looking someone to do that for you. Often times we get too complacent and not follow our dreams and work on ourselves. Lumma has made a lot of great points.
@kimxx87972 ай бұрын
Thank you Lumma. Every time I get upset I come to your videos. I’m still not over the person from 10 months ago. I don’t know how to let go.
@JoyMadeira2 ай бұрын
everyone be quiet the queen herself has posted
@lummaaziz2 ай бұрын
ILY!
@PankajVishwakarma-r5e2 ай бұрын
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@dylanf50232 ай бұрын
never stop making these videos, I can’t even explain how much they’ve impacted my mentality and helped me grow and reflect on my life ❤️
@FaithfulFemme2 ай бұрын
I love how you're not afraid to speak your mind and share your personal experiences. It makes you so relatable.❤
@MarygraceMacarial2 ай бұрын
I'm with you since you were heartbroken, and watch all of your videos about breakup. You glow up! You look really amazing! compare 2 years ago, but of course you were still pretty though! I'm just telling that you became a completely different person! I love that! I hope I can achieve it, too! I am heartbroken right now and lost all of my hope to live. But I will keep on fighting!
@DayandyDissanayaka-eb1zh2 ай бұрын
omggg lummmm!did you notice how fast your subscribers are increasing day by day?so proud of you ,you deserve it.🥰
@LILBlastoise2 ай бұрын
Been following you since you documented your heartbreak Lumma! Your growth has been resounding and not only that, you have been such an inspiration in my own healing journey. I’ve manifested so much and more from your videos/pep talks as well as found my person whom I stumbled upon working on myself and my own life 🙏🏽Thank you for helping me blaze my own path and blessings to you! Much love 🫶🏽
@lilmunch38942 ай бұрын
Lumma honestly thank you so much. You've helped me so much in my time of healing from my past. Honestly God bless you because you deserve the world!!❤
@al7iida2 ай бұрын
i am so glad that people like you post stuff like this, you make me a better version of myself u motivate me and help me through the ups and downs i love you thank you ml!!
@Vanessazhr14 сағат бұрын
I love the way you craft your narrative to the audience, very well, you are great communicator
@NicholeAurin2 ай бұрын
I LOVE THIS AND I LOVE YOU! Thank you for existing and creating this channel Lumma! You are such an inspo 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
@woefulz2 ай бұрын
when i tell you that you posted this right on time 🥺 its month two of my breakup and i felt like i was doing so well for a bit up until a few days ago. i really just love your videos, they truly help me heal 💕
@Chaiteamf2 ай бұрын
we are in the same boat. i started feeling bad just these past few days 🥺 we will get through it 💗💗
@woefulz2 ай бұрын
@@Chaiteamfwe will! 🥺💕
@WakeUp23PrinceofHood2 ай бұрын
I'm on the 2nd month too. Still hurts and will hurt for a long while I reckon. She treated me quite bad but I still want her in my life. Is this normal? Are you guys having same thoughts?
@Kei-ge4hl2 ай бұрын
@@WakeUp23PrinceofHoodim on my second weeks, yes he treated me badly but i still love him 🥹
@Angeladwani92 ай бұрын
Healing is not an event its a journey with lots of ups and downs somedays you r fine other days u feel its again back to square one but thats the way healing happens give yourself time n space and most importantly do not escape your emotions sit with them trust me its going to be hard but definitely worth it.🌻✨️
@Eyliin_2 ай бұрын
3:17 SAME THING FOR FRIENDSHIP BREAKUPS GUYS !!! It’s ok to step away from a friend if you guys don’t want the same thing
@MaraCris09212 ай бұрын
The first time i saw your channel was a few days ago when i was in a very painful breakup, it is still painful but i feel a lot better. Thanks to your videos on 3 months of heartbreak documented and how totally move on which i watch like many many times when i feel so sad and lonely. And ever since then, ive been watching your videos here. I was surprised you are only 21. So young yet so smart. I love how you give advice to people who are going through a lot of things. Your voice soothes a broken heart. And as i watching few more of your videos, i can see you’re very happy, im so proud of who you’ve become after that heartbreak. Luis is a wonderful guy and he’s also funny 😄 you both look so cute together. I hope you read this and keep doing this pls. God bless! ❤
@dollievoid2 ай бұрын
divine timing istg
@shahnazparvin50552 ай бұрын
Lumma, you literally got me out of so much pain and difficult situations so many times that you have no idea. I truly am thankful to you. When no one knew about my tears, heart breaks and anxiety, your words comforted me. I really appreciate you a lot. Love ya 🫶♥️
@yuuuuuuuuki032 ай бұрын
Hiii from Japan 🧡 been 5months since I found your viral break up video while going through heart break. And now I’m the happiest single girl, booked a solo trip and so excited for my future! Thank you for such inspiring videos always, you’re amazing!!!
@beebee49002 ай бұрын
Hi Lumma, I’m from Nagaland, India and I just wanted to say that I’m starting to think like you day by day and starting to see clearly about so many things. I can’t thank you enough for that! You truly are god sent! Please keep the pep talks coming 😚❤️🔥
@_yunaum2 ай бұрын
i love you so much that mindset about being a strong individual even during a relationship is actually so right❤
@Ghinanamm2 ай бұрын
Wow, this video is packed with great insights! The point about setting strong boundaries resonated with me-protecting your mental space is so important. I've been focusing on self-development on my channel too, and recently shared some thoughts on not taking things personally. It’s amazing how building self-awareness can empower us!
@ceyda3812 ай бұрын
I've been through a lot of friendship breakups as we've grown in different directions, and it would make me feel better to hear you talk about it.❤
@Leonor-mh6qw2 ай бұрын
Hello I’m from France and i just love all your advices thank you 💗
@AllisonDissinger2 ай бұрын
I started watching you about a month ago. I haven't watched so many videos. I got out of a relationship and moved out and got myself a decent paying job and pay 200 a month at my parents. I live in oklahoma. I'm working on getting my car and license still but I get payed good so it won't take long and I wanna be a dentist one day and a youtuber. I love your positivity, your spirit, and you spoke nothning but facts I agreed with everything. ❤I literally had to cut all my situations hips friendships and everything so I can work on myself I even had a stalker at one point and it just wasn't good. I totally agree with everything you said love you and hope your having a blessed day 🙏🏼💗💕
@erasovaa2 ай бұрын
Yes please talk about how to manage friendship breakups and how to reach the point of the break and realization.
@Rohansubba-p3k2 ай бұрын
luma ur helping me so much thank you so much ❤️
@maracadd2 ай бұрын
Thank you. You helped me a lot emotionally.
@chibuchiprecious406Ай бұрын
I’m from Nigeria 🇳🇬 and I enjoyed this, I’m so happy and I felt better after hearing this ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@Juan-x1r2 ай бұрын
Today i was thinking about breaking the contact 0, but i remember the bunch of times that i watch your videos, and her choice, she choice to leave me and she know that i needed her, thanks for everything!:3
@stephaniemarieshephard38482 ай бұрын
Hey from New York! This kept me on track thank you ❤
@idcman66922 ай бұрын
I’am from Malaysia and love your content❤❤❤
@diamonddusk0082 ай бұрын
Hey there, ur videos are the type you just listen to randomly on a beautiful sunny day while sewing or cooking. I am totally fine and chill but here I am listening. Anyway, a video I think you will enjoy making and have good insight on is one about "forgiving yourself"...I notice in this fast paced world a lot of ppl are hard on themselves for not knowing what they just don't know. Life is a trial and error thing...we learn through reading or the experience of others and our own. N ppl need to chill, forgive themselves and move towards better. Sending love from St. Lucia. ❤
@nenec90822 ай бұрын
You came at the perfect time, i cannot tell you how much i needed this after a day I had. Thank you Lumma ❤
@MurielWang-z2fАй бұрын
Hey, Lumma. I just want to say thank you! I’ve been listening to your videos for a whole day(I just followed you today. I love your soothing voice sooo much!❤). I am dealing with a situationship which tortures for me over two months. Thank you for reminding me of my worth! Love and support from China!
@confident_queen_Y2 ай бұрын
GIRL, THE TIMING!!!! 🙏✨️ Please make a video on friendship break-ups. I need that ❤
@MissyHasMunchies2 ай бұрын
Thank you everything! ❤
@moretosupriya2 ай бұрын
thank you so much. this is exactly what i needed to hear right now. im so glad u exist.
@LukimusPrime2 ай бұрын
Your videos are really helping me, thank you ❤
@jojo.23gha912 ай бұрын
It's ma first podcast that I watched till the end I swear to god I really like the way u send the messages so good luck ma girl love u from Algeria 🇩🇿
@esmeralda32782 ай бұрын
I seriously needed this. thank you. I really appreciate your hard work.🙏❣️
@jadagarcia65582 ай бұрын
It’s so crazy.. because I really needed to something like this.. thank you ❤
@the_sunshinesunflower11 күн бұрын
" The main vehicle in which we all grow as human beings is through relationships but sometimes we have grown and learnt all we can from a situation."💚✅
@akshatagajare72982 ай бұрын
Heyyy , from India I feel so alone and I feel I’m just so dependent on people
@itsbettyjohnson2 ай бұрын
GO BE ALONE! just take yourself on a date!!! the more you're alone the more comfortable you'll be with it
@Ana-f6g2 ай бұрын
Hey I’m from Miami Florida, honestly you are helping me to move on from my past y thanks for your advice;) I love watching your videos it’s give me a lot of motivation ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@charizmagrey772123 күн бұрын
You're so inspiring! Thank you for shining your light babe
@davitatukura25202 ай бұрын
Hey beautiful ❤️ This video really hit me 😢 I'm watching from Nigeria 🇳🇬 May God guide me on what to do. Thank you for this talk ❤
@missellalaladove2 ай бұрын
i just so love how u think, love u lumna. 💕
@jadeyy44592 ай бұрын
Always get excited seeing notifications of a new video! Looking forward to the next podcast episode too ❤
@lummaaziz2 ай бұрын
Sweetest comment, thank you for being here!
@heartsforlumity2 ай бұрын
amazing video yet againnn, I’m from the Netherlandsss 🇳🇱
@Alicexmalul2 ай бұрын
Omg I know you’re not a fan AT ALL and I know you’d probably hate but seriously, I’m watching you over 1.5 years and I wanna say A LOT A LOT OF LOVE FROM ISRAEL 😭❤️ (I’m a person I’m not the country) watching and listening to you and literally hypnotized 💕
@astroman226429 күн бұрын
This video is super helpful. My ex called for a break up and I was heartbroken, and I still am heartbroken. And I miss her every single day but your video has helped me realize that neither of us had our own personal growth. And I’m starting to grow now and thinking about some big future plans I want to do. And someday, we might see each other again. ❤
@ik3234Ай бұрын
Thank you Lumma ❤️
@TaniaBodnariuk2 ай бұрын
Hello from Ukraine💙💛 Thanks for such a great video, so meaningful
@oygulkamoliddinova7007Ай бұрын
Lummma thank you for amazing advices❤
@nicolezaide8210Ай бұрын
yess for the friendship breakup talk huhuhu.
@niloferrshaikhh2 ай бұрын
my first time watching you lumma 💗 and im from India 🇮🇳
@andreacardona70232 ай бұрын
Thankful for you 💞
@painaulavender2 ай бұрын
it’s been almost a month since i broke up with my ex. the emotions are such a roller coaster and i’ve been reflecting a lot. lately i realize that when i was with my ex, i kept holding myself and it feels like i can’t bring out the best of myself. i'm still sad sometimes, but i know my worth and how much i deserve a way better than that. your previous videos and especially this one are inspiring. tysm lummaa for being such a positive personn, sending bunch of love for you!!
@gavainemcdowell62082 ай бұрын
Your so gorgeous 😩❤️ you help me a lot thou thank you 🙌🏾✨sending greetings all the way from Jamaica 🇯🇲
@1of1podcast212 ай бұрын
Nice to see a fellow patriots fan thriving in positivity.
@everythinganaejah5181Ай бұрын
this is my first video i just subscribed and i love these already
@Relaxwthcami2 ай бұрын
Much needed this ✨
@RadiataStories12 ай бұрын
Sending lots of love and support from Turkey
@JudithFB2 ай бұрын
I have missed your videos sooo much
@apinyaapinya975521 күн бұрын
Thank you very much..🎄🎄🎄
@LabradoodleTofuBoy2 ай бұрын
Living a busy life, hear you chat like from a good gf is perfect! Love love your pep talk. Looking gorgeous & spectacular as always!
@Shaunashares2 ай бұрын
"I feel so clapped sometimes. Even mentally I feel clapped" 😂😂😂😂
@tokrmy2 ай бұрын
perfect timing
@Rohansubba-p3k2 ай бұрын
i really need this
@sweetyvinolin87342 ай бұрын
Love from India❤ You are really amazing girl ilysm
@DavidKnicks2 ай бұрын
You are awesome! This is so good
@jojo.23gha912 ай бұрын
I just see u now on tiktok I came running to hear u more 😊❤
@Sophiaz2012 ай бұрын
love ur videos so much Lumma 🫶🏼 ur so pretty
@wadoodkhan76662 ай бұрын
The voice is therapeutic ❤️ - Pakistan
@aliciacarreno58552 ай бұрын
I’m from Uruguay 🇺🇾 ♡ Beautiful video as always ❤️🔥
@ndkdosjw2 ай бұрын
lots of love from Japan🇯🇵❤️
@GopolangGopie2 ай бұрын
So much love🎉😊
@gelabean51852 ай бұрын
i love you so much and thank you
@RiyaSingh-uu8jr2 ай бұрын
I was waiting for this ❤❤❤❤
@garangloi45492 ай бұрын
Hi Luma, I’m from Melbourne, Australia 😊
@jojo.23gha912 ай бұрын
Love u girl ❤
@valentinaacosta6167Ай бұрын
btw I just found ur channel and I love it
@miljasmiljkovic42872 ай бұрын
You are the queen
@ЕленаИвкина-о9г2 ай бұрын
Waiting for friends episode podcast!!❤❤❤
@cole_ee2 ай бұрын
sending love from south Africa ❤
@kaitlinandrews12 ай бұрын
Hey lumma I would love a podcast on friendship breakups as I recently went through one and need some advice on it
@nurizzahathirah2883Ай бұрын
he ghosted me again after an argument which I was trying to talk to him and I apologized to him and some point I gave him space because I thought that's what he wanted since he hasn't said anything in almost a week. then there came a time where I had to go another state for a month or so and my birthday was coming up and he would be away for months soon, but he didn't reach out. so a day or two before I had to go I was so hurt, so I apologized again and I felt like maybe I'm not good enough for him, so I sent a message for closure because I can't go to another state for my job without saying or heard anything from him. but he still didn't reply to me until I texted him again on my birthday saying I'm sorry about everything and how hurt I was that he ghosted me. then he replied but it was so vague and said happy birthday. how could he be so nonchalant and they way he replied hurts me even more than he didn't reply in the first place. I was doubting my place in his life and his love towards me. I really don't know how to go through the same thing again in the same year. the saddest part is I really love him. it hurts so bad.
@Notme33-f6wАй бұрын
Ma'am I used to go through this from my boyfriend until he cheated on me when I found out he was being rude to me that he never cared so I decided to go through this heart pain and it's being 2 months he came to my dm not long telling me he's going to do anything to make me happy but I just didn't follow my emotions and love I still have for him but I've blocked him and still lives goes on I just feel sad sometimes but I know and believe I'll get over this very soon.Pls just try and take a bold step and it'll be worth it
@AbhyarthanaMohanty2 ай бұрын
lots of love from India💗
@juujuu38622 ай бұрын
Great video, thank you! Unfortunately the Spotify link is not available for me… hopefully they will be soon!
@juujuu38622 ай бұрын
Watching from the Netherlands btw 😊
@roseedit2 ай бұрын
Start 3:13
@dianeprianes2 ай бұрын
I'm from PHILIPPINES 🇵🇭
@jeanlouiecastillo2 ай бұрын
Girl guy they them - I subscribed and feel seen
@allaboutbookishthings2 ай бұрын
omg girl the fucking timing ✨
@Aldihss2 ай бұрын
So pretty❤
@davinamaneerat65762 ай бұрын
Thailand!
@beige_ing2 ай бұрын
You say everything I think and question
@SoloStormz2 ай бұрын
When your significant other is feeling lost can YOU help them find their way? Can yall have Deep Meaningful conversations ? Do yall put a smile on each others heart and face or just a face smile? If yall aren’t truly best friends it won’t work its levels to everything you can’t just skip the best friend level. ❤️❤️
@paqito4292 ай бұрын
Yes luma , but what about people who are stuck in a job/ place , can’t afford to come out of it anytime soon , are lonely with no friends / distractions? Someone who came out of the happiest rship ever ? Are these methods still applicable