no one deserves to be cheated on, i would rather someone break up with me rather than cheat
@vivien6515 жыл бұрын
You're right. But they were both using each other. She used him because she wanted a man there to take care of her, and he was there for the disability check.
@TheUnknown-yx8zc5 жыл бұрын
Savanna Violets ur probably not 600 pounds
@savannaviolets83815 жыл бұрын
Jack Bosco not what i meant, just in general
@TheUnknown-yx8zc5 жыл бұрын
Savanna Violets I’m not trying to justify his cheating but he was lupe for ten long years. She didn’t give him any love or pleasure. He has been treated more of a Slave than a lover
@karencarney75955 жыл бұрын
Me too..I'd rather be heartbroken, than cheated on and heartbroken
@samanthabloom98944 жыл бұрын
I notice he keeps saying "10 years together you can give me one chance." Let me make this clear. NO ONE is obligated to stay with someone who is unfaithful just because of how long they have been together for. That is so toxic
@user-pp6kd7ut4k4 жыл бұрын
Also he ruined the chance he got already. This wasn't "one chance" 🤦
@yvonnedowns20684 жыл бұрын
Not only that. It's not her fault. Yeah they've been together for 10 years, but HE was the one who ruined it!
@yvonnedowns20684 жыл бұрын
@@user-pp6kd7ut4k I mean, look, to each their own. If you aren't attracted to something, then thats cool! But if he was all grossed out n shit, why didn't he leave? If he wasn't attracted to her, why didn't he bounce? Why cheat??? I would have more respect for him as a man, if he just said "I'm walking away. I can't do this. I don't love you anymore. It's over." But he didn't, and now he's crying for her back. To me, that's a weak individual. Just be honest.
@user-pp6kd7ut4k4 жыл бұрын
@@yvonnedowns2068 Cause then she would die and that's a lot of pressure. Cheating is never okay, all I'm saying is I see his side and how he could feel pressured to stay with the cow
@kaylakaylex47684 жыл бұрын
@@user-pp6kd7ut4k No need to call her a cow
@shelocsher23964 жыл бұрын
Him “taking care” of her, was enabling her. How coincidental is it that he was fine with their relationship for an entire decade, but when she starts to become independent, he’s unhappy.
@xVixenx4 жыл бұрын
Tacarra M amen
@erickimmmy83584 жыл бұрын
Tacarra M him taking care of her was the only reason she lived. Him not helping her lose weight was enabling.
@leahlynn6854 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@angelflores52804 жыл бұрын
600
@angelflores52804 жыл бұрын
Durso
@ashleym62113 жыл бұрын
I've met her in person, she is doing so well for herself. I was so proud of her when I saw it. :)
@Ria-sd2ex2 жыл бұрын
That's absolutely wonderful to hear💘
@peaches442 жыл бұрын
She left him?!
@Azil03292 жыл бұрын
I met her before when she was 600 pounds
@aliceandwonderland8611 Жыл бұрын
Gilbert with another 600 pound girl.
@Schizoposter667 Жыл бұрын
@@aliceandwonderland8611 how do you know?
@kimiveymakeup03 жыл бұрын
I love that he cheats, he lies, he hurts her, then tells her “You gone throw 10years away?!!” Nah my guy... YOU threw it away
@aaqka3 жыл бұрын
seriously though 😭
@liilay90233 жыл бұрын
FRRRR
@atoner87313 жыл бұрын
Then he gon’ say “I love you” and break down crying like he didn’t just reap what he sow?! 🤨So glad she saw the value in herself and ended it. Proud of her and her strength! ❤️
@sagekevo32853 жыл бұрын
I don't wrong my guy There was probably no sex life prior to her weight loss
@tiagoodchild70703 жыл бұрын
@@sagekevo3285 still not a reason to cheat
@blueturtle36234 жыл бұрын
Man, she has lost a TON of weight! Proud of her!
@stephaniegraf66554 жыл бұрын
Blue Turtle literally! She’s so amazing , it takes so much strength to do that .
@AlexandriaBullock4 жыл бұрын
Piet
@AlexandriaBullock4 жыл бұрын
Stephanie w
@AlexandriaBullock4 жыл бұрын
Stephanie Graf w
@AlexandriaBullock4 жыл бұрын
Stephanie Grafwttw w uwwtootw
@aspiringladychef3 жыл бұрын
She said “his cheating his drinking and his abuse” so clearly it’s not just other women y’all missing the point🤧
@LuxeMindsetVibes3 жыл бұрын
I caught that too so not only is he cheating but he may be physically abuse when he's drunk.
@organizedchaos45593 жыл бұрын
So she can eat but he can’t drink? Keep holding up the double standard
@aspiringladychef3 жыл бұрын
@@organizedchaos4559 she worked to change herself for the better you should see her now. Maybe Gilbert should do the same💯
@organizedchaos45593 жыл бұрын
@@aspiringladychef that’s great but is she going to support him on his journey to better himself?
@aspiringladychef3 жыл бұрын
@@organizedchaos4559 from the interviews and where are they now’s she’s done it seems as though she tried to get him help even while he was helping her and he refused the help. She also mentioned that when he became heavily intoxicated that’s when he would become physically abusive toward her.
@adynnar2 жыл бұрын
Dr. Now is always quite blunt, doesn't sugar coat. So to hear his gentler humanity in telling Lupe that "this time next year, your life will be completely changed" is so heartwarming
@LuxeMindsetVibes3 жыл бұрын
That's what I'm talking about, Lupe grabbed her things and was out in the middle of the night! No more arguing, just action. And bravo to the cousin for pulling up in Lupe's time of need. That's the type of family we ALL need, not an enabler but someone that assists us as we actively help ourselves!
@burnerbaby263 жыл бұрын
I was looking for a comment about her cousin. She’s a rockstar!
@jessicaaudate3 жыл бұрын
She dipped in the middle of the night, I was like daaaaaaannnng
@Jbobagginssss2 жыл бұрын
I'm not usually the praying type, but I'm sending prayers and good vibes to Lupe and her amazingly lovingly supportive cousin
@susanbickford4857 Жыл бұрын
What a lady that cousin is 🥰
@catcalo7201 Жыл бұрын
You made a terrific point! Lupe said- FU Gilbert! Hurray for you Lupe!!!
@sesshokitten5 жыл бұрын
Anybody notice how majority of these relationships fall apart after the weight starts coming off?
@Cangeltibon5 жыл бұрын
sesshokitten no surprising, the power dynamics change as the person gains independence and many relationships fail after that kind of upset...there also the factor that some people are genuinely attracted to large people and when they’re no longer large the attraction is no longer there.
@AB-py6jl5 жыл бұрын
@@Cangeltibon *surprised pikachu face*
@kiokio84305 жыл бұрын
Your so right, it brakes my heart
@nogoglobal5 жыл бұрын
Yes.because the caregiver realizes he or she is not going to draw that gov check of over 1000.00 month and move on.thats what they are there for the money.and being dependent these ppl think they really care
@laiii51955 жыл бұрын
HE BEEN TAKING CARE OF HER SHE TREATS HIM LIKE A SERVENT
@catrinad24914 жыл бұрын
Man I am really proud of her, for dropping the dead weight, oh and her weight loss!
@daisygonzalez62094 жыл бұрын
Lol
@cherryuwu73664 жыл бұрын
he still took care of her for a long time though:// she also was some “weight” to him
@frutcakes63703 жыл бұрын
cherry uwu doesn’t mean she deserves to be cheated on just because he was wiping her ass. Ridiculous.
@dcvirgo87073 жыл бұрын
@@frutcakes6370 exactly and she said he physically abused her 🤬
@frutcakes63703 жыл бұрын
DC Virgo seriously? That’s horrible
@ashlov773 жыл бұрын
Lupe is so strong! I’m so proud of her for knowing her worth, and not letting a man get in the way of her goals! 9 years is a long time, I can’t imagine the hurt she went through. ❤️
@kiaracumby77145 жыл бұрын
No matter how big she is, she didn’t deserve to get cheated on and treated that way!
@jerikdejesus17545 жыл бұрын
man what
@kiaracumby77145 жыл бұрын
jerik de jesus what?
@jayAP19934 жыл бұрын
Kiara Cumby what was he supposed to do those 10 years
@kiaracumby77144 жыл бұрын
Mahly mahl At law are you stupid or just fucking dumb?! No one big or small, deserves to be treated like that and cheated on
@kojo92284 жыл бұрын
Preach sister
@guiltypleasure19394 жыл бұрын
Gilbert: "We've been together for 10 years, do you really want to throw that away?" Also Gilbert: *cheating*
@ladyv56553 жыл бұрын
If he was so miserable, why is he trying to keep her from leaving?
@Animazed0micky Жыл бұрын
This right here is the best sum up of the situation! Bravo good sir/madam
@melissalozano52839 ай бұрын
Yep and crying at the same time
@quinnvalentine72037 жыл бұрын
The first red flag should've been the name Gilbert.
@420leighann67 жыл бұрын
QuinnValentine *YAAAAAAAS* kmsl 😂😂
@1986shereen7 жыл бұрын
Haha😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂
@fettymartin13067 жыл бұрын
Same name as caillou s cat
@darkwhisper987 жыл бұрын
😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣😭
@yaya-pg2yo7 жыл бұрын
QuinnValentine I have an ex named Gilbert...the first person I felt love for. It was 9th grade...he used me so much, did really fucked up shit to me. I was such a sweetheart then I can even say that. He totally destroyed that person I was at one time. Then he cheated on me with my only friend and best friend ,same girl. He did so many things like that and I was so pure hearted it broke me down, I missed periods, I was infertile for a time from all the stress and worry and anxiety. Few years later he was apologizing for the past saying he wants me bad...saying he needs me and wants me to be his so i finally agree after a year cause the love of my life and i split up ..(i moved)..he changed in a good way..but he was still the same...wasnt showing he wanted me ..leaving me on read..id always have to text him first..he was choosing to be a dumbass than support me. Weed over me..Anyways....yeah never trust a gilbert.
@ClezVideos Жыл бұрын
My ex cheated on me after our baby was born because I’d gained weight during the pregnancy, after seven years together. I’d gone from 107 lbs to a “massive” 150 lbs (still within a normal bmi, even if at the max). I’d already lost about half of it when he cheated. The stress of finding out he’d cheated caused me to lose the remaining weight VERY quickly. He wanted me to stay with him. I told him to get lost.
@heidilefevre26804 ай бұрын
A massive 150? What a joke
@ClezVideos4 ай бұрын
@@heidilefevre2680 I know!! I wasn’t even overweight, according to BMI 🤷♀️ Hilariously, he’s put on a good bit of weight in the years since & I’ve remained between around 107, but I would never be so cruel as to comment on it.
@jeyahprice63435 жыл бұрын
why was he acting like the victim when he cheated 💀
@soullessginger99125 жыл бұрын
Jeyah Price try wiping a man's shitty ass for over 10 years and tell me how you would feel. Most women talk shit about men that do this even though most women would do the same shit in that situation.
@tumalditamadresita4 жыл бұрын
Imagine having to wash that monsters shit stained ass everyday She was bed ridden for 10 years that man Is a hero an deserves to get another woman
@tajbarbie33384 жыл бұрын
That's what cheating people do
@tajbarbie33384 жыл бұрын
@@tumalditamadresita LMFAO damn you cold lol
@kirstenpatel4 жыл бұрын
Because that's what abusers do. They try to make everything your fault. Been there, got the fuck out after years of it. No more, I'm done.
@ashym0chi5 жыл бұрын
Majority of the comments are about the cheating but she's one of the most successful people on 600 pound life. Some people just give up but she's pushed through.
@RealiTeaV5 жыл бұрын
Random ness Yeah that’s definitely amazing
@BermuAlex4 жыл бұрын
Most people don't overeat till they weight more than 600 pounds in the first place. Most peopl are more amazing than her.
@amberhoward21374 жыл бұрын
@@BermuAlex most people aren't actual trash yet you exist :D
@BermuAlex4 жыл бұрын
@@amberhoward2137 yeah and you were able to post a KZbin comment without shitting your pants. Impressive.
@amberhoward21374 жыл бұрын
@@BermuAlex ikr. Hopefully one day you'll accomplish it too
@genevaramsay13745 жыл бұрын
She found a whole husband at 500+ lbs and im over here wit a lil cellulite on my thighs, single af. 🙄
@JckSwan5 жыл бұрын
You talked me into it, I'll be your boyfriend. You're a girl, right?
@instaseanzooted49115 жыл бұрын
JckSwan nigga
@jesicatevani42745 жыл бұрын
Me too, im 22 this year and single since 3/4 years ago 😂😂😂
@KatieMarie-pw4xw5 жыл бұрын
Accurate 😅
@cudide5 жыл бұрын
@@JckSwan nigga you cringey as fuck
@neaswaifu69763 жыл бұрын
The audacity this man has, "10 years together", you didn't think about that when you were messaging these other chicks. She looks great by the way. So proud of her.
@vanessaruiz4705Ай бұрын
well, she didnt think much of the marriage when she decided food was more important.
@VampireSultana3 жыл бұрын
As soon as he said “10 years!” That reminded me of my ex when we split he kept saying “6 years! C’mon 6 years! Don’t throw it away! 6 years!” It literally gave me a flashback. I’m disgusted. This poor woman... I’m glad she’s moving on with her life and continuing to improve!
@winterr.m3 жыл бұрын
Same for me. Got cheated on a week after our one year anniversary and proposal, I decided to leave him and move out the same day I found out. He told me “how could you just throw away a whole year” like what?
@VampireSultana3 жыл бұрын
@@winterr.m Kinda seems like he’s the one who threw away the whole year the moment he got into bed with another woman. I’m sorry you went through that, and I hope you’e doing much better, because you deserve so much better!
@amimie3 жыл бұрын
Exactly the same with my abusive ex. He kept wanting us to be together after 5 years even though he even said he wasnt attracted to me anymore....and he cheated...
@kyleboyles95633 жыл бұрын
It’s her fault though
@VampireSultana3 жыл бұрын
@@kyleboyles9563 How in the world is it her fault? Explain this to me and everyone else.
@georgiac.53526 жыл бұрын
I hate when people who cheat try to use how long you’ve been together. You should have thought about that before cheating
@sidewinderaf18626 жыл бұрын
Georgia Skinner he needed sex.. I would not blame him
@mariasanchez35486 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@assassinwoman166 жыл бұрын
Jade Helm You dont need sex. He wanted. I dont really blame him either, cause he probably wanted that closeness you get through sex and his wife couldn't give that.
@mayax24316 жыл бұрын
Same! that makes me want to leave their sorry ass more. I mean if you can jeopardize our relationship for some meaningless sex do you really think i will care?
@diavolo13266 жыл бұрын
Georgia Skinner he was wasting his life away taking care of that woman because of her own incompetence and her inability to control her eating. He shouldn’t have to suffer because of a woman that doesn’t appreciate all he has done.
@lg10417 жыл бұрын
no one deserves to be cheated on.... stay strong lupe
@lg10417 жыл бұрын
Cu Nt you don’t know her life... easy to say behind a keyboard
@cinnabuntm99747 жыл бұрын
l g some people deserve to
@lg10417 жыл бұрын
ItsPainting Purple so because she is fat she deserves to be cheated on.....nice.
@cinnabuntm99747 жыл бұрын
l g i didnt say that, i meansome people are bad people and deserve that.
@cinnabuntm99747 жыл бұрын
l g so stop putting words in my mouth
@JessBisme1232 жыл бұрын
It is hard to leave a toxic relationship that has been going on for nearly a decade. Good for her. I hope she lives a long, happy life.
@toria02143 жыл бұрын
This is the first clip I’ve seen of Lupes journey and I’m BEYOND proud of her. Lost over 400 pounds in two years, taking more control of her life, says what she CAN do and doesn’t tolerate abuse? I’m officially a fan of Lupe! ♥️
@vez56632 жыл бұрын
Same!!! ❤️❤️
@OscarRomero-xl4xs Жыл бұрын
@@vez5663Lupe is my inspiration to lose weight.
@pandorasantos19846 жыл бұрын
They clearly have no respect for one another.... They are better off apart !
@shroomgerm6 жыл бұрын
*off
@flamingfury59176 жыл бұрын
Pandora Santos Well the way I see it there's the two sides and the truth he drinks and cheats from a direct cause from her because of her bad choices that she brought eventually a man will seek another he took care of her and she couldn't give him another chance lessons learned and move forward never think you have to impress people God is the only one you need to worry about be a genuine good person donate tennis balls to animal shelters be the change and stop making excuses no one will change for someone your past will not define you everyone can do better like me and my father......I'm no better than no one and neither is anyone else :)
@samuelhernandez34606 жыл бұрын
Pandora Santos *off* Dumb ass
@pandorasantos19846 жыл бұрын
Samuel Hernandez fuck off then !
@GKj0ltz6 жыл бұрын
I don’t either but when you’re stuck with someone who’s a fat sack of shit I would’ve done the same. Then again I wouldn’t have stuck around to wipe their ass. Fuck that shit
@kylishamckinney33766 жыл бұрын
That cousin is so supportive. Cheers to supporting cousins!
@garyenwards16086 жыл бұрын
i would kill all my cousins batlaff style in the ring kirk and spock style dannanananananananananananananaaa dananananananananananananananananaaaa
@taetm88686 жыл бұрын
Edward LaFlamme lol
@levisfavoritebrat81706 жыл бұрын
Kylisha Mckinney I’m the 666 like😂
@taetm88686 жыл бұрын
Skim Milk omg
@emilysterckx48243 жыл бұрын
She did the right thing leaving him. Also, love to her cousin! She is so sweet and supportive
@SAKSOON6 жыл бұрын
I HATE cheaters but then I also feel bad for this guy. Better off he should have left her before get into another relationship.
@niandraladie29536 жыл бұрын
The Angry General Stop goddamn spamming every comment you twit.
@youngfunny18246 жыл бұрын
The Angry General You wouldn't have to worry about that. I highly doubt any girl would want you.
@thebakeddonut20386 жыл бұрын
SAK- SOON Again with you
@thebakeddonut20386 жыл бұрын
The Angry General Lol wtf
@Carlosdreamur6 жыл бұрын
The Angry General lol the sims 3 doesn’t count dude
@TheGooniessss7 жыл бұрын
he is just worried about where he will get money from now ..im sure he was being paid to care for her .
@wadel.24657 жыл бұрын
DAS I’m not sure if I should say fuck off, or ikr
@cockiecat29337 жыл бұрын
fuck off
@IHeArTrOcK207 жыл бұрын
DAS true and also he fed off the fact that she needed him
@m.d.67357 жыл бұрын
Charlotte's Web It's funny how you put it cause the woman just got home with a surgery but he rushed getting on top of her and that's how the wound got infected .Because of sex.. She needed to go through surgery again and cure and close the wound. Just because " I am a man,I have my needs" while at the same time was cheating too.
@sansee68407 жыл бұрын
She probably can polish poles like nobodies business... I'd pass still but just saying
@Koko-ql4fg6 жыл бұрын
“Wanna go sit down?” To the person on the wheel chair?
@bxxj886 жыл бұрын
Misael Meraz I think she mean that as sitting down and talking
@rantanen16 жыл бұрын
what he means is go sit down and talk, not literally go and sit.
@jtwo63616 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same shit lol
@jules-kb6df6 жыл бұрын
Misael Meraz
@tylersutton5926 жыл бұрын
Yo you know you're talking about a disabled woman right? I it is kinda of weird that happened but you don't have to be a bitch right?
@levanielmidoriya5701 Жыл бұрын
Lupe is a strong woman. He practically trapped her with food when you go look at the episode. She's amazing. Incredible.
@leoraphadonikey6 жыл бұрын
If he's so unhappy he should have just left. Cheating wasn't the answer.
@nolanharris41115 жыл бұрын
True, but it may not have been that simple. If he left, she probably wouldn't have survived this long.
@whitneymcclendon165 жыл бұрын
@@nolanharris4111 You don't know her. This woman clearly shows some determination for her cause. Even if he left her early on or never came into her life at all, I'm sure there would of been a event maybe like a sever health scare that make her finally change herself. She would of probably contacted a home aid to get in home care or family willing to stay with her. So,Yes he's been a cheap back bone but that doesn't mean he's do or die 🙄
@mndlgh5 жыл бұрын
He was too busy wiping her ass and cleaning her folds to leave.
@swankelly5 жыл бұрын
He couldn't leave her or she'd probably die. If you didn't watch the original episode. She almost died three times. He was her caregiver. He did everything for her and she was always yelling at him and everything was all about her. I honestly, don't know how he delt with the stress. It's wrong to cheat but most people would've callled somebody to take care of her and leave.
@aen93215 жыл бұрын
Swan Kelly That’s what he should have done. He shouldn’t have stayed if he was unable to be faithful.
@izaillishi65996 жыл бұрын
SHE'S LOST SO MUCH WEIGHT WOW
@bethany21345 жыл бұрын
Ikr! When I clicked on this video from the last one of watched I was like "is this even the same girl??"
@jlivb5 жыл бұрын
@@bethany2134 whr is tht video
@coltholland2325 жыл бұрын
You look like if Mrs. Doubtfire was a fuck boi. 🎶You look like a lady🎶
@cwatson427855 жыл бұрын
@@jlivb look up "lupes story, bedridden for 10 years" Do you like white guys my little Nubian princess?
@joseygunnels65345 жыл бұрын
@@bethany2134 its totally the same fat fuck
@angelinamontes39355 жыл бұрын
her cousin “wanna go sit down” *already sitting in a wheelchair* 😂
@the-neand-nlybwappy5 жыл бұрын
XD
@fairymay74865 жыл бұрын
😅
@groupchannel75105 жыл бұрын
Angelina Montes that’s what I was thinking 😂😂😂
@miamachado63135 жыл бұрын
Angelina Montes 🥶🥶
@jungleboi67845 жыл бұрын
Angelina Montes lol stop 🛑 😂
@Ashy_suxs3 жыл бұрын
Her and the cousin talking together is so wholesome im so proud of her!
@Ghoulfriend927 жыл бұрын
First of all good for her for sticking with it and losing the weight. And I commend him for caring for her for years. The way this looks is that he liked when she was so dependent on him cuz he knew she wasn’t going anywhere cuz she needed him to care for her, also she literally couldn’t go anywhere cuz of her weight. It’s a power thing. Now that she’s becoming more independent, he’s becoming insecure.
@celli30007 жыл бұрын
Ash A this is so accurate 👌👌👌
@maxwellstephens1407 жыл бұрын
If there was another cuz in that run on sentence I would have had a seizure.
@lotusflower9507 жыл бұрын
Maxwell Stephens lmao!!
@savagesstar7 жыл бұрын
Ash A i like your hair color
@zazoo-br4dm7 жыл бұрын
Ash A nope. .. he has no access to her welfare cheque now. .so his lazy ass is crying for that
@vaskee70007 жыл бұрын
i got 2 questions A) how did she get away B) how can u not realise her leaving
@legoatjames22776 жыл бұрын
vasilis stylianou exactly
@bkidwill74236 жыл бұрын
vasilis stylianou 😭💀
@pkclinton85556 жыл бұрын
vasilis stylianou 😂😂
@mrj.kottari84536 жыл бұрын
vasilis stylianou She could lift herself to the wheelchair at that point and there are van taxis that are able to transport wheelchair in their rear section. Go figure...
@concentratecorner17446 жыл бұрын
Bruh i was thinking the same thing, she finally had a reason to get up or maybe she lost weight..hopefully the 2nd one
@lts30175 жыл бұрын
If you're in a relationship with someone you have agreed to be loyal to that person. Period
@batmangeek10195 жыл бұрын
lit edits exactly
@o0xXKilahKandyXx0o4 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@bmc95044 жыл бұрын
He should have left her ass immediately and let her suffer then?? No, instead you'd rather him be the slave and both hit rock bottom together. They both have cravings, she got the food and he was still emotionally drained.
@SteveB-nx2uo4 жыл бұрын
if you have gained weight to the point you are bed ridden that voids your marital vows.
@Hermititis4 жыл бұрын
@@SteveB-nx2uo, The traditional line is "in sickness and in health". Unless you wrote your own and specifically excluded that, "in sickness" would include being bedridden.
@mariamarquez74292 жыл бұрын
Stella is amazing!! She jumped on the first chance to help Lupe and that’s wonderful!!
@Cangeltibon5 жыл бұрын
Shouldn’t have cheat but honestly I wouldn’t have started the relationship in the first place. It might come off as shallow but I’m not entering a relationship to fix someone and I hold my self to the same standards, I don’t want someone trying to fix me. A relationship should be about supporting each other and getting better together, this was unbalanced from the beginning. I wouldn’t want someone who would want me in that condition.
@Jordan-gb3yr5 жыл бұрын
I believe the relationship was more of a caregiver one.
@beautifullybroken48795 жыл бұрын
I agree
@zolablair12944 жыл бұрын
That is 100% fact yes he cheated but he has need as well
@jaylahallen43264 жыл бұрын
@@zolablair1294 if he has these "needs" then he should have left, stop excusing the actions of cheaters. The vow is in sickness and health, so cheating is inexcusable in any circumstance.
@amyrivera39214 жыл бұрын
Perioddd
@pedroornelas19627 жыл бұрын
@2:08 "you wanna go sit down?" Lupe : bitch I'm already sitting down.
@angelp11687 жыл бұрын
Pedro Ornelas 😂😂😂😂😂
@briellag42617 жыл бұрын
Pedro Ornelas LMFAO! I thought no one was going to point that out until I came across your post. *chuckle* 🙄😂
@countrymom21677 жыл бұрын
Pedro Ornelas lol I watch ur channel ur a hottie
@NiaMSnow7 жыл бұрын
Pedro Ornelas lmfaooo
@thebiggestcontroversy58817 жыл бұрын
haha
@zaphodjtk7 жыл бұрын
When people take care you, they feel like they own you.
@imashaleyg7 жыл бұрын
True.
@selenafranco64407 жыл бұрын
So true .
@dani2381597 жыл бұрын
Yes they're freakin wrong
@lucyrevelez.19857 жыл бұрын
Jim Kalt yep u right
@pattersoncurse10237 жыл бұрын
Jim Kalt Ive seen that I must admit but Ive also seen where the carer is treated like an indentured servant.
@peterssister4212 жыл бұрын
Her cousin is an AMAZING support for her! I ❤️ her positive attitude!!
@jonathansalinas22246 жыл бұрын
“I deserve better” the man literally wiped your shit for 10 years I don’t think in your situation you are gonna find better.
@kf-bv6un6 жыл бұрын
Doesn't change that he CHEATED
@jonathansalinas22246 жыл бұрын
Kurstin Duncan true true
@nickfoster93506 жыл бұрын
Big deal! Small price to pay for having him be her servant and destroy his quality of life for many, many years. He went above and beyond for her, so what does she expect? She's alive because of him. She's an ungrateful gross pig that wants empathy from him, but is seemingly incapable of being empathetic towards him.
@ianmugar9886 жыл бұрын
@@nickfoster9350 FACTS......
@Taylor233526 жыл бұрын
Can’t believe you guys taking up that he cheated and gets physical with her. Because his stanky ass jealous!!! She’s doing good, it’s hard work loosing weight so fuck him and you’ll find a man with your new look
@madeleine50987 жыл бұрын
His name is Gilbert, he's already cancelled
@StrawberryJam8067 жыл бұрын
Madeleine lol I love your comment 😂
@alyssamurphy77927 жыл бұрын
Madeleine anytime I hear the name Gilbert, I automatically think of the cat from Caillou. I'm pretty sure the cats name is Gilbert too. Haha 😂🤣
@mariasanchez35487 жыл бұрын
match in the gas tank boom boom lol what's eating gilbert grape
@eridanustly7 жыл бұрын
Madeleine Lol, his name reminds me of caillou's cat
@gilly44877 жыл бұрын
Madeleine ummm excuse me? 😢😢
@dayceecaughill13347 жыл бұрын
She has lost such weight! She looks so good! Way to go Lupe!!!!!!
@strategicthinker88997 жыл бұрын
Amazing! Wow! How can a person get like that? Sloth.
@phragmentscience70006 жыл бұрын
Strategic Thinker you can consider a person as a sloth. It's like calling a fat guy a pig.
@dreamedofuni6 жыл бұрын
Uganda Knuckle Shut the fuck up, bruh.
@dreamedofuni6 жыл бұрын
Phragment Science Let him be stupid, lmao.
@practioneroflain11756 жыл бұрын
Kayla Deonne. He's right though.
@brittanybows28562 жыл бұрын
can we just take a comment to appreciate her cousin 🥺 like she’s so sweet and has dope tats
@Iam-me6 жыл бұрын
NEVER WASTE YOUR FEELINGS ON PEOPLE DONT VALUE YOU !
@Jeff-ok6dr6 жыл бұрын
Siok Oey I learned that the hard way.
@Brittjb6126 жыл бұрын
Really?
@stressrelief29046 жыл бұрын
Siok Oey Truth
@thelahs29236 жыл бұрын
She should value her self more then maybe other will value her too.
@hernandez13406 жыл бұрын
Siok Oey dude the fat bitch should b to blame if she didint let herself get tht fucking fat her husband wouldn't have cheatead
@traceynigwe3 жыл бұрын
Gilberto is scared that he's going to have to get a job for the first time in ten years
@petrastewart86506 жыл бұрын
a cheaters favorite line is “ give me one more chance “
@ruthc92786 жыл бұрын
Omg i hate hearing
@freeee88536 жыл бұрын
I'm not defending him but everyone makes mistakes
@3star2nr6 жыл бұрын
Shiiiitt when i cheat I never ask for another chance
@ruthc92786 жыл бұрын
@@3star2nr exactly. Theres no reason to
@mayggrome6 жыл бұрын
@@freeee8853 lmao ikr A guy chooses to cheat
@butterflychaser453810 ай бұрын
I ADORE her cousin for this!! And way to go Lupe for being an incredible example to others who are in a toxic relationship and deserve to get out and move on in life❤
@MarchionessDarby625 жыл бұрын
I think they’re both pretty toxic.
@luledx65865 жыл бұрын
Culture of Wellness so are you?
@Jash214975 жыл бұрын
@@luledx6586 Is this another way of saying "no u"?
@shrewii6665 жыл бұрын
pretty sure he is the toxic one
@aminaaiono83775 жыл бұрын
shrewii They’re both toxic. He cheated and She basically put him thru so much shit by him taking care of her
@JoseEstrada-gv2yk5 жыл бұрын
U is dumb
@Datgirllay63 жыл бұрын
I absolutely adore Lupe's Cousin, she took time to comfort her and make sure she stays on track. We need more people like her❤❤
@atroll41602 жыл бұрын
I think her cousin is pretty as well as sweet.
@theharshtruthoutthere Жыл бұрын
@@atroll4160 Get to know who are evil, how they communicate with one another and EXPOSE them. Love truly your Neighbors. Don+t just say you do, SHOW IT that you do Ephesians 5:11 And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them. Ephesians 6:12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. For we wrestle not against flesh and blood,= not against human beings. All humans are our Neighbors, whom we are called to LOVE not hate not abuse, LOVE. And what is LOVE? John 15:13 Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. John 7:24 Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment. Love = laying down ones own life for their loved ones and giving out RIGHTEOUS JUDGMENT. How many amongst us LOVE? - FEW How many amongst us HATE? - MANY
@nathanchung276 жыл бұрын
They're both better off now. They used each other and both are to blame.
@jadynavery27066 жыл бұрын
Nope he is. She left for a reason. She was right for that.
@giannacherry16986 жыл бұрын
Agreed my boi
@charlottewalnut31186 жыл бұрын
Nathan Chung I would love to know how the fuck he used her
@aembusiness2 жыл бұрын
Lupe’s friends and family should be EXTREMELY proud of her!! More importantly, she should be extremely proud of herself!!! Great job sticking to your weight loss goals and for staying committed every step of the way over such a long stretch of time. You are super inspirational. Please keep up making good choices for yourself and for those around you.
@alyssamurphy77927 жыл бұрын
Lupe is such a sweetheart. I absolutely love her. She was one of my favorite episodes along with Christina. They both were serious about losing all their weight and worked their asses off. She does not deserve that treatment from Gilbert. Gilbert doesn't deserve Lupe at all. Stay strong girl! You look great!!!! 😘❤️
@lindseythegoaldigger45297 жыл бұрын
Alyssa Murphy She was so rude to him tho
@savagesstar7 жыл бұрын
Alyssa Murphy i like your hair color
@alyssamurphy77927 жыл бұрын
I like to Move it move it Have you seen the full episode? She was only giving back what he gave her. He went behind her back and was talking to other women while she was IN SURGERY and then tried to cover it up as him trying to "spread God's word and love" that is complete bull crap if you ask me. That and he was on dating websites and sending inappropriate and explicit pictures to other females. And his excuse for cheating? Because a man has sexual needs and Lupe being severely overweight couldn't satisfy those needs he had. So he completely deserved everything he got. Lupe could have EASiLY just have left his ass, but she obviously loves and completely adores Gilbert for whatever reason that may be, we don't know their history, and we don't know their lives. We only see what TLC wants us to see of their lives. So we don't know what happens when the cameras shut off and the doors are closed. Hopefully he has learned to respect and appreciate Lupe more and hopefully their relationship has gotten better since we've all last seen. I have the most respect for Lupe for doing exactly what she was supposed to be doing. Dieting and exercising correctly, and taking her weight loss seriously. I hope we get an update soon!
@alyssamurphy77927 жыл бұрын
Savagesstar/ Jayingee Thank you very much! Lol that was a sweet compliment 😊😊😊
@alyssamurphy77927 жыл бұрын
My personal opinion on this topic is that if you're unhappy in your relationship, just leave. Don't stay and cheat on the other person and cause unnecessary pain when you can just walk your happy ass out of the relationship you think is THAT bad to where you have to go behind their back to cheat on them and then come back home to that other person every night and sleep in the same bed as them and act like nothing happened, everything's just peachy.. if you even reach the point in your relationship when you even START THiNKiNG about cheating on your s/o, just end it right then and there. Don't throw gasoline onto a fire to try and put it out.. just walk away if you're unhappy.. cheating is one of the worst and most disrespectful things you can do while in a closed relationship with someone you claim to love...
@madisonlewe10577 жыл бұрын
“Ten years of me taking care of you” Playing that card, are you?
@uniquebabe58247 жыл бұрын
Madison Lynn yeah he needs to suck it up and be a man
@Rdizzle5127 жыл бұрын
Madison Lynn ten years is a lot
@crankup17 жыл бұрын
He took care of her needs for 10 years because he loved her , and she completely ignored his own.. Love is a two way street and she got mad at him for recognizing that
@princessari89927 жыл бұрын
Garik Takoushian that’s not an excuse to cheat on someone
@lecherosadadulce73207 жыл бұрын
Princess Ari either that or leave her on her own. I mean come on he had needs that she couldn't give him. Not only sex but a real emotional connection because he turned into her babysitter no longer lover.
@denedene54515 жыл бұрын
Ladies no matter how insecure you are PLEASE DON'T STAY IN A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP
@finnsbitch48975 жыл бұрын
irock yayy you do know lupe is the toxic one right?
@luminalcard82905 жыл бұрын
There wasnt even a relationship to begin with lol
@TvConfusionn5 жыл бұрын
irock yayy She was the one with the fat ass being wiped and taken care off and thinking she deserved better
@maryhudson37274 жыл бұрын
Right. No rest or peace. Your mind will be very busy and you will become tired. Dont do it ladies. And this goes for me too
@bmc95044 жыл бұрын
Lmao, yeah because she'd just walk away and have somebody else wipe her ass. Are you stupid? That advice could only really be helpful to a small percentage of women in the world.
@thehonest18092 жыл бұрын
How lucky she ist to have such a caring and supportive cousin! Thank god!
@cherryonasundae5 жыл бұрын
*takes care of her for 10 years while she is bedridden* .. “now I know how guilbert has been holding me back all these years” like WTFFFF woman
@shakal92ice5 жыл бұрын
Though i was the only one thinking that. She is so ungrateful. She deserve better what a joke !
@brittanysmith95655 жыл бұрын
He also physically abused her and cheated on her. NEVER okay. 🙄 He did hold her back, she needed motivation to lose weight. Seemed like he just enabled her
@victoriagiro7375 жыл бұрын
Because he was enabling her, not taking care of her! If I did everything for my junkie husband including cooking up all his shots, im not "taking care" of him.
@nicolemonroe2205 жыл бұрын
Bridgy Hairston kno Bilbao kabob police. Kmloo
@noh39875 жыл бұрын
Bridgy Hairston OK so she’s not a person anymore Who deserves to still be treated with some dignity? He had the choice to leave those entire 10 years. He chose to stay, he chose to take care of her, he chose to abuse and cheat on her. Stop making excuses for abusers. Dumbass.
@DEA9836 жыл бұрын
1:42, she said I deserve better, but so does your husband. For 10 years he's been more of a father in that marriage then a husband. He bathed her, dressed her, fed her... Of course that he wants to have some nice times also after all that, he got nothing in return from her.
@adriananghel4356 жыл бұрын
He also wiped her ass too so I don't blame him..
@DEA9836 жыл бұрын
No one in a right mind can blame him. :)
@ratguy78006 жыл бұрын
I kinda blame him and her
@DEA9836 жыл бұрын
Then you are kinda in a right mind. ;) jk As I watched this show, I noticed that a lot of them are spoiled, depressed and they need help with everything, so her husband was more like a hired help. With all that I can understand that he wants to have a little fun time for relaxing. :) That's my opinion.
@ordinarylife3476 жыл бұрын
so True
@yola9254 жыл бұрын
He just wants that social security check 🙄 so messed up
@brionnapauni63274 жыл бұрын
Favi92xo facts!
@bmc95044 жыл бұрын
Good, that's the only thing she's got to offer.
@christopherosbourne88054 жыл бұрын
😂
@tomarasmith44594 жыл бұрын
What else is she good for?
@chywatts69033 жыл бұрын
@@bmc9504 Oops... I spot a male gold digger in the comments 👀
@laurajanesherman91262 жыл бұрын
Being the caretaker in this situation is a huge sacrifice and she hasn’t been able to contribute in his needs and that has taken a toll on the relationship. It’s sad but true.
@ShaunFlores Жыл бұрын
One of the FEW honest comments
@poet82n Жыл бұрын
That's what I thought. He's fowl for cheating, but all he did was take care of her, wash her butt and feed her. She wasn't able to do anything for herself.
@JuJuLona Жыл бұрын
Big facts!
@livinlife21055 ай бұрын
I’m glad you said this and I feel like NO ONE can see that and it pisses me off. I can find somebody to like me. She lied to him in the beginning and he still stuck around and wiped her ass. I’m pissed FOR him. RIDICULOUS
@mydigitalspace134 жыл бұрын
Her self respect is rock solid..respect earned ❤
@h-rr Жыл бұрын
Frrrr because she finally feels some self worth after losing a heap of weight ❤
@inspirationalt2143 Жыл бұрын
🙌🏾🙏🏾💯💜YES
@itsaddietubeTV7 жыл бұрын
Marriage is 50/50, not 90/100! I don’t justify cheating but I think he could have left and take care of himself. In a relationship you need to care for each other and when you don’t the other person might feel a bit left out.
@itsaddietubeTV6 жыл бұрын
Giving 50/50 is the same as giving 100/100. But I get your point, marriage is a both side commitment.
@blob31066 жыл бұрын
I would have cheated too
@tatyanaelmore23176 жыл бұрын
YaFlayedYourself messed up
@djregina68976 жыл бұрын
Tatyana Elmore I understand his point tho. The guy has been taking care of a morbidly obese woman for 10 years that doesn’t do shit for him.
@tatyanaelmore23176 жыл бұрын
DJ Regina yeah i see what you saying
@NC-ij9rb6 жыл бұрын
It’s not right to cheat but it’s also not right to expect someone to stay and take care you until your death just because your married. They’re both at fault.
@nero17276 жыл бұрын
nyrryl cadiz In this situation it was okay, imagine spending 10 years of your life only to help another person that doesn’t give you anything back? He didn’t want to hurt her either so he did the right thing.
@2inchfromtheground5 жыл бұрын
Actually you make an agreement upon marriage to do just that
@aen93215 жыл бұрын
2inchfromtheground Marriage is symbiotic.
@aen93215 жыл бұрын
Mikel Landa He didn’t do the right thing. He was an enabler and allowed her to her more and more unhealthy, never stopping her. He put himself into the situation and now everybody feels poorly for him despite the fact that he’s a cheating bastard and never did anything to prevent any of it from happening. Love and obesity do not combine because if you love somebody, you will not enable them. It’s the same as a drug addiction, except its food.
@2inchfromtheground5 жыл бұрын
A E N the bad ones are. The 50/50 ones are symbiotic, and are usually the ones that end in divorce. A marriage is built on God and requires 100% effort from both husband and wife. Government got involved in the affairs of the church including marriage, blurring the lines between responsibility and entitlement.
@briharden32583 жыл бұрын
So proud of her ! And he’s nothing without her literally that man probably has no income just living off of her ! Keep on pushing your so beautiful girl 😍💙
@EvelynJoy3 жыл бұрын
She has lost 430+ pounds!!! I am so impressed and inspired! If she can do that, anyone can do anything they work hard at!!!
@captainkerrfluffle82597 жыл бұрын
"In sickness and in health" if Gilbert needed something else he should've been man enough to leave instead of use her for her unemployment and disability checks.
@Yzzami7 жыл бұрын
Captainkerrfluffle taxpayer money shouldn't go towards morbid obesity
@cunt64897 жыл бұрын
Don't eat yourself to death then?
@sansee68407 жыл бұрын
Nah he should've gotten a second phone
@pyro98187 жыл бұрын
Captainkerrfluffle She shouldn’t have gotten those “disability checks” in the first place I can’t believe now in the 21st century, you eating until you’re hideously obese means you’re classified as “disabled”. How pathetic have people got.
@cunt64897 жыл бұрын
How can you not use someone else's money when they won't let you get a job and make you their nurse for some reason fat acceptance has made y'all blind if I was her I'd be ok with him cheating until I better myself
@curtisbemis66402 жыл бұрын
Lupe is the toughest person on this show not only mental but physical trauma and she's still keeps winning.
@pizza49366 жыл бұрын
I don't blame him. I hate cheaters but this is justified in a way, he spent 10 years wiping her ass and having no intimacy at all, and for her to up and leave just because he needs his needs met too is honestly kinda selfish.
@truebloodish6 жыл бұрын
Doctor Bitchcraft cheating is never justified. if you unhappy you can leave a relationship.
@Junior_20156 жыл бұрын
Ether way he should just talk to her about how he feels instead of hoeing around behind her back that's just fucked up just leave the relationship.
@bitterteeth16656 жыл бұрын
He should've broke up with her. Cheating is not okay
@quaaludesg56606 жыл бұрын
truebloodish he loves her that’s why he’s with her but she’s ignoring his needs so he got it somewhere else, doesn’t change the fact that he loves her
@ianfortuna93856 жыл бұрын
Doctor Bitchcraft same with me if I cheat it's because I can't get any at home I'm a good dog but if you don't pet me once in a while it's hard to keep me under the porch
@falcoburke86876 жыл бұрын
Dr now savage af "we'll I'm sorry to hear that but you're doing great"
@sugarloaf60696 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@maddycornish12666 жыл бұрын
Falco Burke No affection at all 😂 Literally me
@gusrtw206 жыл бұрын
I think if you read between lines he was actually saying "ok yeah you have problems, but focus on what you're doing and don't let the break up make you binge eat out of anxiety again". Dr. Now has seen a fucking load of these motherfuckers gain a lot of weight again because their pet rock died and they're too depressed to go on with their diet.
@melissathompson48846 жыл бұрын
Right!! lol
@dx14506 жыл бұрын
He's a weight loss doctor. Want to talk about your screwed up life? Go see Dr. Phil.
@stevenblack33715 жыл бұрын
Lets be honest he was only there for her disability check.
@kelseyharris58155 жыл бұрын
He not messing with no random periodt
@michelleramirez24435 жыл бұрын
So true.
@JAngel-sv2zh5 жыл бұрын
Nope! For the sh** he does he deserves more pay. He obviously loves her
@stevenblack33715 жыл бұрын
@@JAngel-sv2zh oh yea him cheating is definitely proving that he loves her. Keep in mind he's been cheating on her MULTIPLE times.
@JAngel-sv2zh5 жыл бұрын
He wipes her ass ya’ dumbfuck
@roxannenalgot6922 жыл бұрын
I’m so proud of you lupe. You did it girl. I’m sitting here crying tears of joy for you.
@gamerofedge81115 жыл бұрын
While I agree that their relationship was toxic and he was more of a caregiver, this doesn't change the fact that he should've DIVORCED her before going to see other women, this was betrayal and I think they were both quite toxic to each other, though to me, this is cheating and it isn't right.
@nataliehernandez95866 жыл бұрын
I mean he been there taking care of her for 10 years he deserves a better life too
@jenniferkhan36866 жыл бұрын
He cheated....he deserves nothing.
@wowzers20516 жыл бұрын
he cheated....he doesn't deserve anything
@nataliehernandez95866 жыл бұрын
@@wowzers2051 he still help her with everything for TEN YEARS!!!
@zarrstroglutt23466 жыл бұрын
Nah, he deserves better, her fault.
@diana-cy4kj5 жыл бұрын
Natalie Hernandez Maybe she will stop overeating now he's gone? He is a feeder and enabler , after all.
@savannahjohnson6336 жыл бұрын
Lupe looks a lot better. But you can see just how much it destroys the body to get so huge. They were not good for eachother. Very toxic relationship.. like most on this show actually. It's for the best that they split. For both of them. They need to stay apart. That's just how it is.
@ImDundro5 жыл бұрын
kitty mom nope she still looks like shit
@karinacamargo91319 ай бұрын
So so proud of her. She is such a sweet heart. She deserves everything good in life!
@luie29356 жыл бұрын
This dude basically said “i know I cheated but I didnt think she would leave me “ lmaoo i bet he didnt think her bigass would get up and leave 😂😂
@CHill-rw8nc6 жыл бұрын
Luietoons G 😭😭😭🤣😂😅
@chewielokz6 жыл бұрын
Luietoons G bahaha you're a dumb fool 😂 😂 😆 😆
@devinmaness36486 жыл бұрын
😅omfg I'm dead 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Angry.General14616 жыл бұрын
Luietoons G Fuck cheating!!! If I had a girl that let herself go that bad I would just kick her to the curb all together and move on to somebody more attractive that takes care of herself!!! She is not sexy at all!!!
@lokiodinson62246 жыл бұрын
@@Angry.General1461 lmaoooo i wouldnt date someone that size either... Not even because looks but i dont wanna worry about my girlfriend or boyfriend dying bc their size
@Asims-ue1or7 жыл бұрын
I hope this woman gets surgery to get rid of the extra skin on her body/face. I do not say that not out of meanness. I would like to see this woman with confidence, that she deserves! She's already looking like a different person. Kick that guy to curb and she will go nothing but up.
@ksss2lv7 жыл бұрын
Amandalynn1416 she said she is but she wanted her hip surgery first so.she could be mobile.again
@jayylopez67196 жыл бұрын
Amandalynn1416 One step at a time❤️she’s so strong !!
@veronica95326 жыл бұрын
Lex- Doesn’t mean he owns her, if the relationship you’re in is that toxic and detrimental to you just walk away.
@anon40416 жыл бұрын
I agree! I know my recent comment was kind of mean but I truly do hope the best for her!
@reshmathayani68676 жыл бұрын
True i agree with u
@Jellybeans7207 жыл бұрын
Cousin: you wanna go sit down? Me: .............lol.
@trippie17166 жыл бұрын
Rachel Combs Like bitch I can't stand 😂
@Vrtnca16 жыл бұрын
Rachel Combs lmaaaaoo hahahhah
@malika15946 жыл бұрын
Rachel Combs your right she already sat down
@TheJd21946 жыл бұрын
I would've been hysterically laughing and then crying and then laughing and then crying again if my cousin said that to me 😂
@darlajones81676 жыл бұрын
I thought the exact same thing 😂
@consuelobolton81183 ай бұрын
Dont blame him for cheating. Everybody has a breaking point...
@itsmeh42406 жыл бұрын
I don't usually feel bad for cheaters, but I feel bad for him
@jhanavirajesh6 жыл бұрын
Jhopes Hopers army!!😀😀😀
@itsmeh42406 жыл бұрын
jhanavi rajesh hi!! 😁😁😀
@wontstoptrying6 жыл бұрын
I do too to some extent... but the dude would literally feed her a huge box full of doughnuts for her when she was at her heaviest. The person you love is in that condition and you feed her that shit? Even if she wanted that shit he was the one that was in control of what she ate. Makes me think he got her to that stage in the past 8-10 years they were together.
@nkirk09126 жыл бұрын
I might be bad for saying this but for some cheaters I can't blame them for the situation their partner threw them into they didn't sign up for certain things she didn't have to get that fat to the point he had to take care of her...
@MaryJane-vv4fp6 жыл бұрын
He said he *needed* her to *help* him. That's common for someone who uses someone else for financial needs to say. He missed her social security checks
@kelseyharris58155 жыл бұрын
Whatever happens CHEATING is never the answer youll always get hurt it will never heal . Also learn how to forgive and move on
@hunk5476 жыл бұрын
Wow! She lost a lot of weight!!!
@joshuabom646 жыл бұрын
Jäger i know i feel so proud of her
@madilionh6 жыл бұрын
Wowww she lost madd weight
@madilionh6 жыл бұрын
I’m proud of her
@joozareviews2546 жыл бұрын
Jäger I know. I’m so proud of here!
@michaelathomas3216 жыл бұрын
Jäger yeah it’s really great.
@searchingsoul17283 жыл бұрын
"It's what needs to be done for me to become the person I want." I love that. 💖
@mariaameliasantana74176 жыл бұрын
People don't have to dedicate their lives to someone who doesn't dedicate their lives back. She clearly isn't taking care of herself... Why should he be 100% responsible for her?
@aheartonfire71916 жыл бұрын
gunslingergirl axl because that’s what true love is.
@lexhwan12846 жыл бұрын
Blue Shell you're hilarious
@iukl6 жыл бұрын
gunslingergirl axl she lost 400 pounds. She’s clearly taking care of herself now
@asingnih9666 жыл бұрын
Blue Shell true love is when both people show affection and care for each other equally the guy is clearly taking care of her more then she is that's not true love
@miwfanitmfan58596 жыл бұрын
Are they married I thought marriage was sickness and health. And don't cheat just leave if ur not happy. And there's no excuse for physical abuse.
@ellaseo83965 жыл бұрын
Did nobody hear that he was getting PHYSICALLY ABUSIVE??? Like wtf??? Nothing condones that at all. Even after taking care of her for 10 years.
@standingontheshouldersofgi58765 жыл бұрын
Physical abuse? Pfft. More like taking away her food
@edsonlapomarede63185 жыл бұрын
LOL PHYSICLY ABUSE? All she as to do is jump on him lol
@alyssakihara75275 жыл бұрын
ya'll are mean
@erickimmmy83585 жыл бұрын
Ella Seo bro I can tell that Gilbert being physical was only once, cuz they were in an argument. 10 years of sacrificing his time doing everything for lupe, that she should be doing all by herself
@laxmitty215 жыл бұрын
Abuse didn't mean physical
@TinaMarieItalianIce6 жыл бұрын
If you think about it she used him....as soon as she lost weight she's ready to leave him if he was so terrible the entire time and she respected herself she would of left him when she was overweight but she needed him to take care of her the whole situation is them using each other..Just saying
@nafsi85196 жыл бұрын
I kind of agree
@popeye82606 жыл бұрын
She had no love or respect for her self at her biggest. She should have left him. Who cares if she used him he cheated on her. She never cheated him she did love him
@tornadosirenwednesday6 жыл бұрын
he's doing the same thing tho, some people will stay with disabled partners so that they feel useful but once they can start taking care of themselves they start cheating
@zararoyce3196 жыл бұрын
Tina D'Imperio no, she stated very clearly that as she was losing more and more weight he was getting more insecure and jealous and he started turning physical it sounds as if he wasn’t doing that before because he liked having her fat and immobilized were basically no one was probably going to want her, that makes a lot of sense
@LaPrincesse08206 жыл бұрын
No one else in their right mind would want to take over the maid job for Jabba the hut
@catwald02 жыл бұрын
Lupe seems like a kind and very strong woman. I hope she's living her best life now!!
@Luvliaa7 жыл бұрын
ofc he did, he really didn't love this women nor loved her looks so he decided to cheat even during her surgery. he aint shit, she need to let that mango
@Jalenx7 жыл бұрын
QueenLee I love mangos
@Luvliaa7 жыл бұрын
Jalen Edwards 😂😂pun
@ioneptune7 жыл бұрын
Mangos don’t cheat
@Maggie_1437 жыл бұрын
I love Hey Paris
@crankup17 жыл бұрын
Hoenstly, the guy needed some. He wiped her ass, cared for her for 10 fucking years. If she can't fulfill his needs, then good for him for cheating
@angiesworld99765 жыл бұрын
she lost so much weight keep it up lupe
@molarmama326 жыл бұрын
Gilbert did EVERYTHING FOR YOU. Remember you lied to him, to get married.
@sinister57706 жыл бұрын
molarmama32 lmao once she didn’t need him anymore, she waved goodbye to Gilbert
@molarmama326 жыл бұрын
In The Catholic Church he has valid grounds for an annulment. He should dump her, get a job and find a good women and have a family.
@anonymous-ri7tl6 жыл бұрын
he cheated she doesn't have to stay with him
@rabidrabbitshuggers6 жыл бұрын
molarmama32 Gilbert used her for her disability benefits.
@molarmama326 жыл бұрын
I was quoting from Canon Law. She lied to get him to marry her. She blasphemed by saying it was the word of GOD that they marry. Initially, she mailed him photos of herself when she was thinner/younger. She cannot share in sexual relations with her husband.
@oliviaw63972 жыл бұрын
The cousin is so supportive and emotionally intelligent
@Sara-kb9lo7 жыл бұрын
Fake crocodile tears. He doesn't love her. Uhh, I hate cheaters.
@alyssamurphy77927 жыл бұрын
love_sarah25 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@penguinlove92407 жыл бұрын
love_sarah25 actually you don't know how the person felt about another person! You don't know what he feels about her so yea
@tawnyadeibert51317 жыл бұрын
Sweetie its time for yourself. Stella is right you look good be proud of yourself. Keep your head high and walk proud
@thelegendthemyth30797 жыл бұрын
Tawnya Deibert does she really look good
@leahvance28067 жыл бұрын
I love comments with positive feedback. Its a beautiful thing!
@thelegendthemyth30797 жыл бұрын
Leah Vance come on let's just be more realistic here, that's all I want
@leahvance28067 жыл бұрын
The Legend The Myth Meaning???
@thelegendthemyth30797 жыл бұрын
Leah Vance I ask "does she really look good? " And you talking about positivity, but she doesn't look good
@danielsepulveda53917 жыл бұрын
Wow she lost a lot of weight and looks great! Good job!
@yaraldinejimenez75957 жыл бұрын
Daniel Sepulveda yes !
@Adam_keyss7 жыл бұрын
No she doesn’t
@StrawberryJam8067 жыл бұрын
Adam get lost you ugly troll
@TiburonChico7 жыл бұрын
Luxe Honey Harsh truth
@StrawberryJam8067 жыл бұрын
Joshy Washy no it’s not truth, it’s an opinion.
@PatriciaS-t1x4 ай бұрын
I actually feel sorry for Gilbert. He’s had to put up with so much. Anyone whose watched this will know. I agree that she has to leave because she’s not able to concentrate on both her health and him. Hope he finds happiness.
@aliceclarkson81013 жыл бұрын
Skinny or fat, NO ONE EVER DESERVES TO BE CHEATED ON
@myka87123 жыл бұрын
Exactly! Why do we see old people still married and very much in love when all looks fade away and the intimacy no more. Because as they get older their love grows with time. Other wise it's conditional love. As we get older and we get use to someone we have eyes to see someone younger, hotter,, attractive, etc, but real love is not an emotion it's a decision. Love is an action.. Kind of like God's love.
@BustaBunny3045 Жыл бұрын
Lol clown
@a6spa Жыл бұрын
@@BustaBunny3045imagine praising someone for cheating. loser activity