Where should you have First Sex? American vs Korean Gay Dating culture differences!!

[@levicrossdechantel]

I loved how the Korean woman translated everything to their partner instead of keeping them out of the loop; so that they would be included and keep up with in the conversation too.

[@LeztravelTogether]

Of course because I love her and she is my wife. :) 🥰

[@aaron20410]

exactly. i love seeing them together.

[@fantasy1714]

They should mute her voice when she was translating tho it was distracting

[@sweettea735]

Being a Bi-man, I’ve had experiences with various ‘Top’ and ‘Bottom’ dynamics. What always annoyed me was that people in heteronormative relationships would tell me derogatory jokes about being a ‘bottom’ as a man, where they automatically assume you’re going to take that submissive role because of said position. Being submissive and a bottom doesn’t have a correlation in sex. You can still be dominant while being a bottom, and it’s something straight people don’t realise soon enough. This becomes quite hurtful when people make it a norm to associate you with being ‘emotional’ , ‘fragile’ and ‘girly’ just because of your sexual position during sex.

[@JoJo-es7tc]

I am not gay, but my son is BI. But even before we knew this, he is 28, known since he was 14. I have and have many gay friends. I have always though it is no one's a GOD DAMN business if you are a top /bottom or both. You wouldn't ask a straigh person. " hmm, can we ask are you missionary, or not?.. Boils my BLOOD

[@sweettea735]

@@JoJo-es7tc I agree, it’s unfortunately something society and the internet has made a trend to want to know what sexual position you take. It’s pathetic, but it’s not really something people will take a ‘no’ from.

[@JoJo-es7tc]

@@sweettea735 🙏♥️🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

[@sweettea735]

@@JoJo-es7tc 🇵🇭🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿✌️

[@lone_wolf947]

@@JoJo-es7tc atleast you guys can come out easily in your countries but in India it's still taboo or something being LGBT is curse society will treat different if they get to know about your sexual orientation.

[@hjordisbackman8365]

carisa from the international couple seems to be such a genuine and down to earth person, and their partner too. their relationship seems very chill and sweet

[@LeztravelTogether]

Thank youuu. SHE IS AMAZING!!!

[@Incognito-fk5jp]

I am so happy to see more bisexual representation in this channel

[@voyance4elle]

the "messed around" becoming "master around" is kinda funny :D

[@stranger8447]

I see you, Shine teen. Popped off with thr LGBTQ+ contents, love that. Keep it up 💜

[@LeztravelTogether]

I'm so glad I found this chanel and had an interview with them.

[@stevenbabe4666]

I liked this and I think it is important for young American gays to realize how valuable our right are here. I am older gay man and I remember the days of living here in fear being gay. I know what it was like not having rights or being able to marry. It cost me thousands to have legal papers done so my husband and I would be able to have medical control and visitation if something happen and will. It is so much better now and I hope that every country legalize gay marriage and job and housing protection. The American women was very accurate I liked her a lot.

[@januaryhymn]

thank you for reminding us american lgbtqs just how far we have come, and what we need to protect

[@simonesaldanha7110]

Man this was really a nice video to watch!!😭😌😌

[@Mossking_art]

waaaah! i need these couples in more videos!

[@LeztravelTogether]

Yay♡ 🏳️‍🌈

[@saintjohnny2028]

I absolutely LOVE Carisa, like I feel like I want her to be my new best friend, as a 33 year old gay guy I just FELT her vibe xD

[@andressaqueiroz8263]

I love these videos and I'm learning a lot from them, please keep doing them.

[@SlikChik]

The American is only representing certain areas of America though. There are still many states that don’t have those protections. Actually more don’t than do. I wanted to share to make sure it’s known there’s still a long way to go in the US and her experience isn’t representative of the entire US. Many areas of the US are still quite similar to South Korea when it comes to the limitations, risks, and conservative views.

[@LeztravelTogether]

Oh 100% agree. By no means do we want to paint the US in some kinda of perfect light. America is a hot mess with plenty of things, but between the two countries, if we don’t want to fear being fired all the time and want to legally have a family that’s the best option we have. But our goal is to help people around the world who see K-pop and dramas and think “wow Korea is the best” to just be aware that it needs serious work in the human rights area. At least in the US My marriage is legally recognized in every state!

[@SlikChik]

@@LeztravelTogether Totally understand and completely get where you are coming from. There are lots of good but also lots of bad just about anywhere you go, so worth doing a bit of research before anyone moves anywhere. I was born in the deep south of the US and moved to Canada a few years ago, so my perspective is greatly impacted based on the area I was raised in versus my experiences today as well. Many people even taut Canada has being super progressive but similar to the US, it absolutely depends on where you move to. I really enjoy these videos and hope you continue making them because it's so important for others to have a chance to see and understand the differences.

[@januaryhymn]

that’s the thing…there is federal legal protection, but this country is so large…

[@LeztravelTogether]

@@januaryhymn haha yep it’s definitely big with lots of different people that have lots of different opinions on queer people. But Federal legal rights feels huge when you live somewhere that you have absolutely no rights. Especially with us wanting to have kids. Because that’s illegal (ivf) for us here in Korea…

[@lil.y4279]

I dont think its a bout lesbians or gays I just think its about asian people we really do care about appearance

[@edpala7794]

cute couple married❤❤

[@LeztravelTogether]

Thank you. 😊

[@mousykatka]

this view was amazing! and what a huge differences, wow

[@mrebanks1112]

I really enjoyed this type of video.

[@luvbug1237]

Love this video ❤

[@jadejimenezschrodingerskitten]

this was a great vid from you guys

[@LeztravelTogether]

Merci!!!

[@winter3089]

I wa curious and confused on why there was a girl translating what theyre saying to English but when I saw it I realized she is translating to her wife 😭😭😭

[@LeztravelTogether]

I'm sorry.. 😞

[@winter3089]

@@LeztravelTogether Eyyy why r u sorry 💀💀💀 it was honesty sweet I was just confused about the background noise lol I also thought it was a background app playing but it wasn't annoying or anything so don't apologize 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@senpapi___]

이 영상 보면서 카리사 말할때 자막이 가끔 틀려서 조금 걱정되네요... 클럽에서 만나는 얘기했을때, 카리사가 "you're like drunk~ and you're like "hi~ lets make out~"" 이렇게 말을 하셨는데 자막이 "drug"이랑 "high" 이렇게 나와서 사람들이 오해할까봐 조금 걱정 되네요..ㅠㅠ

[@JoJo-es7tc]

Let's see more of this..

[@고기사랑-b8d]

한국어자막플리즈~~~

[@mamagone]

Love this channel with all my heart

[@JungkookxSim]

More of this

[@caroza3090]

매우 흥미롭긴 한데 국제 자동 번역이 없는 것이 아쉽습니다. 우리는 그것에 대해 생각해야 합니다.

[@bbyatsumu6122]

Love thissss

[@guerlainse8613]

Very good. Those gays guys sweet. Bisous

[@Dee-ur3ed]

I see Doha and Daan❤

[@siaq2497]

수술동의서는 걍 동성애인 , 친구 모두 가능하게 바뀌었음 좋겠어요... 사람이 죽어나가는데 언제 가족부르고 있어;;;

[@LeztravelTogether]

맞아요... 너무 속상해요 그런일이 있을 때 ㅠㅠ

[@mshopoppo2774]

อิงขนิษฐ์ ศิรินภาพันธุ์

[@heatherspence3848]

❤

[@namasthechicha123]

❤❤❤

[@sunooxfox8929]

Second i guess

[@nadiaharden6096]

Hello I live in the US and I NEED TO KNOW WHERE I CAN JOIN A QUEER FLIP CUP TEAM

[@produsultana]

5th i guess

[@-JA-]

🙂❤️👍

[@Hellokitty_391]

I understand why a lot of asian same sex couple prefer to live in US 😁

[@reesemalo]

My first time was at school☠

[@Llodygarmadon]

First

[@bb-nj3ki]

게이가 외적을 많이보는기 이성애자 남자들도 그러니까 남자의 공통점??

[@DerrickKnight]

Kkuk Korea is not a free country?!

[@Theoneandonlybish]

yea

[@karla-ww8sq]

no haha

[@gabymont4811]

I've noticed with lesbians that they do form very heteronormative relationships, one always takes on the role of a man not just in appearance but mannerisms.

[@ari3732]

As a lesbian, this is a very thing the lesbian community has to work on. I can say it's extremely rare for you to see a masc/stud with another masc/stud and are discriminated against within the community and how masculine women are COMPARED to men. Femme and Femme relationships are more accepted than masc with masc, but you'll typically see masc with femmes. As a femme who likes other femmes, it can be tricky finding femmes who don't only like masc women

[@derekb4977]

It's LGB and stop the TQ+ nonsense

[@nicoleb-r3033]

Uh, no. It has always been and always will be LGBT. The Q+ came later but if you're mad about it, you can leave, fam. Look at you getting mad at equal representation. Get outta here. Also, the stone wall riots and the US would not be where it is today, in terms of gay rights, were it not for the likes of Marsha P. Johnson and Sylvia Rivera(who were both Trans) so you can take all the seats.

[@tylerphuoc2653]

I can't believe you chose Shine Teen of all places to say this dreck, lol

[@derekb4977]

@@tylerphuoc2653 I will say it everywhere all gay men and lesbian women are waking up and we all know that the T hijacked us in 2014 around that time straight weirdos started inventing labels Q++ and has done so much damage to same sex homosexuality gay for male and lesbian for female a reason because there is only Male and female LGB Alliance and Detrans voices are growing and we are reclaiming back our real community and kicking out the delusion of straight girls identifying as anything because you can't identify you just are what you are born as.

[@ari3732]

LGBTQ+ PRIDE

[@derekb4977]

@@ari3732 no it's LGB not the alphabet mafia.

[@Gemineyestar]

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[@denicewilliams]

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[@SophiaStfleur]

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