My life as the unwanted child, abuse by my uncle, navigating life to finding myself | Lydia Wanjiru

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Lynn Ngugi

Lynn Ngugi

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@LynnNgugi
@LynnNgugi Жыл бұрын
Good morning team LNN, You requested Lydia and we heard you! What is your take-home from today's conversation with her? You can connect with her via her social handles TikTok: lydiawanjiru.ke Instagram: lydiawanjiru.ke Or via her phone number 0708 572 062 Check her amazing content here youtube.com/@getnakedwithlydia?si=Y9XShLVGoCZdA4mO and subscribe! To share your story on Rebuilding, send a brief summary to our emails Info@Lnn.digital or Lynn.ngugi@Lnn.digital Thank you so much for watching
@esthernjeri1744
@esthernjeri1744 Жыл бұрын
I will contact her coz i feel the need to pour my heart to her,i went through so much when i was young too 😢
@kenyayoungjournalists7901
@kenyayoungjournalists7901 Жыл бұрын
Much love as always my mentor ❤️. You inspire me
@Ray-yg3nr
@Ray-yg3nr Жыл бұрын
Hey Lynn. This is a very sober conversation. Invite me on that round table .you are looking for 2 more people. count me as 1 person.
@warigiapurity8252
@warigiapurity8252 Жыл бұрын
Pole gal for what you went thro. Thank you for rebuilding ourselves. You talked about undertaking criminology, u still can, it's never too late to learn.
@wacekendonga5658
@wacekendonga5658 Жыл бұрын
Where is the link to her other interview? Kindly put it here , asante.
@FaithKenya963
@FaithKenya963 Жыл бұрын
She is such a strong lady. I was raised by my mum's sister and that woman and her children were God sent, I even forgot I was an orphan 😂😂😂😂. The love, the care I remember in high school I used to have extra shopping new uniforms every term and my school fees was paid per year in advance. Though she passed on I still feel the love from my cousins, I really thank God for them.
@forevertreasures
@forevertreasures Жыл бұрын
They must've been sent from heaven direct
@Lishlish510
@Lishlish510 Жыл бұрын
​@@forevertreasures Very true, unbelievable, thank God for that ❤❤
@carolinemunge1563
@carolinemunge1563 Жыл бұрын
😊😊
@faithcherotich4884
@faithcherotich4884 Жыл бұрын
Wow
@just_avesselm
@just_avesselm Жыл бұрын
Wow this is a beautiful testimony
@WanjiruMuya
@WanjiruMuya Жыл бұрын
Stop making orphans maids after their parents die. If you can't be a shoulder for them to lean on? Let them go!
@LynnNgugi
@LynnNgugi Жыл бұрын
🙏🙏🙏🙏
@annmuchai6200
@annmuchai6200 Жыл бұрын
Yes very true. Sadly that's happens
@yummykitchendirect4528
@yummykitchendirect4528 Жыл бұрын
Well said 👏
@Herhealingtouch6683
@Herhealingtouch6683 Жыл бұрын
That's very well said , one thing I know when you take up this orphans God opens the door you never lack , I am a witness of this as I took my cousins in they are my Son's age mates and I never lacked a single thing they ever wanted , today they both grown up, graduated and working.
@judithkwenge90
@judithkwenge90 Жыл бұрын
💯
@vugutzatheblackqueen
@vugutzatheblackqueen Жыл бұрын
Today I just came across this story &it took me back 😭 to my painful past.. growing up as an orphan then a man just shows up during my wedding preparations as my"dad"...married for over 10 yrs called barren...worked as a housemaid at the age of 8 till now... it's not easy but this didn't stop me from going back to school coz I dropped at class 4&did my KCPE&KCSE as an adult...now blessed with a a beautiful baby girl.. separated from a naccisist husband..re_building myself...one day I'll sit on that couch to inspire global..God is faithful..AM A FEARLESS WOMAN WITH A DIFFERENT STORY AM VUGUTZA THE BLACK QUEEN.
@akotheffie8087
@akotheffie8087 Жыл бұрын
Hugs dear
@wambuinderitu2461
@wambuinderitu2461 Жыл бұрын
Wow❤I cant wait to hear your story
@kamikariuki
@kamikariuki Жыл бұрын
God is indeed great!
@phillipsidhojapap1461
@phillipsidhojapap1461 Жыл бұрын
Enyewe umekapitia
@flexmediake2706
@flexmediake2706 Жыл бұрын
Wow❤. God is great. Looking forward to hearing your story.
@lizamumbz3810
@lizamumbz3810 Жыл бұрын
& because of this interview I am going to be helping a young lady who has 2 small girls & she's suffering a lot raising them.
@wambuinderitu2461
@wambuinderitu2461 Жыл бұрын
Wow❤ blessings
@edwinsakon
@edwinsakon Жыл бұрын
Kindly go ahead cz God will reward you❤❤
@DIon..Godismyshield
@DIon..Godismyshield Жыл бұрын
Better living wth a poor parent than rich relatives 😢😢😢
@luxurioushomendecorpalace1708
@luxurioushomendecorpalace1708 Жыл бұрын
I think is better living with a KIND person, rich or poor. I was raised by a poor parent who was sooooo unkind sema double the tragedy 😂. Today I gravitate more towards kind people rich or poor
@DIon..Godismyshield
@DIon..Godismyshield Жыл бұрын
@@luxurioushomendecorpalace1708 wooow and you made it congratulations 👏 and I hope you forgave them
@lynetkerubo9453
@lynetkerubo9453 Жыл бұрын
Cruel people are just very very poor people... Regardless of how much money they have...
@rlenytrendy4954
@rlenytrendy4954 Жыл бұрын
GUYS PLEASE NIPITIENI GOT SOMETHING NEW ❤❤
@rosemuthoni8135
@rosemuthoni8135 Жыл бұрын
They are beasts in form of human bodies
@belindaouma795
@belindaouma795 Жыл бұрын
Kulelewa na relatives imefanya everyday, I ask God to add me years ndio nilee watoi wangu🙏🙏
@PeninahMwangi-qc5ug
@PeninahMwangi-qc5ug 9 ай бұрын
Ata mimi
@judymutisya7885
@judymutisya7885 8 ай бұрын
My prayer as well
@margaretkinuthia3996
@margaretkinuthia3996 Жыл бұрын
I live with my late sister's son and may God help me to give him all the love he needs,..will never be mean to him.. he will always be my first son.
@paulinewangui131
@paulinewangui131 Жыл бұрын
Just because you carry it so well doesn't mean it's not heavy😢 Lydia you are a strong woman❤
@eunicenjari3153
@eunicenjari3153 Жыл бұрын
Strong girl you are, Lydia! I feel you and wish you the very best in your life, God knows your destiny. On a separate note however, i wish you can consider advising Orphans who take advantage of their situation and live on handouts - as in, they deliberately refuse to be independent regardless of the help they get. I am handling such a case. I think I'll reach out to you. Once again, God is watching, you are loved!
@annwaithira5158
@annwaithira5158 Жыл бұрын
She's so real and authentic . All my love goes to her . We never know someone until you sit with them . May she keep winning.
@scholasticanthiwa4752
@scholasticanthiwa4752 Жыл бұрын
I like the way Lynn makes her guests feel free and confident, she's a good listener and very attentive. .Hi five Lydia ✋
@LynnNgugi
@LynnNgugi Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@judithrobnkhoma6155
@judithrobnkhoma6155 Жыл бұрын
I feel like sometimes Lynn must interven, I min to make the audience also understand it better, because on this story I felt like there waz a mixture of everything, she will tell the part & never finish she is already on the other one, then again she is going back jiki jiki she is on the other side, I hope am making sense Thanks
@marymwaura2156
@marymwaura2156 Жыл бұрын
I agree love her blogs
@fmn356
@fmn356 Жыл бұрын
I don't why it's so hard for people to understand that kids shouldn't be treated in a bad way coz they don't choose to be born as "unwanted" I wish people would get to understand this simple concept. No child is unwanted and every child is a gift from God and some hold destinies for those who mistreat them like we always see from the story of Joseph in the bible. Hugs momma❤❤ Team LNN, good morning 🌄
@oguta_254
@oguta_254 Жыл бұрын
Just because you see somebody smiles and carrys on doesn't mean it's easy guys 😢😢 People are really carrying heavy heart out here but they've chose to be happy 😊 😃
@ednakerry8035
@ednakerry8035 Жыл бұрын
😢😢😢
@oguta_254
@oguta_254 Жыл бұрын
@@ednakerry8035 sorry if you among them
@salomewainaina3728
@salomewainaina3728 Жыл бұрын
That's true we opt to focus on the positive side🥺🥺🥺
@oguta_254
@oguta_254 Жыл бұрын
@@salomewainaina3728 and the society isn't ready for such kind of traumatic conversations...
@salomewainaina3728
@salomewainaina3728 Жыл бұрын
@@oguta_254 we just heal silently and move
@ruthmachariaofficialinspir6371
@ruthmachariaofficialinspir6371 Жыл бұрын
This is me in my own family. 13 yrs moving on strongly. No grudge but can never associate I love my longest journey of child trauma and self me, my kids and the world ❤
@grace2excell
@grace2excell Жыл бұрын
So sad really
@mercyadema3809
@mercyadema3809 Жыл бұрын
That line...'you owe no one a thank you!' Only orphans and those who were raised up by well-wishers understand the depth of this statement!
@florencemuchoki3009
@florencemuchoki3009 Жыл бұрын
Very well put. No child asks for their parents to die or neglect them. Better still no child goes asking to be raised, they are children, they find themselves and live through whatever it is they find themselves in. I have not heard a parent tell their children to go thank them for raising them. Because being a parent to a child is a responsibility and not a favour to the child. So for those raising children that are not theirs,do it whole heartedly expecting nothing in return than the blessings of God.
@lydiakariuki456
@lydiakariuki456 Жыл бұрын
😢😢😢true😢😢😢
@edwinsakon
@edwinsakon Жыл бұрын
I dearly understand...being an orphan since age 3..taken through schooling on an orphanage😢..being left and hated by your own blood due that you're educated but being unemployed!! Well it's just hard!
@ruthwasio9719
@ruthwasio9719 Жыл бұрын
​@@florencemuchoki3009well said....
@brigidmusanga1325
@brigidmusanga1325 Жыл бұрын
@@edwinsakon sorry 😔
@ceciliawainaina5553
@ceciliawainaina5553 Жыл бұрын
Finished high school with lyd. I'm soo proud of her God is truly faithful. She's a testimony ❤
@evangelistgrace5278
@evangelistgrace5278 Жыл бұрын
Psalm 121 is my portion from the time I was young. I was also unwanted child in my family. Getting married to a family, who also rejected me so much also. I understand lidya's story well. In time's of problems, i could only look to God for help and no relatives. I thank God, He is the only friend who can never leave you. He is the only present help in sometimes of trouble's. People with great destinies go through so much in life... Lydia receive hugs from us. We love you so much, and Jesus Christ love's you so much ooh. Funny enough I'm Wanjiru, I also don't know my right birthday, I had to cook the date's birth for me to get a messenger Job in NCCK
@grace2excell
@grace2excell Жыл бұрын
@shiro-12292
@shiro-12292 Жыл бұрын
Have also gone through too much,but my trust is in God only and true ,when you go through all these it means that your destiny is great,I have encountered God and I will never change my Faith in God forever and ever
@lettilexie
@lettilexie 6 ай бұрын
I relate 🫂🫂love en light namesake❤p
@missynellie1545
@missynellie1545 Жыл бұрын
Let her know that she is loved and appreciated ❤
@mercyedith1383
@mercyedith1383 Жыл бұрын
"The people we owe a thank you can be a point of trauma for you" This here!!!!!is something that pricks me deeper than words can explain,I know this so well. And I chose my son and I and I'll do it over and over again. Peace matters
@grace2excell
@grace2excell Жыл бұрын
😢
@dreamlife5425
@dreamlife5425 Жыл бұрын
I tell you.
@catherinemukiri3560
@catherinemukiri3560 Жыл бұрын
This is my take home as well. VERY VERY POWERFUL STATEMENT!
@A.M.6795
@A.M.6795 Жыл бұрын
Lydia you're so real! You will do great! My favorite part of this story is your high school teacher turned mom (Lois). May God bless her left and right. May her children always find help whenever they need it. I grew up as the scapegoat in a narcissistic family dynamic, the black sheep, unloved by single mom. But the joy of the Lord is my strength.
@MummyAndTheGirls
@MummyAndTheGirls Жыл бұрын
There are toxic relatives out here. I went through a lot back in 2020 because of these people called Uncle and Aunt. I thank God I am a live today and peaceful. People should normalize talking about it, and SAYING NO TO THEM IS NOT A CRIME because peace of mind is our health! THANK YOU LYNN FOR WHAT YOU DO.
@mercyedith1383
@mercyedith1383 Жыл бұрын
So sorry for what you went through.
@margaretnyange
@margaretnyange Жыл бұрын
💯
@LydiaMuthoni-y3f
@LydiaMuthoni-y3f Жыл бұрын
2018 was my worst moment
@susanholloway4013
@susanholloway4013 Жыл бұрын
I just love Lydia so much. She's real and truthful to herself. She's truly destined for greatness. Lydia your great days are still ahead❤
@grace2excell
@grace2excell Жыл бұрын
Amen
@glslatifahnsubuga51
@glslatifahnsubuga51 Жыл бұрын
Why always people have that mindset that kids without parents are supposed to be treated like nothing yet they know nothing about what the future has for them may blessings follow you Lydia and i like what you said that "you forgave them but let the distance be maintained "
@grace2excell
@grace2excell Жыл бұрын
@amor9905
@amor9905 Жыл бұрын
I could write a whole book about my life. I feel her pain too, am also the black sheep of my family, since am way of age, no husband, no kids, nothing to show for any of what others have. I gave my life to Christ and He kees reminding me to be still. He will use mg life as a manual for them to read. He is still working on me and molding me. My time is coming
@wambuinderitu2461
@wambuinderitu2461 Жыл бұрын
I wish you all the best❤
@winniezack936
@winniezack936 Жыл бұрын
Amen ❤
@monicahchepkemei4104
@monicahchepkemei4104 Жыл бұрын
Sending my love and prayers
@annendoria8164
@annendoria8164 4 ай бұрын
am in the same process ....I was the black sheep bt right now I feel I had no control of everything I was doing ​@@monicahchepkemei4104
@annmwongeli2486
@annmwongeli2486 Жыл бұрын
Shame on all the relatives who mistreated her. See her life now. There is a God in heaven.
@mercymuturi8045
@mercymuturi8045 Жыл бұрын
Her face is faceing❤❤ she is a real queen❤
@sheilahendrich6995
@sheilahendrich6995 Жыл бұрын
Her brother will be found in Jesus's name,especially after this LNN Show. 🙏🏼🙏🏼
@damariszuckschwert9489
@damariszuckschwert9489 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@MyJOSE2013
@MyJOSE2013 Жыл бұрын
true. poor upbringing by that useless family must have alienated these siblings
@misskerubo8813
@misskerubo8813 Жыл бұрын
Amenn😊😊
@jackiemakena1877
@jackiemakena1877 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@marionmuturi5283
@marionmuturi5283 Жыл бұрын
I love her content on tiktok. I'm just saddened by what people do to others and what she went through in the hands of those who should have loved and protected her.😢
@wambuikarigi121
@wambuikarigi121 Жыл бұрын
What's her name in tiktok
@rahabmwangi-hy1sb
@rahabmwangi-hy1sb Жыл бұрын
Story lydia imenijenga... personally i face rejection after my mum separated,later mom died ....i have faced it rough aki...God is great
@MonicahVA01
@MonicahVA01 Жыл бұрын
Traumatized kids need a biiiiiig hug. Watching this channel reminds me am not alone. It was never easy to put up with all the distress and trauma growing up. Who knew when one grows up instead of forgetting the pain , it becomes a thorn in the flesh and triggers keep one reliving the pain every time they happen. Thanks @Lynn for putting this together.
@laurakamau5214
@laurakamau5214 Жыл бұрын
The pain comes when you remember what happened 😢😢 really painful
@pascaliabigogo7769
@pascaliabigogo7769 Жыл бұрын
It's said never wrong a little kid coz the never forget...I hate my childhood memories 🥺
@grace2excell
@grace2excell Жыл бұрын
😢
@boohookidscreations8003
@boohookidscreations8003 Жыл бұрын
Sobbed for Lydia😢, being so vulnerable as a child and adults disappointing her. I never take for granted to grow around good, well-mannered and honorable men-uncles and dad. They expected me to have great accomplishments and they never made me feel less as a woman. This kind is rare ❤
@melaniewanjiru2829
@melaniewanjiru2829 Жыл бұрын
You're one of the luckiest then.
@boohookidscreations8003
@boohookidscreations8003 Жыл бұрын
@@melaniewanjiru2829 I know. Sad that I had to deal the deplorable type in my adult years which made me realize not all men are like the men I grew up around 💔
@phaustinelogedi8740
@phaustinelogedi8740 Жыл бұрын
The story has taken me soo far .I have also sobbed aki😢😢
@murielhampson6643
@murielhampson6643 Жыл бұрын
I don't understand Swahili but I still got the message. She had a rough childhood but it's not where you started but where you end. I'm very impressed of the young lady she became. Kudos to her❤
@faithnjoki1471
@faithnjoki1471 Жыл бұрын
One of the very first tiktok accounts I ever followed. She kept me sane during vovid pandemic. Very intelligent and full of humor, truth and life. I didn't know she was carrying a best seller for a story. Girl, you have moved me. There is a verse that says, they overcame by the power of their testimonies. Shine! We are right behind you. Ps Your skin has always baffled me. So beautiful and always glowing.
@grace2excell
@grace2excell Жыл бұрын
@lilianmutunga924
@lilianmutunga924 Жыл бұрын
And the way this girl is always happy on tiktok love her stories
@sarahngugi2779
@sarahngugi2779 Жыл бұрын
She hides a lot that's what i have realised now am her follower to
@misskerubo8813
@misskerubo8813 Жыл бұрын
Saaaamee😢❤
@tujifunze488
@tujifunze488 Жыл бұрын
Behind a powerful and successful woman there's is a story that motivated them to be better .
@Shezztravel
@Shezztravel Жыл бұрын
I love the part when Lynn says "you can start from talking from where you are comfortable" Lynn i love your interviewing skills so respectful of your clients
@brendahyunia9728
@brendahyunia9728 Жыл бұрын
I honestly love Lydia, she is such a vibe. You are so strong and have beaten many odds, so much respect for you.
@grace2excell
@grace2excell Жыл бұрын
@lyn254
@lyn254 Жыл бұрын
I'm glad to see her again in this show.I just like her 💙she's such a VIBE!
@nalunga64
@nalunga64 Жыл бұрын
What a an intellectual lady. Yes, school is important because we have to be learned but educated people like Lydia are not that common in the current world. The knowledge, attitude, values and skills she has are taking her places. The sky is the limit and the so called graduates will be part of her staff. TRUST ME, SHE IS A CHILD OF GOD. As adults we need to make conscious decisions on who and what we choose to associate with. Toxic relationships are the number one cause of negative mental health. So I agree with you 100 % that those relatives should maintain a reasonable distance from you and be steadfast with that. Keep on holding to God and "throw your anxiety on him because he CARES for you" - 1 Peter 5:7 Thanks Lynn once again :)
@jobtorore3096
@jobtorore3096 Жыл бұрын
Now I understand why this brilliant star pulls one fst in her relationships as she put it in other engagements in the same LLN channel. The act of being defensive, careful n self preservation acts in relationships is always more sensitized by previous life experiences that sometimes we don't choose. She's an embodiment of excellence. Epitome of inspiration
@getnakedwithlydia
@getnakedwithlydia Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤
@Pkay263
@Pkay263 Жыл бұрын
The lawyer who was on the previous show was so hard/ insensitive to her. The lawyer needs to know that there is a reason why people make such choices in their lives. She should have be more empathetic and sympathetic with hers You are a winner my dear!!❤
@lillieGatz
@lillieGatz Жыл бұрын
Yes. Life experiences shape you
@Pkay263
@Pkay263 Жыл бұрын
Sorry for the typos. The lawyer needs to be emotionally intelligent. Her legal knowledge and analysis was not called for. Lydia you are a winner and you will go beyond your past. I am glad that you have set firm and clear boundaries to those people who hurt you. Which is a lesson to everyone dealing with toxic relatives and friends. ❤️💕
@linaajjey3396
@linaajjey3396 Жыл бұрын
I noticed that too
@ruthmokeira2900
@ruthmokeira2900 Жыл бұрын
Woi I met another one today from Mathare so she was very free with me at the first sight and she shared alot with me....she is a vulnerable orphan who really needs help... stopped school last year after scoring 373 MKS from her kcpe...she even got married and she miscarried because her weight couldn't hold it😢 she is too young for marriage...but she kept on reminding me that she has no one to run to....
@grass2grace256
@grass2grace256 Жыл бұрын
I noticed her beauty and strength. Thank you Lydia for reminding me that I got no excuse. I need to unlearn and intentional relearn.
@grace2excell
@grace2excell Жыл бұрын
@wayua6810
@wayua6810 Жыл бұрын
She's so amazing. All the best Lydia in all your endeavors.
@wisdomlife
@wisdomlife Жыл бұрын
God bless those teachers who step in as parents....
@forevertreasures
@forevertreasures Жыл бұрын
Hugs to Lydia my fellow orphan. Watching this episode took me back to my childhood. Toxicity from relatives n friends is real. If you can't take care of orphans just let them go rather than give them traumas coz loosing parents is already so painful for them. The building and rebuilding journey is difficult but not impossible. Lydia you're going far.
@LucyNyambura-e1e
@LucyNyambura-e1e Жыл бұрын
You just said what I have always said but people don't understand..,..once you break a child it nearly impossible to heal,it affect their life like forever.
@grace2excell
@grace2excell Жыл бұрын
@joanleahwambui
@joanleahwambui Жыл бұрын
I wish I could get the courage to to speak it out like her..as said under family members. We Ophans grow nowing there's no room to speak..am 41 now , I am still scared..may I live longer to witness my son's life is alway my prayer to God. Please ,we know death do take us in a way our kids are left in under thr care if our relatives..yets it's our kids who takes care of our relatives and their kids.. That's my worst fear. Let's work hard so that our kids won't be the handyman n househelps in our relatives mansions....I still need a psychiatrist to talk to till now..
@forevertreasures
@forevertreasures Жыл бұрын
@@joanleahwambui It's not easy but not impossible. Therapy helps gather courage and go through it at your pace. Pour your heart out to God, make Him your friend, am a witness He hears and answers prayers and even your top secrets are safe with Him.
@GraceNgoziMosindi
@GraceNgoziMosindi 11 ай бұрын
Thank God....he is still on the Throne
@MissT292
@MissT292 Жыл бұрын
I never understand why relatives makes it soo hard to just help with no issues U agree to help just help This gal is brave My take away home is "I don't owe anyone a thank you"tats deep ,not many people will understand that May God continue blessing this beautiful gal
@nyarsakwa1492
@nyarsakwa1492 Жыл бұрын
When you dont have parents, you are on your own... Though kuna good relatives ,but they will never be the same as your mother
@JMandy
@JMandy Жыл бұрын
I want Lydia to start her own channel. I can listen to her talking forever ❤
@FaithBarongo-FB
@FaithBarongo-FB Жыл бұрын
She has a channel @lydia Wanjiru
@worldscaperelaxation503
@worldscaperelaxation503 Жыл бұрын
youtube.com/@getnakedwithlydia?si=FWYWP451QJa7rDp1
@gracemwangi3649
@gracemwangi3649 Жыл бұрын
She has already.
@kirimikajuju
@kirimikajuju Жыл бұрын
She has mentioned on the video that she has a KZbin channel
@suzyben9643
@suzyben9643 Жыл бұрын
Am Lydia's fun kwa tiktok ans av never thought that behind this beautiful face and soul we see on our screens has gone through so much in her younger self era. May you shine and those who never wanted to associate with you will start looking for you.
@georgebenard2114
@georgebenard2114 Жыл бұрын
This thing of being unwanted child happened to my father when he remembers even today he cries a lot but were a in journey of shining to encourage him. I think many children who are shining are such children. Be blessed
@africangirl189
@africangirl189 Жыл бұрын
I just love her skin when am listening to her videos thats the first thing i notice...pole for her indeed everyone has a storo na hakai
@Trina020
@Trina020 Жыл бұрын
Am so fond of Lydia coz she is so authentic I love her content and am so sorry for what you've gone through but who is God look at you, you're glowing and prosperity ❤
@hellengikonyo2855
@hellengikonyo2855 Жыл бұрын
This talk has taught me how to deal with toxic relatives.Thanks Lydia
@grace2excell
@grace2excell Жыл бұрын
True
@FlohWW
@FlohWW 8 ай бұрын
Lyd! I’m so happy for u. I’m familiar w the family that raised u and I’m glad u triumphed thru. That family is legit evil 😭 (I kind of saw how they used to mistreat u during Dec holiday)
@yourstrulyKe
@yourstrulyKe Жыл бұрын
What a story! May God enlarge your territory Lydia❤
@carletteharriet9684
@carletteharriet9684 Жыл бұрын
I have been through everything Lydia has been through. We are the strongest people and destined for greatness
@okothr1114
@okothr1114 Жыл бұрын
Me too see where we are
@docmom1552
@docmom1552 Жыл бұрын
May God continue blessing you Lydia. Your story is so similar to my story, I FEEL you. I have struggled so much to reconcile this childhood trauma with all my current achievements and somehow I always come up short!! Why? B’se I’ve never had the courage to share it with anyone like you have. You are the voice of the voiceless!! God bless you again!! And to Lynn, you are a blessing!! Thank you for the work you are doing. Thank you!!
@grace2excell
@grace2excell Жыл бұрын
I resonate ❤
@restallen5581
@restallen5581 Жыл бұрын
Hawa na aunt and uncles huwa wanasahau kwamba ipo siku tutakuwa watu wazima 😢😢😢😢they are so rude but Mungu ni nani hubariki sana hawa watoto
@puritymbithe9865
@puritymbithe9865 Жыл бұрын
Lydia you are not alone...all the best. You are who you are because of your past...you are a vibe and nothing should ever stop you. You are beautiful inside out.
@annewenjiku-oc8bk
@annewenjiku-oc8bk Жыл бұрын
Child trauma no one can delete it in people's minds because it has recorded itself, only Christ Jesus can heal our past wounds and I thank God Almighty for helping us all who has been through rough and tough times to be able to face what is ahead of us hug Lydia we are many but the Grace of God Almighty will help us always shalom
@catenjeri450
@catenjeri450 Жыл бұрын
am a victim up to date sijawai heal
@grace2excell
@grace2excell Жыл бұрын
@herineosala9381
@herineosala9381 Жыл бұрын
Lydia's story is so sad and inspiring.....besides the challenges she never gave up and true she is destined for greater good love her narration.Move on and let God do His wonders
@wanjiru7419
@wanjiru7419 6 ай бұрын
Woow she's a blessed girl despite going through all that ❤
@everlynekagima5235
@everlynekagima5235 Жыл бұрын
Lydia and I were in the same highschool and I'm so happy when I see her winning.
@doreenogola
@doreenogola Жыл бұрын
How did u help her when she was suffering?
@thegodlyprincess_kenya
@thegodlyprincess_kenya Жыл бұрын
@@doreenogolapwahahaha what if hata hakuwa anajua anasuffer 😅😅😅
@kamikariuki
@kamikariuki Жыл бұрын
​@@thegodlyprincess_kenyaikr 😅😅😅
@DIon..Godismyshield
@DIon..Godismyshield Жыл бұрын
​​@@doreenogola😅😅😅😅😅hauna chills
@doreenogola
@doreenogola Жыл бұрын
@@DIon..Godismyshield sina chills coz in my school nilikuwa naelewa kila mtu , anyways maybe she's self-centered
@ruthwaithera1065
@ruthwaithera1065 Жыл бұрын
Sad how people mistreat other people's kids inthe name of supporting them😢as if they've paid anything special to have an opportunity to raise their own... anyway...God cares ... we're proud of whom you have become girl.the sky ain't the limit.keep going. A challenge to everyone of us,strive to be better humans. One day I asked someone why they were so kind to some kids who had lost their parents,her response sunk deep,she said she has always strived to be better cos she knows if one day she died and God allowed them to see how their kids were being treated here on earth, they'd only want to see them treated kindly. I feel it's a worth challenge
@leahmwangimwangi6600
@leahmwangimwangi6600 Жыл бұрын
Went to the same primary school. Lydia you are such a strong girl 💪
@jedidahmitei4158
@jedidahmitei4158 Жыл бұрын
Why am I crying even before I hear the whole story..hugs girl, you are going far
@hlengiwemasondo2858
@hlengiwemasondo2858 Жыл бұрын
Strange how Kenyans and South Africans look alike physically. I'm so sorry for what happened to u. I had to cut off my family
@italiatsotetsi8347
@italiatsotetsi8347 Жыл бұрын
Very true Hlengiwe I thought I was the only seeing this 😅
@HostshopAfrica-u7k
@HostshopAfrica-u7k 9 ай бұрын
Because those are bantu people just like Xhosa or Zulu..there are other Kenyans who look completely different especially the Cushites and the Nilotes. Hlengi, Kenyans are so diverse from the coast to the Lake.
@ROSEMUDANY
@ROSEMUDANY Жыл бұрын
Lydia you are an inspiration to many i really admired you from the last pannel you are authentic and keep scoring high gal.... i really do admire you🥰🥰🥰... the more i watch your channel the more greatful i am coz i have both parents i used to have esteem issues because of my big body my childhood was not good always blaming my mum because i was fat and she was fat too now am 30 and me looking back i realise that i was just hallucinating and its a blessing from God to have both parents who are still married at my age... some of us take things and people for granted...
@lynettembeti1249
@lynettembeti1249 Жыл бұрын
She is a queen.the relatives could see it wanted to drag but God failed them❤❤
@greatnation4328
@greatnation4328 11 ай бұрын
Thank you both for speaking 🔊 mostly in English so it was a blessing to understand and follow. Greatest lesson learnt here - never let any disappointment hold your heart/ progress down.
@martinkibe6824
@martinkibe6824 Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Lynn for bringing this wonderful lady. Lydia is really great. I love her courage to handle challenges. She's just a vibe.
@priscillahnjuguna6783
@priscillahnjuguna6783 Жыл бұрын
I have alot to relate with Lydiah's story,but i thank God for the relatives from my mum's side. No riches but the kindness and support they showed me was overwhelming since i was 3yrs. To my dad's side," i owe you nothing, let's keep the distance"
@rosemwangi9417
@rosemwangi9417 Жыл бұрын
Wow Lydia is definitely a fighter and has overcome so many odds. Thanks Lynn for bringing her. Please post the link of the video referred to in the interview 🙏🏼 ❤👏👏👏👏👍👌
@tadianaayuma2509
@tadianaayuma2509 Жыл бұрын
Lydia is such an inspiration from tiktok to Lynn ngugi show nakuoenda sana.
@mimmyspecial
@mimmyspecial Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this story. As a Zimbabwean I only managed to understand about 70% of the story though I could pick us some few Swahili words I learn from my Kenyan friends. I wish I could understand more but by watching your videos Lynn I'm sure I will be speaking and understanding Swahili very soon😊. Wish Lydia all the best in her life. Thanks for bringing us authentic stories Lynn. God bless you 🙏.
@Nunec
@Nunec Жыл бұрын
Me n you sister. I have been watching Lynn for a while now, I now understand the language a little bit better
@Kwamboka_Wilter
@Kwamboka_Wilter Жыл бұрын
You can turn on the CC button on your upper right for translation 😊
@wambuikingatua3820
@wambuikingatua3820 Жыл бұрын
But it has subtitles?
@perpetuafelicity5991
@perpetuafelicity5991 Жыл бұрын
I love this lady...have learnt to stand for myself. I love your spirit, I love your energy ♥️♥️♥️♥️ ....Lyn you are doing great work too👏👏👏
@esyy_kariuki
@esyy_kariuki Жыл бұрын
Oh Lydia is here 👏👏 I'm here to listen to her toxic relatives can really drain you
@esyy_kariuki
@esyy_kariuki Жыл бұрын
@@dorcaswanjiru-rs1tm yes you will dust yourself and stay fro somewhere love and light ❤️❤️
@kamikariuki
@kamikariuki Жыл бұрын
​@@dorcaswanjiru-rs1tmuko located area gani?
@marykalunda1592
@marykalunda1592 Жыл бұрын
Listening to her express her pain has reminded me of the pain I went and still going through in the hands of so called relatives. Sometimes making a small mistake Kama kulima part kidogo juu umechoka they be like ukona mang'aa na unaishi hapa juu tunaogopa Mungu. I'm like are orphans still humans ama ni aliens from another world. I think if one is not willing to take full responsibility of the orphan then they should not accept them in their homes coz it's better to be mistreated in the hands of a stranger than to your own. I hope I heal with time,, sending love and hugs to orphans out there,,it shall be well one day.
@aggiebuchy254
@aggiebuchy254 Жыл бұрын
Lydia is a strong woman for real ❣️, everyone has a story to tell 😢may God bless you 🙏 more
@just_avesselm
@just_avesselm Жыл бұрын
Mmmh coming from a family in a dark world.I pray that We break from every circle of family that is not for our good
@TKKMI-f4s
@TKKMI-f4s Жыл бұрын
This girl is just amazing!! Coming from such a background and creating herself anew...thumps up lydiah👍👍💯💯
@cherotichfaith7759
@cherotichfaith7759 Жыл бұрын
I'm halfway and this is so emotional😭😭. Why do people treat kids without parents this way. It's better not to claim guardianship if you know you are going to ensalve them.
@BahatiMwanzia
@BahatiMwanzia Жыл бұрын
Me as an orphan i know how it feels, i pray so to God to keep me alive for my son to see him as grown up man
@puritykimani1515
@puritykimani1515 Жыл бұрын
She's a vibe I tell you. I just love her positive attitude. Her story is similar to my late mother whom I wish she went through therapy coz her story really affected her. It's true Lydia therapy is important. ❤
@margaretgichane588
@margaretgichane588 Жыл бұрын
I can relate with some things that relatives do. We thank God for Lydia...she has encouraged herself every day and has achieved a lot.
@benta7202
@benta7202 Жыл бұрын
people takes orphans for granted...this lady is so blessed...i knw madam loise was my CRE teacher too.
@balancedviewpoint7418
@balancedviewpoint7418 Жыл бұрын
Lydia is authentic, beautiful and honest. Just like you Lynn, this girl is real genuine and a wife material. Lynn and Lydia keep the fire burning. Whatever you go through in your life's journey is a lesson learned not a cause to give up. I affirm the two of you 100% and pray that if its your wish to get married, may God direct you to the right partners in Jesus name.
@childofgod310
@childofgod310 Жыл бұрын
The love I have for this girl ooh my .. no problem is permanent 🙏I wish one day I will have a safe space to also to open up , someone who will not judge me ...our future is brighter
@nyabs470
@nyabs470 Жыл бұрын
Being a Java former worker i can agree that its agood company... she's such agood lady people have background stories are so inspiring
@veevivian8975
@veevivian8975 Жыл бұрын
The things we passed through after losing both our parents in the hands of relatives..... I will never have kids.
@annkariuki1108
@annkariuki1108 Жыл бұрын
Pata watoto..don't fail yourself because you were failed
@melmuhando2372
@melmuhando2372 Жыл бұрын
Wooiyee I understand
@charitywanjohi884
@charitywanjohi884 Жыл бұрын
Relatives God. After 17yrs of my mother’s death, I looked for but now am giving up on them again unapologetically. But Lydia your blessed coz God is the holder of DESTINIES, penda wewe sana Gal ❤❤❤. Uko Mtrue Vibaya
@dianaabuga891
@dianaabuga891 Жыл бұрын
What an inspiration!!!!! you are not you've never been alone....leave out the titles....you have a superior title,,,the title of God who is father to the orphans 🙏 keep going
@sharifakasongo3951
@sharifakasongo3951 Жыл бұрын
I see God in all her story.I pray she has a personal one with Christ..I can see the invisible hand of God behind her existence
@jacqueypatrick4090
@jacqueypatrick4090 Жыл бұрын
I have to realise that before you judge someone for maybe the things they do all say. Learn to listen them to understand. Lydia I have known you for sometime through tiktok and I love you mamaa ❤❤
@meshlucy2081
@meshlucy2081 Жыл бұрын
U never knw someone until u hold a deep conversation, this gal she is a real strong, i already see myself in her, i hope i will make it one day.
@myrnajames1460
@myrnajames1460 Жыл бұрын
Lydia is right cut ties and work on yourself to be able to move forward without carrying the pain of the past. Gods continued blessing to you both.
@grace2excell
@grace2excell Жыл бұрын
Agree
@ElizabethKaranja-x6p
@ElizabethKaranja-x6p Жыл бұрын
If resilience was a person, am proud of you Lydia. Forward ever, backward never.
@CoolkenyanInisrael
@CoolkenyanInisrael Жыл бұрын
Hugs gal ❤ Proud of you, Lydia What an emotional and painful story... amazing how you are conquering it all. 👌
@carolinewairimu8627
@carolinewairimu8627 Жыл бұрын
I knew you from maili sita, i saw you here you looked so familiar but sikumbuki kwenu exactly, you went through hell but God alikuonekania.. Maybe we met at St Micheal's catholic.. Am glad you in this space, may God continue showering you with his grace and love uishi sana..
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