How Feminine S*x Appeal Plays With a Man's Emotions

[@ladyfxllc]

I enjoyed this video. Makes a lot of sense. I agree with knowing when and where to express your femininity. However, no matter where you go or what you wear, if you are indeed that attractive, people will hate on you anyway. I always say, "Stay golden, and don't dull your shine for anyone!!!" I love appreciating other women, their beauty and their potential. Women should inspire and support each other more often than not. Being a hater makes someone ugly in my opinion.

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

Isn't the first law of power never outshine the master? Unfortunately you could express what you want but it comes with social and professional consequences. Imagine your babysitting and you're trying to express your light. While the husband has a wife who is suspicious of you. You're going to get fired lol. There's a time and place for everything

[@ladyfxllc]

@MindfulAttraction2.0 of course, that's why I said I agree with knowing when and where to express it. However, some people will hate you regardless of how humble you are. What I mean by stay golden and don't let them dull your shine is to not let it affect your self-esteem outside of that situation.

[@softlife45]

I think you're missing the point of what alex is saying. Any and everybody can not like you. But if you outshine the master you'll be perceived as a threat and attacked. If you're not perceived as a threat you may not be liked BUT you will not be attacked ​@ladyfxllc

[@AsiaJohnson678]

❤❤❤❤❤❤everything you said you are right I totally agree 😊

[@ruthdiaz1598]

Amen! I've been dealing with this my whole life!!!! People in general are haters when u are attractive. They always wanna assume u are stuck up.

[@Nocturnal_Lorena]

Growing up being called an ugly duckling hurt so much. Now the same people can’t leave me alone coz I glowed up. But this cycle taught me about human nature so I’m indifferent to compliments & criticism now. I run on self love & validation. I’m smart enough to use my looks to get what I want without hurting anyone coz you know - karma lol.

[@dg-qn5mi]

FACTS went through the same and agreed

[@relaxwithme__]

Yes 🎯 Went through the same. I think it’s a gift because our self awareness is at a different level than people who have never been through both.

[@user-by4to4wo9r]

I was getting bullied at work by older women and they were so slick with it.

[@MissSparks92]

They act like hyenas and you're the lioness. Take it as a giant compliment!

[@daphnebailey6223]

I’ve never had anyone bully me over my looks at work but I’m one of the youngest women in my career field and it hard working with all older women 😖 Honestly my biggest advice is to just down, i only dress up when im going out or hang out with my bf 😂

[@SaraMay-cr9sx]

Good for you, doesn't mean she doesn't experience this at her job and your age has zero to do with it...maybe you're not attractive, ever consider that? Grown adults in the work place bullying people like they're in middle school need to learn to respect others despite their envy of those more attractive than they are, this woman does not need to try and look less attractive for the less fortunate's comfort@@daphnebailey6223

[@MelissaMiller-wh1ir]

Good for you, doesn't mean she doesn't experience this at her job and your age has zero to do with it...maybe you're not attractive, ever consider that? Grown adults in the work place bullying people like they're in middle school need to learn to respect others despite their envy of those more attractive than they are, this woman does not need to try and look less attractive for the less fortunate's comfort@@daphnebailey6223

[@MissSparks92]

She doesn't need to "dress down" so other people won't bully her...they should learn to live with disappointment in their appearance and respect others despite their jealousy. Also, just because you don't work with bullies, your age has nothing to do with this, it's the fact that you work with decent people, not your age or attractiveness. @@daphnebailey6223

[@ladybird131]

Women can be passive aggressive. That’s my experience. I don’t have to dress sexy no matter what I wear my shape shows. Was crazy but now!!! I am a force. I mow down jealousy.

[@AndreaSanchez-bw4ic]

Same!!! I’m like this is my body even w leggings and a tee I still get stares but I’m not trying I just wear what I like …

[@OriMidara]

Sex appeal is about confidence and it’s an energy. Women might be their most fertile in the 20s but your sex drive really doesn’t kick into your 30s and I think that also plays a part in why once you really become a woman is when you hold in sex appeal women’s in a 40s and 50s could be sexy sexiness has nothing to do with promiscuity. It’s more about allure and energy.

[@user-wh9sn]

This age obsession of young women is mens insecurity they assume less life experience will make it easy for them

[@lorenepecco3223]

My partner always kept saying I was sexy, got fed up of it. Tell me I make u laugh, u love my smile, ur so smart instead.

[@marleyisms]

You're spot on. As an attractive mature woman, I still find women jealous of me when I'm in spaces with less attractive women than me or when they don't dress properly ( I modeled and was taught to leave home to impress at all times). I also find men often falling all over themselves to get a glance or just to talk to me. Another thing is that men compete with each other when trying to talk to me, and I've even noticed they'll throw each other under the bus in order to get a chance to court me. I'm always amazed at how people react simply based off ones looks. Pretty privilege is real, and I'm aware of it. I try not to intentionally benefit from it.

[@ijeonu2405]

Very😂. I benefit from it😂😂

[@marleyisms]

@@ijeonu2405 😂🤣 As you should. It ain't fair, but favor isn't fair 😂.

[@melaninchocolate6552]

I got job offers o wasn't even qualified for!! I interviewed for jobs just to experiment and see if I would get it and I dressed well and got it!! I'm respected more at work, men do give more and provide and want to take care of you when you first show that you take care of yourself

[@SugarTide935]

You are INCREDIBLY skilled at picking up the nuance of human behavior. Wow…. I really enjoy your channel!

[@Jennifer-di4nl]

I'm 46 now but in my 20s I was a 10+. Could have any guy I wanted. There is definitely pretty privilege. I was lucky enough to work in the cosmetic industry so my looks helped my career but I did learn FAST I had to dress more masculine. I wore suits to work and flats. If not, my bosses would think I was dumb. As soon as I toned down my appearance, I started getting promoted.

[@19suicidedoll69]

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[@19suicidedoll69]

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[@kylieking8163]

You could still get promoted if you wear heels if not quicker

[@PorcelainScream]

I am 27, very educated and work in mental health. Left my old job because of toxicity, we all had the same uniform. Now in an office setting I wear sweats and a hoodie every day and the coworkers STILL assume the worst of me, assume I sleep around, one even told me to respect myself in front of the whole office. I have no idea how to navigate this so I just keep to myself

[@kv2723]

At 46 you should still be in your prime.

[@figdragon]

I brought a model friend to my ex's band practice and watching the guys lose their sh*t because of her there was amazing. They were talking mad sh*t and really not very friendly. Super sloppy songs. They had never been that way out of maybe 20x I had been there. This video reminded me of that. Had a good laugh down memory lane. I'm glad I found your channel. This video helped me connect a lot of dots and make better sense how most of ya'll (men) function. Thank you for taking the time to make/upload these!

[@kaylahface]

That is fucking hilarious oh my goodness 😂😂😂but also like🙄 🤦‍♀️ you know?! Stupid silly boys

[@rachelb4722]

Confidence is everything, more than looks or youth and will win every time.

[@Jes-Lynne]

You said men don't understand this..some women don't either. For me it's probably the 'tism, but as a woman who is very direct, blunt, outspoken, honest, and not afraid of confrontation, the fake, passive aggressiveness of women has always been beyond me - I don't understand, but I don't like it and I call it out when I see it, I don't have time for that shit and I don't want it around me. Why I get along so much better with men 😩

[@ruthdiaz1598]

Never dull your light because of jealous hateful people .when you show them you are confident chill and laid back and you dont care what they think .they will leave you the fuck alone!!!!!

[@hlengiwefeliciamabuza7354]

Thank you so much

[@GrowwithmebySarahNicole]

Because i have BPD for years i felt when i was being manipulated,devalued, & discarded by women. I just didn’t know what it was i just knew it never felt right I know when women are jealous of me. I am a loner, i speak up for myself and i dont tag along with people and validate them. Im always the bad person at most jobs involving women. Im either a lovable or hateable person most often people dislike. But now im learning that use the hate as fuel

[@softlife45]

Wait a minute, lets talk about this. Ive noticed very wealthy mean with slender more smaller chest women while men who have little to no money are attracted to larger chest/butt women. Can u discuss this topic

[@softlife45]

I like this Elizabeth Holmes lady she's clever. I agree with you bc look at candace owens . She's feminine but she dresses like she means business and she's stern

[@softlife45]

This was an excellent video by the way

[@dg-qn5mi]

Srudies have show men who come from money tend to go for slender partners as it is perceived as more 'classy'

[@joma1445]

Don’t think so. The women today do their bbls and breast surgeries to attract rich guys.

[@katharinaharke6907]

💯 when you have a bbl you also attract a certain type of men

[@sandradesouza9940]

There's just no one else like you Dalexis. ⭐

[@kv2723]

I don't dress provocatively, but, I've realized over the years, that other females, even some of the ones I've thought were "friends", show an underlying resentment. I'm petite, I'm a conservative Christian, I'm also friendly and warm (at 42) I'm told that I'm sexy and beautiful all of the time. All. The. Time. But I want a man with the right values, faith, compatibility, etc. (and, of course, attraction). Being attractive pays off - but so does being warm, genuine, and friendly.

[@whitneyangelie3682]

I think the “boob” experiment was kinda flimsy bc in my experience there’s so much more to mens attraction than just having big tits lol. I’ve worked at several strip clubs and other various clubs and big boobs on their own don’t usually have the biggest affect on men, it’s the overall package (beautiful woman w a nice shape overall) that draws in the most men. Bigger boobs can be an asset, but an average/chubby woman w big boobs vs a truly beautiful woman w a great shape (hips, stomach, legs etc) almost every time the more beautiful woman will make more money and have way more regulars overall. Men are simple at times lol but they do choose beauty and an overall nice shape over just a pair of big tits like 98% of the time from what I’ve observed . So it’s not just about tits (or one isolated body part) it’s about overall Beauty and sexiness.

[@queenchinenye2378]

Just be sexy. Noted

[@MedusssssaChristo]

Of course there Is, but a shapely figure does attract attention especially of men, It triggers primal desires.

[@whitneyangelie3682]

@@MedusssssaChristo What I’m saying is the “shapely” figure has to be nice and svelte and somewhat proportional and the woman has to be somewhat pretty for that to be true. A sloppy looking woman w huge boobs isn’t going to get the attention that a beautiful woman w a harmonious shape and smaller boobs will get 💯I notice that the women that get the most attention is all about a good hip to waist ratio, actually. That shits like catnip to men 🤣

[@skillsphere9245]

@@whitneyangelie3682 im a man and confirm that that i look at womens face body ratio and even voice its counts the same for men if man is very tall even somewhat muscular he wont fix a dime i have a perfect hair curly hair face symetrical jawline with those slight cavities in the cheeks my body is good too and my height too 5 11 so i had women going after me even after millionaires did there aproach to that women or where taller but still they didnt go for it and picked me and even where adament about it talking bout very wanted girls popular and semi famous

[@sainisaha5023]

​@@whitneyangelie3682yeah so true. That hip to waist ratio is the real thing boobs is secondary.

[@tobealady.4490]

Yes! There’s a reason why being a lady is key to being a successful respectful woman . We know this and that’s why we dress in a classy manner for respect purposes. The way you carry yourself is your superpower. Etiquette and manners is what every woman (especially beautiful women with sex appeal) needs in order to be respected by all.❤

[@kv2723]

So true. When you get in touch with your feminine energy (warm, soft, receptive, friendly, with firm boundaries) men act like you're the greatest thing they've ever seen.

[@melaninchocolate6552]

🎯

[@tobealady.4490]

@@kv2723 Precisely! I love men lol they’re like gentle giants that women need to be gentle yet firm with like a lady.

[@marcie3022]

This sounds like my life .. im curvy with a natural big butt even as a a teenager with natural hazel eyes.. i wasnt even girly during that time.. family females bearly talked to me and had a hard time making female friends.. even till this day.. and most men are mean to me since i ignore them and dont pay attention to them like most females do..even the handful if girl friends i have are passive aggressive with me .. i even have female neighbors that give me the cold shoulder.. im a high impact dance cardio dancer (always in volleyball shorts)and since ive been working on my self care and healing and working on my body more i get more hatred.. thank you for this i never understood this as a child with a absent father.. i i always thought it was my fault.. this means alot to me ❤

[@theupgraded6558]

Omg are you me?😮 I feel for you❤

[@DeeMBee123]

You have described my upbringing. There is pretty privilege but it wrecks your female friendships. It gets really sad. Jealous women have told rumors about me and tried to ruin my reputation. I can always tell when someone has talked to a certain friend because that person would treat me differently.

[@karinazrzu]

Omg I experienced aggression from women on every job, not because I was provocative, mostly because I dress well and very feminine.

[@dayinibatrisyia5424]

Real...woman trying to sabotage your reputation

[@yudollia]

Sex appeal becomes a liability for women

[@priyac1944]

This video was excellent, very well articulated with great logical reasoning ........it clears a lot of confusion and will definitely help going forward

[@libraladynior2249]

You are absolutely right as I got older I didn’t know how to handle compliments because I was kinda bullied … not invited to go out , etc…

[@patvl6888]

One of the best videos you’ve ever made Alex. Super in point and well explained. You should do a follow-up about how women should/can learn how to shift the energy from feminine to powerful/masculine depending of the setting or the situation.

[@shawdeejay5408]

The eyes Chico, they never lie

[@BridgetteBentley]

I COMPETELY agree with this video in concern to women bullying a woman who is sexy. And I know….because I grew up an ugly duckling, and women and girls weren’t threatened by me when I was little. But I get to high school and buy some breasts, and skin cleared up…my hips widened. Great body, great smile. I was so proud to have these things that I didn’t have before, and be chased for the first time I definitely dressed a bit more provocative. A little bit anyway. What I notice is that I’m kind of slut shamed anyway, even if I’m dressed appropriately. Having breasts and behind makes the outfit look more ‘sexy’. Also btw I’m a flight attendant so I deal with this a lot. I’ve had wives make nasty comments about me right in my face just because their husband was staring at me. Another point is that women with boyfriends and husbands make themselves seem better than me as a single woman. I could go on and on with examples. Anyway I appreciate the men who show me extra attention because of my large boobs, again I didn’t get that attention before breast aug. Great video!

[@sunnyvasic]

Youre right, if an average woman wore the same outfit as a beautiful sexy woman they would slut shame the sexy one even with the same coverage...its sad and unfair

[@char6081]

Come again you bought breasts in highschool?

[@laureneonunkwo4519]

Its so crazy how this guy (most likely unknowingly) helped me understand the Catholic Church's teaching on modesty. In all the angles and scenarios. His opinion is so familiar to my own grapse on the teaching. Like, "make an informed decision on how you would want to clothe yourself, AND here are the hardwired realities of human nature to consider".

[@egypt8904]

I agree with you, I've experienced this. Especially when I was a bartender, I experienced everything that lady said in the video. Everything you said about how men and women view was literally my experience as a bartender its crazy lol

[@fembot521]

I’m 47 and I still get looks from everyone. I don’t get it! Maybe it’s the natural red hair.

[@Bentzstbarbie]

Dude you made me laugh so many times, I had to make a few short reels out of certain parts of this to replay when I’m sad. This is a real thing though. 💯

[@weeege4770]

Yeah like we dont dress like this here the way he said that😂

[@amiraab6263]

It's crazy how this is actually mentioned in the Quran ! And i never thought about it this way. {فَلَا تَخْضَعْنَ بِالْقَوْلِ فَيَطْمَعَ الَّذِي فِي قَلْبِهِ مَرَضٌ وَقُلْنَ قَوْلًا مَّعْرُوف} "32" {Do not be submissive in words, lest he who has a disease in his heart become greedy} "al-ahzab 32"

[@LolaKoko-mr7zn]

Dalexis you should make a video for skinny girls who look like Victoria Secret Models like...honestly🎉 You know why, because not all men love thick women so we also want to know your view on skinny woman who wear high heels,look classy and beautiful❤❤❤

[@mrsoka5967]

Great recommendation 😘

[@LolaKoko-mr7zn]

@@mrsoka5967 yes,we really want to know how men think about a skinny woman who wears classy seductive and keeps herself good with makeup hair perfume and all of that Does skinny matter to them💪I hope dalexis makes a video on this

[@irenekatona7856]

I have SUCH a hard time making female friends :/ I was always excluded at my old job and could tell they didn’t like me even though I was always nice and kind. Any advice for that

[@ladyfxllc]

For one, your job, depending on where you work, is not necessarily the place you want to make friends in anyway. I would say, overall, just be yourself and always take genuine interest in the person you're speaking with. Everyone wants to be liked. Ask yourself if you actually like that person and interact with that thought in mind. Don't make it all about you and how much you want to please them cause that often backfires. Crack jokes when appropriate, and if they're a little sarcastic or bitchy to you, I don't see why you can't give it back. 😏 Don't let people step on you or be a pushover. If you can't do something at the moment, say no, and let them know you can at another time or to find someone else.

[@Amylynnklh900]

Same girl same. I work at the airport so bunch of men, I guess they see it as competition🤷🏽‍♀️ oh well

[@pianotnt]

the freezing method you take a ziploc bag and paper or index card write down all the names of the people you suspect are jealous of you and write down what you don't want them to do then add water and ice then freeze once frozen throw it out and watch how they change

[@cocomocha]

When you’re mean and pretty you’ll have other women dying to be your friend nice and pretty gets disrespected

[@handypicker]

I feel you so much. My bosses wife hates me (I think because her husband is a flirt and has showed he finds me attractive) I could almost say she has been bullying me with the other girls. They wanna put me down so much. And I was nice to them in the beginning.. Not taking it anymore though, just ignoring them when they act like little princesses

[@nellysrapyan2205]

Alex, thank you for this content! This is very interesting and educational. I love dressing up cause I express myself through fashion (also the culture I grew up highly priorities how women look and dress)I and I noticed how so many women here in the US who tend to underdress or dress extremely casual do hate you for dressing up. I personally try to find a good balance between being a woman who expresses her femininity through fashion but also be as professional at work without changing who I’m at the core and I must say it’s pretty tough. Thank you for your insights 👍🙏

[@mango7966]

Watching the part about how men throw morality out of the window, the other day I walked into a shop, and a man said wow if it were not for my wife and 2 kids, I would marry you. I did not know how to feel, at least he was honest.

[@welansworld4149]

This was such an awesome video and so eye opening and relatable. I have learned a lot from this and also realised that women goes through so much without even doing anything.

[@jska44]

“We never March for ugly pride” 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@GalaxyFluke]

I matured quickly despite having my dad full present. But I was 5’7 in the 5th grade. Taller than most teachers. I had problems in 5th grade through middle school from BOYS MOMS not wanting their sons around me like I was a slut. I wasn’t interested in boys until high school. It hurt but it was the women’s own insecurities to not realize I was literally same age as their sons. I didn’t consider myself sexy as I was a little girl and didn’t dress sexy at all. I was told I looked like Sarah Michelle Gellar in Buffy at the time. I’m 36 now and great shape and still pretty. If I go out I never pay for anything. I will try to buy my own drinks but men insist so I let them.

[@zaraa1222]

You go girl! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Same!❤

[@beeteezee3633]

Can I say something, I’m a girl and buffy the vampire slayer was my favorite when I was younger. But the part where she died and she went into that orb… to see all the depressed men around, sad for her sacrifice. And how her mom wasn’t the same after being brought back to life. It was a series that really I wish I had them all to watch again.

[@reginahutchinson4057]

This was so good that I rewinded it and watched it for two days.

[@CuteBamboo2012]

YES ALEX PLEASE MORE ON ATTRACTIVENESS. This is fresh and rarely talked about

[@annapetrosian4717]

Alex your writing is impressive, you should write a book!! I would definitely buy it

[@laur2139]

You don’t have to dress masculine. No woman deserves to dress like Elizabeth Holmes. Dress elegant and you’ll win as a woman.

[@Cvjyxd44]

Being attractive has a lot of privileges… however, my ascendant is in Scorpio and has always made me exclude sex appeal. I could wear a trash bag. They can smell it a mile away. I’ve tried to have mentorship’s and make business connections with successful men and they can’t even control themselves within 1 day and most just a couple of hours. It’s like once they know they can’t have me right then and right there they go from 0 to 100 real quick and get so mad. I’ve given up on breaking into other industries because I don’t know how to navigate these situations. I feel like men will help other men but just dangle the carrot for me. I also feel like the opposite sex in dating just views me as a play toy vs wifey . I’m not sure what I need to change in my dating strategy. For reference, I’m 5’9”, 130lbs, size A cup with a great body, legs, nice face, eyes.. I’m always having to be hyper vigilant so I’m not taken advantage of. It’s lead to a lot of anxiety. One of the main reasons I stopped drinking 7 years ago so I could always be on my A game.

[@AndreaSanchez-bw4ic]

Yesss I’m a Scorpio ascendant too! And I’ve thought the same thing!! 😅 how to navigate this world and not be taken advantage of by men/ women when you’re constantly being stared at and bullied and men see wifey or play toy.

[@theupgraded6558]

Cover up & be mean & confident with massive ego, latter works for kim kardashian

[@Nocturnal_Lorena]

I’ve got the same body stats so I can totally understand! The best way to deal with any one, any age, any gender for women like us is to act like a Capricorn & look like a Cancer. It garners respect & empathy at the same time. It’s my formula that never fails & will work everywhere in the world.

[@riyaaanz6446]

@@Nocturnal_Lorena can u elaborate on act like a Capricorn and look like cancer , cause I’m a Capricorn dealing with the same thing

[@Nocturnal_Lorena]

@@riyaaanz6446 Soft girl look, little to no skin showing clothes, quiet confidence, be humble but have strong boundaries, basically embody the qualities of an empress. Love your self so much that you don't tolerate any mistreatment. Don't argue, don't swear, silence is golden, walk away. Express gratitude & accept that all you need is God. Forgive, move on but never forget & only take the lessons forward. That will naturally make you feel detached. Don't expect anything from anyone, be your own saviour, ask for help only when required but help others however you can without burning out. When you need nothing, you attract everything. Have your own life even after marriage/having kids. Always take least an hour or 2 for yourself till the day you die. Don't allow anyone in your me time. Google how a cancer woman is & act like that outwardly. Google what a capricorn woman is like & become like that inwardly. That'll keep your yin yang balanced. You'll appeal to all ages, genders, races, etc without even trying. This came from 30 years of experience lol. Hope it helps.

[@Anonymous_JK_Lover]

I do believe that looks do play a role. It's like the debate with Nixon vs JFK. The people who watched on TV said JFK won hands down. However, people who listened to the debate thought that Nixon won by a landslide. Looks and attractiveness definitely does matter in our perception of others.

[@Goddess462]

I am so glad I found this channel! So much that I am learning. 👏

[@Dearest_Muse]

Nope, you said 50% off all of your coaching calls! I’m holding you to it! 😋 & Great Video!! I appreciate all of your time and efforts into making this! I hope to see you one day! You are definitely on my little bucket list.😉 well also bc I’ve been watching your channel since 2016.👀 only now have I decided to start commenting, you have such a calm demeanor now.😅 any whoooo, I am hoping to see you in Houston within this next year!🎉🥰☺️ God Bless you Father Alex!

[@AMoore2223]

Feminine energy flows internally and masculine energy flows externally, which is why we usually don’t see the women showing their judgement behavior immediately, unless she is extremely masculine.

[@kaylabrown7045]

A woman can be sexy wearing clothing covered her body in a black bag,you put sexiness to the really physical state,sexiness it’s a state of mind,so I don’t agree that sexiness is about showing skin off

[@MsAldil]

Why is human life so complicated

[@yudollia]

Lol !!!

[@richerDiLefto]

Because people suck.

[@mrsmrs1200]

It is simple, when you know the rules

[@mrsmrs1200]

It is simple, when you know the rules

[@mrsmrs1200]

It is simple, when you know the rules

[@dg-qn5mi]

For a woman, our looks are our greatest asset

[@Nell-yh9og]

The state of the world is so depressing. By the way you don't need to dress sexy to attract attention or resentment you just have to have a noticeable advantage - physical or intellectual - but most people will justify their behavior by projecting. They'd rather believe they act as they do because you provoked it in some way.

[@softlife45]

U are so lost 😂

[@Nell-yh9og]

@@softlife45 You are so eloquent. Since you appreciated my contribution I'm happy to add that in my opinion: 1/ the fact that men are naturally wired that way does not make it less pathetical. 2/ you have very little leverage regarding your reputation - any woman knows it from a young age -. It can randomly be ruined by anyone. Know who you are, develop inner strenght, and stop giving your power away to people you barely value.This is one of the rare R. Greene development I do not resonate with. 3/ people will envy and resent physical and intellecual advantages which often results in projecting. Degrading the source of their incomfort allows people to preserve their self image. I learned that what people think about you rarely depends on your intrinsic value but on the emotions they feel in your presence. Which makes me think men must experience their desire for women as an ultimate weakness. That being said you will be attacked regardless if you shine in any way, when you are being attacked for dressing sexy you simply provided insecure - men and women - with a socially-agreed justification for the violence they carried from the start.

[@mariepetterson7281]

Can't beauty and sexiness be combined into something wonderful?

[@irenedagostino9203]

Yes of course I am sure I am both 😂❤

[@leasparkles2861]

I've had issues with females since 5 years old..wearing a cute party dress to a bday party and I remember other little girls excluding me..move on to adult life female bosses have bullied me and I've been told to cover up bcas other women in the office complained..i never wore anything revealing to work but as the video shows you can't hide large breast..always felt sad about it bcas I love women and believe us girls need to have each other's backs ❤

[@theupgraded6558]

Unfortunately men stick together & women compete

[@socol76]

I had a breast reduction because I didn’t like the unnecessary attention they garnered me by either sex

[@joma1445]

Omg same. I was a very pretty child and my boobs started growing at 7 years old.. I had so much hate from women growing up.. it took me years to understand that they were jealous. I couldn’t understand why somebody can hate you so much, without you doing anything to them

[@priolanicole74]

So when a guy isn’t listing to a damn word we are saying we should take it as a compliment??? !!! 😂😂 😅Please

[@Nicetime-nc7zn]

And I won’t ever stop dressing feminine but I’ll tone down the sexiness occasionally lol

[@wanderwoman4695]

Miss Kitty was always covered from head to toe......but her"working gals" had higher hems and lower necklines. In other words...she was the "Boss Lady".!😂

[@AndreaSanchez-bw4ic]

Yess love this video !!! Everyday life type of advice ❤

[@wanderwoman4695]

Liked your show. Could you make them not as long? Lots of info to assimilate. For example, this video would make 3 in a series. Keep on helping us understand ourselves.❤ TY.

[@yeahyeah4998]

I thought I was pretty hot nowadays but I’m playing with no-one. They’d be playing with me if it weren’t for my boundaries. I’ve had to built them from scratch and now I don’t seem to be able to sustain anyone’s attention. When I didn’t take care of my self physically and had less boundaries and did a lot to make the relationship work, I was always in a long term relationship. But never a good or satisfying one. Thank you for listening to my rant, I only read the title on this video. 😂

[@reneehaynes8289]

It's a shame women do this. Wouldn't it be awesome if we all just supported each other.

[@SandraGarcia-ez4nc]

Like the way, you explain things, but at the same time you’re so funny and you make me laugh.

[@violetaarmijos424]

Love the science behind it

[@DJ-cr8qb]

This is true, saw a difference in others reactions when dressing more conservative.

[@bonnie1097]

You don't have to dress or be sexy to get bullied by other women. It could be for any reason imaginable. Sadly.

[@aashiii4703]

this is totally logical and fact based vidio each thing is explained so well by you 💯

[@aileen3267]

I feel like men notice it more than women. Men will have an obvious opinion of of who they think are attractive and show more attention and act differently to those women. Men innately know this makes other women jealous. Men almost exacerbate the rivalry.

[@yxumi]

To get attention from somebody you like you need to be attractive with a nice body if you're not conventionally attractive men will think you're not worthy of even getting pursued that's the harsh reality its true for both men and women .

[@siouxsielover88]

This makes me wonder.. can we repeat this experiment, but for the gays? I realized a while back ( I'm bi, btw) I'm usually attracted to women I find more feminine than myself and I also feel that impulse to give, but more with the ulterior motive being that they'll want to be around me more. Sex is more of a long term goal. This brought out some interesting observations, and i would love to hear how other non heteros experience attraction.

[@iki12737]

A strong religios man will not look

[@Liaiswatching]

It was a very helpful video! Made a lot of things clear for me as I'm new in working world! The thing is that probably there's a disfunction in my DNA as eventhough I am a girl but I can't help looking at beautiful girls ( not s*xually, I just admire how beautiful girls can be) I was dating a guy and he tried a few times to make me jealous by showing me pictures of some beautiful girls but every time I was just confirming that they are so beautiful, he then asked me really? As if he was waiting for another type of reaction and not me admiring their gorgeousness 😅❤

[@bingaling22]

lol

[@deeplyfeminine865]

Media is training us women to take in the male gaze.

[@mapulem6795]

Thank you for this informative video Father Alex. You have evolved & you are becoming more valuable sir.....I appreciate your wealth of wisdom and knowledge. 🎯🎯🎯💎💎💎💯💯💯♥️♥️♥️

[@legallycurvy]

I love how masculine and honest you are 😭show me the homeless hott girl her tip jar is always full😹

[@judithstevens4323]

So that's WHY when I speak men act like I am speaking DOLPHIN❗ DAMN it has made me mad.

[@Wokeafricantvs]

My childhood is starting to make sense

[@f3042]

Good stuff. Haven’t been here in a while. Congrats! I remember when this channel had like 20k subs. This is amazing!

[@drkmoondrkmoon9244]

Very interesting, in my experience, i dnt consider myself "beautiful" even tho people tell me i look like "shakira" (which i dnt see it) and i worked in different industries. I usually dress with sweat pants, jeans and t-shirt, yet guys still hit on me🤷‍♀️ and im like, "but i look like crap today lol"

[@camillemorse5039]

I took mushrooms & watched this entire video & I felt like you were on the trip with me & then I realized it’s a youtube screen lol

[@VictoriaWilder95]

Damn now I wanna chill wit you that sounds so fun 😂

[@sharonjoan9997]

This topic seems so untouchable until you speak of this I really enjoyed

[@n0426]

Wow. How did you have this much accurate knowledge? I did grow up without my father and I couldn’t accept my uncle in my life. I don’t have a big female features i am not fat or too skinny either. I think it is my very calm feminine nature. I didn’t make any friends in my college days only 2 from high school. I have been smeared in my college by a relative who is a narcissist that i had to cut her off but she had a massive narcissistic injury.

[@farhatmohammadi7224]

This was probably one of your best videos

[@MedusssssaChristo]

I really adore this video & the topics you talk about. You’re so entertaining & Intelligent & handsome too! These types of videos I really find Interesting

[@carolynwebb8726]

What would you do if you were a woman today? Single, married, kids, no kids, 9-5, s** worker, natural, medical grade, etx? Im so curious lol

[@sharonqui74]

Great video Father Alex ✨

[@n0426]

Women naturally get bigger chests when they give birth. This is what keeps the man giving them so they can feed their child.

[@faceforcake]

Wearing a fancy modest dress is my go to to get both sexiness and respect ❤️

[@JenesisBrister-nn2gy]

I can't go nowhere cause I'm too beautiful and sexy at the same damn time . YALL PRAY FOR ME 😢 I BEEN BULLIED STALKED ECT... a beautiful women's life so ugly

[@patriciascottteacher2723]

If other women find you too attractive or beautiful, or drop down gorgeous or you are just too dam sexy and she is extremely jealous of you, don't stick around and let her continually watch you or look at you because those are the ones that will find a way to hurt you some kind of way out of jealousy. I've seen it happen more than once. My grandmother when I was a little girl, I'm about 75 now, well this lady in church always admired my grandmother's long Indian beautiful hair, grandma always wore beautiful hats to church. One day that same woman wanted to borrow one of my grandma's hats, she wore the hat afterwards my grandma asked for the hat back, my grandmother never thought nothing else about it she wore the hat, the lady had put something in the hat to cause all my grandma beautiful hair to fall out, her hair never ever grew back. I have two more stories to tell you. Let me know if you want to hear the other storyline about another women's jealous. Back in the day they believe in all that vexed and voodoo kind of stuff. I'm almost sure she sprinkled some kind of powder in her hat.

[@n0426]

This is so true about the voice. As a Muslim god says in the Quran. To not talk in a submissive manner so that no ill intended man can take advantage of you and talk in a clear straight manner. As an introvert growing up this was a major skill i had to practice when dealing with men overall even if i am fully covered i am still very feminine at my core. But i know not to give access to just anyone.

[@theupgraded6558]

be pretty & dont be ugly

[@moniqueford9173]

Not “ugly pride” I can’t with you 😂🤣😂 we could not be in the same room we would be dying together lol…”why they do Sam smith like that” 😭

[@SoftChroma]

The waitress was also very smiley with heavy eye contact 😂

[@Cocohontas82]

I have never been conventionally attractive but I have always had CRAZYYY sex appeal even as a young girl. It’s annoying at times but fun to play with at times too so…🤷🏾‍♀️😅

[@untzuy3744]

It's so annoying that having a large chest I can't really wear sexy stuff

[@Ivettepm]

Bro I’m screwed I got a B cup 😩🤣

[@iamyoda1980]

Wear a push up baby you’re gorg

[@Taveeshis]

At this point I’m just watching ur videos cos the way u say stuff is funny😂Consider comedy🎀

[@lotusbomb7594]

Where is the link with a study that a woman develops faster when she has a father

[@char6081]

Lmk if u find out

[@princesskadi7]

Do more vids like this I loved this, and do a vid ab why atttactive ppl have more fulfilling relationships cuz I agree but a lot of ppl on TikTok are saying the opposite 😊

[@patriciascottteacher2723]

I don't have knock down gorgeous friends or people in my life and don't need or care to have any. Personally I find them hard to look at and talk to. I quietly and quickly want to leave the area before I vomit all over myself 😭, Not for your beautiful self I left but your conceded ugly beautiful ways. Beautiful is a most natural and normal gift that is given from God, don't let the DEVIL rob and steal it. I have at 75 years old saw very attractive people but years later you wonder what the hell happened to them, they were so concededly very attractive but in such a very short period of time their looks faded away. It's just to show us that looks can come and they can leave you just as quickly and you can never ever get it back once it's gone. She will still have some feathers left but you would never ever be as attractive as you once was. Pretend to all you want, somethings in life you only get one chance at it and when you blow that chance you don't get to get a make over. It's gone FOREVER And Never. Looks come and go. Very few of none stays beautiful forever. I personally want to age gracefully and look my age as I get their. Thanking God as the years go by with grace. At 75, I can't see dyeing my hair black when I have a son about 50 years old and his son about 30 years old and his son about 14 or 15 years of. My hair is pure white 🤍 without a drop of dye in it and I think it's gorgeous. If your hair say you are young because you dyed it, the face you can never dye that to look young.