Based on what I've experienced; I don't think any woman should deliberately play tactics, if you keep a lot of hobbies and yourself as #1 priority in your life, polarization just occurs naturally and you can have peace of mind without the work of mind games.
@maria.1c13132 жыл бұрын
Absolutely agree
@maryblanc22892 жыл бұрын
Mind games are exhausting 😜
@Cravenn52 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 This comment right here!! Women in ownership and pleasure of themselves automatically attracts the man with your beautifully rounded self confidence.
@Su-So2 жыл бұрын
True but some people need to be checked. Understand life with advice and experience.
@Vanillaaxo2 жыл бұрын
Exactly just dont be needy, have hobbies and friends and putting yourself first
@sandradesouza99402 жыл бұрын
Let me tell you what sets you apart from others on KZbin Alex......you have dug deep into these topics. You have researched and studied to the point that you truly understand what you are talking about, not merely regurgitating information that you learned on the fly. That is precisely what keeps me coming back to your videos.
@MindfulAttraction2.02 жыл бұрын
That's so sweet of you thank you
@Brandi.Nicole2 жыл бұрын
Very true! I tell people this all the time - this information is out there but he takes 4 hours of research and puts it into an easy to listen to short video and then takes a step further and offers personal guidance and deeper education. Thanks Alex ✌️
@niadennis88372 жыл бұрын
🗣🗣🗣Say it louder for the people in the back!
@Cararenee93xo2 жыл бұрын
Well said!
@dr.tapasyadiwakar12462 жыл бұрын
I m done with homo sapiense. Now i match energy not feelings...with friends,juniors,romantic partner,relative or any one.
@BlackPearlMona3692 жыл бұрын
Playing games, illusion and manipulating the man is too much nerve and thinking involved. This is not away of living, too much work and stress.
@borntobesavage6972 жыл бұрын
True but sometimes you gone have to do what you have to do, it is difficult to understand man’s on top of that I think really is not a game or manipulation if you don’t think that way 😄
@unspok3ntruth2642 жыл бұрын
Right this sounds like teaching narcissism as protection of self which is what narcissists do
@Cyberia19932 жыл бұрын
Yeah, but the manipulation/influencing
@Cyberia19932 жыл бұрын
Oops....raise the passion to a whole new level. Living life is about passion
@kidavis7024 Жыл бұрын
I am learning something from you young man, something we should have been taught back in the 70's. I'm 60 years-old and beginning a new journey in my life... My golden years are going to rock?😊
@donnarebrown96562 жыл бұрын
Everything you are teaching is what Narcissists do naturally to an abusive nature. I was actually having flashbacks from my ex NARC relationship!
@laceymisquadis7992 жыл бұрын
Oh yeah, he’s always been the dark dating teacher or w.e he calls himself (all tactics that create an unhealthy attraction but works and is definitely something that comes natural to Narcs).
@jeanpaul41002 жыл бұрын
If your person was a true narc. ( sleeps with many and lies about it to you ). Nothing you can say can change them. Your absence may work in the long run. Only thing is you are no longer the same person as well.
@rozdevin24682 жыл бұрын
yep
@dhshquqjmrbehsuswhetsywnwv66782 жыл бұрын
Só? Tou prefer to be the victim?
@amerokeewiya1320 Жыл бұрын
Another person who was in a “narcissistic” relationship 🙄🙄 omg…
@alinap1822 жыл бұрын
The brain eye connection is really a deep subject. Way to go , Alex! I am actually surprised now
@dhanyashreenarayani39632 жыл бұрын
waaw,, guys, if somebody takes away your self esteem, you remind yourself you are worthy and stop engaging with such person. Respect YOURSELF not the other
@chrisharris23672 жыл бұрын
I have a relationship w both these dynamics He’s more passive aggressive and user in a covert sneaky way I’m explosive and mean w my words at times but still giving and nice
@Aja.S2 жыл бұрын
I swear Dalexis you have teaching in your core in your soul ! beautifully and passionately delivered class
@gurll-fn4ul2 жыл бұрын
😁 the thumbnail picture hahaha
@kaitlyngrace7663 Жыл бұрын
This man never ages
@peggybestgotos59332 жыл бұрын
Dude! Such Wisdom for such a young man! Thanks for your commitment to helping others experience true love!💖💖
@185_a2 жыл бұрын
Father Alex, you are the man who taught me about men. THANK YOU!
@MariaMilenovasArt Жыл бұрын
Some of these tips also apply to friendships and all types of relationships, in general.
@elodieblas2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for this insight, I totally understand pleasure pain dynamic though this is not healthy 😂and I’d rather be a single person who is healthy loving and caring than being manipulative in a relationship 🙋🏽♀️
@aperta75258 ай бұрын
It's simply the mature way to apologize in not only using words but also in making amends. It's not manipulation/games. That goes for both men and women.
@andreatorluemke49822 жыл бұрын
This is a whole new vibe for you Alex.
@elilove17292 жыл бұрын
This is an interesting perspective and i actually understand why i entertain toxic relationships now... Thank you for this
@superpoodlehead2 жыл бұрын
I love the Basquiat look! ❤️❤️
@DeeLeon72 жыл бұрын
Alex, your hair is wild I really like it!
@cutiepi3_patti2 ай бұрын
😂
@maxwelltreasure50272 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video Alex! Oh yes we all have blind spots / aspects we cannot see, “Johari window.” 💯
@carynefuture5778 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely mindblowing!Congrats!
@annasoszka17582 жыл бұрын
Alex you can make videos with observing the dates and comment them, what was going good and right and what not. Like an observator, it would be great from you! 🙏
@vanakkamgi83302 жыл бұрын
Too many toxic games that we have to do. I’ll give this a miss and stay single and at peace. ✌🏾
@ahfty17012 жыл бұрын
He’s not telling you to play games he’s explaining why women who naturally do this are so attractive to men
@pallysupatra2 жыл бұрын
This is golden!! Thank you, Father Alex!
@winxclubstellamusa2 жыл бұрын
Having you hiding in the bushes staring me down and critiquing me on a date from afar sounds hilarious and creepy at the same time, lol.
@litawi78692 жыл бұрын
I would love that! But now way could I act normal. Lol!
@relaxingsoundsforpeaceands35092 жыл бұрын
I feel like he should have a live dating coach show he’s that good ❤❤❤❤
@aprilgreen628 ай бұрын
You’re the best. Learn so much from you, and you’re hilarious and so engaging. I wish we were friends in real life. It would be one loooong case study!🥰☺️
@hajji15092 жыл бұрын
So true. It's a TRICK. I have to force myself atm to play this game which is counter-intuitive. So I'm really crazy about the guy and want to give give give but have to do opposite. He's distant so I have to do the same. 🙄🤬💔
@ishikamehra97092 жыл бұрын
What you did pls explain
@tanveenkaur40912 жыл бұрын
how’d it work out?
@MandaS19862 жыл бұрын
Communication is key
@nikitajohnson35022 жыл бұрын
Did he ever come back to chasing you
@hajji15092 жыл бұрын
@@nikitajohnson3502 Hey. Yes, he did. It's been a roller-coaster of chasing and running, chasing and running. We did meet and it was lovely. We are still very much connected. I can't say it's an easy relationship because I think we both have to learn deep issues from each other. But the love is there. ❤
@genevievedonaldson841511 ай бұрын
Excited for your service
@jojoe.24102 жыл бұрын
Alex am drawn to this... Am here for the first time and i think am staying ❤️❤️
@AZER9ify2 жыл бұрын
Hey can you make a video about how to behave with a person that has an avoidance disorder please?
@dr.m61522 жыл бұрын
This is so, so true and detailed! Good job!!
@lydiam93232 жыл бұрын
This guy I dated 4 months broke up wit me. He was telling me he felt like an Accessory in my life. For the last three weeks I can see he is checking out my dating profile 2-3 times a day! Wtf.
@jelizabethpetrie66562 жыл бұрын
Let it play out. Always like them a bit less than they like you. It give you a perspective. For your best good, you wouldn’t otherwise have.❤ Learned from 30 years of marriage and working in logistics (trucking 98% men) for 15 years😮
@loveandlight.24 Жыл бұрын
Wow men always do that let you go then stalk ya 😂
@subhramondal50932 жыл бұрын
Make a video how to give healthy pain to someone
@spirulina39242 жыл бұрын
the best water is clean, lively, structured (Masaru Emoto) water other water is just a necessity to survive not the best
@valsnoturpal23832 жыл бұрын
as much as i love watching your videos. please for the love of god fix the audio xD it keeps going higher or lower in many of the videos
@catalinascloset58082 жыл бұрын
That’s love hahahaa to come and watch and help us.
@AB-sf2dd2 жыл бұрын
What about if he doesn’t disrespect you - what if he’s consistent and treats you perfectly. Should you create dramatic scenarios ?
@Nabila.A.P2 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY! This is all nonsense for a respectful mature man, no point doing all this to keep a disrespectful person anyway
@ManiSoSweet2 жыл бұрын
YESSS
@lw4294 Жыл бұрын
No.. they will probably come up naturally. Don’t play games.
@peacefulloveagain41242 жыл бұрын
This helped me get it! Thanks! Excellent!
@caterinadelgalles87832 жыл бұрын
No course can create chemistry.
@thandicandy54522 жыл бұрын
True! It's spontaneous
@lamlucky7772 жыл бұрын
your sound is annoying , because you're moving the microphone all the time , your message is helpful .
@Leeohlin8910 ай бұрын
Wow…. As if “your message is helpful” is going to be overlooked by the rest of your arrogant comment. Well, probably why you’re here in the first place is because your arrogance is what probably draws men away. 😏 By the way he sounded just fine. You were the last one who had the issue.
@RRthee12 жыл бұрын
You’re on 🔥🔥🔥 w/this video series!! 🫶🏼
@lorrainehayson2564 Жыл бұрын
very detailed. ✨❤️
@aamiahpapaya91542 жыл бұрын
The thumbnail 😫😭 I can't
@no-one002 жыл бұрын
Thisss I need to become your patreon I bet I’m missing even more information
@bitanyaabebe43312 жыл бұрын
Your hair 😂😂❤❤❤❤ perfect
@lovenhzwill8312 жыл бұрын
112 song..pleasure and pain now makes sense
@edithochoa29532 жыл бұрын
Video on how to balance pleasure in the relationship ?
@viktoriab42932 жыл бұрын
Is this a tutorial on how to hook an avoidantly attached man?
@rsr_s2392 жыл бұрын
What your referring to as pleasure, we refer to as ‘marginal rate of utility’
@Yukai-ep2dv2 жыл бұрын
Could you please explain more?
@TheOriginalRasheedat2 жыл бұрын
Great title
@payroll_mobvalley45412 жыл бұрын
🔑literally boss up get money work on your self and act like you forgot about her tray me she want you and is thinking about you she wants the better version of you like she saw when u first ment it’s mysterious she really thinks you changed and she wants to find out how it will play out don’t give her all of you only a little to keep her interested in you. Only please her little by little she’s gonna fall for it that’s the key on getting your girl back to your girl friend and if you really want her to chase you friend zone her and she’s gonna chase you like a game of tag
@jordanaustin41082 жыл бұрын
can you do one for people that live together? i cant find anything on that
@modestone37522 жыл бұрын
So true
@jeanpaul41002 жыл бұрын
I really like your hair style. Whats it called. Derelict?
@LeratoM982 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂🤣
@wandasconci4262 жыл бұрын
I been right were you said....thanks xo
@MilanScottScott6 ай бұрын
I’m not going to lie, I love Dalexis, man! Toxic, Papi!😜😆
@AmbersWorld2 жыл бұрын
“A healthy amount of pain” wtf does that even meannnn?? 😂
@2010jenise2 жыл бұрын
Does anyone know father Alex stand on women “shooting their shot” at men? I’ve been looking thru his videos for this subject
@juliettb15652 жыл бұрын
Happy Friday beautifulsssssss!
@marienelly52292 жыл бұрын
5:30 n 6:06
@dolsiemercado31402 жыл бұрын
Okay.
@christineloizou56182 жыл бұрын
Εpic video!!!! Love it
@cbphilly72 жыл бұрын
I don’t feel like reading the comments but if anyone didn’t say anything ur video(s) volume usually stinks. New mic im assuming. My phone volume is fine. I’m driving in the car and its hooked up and my volume there is good too btw.
@veeivezaj2 жыл бұрын
I think this is an older video
@ellaefraim73012 жыл бұрын
יפה. הוא לימד אותי פה משהו מעניין
@Tnc8742 жыл бұрын
Alex is definitely about his money. A service where he watches u on dates!!
@no-one002 жыл бұрын
The way I came here to rewatch this video
@shybairnsgetnowt2 жыл бұрын
Why would I want a guy I'd have to trick into wanting to spend time with me in the first place? The number of these toxic "how to behave as a (fe)male to get a (fe)male" vids/channels are increasing at an alarming rate.
@scooterlovya2 жыл бұрын
Wow, That's a terrific point!
@Patrelable2 жыл бұрын
Interesting 💭
@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes2 жыл бұрын
Nice 😊
@schwarzeraraberhengst21242 жыл бұрын
where s your barbershop??
@peachesncreamy96532 жыл бұрын
Your mic constantly goes in and out. 😥😥
@lamlucky7772 жыл бұрын
So annoying when using a headphone
@Velvetblu38 ай бұрын
Has no one commented on the cover picture of this video 😂
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@rozdevin24682 жыл бұрын
Your talking about narcs
@imnoemit2 жыл бұрын
I can see some of these things making sense but for people with trauma who arent aware of it. And you talk about manipulation as good thing. Shit
@theempresslifestyle112 жыл бұрын
Why’s all the work on us females 🙈
@pamelanonya3772 жыл бұрын
Because most men are not that deep to process this level of being mind fckd lol but I'm so serious
@Leeohlin8910 ай бұрын
I don’t see it as work. But more like magic.
@genevievedonaldson841511 ай бұрын
Wooaahh
@jjustino12 жыл бұрын
I don’t think this will work on a very egotistic prideful man. What if we both blocked eachother but he initiated the block. Some man are out here prideful
@Akings1022 жыл бұрын
I agree some men are prideful. But, this shit works! If he initiated the block…let it go and keep it pushin’. Most of the time they come back. If he doesn’t his loss. If he does-the question is are you going to apply what you’re learning from Alex? If he comes back, play on your terms and make a mf pay. If not, he can kick rocks cause there plenty of others out there.
@danilaroche11562 жыл бұрын
I pray you turn to the Lord Jesus, Alex. Your so smart, handsome..so on & so forth. I was concerned when you planned that trip last year to see a shaman and do psychedelics. Basically, you opened up a door to demonic attack. I used to do all this. Premarital sex, the occult y mas. I don't care for Christianity. I love, serve and obey the living Christ. Amen.
@besi75732 жыл бұрын
Thanks good video but keep ur mouth on the microphone
@maismomo7302 жыл бұрын
you look like the weeknd
@SAPHYTYRA2 жыл бұрын
I wish i could buy you a better mic so I could hear you better because I feel like youre really sayin sum shit
@rachelpereseking2 жыл бұрын
That’s what happened to me. Time to reverse the game
@sweetnovember39842 жыл бұрын
Do not do it. In the end of it all you will only lose respect for yourself. I have been there. Broke many hearts as a response to my ex dumping me. I was punishing the other guys for it. Forgive the guy and move on. True forgiveness has a healing effect. By not forgiving you are depriving yourself real peace and happiness. You are giving that person control over you by holding any grudge on them.
@PRINCESS25272 жыл бұрын
This is a lot lol 😂
@SuperPinkblossom2 жыл бұрын
♥️
@lightsky64982 жыл бұрын
Your reading from a book😯
@untoldname2 жыл бұрын
She's not yours. It's just your turn.
@bbygirl83632 жыл бұрын
Bruh
@schoolofhot2 жыл бұрын
He’s not yours it’s just your turn.
@xoxoNicholeLove2 жыл бұрын
That thumbnail made me click lol
@sunnybein12 жыл бұрын
Toxic game playing..for toxic people.
@larag79532 жыл бұрын
Lol u kinda remind me of TheWeekend
@LeratoM982 жыл бұрын
It's the hair isn't it 🤣🤣🤣
@SusanH46262 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry this makes no sense. You are all over the place, can’t follow what point your trying to make.
@ivy61792 жыл бұрын
Lollllll
@d33nerg32 жыл бұрын
Lmao ur face
@dianap18932 жыл бұрын
The lip smacking is a bit gross
@signatureblonde59562 жыл бұрын
Well even if someone would be interested in your services that you provide, the money you are asking is vulgar, which makes you look cheap Also.
@350zspeedy2 жыл бұрын
please fix your hair
@giselleb11112 жыл бұрын
I missed your informative OG videos. I’m glad you seem to be going back to that!!