major life updates: singleness, healing, moving?, and more!

[@AgentPaycheck7139]

"Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance you must keep moving." - Albert Einstein

[@lizziemcguire349]

I just broke up with my boyfriend of three years (mostly long-distance) and I know it was the right decision, but it's so hard. Similar to your story, we were in a loving, healthy relationship but couldn't make compromises on lifestyle and where geographically we wanted to live. That makes it even harder. Thank you for sharing your experience online. It makes me feel so much less alone and I love the tips on getting closer with friends and asking for help when you need it. You're an inspiration and I'm grateful!

[@stephanielake11]

What has helped me through difficult times is journaling, gratitude journaling, meditation, and taking some walks outside. I find it so incredible that you’re a content creator & also making Rella a success. I would love vlogs on you trying new fun things…or going on a solo date with yourself. Doing things on your bucket list, and also travel vlogs (even if they’re just for a weekend). Anyhow wanted to send you so much love & positive energy from Toronto!!💕💕💕

[@philliptommy3639]

Hello

[@xiaodafei4738]

Hi, thanks for your video which helps me see the possibility of growing from breakup. Breakup, studying abroad, language barrier, and isolation, those things are casting "me" and the life I don't like or even hate. This is my first time writing a comment and I will come back, with a new "me", to find this comment one year later.

[@KateSeide]

Press into your faith!!! God has got you even now!!

[@heyhey996]

It's great seeing you smiling again & looking on the bright side. It took me years to get over the guy I was seeing in college but now I enjoy single life & will miss the freedom I have when I do meet someone. I think being single for a while will be a great time for you and the right person will come when you're not even looking for him. I've been watching you since I was a sophomore in college & I'm now 26! I founded my own brand that I've been trying to grow for a few months. I'm up to 16k on TikTok but it's amazing to see how far you've grown Rella in such a short time and your perseverance has always inspired me to keep going even though this entrepreneurship journey is rough. You're doing amazing

[@AllySheehan]

DUDE congrats on 300K!! it's been a pleasure to watch you grow (in both senses of the word) over the years

[@ABiteBetterbyEva]

Hi Natalie!! I had literal tears in my eyes when you said you had raised VC money and were amongst the 1% of latina women who did do. Way to go 👏👏 you're such an inspiration 😊

[@NatalieBarbu]

Aww thank you. It’s so special to me

[@AimiNadiaChannel]

ive been your subs since your 9-5 era and seeing rella grow makes me so so proud of you!! ❤🎉

[@ritmenyaflo6428]

Indo atau malay kak? aku juga udah subb Natalie lamaa... hhuhu💛

[@AimiNadiaChannel]

@@ritmenyaflo6428 im a malaysian hehe :)

[@angievansprang3460]

Natalie, I’ve been loving these recent videos where you open up about your emotions. Thank you for being vulnerable with us. It’s interesting you said at the end that we may have felt disconnected from you during this time, but if anything, I feel more connected! I’m loving this content and I can’t wait to see more. Sending lots of love💗

[@NatalieBarbu]

Aw thank you so much. I never want to lose touch with you guys!!

[@jardaitraniece5269]

Could you do a video on your tech busniess start up, educational background, and how Rella got to the place it is now?

[@kristinaj7891]

Natalie! I just listened to your pod on your breakup and it brought me back to a similar time in my life! Love that your using your faith during this difficult time. ❤ sending love and good vibes. Wishing you all the best in your new chapter 🙏🏽

[@misspinkbowxo]

you've been doing so great natalie by adding these healthy things into your life!!! that is not easy, and so many people resort to just crying/staying sad/staying home and end up back with their ex. you are doing great so keep doing you!!!!!!

[@philliptommy3639]

Hello 😊

[@Amelia_sf]

Can you talk about how you formed new friendships ?

[@NatalieBarbu]

I’m gonna do a podcast episode!

[@ananya1294]

I went through a breakup with my boyfriend of 5 years in 2020, and I felt pretty much like you. This is just me from the future telling you that it gets better! Keep focusing on yourself, keep working and you’ll be fine! But if you feel sad and vulnerable then allow yourself to go through that as well.. I promise you’ll be okay Natalie! Sending you tonnes of love and good vibes! 💜

[@nancy_austin01]

I loved this video so much, please film more like it! I'm currently going through a breakup as well and am finding it really difficult to enjoy life again - this video really helped me. I'd love to see more content of you documenting your journey of healing and hopefully sharing some more tips that can help me as well. 💕

[@NatalieBarbu]

I can’t wait to document it

[@christellemneini]

it's actually so inspiring to see you pave your path and grow Rella and do what most people would shy away from I.e. capital raising. I'm so excited to continue seeing your journey Natalie 💗

[@philliptommy3639]

Hello Christelle😊

[@poppycalliope]

Your honesty and transparency is truly admirable Nat! We're always here to support you and I'm so proud of everything you have achieved 💜

[@MillennialMamasLife]

Hi Natalie. I’m so glad you’re doing well. I am sorry for your breakup and I am so happy for you that you’re back to life regimens. Take care sweetie and thank to you and your team at Rella social for the Birthday wishes and love. Xoxo

[@livetochannel]

Love you Nat ❤ when you hinted that something major happened I just knew it was the breakup. 😢 I’ve been watching you since you worked your 9-5 and I’m so invested in your happiness. It’s really weird but I just want the best for you and hope you’re taking the time to rest. ILY ❤

[@NatalieBarbu]

Ily thank you so much

[@joymae]

I’m so happy you are back to making so many more vlog style videos and I’m proud of you for documenting this transitional period

[@NatalieBarbu]

Thank you! I’m happy documenting it too

[@inak.dunphy9860]

thank you for sharing!!

[@bobbybero7452]

Hope you’re doing better but you seem to be happy now 😃👍🏻

[@xoxjelloxox]

Do you regret breaking up? How do you know when it is time vs to keep working at it? Did you flip flop with the idea of breaking up?

[@NatalieBarbu]

No, I don’t regret it. But it’s definitely not easy. I think most people don’t break up with people just out of fear

[@reynalyshenjavier6048]

You are one of my big inspirations and I'm always rooting for you 💖

[@kathryns9868]

Good luck on YC!!! It has been so cool watching your start up journey.

[@safaekebbara4751]

can i just say i am obssesed with your content ! so different from what other youtubers put out there, i actully feel like am learning a lot from you , best of luck to you and obviously hope you keep on feeling better 💞💞

[@NatalieBarbu]

This is so sweet❤️

Happy to be part of this YT family 💞💞

[@misspinkbowxo]

also i was wondering how did you get a good friend group in your adult life?? would love to hear more tips about this!!

[@NatalieBarbu]

I think I’m gonna do a podcast episode on this

[@paulinalegut1705]

I just broke up and your stories keep me going ❤ Btw I am super touched by this church part 😊

[@sophiadumont8273]

Happy 300k subs! So happy for you!!!

[@brokehalo101]

We love you Nat! And are hella proud of u

[@AshleyAquilina]

Thanks for sharing!!! I love your videos!! The camera quality on this one is amazing!

[@MelindaHenderson]

I subscribed in 2018. Hadn’t seen your vlogs in a while, I am also in a breakup right now so your vlogs are helping me. Thank you ❤

It is indeed breakup season hahahah! The eclipses and other recent astrological events have made people prioritize their individual needs and dreams. It have definitely influenced couples to go their own way. I also broke up my relationship and saw so many people go through that as well. Let us heal! ❤

[@justinfelt748]

Hi, Natalie and Happy Sunday!😊😊😊😊😊💙💙💙💙💙🌈💖💖💖💖💖💖👍. Long time no see! I missed you. And welcome to the third season of Fall!🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂👍.

[@giannimartinez7160]

you look so happy!!

[@EliMagidsLuxuryHomes]

Rella- Sounds awesome ! 600 k is Awesome- Props -- Hope You Are Safe in Miami-- Once you are ready to settle down, Charlotte is better . NY is good to visit :-) .I am a former NY er too

[@hava-media]

Love your updates and vlogs!!

[@redditfolder00]

Hi Natalie! What matcha do you use?

[@ritmenyaflo6428]

I really want to see your vlog of reading books💛💛💛

[@chimaijemotitolouis8291]

Where do you get your jewelry from?

[@Anki0407hi]

Love all ur videos.. u r an inspiration

[@misskaroline7501]

Love you Natalie ♥️

[@VeggiesbyEos]

I love your videos ❤️ you seem very happy in this video 🙂

[@SparkyPrincess25]

Hii Natalie Sorry about your break up .. huggs and kisses from Trinidad Love your make up 😊

[@ryanherrera1052]

I do love ❤️ everything that are you doing videos all of it hauls makes you happy everything

[@ryanherrera1052]

Ok thanks

[@Hereismytwocents2011]

I believe everyone should be independent and happy being single. It gives you a chance to find what your interests are, rather than having another person persuade things a certain way. Once you can be happy and content in your own environment, then you can bring someone else into it. I'm a single Pringle and loving it!

[@simplicity.h]

Happy that you enjoy Miami 😍 This city is so special to me and I can’t wait to come back again 🌴 May God continue to bless you sister. A verse that I had on my heart for you: « God heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. » Psalm 147:3

[@mucky2hot]

Come back to the UK

[@2010kalex]

I'm literally posting a life update on my channel tomorrow (Monday lol)

[@philliptommy3639]

Hello 😊

[@yukarinakasone186]

💚💚💚

[@stephaniedasilvaox]

Hey gorgeous

[@badroddajashaikh8240]

😊

[@davidparnell4675]

Good video

[@jessramos3862]

I follow you because of I´m learning English, but I understand you less 7%

[@stacey9355]

Are you hiring?

[@NatalieBarbu]

A front end developer!

[@markgilavenion3268]

2022 . 2023 . Yes LOVE 💖 po Thank you Like 🇵🇭 Mark 32 Deaf Mute po ako 😊😇🌈🌥️🇵🇭

[@williamm.andrews7354]

First

[@jessramos3862]

you speak and speak and speak a lot where do you get so many ideas?

[@Jibril_Abdulkadir]

Happy your getting better ❤️‍🩹 definitely making yourself busy will help but don’t burn out and keep killing it on tells gonna be at the 🔝 🔜 💯💗💗