Making Friends: Husband vs Wife

[@call4peace264]

As an introvert I like friends like Penn because you don’t have to do any thinking about what to say when you’re around them, they always have a conversation ready to go. When I’m around another introvert, we just look at each other awkwardly, unless they are a close friend, then you always have great discussions.

[@kynn23]

I've always admired people who can fill gaps in the conversation. I need more of them around.

[@meliosorio105]

Same! 💯

[@marcelslofstra2157]

@@kynn23 why not admire people that can accept gaps in conversations?

[@darkharlezucreek]

Me too. I cannot extrovert, but I can accompany an extrovert as an excellent side kick.

[@lindenpeters2601]

​@@marcelslofstra2157 Yeah it's largely a cultural thing. Westerners, especially we Americans, are uncomfortable with silence. In other parts of the world, it's normal to have some silence and it's not awkward.

[@curlykiki8]

penn is like a human golden retriever!! ❤ kim- you are so me.

[@holdernessfamilylaughs]

Are you doing inner child work?

[@theresabingham2601]

Always...

[@curlykiki8]

@@holdernessfamilylaughs all day, every day!! 😆

[@merpius]

My dog literally screams at dogs in the park. Definitely same energy as Penn in this video. 🤣

[@bluecobaltsteph2689]

That is the best description ever!!

[@susanrnbc]

My husband can spend HOURS fishing with his buddies and know NOTHING about what is going in their lives. Me: “How’s Bob’s mother?” Him: “Is something wrong with his mom?” (She is in hospice care BTW.) Me: “How’s Bill’s new job working out?” Him: “Bill has a new job?” Me: “Did Brad’s daughter get her college acceptance yet?” Him: “I thought his daughter was still in junior high!”

[@seebeyondurself1st]

😂😂😂

[@RobertSmi]

Hello 👋

[@lynntfuzz]

What do they talk about?

[@mandiwolfe6631]

Hahaha mine had no idea his friend got divorced.....just thought the wife was always busy when they hung out. Men.....😂

[@Reclaimer77]

Ugh my wife is the same way. She asks all these questions about other people like I'm supposed to know every detail about their lives. What the hell? 😂

[@azureflamehealing]

“Tell me about your trauma response and what you think triggers them 😀😀😀” Why is this me when I try to make friends? 😂😂😂

[@holdernessfamilylaughs]

Tell me about your inner child work

[@azureflamehealing]

😂😂😂😂 But seriously though! EMDR is something I seriously wanna try someday, for now Jungian archetype shadow work and somatic / myofascial therapies have been super helpful in healing the inner child. There’s also a lot of great journaling ideas for exploring childhood wounds, and getting out there with a mentality of play helps a lot with helping the inner child to feel seen / heard. A lot of people don’t realize that as rough as childhood wound acknowledgment can be, it feels so freeing once you do it, and, in a lot of ways childhood healing can be fun, especially when you let yourself engage in activities you wanted to as a child but were told no. Also, I just wanna say, your videos on not being too judgmental about the new generation’s music compared to what we had in the 90s and 80s, is really refreshing to see, and it shows that you do take inner child healing seriously. I love that 🤍

[@sol.azulalado]

Me too! I don't have new friends since I decided to be my real self🤣 ...no old ones either 😃

[@azureflamehealing]

@@sol.azulalado You’ll find the ones meant for you, hang tight 🤍

[@SharynS.]

@@azureflamehealing EMDR is great and if you get a chance you should try it! I don’t know how eye movements can fix traumas but I, for one, can attest they do! (And they apparently make you use lots of exclamation marks. Sorry about that.)

[@clairem730]

Kim you make me feel better - glad I’m not alone in finding it hard to make new friends as an adult.

[@holdernessfamilylaughs]

It's so stinking hard.

[@RobertSmi]

Hello 👋

[@judym7739]

It's harder for older women to make friends (especially if you move to a different part of the country). For older men...if you golf, you have no problem making friends.

[@CaitlinFarar]

Same

[@KieroSi]

@@holdernessfamilylaughsIt certainly is. . . but it's really not that different from when you were a kid, the primary difference is one of locations and opportunities, followed by all the things we've built up to protect our vulnerabilities. Our selves have become more compartmentalized as adults and it can seem as if we have multiple personalities for every facet of our lives. . . it's can be difficult to integrate all that to approach others as a 'whole' person. But that's an area where parts therapy (internal family systems) can be helpful.. to getting to the root of your wants and identifying your inner obstacles. So, there's always social groups and activity clubs, fraternal orders, booster clubs, etc,, even a support group or volunteering if nothing else, to do something once a week/month/year (several annual, seasonal events. Working on a committee or for an event may fulfill this niche and provide opportunities to make friends as well).. that's sociable in one form or another.. Several types of meet up sites for that sort of thing, too. For most introverts, tho, hobbies and interests are a great way to expand into more social territories. . . this can easily be done via social media or may involve ventures into the real world for things like classes or social discussion about the topic of interest (such as book clubs), maybe it's just a group that does nothing but visit different restaurants or wineries in the region. . . bonded by their wuv of food. Or perhaps it's challenging oneself to join a play or approaching open mic night, poetry reading or whatever... Maybe there's some ren faire or fan geeks that want others to go with to local festivals and conventions. There's also a few fantasy LARPing groups out there as well. Regardless, one gets introverts to engage more by giving them an activity other than socializing that requires interacting with a small group of people until they're comfortable enough to socialize. Extroverts can have this problem, too, in trying to find the right kind of crowd where they can freely be themselves or not having to worry about potential social landmines. Albeit, I find introverts are helped by having an extrovert in their group and extroverts with an introvert or two. . . albeit, still a quest to find the right match.

[@spiritfilledlife79]

Penn still makes friends with the energy and fun of a young child. He's the kid you want to meet your first day of school in a new town. Kim makes friends like a studious sincere college student, you know if she opens up to you that she trust you, she's there for you and when you b open up and together you can rock this world. You're both my favorite kind of person.

[@holdernessfamilylaughs]

You have nailed it.

[@brittanyjackson6432]

Aww, so sweet! 😊

[@trinaq]

Kim: Signs up for groups to make "connections" and friendships. Penn: Just talks to random passers-by, regardless of whether they have anything in common. Seems very accurate to myself and my partner! 😂🤣

[@holdernessfamilylaughs]

I am so awkward 😂

[@Stacymc2012]

@@holdernessfamilylaughs don’t worry, Kim, I’m a bouncing ball of awkward and social anxiety 😂 The nice thing is when you meet people just like you and they don’t run away from you when you do go too deep too fast!😂

[@tgeetoo9451]

This is painfully so true. 😂

[@thirstwithoutborders995]

I have a feeling Kim is INFJ and Penn ENFP... The overthinking and the endless bounce...

[@cotyc6691]

My wife used to get so upset going places or just walking down the street with me. I could just randomly start talking people. She kept telling me stop that. I would tell her they want to talk. I know everyone at work. I do the building maintenance, but still i know everyone. I thought normal to introduce myself to every new person at work. We have about 150-200 employees. I can't remember everyone's name.

[@clairem730]

I’m a little nervous that Penn and his new friend might have very different expectations of what that holiday is all about!

[@katekramer7679]

😂😂 but also 😭

[@trinaq]

Penn is so enthusiastic, he definitely exudes Golden Retriever energy! 🐶💖

[@jonjensen2524]

I think it's a guy thing; we just don't get very deep in conversation with other men. We learn about your family when our wives are with us and they talk about important things with us in the room.

[@lilstarship34]

The resemblance to real life is terrifying, this is the character plot of parents everywhere.

[@holdernessfamilylaughs]

😂😂😂

[@addycramer3820]

Not just parents its like that for me and my brother 😂

[@RobertSmi]

Hello 👋

[@eas2252]

Penn is how I made friends at 5 years old. Walk right up to literally anyone. Now I'm more like Kim.

[@Allyne42]

But wait, back then we also had to exchange info about how old we were. THEN we were friends.

[@eas2252]

@Allyne42 to the nearest month. "I'm 5 and 8 months." Eventually we learned fractions. "I'm 8 and ¾ years old."

[@lrrrrrrr5167]

Same, literally same. I wouldn't go deep though, I would just wait until someone talks to me when I am meeting new people.

[@libbykat3958]

So relatable! Especially "...less teeth, less teeth..." and "...shut up...shut up..." 😆 My husband can talk to anyone about anything because he doesn't mind how the conversation turns out or whether people like him or not so he has no fear. I on the other hand take friendship very seriously, treat it as a life-long commitment and therefore feel the heavy weight of responsibility to say and be the right thing. My husband meets people where they are at and moves forward from there, so if there have been relationship difficulties in the past, that don't stop him from meeting the person afresh and reestablishing a new relationship with them from that new starting point. I however, carry all the scars of yesterday 😅

[@smd0061]

Haha, my husband and I were just talking about how awkward we make it when we're sincerely trying to make friends! It's like we forgot how to 😂

[@jacopasawesomeness]

The struggle is real. Degree of difficulty much higher as a couple.

[@RobertSmi]

Hello 👋

[@alswearengen6427]

Why do you want to make friends as an adult? I'm sincerely asking. I don't understand.

[@robinmiller5256]

Can’t get any more introverted than that Kim. Fun as always!

[@Preussfam]

Lol Kim, I totally would have responded to “tell about your trauma response from your childhood” and just started telling stories about my childhood without blinking an eye. 😆. I might just talk too much…. 🤔

[@holdernessfamilylaughs]

And we’d still be there talking

[@jimowens381]

Penn has always reminded me of Odie from the Garfield comic strip. Always ready to party and always friendly no matter what!

[@holdernessfamilylaughs]

You're so right!

[@dendostar5436]

Making friends…as an adult? No, that’s madness.

[@hotbeerjosh9019]

haha

[@holdernessfamilylaughs]

Total work of fiction

[@Hotnik0813]

seriously!it's awful

[@Stacymc2012]

Honestly, I’d rather stick with my built-in friendships 🤣🤣

[@PlatinumMyst]

No thank you.

[@lucy_180]

I am definitely in Kim's camp. It was hysterical when she was asking people about their childhood traumas and then frantically trying to find her notecards!! 😂Love it!!😂🙌

[@claireboltjes7646]

Be a good listener and you'll get friends fast. The ones that listen back...those are kindred spirits. ❤

[@holdernessfamilylaughs]

YES!!!!

[@jobethk588]

I totally understand Kim and feel her pain and her contentment at being alone.

[@oscarthomas9130]

Love it that you 2 can talk about virtually anything with no reservations and not feel like your trampling on somebody's eggshell personality How awesome and unconditionally loving is that. 🌹❤️🌹

[@burnyizland]

My son is about to turn 8 and I just met the first parent I've ever had stuff in common with at a playdate for him 2 days ago. For once, instead of watching every moment on the clock tick by like it's an hour, I had to drag myself away when I noticed I'd got a sunburn. We've got a second playdate planned for this weekend and I don't think I've ever approached a romantic date with as much excited turmoil as I've got brewing over this! If I can keep my excited fangirl craziness on the downlow just this once, that's all I'm trying to do.

[@fourlittlebirds6166]

Don’t feel worried. I’ll bet they’re thinking the same things you are. And just as nervous. Most people go through the same types of turmoil. It’s just that some hide it better than others. 😊

[@burnyizland]

@@fourlittlebirds6166 Thank you! That's very sweet and you're probably exactly right.

[@athlene110]

I love this!! I get excited turmoil and fan girl over new friends as well and thought it was just me!! Thanks so much for sharing!!

[@Cakemares7307]

I recently moved away from my 1 best friend and the struggle is real. Good luck to everyone trying to make new friends.

[@RobertSmi]

Hello 👋

[@Miraxik]

Kim makes me feel seen, love this sketch!

[@TheEternalSpiral]

This brought so many memories of when I was a kid and we would go on our two-week vacation. We would take 3-4 days to travel to our destination spot, camping along the way. Then spend a few days camping at the destination; and take 3-4 days along a different route home. We were able to visit a lot of places in the USA and experience really neat things along the way. I (like Kim) was (and still am) an introvert, but my brother was the outgoing one. He made friends at every campground and stop along the way, and when asked who they were, he could never come up with their names, even when we encountered them at several campsites along the way. It amazed me. (Of course, being the older sister, I always thought he was a bit weird.)

[@sarah-phillips]

I love this! I feel like I can simultaneously meet people easily but I'm also super awkward. Ending conversations is hard.

[@HaleyMary]

I love your videos! I'm probably one of the few women who doesn't get over dramatic about making friends. I'm an introvert, so I prefer getting to know people over time. I do find that it's easier to make friends with guys as they don't tend to over analyze everything. I've got a songwriting friend where the first time I met him when my mom and I went to my first open mic night we got to talking about music, he mentioned his grandfather used to work at Transit and I was like, my dad worked at Transit. We also had gone to the same high school. I'm happy to say he is one of my best friends to this day and that was in 2016.

[@RobertSmi]

Hello

[@evelynchew9590]

This is also definitely introvert vs extrovert:) i totally get the Kim approach 😂I also love having extroverts like Penn around, but after 20mins I’ll get exhausted from the energy and have to go chill out 😅

[@cyndwinzeler3417]

As freaked out as the rest of it would have made me, the minute the cards came out I would have caught on to the reasoning, and we'd be close immediately. One of my daughters is JUST like Penn, tho- since she was 6 and would get lost once out the door on vacation, but back in a few minutes with 1-3 new best friends

[@maggiemacha5552]

I'd be your friend in an instant Kim! I love your energy and authenticity! 💕☮️

[@RobertSmi]

Hello 👋

[@mandywalker3393]

OMG. I FEEL this. I LIVE this. My husband talks to complete strangers everywhere we go.

[@lindenpeters2601]

Kim, I get it. Small talk--specifically talking about what you are doing that specific moment--is soooooo tedious!! Blah. Best way to have a conversation: ask them where they're from. People love to talk about themselves, me included. They'll give you like a dissertation on their life and all you have to do is some simple questions! Easily branches out into family, if they have kids, and my favorite icebreaker topic: family history and heritage! Another fun question is to ask if their last name has a meaning. It can be a good doorway into deeper conversations, and shows that you care about them as a person.

[@majorhawker4776]

I am so like Penn. My BF called me and told me hey had heart surgery. My Wife asked me a 1000 questions about it, that I didn't know. She had to call his wife to learn more.

[@seanhammer6296]

"Hey, wanna come look at the shed in my backyard?" 🤣🤣🤣 No serial killer would ever say that. Nah.

[@nwj03a]

My best friend had a kid I forgot about for about a year, wife asked me about him a few weeks ago. Her “Didn’t Jakes son just turn 1, or is it 2?” Me: “Jakes kids are in like 4th grade.” Her: “No, the other one… and so and so is in 7th grade now.” Me: “No, he has two kids.” Her: “In 7th and 6th grade. The other one?” Me: “Hmmm. Don’t know? It didn’t come up.” Her: “I’ll call Teresa. It? How are you friends?”

[@vvlon]

"You don't need to know everything about your friends!" Like, okay agreed but at least some things?! Like the dude ADOPTED A KID... I'm not asking you to name his favorite ice cream flavor! 😂

[@alisonjohnston6936]

Kim you are so me! I used to be Penn but now I have PTSD. You give me so much inspiration! ❤❤❤

[@taz_kempf]

Your trauma response 😂😂😂 then the quiet shut up Kim. Oh so relatable.

[@arlenejohnson5876]

Yep, Kim, I can so relate to making friends just like you. Exactly the same. 😂

[@holdernessfamilylaughs]

Let’s be friends

[@RobertSmi]

Hello 👋

[@ecowy22]

Usually I’m Kim but there are very rare times I am Penn!!😂😂

[@dawnkirchberger3518]

Omg..I'm freaking crying...you guys are so wholesome but so darned funny and cute...you made my day😂😂😂

[@tjturner3916]

These two are adorable and this is completely true. Men are like little kids with making friends. "Wanna be friends?" "Yeah!" I know I overanalyze and worry and get all insecure and totally practice what I'm going to say.

[@WaiferThyme]

Hahaha Penn and my Dad would be instant best buds. 😂 Dad does the same thing. He can walk into a closet and come out with a new friend. Its crazy lol.

[@holdernessfamilylaughs]

I always joke that "Penn can walk into an empty room and come out with a friend"

[@Bones97000]

“Small talk is a waste of time” I’ve never felt so seen! 😭

[@ColleenJoudrey]

My husband is like Penn, He has lots of friends but not so involved in the details of those relationships. The downside of it is that he sometimes doesn't notice those flashing red lights that can come along side befriending someone so easily.

[@AHufflepuffAndASwiftie]

This is SOO accurate for me!! I'm Kim in this situation!! TOTALLY Kim!! 🤣🤣

[@flerchin]

We have a hard time making friends as adults. Good thing our kids have friends that we can glom onto. "Sorry, but you have to be friends with Peter, his dad is the only grown up I talk to outside of work."

[@geauxherd762]

Same with me and the wife. Us men don’t need those details right away. You’ll have time to learn their name in 4-5 years after several vacations to Bahamas 😅

[@sethbucy1755]

Love the Dumb and Dumber reference😂

[@chadstearman]

I say “Big Gulps, huh? All right! Welp…see ya later!” And people look at me with the weirdest glare. I’m glad someone else gets me!😂

[@misty1tl]

Thanks, I’m relocating and this really helps on knowing how to work on myself.

[@bcvahsfam]

You are both so funny! Love this video!

[@piiinkDeluxe]

With this one I'm definitely on the Kim side of things. 😂 Luckily, a few years ago an extrovert adopted me and I got SO many connections through her lmao I don't mind talking childhood trauma though, so if you need that, I'm your girl! 😄

[@LBISHOP1239]

Kim-you are my spirit animal! I’m watching this, having literally signed up for pickle ball so I can meet friends!! 😂 I love to go deep-it’s not for everyone 🤷‍♀️

[@eggiesammich]

I recently joined a Mom's club and it's amazing because we're all there for the same reason. It's like desperate housewives, only the desperation is just for friends.

[@BlessedGJ]

😂

[@SantosChronicles]

This is so true. My wife says I can make friends anywhere! I laughed so hard.

[@holdernessfamilylaughs]

How many vacations have been planned?

[@SantosChronicles]

@@holdernessfamilylaughs A good number we ended up in Vegas. Sometimes my friends were like who is this guys, and I’m like I met him at trivia! When we travel on road trips we stop at states to meet other creators. And my oldest is like why do all these 20 year old creators hand out with us. I told her she doesn’t realize how cool her dad was. If you guys have room on hour next vacation, let us know 😀

[@retalus]

Penn as Golden Retriever energy for sure. I legit see him befriending random people and not realizing that that friendship is actually a date / romantic outing. Also, as a guy, it's quite normal for us to know minimal things about our friends. Sometimes, names take a while to happen and we're pretty content keeping the details minimal.

[@paddlingpuppies]

Oh, man - that is so my husband & me!! Luckily, we are both happy with who we are, and with who the other is.

[@thejazzpianist25]

"You like sports? We really are best friends!" lmao

[@nancy-kathrynalbert4575]

Too funny. Acually Im like your husband vs. you. I think your title should be introvert vs. extrovert. Your husband seems very extroverted like me. You seem very introverted, hence your meaningful conversations and hate small talk. Love this ❤! Cast a net! Yup, I can make a bestie anywhere!

[@13dulcie]

Is your neighbor flying a Wisconsin flag? If so...this Wisconsinite loves that!! Kim, you and I could talk for hours.😂💗

[@MrEgofreak]

I agree Kim. I hate small talk! I'd much rather have a deep philosophical discussions than chat about the weather!

[@gseric4721]

These guys are absolutely hilarious 😂😂😂😂

[@josefsilvia5360]

I'm a lot like Kim, fewer friends but I maintain them. And I'm a guy. But I'm also an introvert, so I appreciate friends who know my boundaries and I make sure I know theirs.

[@lrrrrrrr5167]

The only time I initiate conversation with peers who are strangers is when I'm walking to the start line of a track race and trying to distract myself from the 16 laps (indoors) I have ahead of me.

[@bridgetbanerjea7588]

Small talk sucks! I would happily discuss our inner children with you, Kim 😊

[@btetschner]

Hahaha! But seriously, I think there is a signficant difference between friends and acquaintances. It isn't necessary to know much about acquiantances and the meetings tend to be very casual.

[@mattsully2238]

I'll hang out with my guy friends, spend 3 hours playing golf, come home and my wife is like what's new with him? ... I have no answers.

[@m_n_a_b]

I agree. Small talk is a waste of time. I don't understand it at all. I want to get to know who someone actually is and would rather have a close friendship with a few people than numerous superficial friendships.

[@chrisrogers1685]

Penn is every man possible! He would be a great friend

[@Epwjeqfsmnbo523]

Yes, Penn made best friends in the Target parking lot!!!!!

[@graceaxisa4213]

I love the gentle reflective music playing in the background during Kim's scenes 😅

[@candyboyer]

My hubby is same - makes friends everywhere. I'm the observer, stand off & watch people

[@MsAuburnluv]

I’m Penn about making friends, but I’m Kim when getting to know someone. I literally left the hospital and most of my nurses added me of FB!😂

[@Ellisif333]

Oh my gosh Kim, I'm SO relieved I'm not the only one who does this! 😂

[@holdernessfamilylaughs]

every. single. time.

[@rrusso8648]

I just want to say how much I love you guys! You are both absolutely hilarious, the first video I saw was the one about discovering pickleball, and I'm a huge pickleball addict! And everything else I've watched of yours is just hysterical! Now that's the first thing I do when I drink my tea in the morning is watch some of your videos! It starts my day with a huge laugh, thank you so much!❤😆🏓

[@quinnywinnybobinny]

Kim is the one planning everything from every word spoken and Penn is the improviser, lol. I am a mix of both, tbh.

[@kierlak]

This is great video. As an introvert (sensitive, INFJ) I am gonna show people this so hopefully they can understand me better. Probably they won't but it's worth a try I guess 😂

[@graceandtruthgina]

Hugs to you! ❤Love you two!

[@HOBYHeather]

So… that’s pretty close to what my husband did… that’s how we scored tickets to Lake Tahoe with a friend and a couple we never met 🤣

[@sarahgumball8597]

This is the realest thing I’ve seen on KZbin 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@patriciadurham643]

I am so much like Kim!!! 😂😂❤❤

[@fsghenry]

4:33 it’s very very realistic to men and women and how they make friends

[@nicawaters-fleming4172]

This is totally me and my husband. He can go anywhere and talk to anyone. I on the other hand, do not even understand small talk!

[@bajoy273]

As an introvert/overthinker, the thought of making friends and planning it all is just soooo exhausting. lol!

[@RamblinRick_]

I always find it funny that Kim is an introvert, given her former life as a correspondent for "Inside Ediytion - New York". That said, her prep work makes sense as that was needed for her many interviews.

[@michelehafey2607]

Kim is so ME! The struggle is real.

[@deeinoz7230]

I love the white top with the puffy sleeves!❤❤

[@rachelskinner9335]

Thank you for this video. Can totally relate. It’s nice to know my husband and I are not that unusual

[@juliefox77]

Awww… I would be glad to be one of your “I know all the things about you” kinda rare friends, Kim! I’m so the same way 😊

[@tinkershell1856]

Sounds like an introverted/extroverted thing. My introverted mom had two best friends who didn’t really know each other. So do I! My introverted son and ex-husband as well. My extroverted dad was friends with everybody in town and knew very little about anyone, but everyone had fun! 😂

[@marabookstagram]

I do agree about small talk being a waste of time! 😆

[@kimguest2327]

Friends vs acquaintances, it is a hour long debate with my husband!

[@holdernessfamilylaughs]

It's a good debate!

[@coribeckett7400]

Kim I agree. Small talk is a waste of time. It’s an introvert thing. I get you. I want deeper connections too. Penn’s relationships are based on who is geographically closest to him. Yep. Must be nice to be able to talk to people, have a fabulous time, and never need to know more than they like sports.

[@gwillis01]

Hello The difference is that Penn makes shallow relationships and Kim prefers deep relationships.

[@35mayocynthia]

I have pulled a Kim and tried getting a group of friend from church to come to my house and talk about their emotions. I think that I pushed too hard so now I just bought a book about conversation and making friends and I have learned to work my way up to that.

[@JeffreyMeier-y1v]

Love this!

[@richardmahn7589]

"Hi. My name's Kimmy Ruxbin. Can you and I be friends?" lol

[@kdiva8343]

I'm a middle line girl. I'm like 45% introvert and 55% extrovert. I get energy from people, I guess that's why I love to grocery shop. Making casual friends is easy, but new friends to go on a vacation with is very hard. My hubs is 100% introverted so he doesn't help 😊. But I also like to go deep and hubs never knows what's going on! 😂❤

[@naturefleur2062]

“I promise I’m fun!” That’s the tagline of every “serious” person out there….it’s me, I’m that person. I am fun, probably 10%, and serious 90%, but the fun is there! Coincidentally, it rolls around about as often as my desire to be “social”…. And on a last note….WHERE DO I SIGN UP FOR THE PSYCHOLOGY SOCIAL CLUB?!?!? Because outside of therapy, there should be one for those of us exploring those uncharted waters. THAT’s my kinda fun! We could all ask awkward questions and go too deep too fast together and be totally fine about it!

[@melissasonntag347]

I feel like I am a combination of the two of you! I can make friends anytime, anywhere, pretty much. And I legitimately feel a connection with people, even if I only see them that once. If I ran into them again, I would still feel a connection. At the same time, we might share our whole life stories before even knowing each other’s names. Lol